April 17, 2025 • 9 mins
Omar's bringing the DRAMA today! He's worried his girlfriend is cheating...and we're getting to the bottom of it!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Not only do you need to know if they're cheating,
you deserve to know the truth. War of the Roses
right now with John Jay and Rich on four seven.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Kiss that fam, John Jay and Rich top for War
the Roses. We've got Omar on the line.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Good morning, Omar, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
So you think so much cheating on you?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, it's my girlfriend Destiny. I don't know. So she
used to text me all the time, and that's totally changed.
But I promise I'm not like the jealous type. But
you know, if enough things start to happen, anybody starts
to get suspicious. I'm not crazy for that, right, No,
(00:41):
not at all. I don't think so okay. So yeah,
So it's like she used to always text me, even
when she was at work or even out with her friend,
even if it was like, hey babe, i'm going to
be you know, we're partying late and she was saying
I won't be able to talk and then would still
be texting me and we would check up on each
other all night. But now her phone is on do
(01:02):
not Disturb, like twenty four to seven, and if I call,
it goes straight to voicemail. That's okay, sa, So what
else is going on that makes you think that she's cheating.
I mean, it's just weird because not only like will
her phone just go straight to voicemail now if I
(01:23):
text her, she won't respond for hours, but I'll still
see that she's posting things on her story or that
she's liking stuff on Instagram, and she's like saying, she's like, oh,
she just she does that so she can focus more.
But I don't know. It really feels like something's not right.
She might be hiding something or someone, and I need
(01:46):
to know.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Have you considered that she's just more comfortable with you
now that you're further on in a relationship then.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Thinking that too, maybe detext all the time?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Yeah, maybe she could just get to it later that
maybe her priority is this and then it's not that
you're not but you guys are cool. She could be
thinking that.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I guess maybe she could be thinking that, I'm still
kind of the social media thing though, is really what's
been bothering me? And she said she's been doing that
so she can focus.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Okay, Omar, she doesn't. So you've talked her about it? Yeah, okay,
And it's been going on for how long?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I think this has been going on for maybe three
four months.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Three four months of her not texting you back. Interesting.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay, we'll get her on the phone and we're gonna
Kyleson do her thing and find out who she thinks
is sending her roses. Okay, so you would think she's, oh,
they got to be for my boyfriend, Omar.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
But we'll find out. Okay, you're totally down right right, Okay, yeah, yeah, Kyle,
are you ready?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Okay, war are the roses?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Who does Destiny think is sending her romantic flowers?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
We will find out next with John Jay and Rich,
John Jay and Rich. We're like a whole vie.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
John Jay and Rich in the middle War of the Roses?
You got Omar here, he says his girlfriend over the
last couple of months has been not texting him back
and saying she's real busy. But meanwhile, while she's at work,
she's texting, or she's posting.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
On Instagram, she's liking pictures.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
And that's the short version of the story, right, Omar,
that's pretty much it you've talked about.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
And she says I'm busy.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Rich's point is like, maybe she's just really comfortable you now,
she doesn't feel like.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
She has to, but you've brought it up before. So
that's where we're at. Am I right, Omar, Yeah, that's it. Okay, Now, Kyle,
your angle is first day were.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Books?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know which one are? Okay, you stay quiet,
Omar until the time is right.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Okay, Okay, Well, Hi is Destiny available?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
This is she Hi Destiny.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
So my name's Audrey. I'm with Janner Flowers. Is kind
of embarrassing to make this phone call, but there is
some good news involved in it. It's embarrassing because it's
like my first week working here and I've already messed up,
and I'm hoping you can help me. The good news
is is someone who's trying to send you a beautiful.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Bouquet of roses.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
The bad news is is I've got like two of
the Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Right, it's like a very sweet gesture.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I've got two cars that I've sort of mixed up,
and I want to make sure you've got the right one.
One's like a birthday message. One's like kind of like
romantic and very sweet. Any idea as to who may
be sending you flowers?
Speaker 7 (04:34):
Maybe Chris, Chris, Yes, Chris you've seen therapists. Are you
kidding me? Oh my god, I should have known you
had something to do with this. I should Why am
I not surprised, Omar? I should have known you were
up to this.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Damn therapist would be sending you flowers? Are you in
love with the Steward or something.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
With going on?
