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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Our phone numbers eight seven, seven, nine three, seven, one
oh four seven. You can call us a jump on
the radio with those. You can also text us text
JJR and you're number to ninety six eight ninety three.
I was telling you guys that when I was on
vacation during labor day, I bumped into Peyton's parents and
we were having breakfast Blake, my wife and I and

(00:21):
Payne's parents, and Payne's mom says, did Peyton tell you
the story of her brother Jalen's massage gone wrong? And
I said no, And she starts to tell me the story.
And I brought up on the air the other day
and Peyton hadn't heard this story. And then Peyton says,
my brother says, it's crazier than what you guys say.
So her brother Jalen is to tell us about this

(00:43):
crazy massage story.

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Hey Jayleen, Hey what's up John Jay?

Speaker 3 (00:47):
How are you good?

Speaker 1 (00:48):
So what happened Jealous?

Speaker 4 (00:50):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (00:52):
I'm going to a massage place right across from where
I live. And I walk in and my first red
flag should have been the lady captain saying, Wow, you're
so much younger. You're younger than everybody. So I go
in and lay down. She says, hey, we don't do
flows here. So I was like, all right, cool, let
me just get naked. She I come in with the

(01:14):
towel on. She immediately takes the towel off as I
lay down, and then she gets on top of me,
like fully laying on me, giving me a full blown
body massage my legs, my hips, my back, everything, just
rubbing up on me. At first, it was kind of
a good massage, and then she tried to just keep

(01:34):
on rubbing me, but she kept saying I was younger.
She was asking if I was married, if I had kids,
and the whole situation was honestly insane. She asked about
my ethnicity. She was asking all these kind of crazy questions.

Speaker 1 (01:53):
Wait, wait, wait, wait wait wait, okay wait. So when
your face down on the table and she climbs on
top of you, she was laying on top of you
like like like your her head's on the top of
your head and your face down, Yes, how does that
feel good? Feel good?

Speaker 3 (02:12):
It was like she was using her knees against the
back of my knees and like rubbing into it. But
she was getting really close to like everything, and mind
you I'm fully you know, unclothed.

Speaker 1 (02:22):
What is she wearing jeans? Like what what does she
have on?

Speaker 3 (02:26):
No, I mean she had like I honestly don't remember.
I wasn't looking, but it was like also similarly like
sports bra kind of closed. It was really interesting as like,
you know, I thought it was weird when I walked
away and she went to change.

Speaker 5 (02:42):
It's also.

Speaker 3 (02:44):
Yeah, like well she changed because like I was laying
down when to go change, and then she got up
and then like oiled me up. It was like actually insane.
And then she flipped me over and she told me
like towards the end, hey, it's okay, you can have
a good time. You can have a good time, sir.
And then I laughed out loud and she said what

(03:06):
a good time baby?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (03:09):
Yeah, that was like where I was fully fully uncomfortable.
She's like rubbing my thighs. I have like a little
loincloth over me at this point, like no towel, no anything,
but yeah, it was just too close for comfort.

Speaker 6 (03:24):
Uh.

Speaker 3 (03:24):
And then actually the craziest part was going out and
paying for the massage. You know, it was kind of
on par with like, you know, an hour long massage.
One hundred and twenty bucks. You just take the chip option. Yes,
I mean I couldn't get up.

Speaker 7 (03:38):
I was too far in.

Speaker 5 (03:39):
Yeah, I will say she.

Speaker 3 (03:41):
Gave me like for the first ten minutes, Like I
wasn't suspicious. I thought she was trying to get into me,
because again she was asking about like me and if
I'm married and blah blah blah. But I thought I
kind of shut it down and she started to give
like an actual massage, but then she laid on top
of me, and that's when it started to get weird
and kind of panicked.

Speaker 1 (04:01):
Okay, so how does a massage end? Like? Did you
have a good time?

Speaker 6 (04:04):
It ended by it.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
I don't know. I was just worried on getting out
of there. There was like oil all over my body.
She had to like wipe me up. It was. It
was really uncomfortable, and I could tell that she was
un that I was uncomfortable, so she could feel that.
But it ended by me going out to pay for
the massage. And the tip options were thirty, forty, and
fifty percent literally no other standard. But I just hit

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thirty and left nice guy guying the massage. I heard
some old guys coming in and they were like, oh,
I'll be having the wash whah or whatever it is.

Speaker 5 (04:41):
That's me.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
Yeah, because she came in and she asked me, like
which massage do you want? And I was like I
don't know, and she was like, we'll do the half
and half the gush whah, And I was like, okay,
whatever word what I've never heard of this. The half,
like the first ten minutes is like in quotes half

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and that's the actual massage, but then the second half
is whatever. Things get a little weird.

Speaker 1 (05:09):
Did she ever touch your your francubines? Did she ever
touch the francubines?

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah, like rubbed against Oh sure, I was not interested.

Speaker 8 (05:23):
It's a traditional Chinese healing method that uses smooth.

Speaker 9 (05:27):
Edged tool press stroke to your skin.

Speaker 10 (05:30):
So did they use that, like like a tool or
device on the massage?

Speaker 3 (05:34):
There was no tool.

Speaker 11 (05:36):
You didn't have to.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
Maybe that's what I was supposed to bring that I
was lacking.

Speaker 5 (05:42):
Jalen, after you left and you're like, okay, I'm the
youngest guy here, which means that the lady that was
climbing on top of me probably climbed on a bunch
of old guys before I walked in there. So now
I got old guy stuff all over me.

Speaker 3 (05:56):
Yeah, well I think that's why she changed again.

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Well, if he could do that, he would have gone
to that massage place where can I go pay to
get a bunch of old guys around the top of it?

Speaker 9 (06:05):
That's terrible.

Speaker 3 (06:07):
Yeah, And I could hear him as I was coming in,
and like, I really should have seen all the red flags,
but I thought it was just like mom and pop shop,
you know, like there was curtains in the windows. I
walked in. It was like kind of weird seating area.
And I've really only ever been to massage envy type.

Speaker 1 (06:23):
So yeah, well, dude, I go to a place like that.
That's just how you described. My wife and I go
all the time. We get foot massages and it's totally legit,
unless again, they think I'm a cop. Yeah, but it's
usually dudes and bessides me.

Speaker 5 (06:37):
Wouldn't that be terrible if you were like getting your massage,
didn't know what was going on, and then a raid happened.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
I know, I don't know what I would because.

Speaker 5 (06:45):
They would have been like, you know what, this place is?

Speaker 1 (06:51):
All right, Jalen, Well, that's a great story. You're right.
Your mom was right your mom was.

Speaker 2 (06:55):
Right to tell you.

Speaker 3 (06:55):
No, I'm glad I could share all.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
Right, Jaalen, thanks a lot, appreciated. What a great story.
Good luck, wash Walk Payne. What's the vibe for predictions today?

Speaker 10 (07:05):
I'm gonna tell you what version of yourself is showing
up right now based on your zodiac sign, Tracy Mordy,
what you're sign? I am a Capricorn, good morning, good morning, okay, Capricorns.
The version of yourself that is showing up is the
I'm locked in version. You guys are in grind mode.
You're moving with intention, you're ignoring distractions, and you're keeping

(07:25):
your circle really tight. You don't have time to explain
what you're building because you're too busy building it.

Speaker 5 (07:30):
Caps sounds like she's building something right now.

Speaker 10 (07:32):
Actually, yeah, you're welcome.

Speaker 1 (07:39):
By Tracy, walked in by Blanca. What you're saying good morning?

Speaker 9 (07:46):
All right, Sagittarius.

Speaker 10 (07:47):
The version of yourself that is showing up today, it's
the don't overthink it, just do it version. You're chasing excitement,
momentum and whatever's next. And it's not reckless energy. It's
fearless energy from you, Sagittarius.

Speaker 9 (07:59):
You'll figure it out.

Speaker 10 (08:00):
As you go, and you'll still be better than most
people's plan a.

Speaker 12 (08:03):
Okay, thank you.

Speaker 1 (08:05):
Good morning, Tatum. What's your side?

Speaker 11 (08:09):
Good morning?

Speaker 6 (08:09):
I'm an Aquarius.

Speaker 9 (08:11):
Okay, so Tatum.

