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December 23, 2024 12 mins
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Bella, good morning, Hey, good morning. How are you good?

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Good good, good, good good. I understand you have a
very unique situation. You want our help, and we're debating
on whether we should help you or not. I'll tell
you why after you tell just tell us who tell
us your situation, and then we'll tell you.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
We'll tell you why.

Speaker 3 (00:15):
Okay, well, I mean okay, So I just know my
boyfriend is going to propose, and it's either going to
be on Christmas or New Year's I really don't know
which one, but I'm pretty like I just know what's
going to happen. But it's triving me crazy because it's
so obvious. He's been dropping hints left and right. I
can just feel it in my gut. But I need

(00:37):
to know which day, so, you know, like my nails
can be perfect. I need like a fresh and done manicure,
you know, like you know how important that is?

Speaker 4 (00:46):
Yeah, because if it's on Christmas, then you can do
it before Christmas and itself fresh.

Speaker 1 (00:50):
But then there's like a whole week in between years
or that growth comes out.

Speaker 2 (00:56):
So you want us to call your boyfriend to find
out when he's going to propose.

Speaker 3 (01:01):
Yeah, just you know, just get it out of him
about like which which like important day?

Speaker 4 (01:07):
Okay, just a few questions though, how sure are you
that what he's talking about as a proposition and not
something like, you know, a Christmas surprise somewhere like a
trippy How sure are you that it's a proposal?

Speaker 5 (01:21):
One hundred person, I'm like.

Speaker 3 (01:23):
Yeah, one hundred and ten percent. I mean, just like
just the comments he's been making and shows we've been watching,
like he even like I saw him looking on Instagram
at tuxedos and whatnot. So to me, it's obvious, isn't.

Speaker 6 (01:38):
There a little bit of you though?

Speaker 1 (01:40):
That's like you're kind of ruining the surprise, right.

Speaker 3 (01:43):
Yeah, that's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:45):
That's the discussion we're having, Like we don't really like
to do that to a certain degree. Right, It's like
it's not like your boyfriend, what's his name?

Speaker 1 (01:52):
Your boyfriend?

Speaker 3 (01:53):
Oh, his name is Kai, like Kai.

Speaker 2 (01:56):
Like if we get him on the air and he says, yeah,
actually I'm gonna propose tonight, then we've ruined his special day.

Speaker 6 (02:01):
And he's probably working really hard to keep it.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Like we need a disclaimer from you or whatever that says.
I mean, we're not responsible, like Honestly, the four of
us in here talking and you, I don't want to
do it because I feel like our audience is to
get mad for us ruining this guy's proposal.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
Do you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (02:18):
Well, I think I see your point. It's just that
it's not going to ruin anything, because it's anything.

Speaker 1 (02:24):
It is going to ruin something.

Speaker 2 (02:25):
If a radio station called me before I proposed my wife,
and I remember that day I proposed to my wife.
If she knew was coming, it's a whole different thing, right, Well,
she probably would have been happy.

Speaker 6 (02:35):
I just don't want to be blindsided.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
And he knows that I don't like surprises either, so
he would. I mean, if anything, he'll just be like,
oh yeah, that's that's Bella who doesn't want to really
want to be surprised.

Speaker 4 (02:47):
Okay, it still feels like there's so few awesome surprises
left in life, you know, to let that one just
be I know that's not your nature. It might be
worth it for you just to wait and see what happens.

Speaker 3 (03:00):
I mean, should I just get my nails done every
other day? I don't want them to get my hair done?

Speaker 7 (03:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (03:07):
I get it.

Speaker 2 (03:07):
The text are coming in, right, now, don't do it.
Don't do it. Don't ruin your surprise.

Speaker 6 (03:11):
Oh my god, Now do you think they're texting?

Speaker 8 (03:13):
Don't do it because they don't want.

Speaker 1 (03:16):
Us to ruin the surprise for her, or they don't
want to ruin it for.

Speaker 2 (03:19):
Him, I think for him, because you guys work your
butt off. Either way, Look, if you want to do it,
if it actually turns out to be a good thing
and it makes him less nervous about it, anybody is
upset because we do it.

Speaker 1 (03:30):
It was brought up. Okay, so we are we are protected. Okay?
Does that sound fair?

Speaker 3 (03:35):
Bella totally. I'm basically forcing y'all to do this.

Speaker 1 (03:39):
You okay?

Speaker 5 (03:40):
All right?

Speaker 1 (03:41):
So Kai? All right, We're gonna call Kai and what
do we do? It's not like a war of the roses? Right,
what's going on?

Speaker 8 (03:48):
No?

Speaker 9 (03:48):
I wonder if you can be like, hey, we you know,
caught when you might be proposing soon? Your name, your email,
or your numbers showed up on this site.

Speaker 6 (03:57):
What do you what do you think is better?

Speaker 9 (03:59):
Should we Should you propose on Christmas Day? Or is
it proposal better on New Year's Eve?

