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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:06):
Yo yo yo Jess hilarious, Good morning, Charlamagne to God,
Peace to the plane.
Speaker 3 (00:10):
It is Tuesday, Good morning. How we feel out there?
I feel blessed, black and holly favored. Happy to be
here another day to starve our beautiful listeners. What's happening?
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And it's just good, you know, to watch people from
different coaches. Minnikan jamaikon just raising.
Speaker 6 (01:01):
Because Chris already started reading Envy, but I'm not telling
you you'll you'll read Envy's Reach Charlamaine.
Speaker 4 (01:08):
Well, it's more related.
Speaker 7 (01:09):
No, it's not.
Speaker 8 (01:10):
That's what that's That's what I felt like. I was like, Okay,
I get it.
Speaker 2 (01:13):
IX, Yeah, I get it. I'm not Dominican, I'm black,
but anyone, it's a good.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Guy to read because you know you black, Jess, and
Chris is Dominicans, so you know you'll got to figure
it out, like how blended mixed relationship?
Speaker 2 (01:27):
Why are you feeling, Jess? Yesterday was your son's birthday?
What you do for your birthday?
Speaker 6 (01:31):
I'm officially the mom of a teenager, so that's thirteen
eighteen on the end of the age. Man is a lot, y'all, Ashton,
he had, you know, his home school now, so he
hasn't been able to get around his friends that he
hasn't seen in over a year.
Speaker 8 (01:45):
And y'oll, he felt so good seeing him there. We
surprised him and took him to this place.
Speaker 6 (01:49):
Called Savazon because he wanted to go to sky Zone
with Skysone stinks and I'm getting pretty tired of the place.
So Xavazon is another It's kind of like it's a
trampoline park, but it's.
Speaker 8 (01:59):
They do zip lining, rock climbing.
Speaker 9 (02:02):
Uh.
Speaker 8 (02:02):
You ever see the not not X games, but you
know when the more Asian kids be one of them competitions.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
Games, the ninja games.
Speaker 8 (02:09):
Yes, they had like ninja.
Speaker 10 (02:11):
Games type of stuff.
Speaker 6 (02:12):
So we he spent like almost all day there. And
then he loves steak so we took him to a
steakhouse some and his friends. And now they upstairs in
my house. Brought some kids back with me, so that's good.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
It's pretty quiet.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
It's pretty quiet because I figured right now they'll be
playing all types of games.
Speaker 8 (02:27):
Right, they just went to sleep at five, That sounds
about right. So they went to sleep at a good
time because now you all would hear them right now.
Speaker 2 (02:35):
All right, well, let's get the show crack and we
got front page news. Today is Jackie Robinson Day.
Speaker 8 (02:39):
Did you know that jockey robbers Jackey?
Speaker 2 (02:42):
I said Jackie Robinson, I said jack jack Jackie Robinson
day will break down when.
Speaker 4 (02:47):
We come Dominicans.
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Yes, Jacky Jackie Robinson, Jackie Robinson, it's the Breakfast Club morning.
Speaker 5 (02:56):
Everybody's d j n V.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Just hilarious. Lam I mean the guy we are the
Breakfast Club. Let's get in some front page news.
Speaker 11 (03:04):
Now.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
Last night was the w NBA Draft.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
It took place at the Shed at Hudson Yards in
New York City, and the number one pick was the
Dallas Wings pick Page Buckers from yukon.
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Page Buckets dropping the clues bonds with page Buckets.
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So congratulations to her. What's up, Morgan, Yeah, that's page Becker.
Speaker 10 (03:22):
Shout out to her.
Speaker 8 (03:23):
She definitely is, you know, a vibe and you should
definitely get into her story because she is an advocate
for our people. Okay, can you tell me what her
last name is because all three of y'all said are wrong.
Speaker 5 (03:33):
Bucker, it's Buckets.
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Oh Buckets is her nickname Paige Buckets.
Speaker 8 (03:40):
So she definitely do that. She definitely do The last
name is what but okay, so first up on front page. Yeah,
let's get into a little bit of more sports. Major
League Baseball is honoring the legacy of Jackie Robinson. Today
is Jackie Robinson Day, marking the anniversary of the day
that he broke baseball's color barrier.
Speaker 12 (03:59):
Now.
Speaker 8 (03:59):
Robinson debut with the Brooklyn Dodgers on April fifteenth, nineteen
forty seven.
Speaker 10 (04:03):
Look not that long ago, y'all.
Speaker 8 (04:05):
To honor the Hall of Famer, all players will wear
his iconic number forty two in Dodger blue. Players, managers, coaches,
and umpires will also wear a special forty two patch
on the side of their baseball caps. And we'll be
established Jackie Robinson Day in two thousand and four. So
shout out to Jackie Robinson.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
Don't tell Trump is Jackie Robinson, that he might ask
why and then sign an executive order that no colors
can be recognized.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
That's sure.
Speaker 10 (04:28):
Oh no, look, Charlotte Magne, speaking of Trump, you was right, okay.
Speaker 8 (04:32):
So despite saying he will respect the Supreme Court's decision,
President Trump and the White House is defending its decision
to deport Kilmar Abrego Garcia, a man from Maryland mistakenly
to deported to a prison in El Salvador. Now, speaking
from the Oval Office yesterday with the president of El Salvador,
Trump again said the courts do not dictate American foreign policy.
(04:53):
This comes as Trump met with El Salvador's president, Naive
Boo Kelly at the White House yesterday and said and
Boo Kelly also said he would not return Abrigo Garcia,
adding that they're not too fond of releasing terrorists and
that he's not going to smuggle someone back into the
US now. During their meeting at the White House, President
Trump spoke more about securing the border and their current
relationship between the US and Al Salvador.
Speaker 10 (05:14):
Let's take a listen.
Speaker 13 (05:16):
But what they've done to us, said the border.
Speaker 4 (05:19):
Should never and can never be forgotten.
Speaker 13 (05:22):
It's a sin what they did, and you are helping
us out.
Speaker 8 (05:27):
So Boo Kelly was He said he was also honored
to be with Trump, adding that what is happening at
the US border in terms of stopping illegal immigration is remarkable,
but let's not forget. The DOJ has admitted that a
Brigo Garcia was not supposed to be sent to Al
Salvador because of an immigration judge's twenty nineteen order barring
him from being sent there now. Attorney General Pam Bondi
(05:48):
said there's evidence that the man is a gang member,
and Homeland Security Advisor Stephen Miller said that the administration
or it's not the administration's job to get him back
to the US.
Speaker 10 (05:57):
Let's take a listen to their comments.
Speaker 14 (06:00):
He was illegally in our country.
Speaker 15 (06:01):
He had been illegally in our country, and in.
Speaker 14 (06:04):
Twenty nineteen, two courts, an immigration court and an appellate
immigration court, ruled that he was a member of MS
thirteen and he was illegally in our country.
Speaker 16 (06:16):
It's very irrogant, even for American media to suggest that
we would even tell El Salvador how to handle their
own citizens as a starting point.
Speaker 13 (06:23):
Is this true?
Speaker 4 (06:24):
I mean, I don't know, I'm not Is any of
that true?
Speaker 8 (06:26):
Yeah, this is a this is well, this is where
we are right now, you know, as updates come every day.
But as for Abrigo Garcia moving forward, it's my understanding
that right now a Maryland Senator Chris van Holland has
requested a meeting with Bukelly to continue efforts to release
and return him back to the United States. But as
of right now, it seems like we are stalled in
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regards to what was he what's happened?
Speaker 7 (06:49):
Well?
Speaker 4 (06:50):
Was he illegally in the country? Was he a member
of MS thirteen? I don't know.
Speaker 8 (06:54):
There's I have not They have not furnished proof that
he is actually a member of MS thirteen. Now he
is a national of El Salvadors, or he is an
Ol Salvador and citizen. But he did have a right
to be here. A judge rule that he had a
right to be in the United States based on the
conditions of what's happening in Al Salvador.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
So yeah, and so the Supreme Court, you.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Know, told him to told the administration to bring him
back in the administration to say, SMD, kiss my ass.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
Pretty much, pretty much.
Speaker 5 (07:23):
Yeah, I hope, I hope.
Speaker 3 (07:25):
You all know we are in a post constitutional society then,
and if we're in a world where president can defight
the Supreme Court, then there are no checks and balances
and democracy as we know it is done.
Speaker 12 (07:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 10 (07:35):
Well, there, there you have it. That's your front page
news for six am. Seven am. We're gonna start with taxes.
Make sure y'all follow yall. Taxes is tax Day? All right?
Speaker 2 (07:42):
All right, we'll get into that next next hour. Everybody else,
get it off your chest. Eight hundred five five one
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Thing.
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an A and it's the fear of little people are midgets.
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Yeah, yeah, I'm definitely of them.
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Okay, all right, brother, I have a good make.
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Y'all laugh this morning.
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I'm not from New York. But if you, if you
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know we live, yeah, but I say the craziest people
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I'm fine, I'm fine.
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I'm fine.
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Charlomne to go out.
Speaker 4 (12:57):
And do a homie peaz king, how you doing? Black man?
Speaker 7 (13:00):
Brother?
Speaker 20 (13:00):
Hey?
Speaker 9 (13:00):
First off, real quick, I was just wanting to talk
about that deportation thing. Y'all make it at once. Stided,
it's not that the US didn't okay the boy to
come back. They okayed him to come back outside.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
Of the door.
Speaker 9 (13:10):
That dude that was with the president, he said, he's.
Speaker 7 (13:13):
Not releasing them.
Speaker 9 (13:13):
He was like, if there was any indication that he
was in a gang or whatever the case. He's like,
I'm not gonna let him potentially let him back out
of the street and send him back to the US.
It was like disrespectful for them. But he was like,
he ain't even thinking about lett him out.
Speaker 7 (13:25):
So it's not on us.
Speaker 9 (13:26):
We were supposed to provide him with a plane the
same way we shifted his ass over there to bring
him back, and that was that could be done.
Speaker 7 (13:32):
But that'll south of the door. Be your president, Prime Minister.
Speaker 9 (13:35):
He's like, nah, he ain't even letting men end the
pain in the idea. I don't know where the fight
goes from there.
Speaker 3 (13:40):
That is that is, that is true, But you're lying.
Donald Trump absolutely positively said no. Yes, the guy from
out Salvador said that too, but Donald Trump actually said
no as well, what are you talking about?
Speaker 9 (13:54):
Yeah, he said no, like he's not provided, he's not
sending a plane and bring his bring his assack.
Speaker 4 (13:58):
Like the court granted it, bring him back.
Speaker 9 (14:00):
All right, bet do it, how you do it? But
he Falbadorian ain't having He's like, nah, it ain't gonna happen.
Speaker 3 (14:07):
That's you're you're not telling the story correctly, sir, Like
you're telling half of the truth.
Speaker 4 (14:11):
And I don't understand why.
Speaker 3 (14:13):
Like Trump literally gave the Supreme Court yesterday, well you
need to read again. Trump literally gave the Supreme Court
his middle finger. He's defining the Supreme Court.
Speaker 9 (14:21):
And then one more thing to deal with the it's
the politics and all that.
Speaker 10 (14:25):
Man.
Speaker 9 (14:26):
I just want the people to know, this is big business, man.
Speaker 7 (14:28):
This ain't for us. Man.
Speaker 9 (14:29):
We just sit back and watch and just let this
thing happen. Because again, our ancestors gave the peat the
power and they hit it on us all over. So
it's not even our story. Let's just say play out
and everybody's just what you need to do for us.
That's what we need to focus on us.
Speaker 2 (14:43):
And that's what I want to say now that I
agree with all right, political pundit from page thank you brother,
you got it, my brother, get it off your chest.
Speaker 5 (14:52):
Eight hundred and five eight five one oh five one.
We got to let this, Laura comeing up.
Speaker 23 (14:55):
Yes, so Blue Origin sent Gail King and Katie Perry
and all the girls of Space.
Speaker 5 (14:59):
Yeah, and we thought it was all good.
Speaker 15 (15:01):
They made it back home, they were safe.
Speaker 23 (15:02):
But baby, it's some people upset a lot of people,
and I didn't know it was such an issue, but
over what them going to space, it's a whole thing.
Speaker 15 (15:11):
I ain't never seen the girls fight like this.
Speaker 4 (15:12):
You No, they pissed off about it.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Yes, talking about the money, the amount of money that
they spent, and that's not the environment. Yes, you're gonna
say the names of people that are upset.
Speaker 5 (15:21):
Yes, you got we do when we come back.
Speaker 4 (15:24):
It's the Breakfast Club.
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Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
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Warning everybody, it's DJ env just hilarious.
