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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time, y'all
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You gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn
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them out. Then the water the water come come on
your baby. Uh huh. I show will come on, and
everybody you are listening to the voice, come on, dig
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me down one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Well, okay,
here we go. You know what's important, what's what can
be a huge part of your success is if you
if you find a balance, if you find a balance
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in your life. That's that's been very important for me.
And I've really never phrased it this way until now,
but I was kind of thinking about it after my
wife and I mean, we set up one night recently. Man.
You know, I often come on here and this is
kind of an inspirational moment of the show, and I
try to remind people about that most important relationship between
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you and God. And that's that's the apex of it.
That's that's the that's the top of the crown. You
gotta form the relationship with God. If you don't, everything
else struggles. It's hard to be a good husband without God.
It's hard to be a good family man without God.
It's hard to be successful without God. Man, it's hard
to be hard to get through this thing called life
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without God. So that's clear. But at the same time,
you can't talk about God twenty four seven. You got
to go to work. Come on, man, let's just be real.
I ain't I ain't your past, and I ain't at
your church. But let's just be real about it. You know,
if people tell you got to keep your mind stayed
on Him and all like that, that's that's a true statement.
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Got to keep your mind stayed in that area. I
don't not here to tell you how to live, but
you got to keep your mind stayed in that area
of God, of doing the right thing, caring about people.
That's what I took it as. Now I could be wrong.
I apologize if I'm not saying that the way you've
been taught. I can only do me now. But after that,
you got to go to work. You gotta have some fun.
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You gotta take care of your business. And that's the
balance you have to find so it. Once you focus
on showing up your relationship with God, you got you
gotta balance this now. Now you got to allocate some
time I don't care who you are, for your family.
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If you're gonna have a family, you got to allocate
some time for them. See, we can't just marry these
women or make these kids and then neglect them and fellas,
especially if I'm talking to me about him, Ladies, you
can listen to but listen. If you find yourself struggling
in your life, man, and you can't seem to get
it together, let's just go over a couple of things.
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The first two things, if you find yourself struggling, you
can't seem to pull it together and reach your goals
and get to where you want to go, Let's just
do a check how is your relationship with God? And
then next how much time are you taking to allocate
for your family? Now, your family don't always live in
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your house, but if you made them, they yours and
the responsibility to them is never lessing because you don't
stay that no more. Because you and the girl broke up,
you and the woman don't speak a man that don't
ever release you from the obligation. Feel me when I'm
telling you this now, because I'm not telling you something
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I'm wondering about. I've had to live through them years.
So two things you can start looking at. If you're
not where you want to be, and you ain't, you
ain't really solid. You can't figure out why you keep
spending your wills. Have you just done a random inventory? Man?
Have you just checked on your relationship with God? Have
you checked on the time you spending dedicated towards your family,
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your children that you've created? If them two things is
out of saint man, that I can tell you right now,
you can go on and get to explain in yourself
away just like that. A man, how come you ain't
where you want to be? Mancuf man, I really ain't.
But if you really ain't, then you really ain't. The
third thing is you got to allocate the necessary time
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for your business. You got to handle your business. All
of this, man, is the way it works, and the
order the order is God first, family second. Then you
got to handle all your business but as men, and
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this is what we do. If I don't handle my business,
I can't take care of my family. True statement. But
if your business is in front of your family. You
out of order. Nah, that's all we're talking about now,
ain't it. See, that's that's all we really saying here now,
fellas you know, you know, I mean, I mean, come on, man,
you know, let's let's have a real conversation about being better.
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You know, if you have created these children, you got
to handle your business. You may not like the girl
no more. You and the woman might have broken up,
y'all might go your own way, But what that got
to do with the child though? Man, you got to
under your business. They got to know who daddy is.
That's your obligation, man, And God ain't letting you off
the hook for that. Try it. Go ahead and try it,
and thank you. Gonna get off the hook with that
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because you're not man, You just not. I'm sorry, man,
dog Steve, Why are you coming like that? Because I
did it like that. I did it, man. I was
over here trying to reshape my life, getting myself up
on my feet when I was a homeless man and
trying to come back. Man, I thought I had to
take care of me first and then so I can
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neglect it. Care about them kids, man, That ain't high work. Man.
God keepers knee on my neck for a long time
for that one right there, until I finally learned the
lesson hold up man, put these phone calls in, Go
spend some time, do something, And then it started turning
around for me. You know, I can't beat there all
the time because I am out here on the ground
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in the hustle. But at the same time, Man, some
more phone calls, some more letters, somemo, haaha, he he's something.