Speaker 5 (04:03):
Just call him and go, Hey, Bella wants to win
your special surprise.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Did you see the letter? The letter I posted on
my Facebook.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
It says, Hey, guys, I'm really nervous about something I'd
love hearing your help. I'm in a serious two year
relationship and I'm ready to propose. She lives at home
with her family, and her family loves me. I was
thinking about doing it on Christmas when she opens up
the gifts with her family, I'm going to hand her mind,
drop to a knee and surprise her what this guy
is saying? Right? And my post was like, what should

(04:32):
I tell this guy? And all these people are like,
one guy says that, one girl says it's a bad idea,
and then twenty five comments are like do it?

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Do it? Do it on Christmas?

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Sounds like every sweet The way he set it up
is what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (04:44):
Is okay, I can say I posted this on Facebook
and everyone's asking me I got I got a DM
saying that you might be proposing soon.

Speaker 6 (04:54):
Yeah, or something like that. Yeah, that's a good idea.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
I don't know. Something like that A figures out.

Speaker 7 (05:01):
Let's call kai all right, Hello, Hey is this kuy?

Speaker 3 (05:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (05:15):
What's going on?

Speaker 3 (05:16):
Hi?

Speaker 6 (05:16):
My name's Peyton.

Speaker 9 (05:17):
I'm with John Jay and Rich and we just wanted
to talk to you on the radio really quickly this
morning about a few things.

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Okay, Hey, so this is gonna sound crazy, but I
posted on my Facebook, this is John J by the way,
an email from a guy who's asking for advice because
he wants to propose to his girlfriend on Christmas morning.
And I have a whole bunch of comments of people
saying it's a good idea, some people saying it's a
bad idea. And then I got a direct message from
somebody and they gave me your phone number, and they

(05:44):
say that you might be in the same boat. So
I was going to ask your advice on whether it's
better to propose on Christmas morning or New Year's Eve.
And if you're going to do it, what day are
you picking?

Speaker 8 (05:56):
Man, I honestly can't even think about proposals or marriage
or anything like that, Like that's that's the last thing
on my mind right now. Like I've actually been trying
to figure out how to break up with my girlfriend
after the New Year. So I really don't think i'm
the best person to help you out.

Speaker 5 (06:10):
Sorry, Wait, what.

Speaker 3 (06:14):
You're not proposing?

Speaker 8 (06:17):
Wait? What's going on?

Speaker 3 (06:18):
Hello?

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Well, the person that emailed me about that was your girlfriend.

Speaker 3 (06:25):
I mean, I've been over here like planning my life
with you, sanity, Like I've literally been fantasizing about you
asking me to marry you under the Christmas tree or
like on New Year's Eve, and you've been secretly plotting
to leave me. Are you out of your mind?

Speaker 8 (06:40):
I wasn't plotting it.

Speaker 2 (06:42):
I just.

Speaker 8 (06:44):
I don't know how to bring it up. Like it's complicated, okay,
like I don't want to do this right now, like
the holidays and everything. We can just talk later today. Okay.
You didn't mean to lead you on, all right, It's
just everything's just been feeling off and I don't know
how to fix it.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
Like okay, hey, let me.

Speaker 1 (07:08):
Just recap something real quick.

Speaker 2 (07:10):
So I understand correctly, Bella thought you were gonna propose
on Christmas or New Year's Eve.

Speaker 1 (07:16):
You want to break up with her?

Speaker 3 (07:20):
Yes?

Speaker 1 (07:20):
Yes? And not see that come out.

Speaker 2 (07:23):
And Bella, you're just kind of chortal, chortal, chortal. You
don't seem to like, oh okay, well you're not. You're
not crying, you're not upset, he wants it's Christmas, You're
gonna be alone?

Speaker 1 (07:32):
He wants to be I.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Mean helping him, but I'm in shock. I just don't know.
I feel so stupid right now.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
And I mean, come.

Speaker 3 (07:42):
On, Kyle, you know how this is gonna look to everybody,
right my mom, she's gonna freak out.

Speaker 8 (07:48):
So what do you want me to do about it?

Speaker 3 (07:53):
I don't know. I mean, we're just gonna have to
fake this ship, Like we're gonna have to fake this
whole relationship until after the holidays. Kids, I don't know, Like, well.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
Can you work it out instead of faking it? Can
you talk about like what you might need from the
relationship that you're not kidding?

Speaker 3 (08:10):
I mean, that's I guess that's up to him because
I'm over here thinking, but if we're moving towards that
stage because we're just falling more and more in love.
But how if I'm so wrong about that? I really
don't know, Like what the food?

Speaker 8 (08:23):
I really don't want.

Speaker 3 (08:24):
I mean, we have to just get through the holidays.
For my insanity at this point with.

Speaker 8 (08:30):
The language, Yeah, but honestly, that was pretty much like
what I was going to be doing anyways before you
had said this all.

Speaker 1 (08:38):
So you did ruin it because if you wouldn't have
called us.

Speaker 2 (08:42):
You wouldn't know that he was going to break up
with you after the holidays, and then you would have
a nice happy Christmas, in New Year's break and in
sometime middle of January you break up with you.