Speaker 10 (08:12):
For Aquarius, the version of yourself that is showing up
today is the I am not explaining myself anymore version.
You're showing up exactly as you are. No filters, no
over explaining, no need for approval. You are operating in
your own world, and somehow that's making you even more magnetic.

Speaker 13 (08:29):
Wow.

Speaker 9 (08:30):
Yeah, you're welcome. Aquarius. Definitely had a good reading today.

Speaker 13 (08:34):
Yes.

Speaker 14 (08:35):
Bye.

Speaker 10 (08:36):
How about Pisces, Rich, my Pisces. The version of yourself
that's showing up today is the I feel everything, but
you are not collapsing Rich. You're sensitive, you're intuitive, and
you're still standing. And this version of you isn't avoiding emotion.
You're just gonna move through it with more strength.

Speaker 9 (08:51):
Than people realize.

Speaker 10 (08:52):
You're gonna be quietly powerful and beautifully grounded.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
Love that, Yeah, keep it coming.

Speaker 9 (08:57):
Put that on like a plaque and thrown in your
kitchen or something.

Speaker 5 (09:01):
Yeah, I love words in a kitchen exactly.

Speaker 1 (09:03):
My favorite libras.

Speaker 10 (09:05):
Kyle's are Libra Libra the version of yourself that you're
in is in my selectively social area, our era. You're
giving looks vibes in a little bit of distance, and
you're still charming but not accessible to just anyone. So
this version of you, it knows you're worth and it
doesn't feel bad for curating your energy.

Speaker 1 (09:22):
Oh okay, yeah.

Speaker 10 (09:25):
Yeah Virgos, John Jay, my virgo. The version of you
is the I already thought ten steps ahead version. You're
calm because you're prepared, you're focus, you're calculated, and you've
got backup plans and mental receipts. This version of you
doesn't say much but your results.

Speaker 9 (09:41):
To do the talking.

Speaker 1 (09:42):
Damn right. How about for you, let's end it with
Leo Season.

Speaker 9 (09:45):
Yes, Leo, Leo's season.

Speaker 10 (09:47):
For us, the version of ourselves that is showing up
this Leo season is the I walk in in the
energy shifts version. This isn't force confidence. It really is
a natural presence in us Leo's We are in our
attractive self a way, a powerful era, and it's not
about being loud, it's about being undeniable.

Speaker 9 (10:04):
So make sure we remember that.

Speaker 1 (10:05):
All right. If we can get your sound there, I'll
post it on our website John Jay and Rich dot com, Steven,
what's going on?

Speaker 15 (10:11):
Hey, guys, love your show. I want to I want
to come out to my family as gay. And I
have a lot of my family members that are going
to be there, mainly my like crazy uncles that have
said some you know, homophobic things and not in a
joking way. I have my elderly grandparents that are ninety
five plus. So I'm just kind of like wondering, like

(10:34):
I really want to do this Number one, should I?
And if I do, how do I even like go
about it without them like alienating me? And I guess
like just instantly hating me.

Speaker 8 (10:47):
That's tough, especially when you know you're walking into sort
of an unwelcoming room.

Speaker 15 (10:55):
Yeah, and it's like, you know, I'm thirty, So this
has been something that I've kind of like known for
a while, and you know, over the years, it's like
it hasn't really gotten better. I mean I would think, like,
you know, as like my uncle's like age or whatever.
I mean, I don't even know how i'd say that,
Like why why would somebody you know who's already like
sixty five years old have a change of thought or

(11:17):
change of heart? But I don't know. I just thought
its like I sort of got older, it would be
easier for me to have that conversation on like it's
just an adult level, like Manda Man, like I am
who I am. You've known me my whole life. This
is just one extra thing you know about me. It
doesn't really like define who I am.

Speaker 1 (11:35):
So I don't know.

Speaker 15 (11:36):
I guess, yeah, it's just really I'm just nervous. So
I don't know if I should really just just go
about it. I guess given me a dynamic. I guess
in my personal family, I don't know.

Speaker 10 (11:47):
Stephen, this is like this hits really close home for me.
My little brother came out when he was a sophomore
in high school. I was a senior in high school.
And the thing is, it's like you're saying, like you know,
you've known me my whole life. I'm thirty, Like this
is me. I've always known about my little brother, Like
there was never a doubt in my mind. So when
he did come out to me, I was like.

Speaker 1 (12:07):
Well, duh, Like there were sides, right, yeah, like did
you highlight give you highlights?

Speaker 9 (12:13):
No?

Speaker 10 (12:14):
No, but like you just you know, and like at
the end of the day, Like it is hard for
a lot of families, especially when they do have certain beliefs.
But at the end of the day, like, if those
are your people and they really love you the way
that they say they do, they eventually do come around.
And it might be difficult, and it might be hard,
and it's probably gonna be really uncomfortable for the next
few years, but I promise you the people that really

(12:35):
really love you are going to come through for you
when you need it. And even if that isn't your family,
it might be a different group of people that surround
you that will become your family.

Speaker 9 (12:43):
Because of that.

Speaker 15 (12:44):
Yeah, thank you, That's that's really beautiful. Honestly, I really needed.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
To hear that.

Speaker 15 (12:49):
I guess I just like have one more question. I mean,
like physically, if I were to go through with this,
what do you personally think would be like the best
way should I tell, like, you know, bring them aside,
I like, have a beer, like, you know, a little
conversation when I'm one, or I mean, I just don't
really want to stand up at the table, clink my
glass and gohey, everybody, I know.

Speaker 8 (13:08):
Does everyone already know? Like, does does anyone in your
family know?

Speaker 7 (13:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 15 (13:13):
Like my immediate family, my brothers, but Brilli like, that's
kind of about it. A couple of my cousins. It's
just mainly, I guess, a couple of uncles that I have,
my dad's brothers, and my grandma and grandpa, because there's
just like, you know, my grandpa is ninety nine years old,
my grandma's ninety six, and it's just like I want

(13:34):
to be able to be that open and honest with
them before they pass. But I just I truly don't
know if they would have like the I hate to say,
like mental capacity to like truly like understand that given
their age and their generation.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
You know, I just happened. My favorite TV shows Will
and Grace, and I know if you ever saw the
Will and Grace episode where Jack comes out to his mom.
Have you seen that episode?

Speaker 6 (14:01):
No?

Speaker 2 (14:01):
I haven't.

Speaker 1 (14:02):
Okay, it's fantastic, it's powerful, it's emotional, it's funny, and
the mom says, I guess there's always been signs. That's
where the highlights she goes, you know, you did my
highlights or something like that, right if you watch I
think if you watch that with your family, that episode,
or at least that scene, I think it could break
the ice a little bit. But meanwhile, Noah is in
the studio, Noah, how old are you? I'm twenty one
and you how can you relate to this?

Speaker 14 (14:24):
Well? I came out to my parents when I was
eighteen in a restaurant, in front of everyone in the restaurant,
on the way.

Speaker 1 (14:31):
To a funeral. So there is no perfect moment. That
definitely wasn't a perfect moment. I mean, how they take it,
else how they take it.

Speaker 14 (14:38):
My parents took it just fine, but had they not,
that was still a moment for me. The relief afterwards
is unbelievable. The pressure of coming out is insane. And
after you do it, even if everyone throws a fit
at Thanksgiving, it's a story to tell and you'll feel
good that you did it.

Speaker 1 (14:55):
Well.

Speaker 5 (14:55):
I like the way you said that, that's for you. Yes,
that's good advice, really good. Yeah, your thoughts.

Speaker 15 (15:01):
Yeah, I mean, I just, I mean, my heart is
pounding right now. I mean, like, I truly don't know,
it's just I yeah, I mean I really don't know.
I want to just like say it and blurn it
out and yeah, I like, just I guess get it
over with because it has been just like a huge
weight on my chest. You just like weight on my shoulders.
And I do think that just saying it and getting
it out there, regardless of how people will think of

(15:23):
me afterwards, I think that will be that's just like
the best thing to do.

Speaker 8 (15:27):
Absolutely, And like you said, you know your brothers already know,
and so I would kind of pull them aside ahead
of time and say here's what I'm planning on doing.
Please have my back. Then you know you're walking into
it with support.

