August 15, 2023 • 11 mins
Should You Apply Marriage Rules In Dating?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
I know.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Your opinion to the Breakfast Club top.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Come on, I did five five one.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Morning.
Speaker 5 (00:19):
Everybody's DJ Envy Charlomagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
We got our special guest co host, Big Sue K
ninety seven Memphis. Now, if you're just joining us, we're
asking eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
A gentleman called this morning during Get It Off your Chest,
and we're talking about this book marriage Rules in Dating,
all right, and we were talking about should you use
(00:39):
marriage rules in dating? Eight hundred five A five one
oh five one. Charlamage said no.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Uh yeah, I agree with him. I don't think marriage
rules should be implied. Uh in dating are not implied
or imposed. I don't know what the word I'm looking for,
but marriage rules should not be involved when you're just
dating somebody. When you do dating somebody, you're dating them,
you know what I mean. And as y'all grow in
the relationship, then you start to say to yourself, oh,
this is somebody I may want to be with, you know,
as a husband, as a wife, and then that might
(01:07):
start to evolve into what looks like more of a marriage,
and then hopefully you get engaged and then you actually
become married. But if you just dating a person, you
ain't got a reason to be treating that person like
a husband, and you ain't going to reason to be
treating that person like a wife if y'all just dating.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
So you know what, I got to co sign that.
Speaker 6 (01:22):
I think sometimes people get to dating and they're too
early in the relationship and then they start you know,
dating with a marriage mind is one thing, but starting
too early before you really know a person, that's when
you run into problems.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
See.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
I also think there's different stages of dating. Right there's
young dating, where I think people are young and they're
just out having fun. But I think there's also an
age where it's like people are ready to find that
right person. And in that situation, I feel like you
almost have to have marriage rules because you don't want
you don't want nobody to waste your time.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
That causes a lot of problem.
Speaker 5 (01:49):
You want to make sure that that person has the
same aspiration, the same inspiration, the same ethics, the same morales,
even when it comes to financing and it comes to credit,
it comes to because you're trying to build a life
with this person, and if they're if their values don't
fit with yours. You want to know early before you
waste your time, because you could be in a situation
for a yeah, and you're wasting your time with that person.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
A lot of people lose people like that though, because
you know, you be a man or a woman that's
really looking for marriage, like you're really looking to get
chasing it right, and then you get with a person
that might be forty something fifty something that don't want that,
that person might have already been divorced, or that person
may have never wanted to be married, and being that
you want such a major commitment, they falling back from
you like.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Oh, but don't you want to know that early if
that person's not on that same vibe as you, if
you're ready to rock lock and you know, do it now?
And they like, Nah, don't you want to know early
before I waste my time, waste my birthdays, waste my valentine?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Tell me, so we don't even go on a date.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
Yeah, but at the same time, you can't go in
play some real heavy expectations.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
On it early in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, Well, let's go to.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
The phone lines eight hundred five eight five one oh
five to one Lake.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
What up?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Lake?
Speaker 7 (02:50):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Man?
Speaker 7 (02:51):
What's going on?
Speaker 8 (02:51):
Interviewing?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
How you feeling?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Brother?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Can't?
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
All right?
Speaker 9 (02:58):
I want to stop.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
In a marriage rule in my opinion, I want to
say that first because it's just my opinion. Dating is
an interview, for marriage is an extend. Your interest in
the position is show and you're performing. So if you're
gonna show up and step better the interview, you're not interested.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I think it's the difference in seeing if somebody is
marriage material as opposed to laying down marriage rules, right,
because like the things that you give a person in marriage,
when you are dealing with an individual, you can say
to yourself, man, this is somebody that I would.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Do all of that force. I think what he's saying
is true.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
I just think that you know, when you're dating somebody
you're realizing that they are marriage material.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
That don't mean you should apply to marriage rules yet.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Hello, who's this?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
And dingo?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Dingo?
Speaker 4 (03:50):
What's going on wrong?
Speaker 8 (03:51):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (03:52):
What's up your husband? In a minute, how y'all feeling blessed?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Black and holly? Favor? Good? Brother?
Speaker 7 (03:56):
That's what I'm talking about, And how you feel good?
