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Speaker 1 (00:05):
Colin Fudd Three things we need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is so cool. So Netflix just opened Netflix House.
It's in Philadelphia, and it feels like stepping straight onto
the sets of your favorite series, from Wednesday to Squid Game, Bridgerton.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
On, even the K Pop Demon Hunter World.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
So you choose your own adventsor Tho's immersive multi room
experiences like Wednesday's bedroom, a replica of the set.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Of Is It Cake?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
And then they also have like VR games, escape rooms,
tons of photo ops. It's like very instagrammable, mini golf themed,
iconic show like Themed after the like all these shows.
And then they have Netflix Bites, which is their themed restaurant,
and a full merch shop.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So like it. This is like a destination now for sure.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
The cool thing is is it's free to enter, but
different experiences cost anywhere from fifteen to thirty nine bucks.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So pretty cool. I can start planning.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
That's this is what I was talking about yesterday, like
a ycation. You will go to Philadelphia just because this
is what you want to see. If you do think
that Thanksgiving, you're not sure what you're going to talk
about with your family. Some people a little apprehensive about
going into that. There is one expert that says the
way to connect with your family on a deeper level,
in a healthy way is by trying the do you
(01:17):
know family stories?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Game?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So basically what you do is you pull slips of
paper and each person asks questions like do you know
how your parents met?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Do you know your grandma's first job? That kind of thing?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
And you know the difference between Democrats and Republicans?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
No, skip those questions, skid No.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
It's family stories, literally, questions about your families. And number one,
you get to know your family members better. Whoever grabs
each thing, like tells the story or picks a family
member to tell the story.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
And I actually really like that to see my family,
We would like, we would like totally like up it
a little bit. And if you got wrong, you have to.
Speaker 7 (01:53):
Take shots because we have a few of those. And
do you know who shot both of your cousins ex
husbands today?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Jeez?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
The questions positive life.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Starts, they say, simple back and forth conversation like this
actually boosts kids confidence, it lowers stress, and helps everyone
feel more connected.
Speaker 7 (02:14):
You choose your questions wisely, all thoughtful fun.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Maybe you two in your house don't play.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Okay, So You guys have heard of a social media detox, right.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
The digital detox is spending a lot of tractions for you.
You literally spend a week with no social media.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You don't necessarily need to shut off or delete your
social media, but you don't use it for a week.
So a new study actually followed eighteen to twenty four
year olds who tried this digital detox four a week, TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat,
all of it.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
They got rid of it, and yes, it actually worked.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Anxiety dropped by sixteen percent, depression about twenty five percent,
even insomnia improved.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
But there's a little bit.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Of a plot twist here because once they got their
phones back, they actually spent more time on their phones
overall than they did before.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
That's the digital retoks we talk about.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
I saw an interview with what's her name? She was
the wife on the Beast in Me and she was
in Hunting Wives, Oh, Britney Snow, Britney Snow, and she
was on the Jennifer Hudson Show and she was like,
what was life like before social media?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
And she was like, she goes, it was a lot
less stressful.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, like man, yeah, true, And they do say a
break from social media can absolutely destress you. It can
absolutely boost your mood. Just don't expect it to magically
fix your screen time. That just takes constant work. And
that's three things.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You need to know.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
If you miss second Date update, this is really cool
we can do now.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So if you go to our Instagram, John Jay and
Rich and Facebook to do the work on Facebook.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Two.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
I don't know if we haven't hooked up to Facebook.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Quite right now.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
If you go to our Facebook, if you go to
our Instagram John Jay and Rich and you'll see a
little video of second Date and if you type in
the word date, we will send you the podcast link.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Directly to hear a second Date update today. And it
was a doozy.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
It was a it's a good one.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Yeah, Peyton, what was it? What did you say we're
gonna get into. I said, I'm gonna ask you about this?
Oh about your husband, your boyfriend, your fiance?