Speaker 5 (15:37):
That's what my stepsister did with me, and so I
was the first one to ask her about it before
she came out. And so you've got an advocate on
your side. You know, like your family member is going
to get your back no matter what. And then it's
I think you might be surprised at how many people
get your back instead of thinking it's going to be nuclear.
You might be surprised at the love that people have
for you and they just want to meet you wherever

(15:58):
you are. They just want me to be happy.

Speaker 1 (16:00):
Tell what, give us your grandparents number. We'll call them
right now. Do on the air. We'll do it right now.
We'll be support. We'll get them all right now. It
would be like a little little war of the roses,
little announcement.

Speaker 2 (16:11):
We're you're very all right.

Speaker 1 (16:13):
Thank you for listening, Steven. Good luck to you. Hope
call us on Monday, like to hear how it went.

Speaker 15 (16:17):
Yeah, I mean, if that would it would be great.
I would really love to do that. By the way,
I'm listening from Detroit. Any you guys in Phoenix, So
I just want to say you got love all over
the country.

Speaker 6 (16:24):
You guys are really awesome.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Thank you, brother. I have a great day.

Speaker 15 (16:27):
Hopefully we're talking on Monday, Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (16:29):
It's John Jay and Rich Stacks and Hacks. I have
stacks of information in Rich's life, Hacks. Peyton's getting married
soon at some point. There's a new app that came
out that allows couples to sell tickets to their wedding,
not to friends or family, but to strangers. The idea
is it can reduce costs and random people pay to

(16:51):
attend the event.

Speaker 10 (16:52):
Socially, thoughts, why would you want to go to someone
that you don't know who's wedding.

Speaker 5 (16:57):
If you love weddings, Weddings are great.

Speaker 8 (16:59):
Yeah, weddings are fun. You just like feel the love
in the air. It's just like a beautiful thing.

Speaker 14 (17:03):
I would totally do.

Speaker 1 (17:04):
That and Payton or I mean, Kyle and Rich would
be good people to Like, I would not want to
pay to go to someone's wedding. I don't want to
go people wedding. I know, no offense.

Speaker 10 (17:15):
I wouldn't mind, know I think that. I mean, if
people like Rich and Kyle wanted to pay to come
to my wedding, I would absolutely.

Speaker 9 (17:20):
Love to have that.

Speaker 1 (17:21):
So would you, as a person who's getting married, would
you try this people? Would you?

Speaker 2 (17:26):
Like?

Speaker 1 (17:26):
What if people would pay to go to your wedding?

Speaker 9 (17:28):
That would be insane?

Speaker 1 (17:29):
Right? Do you put them in a separate set, Like
if you don't know who.

Speaker 9 (17:32):
They are, they would have a good time.

Speaker 1 (17:34):
Though I don't knowho that is. Well, maybe they're the
people that paid to be here.

Speaker 5 (17:37):
Remember when I wanted to have Color fourteen be my
best man? That didn't go for well?

Speaker 9 (17:41):
To figure out the.

Speaker 5 (17:42):
Price tag was that?

Speaker 8 (17:44):
Like, how do you figure out the price tag for that?
Because it's like it's like you want to you know,
if you're opening up your world, your privacy, it's like
you want to kind of make something off of it,
so it can't just be whatever it is per person
anyway else.

Speaker 1 (17:56):
But if you're the purchaser, Like if I was going
to go and I don't know these people, I would
look at weddings and go, oh, well, this wedding is
is here in the Hamptons, and it's got a lambeffe
and it's got all you can do this maybe to
go to that wedding. Oh, this wedding is in Chandler, Arizona.
It's got a taco truck. It's four dollars to go
to that wedding. You never know. Maybe it's like that.

(18:18):
Me and my wife run the Love Pop Dog Rescue
and they just announced yesterday the world's Ugliest dog is
a hairless French bulldog mix named Petunia. And she's kind
of cute.

Speaker 16 (18:29):
She's feeling great.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
Yeah, he loves all the attentionion. She loves all the
humans that are like some people were like, she looks
like my grandpa. She kind of looks like she's been
hitting the creatine a lot too.

Speaker 5 (18:40):
She's really jazz.

Speaker 1 (18:41):
Yeah. She's a mix between a yoda.

Speaker 5 (18:43):
She's a mix between a hippo a bat.

Speaker 17 (18:46):
Even a wonky dog is the nip to be loved, Yes,
and that's what we prefer to call them not ugly wonky.

Speaker 1 (18:52):
A hippo and a bat. That's a one freaky looking dog.
By the way, we are love pup shelter is so
full right now, we got so many puppy In fact,
we just took a dog in yesterday that someone just dumped.
They dumped it at Tara, who runs our shelter, her
boyfriend's work. And it's the cutest little white dog. You
can see it. I put it on my stories. You
just go to Luve pub Foundation and look at stories.

(19:13):
You can see it. So that's gonna eat to home
pretty soon. So, Kyle, you got a big thing about AI.
You're concerned about AI?

Speaker 2 (19:18):
Right?

Speaker 1 (19:18):
Not a big fan of.

Speaker 8 (19:18):
AI, certain agree, I'm a big fan of chat ept,
but like I do, see, I see the writing on
the walls of AI getting a little creepy AI.

Speaker 1 (19:27):
Apparently a study found that AI loves talking about us
humans behind our backs. The two hot topics are destroying
humanity and eating glue.

Speaker 8 (19:37):
See I mean, but why they eating glue?

Speaker 1 (19:39):
Right? I know? Weird man, weird? What do you got
for life? Hacks?

Speaker 18 (19:42):
Rich?

Speaker 5 (19:43):
A lot of things that are solutions are born out
of people just trying anything in the moment because they're desperate.
But one of them has proven to work out really
really good for you. Let's say you burn yourself on
a hot stover pan, which I know we've all done
in here, Kyle Peyton, you've both.

Speaker 8 (20:00):
I keep burn cream in my kitchen because of that.

Speaker 5 (20:02):
Well, I'm glad you brought a burn cream because they
say skip the ice in the burn cream because tooth
things work even better. One of them is from your refrigerator,
and that is a dab of mustard, because the ingredients
of mustard actually helps cool the skin. And they say,
also better than burn cream is toothpaste. So before you
put ice on it or rinse it in cold water,

(20:23):
treat your little stove burn with a little toothpaste or
mustard to cool down the skin, and then give it
about five minutes and then put it under a cool water.
If that happens to you, please try it let us
know how it works. That hack can be found at
John Jay Enrich dot com.

Speaker 1 (20:37):
Or one time. I think some of these hacks are
just because whatever the parent was doing at the time,
like my dad. One time I got bit by an
ant on my hip or a bean. It stunk so bad.
They ran in my house crying, Oh my dad was shaving.
You go there, You put shaving cream on it. And
I was like, oh, thanks. And as I got older,
I got it. If I got bit or something, I
put shaving cream on I go. Wait a minute, that

(20:59):
was because he was shavy, all right, John Jay Rich
Christmas wish. This is a this is a tough Christmas wish.
A lot of people working very hard for this Christmas wish.
Let's say hi to Caitlyn the nominator. Hi, Caitlyn, Hi.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (21:18):
I don't know. Do we just well give us a brief,
a brief rundown of the situation on this Christmas wish
that we're going to try to pull off because there's
a lot of people in place here. But tell us
a little bit about Kurt in his situation and his
daughter Riley.

Speaker 12 (21:33):
So Kurt Riley and Kurt's wife Ashley and I we've
been friends for four or five years. We met through
some volunteering on a board together and Ashley if the
Kurt lost his wife Ashley, Riley lost her mom. They

(21:54):
were high school sweethearts, just going for a girl's night
out and ended up not coming home and it's not
something that you think about in our small community. What
happened to somebody, you know, But it ended up being
a nationwide news story. But it hit a lot of

(22:15):
small communities and we just happened to be one of
the unlucky communities that had to go through that.

Speaker 5 (22:23):
You got you yourself still must be reeling, I guess
from all this because this wasn't that long ago.

Speaker 12 (22:28):
No, this is not two weeks ago. It has been rough.
So they've had I mean there and it's going to
be a long drawn out process. They still this is
something they're going to deal with, not just emotionally with
Riley not having her mother and everything, but they're going
to have to go to court hearings. They're going to
have just a bunch of stuff that they're going to

(22:51):
be going on for, I mean, at least a year,
just trying to put this guy behind bars.