I'm the name, but God, I love you my brother
Big two.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
How you doing, Hey, I'm doing good. How you doing
this morning?
Speaker 7 (04:06):
Hey, I'm good represented Memphis. I like that you're playing great.
Speaker 8 (04:09):
Thank you.
Speaker 7 (04:10):
Absolutely so my take on this whole situation. I just
recently started dating the night young lady. We married a
couple of weeks in, and uh, you know, it's really
important to make your attentions clear when you're dated, Like
those first couple of dates are very vital to express
yourself and what you guys want in a relationship because
it'll make the dating process that much simpler. You know,
(04:32):
we have that understanding now. We know that we're dating
with attention and we're just not putting the pressure on
like a time frame. We're just letting things go day
by day and we're enjoying each other's company and that's
really all you got to do with Then once that
blossoms into something else, we go see where it goes.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I agree with you so much.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Ding Like dating, dating is a process, right, It's a
process in which two people get to know each other better.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Marriage, man, is when two people make a commitment to
be together for the rest of their lives. You're not
getting that we're just dating.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
But you got to get to that.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
But you got to make sure that y'all aligned the same,
you know, I mean, because you can be wasting a
lot of time with people, you know what I mean
some people, one side might be in there for fun
and another side might be in there for the long distance.
But you want to know these things now. You want
to know if you're compatible, if everything actually matches.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That's why you date. You date to learn all of that.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Let's call it one more caller.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Hello, who's this?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Yeah, what's up? And be just cue. Don't put marriage
rules and dating themselves.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Oh yeah, you wrote the book. Yeah, we talked about
you this morning.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:33):
I wanted to elaborate on it. You know, I could
definitely give some commentary contact to that. You know, it's
like this. You know a lot of people get into
relationships and they asked the wrong things. They try to
find out the wrong things. You got to know who
your mate is, you understand. I want to know how
you was raised. I want to know if you had
(05:55):
both parents. I want to know if you carry in
some trauma, some PTSD. I want to know everything about you.
You know, people talk about what the obvious, what they like,
the superficial stuff. But I want to know what what
I what I probably won't like, like give me the
other stuff. Let me get to know who you are.
What's you know? HOWE was raised?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I agree with you? You got I think I agree?
I agree with you. Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Eight hundred five A five one o five one.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
We're asking, do you guys put marriage rules into dating?
Speaker 4 (06:30):
That is the question, should you? Let's discuss. It's the
Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Good morning, it's topic time. Eight hundred five five one
five one to join into the discussion.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
With the Breakfast Club Morning, everybody.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
It's TJ n V. Charlamagne to God. We are the
Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host, Big Sus
of course K ninety seven Memphis, and we're asking eight
hundred five A five one oh five one. Do you
guys put marriage rules into dating? Kind of feel like
you have to, though, I kind of feel like if
that's that's what you want as a goal, you want
to get the I don't want to say the judge,
(07:07):
but the duds out the way early.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
But what about the process, whether it dating is the
process you're going through the process, You're learning a person,
you're getting to know somebody better.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I'm not saying you're giving me the ring the first day.
I'm just saying, not even the ring.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
That commitment that comes with the ring. Marriage is a
commitment to be together for the rest of your life.
Correct for the person. I'm not going in there giving
somebody that energy.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
I'm just dating.
Speaker 8 (07:31):
Hell.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Hey, good morning, mama, good morning. What's your thoughts.
Speaker 9 (07:41):
In those relationships? I feel like marriage wills kind of
make them well their way depending on how connect it
you are in the relationship you in. I think will
kind of brings themselves into the relationship that you're in, especially.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
Out of respect.
Speaker 9 (07:57):
I don't I don't feel like like you said, and
you should be treated like a wife or a husband
because that to me, that levels to to ative roles
in relationships.
Speaker 10 (08:09):
But certain rules just to.
Speaker 9 (08:11):
Find their way in there. And if you expect yourself
and know yourself, then and then you can have a
conversation with the person that you're with and you guys
can be mutually will mutually agree on certain aspects of
your relationship.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Okay, thank you, mama, Regie, good morning.
Speaker 8 (08:30):
Good morning.