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Charlamagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get
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Lauren becoming the street fast.
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She gets them from somebody that knows somebody detail.
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I'm a home girl that knows a little bit about everything.
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She'd be having the latest on the.
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Latest with Lauren la Rosa.
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A little bit of everything.
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It's the last the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 8 (15:58):
All right.
Speaker 23 (15:59):
So yesterday we talked about Gail King, Katy Perry. There's
a ton of women that went up in space yesterday,
yel King, Ahabo, Amanda gwyn Sel, gel King, already, Carrie
and Flynn and Lauren Sanchez went up to space. Now
they were there for the total it all was about
(16:19):
eleven minutes. They went up, They circulated for a bit.
There's videos of them. You see them like floating and
allegedly Katy Perry sung while she was in the air
and they come back down and they hit the ground.
So when they hit the ground, we're seeing them, you know,
get out of the shuttle and everything's like yay, go,
y'all did it. And then all of a sudden online
the people not even after during it, the people just
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started getting so.
Speaker 4 (16:42):
Upset when did the online about something y'all.
Speaker 23 (16:46):
Now, and y'all know, I'll be on Twitter and I'll
be seeing the upset and I'll be like, Okay, I
guess this. I was like, there's so much more to
be upset about, and their issue was there's so much
more we could be spending time and resources on. So
model Emily Rodakowski is one of the people she got
on and she posted a video let's say a listen.
Speaker 8 (17:02):
That's space mission this morning.
Speaker 22 (17:04):
That's an end time ship, Like this is beyond parody
thing that you care about mother Earth? And it's about
Mother Earth and you're going up in a spaceship that
is built and paid for by a company that's single
handedly destroying the planet. Got the state of the world,
and think about how many resources went into putting these
women into space for what?
Speaker 12 (17:23):
For what?
Speaker 10 (17:23):
What was the marketing there? And then to try to
make it like I'm disgusted.
Speaker 13 (17:27):
Literally, I'm disgusting.
Speaker 15 (17:29):
Yeah, And that was a lot of people's sentiment.
Speaker 8 (17:32):
I know.
Speaker 23 (17:32):
I saw Olivia moun a lot of people sentiments, a
lot of people sentiment. I saw Olivia Mon on Gin
and Friends yesterday and she said the same thing, like
it's disgusting. They're wasting resources, they're destroying our earth. They
should not be with like go Women is about and
I'm like, oh my god, was resources though they're talking about.
Speaker 15 (17:50):
I guess like just.
Speaker 4 (17:51):
Because it wasn't a government funded project.
Speaker 15 (17:54):
I think that they're talking about the I don't know, basically.
Speaker 10 (17:59):
Broke they you know what I mean?
Speaker 8 (18:01):
They made they upset. They probably need some bread. It's
like yo, what like it was just stupid for people
to get upset.
Speaker 6 (18:08):
The interesting thing that I saw, Wendy's had something to say. Yes,
the restaurant, Wendy's Katie Perry. They was like Katie Party
returns back from space, Wendy's going to Center at his
back when they ain't say Center is back, but they
said send her back up there.
Speaker 3 (18:22):
Yes, but it wasn't publicly funded. From what I read,
it wasn't a commercial mission. It wasn't paid by taxpayer dollars. Like, so,
what's what's the issue?
Speaker 4 (18:30):
I thought? I actually thought Jeff Bezos paid for That's
what I thought.
Speaker 15 (18:35):
Yeah, I don't know who pays for how that works.
Speaker 23 (18:36):
But I also did read too because people were so upset,
I wanted to know how, like is it really destroying
it as far as like the solution and stuff like that,
and they said today all of this stuff is sustainable
that he's been using.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
I don't know, y'all, but those are the same people
that are mad at celebrities when they fly private. When
you know that we mad at Taylor Swift that we
made let the celebrities for flying private. It messes up
the community, messes up the world and all that other stuff.
But I mean, like you said, Sean, if they paid
it out their own pocket, I.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
Mean that's from what I read. From what I read,
the government didn't fund that trip to space. It was
actually curated by Jeff Baso's fiance and it wasn't publicly funded.
So I don't know whose resources are they talking about.
Jeff Basios want to spend his own money on stuff
like that, I don't. For commercial space tourism, I don't care.
Speaker 4 (19:18):
Yeah.
Speaker 23 (19:18):
It says that the n S thirty one, which was
their flight, was paid for by individuals on board, as
well as Blue Origin itself, while the exact amount paid
by each individual was not publicly disclosed. You know, normally
when people bid for these seats, the highest big can
go for twenty eight million dollars, but it's not disclosed
how much they paid. The company also requires a refundable
deposit of one hundred and fifty thousand dollars, but their
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process is not disclosed.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
And Blue Origin has received government contracts before, but when
it comes to their commercial space tourism, it's separate from that, correct,
So this isn't publicly funded.
Speaker 15 (19:49):
And y'all know this is our girl.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
I saw.
Speaker 23 (19:52):
The first person I saw actually on my timeline this
morning was a Senator Nina from Senator and Nina Turner.
She said, if Jeff Bezos can send kad Pair into space,
he can pay a wealth tax, so every American has
debt free health care.
Speaker 4 (20:04):
Noah, I agree with that. We started.
Speaker 23 (20:05):
That started a huge threat of conversation online as well.
But funny enough, you know when Gail went up into space,
y'all saw the video of her when she was walking
down bringing to Bill.
Speaker 15 (20:15):
People was like, oh, Gail is regretting this.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
So she looked real good dropping the Blues boss of Gael.
Speaker 7 (20:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 23 (20:25):
So Oprah was there to send her off and they
gave each other hug. This is the photo of her
looking a little bit nervous.
Speaker 4 (20:31):
She said she looked nervous.
Speaker 15 (20:33):
She says she was a bit nervous.
Speaker 23 (20:34):
But let's take a listen to her response to her
going viral yesterday, hearing.
Speaker 24 (20:38):
I have become a meme because my facial expressions when
I was walking on the bridge to get on the capsule.
I didn't realize that I was being photographed at that moment,
nor did I realize that my expression looked so terrified.
Speaker 4 (20:51):
But I was.
Speaker 18 (20:51):
I was.
Speaker 8 (20:52):
I just thought, I'm just gonna go in and get
in my seat.
Speaker 4 (20:55):
I'm gonna do this.
Speaker 24 (20:56):
I knew I was always going to do it, all
though you were told that if you're wind to back out,
you have to do so before two minutes and thirty seconds.
Speaker 3 (21:04):
You have to say.
Speaker 10 (21:05):
I'm not going to fly.
Speaker 15 (21:07):
Well, I knew I wasn't going to be that guy.
Speaker 5 (21:08):
But getting on it was a little scary.
Speaker 15 (21:11):
It was a little scary.
Speaker 24 (21:13):
So you show that I was apprehensive. I tell you,
look at the picture when I got off the capsule.
That's the one that matters. That's the victory speech.
Speaker 5 (21:21):
That's the one that matters.
Speaker 10 (21:23):
I'm so glad to be back on earth.
Speaker 8 (21:24):
Welcome home.
Speaker 4 (21:25):
That's a new meaning down up.
Speaker 15 (21:28):
Yes, Oh my god, yes, but it's just crazy for
you to say about Gail King.
Speaker 6 (21:34):
But yeah, right, that's the lady who just said last week,
we're we're talking about what she said, Jane.
Speaker 23 (21:42):
So when she got off the she got off the flight, Gail,
like everybody else, they were kissing the ground and they
were doing a ton of stuff.
Speaker 4 (21:49):
She had she had a dirt in her hands hand.
Speaker 15 (21:52):
You know, I think this is almost like thought.
Speaker 3 (21:54):
I thought she was doing a celebratory tourture, not video.
Shep came, came off the spaceship and did a celebratory
twark dropping the.
Speaker 4 (22:05):
Clues bumps and Gail can't go ahead.
Speaker 2 (22:06):
Ye, And I don't think there's many people that wouldn't
have this type of face when they're going in the space.
I don't think there's anybody. Now you have this face
because you're scared. You're scared, and you're thinking about did
I poop?
Speaker 4 (22:16):
Did I pee? Did I make sure I leave everything
for my family? Yes, you have this face.
Speaker 6 (22:20):
What I would be thinking about is how it took
eight well not much to bring two people that got
stuck up there back.
Speaker 10 (22:25):
But y'all went up there and what like a couple
of minutes.
Speaker 4 (22:28):
But y'all it be so dramatic.
Speaker 13 (22:30):
Did I pee?
Speaker 4 (22:31):
Did I pooped everything that my family has? Leave it everything?
Speaker 5 (22:36):
That's what you're thinking, Like what else would you be thinking?
Speaker 2 (22:38):
Yes, that's what you're thinking. I went scott diving and
I thought the same thing. I had this same face on.
Did I leave everything for my kids? Did I write
everything right that I pee that I pop?
Speaker 3 (22:46):
Yes, because you're nervous as ishue or if you're gonna die,
do no matter if you pee the poop right right?
Speaker 4 (22:50):
That's the point.
Speaker 5 (22:51):
No, because if you have to go to the bathroom
on your way up, you did no planning on dying.
Speaker 10 (22:55):
What's the point.
Speaker 2 (22:55):
But no, it's not just about dying. If you're in
a rocket ship going the space, there is no from
so you got to just hold you playing on. I'm
not playing on just in case, in case we would.
Speaker 15 (23:06):
Say there is no bathroom, like we thought.
Speaker 8 (23:08):
You'd just excuse me, excuse me, go to bath I
do want to know why went these people?
Speaker 10 (23:15):
That's that's I know.
Speaker 23 (23:16):
And they straight at her to they they got the
screenshot of her face. They said, can we send her back?
Speaker 8 (23:20):
And send her back like she something?
Speaker 3 (23:23):
Yeah, she must have said something. About some fast food
when she landed or something. That's some other fast food.
Speaker 15 (23:29):
I don't know. I didn't see that, but that cray.
Speaker 4 (23:32):
People love to see celebrities and wealthy people miserable.
Speaker 3 (23:35):
Yes, and and and even if they were to do
some type of charity, they would get criticized for that.
Speaker 4 (23:41):
Right, they didn't give enough. Why did they give it
to that charity? So you damn if you do your
damn if you don't. Yeah, well, congratulates those ladies. There's
no pictures, though they have pictures from them in face videos.
Speaker 23 (23:54):
There's video of them when they come down, because after
a certain point you parachute and you just hit the ground.
Speaker 8 (23:58):
They're like, they're like yelling.
Speaker 7 (24:02):
His videos.
Speaker 8 (24:02):
I ain't seen no pictures, but they got videos.
Speaker 2 (24:04):
I'll show you all right, Well that is the latest
with Laura. Now when we come back, we got front
page news. So don't go anywhere. It's to breakfast Lugal morning.
You're checking out the breakfast club.
Speaker 5 (24:14):
Everybody is DJ NV just hilarious, Charlamagne the guy.
Speaker 2 (24:18):
We are to breakfast club. Let's get back in some
front page news with Morgans.
Speaker 8 (24:22):
Yeah, NV, I know you like to start with sports,
but let's start with some sports at the White House.
So President's Trump honored the Ohio State buck Guys at
the White House yesterday for winning the National Championship, and JD. Vance,
the Vice President, dropped the championship trophy after the ceremony.
Speaker 10 (24:38):
I cannot believe it. That's that c is circulating online.
Did y'all see it?
Speaker 3 (24:43):
I did see the trophy looking very unmanly, well for
for an administration that I like to talk about people
being so manly.
Speaker 4 (24:50):
Boy, you didn't look manly at all.
Speaker 5 (24:51):
Definitely did not lift that thing for anything.
Speaker 8 (24:54):
So Trump highlighted the buck Eyes path to the title
and said that he expects to see quarterback Will Howard
play in the NFL for you now.
Speaker 10 (25:00):
Vice President JD.
Speaker 8 (25:01):
Vance, who is from Ohio, joked that he asked the
President if he could skip the inauguration to attend the
National Championship.
Speaker 10 (25:09):
Let's sack a listen to those comments at the ceremony.
Speaker 18 (25:12):
This was a historic year in college football. Standing together today,
these men in the first college think of that, are
the first college football players in history who can proudly
call themselves twelve team playoff championship, the first ones.
Speaker 16 (25:26):
That's right, I asked the President on January the twenty
They said, Sir, would you mind if I skipped that
final inaugural ball to go to the Ohio State National
Championship game? And the President said no, but we'll have
him at the White House.
Speaker 7 (25:38):
So here we are.
Speaker 10 (25:39):
Yeah, So there they are.
