November 7, 2025 • 5 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Nevea. Hello, Hi, Hi, I heard you just call this.
You need advice.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I have two different problems. So Number one, I have
been friends who I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I don't know whether I should stopping.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Her friend or set boundaries with her, because every time
I say anything to.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
A guy, talk to a guy, call a guy hot,
or date anybody, she sweeps in and talks to them
and tries to date them and stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
And I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
About that problem.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Okay, what's the other problem.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
The other problem is I have this problem with my mom.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Or we're arguing over my little sister, and so my
little sister is allergic to bananas, but my little my
mom thinks that she could just like mash the bananas
up and like still feed them to her and it
will make her stop being allergic.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Oh, I would think you have to consult the doctor
for that one. I don't know that. I don't think
you want our advice on that one. But the other one,
the friend, I think I think that's a very common situation.
Have you, guys Kyle Payne been through something like that? Oh, yeah,
I've been there, And give her some advice.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well, in your situation. I, well, I guess if I'm
putting yourself in my shoes, like what happened with me.
I had a best friend for a really long time,
like from the time we were like in the fourth
grade up until we were in high school, and she
was very much like that to the point where like
I was like, this is kind of weird. My mom
would point it out and I would be like, no,
like it's nothing, Like it's nothing. And then she ended
(01:26):
up sleeping with my boyfriend. So at that point I
was kind of like, oh wait, everyone was right, and
I put a shit these I should have put these
boundaries up. But I a'll now boil it down now
to like my age, where I'm like, okay, she had
daddy issues for one for two she I mean it
got to a point where I was like, do you
(01:47):
want to be me? Like why are you trying to
date every single person that I'm talking to? But I
think I think that's completely is She never really had
like long term friends or anything like that. And to me,
if I went back, I would just keep, you know,
a healthy distance because he had so much fun. But
then again, like she stabbed me in the back, tell.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Us about your friend. Does she have a good relationship
with her dad?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
No, her dad's in prison right now. Well, and I
feel like i've like i've like tried to set boundaries.
Like I was dating with one guy and she kept
like flirting with him, and when she came over to
my house and he was there, she would like wear
kind of revealing stuff, and I like would ask her
not to and like I would put it really respectfully,
and she would always be like, oh, I'm just having fun,
(02:29):
Like I don't even notice he's there when she spends
like the whole time flirting with him.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That I would like to have. Why is your dad
in prison? What do you do?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I'm pretty sure he did drugs and so he ended
up stealing from his mom and pulled a gun on her.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
That stuff, And plus like girls, I mean sometimes like
when they can be so men centric, it's like, Okay,
there's probably a lot of like internal healing that has
to happen, and then you know, maybe you could revisit
that friendship. But if I was you, I would not
be friends with them.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I would run. Yeah, Yeah, did we give you good advice?
Did that help you at all?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Actually, I think I'm gonna maybe try and set boundaries
like one more time, like really clear boundaries, and if
she doesn't follow them, I think I'm going to tell
her we need a break.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Where are you right now?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
We are walking? I'm walking right now?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Who's we?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Me and my boyfriend?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Oh? So does your friend try to hit on your boyfriend? Yeah? Dang?
What do you say about it? What does he notice it?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
What's your boyfriend's name?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Kyle Burgess ran.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Like away from you because you thought I was gonna
put him on the phone? Or does something happen? Is
he going to pull a child out of a burning car?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I don't know, he doesn't he's not very confrontational.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Oh boy wanted to talk to though, he doesn't want
to talk to us, that's why he ran away. Talk
to him, put him on the phone. Can we talk
to him? Or no?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Hold on, let me see. Do you want to talk
to them? She shook his head and cut running.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Okay, that's all right, Wow, that's I think that's interesting though.
Why would you want to talk because your friend's hitting
on him and he's probably.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah, and you need to cave your man really close
and her really far away?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
You tell me you better keep running Kyle, keep running.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
He's set boundaries with her too. He's like entirely asked
me to just stop inviting her over when he's over him,
feel entirely so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
How far away? How far away is your boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
For me?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Right now? He's running like he's far away, Like he's
far away.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Yeah, it's really far.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Chase him. Let me hear you run right after, Kyle,
don't you run from me? All right? Hey, thank you
so much for listening calling the show.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yeah, thank you. I I've been listening for like five
years now. Basically I've been listening for like a while.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I've texted.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I've texted off my grandma phone a couple of times,
and I texted and I was telling you guys about
how like we love drama. So every morning when I'm
in the car with her, because I spend every morning
with her, but every morning when I'm in the car
with her, we're always listening to the show. And she'll
always tell me to whenever there's drama.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Like how old are you?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I'm sixteen?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
All right, Well, thank you for listening. Yeah, tell Kyle
to keep running.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
He's slowly walking back now, all right, thanks for jumping
on there have a great day you too, B
Nevea. Hello, Hi, Hi, I heard you just call this.
You need advice.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
I have two different problems. So Number one, I have
been friends who I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (00:12):
I don't know whether I should stopping.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Her friend or set boundaries with her, because every time
I say anything to.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
A guy, talk to a guy, call a guy hot,
or date anybody, she sweeps in and talks to them
and tries to date them and stuff.