Then take care of your business. Man. You got to
work hard to be successful. You know. Sometimes I don't
put that in there. I just live in and I
expect my sons to emulate that. But I gotta talk
to him all the time. How hard you got to
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work to be something. It's all out of salt on it. Man.
If you gotta target in mind, you gotta go. You
gotta wake up every day trying to get there. And
you can't get tired of it because it's it's it
never ends. You're gonna always be this way. That's how
life is designed and set up. You got to be
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a hard worker. Man. If you're always looking for some
time to chill and man, I won't to go do it.
I want to do, you ain't gonna make it. In
order to be successful, you have to do a series
of things that you're uncomfortable doing, and work is the
thing that most of us are uncomfortable doing. It's so
much easier to chill, man. I wish I could kick
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back with a cigar man all the time, but I can't, Man,
I can't because I got to work. Then the last
piece of the balance balance piece is you gotta take
some time out to enjoy yourself. But if you ain't
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where you wanna be, you ain't got a lot of
time to enjoy yourself. Quit thinking, man, that this balance
is even. It's a whole lot of God, a whole
lot of family, a whole lot of business, and a
little bit of chilling. The chilling can't be equal to
the family, the business, or your God. If the chilling
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is equal to any of them, you ain't gonna make it.
Quit chilling, man, and go to work like a man.
Do what you post to do. Work on your family,
work on your relationship, work on your God, work on
your business. And then when you chill, you might not
chill is long, but your show gonna chill bigger. You're
gonna ball bigger babies. You're listening at everybody? It is Thursday.
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I know, I know I'm asking the same damn question.
Why am I here because he asked me to be here?
I know it's throwing me home too, but we're here.
We're gonna do I know, I know I hold all
your texas? Why is Jay here? Jay is here? But
I'm gonna do it because they asked me to be here.
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Isn't that right? Sherley's trouble. I'm so confused? What is
to day? What's your day? Confused? I was like, did
he add another day? Is this? What day is this?
I'm so confused. But if we're glad to have you
when we can get you, Jay, thank you for stopping by?
Do this to me? Why do you do this to me?
You know I can't take it? What's going on? Calumb Rel?
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How are you doing? Baby? What day is today? What
is today's day? It is throwback Thursday, throw back to
when you used to come to work? What's up? What's up?
What's up in my writing? Part of my main man?
My sick partner? What's up? Yeah? How you doing? Man?
I think are you sick? Are you here? Oh? Oh
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my god? What is going on? This is messing me up.
I mean, I'm flustered. I'm flustered. The man, he's the
he's the game, the Franks, y'all. Maybe he can help
me out and figure out what dad is? What's up? Time? Time?
What's going on? Top? Top top? It is three piece Thursday,
That's what it is. Three piece thurs the leg and
two thighs and a biscuit three piece third. I don't
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know if you know this, but the chicken wing is
the most celebrated part of the chicken. The wing. I've
done research on the timing, and it is the wing.
There's nothing. There's no place called Bill's drumstick there's no
place called there's no place called marriage thighs. There's no place.
It's wings and no, there's no Betti's breast. There's no there,
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no breast. It is David's wings. It is three wings
in a and I sat it's the wing. Is the
most important part of the chicken. We know it. I've
done the research on it. I've done the research. Man
done it? What drumsticker? Flat? Which one? Oh? Man, I
gotta have bone in my meat, bone in my meat.
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I can't stand flats. I don't like them at all.
Don't like but can't. If you can't stick that flat
in your mouth and pull it out naked, it's something
wrong you got in your mouth and pull it out naked.
Let's see. I hate that wing stops doesn't give you
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that little tip. I want that little tip that goes
on the wing. And I think I'm paying too much
when I don't get it. That is a part of
the wing, Jodd. I just like it chicken. When I
was a kid. I like the legs. That's all I
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like with the leg All right, Well, bitter Man is
here and coming up with thirty two minutes after the hour,
Ask bitter Man coming up next right after this. Oh lord,
you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Jay,
come on bitter Man. A slight disclaimer, and then we're
gonna get into ask bitter Man. Um, I'm not here
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to help you. Now. If you're listening and you've gathered
around the radio to get help, you're you're not gonna
get it. Okay, go ahead, Shelly, what you get? All right? Well,
thank you for that. All right. This one's from Cindy
and Detroit. Cindy says, I'm a single mother of two
teenage boys and I'm a massage therapist. I have a
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massage table in my sunroom for my female clients only.