Speaker 1 (22:56):
Can you tell us a little bit about Riley some
of the things that she said, And I know you
were going to read the letter here in a minute,
but I've heard some of the things she said individually
about like what she wants her father to have for
Christmas or that kind of stuff.

Speaker 12 (23:11):
So her dad and her. They very very tight knit family.
It's not like Ashley and Kurt would drop Riley off
with a babysitter and go and have a weekend of fun.
They were very family oriented. If they had some free time,
they'd find something to do outdoors, hiking, hunting. They were

(23:35):
always at Riley's swimming meets. But Riley wanted something nice
for her dad. She thought, they've always talked about going
to Alaska and just getting away, and I thought this
would be the perfect time just to get away. I mean,
you've had people in your home, you've had people calling you,

(23:55):
you know, dealing with the funeral and everything. Something just
to get away, and that was Riley had mentioned Alaska,
and it's somewhere that they as a family had always
wanted to go, so that was a big thing for them.

Speaker 1 (24:06):
Okay, let's get Kurt on the line and and see
if you could read the letter. Do you have the
letter in front of you?

Speaker 6 (24:14):
Yes?

Speaker 2 (24:14):
Okay, Hello, Hi is Kurt there?

Speaker 1 (24:26):
Please?

Speaker 5 (24:27):
This is the Hey Kurt, it's John Jay and Riach.
We do a radio show. We're wondering if you'll go
on the radio.

Speaker 2 (24:31):
With us for just a moment please.

Speaker 1 (24:33):
Ah. Sure, Nice Kurt. So we do a radio show
on my ninety nine nine, and Caitlin wrote us a
letter about you and your family and your amazing daughter,
and so we actually asked her if she could read
the letter to you on our radio show. So do
you have him in it? Yeah? Yeah? Are you at work?
Are you at home? I know? Is your mom's bird?

Speaker 19 (24:55):
I got home for lunch.

Speaker 2 (24:56):
So we're good.

Speaker 19 (24:57):
And it's actually a snow day.

Speaker 1 (24:58):
So right, is Riley with you? Or she at school?

Speaker 2 (25:01):
No, she's right here, she's right there too.

Speaker 3 (25:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (25:06):
Wow, okay, okay.

Speaker 19 (25:08):
You want me to put it on the speakerphone.

Speaker 20 (25:10):
Or yeah, put on speaker, but we know your show, so.

Speaker 1 (25:16):
Rally then Hey Riley, Hi?

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (25:20):
Okay, so you guys listened to Caitlyn really quick. Okay,
so we got Kaitlyn on. Kaylyn, you want to go
ahead and say hi, Hika.

Speaker 7 (25:34):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (25:35):
Alright, So Kaylin, whenever you're ready, please read the letter.

Speaker 12 (25:39):
Hey, I'm gonna try to make it through it.

Speaker 1 (25:41):
Take your time.

Speaker 12 (25:42):
Dear John, Jay and rich I had two very close
friends that had traveled from Honted to card Or Springs
for a girl kind out. As their night was wrapping up,
they had a put the door a Q night club
harter than I thought. They became victims of a terrible

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nightclub shooting here a night of unspeakable violence. Ashley was
shot multiple crimes or other friend was able to push
her way out and waited for help to arrive. She
looked around yelling for Ashley, but wasn't able to locate her.
Kurt woke up on Sunday to hear the terrible news.
The only anple he had was that Ashley had been shot,
but no one could locate her. Kurt gathered his daughter

(26:24):
in maybe hour and I have trip to car to Springs,
not knowing what was waiting for him. They went to
every hospital searching for Ashley. No hospital had any record
of her. All the while, he's staying calm and his
daughter's telling him, Mom is strong. I know that God
is protecting her. The last off was a police station
where they were informed that Ashley hadn't made it. She
never made it out of the club and she died

(26:45):
some more wounds. This family is truly one in a million.
Riley is a swimmer and they spent every weekend at competitions,
and if they had if they happened to get a
day off. They spent it finds being something to do
as a family. Everything in her life had to do
with helping others. It absolutely breaks my heart and has
left me questioning my faith that someone that God has

(27:07):
created himself is capable of committing such a terrible act.
Talking to Riley was absolutely amazing and uplipping. She has
understandably heartbroken, but what she has told me has restored
faith for me. She says, we can't hate this man
that killed my mom. He had hate in his heart,
and that's what makes good people be evil things. We
have to forgive to make sure we don't have hate

(27:29):
in our hearts. My Mom's in heaven and she wouldn't
want my heart to be black with hate. I don't
know where to start, but I'd love to make sure
that Riley has a Christmas full of love and joy.
Riley is truly an incredible daughter. She loves the outdoors, swimming,
in music. When asked what she wanted for Christmas, she
said the only thing she wanted to do with Sacred
Dad to Alaska, so just so that they can get away,

(27:51):
Please grant us Christmas wish. Thank you so much.

Speaker 18 (27:53):
Caitlyn, who was sorry.

Speaker 1 (28:07):
So, Kurt and Riley, we'd like to grant a Christmas
wish for you guys. Oh yeah, so hear me out, Riley,
can you hear me?

Speaker 6 (28:23):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:24):
Okay, So let me tell you. Let me tell you
what we have for you. We have a two hundred
dollars gift card to Best Pro Shops, one hundred dollars
gift card to dsw We have a journal with some pens,
bath bomb lip bombs, hair scrunchies, a nail polished kit,

(28:46):
a cozy blanket, some socks, a makeup kit with brushes,
a sketch art kit, a Polaroid camera with film and
memory book, and a record player with a Tator Swift album.
I hope you like Titror Swift. Yeah, okay, And Kurt,
for you, we got you a five hundred dollars gift

(29:07):
card to Bass Pro Shops.

Speaker 7 (29:09):
Sir, thank you now.

Speaker 1 (29:13):
Riley, you're a swimmer, right, yes, okay, Well, we got
in touch with Olympic swimmer Emma Wyant and Areas Sport USA,
and they have all kinds of things they want to
hook you up with. Riley. First, Emma wants to zoom
with you one on one FaceTime or zoom, and she

(29:35):
wants to talk all about swimming with you. And in
addition to that, Arena is putting together a full suite
of swimming gear, apparel and accessories for you, things like training, backpack, swimsuits, caps, goggles,
kickboard fins. And they're also going to send you some
personalized autograph stuff for you from Emma.

Speaker 19 (29:53):
Oh wow.

Speaker 1 (29:56):
And they got a couple of other things too, but
those are still some more surprises in the works. Okay,
that's for later. And Emma, our friends at my ninety
nine nine, our radio station, our company, iHeartMedia, they want
to get on the phone. So we heard you love
Taylor Swift. Do you love Taylor Swift? Yeah, so we're

(30:17):
going to set you up Riley with some tickets to
the Taylor Swift concert which she comes through Denver.

Speaker 18 (30:22):
Oh that's awesome.

Speaker 19 (30:27):
That's pretty amazing.

Speaker 6 (30:34):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
Oh but wait, Riley, there's more now, Riley, what you
wanted to do for your dad for Christmas? Right? Riley?
Do you remember that you wanted him to go see
it go to Alaska.

Speaker 15 (30:49):
Yeah, we have a.

Speaker 1 (30:50):
Friend of ours. I mean, this guy is really important
and we're going to put him on the phone right
now to tell you he's got something for you and
your dad. His name is Harry Summer. He's the president
of Norwegian Cruise Lines. Mister Summer, are you there, I'm here.
Did you say hi to Riley and Kurt?

Speaker 17 (31:08):
Riley, Kurt?

Speaker 21 (31:08):
Hi, how you doing.

Speaker 19 (31:11):
Doing pretty good? How are you well?

Speaker 21 (31:14):
Nice to meet you both. You know, we we were
really really touched, really touched by by really the the
really sad situation with your family, and we heard about
Riley's wish to take you to see the northern lights.
So we'd like to help you guys fulfill your Christmas wish.
What do you guys say to a seven night cruise
to Alaska on Norwegian Cruise Line.

Speaker 18 (31:41):
Thank you, thank you.