Speaker 6 (04:07):
Yeah, no, I have a new fiance. His name's Kaddem No.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
I was.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
We were talking about it at dinner last night at
my friends skimming, and we were talking about like why
do men get so like like cranky and grouchy and
have an attitude when they like, don't like have intimacy,
like get over yourself?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
What are you talking about? That's all you gotta do
is make us happy? Is you know, give us, give
us a little you know.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
What's fun actually talking about this on our girls trip
Because because men and women are just wired differently in
the brain, intimacy is how men feel connected, the conversation
and the like actual like emotional intimacy.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Is how women feel connected. Why do we want to
talk all the time totally?
Speaker 6 (04:50):
Because like sometimes like I'll be talking to Kadem and
I'm like, honestly, like you being kind and nice to
me is way is like it's great for me. Maybe
I would be into it, but now whining and complaining
and I don't even want.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
To touch you right now?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Doesn't every day?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
No, not every day?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Here is times I start following this I start following
this girl on Instagram on my fake account, and she
gives like great relationship advice and all about it's it's
it's I don't know who she is.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I gotta find her and I don't even know. I
just watched some of her post.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
But she's like, if your husband acts this way, it
means he needs this and if he wants sex, it
doesn't mean that he's uh, what do you call it,
Like an addict? It means it doesn't mean that he's
usually I mean, that's the way guys connect with intimacy.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
They need touch, they need the words, they need they
need that.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
And she gives into saying I'm like, she's so great,
but then I read her comments and everyone hates her.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Well, sometimes the truth doesn't. It's not what you want
to hear. But that's how guys are.
Speaker 7 (05:50):
It's like, you know how many therapists are, like, you know,
before you have a really big fight, you should just
start kissing on your your You don't fight about as
much stuff because you're like, oh, we gotta make up
going all right?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
If by trying to come kiss me while I was
in a filement, I would take my hand and I
would smush his face out.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Of the binding problem solved. You want something, you need
something like that with your guy. You're gonna get it, okay.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
But you're in this girl's weekend and it comes up
like who's the one that comes up and says it's
intimacy they need?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Who's Was that just a group thing?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
No, Well, we were talking about like just that intimacy
and relationships, and one of my friends went to it
was actually she said it like in her church service
they were talking about intimacy and the difference between intimacy
with men and intimacy with women, and it's like brains
are just wired differently. And it's funny because when she
said that, I had heard that before somewhere else too,
(06:41):
like they had done a study on what women need
in relationships and what men need in relationships and they're
totally different. And I think it's like if if you
look at it from what did they say, like the
bird's eye view and try not to like be what
you are for a second and go, oh, that actually
kind of makes sense. Or food, I meaning her food,
because then we're all talking about how yeah, like when
(07:03):
that happens in the bedroom, our guys are all like
all of a sudden like different. It's like now they
want and now you're paying attention to me and water
do you.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Mean after after the yes, breathe the second life into them?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Why is this shocker?
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Why it's just like you being annoying about it.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
That's my problem.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, and sometimes it's like you forget because that's not
the way you're wired right.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
And I'm like, we just talked, how much more intimate
can we get?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
And so women want like yesterday I came home, my
wife goes, you know, she's laying in bed because she's
had this procedure done, and she says, so, how was
your day, Like.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Really trying to connect.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
I just walked in. I gotta recap or real it
just happened exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
And when you're like, let's go get it on, She's like, seriously,
on the other.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Side, I don't say let's go get it on.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
It's funny because we had some friends, remember that the
husband and wife would the husband would say their their
code word or whatever I want to play, and that
meant that in front of the kids that they knew
that later on that night things are gonna go down.
I haven't come up with anything yet. You guys have
something like for that you don't know. Now you don't
say anything. So when you when you want to do it,
what do you do?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
We just have its schedule.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
No matter what you don't follow, you don't break the
schedule we do.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
We try not to break the schedule.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
And the reason why let's not break the scaledual why
do people think that the scheduled time is boring or whatever?
But honestly, like it works for us in our relationship
because we are both so incredibly busy and always tired
that if we didn't schedule it, probably weeks or months.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Would go by.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Schedule.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
I gotta get this paperwork filed right away, damn it.
We're supposed to do it in two minutes. Is it
scheduled more than once a week or just once a week?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
It's scheduled once a week.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
And that's so fascinating. Want to try that?