Speaker 7 (05:02):
I'm not in love with him, Omar, but he's been
helping me see things clearly. And you know, one of
the main things that he's been helping me see is
that I haven't been in love with you for a while.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Now.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Oh damn, you're on the radio, by the way, You're
on the War of the Roses, John Jay and Rich
This is.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
This is grand, this is just great, awesome. What are
you talking about.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I've been trying to figure out how to say it.
You know, I didn't want to hurt your feelings, but
I felt really alone in this relationship for months, and
therapy has just helped me realize that I'm just done.
I'm done.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Okay, well hold up, hold up, So now you're trying
to break up with me. I little thought you were cheating.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
I'm not cheating, Omar. I've been mentally and emotionally packing
my bags. You just didn't notice because you're too busy
playing detective all the dayn time.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
So this whole time perfect, you haven't checked out, So
this whole time, why didn't you just say something?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
You know, I wanted to do it the right way,
the healthy way, But maybe this is just how the
universe planned it out to happen like this.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Are you romantically involved with Chris because they were romantic
flowers and you went to his name right away.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
I'm not romantic with him, but we've been, you know, talking,
He's been helping me, you know, shed a lot of
my trauma and baggage, and I just thought maybe he
was sending me a nice seesture because we had a
really nice session this past week.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I mean it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Yeah, not for romantic flowers though, but not for like
romantic flowers. That would be a major red flag from
your from your therapy either. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Maybe maybe he likes me, maybe he wants more, but
it's damn sure more attention than I've been getting from OMAR.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
That's tough.
Speaker 7 (06:59):
I'm gladly accept them.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So there are no sorry, that's great.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
So Chris isn't the man you thought he was, he's
not sitting.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You're ridiculous, not.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I mean, it feels like a weight's lifted off destination.
I know, like as I know, this isn't the way
you wanted to hear about this, Omar.
Speaker 7 (07:22):
See things like this. So yeah, it does feel like
a weight has lifted off my shoulder because he's always
on my back like a hawk.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
A back like a hawk. Is that the phrase like
a hawk?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Heard of watching me?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Watching me like a hawk?
Speaker 7 (07:36):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
No, I figured Kyle would understand that misspoken phrase. Of
course I did. I'm lunky on my back. There are
muncky on my back like me like a hawk. That's
what she was trying to get my value, you watch
me or watching me like an.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
All right, sorry Omar, having so far with your broken
relationship or that. But hey, like, at least you know, Omar,
like she wasn't cheating on you, so that has to
be some type of relief.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
But you know, maybe now you can go.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
To therapy and try to heal yourself from this because
this was brutal and.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
You can hold up with the therapist and you're not wrong.
She wasn't interested in you anymore. All that you got right.
So your sense, your spidy senses were on, all right them?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Are you good?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I don't I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Sorry, And we're here for you though.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Thanks.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
We can't let you go like that. I thought you'd
be like, yeah, I'm good man, Thanks, everything's cool.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
I know you will be good because you'll find someone
in a relationship where you feel secure and they're giving
you as much attention as you would like to do.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
You need someone to talk to.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I think I will be okay. I think it'll take
a little bit of time, but I'll be okay. I
just I really didn't expect to figure out like this.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Yeah, sorry, all right man. Well, you know, hold on
a second, hold on can patch him connecting with that
with Gelden, you know, Gelden the therapist. Okay, thanks for
all on a second. It's John Jay and Ridge. That's
War of the Roses.
Not only do you need to know if they're cheating,
you deserve to know the truth. War of the Roses
right now with John Jay and Rich on four seven.
Speaker 2 (00:08):
Kiss that fam, John Jay and Rich top for War
the Roses. We've got Omar on the line.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Good morning, Omar, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2 (00:15):
So you think so much cheating on you?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, it's my girlfriend Destiny. I don't know. So she
used to text me all the time, and that's totally changed.