Speaker 21 (31:44):
You know we are we're honored, just honored for you
guys to go. It is then there is my family myself.
It is just such a beautiful place. We're going to
take you there in style, We're going to treat you right,
and we're going to show you and your daughter a
fantastic time. I can't I'm a northern life. Do we
get pretty far north and you got a good shot
at it?

Speaker 20 (32:05):
Well, thank you so much.

Speaker 19 (32:06):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (32:10):
Thank you, Harry, thank you, thank you in Norwegian Cruise Lines.
You guys are amazing big hearts. Thank you, mister Summer.

Speaker 21 (32:17):
It's our pleasure, of course, our pleasure, of course.

Speaker 10 (32:19):
Thank you very much that we can do.

Speaker 1 (32:21):
Thank you.

Speaker 21 (32:21):
You're very very welcome.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
Thank you very much. Merry Christmas, Kurt, Merry Christmas.

Speaker 18 (32:26):
Riley, thank you very much, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Oh you guys. We have one more little surprise for you.
I believe if you look outside your house, we have
our elf Jessica Jessica.

Speaker 15 (32:40):
Are you there, Yes, we are.

Speaker 1 (32:43):
Jessica is right outside your house with everything we just
talked about.

Speaker 19 (32:48):
Oh, she's getting shooting.

Speaker 1 (32:51):
Jessica is the market president for iHeartMedia of Southern Colorado.

Speaker 19 (32:56):
That's he's on the other side.

Speaker 18 (32:58):
I think of the road there right.

Speaker 5 (32:59):
Oh, that's a say. She's a fast driver. We've been
in her car. She'll get there in about fifteen second.

Speaker 17 (33:07):
Walking up. Thank you, Kate, love you guys.

Speaker 19 (33:14):
Thank you guys very much.

Speaker 22 (33:17):
It's pretty heavy.

Speaker 6 (33:21):
Uh.

Speaker 19 (33:25):
One of actually, one she always wanted to do, or
that we wanted to do, was go see the northern lights.
So thank you guys very much, very very much.

Speaker 13 (33:47):
Yeah, I said My.

Speaker 12 (33:48):
Mom's always wanted to go.

Speaker 18 (33:51):
To Alaska and see the northern lights, and.

Speaker 13 (33:55):
It's gonna see them through your eyes.

Speaker 23 (33:57):
We don't.

Speaker 11 (34:00):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (34:06):
M Merry Christmas, you guys.

Speaker 13 (34:09):
Thank you, guys.

Speaker 19 (34:11):
Merry Christmas, guys. Thank you, Haitlyn, thank you.

Speaker 17 (34:16):
Merry Christmas.

Speaker 19 (34:18):
Thank you, thank you, thank you.

Speaker 1 (34:23):
Good morning.

Speaker 3 (34:24):
Hi.

Speaker 1 (34:25):
All right, what's happening.

Speaker 11 (34:27):
So I think I have a funny store for rich. Okay,
I've been doing this like sugar cutty thing online because
I don't feel like working.

Speaker 17 (34:39):
And I saw this.

Speaker 13 (34:41):
Guy and he looked just like Rich.

Speaker 11 (34:43):
So I went and we met up at Starbucks. We
had like a really nice car and everything. But I
got out and he smelled.

Speaker 1 (34:50):
Like, that's rich that's my Richie. That's my Richie, rich
fancy car, I.

Speaker 5 (34:59):
Mean her mom.

Speaker 13 (35:05):
God.

Speaker 5 (35:08):
And so it didn't go anywhere. No, as soon as
you you meet him at the coffee place, you can
smell him and you're out.

Speaker 23 (35:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 11 (35:15):
He tried to kiss me and I was like, that's.

Speaker 1 (35:18):
My rich all right, Becca, thanks for listening. Have a
great day.

Speaker 11 (35:25):
Thanks love you guys.

Speaker 1 (35:27):
Rich You just blew over something really quick. Explain what
you just told me.

Speaker 5 (35:31):
Oh, I got invited to the Community College last week
for their songwriting class, which is all in their music department.
They've got a big jazz department, and those are my people.
I get there and I meet them and we totally
get along. And I guess there's a scholarship through jazz
guitarist George Benson. They're doing a show in a week
or so and they invited me to come up and

(35:51):
play a song with George Benson. So of course I
got to do that.

Speaker 9 (35:54):
That's cool.

Speaker 5 (35:56):
I don't know all the details yet, but as soon
as it came up, I'm like, doesn't matter on me.

Speaker 1 (36:00):
Do you mean, like George Benson will be on stage
and you also be on stage Georgson.

Speaker 5 (36:04):
Yeah, that's what I'm That's what I'm.

Speaker 2 (36:05):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (36:06):
So he's a he's a jag legend, legend.

Speaker 1 (36:10):
He sings the song called just Give Me the Night.

Speaker 5 (36:15):
And I mean he's played guitar on like Michael Jackson's
albums too. He's like, yeah, I think he's played with
Frank Sinatra. I mean he's played with all the heavies.

Speaker 9 (36:22):
That's cool. It says like jazz, R and B, sunk
and soul.

Speaker 5 (36:25):
That's dope. You probably don't.

Speaker 1 (36:26):
On broad waitah, that one. That's right, Andrew, good morning.
Do you walk in on someone? They walked in on you?

Speaker 2 (36:33):
Oh?

Speaker 7 (36:34):
I did.

Speaker 1 (36:34):
What's the detailed what happened?

Speaker 17 (36:37):
So I walked I was going to my buddy's house
and his mom answered, and he said, he's a little
uh playing a game. And I said, okay, don't tell him.
I'm just going to scare him. So I went upstairs
and I slowly opened the door. Uh, and then all

(36:58):
I see from the corner of the creek is just
him on VR and I said, oh, he must be
playing a game. And he's just on his knees humping
the air. O.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Wow, that's that's fun. I walked down a rich doing that,
but it wasn't VR. No, he was just doing it.

Speaker 5 (37:23):
Oh my goodness, the air is sexy.

Speaker 9 (37:26):
Okay, I don't know how to feel right now.

Speaker 1 (37:31):
Finally, I want to jump back to Riches music class.
Do you know the art or the art? I just
told you chokes? Yeh, saying, isn't that weird? Their their
mascot is the artichoke is it's.

Speaker 9 (37:40):
The cutest thing ever. The little googly eyes.

Speaker 1 (37:45):
Something really intimidating.

Speaker 10 (37:48):
Have you ever cut an artichoke? Before, because those little
spiky things.

Speaker 8 (37:50):
That's why I said something intimidating exactly.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
Guys, I've looked this up before because college is right
down the road for me.

Speaker 17 (37:59):
It was a student vote in like the seventies, Like
they nominated a bunch.

Speaker 1 (38:04):
Of different what should our mascot be?

Speaker 5 (38:06):
And uh, somebody put in an art choke as a
joke and then it won.

Speaker 1 (38:12):
So now forever more, they're the joke fighting.

Speaker 5 (38:15):
Art chokes fighting artichokes.

Speaker 1 (38:19):
It's John Jay and Rich. Yeah you've got a Thanksgiving
bomb you're dropping in a couple of days.

Speaker 24 (38:25):
Yes, I do. I So I'm a straight day student.
I like, I'm I'm in college and I've just got
like one year left, and I my boyfriend wants to
move to LA to pursue his dreams, and like, I
I really want to go with him, And so I
think I'm just gonna drop out of school and go

(38:46):
like get a job with him, like maybe drive a
uber until I kind of figure it out. But I
just know that my parents are probably gonna be pretty
upset because I got a full ride.

Speaker 1 (38:56):
Who damn.

Speaker 24 (38:58):
Yeah, yeah, I I'm nervous.

Speaker 9 (39:03):
Why wouldn't you just finish?

Speaker 8 (39:05):
Let me be your parents for why wouldn't you just
finish and then move?

Speaker 24 (39:09):
Because we've been together for a year. I love him
like I just like we are. We're so like intertwined.
We've just got like so much going for us. And
I just feel like if I stay back, like everything
will change and like he'll just be doing his own thing.

Speaker 10 (39:24):
And we won't.

Speaker 4 (39:25):
I don't know.

Speaker 24 (39:25):
I don't think it will work out that way.

