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Speaker 1 (00:08):
I want to call people that have texted us. Let's
just call them.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
So you just text JJR whatever you want to say
to number nine six eight ninety three.

Speaker 1 (00:24):
Hey, John J. And Rich calling about your text.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Okay, okay, I have.

Speaker 2 (00:30):
Your text in front of me. It's all of us here,
but this is John J calling you. But I mean
all of us are here. So I wanted to get
into the meat of your text of what you said.

Speaker 4 (00:38):
Oh my god, your name is what Andrea?

Speaker 1 (00:42):
Okay, what did you text say?

Speaker 4 (00:45):
Well? I said it's offensive to say that you why
buy the cow and you can have the milk for free?

Speaker 2 (00:50):
And then she said read the room, dude, your female
population is disgusted.

Speaker 4 (00:56):
That's right. That's right. That's something that my dad used
to say. And he's not even alive anymore. And we
don't look at we don't look at relationships that way anymore.

Speaker 1 (01:08):
Right, So what did you hear me? How did you
hear me say that? Like?

Speaker 2 (01:11):
I feel like you're taking it out of context or
you know, because I was saying.

Speaker 1 (01:15):
It to Peyton, right, that's right, But I wasn't saying it.

Speaker 2 (01:18):
To her as I was saying That's I think I
said something like that's why that's the phrase, right.

Speaker 1 (01:24):
Remember that, because.

Speaker 5 (01:26):
It's like you were basically saying you're getting all the
things without the actual thing you really want, the wedding ring, right.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
And I was like, that's the phrase, why by the
cow you get free? Right?

Speaker 5 (01:36):
And the phrase basically means why would he propose if
he's getting all the other things?

Speaker 1 (01:40):
Right?

Speaker 2 (01:40):
I wasn't putting her down or being negative about it
if that's the way you took.

Speaker 4 (01:44):
It, But that's a negative connotation that phrases.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
So how else do.

Speaker 2 (01:48):
I say that you're living the life of a married
person without being married?

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Is that a different better?

Speaker 5 (01:54):
I feel like maybe Andrew you could help us figure
out the more modern version of that.

Speaker 3 (01:58):
Yes, thank you, Kyley.

Speaker 4 (02:00):
You you're getting what you You should get what you want,
no matter whether it's married or not married.

Speaker 6 (02:07):
I actually brought this up to Kadim yesterday. I brought
up the phrase. I was like, hey, what do you
think about this? And he was like he did say.
He was like, well, I don't feel that way, and
I am going to marry you. He's like, we're just broke.

Speaker 3 (02:18):
I was like, okay. I was like, that's fair.

Speaker 1 (02:23):
Because I'm using the word cow.

Speaker 4 (02:26):
Well, sure, and you know I'm of a different gen.
I'm of an older generation, and that phrase that equates
women with cows is a specific.

Speaker 3 (02:34):
Oh my, gotcha, Okay, it's not the it's not that though. Yeah,
I mean it's like, well, I think what Peyton was
saying is there was a picture of her that got
posted from her boyfriend's grandma, and her grandma referred to
Peyton as her granddaughter in law. So John jam is saying,
isn't that like the phrase why by the cow? When
you can get the milk for free? So he's getting

(02:54):
all the benefits of being married to you, but he
hasn't thrown.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
Down that ring again, Andrew is saying, is like when
you re refer to the woman as the cow, and
that's that's a person.

Speaker 1 (03:03):
I was thinking, what could we use as.

Speaker 7 (03:04):
A new one, right?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Why by the bus pass? We can get the ride
for free, right, right? Something along those lines, Why buy.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
The chicken if you could get.

Speaker 4 (03:14):
Exactly? But also it brings up the whole thing about
what the men want.

Speaker 3 (03:19):
I don't understand that.

Speaker 6 (03:21):
What do you mean, Well, like getting the milk for free,
you're getting all the goods for free.

Speaker 4 (03:24):
Yeah, why should the guy buy the cow if he
gets the milk for free? Well, why is it all
about the man?

Speaker 6 (03:30):
Why?

Speaker 2 (03:30):
Is because she's waiting for the man to propose and
he's not going to.

Speaker 1 (03:35):
The phrase is he's not going to because he.

Speaker 2 (03:37):
Gets everything for free? Does that make sense? It's not
about a cow and a heavy set person. It's like,
that's the best analogy they have. Because you have a
cow and you're getting milk for free from your neighbor.
Why do you go buy the cow when your neighbor's
giving you all the milk for free.