Speaker 8 (25:40):
Ohio State defeated a Notre Dame to claim its first
title since twenty fourteen, so congratulations to them. New York
Mayor Eric Adams he visited the dr on Monday to
pay your respects to those who died during last week's
night club roof collapse. Now Mayor Adams visited the site
of the tragedy, flanked by members of staff and Dominican officials,
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offering his support to the victims and their families. Let's
take a listen to New York City Mayor Eric Adams
and his comments.
Speaker 4 (26:09):
Your brother from America is here to be with you
during this time.
Speaker 2 (26:12):
During crises and tragedies, Families pray, Families lift each other up,
family hug each other.
Speaker 4 (26:19):
My visit today is my hug, so it.
Speaker 10 (26:21):
Also comes as New York's.
Speaker 8 (26:24):
Of course, you guys are where New York has a
large Dominican population, and they remain in morning following the
April seventh incident. Now New York Governor Kathy Hopel was
also in the city on Monday, delivering remarks out of
vigil in the Bronx for the victims. So that is
a tragic, tragic story. But I will continue to keep
you updated as that story develops.
Speaker 10 (26:43):
And of course, today y'all is tax day. Have you
filed your taxes? Have you filed your taxes?
Speaker 8 (26:48):
Taxes are due to day, and if you haven't even
started or you're not done yet, there is still hope.
Speaker 10 (26:53):
If you're in a crunch, you need to file for
an extension.
Speaker 8 (26:56):
The key thing to keep in mind is to file
your extension today, but you will give you at least
six months. So taxpayers impacted by natural disasters, which we
know there have been a lot of in the last year.
In twelve states have automatic tax extensions to file and
pay their twenty twenty four taxes. Now, some extensions only
apply to certain areas within those states that were actually
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impacted by storms or fires.
Speaker 5 (27:19):
You know what have you?
Speaker 10 (27:21):
If you file for an extension, you need to file.
Speaker 8 (27:24):
You need a form a form forty eight sixty eight
on IRS dot gov. That's forty eight sixty eight on
IRS dot gov, which gives you an automatic extension for
six months.
Speaker 10 (27:34):
So just don't not not file, Okay, don't do just
just don't do that.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
You flay with DIRS if you want to listen, you
ain't got a file, but DIARYSS will find you.
Speaker 13 (27:44):
That's right.
Speaker 4 (27:44):
You can run, but you cannot hip.
Speaker 10 (27:46):
And don't forget they've given away. The agency is working
with immigration too, so you know, just keep that in
mind as well. It's something to keep in mind. But
I'm not gonna get too much into that. That's your
front page news.
Speaker 8 (27:56):
Y'all can follow me on socials at Morgan Media and
for warn the news coverage followed Black Information Network and
download the free iHeartRadio app.
Speaker 10 (28:04):
Visit us at vii nnews dot com.
Speaker 4 (28:07):
See y'all all right, thank you.
Speaker 2 (28:09):
Now, when we come back, my lovely beautiful wife will
be joining us this morning. Our new book, Real Life,
Real Family is in stores today and we're gonna talk
about it.
Speaker 4 (28:18):
We'll do it when we come back. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 13 (28:19):
Good morning, the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 4 (28:24):
Yeah, David's wanting to show to Breakfast Club. Charlamagne and
God Lauren l Ross is here, Jess Hilarious is here.
Who's feeling in for Envy? Laura l Roose is feeling in?
Speaker 13 (28:34):
Forby?
Speaker 4 (28:34):
Is it me filling in? He's here? I'm here, she's
feeling in?
Speaker 10 (28:38):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (28:38):
Yeah, he's a guest today though, because his new book
Real Life, Real Family with the Queen of the House.
Speaker 4 (28:44):
Yeah, Casey is out right now. How are you feeling here?
Speaker 25 (28:47):
Both by being given the opportunity to write a book
about something that is the most important thing to me,
the thing I'm the most passionate about, the thing that
brings me the most joy, family, parenting, my household, our home.
So yes, I'm very humbled.
Speaker 10 (29:05):
This is the second book. Yes, it's amazing.
Speaker 8 (29:07):
You know what, let's just rewind it back for those
who don't know who is the Ksey Crew? Where did
that name come from? How did y'all get started?
Speaker 5 (29:16):
Do you remember the carew Yes, our last name?
Speaker 4 (29:19):
What do you mean?
Speaker 12 (29:19):
No?
Speaker 25 (29:20):
No, no, But do you remember how we came up
with the name?
Speaker 4 (29:22):
Come up with the name.
Speaker 25 (29:23):
We were doing our first podcast, and it was before
we were doing like the audio version of the video version.
It was just the audio version, and we started the
podcast without a name and we sat there and we
kind of was coming up with like different names, and
one of us said, well, how about the k C crew.
You know, our last name is Casey. We have a
whole crew of kids, a whole gaggle. What about the
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k C crew. And then people you know, DMed us
and emailed and whatnot, and they said, yeah, we love
that name. We love that name. So we decided to
call ourselves the k C Crew.
Speaker 4 (29:52):
Amazing that's where it came out.
Speaker 23 (29:55):
And whenever you post on social you always hashtag the
k C Crew. Yes, and he does his well. But
one of the things that you guys do really good
from the podcast to bringing it online is you pay
attention to the comments and the Responseski. Yeah, and you
guys bring them into the podcast, but you also reflect
on them on social media. So I want to read
one of the posts that we pulled, and I thought
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that this was great. You inspired me. This is someone
commenting to you guys. You inspired me. I wish all
parents had this level of intention, planning and vibe. Truth is,
most parents, moms are stressed, overworked by trying to make
ends meet, in harboring trauma. Therefore, it's passed down to
the children. You've passed down light and love. Because of
that and because of what you are, high five to
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all of the parents doing their best, and you use
that as a moment to talk about like, no, it
get a little crazy over here, but oh yeah, but
it's important because when you if you've ever been around
your family, it is a lot of love and a
lot of light.
Speaker 15 (30:48):
But I'm sure on the inside things get crazy.
Speaker 25 (30:50):
Well, you know, that's a big misconception. People assume that
because you love a certain lifestyle or because you've earned
a certain financial status, that you don't have the same
problems that they have, you know. So that comment really
really stood out to me because she spoke on the
troubles and the trauma and the word trauma that she used,
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and Rashan will speak on the word trauma sometimes he
feels as though it's a word that's overused, but it's
a word that represents something that so many people endure.
The difference now is that we have words to identify
how we feel and what we go through and it's articulated.
Because when our feelings and our experiences are articulated, then
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you're able to communicate. People are able to understand you.
You're able to understand other people. You're able to have
empathy and compassion for other people because now we're all
speaking a universal language. Like the word triggered, like the
word trauma, like the word gas. You know, these are
things that some may think are overused now, but yes,
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but there is value there. There is value there because
now we can see each each other, we understand each other.
Speaker 3 (32:02):
When you're trying to create a safe space, you know,
how is it to venture into an unsafe space like
the comments, especially when somebody looks on the air every day,
you know, I mean, you have an opinion about every day.
Speaker 25 (32:12):
So I read every single comment.
Speaker 15 (32:18):
I interact.
Speaker 25 (32:20):
It started when I had a lower follower account. It
started because I always felt that if someone follows me,
that's an investment. In a small investment, maybe, but it's
an investment that they put into me. And they're looking
at my content content, they're looking at my pictures, and
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you left a comment, I want to respond back to you.
I used to respond to almost every comment, you know,
But then when my followers went up, I wasn't really
able to do that, and that was something that you know,
I had to take that on the chin, I wasn't
able to, but it's a sign of respect. And you said,
why do I do that to myself? Because I'm strong
enough to do that. I'm strong enough to do that.
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The comments don't if they are negative, and I have
to say I don't receive a lot of negative comments, thankfully,
thank God. But if they are negative, I look at
it as insight. I might ask myself, why might someone
have that perspective to me? It feeds my mental because
I'm a thinker. I'm a deep thinker. I'm all over things.
I love to understand people. So for me, the comments
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are food and they also bring me happiness when they're good.
It lets you know that you're reaching someone whatever it
is that you're putting out, because it's in the sense
of sharing. There's a lot of things that I don't share,
so if I choose to share and it's well received,
then that's a good feeling. I think that's why a
lot of people are on or part of the reason
why a lot of people are on social media. You
know what I mean, and I'm strong enough to do so,
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and that's because of the way that I was raised.
I was raised to be a very strong and resilient woman.
It comes directly from my parents. I'm fortunate in the
sense that I can look back and identify things about
the way that I was raised that created the individual,
the woman, the mother, the wife that I am, and
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it's for me. It's a very beautiful thing. Both of
my parents are no longer here, so to be able
to say, wow, when my mother did this every single day,
or when she took me here once a week, or
when she said this to me, and those compliments, and
that the way that she fed me and she fed
my soul, and the joy that I experienced and the
amount of fun that I had as a kid, like
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I loved my life. And it's not because we were wealthy.
Speaker 7 (34:35):
We were not.
Speaker 25 (34:35):
We were a middle class family. I'm from Brooklyn, from
East Flatbush. We weren't raised, you know, like I'm from
an urban area. And it's not It had nothing to
do with money. It had nothing to do with wealth.
It had everything to do with what my parents poured
into my home and the love that I felt. And
that is what we put into writing this book. There's
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a lot of books that we ca you know, so
many ideas came. Oh because real life for love was
a huge success. It was a national bestseller. So it's
I go, you can write a book about this. We said,
we want to write a book about family. It's what
we know best. It's what we know best. We've had
so many ups, so many downs, so many wins, so
many losses, so many things that we thought we were
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doing right that we weren't. That we had to regroup
and make sure that we were balanced, you know, as
as a married couple. Because when we didn't agree, it's
like my way is better, know what my way is better?
And this, you know, we had to come to a
meeting of the minds.
Speaker 10 (35:33):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 25 (35:34):
So our relationship, you know, the relationship grew, you know,
because we had to learn how to see eye to
eye as parents. So there was just there was many
many ups and downs, and we wanted to pour that
all into a book.
Speaker 11 (35:47):
You know.
Speaker 25 (35:47):
We wanted to let everyone know like it's really that
village mentality. It's really that like we are a community,
especially our black community because I'm black.
Speaker 26 (35:58):
Yes, yeah, yeah, for the record, for the record, Spanish, but.
Speaker 25 (36:13):
I know that you're well aware because you speak to
things of this nature often. But our history is being
erased in schools, and it's being stripped away silently in society.
So the foundation starts in our homes. We have to
teach children how to identify themselves. We have to teach
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children that sense of belonging and they have to understand
that they come from something meaningful. And if you leave
it up to society to teach them that, you're going
to wind up with children that are lost, that are overlooked,
that don't know how to identify themselves, that get taken
advantage of, and that are susceptible to what society wants
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for them. So for us, our core, our nucleus, our foundation,
our home supersedes anything else in this world. We put
our family first.
Speaker 2 (37:11):
When we come back, we have more we Gia Casey
our book, Real Life, Real Family is in stores right now,
a guide to raising empowered children.
Speaker 4 (37:19):
We'll be back in minutes. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (37:21):
Good morning, Jesse Larian Charlamage, the God we are the
Breakfast Weblor Barosa is here as well as we're kicking
it with.
Speaker 2 (37:30):
Gia Casey. Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is
out today. You can pick it up at Amazon, Barnes
and Nobles all audible, Jess, would.
Speaker 8 (37:38):
You say that you and and we have two different
parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient parent. Who was the
more lenient parent?
Speaker 4 (37:47):
It depends what it is like.
Speaker 2 (37:49):
You know, everybody knows my dad is retired police officer,
ex military, so I'm disciplined. I was the yellow the
screamer because I said so, Gea is a lot different,
like seven hours, like she wants to know why.
Speaker 10 (38:03):
Yeah, how did you feel that she likes to break down?
Speaker 4 (38:06):
Yeah, you don't get it.
Speaker 8 (38:07):
You're gonna get it by the end of the right.
Speaker 26 (38:10):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (38:11):
So you got to think, really think before you speak
to up because she's like, all right, explain that, like
I just said it just because no, no, no, explain it.
But so I'm more like, because I said so, She's
more like, well, you can't go to the mall because
of this, because this could happen. Explain your parents extole
mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't
ask why, it just it was what it was you
just figured out later.
Speaker 4 (38:32):
Is a little different. I prefer the explanation.
Speaker 1 (38:34):
Yeah.
Speaker 25 (38:35):
So that's how my parents were with me. I knew
that my parents were invested in me living a happy,
fulfilled and fun life, and we didn't go lightly on
the fun And because I knew that at D and
my parents never said no just for the sake of
saying no. Because parents are overworked and they are stressed,
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and the last thing they want to hear when they
walk through the door is mommy, can you take me here?