Speaker 1 (39:28):
Can I give you some advice as well? Along the
lines of Kyle. So, my wife and I we got married.
We got married, and I got my first job on
the radio in Cincinnati, and I was moving obviously with
my wife. But my wife's bosses said, that's a really
hard career to crack into, and they said, stay here.

(39:48):
We'll pay you this much money for the next three months.
Give him three months. They said, give him three months
and then and then if it works out, then go ahead.
And so they dangled a big care in front of her,
and so she was like, okay. So she says to me,
is it okay if I don't move with you? We've
been married a week and she says, is it okay
if I don't go? I'm like, that's fine. So I
went by myself and going by myself to start my

(40:11):
career and not being married, and it was great because
I could just do, like I just focused on work.
I'd have to work, worry about a why or kids
or anything, right, So I was just like focus on work.
So my advice would be to you is let him
go start follow his dream and give him a year.
That way, you finish your career, your school, and then
you could be like, if everything's still working out, you

(40:31):
go move with him, because believe it or not, things
worked out for me.

Speaker 5 (40:35):
Yeah. Good point.

Speaker 24 (40:37):
Well, I don't know, like a year is a really
long time.

Speaker 1 (40:40):
Do you see him on the weekends, you see him
on holidays, you still see him you FaceTime.

Speaker 24 (40:45):
Yeah, it's just so hard with school to like be
together when you know, like if we're not in the
same place, it's it's really hard to like do work
and focus on school, and then he's like so far
away it's hard to visit.

Speaker 9 (40:57):
Yeah, totally.

Speaker 10 (40:57):
I mean, Daniel, I just turned twenty five, graduated college,
like it'll be three years this may. I have a
boyfriend now and we've been together for a while, but
we did a year long distance.

Speaker 9 (41:08):
I moved back home.

Speaker 10 (41:09):
He was still in school and I flew out once
a month to go see him where he was and
the long distance. It totally sucks. But like I got
my degree, like he was on track to get his dego.

Speaker 1 (41:19):
It doesn't work out. You got stuff that moves there
and it doesn't work out. Then you're like, are you
gonna go back to that school? Are you going to
you won't get your full riding A GA, I've got
these new friends, I've got this new life over yere.
Oh I'm a waiter, I'm a waitress. I can't make
I mean, it's just whatever.

Speaker 10 (41:33):
This is just so tough because it's like when you're
so young and in love and in college and you
want to do what you want to do.

Speaker 9 (41:38):
Like I've been in that situation too.

Speaker 10 (41:40):
Like I gave up a full ride basketball scholarship just
to go move and be a regular student. Luckily I
was blessed to get another one because I played basketball.
But like I'm telling you right now, girlfriend, like it
is so not worth it. Like sit there, get your degree,
finish out the year, go see him when you can
go see him, and it'll be good. You get to
go to La to go visit your boyfriend, like, how
fun is that we take it out of vacation.

Speaker 5 (42:01):
Then you really know if the relationship is going to last,
if you can get if you can get through that,
like you don't know, if you just move, a ton
of things could happen to break you up. But if
you really test it and he comes through and you
you guys are together, then you know it's meant to be.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
Plus. If anything, we've given you a lot of practice
for your parents because when you dropped this momb on
them on Thursday, you could be prepared for everything we
just said, because they're gonna say you the same thing.

Speaker 13 (42:26):
Yeah, I guess I'll have to sit on it.

Speaker 1 (42:29):
Your dad's probably gonna go. Your dad's going to go.
You know what, do it just go?

Speaker 5 (42:33):
Sounds great?

Speaker 1 (42:34):
Yeah, we'll pay for you to go live there. By
the way, what's your boyfriend's dream?

Speaker 24 (42:39):
He wants an actor?

Speaker 5 (42:40):
Can send us this picture?

Speaker 1 (42:43):
You know what? You should call us back whenever he
makes it, and we can be like, oh, you were right, Wow,
he made it. And then he dumped you because now
he's dating Gwyneth pal Trump. He's dating already Grande. Is
he any good as an actor?

Speaker 24 (43:01):
Yeah, he's really good. I think, like, you know, he's
he's got a couple of things going, but it's just
local and like he just needs a shot, you know,
like he needs to kind of be in that area.

Speaker 5 (43:12):
Man, that's a million other people there too. It's the
chances are small.

Speaker 1 (43:16):
Has he done he plays?

Speaker 10 (43:18):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (43:19):
Like what what plays he done?

Speaker 10 (43:21):
He did?

Speaker 24 (43:22):
Street car name desire?

Speaker 1 (43:23):
Really? Let me hear you, yes, Stella, let me hear it.
Let me hear it. See if it rubbed off.

Speaker 21 (43:28):
I heard that a lot.

Speaker 13 (43:28):
I heard that a lot in the last year.

Speaker 1 (43:30):
Okay, all right, Danielle, Well, good.

Speaker 5 (43:34):
Luck to you, Thanks so much.

Speaker 13 (43:37):
I appreciate it.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
Actually, more good luck to your parents. All right, I
would die happy Thanksgiving. It's John Jay Rich Daisy, good morning,
you're on the air.

Speaker 16 (43:45):
Hello.

Speaker 6 (43:46):
I just wanted to have another opinion on the side
for anybody. We just talked to somebody who said that
they would like to drop out of college to be
able to go and live with their fiance and different
state and quitting school and being able to just go
as straight into working is not as easy as it

(44:07):
may look, or as it may you may expect it
to be. I had currently I'm doing that right now.
I dropped out of school last year. I was in
medical school and it was difficult for me. So I
had dropped out. And even with my fiance being a
blue collar mechanic and making three thousand dollars a month,
we still cannot pay our bills.

Speaker 13 (44:29):
We still live with our parents.

Speaker 5 (44:31):
That's tough.

Speaker 6 (44:32):
So it really is tough. It's really hard. So I
would just say to have a plan, because no matter
how much door dash and Uber puts out, how great
their company could be, you still aren't going to make
enough money to be able to pay for car insurance
and all of your bills and stuff.

Speaker 5 (44:47):
That's a good point.

Speaker 6 (44:49):
Yeah, I mean, And just like how I think it
was Kyle who had said, you know, if you want
to do long distance, long distance is a lot better.
I would finish it out if you have just a
couple of months, because a lot of people do that
and they regret it. If I could finish out college,
even with bad grades, I would have done it because
I would have still had that degree.

Speaker 5 (45:08):
True, So we're saying, I'm sure she's talking about like
moving right away with her boyfriend, But what you're saying
is if your relationship is strong enough it can handle
that last.

Speaker 6 (45:17):
Couple of months exactly exactly. And I wouldn't say it's
a red flag. But if you've only been dating for
a year and someone is encouraging you to leave something
that you started before you got together, I would really
look into that because school is really good for you,
and I mean, I know a lot of people push that,
but your significant others should want you to progress no

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matter what it is that you started, whether it's schooling
or an independent hobby, you should want to finish that out,
no matter how difficult it is, just so that you're
able to finish it out.

Speaker 1 (45:48):
Good ad, Nice, Thanks Daisy, thank you for calling in,
Thanks for listening. Ashley, good morning. You've got a Thanksgiving.

Speaker 7 (45:55):
Bombing for me.

Speaker 5 (45:56):
Hi, I do well.

Speaker 7 (45:58):
My family found out about my only fans, so now
I have to deal with that was a good singeing.

Speaker 1 (46:06):
So how do you know they found out about your
only fans?

Speaker 7 (46:10):
They called me and said, what is this?

Speaker 1 (46:13):
Okay? And what is this? What is your only fans?
What are you doing in there?

Speaker 7 (46:17):
There's not a whole lot I don't do on there.
It's pretty much.

Speaker 1 (46:21):
All out there, really okay.

Speaker 7 (46:25):
Yeah, it's naughty. I can see why they would be upset,
but also like, but also like, you know, I work hard.
I don't know, I'm just trying to make some money.
It's hard out there for a girl. You know.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
Sure, how much money have you made with your only
fans so far?

Speaker 7 (46:42):
It's not a lot, it's it's it's mostly for fun
and just for extra cash. I mean, I'm the most
like four hundred and four hundred bucks a month, maybe
five hundred on a good month.