My son's track coach had a minor car wreck and
he asked me to loosen up his back for him.
I suggested that he made an appointment with me at
the spot where I worked full time. He begs to
come to my house instead. My son's shoke me about
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their coach liking me. Uh, is this weird? And is
this his weird way of trying to get to me?
What do you think, good or man? Is what this is?
To get your son more playing time for whatever sport
he's in. And if you you're gonna be a selfish mom,
he's gonna it sounds like you're about to be a
selfish mom and not help your say in every damn game.
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This is what this is about it and you need you.
I don't care what it is. It could be a
bowling of marvels. The boy needs time and you can
help this boy further his career. Bouy that massage in
that back room back then, we all is soft while
you're right? Okay, thank you, Jack, let's move on to
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Loretta and I know. Loretta in Tennessee says, my husband
and I have been married for a very long time,
and a year ago he started sleeping in the other bedroom.
He didn't give an explanation, and I didn't ask for one. Lately,
he's been sliding into my bedroom late at night trying
to have sex. But I'm not having it. If you
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don't lay with me, you can't play with me. Now
he's mad and he's threatened to cheat on me. Is
he having an old man crisis? Kind of like a
midlife crisis? What's what's going on? Man crisis? We're just
trying to put some spark into the relationship. You like
you on the other side of town. And he's sneaking
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in the room and gets something. I mean, that's all
it is. Stop being like that. He's like, oh, you
a wig, he's nothing on the door. He's adding excitement
instead of just rolling over. He's sneaking in the room.
Gives who's in him? Yez, who's in him? Yis? Who
got the drolls off? You know he's playing. He's playing.
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Get involved this excitement breaking? Can I say something? Yeah?
You can man? Yeah? Mark parents slept in different rooms.
Of course, we know they used to sleep in the
same room. Couldn't got all these kids. But I noticed
that when I was, you know, in college, you know,
maybe about my third or four of y'all still have
noticed that my daddy starting to sleep more in against room.
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I was like, what is going on? Was there a
certain time? But now I'm fifty three, dude, you know,
I'm in my house looking for a different place to stay.
I am looking for a new room in my house.
It happens. Okay, There's some things that people, but people change.
There's some things you old woman do while she sleep.
That's a thing while you sleep. And you can't tolerating
no more. You can't guess you just want to sometimes
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you just want to get up and go to another room.
Or where are you gonna? I'm just going to another
damn room. Why do we buy that room? Why do
we buy that room? Nobody else sits in here? Can
I just coming in and sit out every room? All right?
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Zuri and Baton Rouge says, I'm a twenty seven year
old graduate student. I'm taking virtual classes this semester. My
graduate advisor is a very nice looking man, in his
early forties, and he knows I have a crush on him.
I thought the feeling was mutual because he offered to
drop off a book to me. When he got to
my apartment, I was wearing a pair of booty shorts
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and a brawlet. He said, I was barely dressed, and
he left. Was he fighting temptation or is he not interested?
What's a brawlet, y'all? What is that? It's whole bra
It looks like a brad that you could wear outside. Basically,
you had that own and booty shorts and he didn't
want nothing. Yeah, but he knows it's a lot of
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stuff going on where people are losing their damn jobs.
He don't want to be He about to make whatever,
ten year or whatever, so he wanted to keep his
job and knock over there and mess with you and
then mess up his goodass job. And you graduated. He
ain't got no damn job. He's like, hit a book.
I gotta go, here's your book, talk to you day,
to see you tomorrow. He ain't got time for that.
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I understand what this man is going through. He needs
older woman so he can keep his damn job. Put
on your damn pants and his shirt and stop trying
to mess up this man's job, because that's what you're
trying to do with your fast ass. Sell with your
fast took that book at midnight, though, John different, Yeah,
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on a silver platter. Though didn't wat man alone. Yes,
he wouldn't. Nigga WoT this is not right? Something there's
cameras in hand, something, something going on this book out
of all right? Ja, yeah it is. I can't believe
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he helped someone, all right, Jonathan and Queen says, Uh,
I'm in my mid twenties and I share a house
with my cousin. I have nice shoes and designer clothes
that I save up to buy. My cousin into isn't
into shopping at all, so he usually asked to borrow
my clothes. I let him borrow my Ralph Lauren jacket
last weekend, and he returned it with foundation and lipstick
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all over it. The cleaners couldn't get it all out,
so I asked him to give me the money for
a new jacket. He says, I'm not giving you anything.
