The art of the backhanded compliment

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yeah, wake you ass up, John Jay and rich Man,
what's cracker like? And this is the big bulls dove
snoopy deegle.

Speaker 2 (00:11):
Double gigsel dang boom, what you don't do.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
We're not talking about ridden t and we're not talking
about last year. If the One and Only goes, you know,
the glasses last, they pick smooth people, double jib in
your face to me and in the place to be
and you're listening to John Jay and Ridge, wake your ass.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
I think this is a backhanded compliment. I think so
I want to tell you what happened. And then also,
if you have a backhanded compliment, call us at eight
seven seven nine three seven one o four seven. It's
a backhanded Backhanded compliments make you feel good.

Speaker 4 (00:41):
Sometimes, but they also make you feel like, hey, I
wonder if that was an insult that they were just
kind of dressing up nice.

Speaker 3 (00:47):
Yeah, okay, So somebody said something to me yesterday morning,
twenty four hours ago, and it's been on my mind NonStop.

Speaker 2 (00:55):
And I don't know.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
If it's a compliment or it's something that this guy
says to people because it's so good, like you can't
argue it, you can't really, it's like you don't want
to argue it. So here's what he said to me.
I'm on my way to the bathroom. We both go
in the back. He's walking out of the bathroom. I'm
walking in the bathroom, and he says, are you losing
weight on purpose? And I was like no, And then

(01:20):
I went like I had a stupid giggle. And then
after that, I was like, that's an interesting Are you
losing weight on purpose? Because that makes me feel good? Right,
I'm losing weight. It's not like when you go up
to someone, oh my god, you've lost weight. Then what
you're saying to them is you're kind of saying to
them you're a little chubby, you're losing something. You know
how people say, don't say are you losing what? You've
lost weight because you're insinuait. Are you losing weight on purpose?

Speaker 5 (01:42):
That's almost a double compliment.

Speaker 2 (01:44):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:45):
It like, he noticed you're losing weight, but on purpose
would mean you didn't need to lose weight in the
first place.

Speaker 2 (01:51):
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
It's so it's genius, like, I wonder do you just
I'm like, I want to find him and say, do
you say that to everybody? Or did you happen to
say to me and you meant it like? And then
I'm like, am I losing weight? I'm not losing weight?
My canswer tight?

Speaker 4 (02:06):
Could it also mean like, are you losing weight on purpose?
Like you're not dying from a crippling disease, that's why
you look thin, which I think you would also take
as a company.

Speaker 2 (02:14):
I would, But I just been generally speaking, like I
want to start saying that to people.

Speaker 4 (02:18):
It's pretty good, right, I mean you certainly wouldn't be
offended if you heard that, right, No, you would think
it was kind of cool.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (02:25):
I actually feel like that's maybe the nicest way you
could ask someone about that.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
I know, it's so good. I always want to call
a guy I like that hair. It works down the hall.
I can you ask him? Ay man, did you say
it to me? Like anybody? Like, what are talking about?
You do not losing weight?

Speaker 2 (02:39):
Oh? Sorry?

Speaker 3 (02:40):
Like what if he did said I was talking to you,
are you losing weight on purpose?

Speaker 2 (02:47):
Freaking genius?

Speaker 7 (02:47):
Man?

Speaker 2 (02:48):
Made me feel so good, That's what I'm saying. It
made me feel good, right, yeah, I think you should
feel good.

Speaker 6 (02:53):
But then afterwards you were like questioning it.

Speaker 2 (02:55):
Yeah, I didn't believe him.

Speaker 3 (02:56):
And then I was talking to this guy the other
day in my podcast, my successful podcast, this guy Joe Polish.

Speaker 2 (03:02):
This guy really made an impact on me. I can't
wait to do drap the podcast.

Speaker 3 (03:05):
But he was telling me that, you know, people in life,
you need to learn how to take a compliment right,
and some people don't.

Speaker 2 (03:10):
And I don't think I take a.

Speaker 4 (03:11):
Comple It doesn't like words like like I like words.
I like when people say nice things. Kyle doesn't really
buy that stuff.

Speaker 6 (03:17):
That's so funny because literally yesterday Scott told me on
two different occasions, I can't believe how different we are.
And he is like, if you if you talk like
love languages, his number one love language is words of affirmation.

Speaker 5 (03:30):
And that's my bottom one.