Speaker 2 (00:26):
And I don't know what to do.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
About that problem.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Okay, what's the other problem.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
The other problem is I have this problem with my mom.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Or we're arguing over my little sister, and so my
little sister is allergic to bananas, but my little my
mom thinks that she could just like mash the bananas
up and like still feed them to her and it
will make her stop being allergic.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
Oh, I would think you have to consult the doctor
for that one. I don't know that. I don't think
you want our advice on that one. But the other one,
the friend, I think I think that's a very common situation.
Have you, guys Kyle Payne been through something like that? Oh, yeah,
I've been there, And give her some advice.
Speaker 4 (01:05):
Well, in your situation. I, well, I guess if I'm
putting yourself in my shoes, like what happened with me.
I had a best friend for a really long time,
like from the time we were like in the fourth
grade up until we were in high school, and she
was very much like that to the point where like
I was like, this is kind of weird. My mom
would point it out and I would be like, no,
like it's nothing, Like it's nothing. And then she ended
(01:26):
up sleeping with my boyfriend. So at that point I
was kind of like, oh wait, everyone was right, and
I put a shit these I should have put these
boundaries up. But I a'll now boil it down now
to like my age, where I'm like, okay, she had
daddy issues for one for two she I mean it
got to a point where I was like, do you
(01:47):
want to be me? Like why are you trying to
date every single person that I'm talking to? But I
think I think that's completely is She never really had
like long term friends or anything like that. And to me,
if I went back, I would just keep, you know,
a healthy distance because he had so much fun. But
then again, like she stabbed me in the back, tell.
Speaker 1 (02:04):
Us about your friend. Does she have a good relationship
with her dad?
Speaker 3 (02:07):
No, her dad's in prison right now. Well, and I
feel like i've like i've like tried to set boundaries.
Like I was dating with one guy and she kept
like flirting with him, and when she came over to
my house and he was there, she would like wear
kind of revealing stuff, and I like would ask her
not to and like I would put it really respectfully,
and she would always be like, oh, I'm just having fun,
(02:29):
Like I don't even notice he's there when she spends
like the whole time flirting with him.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
That I would like to have. Why is your dad
in prison? What do you do?
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I'm pretty sure he did drugs and so he ended
up stealing from his mom and pulled a gun on her.
Speaker 4 (02:49):
That stuff, And plus like girls, I mean sometimes like
when they can be so men centric, it's like, Okay,
there's probably a lot of like internal healing that has
to happen, and then you know, maybe you could revisit
that friendship. But if I was you, I would not
be friends with them.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
I would run. Yeah, Yeah, did we give you good advice?
Did that help you at all?
Speaker 4 (03:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (03:07):
Actually, I think I'm gonna maybe try and set boundaries
like one more time, like really clear boundaries, and if
she doesn't follow them, I think I'm going to tell
her we need a break.
Speaker 1 (03:16):
Where are you right now?
Speaker 3 (03:19):
We are walking? I'm walking right now?
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Who's we?
Speaker 3 (03:22):
Me and my boyfriend?
Speaker 1 (03:24):
Oh? So does your friend try to hit on your boyfriend? Yeah? Dang?
What do you say about it? What does he notice it?
Speaker 3 (03:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
What's your boyfriend's name?
Speaker 3 (03:33):
Kyle Burgess ran.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Like away from you because you thought I was gonna
put him on the phone? Or does something happen? Is
he going to pull a child out of a burning car?
Speaker 3 (03:50):
I don't know, he doesn't he's not very confrontational.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Oh boy wanted to talk to though, he doesn't want
to talk to us, that's why he ran away. Talk
to him, put him on the phone. Can we talk
to him? Or no?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Hold on, let me see. Do you want to talk
to them? She shook his head and cut running.
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Okay, that's all right, Wow, that's I think that's interesting though.
Why would you want to talk because your friend's hitting
on him and he's probably.
Speaker 4 (04:20):
Yeah, and you need to cave your man really close
and her really far away?
Speaker 1 (04:23):
You tell me you better keep running Kyle, keep running.
Speaker 3 (04:25):
He's set boundaries with her too. He's like entirely asked
me to just stop inviting her over when he's over him,
feel entirely so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
How far away? How far away is your boyfriend?
Speaker 3 (04:40):
For me?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
Right now? He's running like he's far away, Like he's
far away.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Yeah, it's really far.
Speaker 1 (04:47):
Chase him. Let me hear you run right after, Kyle,
don't you run from me? All right? Hey, thank you
so much for listening calling the show.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Yeah, thank you. I I've been listening for like five
years now. Basically I've been listening for like a while.
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I've texted.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I've texted off my grandma phone a couple of times,
and I texted and I was telling you guys about
how like we love drama. So every morning when I'm
in the car with her, because I spend every morning
with her, but every morning when I'm in the car
with her, we're always listening to the show. And she'll
always tell me to whenever there's drama.
Speaker 1 (05:23):
Like how old are you?
Speaker 3 (05:29):
I'm sixteen?
Speaker 1 (05:30):
All right, Well, thank you for listening. Yeah, tell Kyle
to keep running.
Speaker 2 (05:38):
He's slowly walking back now, all right, thanks for jumping
on there have a great day you too, B
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