Speaker 5 (39:01):
Can you buy me this?
Speaker 26 (39:02):
Can we watch this together?
Speaker 25 (39:03):
Can we go like flow down?
Speaker 12 (39:05):
No?
Speaker 25 (39:06):
And sometimes you say no, you don't even know why
you're saying no. That's not a good parenting technique. You
really have to take a moment. You have to take
a beat. We all have to take a beat to
listen to our children and be patient. And because I
knew that my parents were invested in me that way,
I knew that when they said no, there was a
good reason.
Speaker 4 (39:25):
How do you make sure you not you're raising the
kids out of love and not fear them.
Speaker 25 (39:29):
That's such a good question. It comes with the explanations.
Speaker 26 (39:33):
Do you know what I mean?
Speaker 25 (39:34):
I don't tell them you can't do this and you
can't do that? Why because I said so? Let me
explain to you why. You know, sometimes we'll watch the
news together, you know, when they're at an appropriate age
at about nine years old, you know. I think that
they're mature enough to ingest certain things. So what I
do is I would record it on my DVR and
then cherry pick different stories that I think that are appropriate,
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that speak to the protective measures that we take on them,
you know what I mean. So it's like, if I
see a child abduction that's not too traumatic, I might
save that and then show it to a child that's
old enough.
Speaker 7 (40:09):
You know.
Speaker 25 (40:09):
I did it with Madison, I did it with Logan,
and I find that they take that into their adult
lives and they're very, very like. Madison walks around like
a police officer. She has a boyfriend. His name is Andrew,
and when they go into a restaurant, she's the one
that sits facing the door. She feels like the protective
force in that relationship because her head is always on swivel,
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you know what I mean. She could tell you a
car that was driving six cars ahead, you know, and
she's always paying attention to license plates. When she was young,
I used to go through like in case you get
kidnapped scenarios because it's the type of information that can
save a life. Girls are being taken. So if you
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have a young girl, it is very proactive to educate
them about the realities and the tricks and the cons
that people. You know, because even me, as proactive as
I try to be, that whole technique, with a baby
crying outside your house, I would I would be inclined
to open the door if I hear a baby crying
and someone that sounds like a mother yelling and screaming
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outside the house. I am that type of person, but
not me, But now I am I am. I would
my heart, with my ie would be inclined to open
that door. But now with all the knowledge and some
of the good things about social media is that so
much knowledge is being spread, so now we're consuming good
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information as well. So I heard that, I'm like, wow,
that's absolutely right. It jogs your thinking. It makes you say, oh,
wait a minute. I do have to put myself first,
even if someone else, a stranger, seems to be in need.
I have to prioritize myself, my home, my family. So
you know, it's it's important to spread information and to
teach your kids, even though it may be a little scary,
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but you do have to do it in a way
where it doesn't incite fear.
Speaker 8 (42:05):
How y'all pick and choose.
Speaker 15 (42:06):
What do y'all like, What y'all decide to be transparent about?
Like it's just so much.
Speaker 23 (42:09):
Your kids are getting older and they're like, you know,
like they're wanting to walk by themselves with their friends.
Speaker 2 (42:14):
If it was up to me, I'm transparent with everything.
Right has to hold back a lot, like for instance,
like with Logan. Right, Logan when he was in high
school used to get picked on all the time. But
he used to get picked on. Guess for what reason?
Speaker 5 (42:26):
No, because because Charlamagne.
Speaker 4 (42:29):
Yes, yes, so.
Speaker 2 (42:32):
When you gave me the ask, that's why he gave
me the buck cake when he gave me not much better.
You know, I'm not about to He.
Speaker 4 (42:53):
Used to be getting made fun of me because of that.
Speaker 2 (42:54):
So but the reason I'm so transparent is there's so
many families and people dealing with the same things but
never want to talk about it.
Speaker 4 (43:01):
Scared too.
Speaker 2 (43:02):
So that's why I talked about the orgasm thing in
the first book. That's why in this in the.
Speaker 5 (43:06):
Second book, we talk about you know, the time lag
thing from the first.
Speaker 7 (43:12):
No, every.
Speaker 5 (43:17):
You want to do right, No, even.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
Like in this book we talk about the time that that, Uh,
Logan found a bloody condom at one of his friend's.
Speaker 5 (43:27):
House, so he can't, but he's comfortable.
Speaker 4 (43:30):
Why you're looking at that it wasn't mine. He's like,
oh he found the bloody.
Speaker 5 (43:38):
Right, it wasn't our house.
Speaker 25 (43:40):
Right, friends house, and and he was like maybe nine
years old, nine years old.
Speaker 4 (43:47):
He's about nine years old when he was comfortable enough to.
Speaker 25 (43:49):
Keep he was in the basement and the little boy
had an older brother.
Speaker 2 (43:54):
Yeahs, so she had That's when we had the sex
talk and had to have the sex talk with Logan
and Madison.
Speaker 5 (44:07):
What kind of sex talk though, It wasn't a back
door sex.
Speaker 7 (44:10):
Talk that they just.
Speaker 10 (44:17):
They got a full blown sex talk.
Speaker 25 (44:20):
They had to understand because if you leave it back.
Speaker 4 (44:24):
That's what I'm really trying to figure out. Why was
the condon bloody?
Speaker 8 (44:27):
I'm really when somebody ran red, like yeah, somebody, but open.
Speaker 15 (44:38):
Somebody ran it would be like a first time thing.
Speaker 25 (44:40):
Yeah yeah, but no, they at that point I found
that they were old enough and mature enough, and you're
they're encountering things now, these conversations are being had amongst
their peers, and I knew that if I didn't set
them straight that they were going to be absorbing all
of this wrong information and wrong idea. So I told
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them sex feels good. It's a pleasureful experience. God made
us that way because God wants us to reproduce. He
wants us to create offspring. So he made it something
that we would enjoy. But it's meant for someone that
you love, and that's the reason why. So they're like, oh, okay,
so what is it.
Speaker 10 (45:21):
Like and what did you say?
Speaker 25 (45:24):
Okay, if I'm being honest, I told them that there
is a penis and there is a vagina.
Speaker 27 (45:29):
And my son Logan was like, so like this. I
was like, yeah, something like that. I said, you know,
some people look at it as a negative thing. No, no, no,
he really didn't know. He really didn't.
Speaker 4 (45:47):
He really didn't.
Speaker 25 (45:48):
Even like my eleven year old son right now, he
does not know. So when they asked me questions that
I don't want them to know about. And he's older
than Logan was. But now with I have a better
grip on his friends and a grip on what he's
exposed to on his phone and whatnot in Parameter's boundaries,
so I'm really abreast of what he knows and what
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he doesn't and our lines of communication are way better.
Speaker 2 (46:12):
Yeah, we have more with Gia Casey when we come back.
Our new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.
It's a Guy to Raise It, empowered children and it's
the Breakfast Club the War.
Speaker 5 (46:21):
Bring Everybody's dj n V, Jesse, Hilarry and Charlamagne to God.
Speaker 2 (46:25):
We are the Breakfast Club. Long LaRosa is here as
well as we're kicking it with Gia Casey. Our new book,
Real Life, Real Family is out today. You can pick
it up at Amazon, Bonds and Nobles or Audible.
Speaker 6 (46:37):
Jess, you have six kids, So is there anything that
you felt like in the beginning got itt know and
until y'all got to that six kid.
Speaker 25 (46:46):
Of course, yeah, like what were some of the I'll
give you a next example, But you didn't know.
Speaker 8 (46:51):
You just was like man Rashan winging this like I'll.
Speaker 25 (46:53):
Give you, I'll give you an example. So one of
the fails. And this was something that we disagreed on.
So it was the explaining everything to the kids. I
have the patience to do it. And he really is
a because I said so type of guy and it
worked beautifully with Madison, but with Logan from a young age.
I would explain everything to him, and he's a mama's.
Speaker 13 (47:14):
Boy times thirty, you know what I mean.
Speaker 25 (47:17):
Like, we're very, very close. But it kind of went
wrong with him because what we found was that we
created an environment where he felt that he was entitled
to an explanation, and he felt as though because we
gave him too safe of a space that he could
challenge me, and he can challenge a decision that I made.
(47:41):
So we had to dial that back too, and then
we had to teach boundaries and let him know his place.
So that was a fail in a sense. And Rashalmud
always look at me like, see I told you, Like
see I told you, because.
Speaker 4 (47:57):
He's the guy. Because now I got to go discipline
that me and Logan get into it. Now you can't
beat Logan because Logan.
Speaker 2 (48:05):
So now I got a discipline Logan and then me
and Logan get into it. But one thing about Logan
and all of our kids, which is the craziest thing,
is they're very forgiven. Like with Logan, I have to
get sometimes so disrespectful for him to understand, and the
next day he's like, hey Dad, what's up? And I'm like,
hey Dad, what's up. But that's how he is, and
he just has conversations. But we have those conversations and
we understand and we talk. But he's he's the one
that just like his mom.
Speaker 3 (48:26):
I love that you have a family mission state. Yes,
what is the mission statement? And tell people the importance
of that.
Speaker 4 (48:32):
Well, just so we know. We don't have it on
our wall and then make the kids read it when
they walk in the house. It's statement.
Speaker 5 (48:37):
It's not like that.
Speaker 2 (48:39):
So our mission statement is just something that we, you know,
as a family, we all live by, right, And I'll
read some of them. And the reason is is we
are a close unit. Right, So if you see us together,
we're all always out together. You see me the other
day with Jackson, You've seen me before and Charlamande seen before.
So the mission statement is we are a unit, right.
We all ride together like we are really a unit,
a unit. I'm an only child, so I'm heavy into
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taking care of each other. We respect each other, of course,
simple like we make sure that you know, we respect
each other's feeling.
Speaker 4 (49:07):
We always have each other's backs. That's one thing that
we always do.
Speaker 2 (49:10):
And it you know, sometimes when we have conversations up here,
I always talk about my kids, so when they see
stuff on social media at times I have to stop
them because they will go in especially Logan Logan, Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (49:22):
We always love.
Speaker 5 (49:23):
Uplift each other and pointing out the good in one another.
Speaker 4 (49:25):
Right.
Speaker 2 (49:25):
We see that more especially with our girls in dance
because they compete against each other a lot, so when
they do, we have to make sure that regardless of
what happens. Like a couple of weeks ago, London lost
and we thought London got jerked. So I told, you know,
I had a conversation with Brooklyn, and Brooklyn was like that,
don't worry, I'm gonna get first and second four And
she went out there and busted.
Speaker 5 (49:42):
At the first and second.
Speaker 25 (49:43):
She got first place and second again.
Speaker 2 (49:45):
You know, gave the first place to her sister because
that's what it was. We represent each other at all times.
That's how it always is. So we always tell our
kids if we're not there, you make sure that those
parents come back and say, oh my gosh, she was
such a pleasure. He was polite, He was this even
with Jackson at the game. You know, Jackson said thank
you a million one time, so you said hello million
one times. You because that's what he's taught to do.
Speaker 4 (50:05):
That you show respect with that.
Speaker 25 (50:08):
My goal for my kids is that when they leave
our house, I want everyone that they come in contact
with to know that they're well loved. What we teach
you inside this house you exemplify outside of this house.
And these are things that a lot of parents don't
put into perspective when raising children, because what do we
usually do. We take, like, you know, an idea, and
(50:28):
we throw it up against the wall.
Speaker 26 (50:29):
We see if it sticks or not.
Speaker 8 (50:31):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 25 (50:31):
Oh that worked, Oh that didn't.
Speaker 15 (50:33):
Okay.
Speaker 25 (50:34):
But a lot of people don't have something tangible that
they can go back to and be like, this is
a way to create a foundation, This is a way
to create a structure. And because we had so many
ups and downs, we were able to do that and
put it in one place.
Speaker 5 (50:50):
And I think the biggest story I now you hate
want to tell a story was Jackson.
Speaker 7 (50:52):
Right.
Speaker 5 (50:52):
So we had a parent teachers night a couple of
weeks ago.
Speaker 4 (50:55):
Oh, and a teacher came up to me teach it.
I had no idea.
Speaker 5 (50:58):
You know, he was a stem night stem night.
Speaker 2 (51:00):
So he walks up to me, he was like, are
you Jackson's dad, and I'm like, yeah, what A teacher
usually asked that bs right. So I'm like, oh, hey,
we go what did Jackson do? And he was like,
I just want to tell you. You know, Jackson did
something that no child adult has done in my life.
The other day, I'm walking down the hall and Jackson
comes running up to me and he goes, you.
Speaker 13 (51:15):
Know, are you okay?