Speaker 4 (03:32):
Huh.

Speaker 6 (03:32):
So he was watching an Instagram reel and it was
this wife and she was talking to her husband and
she was just so overly gushing like we have all
these nice things, we have the ability to hang out
as a family because of you.

Speaker 5 (03:48):
We have all this.

Speaker 6 (03:49):
You're such a hard worker blah blah blah blah blah.
And I was like, oh, there's something wrong in that relationship,
and he looks at me like, I'm so damaged.

Speaker 5 (03:55):
He's like, what is your problem?

Speaker 6 (03:57):
Like it's like he's getting emotional because of how sweet
the sentiment is, and I'm the cynic, like, what's really
going on there?

Speaker 5 (04:05):
Just really going on there?

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Well, like this marriage another version of that.

Speaker 3 (04:09):
It's so funny because I'm about to post this video
screen recorder the whole conversation.

Speaker 2 (04:13):
My wife texted me pretty.

Speaker 3 (04:15):
Much the same thing that you were saying is in
that video, and I just chatchab to the response Chris,
I know, but it was very similar to that.

Speaker 2 (04:21):
I was like, she said this really nice. Let me
text I don't have time for this.

Speaker 6 (04:26):
That's when I have a problem with using chatjepet for
a response. If you're really genuinely trying to come up
with something nice and kind to say back, then use
the chatchapeute. But I don't have time for this.

Speaker 5 (04:38):
That's not a good r.

Speaker 2 (04:39):
I'm on the air doing a show, so I'm like, wait, I.

Speaker 3 (04:44):
The response is exactly how I felt, Melissa, good morning.
What's a backheaded compliment? What did someone say to you?

Speaker 7 (04:49):
So I took my twin daughters to Safe Way to
get a donut and me a coffee one morning years ago,
and the lady said to me, oh my gosh, they're
so cute good looking.

Speaker 5 (05:07):
That's a big time.

Speaker 4 (05:10):
Example, right, God's hilarious, Melissa, That's exactly what we're talking about.

Speaker 2 (05:17):
Thanks for calling him.

Speaker 3 (05:18):
I have a great day. Thanks for listening. Hey, my
friend here is in the studio, James T.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Harris.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
So something happened to you and me yesterday and I
need clarification. We were in the bathroom.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
I was going to the.

Speaker 3 (05:29):
Bathroom, coming out of the bathroom, right, and you said
to me, you said, are you losing weight on purpose?

Speaker 2 (05:34):
I did? Right? Okay?

Speaker 3 (05:36):
So is that something you say to people all the
time or did you look at me and think that
I need say.

Speaker 2 (05:41):
That to a man?

Speaker 8 (05:42):
You can't say that. Well, you can say that to
a woman too. I said it to you because you
actually look good. I'm like, what happened?

Speaker 2 (05:48):
What are you doing? You're doing this on purpose? Or
what are you ill? Because I thought what you said
was so clever?

Speaker 5 (05:55):
Isn't there?

Speaker 4 (05:56):
Though?

Speaker 5 (05:56):
Was the backhanded company?

Speaker 6 (05:57):
Because I thought you actually looked good?

Speaker 2 (06:01):
Are you doing workout?

Speaker 8 (06:03):
I know you know where you're going on, but for
for some reason yesterday you looked particularly slim trim fit.

Speaker 3 (06:11):
Oh thank you for that. But so that's not something
like you're not going to say that to someone later today,
Like it's not. It's because that was such a well
put together phrase and it stuck with me all day.

Speaker 8 (06:20):
That is something that I could say to somebody. I
know you could, But have you ever said that before?
Like the way you it's not like you look at
you're losing weight. That came from that you you invoked
something in me.

Speaker 2 (06:31):
It just came right out of me when I saw.

Speaker 8 (06:34):
It's not something that I say often, but it was
something that was real in the moment.

Speaker 6 (06:38):
We thought it was pretty genius because it's like the
nicest way to say that.

Speaker 3 (06:41):
Yeah, you got to copyright that. You should like yeah, yeah,
like are you losing weight on purpose? Genius?

Speaker 2 (06:49):
I was like you, like, I want to talk about
something you said in the bathroom my mom.

Speaker 5 (06:52):
Oh lord.

Speaker 4 (06:55):
Right, that might be the only politically correct I think
James T has.