Speaker 1 (03:51):
It's not about weight. It's an exact analogy.

Speaker 4 (03:55):
Nobody's talking about weight.

Speaker 1 (03:57):
Well you did, he said.

Speaker 5 (03:59):
It's a misunderstanding what she has. The problem with the phrase, then,
it's not about.

Speaker 4 (04:04):
The problem is with the ownership of the cow, Like
it just implies that that the man already owns her,
why should he marry her?

Speaker 7 (04:16):
Got it?

Speaker 1 (04:16):
Okay?

Speaker 6 (04:17):
That makes sense.

Speaker 4 (04:18):
I think it's easier to understand if you're if you
if you were around when older person people used to
say that, and you're all too young for that, which
is wonderful, But it used to imply that the man
already has what he needs and wants why should he
marry you?

Speaker 2 (04:38):
Right?

Speaker 1 (04:39):
Right, that's the point to get that part.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
But I'll tell you why why did the woman get what?

Speaker 1 (04:45):
Right? But she's not kidding. But here's the thing.

Speaker 2 (04:47):
Peyton wants that right, wants in everything that a wife
does without having the title of wife.

Speaker 6 (04:57):
I agree with that because I don't really cook and clean,
and if you put a ring on my finger, I
will cook and I will clean.

Speaker 1 (05:01):
I heard you talk about making a whole bunch of
stuff last week.

Speaker 3 (05:04):
Yeah, but I'm not good at it.

Speaker 1 (05:05):
I cooked shop.

Speaker 6 (05:08):
Once a month.

Speaker 1 (05:08):
Now you're talking about whether you're good at or not.
That's what we're talking about. So you know you made
last week.

Speaker 8 (05:14):
I did, and your mom's a better DOLLI guarden at it.

Speaker 3 (05:19):
I just don't do.

Speaker 4 (05:20):
It, John Jay, your intention was not what I'm saying.
It implied intention was honorable. But I'm just I just
wanted to alert you that that is a phrase that
for people of my generation is going to put them
off because it used to mean other things.

Speaker 1 (05:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (05:39):
So it's just like when someone says I drewed them down.
I also bring to their attention that, hey, you don't
want to say that because Jews are going to be offended.

Speaker 3 (05:48):
I think most of us get that one. Yeah, I
think that's a tad difference.

Speaker 4 (05:51):
Yes, okay, it is different. I just tried to bring
up that.

Speaker 2 (05:54):
What about Hey, that guy bought the farm. That means
he died, right, they kicked the but it he died.
But does that but.

Speaker 3 (06:02):
This is that offensives offensive the buckets budget as a
bucket owner, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
Okay, Well, thank you so much for your text.

Speaker 4 (06:13):
We learned something we did so welcome. I could enlighten you.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
Good, Thank you have a great day. Thank you so
much for.

Speaker 4 (06:21):
Listening you too.

Speaker 8 (06:22):
Okay, Ever, since I was a kid, you know, I.

Speaker 1 (06:29):
Was John day Rich.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
A lot of comments on the woman, we just spoke
to a lot of text about it. I think Gail's
got a high Gail about the woman the cow for
free comment Gail.

Speaker 7 (06:50):
High, Hey, good morning, how are you guys?

Speaker 5 (06:55):
Good?

Speaker 4 (06:56):
I just I feel like she.

Speaker 7 (06:58):
Wasn't articulating her point very well because the reason that
phrase can be offensive is this from like back in
the old days, where you know, if a woman had
sex before marriage, she was tainted and not you know,
she couldn't have a family and she couldn't be a
good woman, and men could sleep with those loose, trashy women,
but then marry the good women. But there was no

(07:18):
male equivalent of that, Like men are never cast aside
or seen as less than for premoral sex versus post
marrilo sex. So that's why, like, that's why this phrase
is antiquated. And in today's climate, I don't know if
you know, but equality is kind of a tough issue
right now, so this kind of phrase just adds on
to that.

Speaker 2 (07:38):
I think that's I think there's a lot of phrases
we use in everyday language. We don't know where it
came from, and if you really analyze and tear it apart,
it probably is offensive in some way or another.

Speaker 1 (07:46):
Yeah, but that's not what I was doing.

Speaker 7 (07:49):
No, absolutely, And John Jay, we all know you always
come from the purists of intentions, even if the delivery
doesn't execute properly. I think we all know that about you.

Speaker 2 (08:00):
It's funny say that because listen, there's a TEXTA just
came through. It says, this woman talking about not buying
the cow is really silly. It's probably one of the
least offensive things John Jay has ever said.