End of discussion. Fighting him is not the answer. So
what do I do? You don't you don't you don't
want to fight this man, you know, because he seemed
like he's bigger than you. He really does. You need
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to lock you to him, blows up or start winning
stuff that won't be attracted to him, you know what
I mean, like just sweats and stuff like that. But yeah,
you don't want to You don't want to go there.
In other words, don't go there. Okay, I'm gonna added girlfriend, girlfriend,
don't go there. Leave this alone. Write that jacket off.
And I thought it was a girl. No, these two guys,
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that's two girls. But he said lipstick. I thought all
over him. Yeah, oh that's no. I didn't know. Lord A, sorry,
can't help you. I don't know what all day? I
know better, man, you didn't let us down. You didn't
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help anyone, all right? Coming up next that is the
nephew would run that prank back right after this, you're
listening to show Coming up at the top of the hour,
Miss Anna's standing by with National News with highlights from
President Biden's speech to Congress last night. His first he's
the nephew with running up frank back, you know, for
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the next few days, don't don't call me nephew for
the next few days. Oh, what do you want to
be called? Call me MTV nominique, call me that. Okay,
I'm feeling that right now. You know, I want people
to go to vote dot mtv dot com. Ready to
Love is there for? You know best dating shows? When Tommy,
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let's get to let's go care dog. I left my ring.
I left my ring. Hel Hello, I'm trying to reach
a mister. Mister and missus please all right. My name
is doctor. I'm actually trying to reach your husband, Clarence.
Is he Is he available? I have Well, I'm actually
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the surgeon that actually did the procedure on removing his
gall stones wall. How's he doing as any complications thus far? Complication? Okay,
well listen, Uh, there's a couple little bit of things
I want to discuss with you guys and see if
we can maybe get them rectified. Is he around? Oh? Actually,
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miss actually, when we actually did the procedure on your
on your husband and removing the gall stones, who I
will say that there's a bit of a mistake made
and I'm hoping that he can come back in so
we can kind of get it rectified. You know, it'll
be actually thirty minutes and he'll be in and out.
But actually, when I removed the gall stones, and I'm
very embarrassed to say this, I actually left my wedding
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ring inside your husban. And I understand, man, I say,
I actually left my wedding ring inside your husband when
I actually removed the gall stones. And I'm hoping that
he'll come back in so I can actually take it
out and he'll be on his way. It is my
old man. Let me take it? What ye hello? Hello,
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hello mister yeah, how you doing? This is doctor who
I actually did the surgery on you when you were
came in and got your gall stones removed. I remember
you that. I will say this, mister Clarence, I actually
made a bit of a mistake when you were here,
and my apology. If I can actually get you come
back here, man, I can get you taken care of.
But and then this is just a big mistake on
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my part. But when you guys came in and I
remove your stones, I actually left my wedding ring inside
inside of me. Yea ye, yes, sir, you're wedding ring. Sir.
I know this is crazy, but yes, I have truly
made a mistake and want to see if I can
get this thing rectified and get this thing taken out.
And I tell you, man, I've been without my ring
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and my wife is raising holy hell about it. Yeah,
but you know something, doctor, we got a problem with
What do you mean, I mean, I'm about to go
back to work. I really can't be going back into
the operated room for somebody to take a ring out
of me that they left, that they left. Bad mistake,
you know what I'm saying. Okay, I mean, you know,
I realize your wife might be upstad you need your ring,
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But at this point, that ring's gonna have to stay
where it is for a while. So I can't I
run as We can't allow with that ring to stay
there another two or three days. I don't think you
understand exactly what I'm going through. There's no way I
can allow that. Yeah, I got to go back to work.
But you know something, I mean, you know, I mean,
you know we're talking about a bad, bad, serious problem.
You know we're talking about mal practice. I mean, you
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know we're talking about me taking out more time and
work when I'm ready to go back. I mean, you know,
we're talking law suit, all kinds of stuff. Yeah, we
need to get together. Can you hear me that? No? Yeah, yeah, okay,
my wife's lit upset. I mean, you know, I can't
get back on an operating tape, sir. This won't take
for seconds to actually for me to snip that thing
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and get that ring out of there. It won't take
but a minute. I mean, you still have the same
incisions there. I can go right back into what the
same scar was and take that out and keep it moving.