Speaker 10 (08:31):
Uh to one such on the barrass subtific roles and whatever. Yes, sir,
and I feel like, man, it's definitely made roles that
you know, single people shouldn't get, like, uh, next week
is my three year anniversary, and you know four three
years ago, I couldn't see myself giving a woman pass,
goes to my phone jailed. My location is definitely always
(08:56):
and stuff like that. Man, Look, it's it's completely different,
but I love it, you know, damn going up three years,
you know, changed for the world. But it's definitely a
difference and role that should be separate from marriage to day.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
And we all know the difference because we've all been
in situations where we were dating and we've all been
into well.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Not all of us, but most of us are. We're
all married, is what I'm saying. We know the difference
between dating and marriage, right, So yes, there's.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Certain things that you are doing in a marriage that
you wouldn't think of doing with somebody you just dating.
Speaker 8 (09:24):
Coach David, you know what's going on these and be
struggling me to god, how y'all doing? What?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Say? What up the big sue, big shoe?
Speaker 8 (09:32):
How you doing, beloved?
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Good morning, Hey, good morning?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
How you doing all right?
Speaker 8 (09:36):
Listen? You asked a very good question earlier. The difference
between being married and being you know, just dating, you know,
as a man, as a man of a current age,
and being married to my wife over twenty one years.
I look at it like this, there's a difference between
dating and courting. If you're dating, you know, we're we're
(09:59):
just being friends. We're being friendly, being caught. We can
know each other, you know, we go out on a
few days. When courting, that's the situation. I'm probably looking
your parents at some point. We're preparing for marriage. So
there's a level of commitment that's there. You got to
think about it like this. You you want eggs and
bacon in the morning, right.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
For breakfast, turkey bacon.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
There's a different level of commitment between a chicken and
a pig. A chicken can give an egg and still
leg that pig gotta get his life for us to
eat bacon. But there's a different level of commitment when you.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Married, you're calling your wife a pig.
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Man.
Speaker 8 (10:35):
I know how I know you, Bro, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I'm now I don't want to no, bro, get what
you're saying.
Speaker 8 (10:47):
I expect you respect what you need taking my guy.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Okay, I get what you're saying, though, I do understand
what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Thanks coach.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
All right, you've been coaching saying be pork. I'm hungry.
Now I'm saying be pork.
Speaker 6 (10:59):
I Actually he made a really good point, the difference
between you know, like courting and just dating, because some
people are just dating and marriage isn't in the cards.
They enjoy dating, they like the companionship. Marriage isn't a
goal for them. You need to know that.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
I never thought about that either.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
There is levels, right, because I guess it's dating, and
then I didn't realize courting is when you're about to
take it to that next level, which is probably the
engagement in marriage.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
I never thought about it like that, at definitely levels.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
All right, Well, what's the morrow of the story Tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Dating is a process, you know what I'm saying. Marriage
is a commitment.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
You know, can't give somebody the commitment while you just
going through the process.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
All right, all right, when we come back, we got
your room and report big. So what we're talking about
in the rooms this time?
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Oh yeah, we got to talk about Michael Ore.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Oh Lord, have mercy.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
I laughed at that yesterday so much, but I always
knew that day was up to no good.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
In that damn house.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I had a whole love theory okay, that I still
think is true, but we'll discuss.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
All right, we'll get into that nextus The Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Good morning,
I know.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Your opinion to the Breakfast Club top.
Speaker 3 (00:11):
Come on, I did five five one.
Speaker 4 (00:19):
Morning.
Speaker 5 (00:19):
Everybody's DJ Envy Charlomagne the God. We are the Breakfast Club.
We got our special guest co host, Big Sue K
ninety seven Memphis. Now, if you're just joining us, we're
asking eight hundred five A five one oh five one.
A gentleman called this morning during Get It Off your Chest,
and we're talking about this book marriage Rules in Dating,
all right, and we were talking about should you use
(00:39):
marriage rules in dating? Eight hundred five A five one
oh five one. Charlamage said no.