Speaker 1 (08:11):
And she's like, then she goes, she goes on, she goes.
I'm surprised no one has been disgusted by the way.

Speaker 2 (08:16):
John Jay was talking about watching his teenage babysitter by
the side of the pool. I never did that, never
had a teenage babysitter. I have no idea what she's
talking about. That's never happened.

Speaker 1 (08:24):
Yeah, I don't remember that. Yeah, that's never happened.

Speaker 2 (08:27):
I had a babysitter in her late twenties and I
came home and she was with the kids in the
pool and she.

Speaker 1 (08:32):
Was at a bikini and I was like, oh my,
that's it. But she was not a teenager.

Speaker 2 (08:37):
Well, I mean, if that's what she was talking about,
but that was like fifteen years ago.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
She must be. But Gail, you're awesome. Thank you so
much for calling in.

Speaker 7 (08:46):
Hey, you guys are awesome. Have a wonderful morning, and
thanks for starting my days off right to thank you.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Gail. We need a contest. We're gonna play a game.

Speaker 2 (08:53):
I should have said that first eight seven, seven, nine, three, seven,
one or four seven. I think we're playing. We played
for ice Cube tickets. Yeah, ice Cube keeps coming town.

Speaker 6 (09:00):
It'll be such a fun show. I feel like I
love ice Cube.

Speaker 2 (09:04):
Yes, so call eight seven seven nine three seven one
o four seven. While Nick is finding us a contest
and you have a contesta.

Speaker 3 (09:12):
I think he's still working on one him.

Speaker 8 (09:14):
This is a perfect time for ice Cube tickets. It's
getting hot out there, and that's why people.

Speaker 6 (09:21):
Come here on performing because I remember fifty cent came
here in like the summertime last year and he ended
up canceling his show because.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
It was so hot out.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
I remember that. I remember that people.

Speaker 6 (09:32):
Were bummed out. So I hope he doesn't perform a
like an outdoor venue because he might melt. He might melt. Oh.

Speaker 2 (09:39):
Getting back to it earlier, when Rich was talking about
how he made his wife cry, songs that make you cry,
this is a great text.

Speaker 1 (09:47):
This is a really really good, good point.

Speaker 2 (09:49):
And if I really let myself go there, it's the
emotion of the song that I don't know the words
are about. But this purchases all the songs from the
Greatest Showmen make me cry. And I listened to him
some of those songs really is me, that's for sure.

Speaker 3 (10:03):
Okay, hold on, glad that I watched that movie. Sent Yeah,
that's the one that gets me.

Speaker 5 (10:08):
Is a good one.

Speaker 1 (10:10):
But I don't listen to the words. It's that vibe
of that song, you know when you watch it and
she's all you no hurt. D. Good morning. We're gonna
play game game.

Speaker 8 (10:21):
Oh brother, We're playing the four second Rule, America's favorite
and fastest game show.

Speaker 3 (10:25):
Here playing on the John Jay and Rich Show.

Speaker 8 (10:27):
Basically, I'm gonna go around the room, give everybody a category,
and you have four seconds to name three things in
said category. Now, D, you're probably wondering, what does four
seconds sound like?

Speaker 1 (10:37):
Rich?

Speaker 8 (10:43):
That's it, so D, you're gonna have to answer fast.
You got it, I got it all right.

Speaker 3 (10:48):
John j. Van asked, we start with you.

Speaker 8 (10:50):
Katie Perry and others went to space and we're only
up there for about twelve minutes right this week.

Speaker 3 (10:56):
Big deal.

Speaker 8 (10:57):
So John JAYE four seconds, name three soleelebrities you wish
would go and stay in space.

Speaker 1 (11:04):
Kanye, James Vanderbeek and Tom Cruise.

Speaker 8 (11:08):
Tom cru Wow, just he's gonna start the mission. He's
gonna take us to Mars.

Speaker 3 (11:12):
I like that.

Speaker 5 (11:13):
If you wanted someone to start a new world up
in that space, Tom Cruise would be able to do it.

Speaker 8 (11:18):
Ultimate Astronaut vibes, Tom Cruise, all right, nice job, John
Jay Rich Bara your counterfeit o zempic if you listen
to the show, apparently has hit the streets and it's
bad news.

Speaker 3 (11:31):
Stay away from it. So Rich in.