Go back into the same and you're gonna operate again.
If you're cutting me open, sir, I promise you you
won't even know I was there. I'll go in there
and take that ring out just that quick. Okay. But
but let me ask you this here. My wife. My
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wife is about to go crazy. I'm I'm pretty I'm
a pretty good guy here. But I mean, you know,
you guys, you left a man. I mean, you know,
do you all have mal practice insurance? And we have
plenty of insurance. You know, It's really more about what
I'm going through at home. So I'm doing this for years. Yeah,
pretty much here at this point, I mean, no one
actually from the hospital actually knows that I'm actually calling you. Wow,
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you know, I mean that's a big, big problem. You
said something about mal practice. No, I didn't say anything
about mail practice. You guys actually said that. I didn't
say anything. Okay, now let me okay, hold on, not daring?
Hold on, well, now let me ask you this here.
You every time I've heard of somebody leaving something inside
of somebody, you know, it usually end up being a
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situation where it sets up infections and stuff. Well, that's
that's an eighteen care goals. That's not going to infect
you at all. Yeah, I understand what you're saying, but
good grief. I mean, I just I mean, I didn't
even want to do the first surgery, but I didn't
have any choice. You know what, I'll be honest with you.
I tried to talk to you and be patient with you.
If I got to come over and put some core
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form up against your nose and knock you out in
order to perform this procedure to get my ring, then
damn it, that's what I gotta do. Oh, hold on
that that what I'm supposed to be doing. Why are
you doing that? You hear that? Do you what he said? Who?
Come on? What's come out? You know? I'm not gonna
stand for these stretch. Now you know that's your problem
with your ring. Now you know, up until now everything
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was cool. Now you gotta big problem. I tell it.
It's here. I'm at home right now. You're at home
with my ring. You got my ring? You come getting
right now the way? No, okay, now I don't I
don't have a problem coming right over there to get
my ring. But go want I need my ring back?
Let's do it. Come on over Why why don't we
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got something for you down hey, listen, I don't care
what the both of you are doing. The bottom line
is that you have my ring. I got your ring.
You just told me I had it. Then it's inside
of me. Why it's gonna stay, sir, I'm not gonna
continue to go back and forth with you. You're not
gonna continue to do anything because you come over here.
I'm gonna kick you out. You're already and threatened to
come over here and put plora from them and locking
me out to go in the side of my body
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to come over here. Doctor got problems. I'll tell you what.
I don't want any problems out of your wife or
out of you. I'm gonna take thirty minutes and everybody
will be happy after that. You won't make it, Companda.
I understand everything you say. I got one more thing
I need to say to the both of you all.
Are you listening to me? I'm listening. It's Doris listening. No,
not really, tune you out. Well, here's the last thing
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I need to say to you. This is Nephew Tommy
from the Steve Barbin Morning Show. Y'all just got pranked
by y'all. Niece teaches that I be there here, Nephew
Timmenthew Thomas, that you. This is Mannix Thomment and go, yeah,
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I got your n You got my home. Man. You're
messing with my heart talking about the ground back inside
of my body. All right, let me let me let
me speak to miss Dark, Miss Dodge, Hey, miss Dard.
I got one more thing. Now. What is the baddest
radio show in the land. That's Steve Harvey Show with Matthew.
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Thank you Nephew, MTV Winter. He asked you what you do?
You go right out and call him, nephew. The nerve
coming up at the top of the hour, Entertainment and
National news right after this. You're listening show, all right,
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so listen up. MTV nominee Slash Winter. Okay, so Helle Berry,
everyone's seen her haircut, the one she had on us
day for the Oscars. Yeahs you didn't see it? Oh
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she was trending with this cut. Yeah. So anyway, I
want you to look. I want you to look because
I want to hear your reaction. Okay, So she's reacting
now to social media commenting on her new hairstyle. Uh,
it debuted, like I said at the Oscars. On Sunday,
she retweeted, Hallie did a clip of the guy who
put on the bob wig and made fun of Hallie.
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Hallie seems to be cool with it. She posted both
the sad and laughing emoji. By the way, according to Hallie,
she uh and her boyfriend, singer Van Hunt are still
going strong. Yeah. He was at the Oscars. He was
her date and everything. So yeah they look like the
who is this? That's got a problem with what Hallie
doing with her hair? Who was so funny though? That
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boy put that wig? Okay, I've been my fun wh
you see like her hair? Tommy did he looks outstanding?