Speaker 4 (51:16):
And the teacher was like, what do you mean.
Speaker 5 (51:17):
He was like, you just don't look as happy as
usually do.
Speaker 4 (51:19):
Are you are right?
Speaker 2 (51:20):
Is anything bothering you? Would you like to have a
conversation with me and just talk it through. He's like, now,
you just don't seem as happy as you do, but
don't let things stretch you out. Just pray on it
and tomorrow be better, right, and if you need to talk.
Speaker 4 (51:35):
To me, come talk to me.
Speaker 2 (51:35):
And he said Jackson ran off and he was like,
I've never had an adult or a child ever do
that to me. So he was like, whatever you're doing
at home, continue that, and you know, I mean that
just shows.
Speaker 4 (51:44):
What the kids are learning at home is worth everything.
So you need to report that teacher too. He don't
need to be in the school.
Speaker 5 (51:54):
Like you got some time, such a beautiful.
Speaker 25 (52:03):
Fam Thank you, thank you you know.
Speaker 2 (52:10):
Have you, thank you for pulling up And for everybody else,
we just want to add this last part. We actually
wrote it with somebody that helped us out.
Speaker 5 (52:16):
With terms and helped us with different phrases and helped
us with made sure that we were actually doing the
right thing when it came to raising our kids.
Speaker 25 (52:22):
Yes, so we wrote it alongside a psychologist because yes,
because we wanted to make sure that our outlooks were
were on the level that I would want to put
it out to the public. I wanted the psychological research
and quarterbacking behind the way that we parent to pretty
(52:43):
much put a stamp on it, to know that what
we're doing not just from our personal experience driven point
of view is sound, but from a psychological point of
view is also sound. I wanted to make sure that
alongside the truth and the transparency and the experience that
we had that back to the book as well. I
wanted that level of value in the book as well.
(53:04):
So and also, you know, if you have a child
with anxiety, add ADHD, other setbacks, other disabilities, you know
we speak to you in this book as well. Because
those people are very like they don't have that many resources.
This book is for anyone who is a parent, a
single parent, a parent that.
Speaker 5 (53:21):
Is married, maybe about to have kids in next.
Speaker 25 (53:24):
Time, someone that wants to have a child.
Speaker 10 (53:27):
Wow, you.
Speaker 25 (53:31):
Look over, thank you, It's it's It's it's forever. It's
a very relatable book and there's a lot of exercises
in the book. We kind of also created it in
like a workbook style, so there's a lot of reflections.
There's a lot of places in there for you to
answer questions so you can kind of analyze yourself and
understand your own point of view in a way of
like articulation, where if you haven't really thought about certain things,
(53:51):
it'll jog you to think about things. And even if
you don't do don't take our take, it encourages you
and helps you to come up with your own takes
on parenting so you have real family.
Speaker 4 (54:03):
The Casey Crew, the Breakfast Club, drop on the clothes
bomb for a while, Gonna give us some new music.
Speaker 15 (54:08):
Man you ask new music, Yeah, I don't know the
exact names and stuff, but he has something. He has
something on.
Speaker 3 (54:13):
Make sure you go get DJ envying gear Casey's new book,
Real Life, Real Family, A Guide to Raising Empowered Children.
Speaker 8 (54:21):
I don't know why.
Speaker 4 (54:23):
And he just told everybody that he gave me the
ass and that I did not. Sagg I said, you
gave me the ass?
Speaker 3 (54:30):
Whoa First of all, I would never be a bottom exactly.
Speaker 15 (54:36):
The girls do say you get bottom.
Speaker 4 (54:38):
Give is one thing. Being is another.
Speaker 5 (54:44):
Let's get to the latest with Lauren wan becoming a
straight fast. She gets them somebody that knows somebody detail.
Speaker 15 (54:52):
I'm a long girl that knows a little bit about everything.
Speaker 4 (54:55):
She'd be having the latest on you, the.
Speaker 11 (54:59):
Latest with Sometimes you have fact, sometimes you have details,
sometimes you have a little bit every time.
Speaker 13 (55:04):
It's the leader on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 23 (55:08):
So speaking of DJ Mvy and Gia in Real Life,
Real Family A Guide to Raise it Empowered Children. Uh,
the envy, You and Gia were on Mandy's podcasts, many podcasts.
Speaker 4 (55:19):
That's right, decisions decisions, Yes, go Jack.
Speaker 23 (55:28):
So you guys sat down with them and you talked
a lot about your family, your relationship, your love.
Speaker 15 (55:32):
But for some reason you went back to the Oregon.
Speaker 5 (55:35):
I didn't go back.
Speaker 4 (55:36):
I didn't go back.
Speaker 15 (55:38):
How did do you want to explain how you ended
up there.
Speaker 4 (55:40):
I don't know how we ended.
Speaker 3 (55:41):
Tell me what you're talking about. First law for those
who haven't read the first book, and tell them what happened.
Speaker 23 (55:47):
So for those who have not read dj Mvy's first book,
he talks about in the book not being able to
make his wife Gia orgasm for how long Envy?
Speaker 4 (55:56):
Ten years? A whole, decade, a whole.
Speaker 15 (56:00):
You have a child older than ten years old.
Speaker 2 (56:02):
That's not true. It's it's out of but I don't know.
But go ahead, why is it not true when you
said it?
Speaker 4 (56:08):
Ahead?
Speaker 23 (56:08):
Please, we have audio of MB explained NB and GI
explaining how that story was twisted.
Speaker 15 (56:15):
Let's take a listen to the.
Speaker 6 (56:16):
Twisted What's something you told in either book that you
were like, I can't believe we just gave this up.
Speaker 5 (56:23):
The first one, I don't care.
Speaker 4 (56:23):
But the first one is the orgasm thing.
Speaker 8 (56:25):
Oh, that you never made her orgasm is crazy.
Speaker 26 (56:28):
Not never up until a certain point.
Speaker 8 (56:30):
She's crazy that you said you stayed because girls, my
mouth was good.
Speaker 5 (56:34):
It's just my game for clarification.
Speaker 10 (56:38):
Up to a certain point.
Speaker 25 (56:39):
I wasn't regularly having orgasms through intercourse, other I was
having orgasms in other ways.
Speaker 8 (56:44):
Which is That's not what I thought.
Speaker 15 (56:47):
That's not what I because that's not how the media
is spunished.
Speaker 4 (56:50):
I had anyone read the book, they would understand.
Speaker 26 (56:56):
It's not that I was this long suffering.
Speaker 5 (56:58):
Wife hashtag poor Gilla though.
Speaker 3 (57:01):
Forgive Yeah no, if that wasn't a whole decade, ten years,
three thousand, six hundred and fifty days.
Speaker 5 (57:13):
I like, you know, I have a book.
Speaker 15 (57:16):
It down for envy.
Speaker 2 (57:17):
He'd be doing that and talks about that, talks about
our family and kids, and that's the clip you pull her.
Speaker 23 (57:22):
Yes, because I really don't understand why you went back here,
and we had to explained how you got to the kids.
Speaker 4 (57:26):
Are almost didting decisions? Decisions?
Speaker 23 (57:30):
Another thing that another thing that I thought was interesting
from this conversation.
Speaker 15 (57:35):
I've never heard this side of it.
Speaker 23 (57:36):
Gia actually explained that she feels like it was actually
her that was a part of the non orgasm problem.
Speaker 15 (57:42):
Let's take a listen.
Speaker 25 (57:44):
Through vaginal penetration every single time I get busy. Now,
it's didn't get busy, It had nothing to do with it.
Speaker 5 (57:53):
So, which is the about men entering the sexual space?
Speaker 13 (57:56):
Right?
Speaker 5 (57:57):
There's nobody to talk who never sat down to your point?
Speaker 10 (58:00):
What what do most guys do?
Speaker 5 (58:02):
They watched Point and when you watch Point or you see.
Speaker 4 (58:05):
Is bang bang bang bang book, right, So you start trying.
Speaker 2 (58:08):
To do that, you realize there was no sensuality, You
realize there was no touch. You realize it's a movie.
Speaker 25 (58:14):
That's a very very small part of it. So the
problem was the problem was me, and I was too
young to understand your body, my body. So when I
was in that role, it was about me performing for
my boyfriend, me performing for my husband. So I was
in so much of a pleasure mode that I neglected myself.
Speaker 2 (58:38):
Mmm.
Speaker 10 (58:39):
You know what, though I ain't gonna hold you that,
you know I was.
Speaker 6 (58:42):
I thought she was making excuses for little envy, uh
you know before But you know that is actually something
very true because honestly, I didn't have an orgasm until
later on.
Speaker 8 (58:51):
Either, like, and I didn't know what was happening. I
didn't know what was you know what I'm saying. So
I do understand. But she, y'all should have said that
in the first book, exactly said that in.
Speaker 5 (58:58):
The first book.
Speaker 2 (58:59):
But Charlemagne only took a certain part out and been
going with this part for the last five years.
Speaker 3 (59:04):
Real life real orgasm, A guy having an empowered for
a gasm.
Speaker 13 (59:10):
Out to date.
Speaker 2 (59:11):
Oh my godess, there's so much you could have took
from the book, so many things that we talked about
the kids.
Speaker 13 (59:15):
But that's where you wanted to go.
Speaker 4 (59:16):
Okay.
Speaker 23 (59:17):
I wanted you to know, as a media personality, you
should know how to not say certain things.
Speaker 15 (59:22):
You said, my pen game. You had to get your
pen game right? My pen pen? Oh you said pen?
I get busy?
Speaker 23 (59:27):
Now is the quote you want people to leave with
from this interviews?
Speaker 5 (59:31):
What y'all took?
Speaker 3 (59:33):
Well, you know, I can't wait for real life update
on his ten years of not giving his wife an orgasm.
Speaker 4 (59:38):
I get busy now. I can't wait for real life
real wigs to come out. Becau.
Speaker 8 (59:43):
We're gonna have some conversations, real life real wigs.
Speaker 26 (59:46):
You heard them.
Speaker 15 (59:47):
Just it's cool. You know what I'm gonna do to
help fund that book? There is another go fun me.
Speaker 23 (59:53):
I saw it surfaced online this morning, hashtags still poor Gia.
Speaker 4 (59:56):
Oh my goodness, you'll better not doing a dollar. This
thing's twenty.
Speaker 15 (01:00:00):
Four thousand dollars?
Speaker 4 (01:00:01):
Is the goal?
Speaker 15 (01:00:01):
You've been together twenty four years?
Speaker 12 (01:00:02):
Right?
Speaker 4 (01:00:03):
Thirty one years?
Speaker 15 (01:00:04):
Thirty one.
Speaker 4 (01:00:04):
Oh, shoot, we've been married twenty four.
Speaker 23 (01:00:06):
We gave her twenty four because the length of the
marriage is what we're trying to compensate.
Speaker 13 (01:00:10):
The point of the goal.
Speaker 4 (01:00:10):
Fund me again.
Speaker 15 (01:00:11):
She they and be said the dad created them early
on so she could use the money to go get pleasure.
Speaker 10 (01:00:16):
Damn.
Speaker 8 (01:00:16):
So I say, it's still pooring pleasure you get every
time we continue on.
Speaker 4 (01:00:21):
Please, that's in the book, that no dad book, that's
not in the books.
Speaker 5 (01:00:24):
You mean to go get pleasure? That's not I don't
know if you talk your wife raising money, she's not
raising no money, man joking.
Speaker 10 (01:00:30):
People don't believe you.
Speaker 4 (01:00:32):
To go get pleasure from who?
Speaker 7 (01:00:33):
What?
Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
What is what Lauren just talking about on this riding.
Speaker 23 (01:00:37):
Please make sure you guys go get real life, real family,
a guid to raise empowered children and understand your pen game.
Speaker 4 (01:00:42):
Well, raise the father who raising the father in that house.
That's what I need, logan. You're raising the father who're
raising the daddy in that house? And we check your
phone book is out now, and so is that not?
Speaker 15 (01:00:54):
Where did they grab the book from?
Speaker 2 (01:00:55):
And they can get it from Balls and Nobles anywhere
on Amazon. Who y'all really created to go fund me man,
take that down. You know who put you know what
support Gear's journey to relief hashtags still pull.
Speaker 4 (01:01:09):
Yeah, Oh my goodness, you know what.
Speaker 23 (01:01:11):
Go grab the book, do y'all'll you'll know, y'all some
of my favorite married couples and engaged couples. Yes, I
love hearing y'all talking about your relationships.
Speaker 8 (01:01:19):
Thanks, mate, So you know what not to doe.
Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
She ain't never got to worry about it. Oh, don't
even worry about it. She'll never be in that situation.