Speaker 6 (08:56):
It is? Well, it's fascinating that you schedule it, because
anytime I try to schedule it, he's.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Like, why are schedule that's weird?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Well, in your life and your you don't have kids
still doing sports and like twenty other things.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
But it's so much to be very spontaneous if we want. Yeah,
like there's no there isn't room for spooning.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
Did you ever schedule it? And it's like, let's just
do this real quick because we gotta go to soccer.
Like you no matter what, you don't miss it. Yeah,
it's not like no matter what happens.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
There's been like one or two times where it was
like there, it was impossible to make it happen.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
And then it was like Monday.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, Monday, skip it.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Holy moly, we're so spontaneous.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Monday.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Sometimes we can do for Spot today. Sometimes we do
it on Monday daytime or nighttime, mid dayDay, whatever ever happened.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
In the daytime in my life. I'm like, that was amazing.
It was the daytime you want
Colin Fudd Three things we need to know.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
This is so cool. So Netflix just opened Netflix House.
It's in Philadelphia, and it feels like stepping straight onto
the sets of your favorite series, from Wednesday to Squid Game, Bridgerton.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
On, even the K Pop Demon Hunter World.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
So you choose your own adventsor Tho's immersive multi room
experiences like Wednesday's bedroom, a replica of the set.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Of Is It Cake?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
And then they also have like VR games, escape rooms,
tons of photo ops. It's like very instagrammable, mini golf themed,
iconic show like Themed after the like all these shows.
And then they have Netflix Bites, which is their themed restaurant,
and a full merch shop.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
So like it. This is like a destination now for sure.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
The cool thing is is it's free to enter, but
different experiences cost anywhere from fifteen to thirty nine bucks.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
So pretty cool. I can start planning.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
That's this is what I was talking about yesterday, like
a ycation. You will go to Philadelphia just because this
is what you want to see. If you do think
that Thanksgiving, you're not sure what you're going to talk
about with your family. Some people a little apprehensive about
going into that. There is one expert that says the
way to connect with your family on a deeper level,
in a healthy way is by trying the do you
(01:17):
know family stories?
Speaker 4 (01:18):
Game?
Speaker 2 (01:19):
So basically what you do is you pull slips of
paper and each person asks questions like do you know
how your parents met?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Do you know your grandma's first job? That kind of thing?
Speaker 1 (01:27):
And you know the difference between Democrats and Republicans?
Speaker 5 (01:30):
No, skip those questions, skid No.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
It's family stories, literally, questions about your families. And number one,
you get to know your family members better. Whoever grabs
each thing, like tells the story or picks a family
member to tell the story.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
And I actually really like that to see my family,
We would like, we would like totally like up it
a little bit. And if you got wrong, you have to.
Speaker 7 (01:53):
Take shots because we have a few of those. And
do you know who shot both of your cousins ex
husbands today?
Speaker 1 (02:01):
Jeez?
Speaker 3 (02:02):
The questions positive life.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Starts, they say, simple back and forth conversation like this
actually boosts kids confidence, it lowers stress, and helps everyone
feel more connected.
Speaker 7 (02:14):
You choose your questions wisely, all thoughtful fun.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Maybe you two in your house don't play.
Speaker 2 (02:23):
Okay, So You guys have heard of a social media detox, right.
Speaker 3 (02:27):
The digital detox is spending a lot of tractions for you.
You literally spend a week with no social media.
Speaker 2 (02:32):
You don't necessarily need to shut off or delete your
social media, but you don't use it for a week.
So a new study actually followed eighteen to twenty four
year olds who tried this digital detox four a week, TikTok, Instagram, Snapchat,
all of it.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
They got rid of it, and yes, it actually worked.
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Anxiety dropped by sixteen percent, depression about twenty five percent,
even insomnia improved.
Speaker 3 (02:54):
But there's a little bit.
Speaker 2 (02:54):
Of a plot twist here because once they got their
phones back, they actually spent more time on their phones
overall than they did before.