Speaker 8 (11:33):
Four seconds, name three counterfeit things you would buy fake guitar,
e cigarettes and TV's counter cigarettes is like the least,
but I like it. I like the enthusiasm because I
would buy those, all right, Peyton whitmore So, scientists came

(11:54):
out and said the five second rule is fake, but
we're playing the four second rule clearly. So Peyton, knowing
that new information, name three foods you will always eat
off the floor.

Speaker 6 (12:08):
A TUTSI roll, a piece of pizza and.

Speaker 8 (12:10):
Cheese floor cheese delicious, except when you get the little hair.

Speaker 3 (12:17):
Real. Kyl and FuG, are you ready? All right?

Speaker 8 (12:22):
Jeff Bezos sent his fiance to space. That's the ultimate
errand right, right, guys, I do this for me, ultimate errand.

Speaker 3 (12:34):
So, Kylon FuG.

Speaker 8 (12:35):
Name three places your significant other is always sending you.

Speaker 5 (12:41):
It is hardware, the grocery store, Walgreens, prescriptions you'd like.

Speaker 1 (12:46):
Name three of your fiances you want to put in space.

Speaker 3 (12:49):
It's not bad twice once.

Speaker 5 (12:53):
Well twice, including twice including the one. I'm married but
what's outside.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Of okay, so twice, so you would only have a
j love situation.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
Hell my mom was engaged five times.

Speaker 3 (13:06):
Very let's go.

Speaker 8 (13:13):
Yes, all right, did you get your taxes done?

Speaker 3 (13:16):
I did? Did you get a big refund?

Speaker 4 (13:19):
I didn't look at what my refund was?

Speaker 8 (13:21):
All right? Well, hey, d in four seconds, name three
things you could buy with that tax refund.

Speaker 4 (13:28):
Disneyland tickets, concert tickets and pizza nicety.

Speaker 3 (13:36):
We got everybody on the board.

Speaker 8 (13:38):
This is incredible, unprecedented four second rule today, John j
Van s John Jay in four seconds. We know you
was mister clean around here, and we all talk about it.
That's your nickname. You're just always cleaning.

Speaker 3 (13:54):
Everybody's talking about how tight you are. So John Jay,
I didn't know that that.

Speaker 1 (14:00):
John Jay.

Speaker 8 (14:00):
In four seconds, name three things you need to clean
all the time.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
The chair you're sitting in, my teeth, my ears.

Speaker 8 (14:10):
This this chair hasn't been cleaned in a long time. Guys,
rich Bara, Today and every day is Kate Appreciation Day
in honor of my wife. Just shout out to my
wife their birthday or something. Just Kate appreciates always Kate
appreciation there in my place. So rich Bara in four seconds,
name three famous Kates.

Speaker 3 (14:31):
Kate Winslet, Kenny Holmes, Kate the Queen of Scotland.

Speaker 6 (14:36):
Judge, can you take Kate Scotland?

Speaker 3 (14:40):
There's a Kate squeet of there was at some point
you know what? Good argument.

Speaker 8 (14:48):
Scotland, Peyton Way more, Kate's Paide, Peyton, Jimmy John's and
Bath and body Works need to chill out with their emails.

Speaker 3 (14:59):
They're just blowing up all the time.

Speaker 8 (15:01):
So Peyton, in four seconds, name three companies that are
always in your junk folder.

Speaker 6 (15:07):
Oh geez, Target, Walgreens and definitely Jim Johnson job.

Speaker 3 (15:13):
Yeah, chill out. Tart needs to chill four emails a day,
crazy too many?

Speaker 8 (15:18):
Kyle and fugg stacks and hacks today said cousins are
becoming scarce. So Kyle, in four seconds, name three things
you wish there were less of.

Speaker 5 (15:31):
Snakes, scorpions and spiders.

Speaker 3 (15:34):
Nice job, Kyle, d Are you ready?

Speaker 4 (15:39):
I'm ready?

Speaker 8 (15:39):
You can win it all here, big big pressure. So
apparently in Staxon Hacks. Sunlight in your bedroom, uh, twenty
minutes before your alarm goes off, will help you get
up every morning, So d in four seconds, name three
things that help help you wake up fast, coffee.

Speaker 4 (15:59):
Mind okay and running.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
What a game?

Speaker 3 (16:06):
What a game today, guys, really good stuff.

Speaker 1 (16:10):
So you're gonna go see ice Cube. Congratulations.

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Also, Rich, it's been looked up and there is the
Queen of Scotland. Kate refers to different people Marry, Queen
of Scott's, a historical figure who ruled Scotland in the
sixteenth century, and Catherine, Princess of Wales. Kate Middleton, well done, brother, Yes,
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