Speaker 8 (01:01:28):
You know what?
Speaker 10 (01:01:28):
Was crazy?
Speaker 8 (01:01:29):
Y'all gonna be real shocked when y'all see a man
come up there for her.
Speaker 4 (01:01:32):
That's we are.
Speaker 3 (01:01:37):
When that guy get down on his knees and pull
a ring out of Lauren Wig and she didn't even
know what it was, I'm gonna be shot.
Speaker 4 (01:01:44):
I'm just like, Wow. I just hope I'm allowed to
see it. I hope by ninety nine, and I hope
I'm allowed to be sure you want to do this? Sorry,
Oh ma'am are you sure?
Speaker 8 (01:01:53):
Or ma'am or ma'am listen, it's going to happen. It's
gonna happen, period.
Speaker 13 (01:01:59):
All right.
Speaker 5 (01:01:59):
Well, that was the latest with Lauren. I guess all right,
Charlamage here, you give me a donkey too.
Speaker 3 (01:02:03):
We need a man named Edgar Verdusco. I don't know
if that's how he pronounced his last name, but he
needs to come to the front of the congregation. We
would like to have a word with him. He does
not care about other humans on this planet, and he's
the reason why I hate humans. We'll discuss, all right.
Speaker 4 (01:02:16):
We'll get to that next. It's the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 13 (01:02:17):
Good morning, you're checking out the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (01:02:20):
I was donkey up today, man, Damn he hogged.
Speaker 13 (01:02:26):
It's time the donkey of the j I mean trying
to be donkey today.
Speaker 8 (01:02:30):
No more.
Speaker 4 (01:02:30):
They should be harassed by what they already did. I'm
not making these people do these.
Speaker 15 (01:02:34):
Days called donkey of the day, and it really caught
me off guard. Damn Charlomagne, who got the donkey.
Speaker 26 (01:02:40):
Of the day today?
Speaker 4 (01:02:42):
Will jess hilarious?
Speaker 3 (01:02:43):
Donkey today for Tuesday, April fifteenth goes to a thirty
four year old former police officer named Edgar Verdusco. He
used to be a police officer for the Los Angeles
Police Department and he is the latest example of why
I simply hate humans.
Speaker 4 (01:02:56):
I've come to the conclusion that what annoys me about.
Speaker 3 (01:02:58):
Life the most is people, which is crange because the
thing I love most about life is people.
Speaker 4 (01:03:05):
But I like considerate people.
Speaker 3 (01:03:06):
Okay, we had mel Robbins up here yesterday and she
was speaking to how emotionally disconnected some people are from
the actual human experience, and this story is just another
example of that. Edgar on Friday pled guilty to three
counts of murder. Okay, this man killed a mother, of
father and a teenage son. Would you like to know
how it happened. Let's go to ABC seven Eye with
his news for the report.
Speaker 1 (01:03:25):
Police, a former LAPD officer is heading to prison after
pleading guilty to murder in a fiery DUI crash. Thirty
four year old Edgar Verdusco faces fifteen years to life
for killing three people on the six OZ five Freeway
and twenty seventeen. The off duty police officer was driving
one hundred and fifty miles an hour while under the
influence of alcohol when he hit two vehicles. One of
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them plowed into the center divider and burst into flames,
killing Marabelle and Mario Davalla and their nineteen year old
son Oscar, who was a student at UC Riverside for DUSCO,
is due back in court in July for sentencing rest
in peace.
Speaker 3 (01:03:59):
Today, that family man dead because of somebody else's negligence. Edgar,
you have to get the book thrown at you. Okay,
put him under the prison. You're a police officer, so
you know the law. You knew drinking and driving, the speeding,
the reckless driving, vehicular homicide. You know the law and
you know what all that carries. Plus your job is
to protect and serve. You did none of that, so
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your penalty has to be harsh.
Speaker 4 (01:04:22):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (01:04:22):
And I'm taking in this story and it makes me
feel why did God give us free will? Okay, I'm
glad God gave it to us. But free will is
like a baked potato. Okay, it needs toppings to really
elevate it. Okay, you can eat a big potato plane.
But when you put butter on it, or sour cream,
or chives or salt or pepper. Some people like cheese.
I'm lactose in tolerance, so I don't do that. Some
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people like chili on it, green onions. I've seen broccoli
on big potatoes. My point is free will, and free
will alone is not enough, Okay. In order to maximize
free will, you need self awareness. You need to pay
attention to the present moment. You need to manage your
emotional state. You need to be of good case.
Speaker 4 (01:05:00):
And you don't need to be on drugs and alcohol
because those things caused you to make poor choices with
that free will. And what does your uncle Shall always.
Speaker 3 (01:05:07):
Tell you on this damn radio, Destiny is not a
matter of chance, It's a matter of choice. This guy,
Edgar exercised his free will to make a poor choice.
Speaker 4 (01:05:16):
And this is why I don't like humans.
Speaker 3 (01:05:20):
When mel Robbins was here talking about people who leave
the bathroom disgusting, it hit me because that's one of
my pet peeves. I hate when I walk in the
bathroom and see somebody else's dodo in the toilet. Even worse,
when you see that they left the toilet lining on
the seat, It's like, what type of rush are you in?
Speaker 4 (01:05:33):
Don't you know other people have to use this bathroom.
I feel the same way about drunk driving.
Speaker 3 (01:05:39):
Okay, now you're talking to a person who almost killed
himself drunk driving.
Speaker 4 (01:05:42):
When I was a young lad, so I'm speaking from experience.
I was selfish. I wasn't thinking about anybody but myself.
Speaker 3 (01:05:48):
I had zero regard for other people's lives in that moment,
and thank God, my dumb ass you know when I wrecked,
didn't kill myself or anyone else. For more on that story,
go to Amazon and purchase my first book, Black Privilege, Opportunity.
He comes to those who created available everywhere you buy books. Now,
I hate people, Okay, This man Edgar posted a video
on social media with the hashtag Oh, that's the part
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of the story I left up. This man Edgar posted
a video on social media with the hashtag don't drink
and drive, and then shortly after gotten his card, drunk
and killed three people.
Speaker 4 (01:06:26):
I repeat, this man Edgar posted a.
Speaker 3 (01:06:29):
Video on social media with the hashtag don't drink and drive,
and then shortly after killed three people drunk driving.
Speaker 4 (01:06:37):
This goes back to what I said.
Speaker 3 (01:06:38):
About self awareness, paying attention to the present moment. God,
God literally told Edgar what to do, and he did
the opposite. We have all these conversations about signs, look
for signs. God put it in his head, in his
heart so much that he shared with social.
Speaker 4 (01:06:55):
Media a message that he ignored. Don't drink and drive, Edgar.
That was for you in that moment. It doesn't get
much clearer in that gang, but you can see.
Speaker 3 (01:07:07):
It because you are a human being that is so
disconnected from the interconnection to the human experience. I don't
care if you drinking and driving or leaving a public
bathroom filthy. When you do those things, you are simply
not thinking about other people. But don't listen to me though, Okay,
I just stopped being a sociopath about a decade ago.
Speaker 4 (01:07:25):
Mel Robbins explains it way better than me.
Speaker 28 (01:07:29):
When you go into a public bathroom, two things. I
always leave the space better than when I found it.
If somebody destroys the seat, peas all over it and
then they leave, that is a human being that is
so disconnected ooh, from the interconnection of the human experience.
You are leaving that for another person, and so making
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sure that you don't leave your mess for another person,
making sure that you just kind of wipe down the counter.
And then here's the second thing. If there is a
human being cleaning that bathroom, please look in the ai
and say thank you all the time, all the time,
like that, right, there is a simple thing that will
make you start to shake out of that woe is
me or that stress or that overwhelm. Let them know
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you appreciate and see what they're doing.
Speaker 8 (01:08:16):
Like you know, I can't let you.
Speaker 10 (01:08:18):
I'm gonna cry.
Speaker 28 (01:08:19):
People are just walking around disconnected and the power of
starting to be the one that wakes people up. These
relationships matter because they make you feel human again.
Speaker 3 (01:08:33):
The moral of the story is get connected to the
interconnection of the human experience.
Speaker 4 (01:08:39):
You're not on this earth alone. Please let rem Ma
give Edgar Ford Dusk the biggest he huh hee ha
he ha, You stupid mother, Are you dumb?
Speaker 2 (01:08:51):
All right, well, thank you for that donkey today, Yes, ma'am,
all right now when we come back eight hundreds, just
ignore it, just ignore it, just ignore it.
Speaker 5 (01:08:58):
Dis ignore it. He's fantasized right now.
Speaker 13 (01:09:01):
Ignore it.
Speaker 2 (01:09:02):
Eight hundred five eight five one on five won. My book,
Real Life, Real Family is out today. Gea was just
joined the breakfast club. What about forty five minutes ago,
and we were talking about how we raised our kids,
and this is how the conversation went.
Speaker 8 (01:09:15):
Would you say that you and and we have two
different parenting styles? Absolutely the more lenient.
Speaker 2 (01:09:22):
It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
yell of the screamer because I said so, gear is
a lot different. She wants to know why, Yeah, did
you feel that?
Speaker 4 (01:09:31):
But I she likes to break down. Yeah, you don't
get it.
Speaker 8 (01:09:34):
You're gonna get it by the end of the right
words exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:09:38):
So you gotta think, really think before you speak to
up because she's like, all right, explain that, like I
just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.
But so I'm more like, because I said so, she's
more like, well, you can't go to the more because
of this, because this could happen. Explain your parenting style.
Mine is my dad was like no, and you didn't
ask why, it just it was what it was. You
just figured out later.
Speaker 4 (01:09:58):
Gar is a little different the explanation.
Speaker 25 (01:10:01):
Yeah, so that's how my parents were with me. I
knew that my parents never said no just for the
sake of saying no, because parents are overworked and they
are stressed. You really have to take a moment. You
have to take a beat. We all have to take
a beat to listen to our children and be patient.
And because I knew that my parents were invested in
me that way. I knew that when they said no,
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there was a good reason.
Speaker 2 (01:10:24):
So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
five one. How does your parenting style different from your partners?
Speaker 22 (01:10:31):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (01:10:31):
I mean explanations are good. That's how you learn, not
just in parenting, like even just as a couple. For example,
if you say to your wife, did you orgasm and
she says no, you know she should explain to you
why she didn't so you can make her the next time.
Speaker 2 (01:10:42):
Right, So the question is eight hundred five eight five
one oh five one. How does your parent iss style
different from your partners?
Speaker 5 (01:10:49):
Like Jess.
Speaker 2 (01:10:50):
I'm sure you and Chris is your parent are different
or even you Enrome. So when we come back, we'll
find out, you know, how it differs and which one works?
You say, I just ignore Charla.
Speaker 3 (01:11:00):
Made yes like yesterday for the birthdays. I'm sure y'all
did two different things.
Speaker 12 (01:11:04):
Right?
Speaker 8 (01:11:05):
No? No, No, Rome had actually work So Rome had
them last week? Got you?
Speaker 10 (01:11:09):
Yeah, then he came.
Speaker 2 (01:11:09):
So that is the question, and what impact does it
have on your child? Eight hundred five eight five one
oh five one. You want to kiss me? I can
tell I could tell are you talking to just like that,
I'm talking to you.
Speaker 10 (01:11:21):
I don't even like them.
Speaker 13 (01:11:22):
The Breakfast Club. It's topic time.
Speaker 2 (01:11:38):
Eight hundred and five eight five one five one to
join into the discussion with the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (01:11:44):
Morning everybody. It's DJ Envy, Jess, Hilarious, Charlamage to God.
Speaker 2 (01:11:48):
We are the Breakfast Club. Now, if you're just joining us,
my new book, Real Life, Real Family is out today.
You could pick it up at Barnes and Nobles, Apple,
I said, Apple, Amazon, or wherever you buy your books.
Is available on audible as well. Now, if you just
join us. Geared just left and we were talking about
our different parenting style. So we're asking eight hundred and
five eight five one on five to one, how is
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your parenting style different from your partners?
Speaker 4 (01:12:11):
Is Gear talking about it?
Speaker 8 (01:12:13):
Would you say that you and and we have two
different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.
Speaker 2 (01:12:19):
It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
yell of the screamer because I said, so, Gear is
a lot different.
Speaker 13 (01:12:26):
She wants to know why.
Speaker 8 (01:12:27):
Yeah, did you feel that she likes to break down? Yeah,
you don't get it. You're gonna get it by the
end of the right.
Speaker 26 (01:12:35):
Exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:12:35):
So you got to think, really think before you speak
to us, because she's like, all right, explain that like
I just said it just.