Speaker 7 (03:01):
That's the digital retoks we talk about.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
I saw an interview with what's her name? She was
the wife on the Beast in Me and she was
in Hunting Wives, Oh, Britney Snow, Britney Snow, and she
was on the Jennifer Hudson Show and she was like,
what was life like before social media?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
And she was like, she goes, it was a lot
less stressful.
Speaker 2 (03:20):
Yeah, like man, yeah, true, And they do say a
break from social media can absolutely destress you. It can
absolutely boost your mood. Just don't expect it to magically
fix your screen time. That just takes constant work. And
that's three things.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
You need to know.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
If you miss second Date update, this is really cool
we can do now.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
So if you go to our Instagram, John Jay and
Rich and Facebook to do the work on Facebook.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Two.
Speaker 6 (03:42):
I don't know if we haven't hooked up to Facebook.
Speaker 1 (03:44):
Quite right now.
Speaker 4 (03:45):
If you go to our Facebook, if you go to
our Instagram John Jay and Rich and you'll see a
little video of second Date and if you type in
the word date, we will send you the podcast link.
Speaker 1 (03:54):
Directly to hear a second Date update today. And it
was a doozy.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
It was a it's a good one.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Yeah, Peyton, what was it? What did you say we're
gonna get into. I said, I'm gonna ask you about this?
Oh about your husband, your boyfriend, your fiance?
Speaker 6 (04:07):
Yeah, no, I have a new fiance. His name's Kaddem No.
Speaker 1 (04:12):
I was.
Speaker 6 (04:12):
We were talking about it at dinner last night at
my friends skimming, and we were talking about like why
do men get so like like cranky and grouchy and
have an attitude when they like, don't like have intimacy,
like get over yourself?
Speaker 1 (04:26):
What are you talking about? That's all you gotta do
is make us happy? Is you know, give us, give
us a little you know.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
What's fun actually talking about this on our girls trip
Because because men and women are just wired differently in
the brain, intimacy is how men feel connected, the conversation
and the like actual like emotional intimacy.
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Is how women feel connected. Why do we want to
talk all the time totally?
Speaker 6 (04:50):
Because like sometimes like I'll be talking to Kadem and
I'm like, honestly, like you being kind and nice to
me is way is like it's great for me. Maybe
I would be into it, but now whining and complaining
and I don't even want.
Speaker 3 (05:03):
To touch you right now?
Speaker 1 (05:04):
Doesn't every day?
Speaker 3 (05:06):
No, not every day?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
Here is times I start following this I start following
this girl on Instagram on my fake account, and she
gives like great relationship advice and all about it's it's
it's I don't know who she is.
Speaker 1 (05:21):
I gotta find her and I don't even know. I
just watched some of her post.
Speaker 4 (05:24):
But she's like, if your husband acts this way, it
means he needs this and if he wants sex, it
doesn't mean that he's uh, what do you call it,
Like an addict? It means it doesn't mean that he's
usually I mean, that's the way guys connect with intimacy.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
They need touch, they need the words, they need they
need that.
Speaker 4 (05:41):
And she gives into saying I'm like, she's so great,
but then I read her comments and everyone hates her.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Well, sometimes the truth doesn't. It's not what you want
to hear. But that's how guys are.
Speaker 7 (05:50):
It's like, you know how many therapists are, like, you know,
before you have a really big fight, you should just
start kissing on your your You don't fight about as
much stuff because you're like, oh, we gotta make up
going all right?
Speaker 6 (06:03):
If by trying to come kiss me while I was
in a filement, I would take my hand and I
would smush his face out.
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Of the binding problem solved. You want something, you need
something like that with your guy. You're gonna get it, okay.
Speaker 4 (06:14):
But you're in this girl's weekend and it comes up
like who's the one that comes up and says it's
intimacy they need?
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Who's Was that just a group thing?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
No, Well, we were talking about like just that intimacy
and relationships, and one of my friends went to it
was actually she said it like in her church service
they were talking about intimacy and the difference between intimacy
with men and intimacy with women, and it's like brains
are just wired differently. And it's funny because when she
said that, I had heard that before somewhere else too,
(06:41):
like they had done a study on what women need
in relationships and what men need in relationships and they're
totally different. And I think it's like if if you
look at it from what did they say, like the
bird's eye view and try not to like be what
you are for a second and go, oh, that actually
kind of makes sense. Or food, I meaning her food,
because then we're all talking about how yeah, like when
(07:03):
that happens in the bedroom, our guys are all like
all of a sudden like different. It's like now they
want and now you're paying attention to me and water
do you.