Speaker 9 (46:53):
That's a good side hustle. Still, though, on extra five
hundred bucks is helpful?

Speaker 5 (46:57):
Do you think there?

Speaker 7 (46:58):
Are they very helpful?

Speaker 5 (46:59):
Are they upset because you're doing it? Or are they
upset because they've seen it? You know, like now it's scarf.

Speaker 16 (47:06):
No, I think they're.

Speaker 7 (47:07):
Upset that I'm doing it. They're like, you know, I
am a mom. They're like, what if the kids find out?
Blah blah blah. I'm like, well, you know, then one
day we have a conversation about consent in my body,
my choice, and then we take it from there.

Speaker 1 (47:21):
Okay, So in a couple days Thanksgiving Thursday, you're gonna
walk into Thanksgiving with who mom, dad, brother, sister? Who's it?
You're Thanksgiving.

Speaker 7 (47:29):
So it'll be my in laws, my sister in law,
her family, and that'll be it.

Speaker 1 (47:36):
Okay, so in laws meaning are you a married person?

Speaker 7 (47:39):
Yeah? So my husband, Well it'll be me, my husband,
our kids going over to his dad and stepmom.

Speaker 1 (47:46):
Okay, so your husband knows you have an only fans right?

Speaker 7 (47:49):
Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah, yeah definitely.

Speaker 1 (47:51):
Does he participate? Does he participate? He will, so he does?

Speaker 7 (47:57):
We do it together?

Speaker 1 (47:59):
Wow?

Speaker 8 (48:00):
But how awkward it's your in laws, it's not even
your like family.

Speaker 5 (48:04):
That would make an extra cringe.

Speaker 8 (48:06):
And they better not bring it up because your kids
are there. It's like what happens when your kids find out?
Well you just told my kids right if you put you.

Speaker 7 (48:13):
On hold and they've already tried to have so, so I'm.

Speaker 1 (48:17):
Going to put you on hold, and then can you
give grant? Can you give grant? Can you get like
a can you give like a twenty four hour access
to your only fans? We can check it out.

Speaker 7 (48:27):
Yeah sure, why not.

Speaker 5 (48:29):
I'm doing the season of giving.

Speaker 1 (48:31):
I'm trying to see exactly what we're talking about, what
the family is going to walk into. So hold on, Ashley,
hold on, yikes.

Speaker 5 (48:38):
Yeah, that's crazy I mean, she's going to be the
most uncomfortable.

Speaker 1 (48:42):
I just if you put yourself in her shoes walking
into Thanksgiving with your in laws, you're whoever, and they've
all seen you naked, They've all seen you do all
kinds of stuff. I mean, that's why don't know how
graphic is her only fans when she says she does
it all right.

Speaker 10 (48:54):
I mean I hope they wouldn't see it, because like,
isn't it only fans you have to pay to get
a subscription to in.

Speaker 8 (49:00):
There none that they could see, you know, one of
them did.

Speaker 9 (49:05):
Oh my gosh, I'd be mortified.

Speaker 8 (49:07):
If one of Okay, so if one of Kadem's family
members had an OnlyFans, you wouldn't do whatever you could to.

Speaker 10 (49:12):
See totally up to Oh, I totally would, which is
why I'm like mortified right now for her total.

Speaker 1 (49:18):
If you buy an only fans, if you if you
pay for someone's only fans, they know who you are.

Speaker 5 (49:23):
Yeah, okay, it's like if okay, it's a transaction.

Speaker 1 (49:26):
So you would say, like if I signed up to
a family member if I knew my niece was doing it,
and they'd be.

Speaker 5 (49:31):
Like oh yeah, yeah, would John j.

Speaker 1 (49:36):
Oh my god.

Speaker 5 (49:38):
Crazy.

Speaker 1 (49:39):
All right, if you have any Thanksgiving bombs that you're dropping,
you can let us know at anytime. Dm us at
John j and Rich, text JJR and your message to
nine six eight ninety three. Talk back to us on
the iHeartRadio app. A lot of stuff happened. Did you
get it? Grant, you got it? Oh my god, I
happened to get Grant sent me the link to the
only Fans page. And now my th Thanksgiving is different, different,

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my Thanksgivings now it's not changed.

Speaker 9 (50:06):
You're going over there?

Speaker 1 (50:08):
No God, no, I think I think I'm going to
be fasting John, Jay and Rich. We want to hear
about your crazy X, but you got to keep it
short and sweet. Kyla, tell us about your crazy ex.
Keep it short and sweet.

Speaker 25 (50:20):
All right, short and sweet, here we go. My crazy
IX told me he was in love with me, told
me that he wanted me to be the mother of
his children, love of his life, wanted to marry me.
And what does he do. He gets back together with
his ex girlfriend at the end of the day after
telling me.

Speaker 16 (50:39):
All this crazy and same stuff.

Speaker 25 (50:41):
Told me my best friend his best friend, and yeah,
it was just a very emotional and manipulative time in
my life.

Speaker 1 (50:52):
Okay, hold on, Kyla, Hillary, keep it short and sweet.
What do you got?

Speaker 11 (50:58):
My ex lied to me out having cancer to try
and keep me in his life.

Speaker 9 (51:03):
Wow?

Speaker 7 (51:06):
What's that?

Speaker 1 (51:07):
Okay? Hold on, hold on, hold on, Danielle, keep it
short sweet. What do you got?

Speaker 13 (51:13):
Okay?

Speaker 25 (51:13):
So basically me and my ex watched my dog take
up big dump and then my dog ate it and
my ex picked him up and then made out with
him full tongue.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
Ew all right, hold on, hold on, Alex, good morning,
Keep you short sweet.

Speaker 12 (51:32):
My crazy ex they signed their name onto the deed
to my house by boarding my signature and then tried
assuming for thirty thousand dollars and half of my house.

Speaker 1 (51:41):
Did he get it?

Speaker 2 (51:43):
No?

Speaker 1 (51:44):
Okay, all right, thank you, Chloe. Keep it short and sweet.

Speaker 24 (51:48):
Okay.

Speaker 22 (51:48):
So my ex had his mom reach out to me
to make sure my number was is still the same,
and then repeatedly called me until I answered to tell
me I had a dream that I was at the hospital,
and then told me that he would drop everything and
always be there for me. But he has a wife
and kids.

Speaker 5 (52:03):
Oh that's crass.

Speaker 1 (52:06):
How long was he your boyfriend for?

Speaker 13 (52:08):
We were like.

Speaker 22 (52:09):
High school sweethearts, and he's married to the girl that
he hated, quote unquote.

Speaker 5 (52:14):
You didn't know he was married, No, but his mom did.
Why was she reaching out to you?

Speaker 11 (52:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (52:20):
That's the thing.

Speaker 22 (52:21):
I'm like, why are you guys reaching out to me?
If he's married, it was probably him.

Speaker 9 (52:25):
I've had a couple of those.

Speaker 24 (52:27):
Okay, just weird.

Speaker 1 (52:29):
Keep it short and sweet. Tell us about your ex.

Speaker 4 (52:31):
So my ex decided the next day to come over
to my house and slash my tires, all four of them.
But luckily I had insurance, so I got new tires
out of it.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
Okay, sweet, Thomas, good morning, Keep it short, sweet, what
do you.

Speaker 20 (52:47):
Got hey, good morning. So I was active duty and
me and my wife got separated. She decided to call
the post commander to ask for spouse of support because
of her. Now I'm married to a man.

Speaker 1 (53:02):
That's taken spousal support to a whole new level. I think, yeah,
for sure. So because of her, you found out you were.

Speaker 20 (53:08):
Gay, amongst other things. Okay, it was it was a
cherry on the.

Speaker 1 (53:15):
Case, cherry on the cake. We okay, Okay, Thomas, thank you, Stephanie.
Keep you short, sweet, What do you gott tell us
about your ex.

Speaker 26 (53:24):
So I had a boyfriend on Valentine's Day and I
was pregnant, and he told me that if I wanted
to be intimate with him, if I didn't want to
be that I should have told him before he picked
me up.

Speaker 1 (53:38):
You call for jerk X. I want to ask a
couple more questions to Hillary. Hillary, you're the one with
what was your your short story?

Speaker 11 (53:47):
I had lied about having cancer to keep me in
his life.