Speaker 3 (07:02):
Only rich compliment into politics. All right, Well, thank you,
James C. I know you got to go do your
more show. Thank thank for Sama donor thank you absolutely Shannon,
good morning.

Speaker 7 (07:13):
Good morning.

Speaker 2 (07:14):
You got to back at a compliment I do.

Speaker 5 (07:17):
So.

Speaker 9 (07:17):
I work in an oral surgeon office. And so with
the patient they were leaving, the father gave me a compliment.
He's like, oh my gosh, have such a beautiful smile.
And then before he was and then he was like, uh,
you must have a lot of work done. And then
they walked out. So I'm like sitting there, I'm like,
is that a compliment or was he saying that I

(07:38):
had a lot of work?

Speaker 4 (07:39):
Chore, you must have had a lot of work done.
I'd be thinking about that a while to just.

Speaker 2 (07:44):
Leave it at you have a beautiful flow.

Speaker 3 (07:47):
See, that's the that's the kind of comment negatively that
would impact you all day. Yeah, Like what James Harris
said to me affected me positively all day, right, But
being cynical, I was like, what did you mean by that?
Your compliment, Shannon would mess me up a little bit.
But then again, it looks good, right, but did you
have a lot of work done?

Speaker 9 (08:05):
Or no?

Speaker 10 (08:07):
No, I had no work done.

Speaker 4 (08:10):
Well, so then you can you can take it as
a compliment because you've had no work that's just your smile.

Speaker 9 (08:16):
Yeah, And well, I think what his compliment was was like,
you probably don't. Oh you probably get a.

Speaker 10 (08:23):
Lot of free services, is basically what he said.

Speaker 5 (08:28):
How rude.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
Well, I think your smile looks great to us.

Speaker 4 (08:34):
Thank you up up is John Jay and Rich.

Speaker 5 (08:45):
Do you guys know it's singles Day today?

Speaker 11 (08:47):
No, yeah, cheese.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Single the American craft singles.

Speaker 12 (08:51):
No single slices of cheese just like actually single people like,
we celebrate you guys today. So we're going to talk
about your single era energy based on your zodiac side.

Speaker 3 (09:00):
Good morning, Shane, Good morning, John Jay, Good morning, got
Rich Peyton, good morning everybody.

Speaker 10 (09:06):
I am officially taken.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
Now okay, well look at that.

Speaker 12 (09:08):
So now you're off the market. But before you were,
we're talking about your single era. So you Scorpios, you
guys are really mysterious and highly selective, so you've kind
of built a like velvet rope vip around your heart.
So people are obsessed with you because they just can't
figure you out. So stay magnetic, Scorpios. But let someone
earn that backstage pass. And sounds like your new book
did just that.

Speaker 10 (09:29):
She has the all access only access.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yes she is.

Speaker 5 (09:33):
I love that.

Speaker 3 (09:35):
All right, Thank you guys, Thank you Shane, have a
great day you do.

Speaker 2 (09:40):
Xander, good morning, Hey, good morning. What's your sign? Xander?

Speaker 11 (09:44):
I am a Sagittarius.

Speaker 5 (09:45):
All right, Sagittarius.

Speaker 12 (09:46):
So when you guys are single, your single era is
kind of a vacation for you, literally, like you're booking flights,
collecting stories. You act like commitment is like a poorly
designed app or something. Freedom looks really good on my Sagittarius.
But you guys should run for something from something real
if it finds.

Speaker 7 (10:02):
You go called out in a way, putting you on
blast this morning.

Speaker 12 (10:16):
How about Libras, Libra Kyle for my libras. When it
comes to your single era, your single era is flirty.
It's aesthetic and it's an Instagram story coded. So you
love the attention and the soft launches of like the
we're just talking situations. Romance is a Libra sport, though,
So don't confuse chemistry with compatibility ever again, because there's

(10:36):
a difference.

Speaker 6 (10:37):
Okay, that's funny, Okay.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Henry, what's your sign?

Speaker 12 (10:41):
Good morning, Aquarius? Okay, So for my Aquarius. When it
comes to you guys in your single era, your single
era is giving. I'm not emotionally unavailable, I'm just difficult.
You don't want a soulmate that feels like friendship, freedom
and kind of a conspiracy theory your partner or something
like that. So, my Aquarius, if your single, keep your

(11:02):
heart unlocked and at least or at least on guest.