Speaker 4 (01:12:40):
Because no, no, no, explain this now.
Speaker 2 (01:12:42):
You know I came from you know, my dad is
retired police officer, so his his way was always his
way or the highway.
Speaker 4 (01:12:48):
That's how he raised me.
Speaker 2 (01:12:50):
Gear is more patient and it works for us because
it's kind of like good cop, bad cop. We play
off each other, which is great. So now how do
you en Rome parent and you and Chris parent? Do
your parents the same or different or I I no, me.
Speaker 8 (01:13:02):
My parents thing is different from both of them. So
i'm'a start with Rome first.
Speaker 4 (01:13:06):
Rome he is.
Speaker 6 (01:13:09):
He Rome started off thinking everything was cute, like he
loved cause Ash was his first born and he was young.
Speaker 8 (01:13:16):
We were young, so Rome was just happy to have
uh a little boy. He ain't thinking everything Ash did
was cute, talk back all of that until he got older.
Then Rome ain't like that, so he he's a verbal disciplinarian.
Speaker 18 (01:13:30):
Me.
Speaker 8 (01:13:30):
I always been like my mother. My mother was always
the she was not leaning at all. She was always
the disciplinarian parent.
Speaker 10 (01:13:38):
I was like that.
Speaker 6 (01:13:39):
I'm like that too, but Chris showed me and Rome
a difference. And he didn't have no kids when we met,
Like he showed he implemented structure in the household.
Speaker 8 (01:13:49):
Like Ash has chores every day he wake up, he
he we shouldn't have to tell him to wash the
dishes from the night before. Yeh, take out the trash,
clean his room, sweep down the steps, make sure that
you know your dog is wal your dog is fitted.
Is your dog. I was doing on all of that
before him, I mean for him, before Chris had came
into the picture. And now is Ash opens doors for me.
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He he practiced his manners much more, you know what
I mean?
Speaker 5 (01:14:13):
Like so is Chris.
Speaker 8 (01:14:15):
Chris definitely made a big difference.
Speaker 4 (01:14:17):
And for sure, And what about you, shelaman.
Speaker 3 (01:14:20):
I don't mean I don't know what my parents and
style is. You know what I'm saying. I got four daughters. Uh,
and these new kids different because these new kids because
they're just not they don't they're not afraid of us
like they don't have Like you know, I had a
healthy fear of my mother and father.
Speaker 4 (01:14:33):
Because of the whippings. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (01:14:35):
Man Like I don't with my kids so they listen
to us when they want to. If we get on
they ass don't get me wrong, but it takes a lot.
And I'm not one of them. I don't think me
all my wife with those gentle parents where it's's like,
what's run is that you know we we will comfort
them and you know when we see, you know, certain
emotions coming, we understand that. Okay, there's something else going
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on here. But you know we not them pushover parents.
I know them push over parents.
Speaker 10 (01:15:01):
You are certainly a pushover parent.
Speaker 8 (01:15:03):
Your wife is not, but you are. Don't go to
be walking all over tappy use that's true.
Speaker 5 (01:15:08):
But I'm a daddy.
Speaker 3 (01:15:09):
I don't know what I don't know what to do,
and then I yell and then apologize because I feel
bad for yelling at the hell.
Speaker 4 (01:15:14):
You know what I'm saying like, I don't.
Speaker 8 (01:15:15):
I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:15:15):
I don't know what my parents' style is, but I
won't say this.
Speaker 3 (01:15:18):
The reality is as long as whatever your parents and
style is is rooted in love, that's all that matters.
Speaker 13 (01:15:24):
Well, let's go to the phone line. So we got
Jay on the line.
Speaker 4 (01:15:26):
Jay, good morning, Hey, good morning, how you guys doing good?
We're talking about parenting style.
Speaker 7 (01:15:32):
Brother.
Speaker 12 (01:15:32):
All Right, So growing up, I didn't hear a lot
of I loved you. I knew that they loved me,
but I didn't hear a lot of it. So my
parenting style is I guess the fuller opposite. Where I
tell them, I show them. I overload them with I
love you. Yeah, and I got a twenty three year
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old son, a sixteen year old and nine year old daughters,
and I hear it back from them, so it's amazing.
Speaker 4 (01:16:01):
Yeah I agree with that. Yeah, yeah, me too.
Speaker 12 (01:16:04):
I'm dating somebody who I do love, but her parenting
style is where the kid talk back a lot, and
because I'm not their father, I try, and you know,
I play the background. I try and reinforce what she
said to them, but it eats at me so much.
So I don't know how to How would you guys
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navigate handling somebody else's kids with their parents and style.
Speaker 3 (01:16:32):
That ain't your business until you marry that woman and
then they become your step kids. At this point, that's
really not your that's not your business. And like you said,
you can't really parent somebody else's kids. You kind of
got to do it through her, you know, if you
feel like they're being disrespectful. I think you have to
have that conversation just just in that situation.
Speaker 8 (01:16:48):
Yeah, absolutely, if you if you live with your girlfriend,
it is different. It is different because you know, I'm
not about to let nobody kid disrespect me.
Speaker 10 (01:16:57):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (01:16:57):
If you live there, I mean.
Speaker 5 (01:16:59):
If you do you there with them?
Speaker 7 (01:17:01):
No, No, I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:17:02):
I don't.
Speaker 7 (01:17:04):
I don't live there.
Speaker 12 (01:17:04):
But to this point, for the year, I haven't really
asserted myself because, like I said, if not my plate,
But it's so hard to just stan back and hear
the level of disrespect from those kids.
Speaker 6 (01:17:18):
Yeah, you definitely got to sit down and have a
conversation with her, actually, because if she's going to allow it,
it ain't really nothing that you can do.
Speaker 12 (01:17:25):
How old are the kids, Well, her kids are the
fourteen year old girl and an eleven year old boy.
And I'm telling you, like it may sound like an
over exaggeration, but they they talk.
Speaker 8 (01:17:40):
Oh no, I definitely understand it all the time.
Speaker 10 (01:17:43):
Hell yeah, I get it.
Speaker 6 (01:17:44):
But if you're not about to marry your mom or
be and marry their mom, or be in the house
with them, it ain't really nothing that you can do.
That's effective. You know today, mom step.
Speaker 4 (01:17:54):
In them little Kidsay, they're want to get their daddy
didn't want you to get run.
Speaker 5 (01:17:58):
Hey yo, Hello, who's that?
Speaker 21 (01:18:00):
This is Kia from Brooklyn.
Speaker 5 (01:18:02):
Hey kid, good morning. We're talking about different parents and skills.
Speaker 4 (01:18:05):
Talk to us styles. I should say.
Speaker 21 (01:18:07):
So my husband was raised on survival. I was raised
on love, so that transfers into our parents and stuffs.
He's more like, man, you guys just figure it out.
Me is like, okay, let's have a conversation. Let's process
why you feel mad, why you feel sad. So our
boys are six and fourtune and a fourteen year old,
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he just like bottles it up.
Speaker 20 (01:18:31):
I'm like, talk to me.
Speaker 21 (01:18:32):
That is like not hoop you all right?
Speaker 4 (01:18:36):
Yeah, you know what I was.
Speaker 2 (01:18:38):
I was like that too at first because my dad
is like that, you know. I mean my dad was,
you know, man up, figure it out. My mom is,
you know, was more of the loving person. But I
realize every kid is different and that man up thing
it doesn't do anything, but I think hurts your kids
later on in life, Like if there's a problem, if
there's an issue and they need to cry or they
need to let their emotions or feelers go.
Speaker 5 (01:18:57):
I think you should allow that safe place for them
to do that.
Speaker 4 (01:19:00):
How you gonna tell a little boy to man up
and he don't even know what a man is yet?
That's right? Yeah, yeah, I do.
Speaker 6 (01:19:04):
I do think though that that's a good balance for
the household though, you know what I mean, because even
though he was raised on survival, there are still advantages
to that, Like he can teach the kids, like you
know what I'm saying, Like you're the nurturer, that he's
the more right, more so the survival you know those
as things they need those too.
Speaker 8 (01:19:24):
Yeah, so it's a good balance.
Speaker 2 (01:19:26):
Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. If
you're just joining us, we're talking about different parenting styles. Now,
my book came out today, Real Life, Real Family. You
could pick it up anyway you buy books, Amazon or Audible,
and we're asking, how is your parenting style different from
your partners?
Speaker 4 (01:19:41):
Let's discuss and how does this affect your kids? Just
the breakfast club?
Speaker 13 (01:19:44):
Good morning, the breakfast club. Let's say, if y'all talking
about it, you know we talking about it.
Speaker 3 (01:19:56):
It's topic times called eight hundred five eight five one
five one To join into the discussion with the Breakfast.
Speaker 2 (01:20:01):
Club Morning everybody is DJ Envy just hilarious, Charlamagne the
gud We are the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 5 (01:20:08):
If you're just joining us, Yeah, my wife was here earlier.
Speaker 2 (01:20:11):
We were talking about our new book, Real Life, Real
Family and talking about our different parenting styles.
Speaker 8 (01:20:16):
Listening, would you say that you and and we have
two different parenting styles? Absolutely, the more lenient.
Speaker 2 (01:20:23):
It depends what it is. I'm disciplined. I was the
yell of the screamer because I said, so Ge is
a lot different.
Speaker 5 (01:20:30):
She wants to know why.
Speaker 4 (01:20:31):
Yeah, how did you feel that she likes.
Speaker 8 (01:20:33):
To break down?
Speaker 4 (01:20:34):
Yeah, you don't get it.
Speaker 8 (01:20:35):
You're gonna get it by the end of the right
words exactly.
Speaker 2 (01:20:39):
So you got to think, really think before you speak
to us, because she's like, all right, explain that, like
I just said it, just because no, no, no, explain this.
So we're asking eight hundred five eight five one oh
five to one, how do you parent your kids?
Speaker 4 (01:20:51):
Do you and your spouse? So you and your partner
have different parenting styles? How does it affect your kids?
Speaker 13 (01:20:55):
Hello?
Speaker 5 (01:20:55):
Who's this?
Speaker 4 (01:20:58):
What's up?
Speaker 7 (01:20:59):
Brother?
Speaker 4 (01:20:59):
Talk to us about you different parent the styles?
Speaker 7 (01:21:01):
Well, see, I was.
Speaker 19 (01:21:02):
Raised by all women, so it wasn't no male voice
in the house though, so but my kids get to
hear my voice all the time. I remember my mom
used to punish us by taking us over my other
house and making this cleaner house up, and I didn't
understand it. I hated that out in sleep. It ain't
my house, but we gotta clean this house up. And
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it went on and I figured it out that was
our punishment. And me and my brother talk about that now, like,
remember what Mama used to take a little cleaner house up.
And I used to always say, I ain't cleaning up.
And then you didn't want that broomstick on you with
my uncle, you know, because he had come through. But
it tells with the way you were brought up. I
was trying to mimit that. But I don't do all
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that because I do a lot of cleaning in my house.
My kids tend to listen to me, but I don't.
I don't like the way they wash dishes, sweet floors,
clean the bathroom, so I have to go up behind them.
Speaker 13 (01:21:53):
You do it with your aunt.
Speaker 10 (01:21:54):
House always dirty though that's.
Speaker 7 (01:21:58):
Couldn't always dirty.
Speaker 19 (01:22:00):
Wasn't about that being dirty because it's like like I
just told you, I don't like the way my kids
washed thish, so I go behind them right right right,
Like you at a restaurant and you got some water
spots on the spoon or the not but or not
it's not dirty at water stam, But you would be
like many I use plastic silverware, or I don't need
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it at all.
Speaker 4 (01:22:21):
I get it. I'll say this.
Speaker 3 (01:22:23):
I think that all of us are better parents than
our parents were, simply because we don't beat our kids.
Speaker 4 (01:22:29):
Well, I ain't got me brought up. How old are you?
Speaker 7 (01:22:36):
My mama probably put me three times.
Speaker 4 (01:22:38):
Oh no old out here, I'm forty four.
Speaker 25 (01:22:42):
Now.
Speaker 4 (01:22:42):
It was green lights.
Speaker 7 (01:22:44):
Get't no beaten.
Speaker 3 (01:22:45):
No, it was green lights from the whole community and
who I was from. Everybody had permission to put hands
on you. Now, my parents, my parents never beat me.
Speaker 2 (01:22:52):
Even the principals. Nah, my parents never beat me. I
got yoked up a lot, and the principal was able
to yok you up. But I got yoked up, but
I was never beat.
Speaker 3 (01:22:58):
I got to be with an extension called my daddy
beat me in this for it one time and maybe
go take a bath.