Speaker 3 (00:45):
Uh yeah, I agree with him. I don't think marriage
rules should be implied. Uh in dating are not implied
or imposed. I don't know what the word I'm looking for,
but marriage rules should not be involved when you're just
dating somebody. When you do dating somebody, you're dating them,
you know what I mean. And as y'all grow in
the relationship, then you start to say to yourself, oh,
this is somebody I may want to be with, you know,
as a husband, as a wife, and then that might
(01:07):
start to evolve into what looks like more of a marriage,
and then hopefully you get engaged and then you actually
become married. But if you just dating a person, you
ain't got a reason to be treating that person like
a husband, and you ain't going to reason to be
treating that person like a wife if y'all just dating.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
So you know what, I got to co sign that.
Speaker 6 (01:22):
I think sometimes people get to dating and they're too
early in the relationship and then they start you know,
dating with a marriage mind is one thing, but starting
too early before you really know a person, that's when
you run into problems.
Speaker 2 (01:32):
See.
Speaker 5 (01:32):
I also think there's different stages of dating. Right there's
young dating, where I think people are young and they're
just out having fun. But I think there's also an
age where it's like people are ready to find that
right person. And in that situation, I feel like you
almost have to have marriage rules because you don't want
you don't want nobody to waste your time.
Speaker 2 (01:48):
That causes a lot of problem.
Speaker 5 (01:49):
You want to make sure that that person has the
same aspiration, the same inspiration, the same ethics, the same morales,
even when it comes to financing and it comes to credit,
it comes to because you're trying to build a life
with this person, and if they're if their values don't
fit with yours. You want to know early before you
waste your time, because you could be in a situation
for a yeah, and you're wasting your time with that person.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
A lot of people lose people like that though, because
you know, you be a man or a woman that's
really looking for marriage, like you're really looking to get
chasing it right, and then you get with a person
that might be forty something fifty something that don't want that,
that person might have already been divorced, or that person
may have never wanted to be married, and being that
you want such a major commitment, they falling back from
you like.
Speaker 5 (02:27):
Oh, but don't you want to know that early if
that person's not on that same vibe as you, if
you're ready to rock lock and you know, do it now?
And they like, Nah, don't you want to know early
before I waste my time, waste my birthdays, waste my valentine?
Speaker 2 (02:38):
Tell me, so we don't even go on a date.
Speaker 6 (02:40):
Yeah, but at the same time, you can't go in
play some real heavy expectations.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
On it early in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
Yeah, Well, let's go to.
Speaker 4 (02:46):
The phone lines eight hundred five eight five one oh
five to one Lake.
Speaker 3 (02:49):
What up?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
Lake?
Speaker 7 (02:50):
What?
Speaker 1 (02:51):
Man?
Speaker 7 (02:51):
What's going on?
Speaker 8 (02:51):
Interviewing?
Speaker 4 (02:52):
How you feeling?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Brother?
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Can't?
Speaker 4 (02:56):
Good morning?
Speaker 2 (02:57):
All right?
Speaker 9 (02:58):
I want to stop.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
In a marriage rule in my opinion, I want to
say that first because it's just my opinion. Dating is
an interview, for marriage is an extend. Your interest in
the position is show and you're performing. So if you're
gonna show up and step better the interview, you're not interested.
Speaker 3 (03:20):
I think it's the difference in seeing if somebody is
marriage material as opposed to laying down marriage rules, right,
because like the things that you give a person in marriage,
when you are dealing with an individual, you can say
to yourself, man, this is somebody that I would.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
Do all of that force. I think what he's saying
is true.
Speaker 3 (03:39):
I just think that you know, when you're dating somebody
you're realizing that they are marriage material.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
That don't mean you should apply to marriage rules yet.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
Hello, who's this?
Speaker 7 (03:47):
And dingo?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
Dingo?
Speaker 4 (03:50):
What's going on wrong?
Speaker 8 (03:51):
Hey?
Speaker 7 (03:52):
What's up your husband? In a minute, how y'all feeling blessed?
Speaker 2 (03:54):
Black and holly? Favor? Good? Brother?
Speaker 7 (03:56):
That's what I'm talking about, And how you feel good?
I'm the name, but God, I love you my brother
Big two.
Speaker 4 (04:04):
How you doing, Hey, I'm doing good. How you doing
this morning?
Speaker 7 (04:06):
Hey, I'm good represented Memphis. I like that you're playing great.
Speaker 8 (04:09):
Thank you.