Speaker 1 (08:50):
Now you ruined it. It's a reverse proposal. Ruined.

Speaker 6 (08:54):
Yeah, okay, but.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
I'd rather just not be made a fool of Yeah,
and like and then the days past, like Christmas and
New Year's and you don't propose. I'll be.

Speaker 1 (09:10):
But now you have to fake that everything's okay. You
see what I'm saying. Terrible, terrible. I was against it
from the beginning.

Speaker 5 (09:18):
She called it.

Speaker 9 (09:20):
But listen, Bella, you started this.

Speaker 4 (09:24):
You called us.

Speaker 9 (09:25):
But I'm twenty six, I've been with my boyfriend for
four and a half years, and I do think he's
probably gonna.

Speaker 6 (09:30):
Be proposing, you know, within probably a year.

Speaker 1 (09:34):
I don't know, but I know.

Speaker 6 (09:35):
Here's my then, No, here's my point, Bella.

Speaker 9 (09:39):
If he were to be planning to break up with
me an X amount of times, like I would probably
want to know sooner rather than later so I can
start my healing journey.

Speaker 5 (09:47):
That's a good point.

Speaker 6 (09:47):
I would take this as.

Speaker 9 (09:48):
Like, yes, this sucks, that is not what you wanted
to hear. It sucks to get your hopes down or
to be let down like that and get your hopes up.

Speaker 6 (09:55):
But like, look at this this as you you're out.

Speaker 9 (09:58):
Now you can go and find someone who isn't going
to drag you along and fake through through the holidays
and just try to you know, b su through. So
it's okay, look at this as it's an okay thing.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
Sure, I feel that way now, but that's true. It
is true.

Speaker 6 (10:11):
You're not going to waste any more time with them.

Speaker 3 (10:13):
Yeah, all right, we'll listened out from under the Kai Kai.

Speaker 1 (10:19):
Thanks for jumping on the air with this. Man, Yeah, man, yeah, thanks, yeah.

Speaker 2 (10:24):
Thank you, Bella. All right, have a great day, both
of you. Christmas wish. This wasn't a Christmas way, No,
I don't know what this was for some people that
the war of the Christmas wishes. Christmas wish John J. Rich,
Hey Jack, you're gonna play with us?

Speaker 6 (10:39):
Hello?

Speaker 1 (10:39):
You want to play Santa or Satan?

Speaker 2 (10:42):
Yes, all right. The only thing is so I went
off the game Santa or Satan, and the thing is
that's funny Santa or Satan.

Speaker 1 (10:50):
But the questions aren't hard. So that's what's going to
suck about this.

Speaker 5 (10:52):
Game, right.

Speaker 2 (10:53):
But what will be hard is making sure you get
this correct right, because I think when you when you
have both of those in your head, it's hard to
spit it out. Santa or Satan, your name is your buzzer.
In the nineteen sixty eight movie Rosemary's Baby, Rosemary's Baby.

Speaker 5 (11:05):
Is the son of Rich Rich who is Satan.

Speaker 1 (11:09):
It's right.

Speaker 2 (11:09):
In nineteen ninety seven, a movie starring Cano Reeves, al
Pacina plays a lawyer who is also Rich.

Speaker 5 (11:13):
Yes, also Satan.

Speaker 1 (11:15):
Yes.

Speaker 2 (11:17):
Eight horned beasts carry this man as he does deeds
around the world.

Speaker 5 (11:21):
Rich who is Santa?

Speaker 1 (11:23):
That's right.

Speaker 2 (11:24):
Mart Simpson's dog in The Simpsons is Blank's little helper.

Speaker 1 (11:28):
Kyle Santa's help. That's right.

Speaker 2 (11:31):
In the comedy Little Nikki, Adam Sandler plays the son
of Rich Rich.

Speaker 5 (11:37):
He plays the son of Satan.

Speaker 1 (11:39):
That's right, Urtus Rich.

Speaker 6 (11:40):
Is getting all the Satan answers right.

Speaker 2 (11:43):
In the two thousand movie but Dazzled, Brendan Fraser plays
Elliot who has granted seven wishes by Elizabeth Hurley, who
plays Rich Satan. In the movie Miracle on Thirty four Streets,
Whusan Walker saved by this supernatural.

Speaker 5 (11:55):
Being Kyle that's right.

Speaker 2 (11:59):
In Sweden, Julio Thoman is the name for Kyle Kyle Yes.
On Futurama, John Goodman plays a murderous and robotic Rich
Rich Satan.

Speaker 7 (12:12):
Rawky buzzin Kyle, Yes, that's right.

Speaker 2 (12:19):
Be warned of a clause in this movie. In this
Tim Allen movie, Kyle Santa that's Santa Claus is right.
Jackie did horrible.

Speaker 1 (12:33):
Jack are you?

Speaker 4 (12:36):
It's like I wasn't aware that I was supposed to
use my name as my buzzer.

Speaker 1 (12:40):
Well, thanks for playing John Jaye.

Speaker 5 (12:41):
Rich
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