Speaker 4 (01:23:01):
That's abuse, sir.
Speaker 3 (01:23:02):
I have to have to go pick my own switch.
I could tell with c the NBU and grew up
in the country. No you needed that though, you actually
you needed to pick your own switch.
Speaker 13 (01:23:09):
No I didn't.
Speaker 4 (01:23:09):
Yes, sir, Hello, who's this Hi?
Speaker 20 (01:23:11):
It's Christina.
Speaker 2 (01:23:12):
Hey, Christina, good morning. We're talking about different parenting styles
this morning.
Speaker 19 (01:23:17):
So the thing is is me and my husband.
Speaker 20 (01:23:19):
And together for twenty four years. We have two kids,
one twenty two, one fifteen, both boys, but their personalities
are totally different, so we deal with it differently.
Speaker 19 (01:23:29):
Our oldest son goes with the flow.
Speaker 20 (01:23:32):
He listened to whatever we told him. Mom and dad
is everything. The youngest one, we call them the great debater.
This kid will break down everything, wants.
Speaker 3 (01:23:40):
To know why this?
Speaker 7 (01:23:41):
Why that?
Speaker 5 (01:23:42):
I got one of those yep, Oh my.
Speaker 20 (01:23:44):
Gosh, it's so aggravating. So we just accordingly two there
to their personalities.
Speaker 9 (01:23:50):
And my husband is a virgo like you and b
so I think y'all.
Speaker 20 (01:23:54):
Peers and styles kind of a life.
Speaker 9 (01:23:56):
You don't have a lot of tolerance.
Speaker 20 (01:23:57):
Like listen, this is what we're doing period.
Speaker 2 (01:24:00):
That is that is my my oldest boy, Logan. He
is the one that likes to He likes to debate
all the time, and I get to a point I
get frustrated. I'm like, because I said, so, that's.
Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
Just And then he slams your punk ass, loading the
man in the house with all the muscles. Helgan Logan say,
I only debate my equals everybody else, I teach, grab
his daddy and slam his ass.
Speaker 9 (01:24:24):
I'm not trying.
Speaker 4 (01:24:24):
I'm not debating with you. I'm teaching.
Speaker 12 (01:24:26):
You.
Speaker 5 (01:24:26):
Get Logan in trouble.
Speaker 13 (01:24:29):
Do noth right.
Speaker 4 (01:24:29):
You get himself in trouble.
Speaker 17 (01:24:32):
They put on him just.
Speaker 4 (01:24:36):
But thank you Christina.
Speaker 19 (01:24:38):
Book and congratulations, thank you so much.
Speaker 2 (01:24:41):
Real Life for Family is the name of the book.
You can pick it up on Audible or get it
on Amazon. It's all about raising kids and we talk about,
you know, different ways and different parenting styles. And we
actually have like a little work book section where you
could write the different things, and we asked questions just
to talk about parenting styles and things like that.
Speaker 3 (01:24:57):
And you know, I remember asking my mom when I
have my I'm just like, you know what what advice?
And she just literally just said just love her. And
that's literally how I move, Like, you know, you just
gotta love your kids, And I like what the young
lady said earlier. She was like her uh, her husband
raised raised their kids out of surviv He was raised
off survival, correct. And I always say my daddy raised
me out of fear and not love, not saying he
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didn't love me. He was just afraid that I was
gonna make all of the same mistakes that he made.
So a lot of that anxiety and just fear of
life he bought into parenting me.
Speaker 4 (01:25:28):
You can't do that with your children. You just gotta
love your kids. Like you can't raise them out of fear.
You gotta raise them.
Speaker 13 (01:25:33):
Out of love.
Speaker 2 (01:25:33):
But back then, I mean you definitely. I mean they've
seen things that we didn't see. It's from an era
that we just see. My dad, you know, like I
tell everybody, was the tired police officer, so he was
in the streets and seeing that, and he didn't want
me to get me connected to the streets, so they
raised off a little bit of fair.
Speaker 4 (01:25:45):
It's worse now, yeah, I really do.
Speaker 3 (01:25:48):
I think it's worse now, man the only but I
maintain we better parents than our parents because we don't
beat our kids.
Speaker 4 (01:25:55):
I don't beat my pops will never beat me. Just
on that hand here right now, I.
Speaker 8 (01:26:01):
Got beat They getting beat here?
Speaker 4 (01:26:03):
What's time? All right? All right, now we got the
latest with Lauren coming up.
Speaker 23 (01:26:10):
We were talking about Tyrad Banks is casting for The
Bodyguard or she wished she could and guess what she's casting?
Speaker 4 (01:26:16):
Tell us, oh boy, all right, but.
Speaker 5 (01:26:20):
First of all, why is Tyler doing a All right,
we'll get to it next.
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It's the Breakfast Lub, Good morning, good morning.
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We are the Breakfast Club. Let's get to the latest
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I'm a homegirl that knows a little bit about everything.
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She'd be having the latest on this.
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Law.
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The latest with Lauren la Rosa.
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Sometimes you have.
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Facts, sometimes you have details. Sometimes you have a little
bit of everything on the Breakfast Club.
Speaker 23 (01:26:54):
Okay, so The Bodyguard, a remake is coming, you know,
the iconic movie with Kevin Costner and Whitney Houston, and
Tyra Banks is jumping in the conversation of who she
thinks she would repriseed Whitney Houston's role. Now, if y'all
had to cast it. Who would you guys think alone?
Speaker 10 (01:27:10):
Yeah, I just hate that.
Speaker 8 (01:27:12):
It's so they keep trying to Redoce stuff, like a
nobody know original thoughts. Why we keep trying to remake
movies that's already great.
Speaker 4 (01:27:20):
I concur But if they were I would say, probably Beyonce.
Speaker 2 (01:27:24):
You're crazy because somebody that would need a bodyguard that
can sing, that's a global superstar.
Speaker 4 (01:27:29):
Yeah, why not? Who else?
Speaker 15 (01:27:30):
Well, Tyra Banks said movie it could be a non famous.
Speaker 5 (01:27:41):
Because Whitney played one another famous celebrity and famous singer.
Speaker 15 (01:27:46):
Well, Tyler Banks said that it should be Taylor Swifts.
Speaker 24 (01:27:49):
The Bodyguard, one of the most iconic romantic movies of
all time.
Speaker 8 (01:27:53):
Are rebuddist in the works, A remakers in the works.
Speaker 15 (01:27:56):
Like so beyond excited that movie?
Speaker 4 (01:27:59):
Yes is Yes, who could play the Whitney Houston character
Taylor Swift?
Speaker 29 (01:28:06):
I think Taylor Swift because business and commerce art and
you know she would freaking sell like crazy, right, But okay,
I'm just being I'm a black girl. It was Whitney's
as a black girl. Yes, what if we flipped it
and it was Taylor Swift? Yes, and yourself DRIs Elba, Right.
Speaker 10 (01:28:27):
That's the good gentrified version. I do like you do,
like you throw a little bleach.
Speaker 4 (01:28:31):
On the movie.
Speaker 3 (01:28:32):
I like it, but it would it be a worldwide
hit like that though, because a lot of these countries
don't like interracial relationships.
Speaker 15 (01:28:39):
It would be a kid right now.
Speaker 4 (01:28:40):
I don't know. I guess it would be. Don't think
the worldwide hit. I don't freak.
Speaker 10 (01:28:45):
But it doesn't need to be a remake.
Speaker 8 (01:28:46):
It can just be another type of movie, you know
what I'm saying, because when yeah, like I spent off
because you could, because that's the thing. When you put
remake on it, that's when you let people down because
people are constantly comparing it to original before it. So
it's like, nah, just make it a whole nother movie.
Speaker 6 (01:29:02):
Now to hear her actually say do the flip or
whatever that that is cool because the half interests Alba
as the bodyguard to a tailor swift with somebody you
know off that statue that that might be a good
movie if it was a spin off, just with the storyline.
B I see you lost me because I don't know Taylor,
and you know what I'm saying, When.
Speaker 2 (01:29:23):
We get from Whitney to I don't think it could
be a spinoff. I think you just got to do
a new renditional.
Speaker 3 (01:29:27):
And you need somebody who can really sing. I mean,
that's what the in the original Bodyguard. Whitney was an
actress and a singer in the movie, and that soundtrack
sold a lot of that movie.
Speaker 4 (01:29:39):
That's what I think Beyonce would be.
Speaker 5 (01:29:40):
But Tailor Swift wil do it too, like so many
people too active.
Speaker 4 (01:29:44):
She was beautiful.
Speaker 8 (01:29:45):
There was like I'm not saying is not beautiful, but
it's like.
Speaker 10 (01:29:48):
You know, you see what I'm saying.
Speaker 26 (01:29:50):
I know what you mean.
Speaker 23 (01:29:50):
There was a certain type of like attraction between the
two of them on screen, and it was so soft
and sexy. And again, I don't know Taylor can deliver that.
Speaker 3 (01:29:57):
Also, y'all sleeping on the fact that it was Whitney
and Kevin Costs was a huge star back then.
Speaker 4 (01:30:05):
You need a huge star. Now you say, you yeah,
we're not we're not on Kevin Costner level.
Speaker 15 (01:30:11):
Well we're flipping. It got to be a black man
who would.
Speaker 4 (01:30:14):
Be to be Michael B. Jordan. He's not.
Speaker 10 (01:30:18):
He's still not as old as you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 4 (01:30:20):
It's not.
Speaker 15 (01:30:21):
It's not like four black actors that Hollywood used with
just the.
Speaker 4 (01:30:25):
Original idea, come up with some new ideas. Man, you
don't need to need a Bodyguard remake. The Bodyguard slap
like that.
Speaker 15 (01:30:33):
I don't I don't want them to touch it. But yes,
that movie is like absolutely.
Speaker 4 (01:30:37):
The soundtrack was Phenom.
Speaker 15 (01:30:38):
Soundtrack was amazing.
Speaker 4 (01:30:40):
Always love you. You know it would run to you.
I have nothing. The soundtrack was by It. I don't
remember the movie.
Speaker 10 (01:30:47):
That movie was amazing. You need to watch it.
Speaker 23 (01:30:50):
The studio which released, which is going to be releasing
the remake, has set Taylor Swiss aristory director Sam Rinch
to help get this together and script and all that
other stuff.
Speaker 15 (01:31:00):
So maybe that's why she brought tell the Swift into it.
Speaker 23 (01:31:02):
I don't know where Taylor Swift came from, but I
think we should leave it where attacked security guard.
Speaker 30 (01:31:07):
They don't have to be guard security voice and all
you hear is no then what we would all agree, Okay.
Speaker 10 (01:31:18):
Not concierge though.
Speaker 12 (01:31:22):
So.
Speaker 23 (01:31:22):
In other news, off Set is now happy for Cardi
B that she is moving on with Stefan Diggs. Uh So,
Cardi B and Stephan Diggs were out in New York recently,
and there's a video of Cardi b dancing on Stephan
and having a good time, and a fan commented and said,
off Set is somewhere punching the air. Offset came back
and responded to the fan and said, I'm happy for
her with two exclamation points.
Speaker 5 (01:31:43):
So please why how did he even see it?
Speaker 7 (01:31:47):
Lord?
Speaker 4 (01:31:47):
How did he see that?
Speaker 8 (01:31:48):
See somebody say that they didn't tag him?
Speaker 15 (01:31:52):
They didn't before, didn't tag it.
Speaker 10 (01:31:55):
He not happy for he just didn't.
Speaker 6 (01:31:57):
Didn't they comment to each other like make some subliminal
type of Lauren, did you see that Stephan Diggs that
posted a picture and his capture was buddy doing all that,
doing all that talking or whatever. He still ain't gonna
do nothing. And then I think Offset that tweet is
something that was like I'm laughing or something like that.
He posted a photo of himself Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 10 (01:32:15):
With no shirt on. Yeah something, he was laughing.
Speaker 4 (01:32:18):
So I did see that.
Speaker 10 (01:32:19):
I mean, no, he not really happy.
Speaker 6 (01:32:23):
It's like I would love to look unbothered as well,
both of them.
Speaker 5 (01:32:30):
I didn't give him damn before.
Speaker 8 (01:32:31):
I don't give a damn now.
Speaker 23 (01:32:34):
Well neither. I don't know what to say, like, I mean,
it's it, he commented. I wouldn't been talking about if
he in comment. Glad he's in a happy place.
Speaker 10 (01:32:42):
Celebrity people want to talk about it.
Speaker 15 (01:32:43):
Yeah, well that's it for the latest.
Speaker 2 (01:32:45):
That's the latest with Lauren. All right, thank you, Lauren
l Rosa. Now when we come back, we got the
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