Speaker 7 (04:10):
Absolutely so my take on this whole situation. I just
recently started dating the night young lady. We married a
couple of weeks in, and uh, you know, it's really
important to make your attentions clear when you're dated, Like
those first couple of dates are very vital to express
yourself and what you guys want in a relationship because
it'll make the dating process that much simpler. You know,
(04:32):
we have that understanding now. We know that we're dating
with attention and we're just not putting the pressure on
like a time frame. We're just letting things go day
by day and we're enjoying each other's company and that's
really all you got to do with Then once that
blossoms into something else, we go see where it goes.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
I agree with you so much.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
Ding Like dating, dating is a process, right, It's a
process in which two people get to know each other better.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Marriage, man, is when two people make a commitment to
be together for the rest of their lives. You're not
getting that we're just dating.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
But you got to get to that.
Speaker 5 (05:04):
But you got to make sure that y'all aligned the same,
you know, I mean, because you can be wasting a
lot of time with people, you know what I mean
some people, one side might be in there for fun
and another side might be in there for the long distance.
But you want to know these things now. You want
to know if you're compatible, if everything actually matches.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
That's why you date. You date to learn all of that.
Speaker 4 (05:23):
Let's call it one more caller.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Hello, who's this?
Speaker 7 (05:26):
Yeah, what's up? And be just cue. Don't put marriage
rules and dating themselves.
Speaker 4 (05:30):
Oh yeah, you wrote the book. Yeah, we talked about
you this morning.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:33):
I wanted to elaborate on it. You know, I could
definitely give some commentary contact to that. You know, it's
like this. You know a lot of people get into
relationships and they asked the wrong things. They try to
find out the wrong things. You got to know who
your mate is, you understand. I want to know how
you was raised. I want to know if you had
(05:55):
both parents. I want to know if you carry in
some trauma, some PTSD. I want to know everything about you.
You know, people talk about what the obvious, what they like,
the superficial stuff. But I want to know what what
I what I probably won't like, like give me the
other stuff. Let me get to know who you are.
What's you know? HOWE was raised?
Speaker 2 (06:17):
I agree with you? You got I think I agree?
I agree with you. Yeah, thank you.
Speaker 4 (06:24):
Eight hundred five A five one o five one.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
We're asking, do you guys put marriage rules into dating?
Speaker 4 (06:30):
That is the question, should you? Let's discuss. It's the
Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Good morning, it's topic time. Eight hundred five five one
five one to join into the discussion.
Speaker 4 (06:43):
With the Breakfast Club Morning, everybody.
Speaker 5 (06:45):
It's TJ n V. Charlamagne to God. We are the
Breakfast Club. We got our guest co host, Big Sus
of course K ninety seven Memphis, and we're asking eight
hundred five A five one oh five one. Do you
guys put marriage rules into dating? Kind of feel like
you have to, though, I kind of feel like if
that's that's what you want as a goal, you want
to get the I don't want to say the judge,
(07:07):
but the duds out the way early.
Speaker 3 (07:08):
But what about the process, whether it dating is the
process you're going through the process, You're learning a person,
you're getting to know somebody better.
Speaker 5 (07:15):
I'm not saying you're giving me the ring the first day.
I'm just saying, not even the ring.
Speaker 3 (07:19):
That commitment that comes with the ring. Marriage is a
commitment to be together for the rest of your life.
Correct for the person. I'm not going in there giving
somebody that energy.
Speaker 2 (07:28):
I'm just dating.
Speaker 8 (07:31):
Hell.
Speaker 4 (07:32):
Hey, good morning, mama, good morning. What's your thoughts.
Speaker 9 (07:41):
In those relationships? I feel like marriage wills kind of
make them well their way depending on how connect it
you are in the relationship you in. I think will
kind of brings themselves into the relationship that you're in, especially.
Speaker 8 (07:55):
Out of respect.
Speaker 9 (07:57):
I don't I don't feel like like you said, and
you should be treated like a wife or a husband
because that to me, that levels to to ative roles
in relationships.
Speaker 10 (08:09):
But certain rules just to.
Speaker 9 (08:11):
Find their way in there. And if you expect yourself
and know yourself, then and then you can have a
conversation with the person that you're with and you guys
can be mutually will mutually agree on certain aspects of
your relationship.