But I promise I'm not like the jealous type. But
you know, if enough things start to happen, anybody starts
to get suspicious. I'm not crazy for that, right, No,
(00:41):
not at all. I don't think so okay. So yeah,
So it's like she used to always text me, even
when she was at work or even out with her friend,
even if it was like, hey babe, i'm going to
be you know, we're partying late and she was saying
I won't be able to talk and then would still
be texting me and we would check up on each
other all night. But now her phone is on do
(01:02):
not Disturb, like twenty four to seven, and if I call,
it goes straight to voicemail. That's okay, sa, So what
else is going on that makes you think that she's cheating.
I mean, it's just weird because not only like will
her phone just go straight to voicemail now if I
(01:23):
text her, she won't respond for hours, but I'll still
see that she's posting things on her story or that
she's liking stuff on Instagram, and she's like saying, she's like, oh,
she just she does that so she can focus more.
But I don't know. It really feels like something's not right.
She might be hiding something or someone, and I need
(01:46):
to know.
Speaker 4 (01:48):
Have you considered that she's just more comfortable with you
now that you're further on in a relationship then.
Speaker 5 (01:52):
Thinking that too, maybe detext all the time?
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Yeah, maybe she could just get to it later that
maybe her priority is this and then it's not that
you're not but you guys are cool. She could be
thinking that.
Speaker 3 (02:05):
I guess maybe she could be thinking that, I'm still
kind of the social media thing though, is really what's
been bothering me? And she said she's been doing that
so she can focus.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Okay, Omar, she doesn't. So you've talked her about it? Yeah, okay,
And it's been going on for how long?
Speaker 3 (02:27):
I think this has been going on for maybe three
four months.
Speaker 2 (02:31):
Three four months of her not texting you back. Interesting.
Speaker 1 (02:34):
Okay, we'll get her on the phone and we're gonna
Kyleson do her thing and find out who she thinks
is sending her roses. Okay, so you would think she's, oh,
they got to be for my boyfriend, Omar.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
But we'll find out. Okay, you're totally down right right, Okay, yeah, yeah, Kyle,
are you ready?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
I'm ready?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Okay, war are the roses?
Speaker 1 (02:52):
Who does Destiny think is sending her romantic flowers?
Speaker 2 (02:56):
We will find out next with John Jay and Rich,
John Jay and Rich. We're like a whole vie.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
John Jay and Rich in the middle War of the Roses?
You got Omar here, he says his girlfriend over the
last couple of months has been not texting him back
and saying she's real busy. But meanwhile, while she's at work,
she's texting, or she's posting.
Speaker 2 (03:12):
On Instagram, she's liking pictures.
Speaker 1 (03:13):
And that's the short version of the story, right, Omar,
that's pretty much it you've talked about.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
And she says I'm busy.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Rich's point is like, maybe she's just really comfortable you now,
she doesn't feel like.
Speaker 2 (03:22):
She has to, but you've brought it up before. So
that's where we're at. Am I right, Omar, Yeah, that's it. Okay, Now, Kyle,
your angle is first day were.
Speaker 5 (03:34):
Books?
Speaker 2 (03:34):
I don't know which one are? Okay, you stay quiet,
Omar until the time is right.
Speaker 6 (03:40):
Okay, Okay, Well, Hi is Destiny available?
Speaker 1 (03:56):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (03:56):
This is she Hi Destiny.
Speaker 5 (03:58):
So my name's Audrey. I'm with Janner Flowers. Is kind
of embarrassing to make this phone call, but there is
some good news involved in it. It's embarrassing because it's
like my first week working here and I've already messed up,
and I'm hoping you can help me. The good news
is is someone who's trying to send you a beautiful.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Bouquet of roses.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
The bad news is is I've got like two of
the Yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
Right, it's like a very sweet gesture.
Speaker 5 (04:20):
I've got two cars that I've sort of mixed up,
and I want to make sure you've got the right one.
One's like a birthday message. One's like kind of like
romantic and very sweet. Any idea as to who may
be sending you flowers?
Speaker 7 (04:34):
Maybe Chris, Chris, Yes, Chris you've seen therapists. Are you
kidding me? Oh my god, I should have known you
had something to do with this. I should Why am
I not surprised, Omar? I should have known you were
up to this.