Speaker 5 (11:04):
Mode, you know, let some people in. Okay, I feel
like that's a good one for you guys. Definitely, Thanks, Harry.

Speaker 3 (11:10):
Have a great day. A lot of guys calling for
the horse clop. Okay, let's see Lawrence. Good morning, good morning. Wow,
all guys with deep voices today, Lawrence, what's your sign?

Speaker 5 (11:24):
Okay?

Speaker 12 (11:24):
So for my virgos, when you virgos are single, your
single era is organized and it's intentional, and it comes
with a list of non negotiables. And you guys, you
guys aren't anti dating. You're kind of just anti nonsense.
So if you're single, stay open. Not everyone is a
walking red flag.

Speaker 3 (11:39):
Okay, that's about right, all right, Lawrence, Thanks brother, thank you?

Speaker 11 (11:47):
Bye.

Speaker 2 (11:47):
How about for.

Speaker 12 (11:48):
Leo's Yeah, for Leo's, I'm a Leo. Our single era
is kind of our glam rebrand. We glow differently when
we are the prize and we know it. We turn
heads without even trying and admire, stay stuck like glitter,
stay are up, and energy is untouchable.

Speaker 5 (12:02):
And I totally feel that because.

Speaker 12 (12:03):
When I'm single, I look so good walking around in
my cute little outfits, and now that I'm taking I'm
just like sweatpants.

Speaker 5 (12:10):
And hair tie, no makeup.

Speaker 2 (12:12):
How about Piscey Rich.

Speaker 12 (12:14):
When you're in your single era, your single era feels
like this, like dreamy music video. You're romanticizing everything, even
your loneliness. But this chapter, your single chapter, is gonna
teach you what you need, not just what you want
to give.

Speaker 5 (12:27):
So leve will hit differently once you choose yourself first.

Speaker 4 (12:29):
For my Piscey, Yeah, listen to that, Piscey, get right
with yourself first, exactly.

Speaker 5 (12:34):
How can you love anyone if you can't love yourself?

Speaker 2 (12:36):
True? You know if we need it to your son.

Speaker 3 (12:38):
They're all posted on our website right now at John
Jayndrich dot com.

Speaker 13 (12:42):
I was gonna see dreda data, so the other day,
I'm coming at you completely naive because I've never seen
this before, and I never thought about it until I
went through this.

Speaker 3 (12:55):
I went to Peyton's Friends restaurant. It was twenty five
bucks the park and I'm like, screw.

Speaker 2 (13:00):
That, right.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
So I found out when I when I go into
the restaurant to order my food, they go, I go,
we parked there? Go yeah, but it's twenty five dollars. Like,
oh crap, I'm moving my car. So Dutch orders the
food for us, which by the way, was fabulous. Now
I got to find a parking space and it's pretty fast.
I mean it's like CHIPOTLEI They're scooping it up right
there for you. So I get my car. I'm trying
to find a parking space and I I'm not that

(13:22):
far away and block away, and I see a bunch
of parking meters, and parking meters are everywhere, but and
there's like one parking meter that's open.

Speaker 2 (13:28):
And I pull into this.

Speaker 3 (13:29):
It's like a little curve, like there's all these spaces
and then a big curve and there's a handicap signed
on the street, you know how they paint it blue.
But there's a space in front of it. So I
pull up into the space and it's a parking meter
and I'm like, am I in a handicap spot?

Speaker 2 (13:44):
And do they do parking meters for handicap people? Oh?

Speaker 4 (13:47):
I don't think so.

Speaker 3 (13:48):
I don't think so either, But I'm telling you the
spot I was in was a handicapped spot and I
had a parking meter in it.

Speaker 2 (13:55):
That's weird.

Speaker 3 (13:55):
And I took a picture of it, and I was
gonna post it because I wanted to bring it up,
and I asked my son when we went, because then
I went to goet I go, I think I'm in
a handicap parking So we got a hustle or I
go instead of paying twenty five dollars, I don't have
to PA three hundred dollars. Yeah, And I'm like, let's go.
So they scarf the food down and I get back
to my car and I'm like, is this a handicap space?

Speaker 2 (14:10):
Because it is?