Speaker 6 (07:14):
Mean after after the yes, breathe the second life into them?
Speaker 1 (07:21):
Why is this shocker?
Speaker 6 (07:22):
Why it's just like you being annoying about it.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
That's my problem.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
Well, and sometimes it's like you forget because that's not
the way you're wired right.
Speaker 3 (07:31):
And I'm like, we just talked, how much more intimate
can we get?
Speaker 4 (07:34):
And so women want like yesterday I came home, my
wife goes, you know, she's laying in bed because she's
had this procedure done, and she says, so, how was
your day, Like.
Speaker 2 (07:44):
Really trying to connect.
Speaker 1 (07:47):
I just walked in. I gotta recap or real it
just happened exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:50):
And when you're like, let's go get it on, She's like, seriously,
on the other.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
Side, I don't say let's go get it on.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
It's funny because we had some friends, remember that the
husband and wife would the husband would say their their
code word or whatever I want to play, and that
meant that in front of the kids that they knew
that later on that night things are gonna go down.
I haven't come up with anything yet. You guys have
something like for that you don't know. Now you don't
say anything. So when you when you want to do it,
what do you do?
Speaker 3 (08:18):
We just have its schedule.
Speaker 1 (08:20):
No matter what you don't follow, you don't break the
schedule we do.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
We try not to break the schedule.
Speaker 2 (08:24):
And the reason why let's not break the scaledual why
do people think that the scheduled time is boring or whatever?
But honestly, like it works for us in our relationship
because we are both so incredibly busy and always tired
that if we didn't schedule it, probably weeks or months.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
Would go by.
Speaker 1 (08:43):
Schedule.
Speaker 4 (08:43):
I gotta get this paperwork filed right away, damn it.
We're supposed to do it in two minutes. Is it
scheduled more than once a week or just once a week?
Speaker 3 (08:52):
It's scheduled once a week.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
And that's so fascinating. Want to try that?
Speaker 6 (08:56):
It is? Well, it's fascinating that you schedule it, because
anytime I try to schedule it, he's.
Speaker 3 (08:59):
Like, why are schedule that's weird?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
Well, in your life and your you don't have kids
still doing sports and like twenty other things.
Speaker 3 (09:05):
But it's so much to be very spontaneous if we want. Yeah,
like there's no there isn't room for spooning.
Speaker 4 (09:10):
Did you ever schedule it? And it's like, let's just
do this real quick because we gotta go to soccer.
Like you no matter what, you don't miss it. Yeah,
it's not like no matter what happens.
Speaker 2 (09:19):
There's been like one or two times where it was
like there, it was impossible to make it happen.
Speaker 3 (09:23):
And then it was like Monday.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Yeah, Monday, skip it.
Speaker 2 (09:31):
Holy moly, we're so spontaneous.
Speaker 1 (09:35):
Monday.
Speaker 3 (09:35):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Sometimes we can do for Spot today. Sometimes we do
it on Monday daytime or nighttime, mid dayDay, whatever ever happened.
Speaker 1 (09:47):
In the daytime in my life. I'm like, that was amazing.
It was the daytime you want
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Does hearing about a true crime case always leave you scouring the internet for the truth behind the story? Dive into your next mystery with Crime Junkie. Every Monday, join your host Ashley Flowers as she unravels all the details of infamous and underreported true crime cases with her best friend Brit Prawat. From cold cases to missing persons and heroes in our community who seek justice, Crime Junkie is your destination for theories and stories you won’t hear anywhere else. Whether you're a seasoned true crime enthusiast or new to the genre, you'll find yourself on the edge of your seat awaiting a new episode every Monday. If you can never get enough true crime... Congratulations, you’ve found your people. Follow to join a community of Crime Junkies! Crime Junkie is presented by audiochuck Media Company.