Speaker 3 (04:53):
Damn therapist would be sending you flowers? Are you in
love with the Steward or something.
Speaker 1 (04:59):
With going on?
Speaker 7 (05:02):
I'm not in love with him, Omar, but he's been
helping me see things clearly. And you know, one of
the main things that he's been helping me see is
that I haven't been in love with you for a while.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Now.
Speaker 1 (05:11):
Oh damn, you're on the radio, by the way, You're
on the War of the Roses, John Jay and Rich
This is.
Speaker 3 (05:18):
This is grand, this is just great, awesome. What are
you talking about.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I've been trying to figure out how to say it.
You know, I didn't want to hurt your feelings, but
I felt really alone in this relationship for months, and
therapy has just helped me realize that I'm just done.
I'm done.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
Okay, well hold up, hold up, So now you're trying
to break up with me. I little thought you were cheating.
Speaker 7 (05:48):
I'm not cheating, Omar. I've been mentally and emotionally packing
my bags. You just didn't notice because you're too busy
playing detective all the dayn time.
Speaker 3 (05:57):
So this whole time perfect, you haven't checked out, So
this whole time, why didn't you just say something?
Speaker 7 (06:06):
You know, I wanted to do it the right way,
the healthy way, But maybe this is just how the
universe planned it out to happen like this.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
Are you romantically involved with Chris because they were romantic
flowers and you went to his name right away.
Speaker 7 (06:20):
I'm not romantic with him, but we've been, you know, talking,
He's been helping me, you know, shed a lot of
my trauma and baggage, and I just thought maybe he
was sending me a nice seesture because we had a
really nice session this past week.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I mean it makes sense.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Yeah, not for romantic flowers though, but not for like
romantic flowers. That would be a major red flag from
your from your therapy either. I don't know.
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Maybe maybe he likes me, maybe he wants more, but
it's damn sure more attention than I've been getting from OMAR.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
That's tough.
Speaker 7 (06:59):
I'm gladly accept them.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So there are no sorry, that's great.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
So Chris isn't the man you thought he was, he's
not sitting.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
You're ridiculous, not.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
I mean, it feels like a weight's lifted off destination.
I know, like as I know, this isn't the way
you wanted to hear about this, Omar.
Speaker 7 (07:22):
See things like this. So yeah, it does feel like
a weight has lifted off my shoulder because he's always
on my back like a hawk.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
A back like a hawk. Is that the phrase like
a hawk?
Speaker 1 (07:34):
Heard of watching me?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
Watching me like a hawk?
Speaker 7 (07:36):
There you go.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
No, I figured Kyle would understand that misspoken phrase. Of
course I did. I'm lunky on my back. There are
muncky on my back like me like a hawk. That's
what she was trying to get my value, you watch
me or watching me like an.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
All right, sorry Omar, having so far with your broken
relationship or that. But hey, like, at least you know, Omar,
like she wasn't cheating on you, so that has to
be some type of relief.
Speaker 2 (08:06):
But you know, maybe now you can go.
Speaker 5 (08:08):
To therapy and try to heal yourself from this because
this was brutal and.
Speaker 4 (08:11):
You can hold up with the therapist and you're not wrong.
She wasn't interested in you anymore. All that you got right.
So your sense, your spidy senses were on, all right them?
Speaker 2 (08:17):
Are you good?
Speaker 3 (08:20):
I don't I don't think so.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
Sorry, And we're here for you though.
Speaker 3 (08:27):
Thanks.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
We can't let you go like that. I thought you'd
be like, yeah, I'm good man, Thanks, everything's cool.
Speaker 5 (08:33):
I know you will be good because you'll find someone
in a relationship where you feel secure and they're giving
you as much attention as you would like to do.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
You need someone to talk to.
Speaker 5 (08:43):
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
I think I will be okay. I think it'll take
a little bit of time, but I'll be okay. I
just I really didn't expect to figure out like this.
Speaker 1 (08:55):
Yeah, sorry, all right man. Well, you know, hold on
a second, hold on can patch him connecting with that
with Gelden, you know, Gelden the therapist. Okay, thanks for
all on a second. It's John Jay and Ridge. That's
War of the Roses.
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