Speaker 3 (14:11):
Dad, And I'm like, why do they have a parking meter?
I just seem right to me, right, I don't think
I've ever seen that.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
I've never seen it either, except for right here. So
I took pictures of it so that you guys wouldn't say.
I thought you guys were to go. Were you parked
in a normal space? Like, No, I wasn't. I'm parked
in a handicap party space.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
Now we need to call somebody and ask like a
governor or something, write somebody in charge of things.

Speaker 2 (14:32):
I've never seen that before.

Speaker 4 (14:33):
Yeah, you would think that that wouldn't be a thing.

Speaker 2 (14:35):
Good morning, David, what's happening?

Speaker 11 (14:37):
Hey?

Speaker 10 (14:37):
I just was tuned in on the fly and I
wanted to let you guys know. I am a male
courier for the coirk of the Court. So there are
handicapped spots with meters all around, you know, wherever you
park downtown. So I don't know where you guys were,
but I.

Speaker 14 (14:57):
Just let you know they do make handicap spots and
I go from there.

Speaker 2 (15:02):
Isn't that like kind of rude?

Speaker 10 (15:04):
Why would it be rude?

Speaker 3 (15:05):
Because you're a handicapped you already get your parking there
because you need access to wherever you need to go,
right easy access.

Speaker 2 (15:11):
So also you need to make money. You can't just
get out of your car and go to where you
need to go.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
Now you got to somehow stop and if you're you know,
severely handicapped or whatever, now you got to somehow put
money in a meter. You've got to, you know, Like,
there's a guy at my gym. He has a van,
he's in a wheelchair and he has a dog. And
I've tried to help him out, Hey, you need help.
He's like, I got it, and he gets he rolls
out of the van. He's got one of those machines
right then he's then he rolls into the gym. Like

(15:36):
the fact that he has to now roll around and
go to a parking meter and put money in the
meter seems like an Actually, it seems like it's it's
taking away what the handicap parking space is force to
make it accessible and easy for the person.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
Makes sense.

Speaker 10 (15:50):
That makes sense, and it would be nice if they
gave that luxury to people like that, like they like
you would when you pull into a store or something.

Speaker 14 (15:58):
But there again, at least they're making a spot for
somebody downtown, uh, you know.

Speaker 10 (16:04):
To be able to park somewhere close. And then you know,
you get some people that abuse it.

Speaker 14 (16:12):
I was talking to one of the parking meters and
people that give out the tickets, and there's people that
have their dead grandma's placard. They put it in numbers
don't match boom ticket.

Speaker 4 (16:24):
Right, Yeah, no, there's there's always those there but ruin
it for the rest of right. But David's first statement was, hey, man,
you gotta make money, so they don't care where you park.
You're gonna get a meter in front of it, is
what you're saying.

Speaker 14 (16:36):
I think the city wants to make money no matter what.
I don't work for the city, but you know that's
my feeling, all right.

Speaker 2 (16:42):
David, Hey, thanks for calling in. Man, have a great day.

Speaker 11 (16:44):
All right, Take care, John Jay and Rich MICHAELA.

Speaker 10 (16:55):
Good morning, Good morning.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
Do you have a dirty little secret?

Speaker 5 (16:59):
I do.

Speaker 9 (17:03):
I've been sleeping with my boss but the last two years,
and honestly, he kind of sucks. I don't even really
like him, but my job is kind of boring and
it makes them more interesting.

Speaker 6 (17:12):
So I bet if you don't even really like him, like,
how do you even get to the point where you
get that intimate with someone.

Speaker 9 (17:22):
Boredom and kind of like this little underlying hate maybe?

Speaker 6 (17:25):
Right, so, like is he attractive at least?

Speaker 10 (17:29):
Oh?

Speaker 9 (17:29):
Yeah, he's a good looking guy, and I think there's
like this danger of like maybe somebody will find out
that is exciting to me.

Speaker 12 (17:34):
Are you guys like only sleeping with each other at work?
Do you get any benefit from sleeping with your boss?

Speaker 3 (17:41):
Can you give me a bonus?

Speaker 2 (17:42):
Last year?

Speaker 9 (17:43):
And yeah, mostly work.

Speaker 4 (17:44):
Sometimes hotels are either of you in relationships outside of
this one.

Speaker 7 (17:50):
He's married.

Speaker 12 (17:50):
Oh, it makes it so much dirtier.

Speaker 6 (17:54):
Yeah, so well, why why do you do this?

Speaker 7 (17:56):
Then?