Speaker 4 (08:26):
Okay, thank you, mama, Regie, good morning.
Speaker 8 (08:30):
Good morning.
Speaker 10 (08:31):
Uh to one such on the barrass subtific roles and whatever. Yes, sir,
and I feel like, man, it's definitely made roles that
you know, single people shouldn't get, like, uh, next week
is my three year anniversary, and you know four three
years ago, I couldn't see myself giving a woman pass,
goes to my phone jailed. My location is definitely always
(08:56):
and stuff like that. Man, Look, it's it's completely different,
but I love it, you know, damn going up three years,
you know, changed for the world. But it's definitely a
difference and role that should be separate from marriage to day.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
And we all know the difference because we've all been
in situations where we were dating and we've all been
into well.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Not all of us, but most of us are. We're
all married, is what I'm saying. We know the difference
between dating and marriage, right, So yes, there's.
Speaker 3 (09:20):
Certain things that you are doing in a marriage that
you wouldn't think of doing with somebody you just dating.
Speaker 8 (09:24):
Coach David, you know what's going on these and be
struggling me to god, how y'all doing? What?
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Say? What up the big sue, big shoe?
Speaker 8 (09:32):
How you doing, beloved?
Speaker 2 (09:33):
Good morning, Hey, good morning?
Speaker 4 (09:35):
How you doing all right?
Speaker 8 (09:36):
Listen? You asked a very good question earlier. The difference
between being married and being you know, just dating, you know,
as a man, as a man of a current age,
and being married to my wife over twenty one years.
I look at it like this, there's a difference between
dating and courting. If you're dating, you know, we're we're
(09:59):
just being friends. We're being friendly, being caught. We can
know each other, you know, we go out on a
few days. When courting, that's the situation. I'm probably looking
your parents at some point. We're preparing for marriage. So
there's a level of commitment that's there. You got to
think about it like this. You you want eggs and
bacon in the morning, right.
Speaker 2 (10:18):
For breakfast, turkey bacon.
Speaker 8 (10:19):
There's a different level of commitment between a chicken and
a pig. A chicken can give an egg and still
leg that pig gotta get his life for us to
eat bacon. But there's a different level of commitment when you.
Speaker 2 (10:31):
Married, you're calling your wife a pig.
Speaker 6 (10:35):
Man.
Speaker 8 (10:35):
I know how I know you, Bro, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (10:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (10:40):
I'm now I don't want to no, bro, get what
you're saying.
Speaker 8 (10:47):
I expect you respect what you need taking my guy.
Speaker 2 (10:50):
Okay, I get what you're saying, though, I do understand
what you're saying.
Speaker 4 (10:53):
Thanks coach.
Speaker 2 (10:54):
All right, you've been coaching saying be pork. I'm hungry.
Now I'm saying be pork.
Speaker 6 (10:59):
I Actually he made a really good point, the difference
between you know, like courting and just dating, because some
people are just dating and marriage isn't in the cards.
They enjoy dating, they like the companionship. Marriage isn't a
goal for them. You need to know that.
Speaker 2 (11:11):
I never thought about that either.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
There is levels, right, because I guess it's dating, and
then I didn't realize courting is when you're about to
take it to that next level, which is probably the
engagement in marriage.
Speaker 2 (11:20):
I never thought about it like that, at definitely levels.
Speaker 4 (11:23):
All right, Well, what's the morrow of the story Tomorrow?
Speaker 2 (11:25):
Dating is a process, you know what I'm saying. Marriage
is a commitment.
Speaker 3 (11:29):
You know, can't give somebody the commitment while you just
going through the process.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
All right, all right, when we come back, we got
your room and report big. So what we're talking about
in the rooms this time?
Speaker 4 (11:38):
Oh yeah, we got to talk about Michael Ore.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
Oh Lord, have mercy.
Speaker 3 (11:41):
I laughed at that yesterday so much, but I always
knew that day was up to no good.
Speaker 2 (11:46):
In that damn house.
Speaker 3 (11:47):
I had a whole love theory okay, that I still
think is true, but we'll discuss.
Speaker 4 (11:52):
All right, we'll get into that nextus The Breakfast Club.
Speaker 2 (11:54):
Good morning,
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