Speaker 1 (53:51):
Okay, can you give us more details on that?

Speaker 11 (53:54):
Yeah, So we were pretty much like at the end
of the relationship. I was done with that, and he
brought up He's like, well, I didn't want to tell you,
but I just went to the doctor and I have cancer.
And then I stayed with him for a couple more
months because he kept telling me that he would bring
me to doctor's appointments and that he was going to

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start chemo, and like he had like typed up and
printed out his own paperwork, so like about cancer details,
and uh, yeah, we there was always an excuse why
an appointment got canceled, or why the chemo wasn't starting,
or why his family didn't know yet. So it was

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all just a huge fly.

Speaker 10 (54:38):
So how'd you find out? Like a right, if you
have cancer, but like, how did you find out?

Speaker 11 (54:48):
Well, I put two and two together because don't fess
up to it. Since I've confronted him, he just like
kind of gas lit me, like, oh, you don't believe
me in the hardest time of my life. So we're
no longer together, but every once in a while he'll
still hit me up and be like, hey, you know,
I think the chemo is going to start soon, So

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have you still wanted to be there for me?

Speaker 23 (55:15):
Okay, hold on, hold on, Hillary, hold on, hold on,
hold on, hold on, Bridget keep you short and sweet.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
What's your crazy next story?

Speaker 13 (55:21):
Okay, So one of my exes he used to collect
our hair and I didn't really realize that at first,
but then he started collecting it from my hair brush
and I kept asking like, what are you doing with that?
And he's like, Oh, it's just like a little project
I'm doing. And then he started asking me to collect
the hair. So I don't really know what he ends

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up doing with.

Speaker 16 (55:43):
It, but that was one of the lives.

Speaker 1 (55:45):
I didn't say, what project? Yeah, I mean question, oh man, Jamie,
keep it short and sweet, what do you got?

Speaker 16 (55:59):
Yeah, So, when I was dating a guy online years ago,
he came out to meet me in Arizona because he
lived in another state. And then he we decided to
have him meet at me at my house and he
came over later on that night. He was supposed to
leave go stay at a hotel. Well, he refused to leave,

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and he ended up leaving, but he just went across
the street to the grocery store and where I could
see a view from my house, and he slept in
his car watching my house all night long.

Speaker 5 (56:32):
Oh crazy, Yeah, you're not still dealing with that, are you?

Speaker 10 (56:39):
No?

Speaker 16 (56:39):
This was years ago, but I know I ended up
having to get my dad to call him and threaten
to call the police to get him to leave me
alone because he kept stocking me after that for like
a good few weeks.

Speaker 1 (56:52):
Okay, that's creepy. Okay, you guys want to both.

Speaker 23 (56:55):
I mean, I think, yeah, right to say page here
with Hillary, you should call call your boyfriend, your ex
boyfriend that said he was going through chemo and head
cancer but he's still alive and he's on Tell.

Speaker 1 (57:08):
Him that his cancer story got your tickets. You're gonna
go you're gonna go see Sabrina Carpenter tonight, totally sold out.
You get great tickets.

Speaker 11 (57:20):
Oh my daughter is gonna be so happy.

Speaker 5 (57:24):
Hold that was fun.

Speaker 1 (57:28):
Fun.

Speaker 9 (57:29):
We want to make you fun.

Speaker 1 (57:32):
Rich All right, Payton game we played today.

Speaker 10 (57:35):
We are playing Paytons Categories Thanksgiving Audition because Thanksgiving is
on its way.

Speaker 9 (57:41):
And we're gonna eat such good food.

Speaker 10 (57:43):
So the theme is Thanksgiving theme obviously, right, so kind
of how we play. We're gonna go around the room
rapid fire, starting with John Jay, then Rich than Kyle.

Speaker 9 (57:52):
We're gonna go all the way around the room.

Speaker 10 (57:53):
You guys gotta give me something when I tell you
the category, what you think of and if you can't
think about it fast enough, or you can't think of something,
or you can't think of anything at all, then we
move on to the next round and you get a point.
All right, John Jay, we are gonna start with you.
Let's get into Thanksgiving edition Peyton's categories. The category is
things that you would fight with your family about on Thanksgiving.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Potatoes. I was getting I thought I was just kidding.
I was getting my brain ready for no matter what
you're gonna say, thanks to youving I.

Speaker 10 (58:20):
Like ye, things you would fight with your family about
on Thanksgiving?

Speaker 5 (58:24):
Money, relationships, wish boom, your face, a board game, who's
cleaning up?

Speaker 1 (58:34):
Hell?

Speaker 5 (58:35):
Who clogged the toilet?

Speaker 9 (58:37):
So we're drinking too much?

Speaker 1 (58:38):
Sex?

Speaker 5 (58:41):
That's right, my family, somebody stealing drugs.

Speaker 9 (58:46):
You just go off the handle all the time.

Speaker 1 (58:49):
Talk about my family all the time.

Speaker 10 (58:51):
Like Coyle said, who's gonna get the last group of
the mac of cheese people?

Speaker 9 (58:56):
Okay, let's move on. Did you guys like to go
off the rails all the time? Okay? Now the category is.

Speaker 5 (59:03):
Who got the point for that one?

Speaker 9 (59:04):
None of you guys, nobody got points. You guys all
have one?

Speaker 10 (59:06):
Okay, all right, guys. Category is things that can go
wrong on Thanksgiving Day?

Speaker 1 (59:17):
Sweet potatoes, fight with the family. Who's next?

Speaker 5 (59:20):
I next?

Speaker 9 (59:21):
We'll start with you.

Speaker 1 (59:21):
Yeah, fight with the family.

Speaker 5 (59:24):
Grease fire, he could burn the turkey.

Speaker 1 (59:28):
Politics. Politics.

Speaker 9 (59:31):
Things can't go wrong in politics.

Speaker 1 (59:34):
They can depends on what party you are you're on for.
Let's say you're an independent.

Speaker 5 (59:39):
Can he have the point and we don't get a point?

Speaker 21 (59:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (59:41):
John Jay is a point of that? Because that was
not I don't think that's fair.

Speaker 9 (59:45):
Yeah, today I put in my foot down today. Okay,
don't mess with me. Watch out. Yeah, I'm angry. I'm
ready to eat this Thanksgiving dinner.

Speaker 10 (59:53):
Okay, all right, we're starting with you rich category good,
that's what I like, all right. The category things that
you would eat out of Thanksgiving dinner.

Speaker 5 (01:00:04):
Turkey, string beans, mac and cheese, string bean casserole.

Speaker 8 (01:00:11):
Mashed potatoes, cast roles.

Speaker 5 (01:00:24):
Twice.

Speaker 9 (01:00:28):
Yeah, so I think that's.

Speaker 10 (01:00:31):
I'm not taking it, which is all the port No, well,
actually all of.

Speaker 9 (01:00:37):
You guys have one point because that first round, I
don't know what we.

Speaker 5 (01:00:39):
Were just.

Speaker 1 (01:00:41):
That point.

Speaker 5 (01:00:42):
I didn't do anything wrong. No, we deject that point.

Speaker 10 (01:00:46):
Guilty, my association County recount.

Speaker 2 (01:00:50):
What.

Speaker 10 (01:00:52):
All right, let's move on, John Jay for a final
Thanksgiving category. The category is words that remind you of
Thanksgiving go.

Speaker 5 (01:01:01):
Family, abandonment, gobble, sex, together, gobble, what are we thank
you that?

Speaker 9 (01:01:12):
Mrich say something I don't know if I.

Speaker 5 (01:01:14):
Need to go, I said together.

Speaker 9 (01:01:16):
I won't take it.

Speaker 5 (01:01:18):
Unity, cry, dinner, fun, run full football, friends, parade, board games, TV, animals,
sweet potatoes football.

Speaker 1 (01:01:33):
I was talking about football.

Speaker 5 (01:01:35):
In the it is World Cup time World Cups. This
game we all got minus a points since we did
so good, which makes it all the winner.

Speaker 21 (01:01:50):
Yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:01:50):
Sure, basically, I guess we all win and.

Speaker 10 (01:01:53):
Enjoy our Thanksgiving dinner and don't find with your family
about sex.

Speaker 1 (01:01:57):
Okay, Happy Thanksgiving