Speaker 9 (17:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (17:59):
I think I'm like into like the danger and like
the excitement of it all.

Speaker 9 (18:03):
I know it's bad.

Speaker 3 (18:04):
I think as long as you guys don't like throw
each other on the bus later when you get mad,
like if you literally have a professional sexual relationship at work,
if you can keep it under the umbrella like that
and don't be like, well you I did the saying,
Now I'm mad you didn't turn up your your your
project in the time, I'm gonna tell you. I'm gonna
tell your husband that you're sleeping with her right like then,
it's like it's not fair.

Speaker 5 (18:24):
It's like friends with benefits literally, but in the workplace.

Speaker 6 (18:27):
I would be on the same page as you until
she said he was married.

Speaker 5 (18:30):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's no good. It's like, wow, yeah
you should it doesn't I'd be like, okay, well that's
that's a fun little thing.

Speaker 4 (18:37):
You're waiting for the lightning to strike, something's gonna happen.

Speaker 5 (18:41):
Yeah, I'm scared for you. MICHAELA.

Speaker 6 (18:44):
Thank you, but we're not so like I feel I am.

Speaker 12 (18:48):
Judging if you are actively sleeping with a man who
is married, like no, fat, are you worried at all.

Speaker 5 (18:54):
About like karma?

Speaker 9 (18:56):
His wife is having an affair too?

Speaker 5 (18:58):
Oh and how do you know this?

Speaker 2 (19:00):
That's that's what he tells you.

Speaker 5 (19:02):
Okay, so he's just doing that to make himself feel.

Speaker 6 (19:04):
Better, unless she is, I mean, unless they have this
weird I don't know, like no agreement, like, hey, you're
gonna have a fair. I canna have a fair, Like
that's your one, this is my one.

Speaker 10 (19:13):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (19:13):
You're all past. People are very progressively, but.

Speaker 4 (19:16):
She's got a dirty little secret that keeps on giving
dirty little secret.

Speaker 6 (19:20):
Yeah, there is like tentacles to like.

Speaker 3 (19:22):
If they have integrity within their relationship at work, it
works like they're bored, they have sex.

Speaker 2 (19:27):
I'm bored you. Let's go in the back room and
tear it up for a little bit, all.

Speaker 6 (19:30):
Right, And there is something about that When you say
integrity with this situation, I'm saying, but.

Speaker 3 (19:35):
That's what that's the part that's It's like it's like
these uh, these mobsters in the mafia, they're killing people,
but they also have a code.

Speaker 2 (19:44):
Like Dexter, like Dexter.

Speaker 3 (19:46):
Right, so you you are in the work relationship, having
a professional work relationship, but you have a code between
two people that no matter what, you won't break that code.

Speaker 2 (19:55):
It's his integrity and I respect that. Mikayla, thank you.
Thanks for sharing your dirty It'll.

Speaker 3 (20:00):
Figure with us all right by if you ever got
a dirty little secret, tax us or call us eight
seven seven nine three seven one oh four seven.

Speaker 2 (20:08):
Time for Staxson hacks. I have sax information, Rich has
life hacks.

Speaker 3 (20:11):
I'd like to start out today's hacks with a clip
of a new movie that's coming out that I had
no idea about. And when I play you the movie clip,
I think you're really really gonna like it, especially.

Speaker 2 (20:22):
For those of us that are big fans of the
Greatest Showman.

Speaker 6 (20:26):
I don't know what you're talking about.

Speaker 3 (20:27):
Get this, especially you know the the you know the
TV show on Netflix with Kate Hudson. She plays the Lakers,
the owner of the Lakers. Hugh Jackman and Kate Hudson
have a movie coming out. I'm gonna tell you I
think it gets Oscar nomination. And here's why it's gonna
sound crazy, but it's about Hugh Jackman and Kate Hudson
in a Neil Diamond tribute band.

Speaker 2 (20:46):
Oh yeah, that could be big. Okay, let me play
the clip and then let me explain.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
What do you think.

Speaker 5 (20:51):
You don't want to be a Neil Diamond impersonator. You
want to be a Neil Diamond interpreter.

Speaker 1 (21:00):
Only we can't stay love.

Speaker 2 (21:01):
We should call us those lightning and thunder.

Speaker 11 (21:03):
By God things. We gotta get job.

Speaker 2 (21:07):
So you be lightning and I'd be thundered. I wouldn't
go any shorter than this. I wanted to ripple on
wave when wind blows my shirt wing.

Speaker 3 (21:14):
I'm stopping it there because I want you to go.
We'll put it up on our Instagram stories. Because I
listened to it, I'm like, this sounds kind of fun.
I love Neil Diamond songs. And then I watched the
clip and it is like he's a Vietnam vet. He
has flashbacks. It's like traumatic. There's like she has kids,
he has kids. It's like this whole like holy smokes. Yeah,

(21:36):
and then you see the montage, but you see her,
you like her so much, Like it's just I'll put
the clip in so and and plus we all love
Neil Diamond songs because you know, obviously the rest of
the trailer is sweet.

Speaker 4 (21:49):
You know that's gonna be fun.

Speaker 5 (21:50):
It's like the Next Star is Born or something like that.

Speaker 3 (21:53):
Yeah, but first I thought it was gonna be like
the Greatest show Me or something sought it Bema.

Speaker 2 (21:58):
Yeah, yeah, that's so. It's cold.

Speaker 3 (22:01):
Song Song Blue Song Sung Blue, And I'll put the
trailer up on our on our Instagram feed. People are
freaking out after Congress shared a video footage of rich
I'm surprised you brought this up.

Speaker 2 (22:11):
Do you see this yet?

Speaker 3 (22:12):
I did of a UFO appearing to survive apparently survived
a direct hit from a missile, not just any mischel.

Speaker 4 (22:19):
Like like one of those Tomcat missiles. It bounces right
off whatever this thing.

Speaker 5 (22:23):
Is kind of was it a triangle?

Speaker 4 (22:26):
It was alar. It's kind of hard to see. It's
it's like because it's radar. It's a radar thing when
it was off the coast of Yemen or something.

Speaker 6 (22:33):
All the technology we have, of course, the UFO video
is hard.

Speaker 2 (22:38):
I watched the video, and you know what hard to see?

Speaker 3 (22:41):
Really, it looks like you're watching a microscope of like cells, multiplying.

Speaker 12 (22:46):
And then there's a little I mean ironic, is that
the right word to use, the fact that we really
can't don't have a single clear thing of a suppose.

Speaker 4 (22:55):
To you all the time? Want to say all the
time us. You know, because I talk about UFOs a
lot in my life. I don't know why they need lights.
If they're like intergalactic like vision, probably don't need the
headlights on there on their spaceships.

Speaker 2 (23:11):
Kyle, this is for you. I think you can agree
to this. It's his parent. Did some research.

Speaker 3 (23:14):
Parents worry a total forty seven times per day, roughly
seventeen and fifty five times a year, except for leap years,
when it's seventeen thy seven hundred and two.

Speaker 2 (23:24):
They worry about their children, how they're feeling, what they'll eat,
and so on.

Speaker 6 (23:28):
Yeah, agreeable, It might be more than that, I think
so with us.

Speaker 2 (23:32):
It's non stop, dude, the kids, especially the kids. This
is currently in the dorm room. It's non stop, man. Anyway.

Speaker 3 (23:40):
Microsoft has a new report out that claims office employees
are interrupted by meetings, emails, and chats every two minutes.
Every two minutes, I think I told you guys. At
my house, I play this a little game where I
try to see how long I can watch.

Speaker 2 (23:53):
TV before I get interrupted. Which is your office? Yeah,
that is your office watching TV two.

Speaker 3 (23:58):
Minutes and thirty five second kids yesterday before I got
a judge and I got to do that.

Speaker 2 (24:04):
I think, why I pause it? And I like to
breathe pause.

Speaker 5 (24:08):
The inconvenience.

Speaker 4 (24:10):
Yeah, life acts rich, all right, Well, there's hacks to
commanding a room. If you're either you know, in a
relationship with friends at work, they say, change the way
you say things and it will change the way people
look at you. Like, if you want to get the
room's attention, don't say excuse me. They say that sounds weak.

(24:31):
They say, hey, can I have your attention?

Speaker 2 (24:34):
That's it?

Speaker 7 (24:34):
Do that.

Speaker 4 (24:35):
Don't say I think, say I strongly believe. And then
they say, don't say I'll try, say I'm gonna get
that done. Change those things and you will command the room.
There's a bunch of them. In fact, we put a
bunch of them up for you at John Jay and
Rich dot com.