If she looks out award damn? Okay, don't glad it?
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Fighting the mess to be the m award. Okay, just don't.
I'm not gonna mess up my award. But you're not
finished saying nothing. By no Hally, I'm gonna tell you
that there's a limit over here with me now when
you get to talk about Halley. Now we have the limit. Okay.
He sounds that I don't care if she if she
got a mohawk tomorrow, with passion and a mullet, you
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wouldn't say anything. All right, We're moving on tomorrow, people,
Tomorrow is the last day to go vote for Ready
to Love. Okay. It is hosted by her very own
MTV nominee, nephew Tommy Uh. The show has received Best
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Dating Series nomination all right for the MTV Movie and
TV Awards. That is so wonderful. Congratulations again, nephew. We
want everyone to vote now through tomorrow Friday, Okay, April
thirtieth at vote at vote dot mtv dot com, vote
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thank you. All right, please go vote. I'll just give
you the award one week's time. We're just saying Jay,
he's the He's the Biden of the reality data. You
should win. Yours is so much fun. Yeah, we're so
proud of you. Thank You'll appreciate the support. Thank you'all,
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thank you, thank you. Yeah. No, I just gotta go vote.
I haven't done that yet. It takes the saddle to it.
Yea one person, one vote. We can vote in this.
We can vote in the elections, political elections. All right,
Uh yeah, congre aradulations other nominees. There are some other
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nominees in other categories. Reggae Jean Paige for Bridgerton, Best Actor, uh,
Best Comedic Performance in a Movie, Leslie Jones our Girl,
and she's gonna host. Yeah, she's gonna host the show
as well. Go ahead, lest uh huh huh uh huh,
go ahead, go ahead. Sho's gonna air on May eighteenth.
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By the way, the MTV TV Awards. That's all you've
got to win Best Real Life Mystery or Crime Series,
Tiger King. All right, all right, let's go Jay. Time
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for today's headlines. All right, everybody, it's time for the
news with miss Anne Trip. Thank you very much, everybody.
President Biden gave his first address to a joint session
to Congress last night, but due to COVID nineteen restrictions,
only a small number of lawmakers from both parties were
able to attend. The President focused on what you would
call human infrastructure, first of all, talking about his American
Family Rescue Plan, which would cost one point eight trillion bucks,
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create a universal PreK for three and four year olds,
as well as fund two years of free community college,
and also introduces two point three tillion dollars infrastructure plan
to repair the roads and the bridges in the nation. Then,
after reminding Americans that our soldiers are going to be
coming home from Afghanistan by September eleventh, the President spoke
to the nation about the real threats out there. We
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have to remain visually against the threat of the United
States wherever they come from. Al Qaeda and ISIS are
in Yemen, serious Somalia, other places in Africa and the
Middle East and beyond. And we won't ignore what our
intelligence agents had determined to be the most lethal terrorist
threat to the homeland today. White supremacies, terrorists, the vast
majority of men and women wearing a uniform and a
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badge serve our communities, and they serve them honorably. We
have to come together to rebuild trust between law enforcement
and the people They serve through that systemic racism in
our criminal justice system, and don't act police reform in
George Floyd's name. I know Republicans have their own ideas
and are engaged in the very productive discussions with Democrats
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and the Senate. We need to work together to find
a consensus. Let's get it done next month by the
first anniversary of George Floyd's death. Judge of North Carolina
has denied request to release the police bodycam video from
last week's police killing of Andrew Brown Junior and Elizabeth City.
Brown was unarmed shot by Sheriff's deputies during an attempted
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arrest on drug related charges. The family says an independent
autopsy reveals that Brown died from an execution style shot
to the back of the head. The judge says he's
delaying the lease of the video for at least thirty
days because he claims it would compromise the investigation. The
Brown family lawyer, Harry Downel, says that doesn't make sense.
In the back of the head, Gud's riddle in the
back of the car, so regardless, show us to take
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and what's the term of what's justin? Pott was not
Judge bot right now, it has on their hand. But
the judge says the body camp footage must be released
within thirty to forty five days and that mister Brown's
family will be able to see parts of it within
ten days. FBI plans to indict Derek Schouven and three
other Corma cops involved in George Floyd Cason with civil
rights violation charges. The FED search Rudy Giuliani's apartment yesterday.
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Reports saw the search warrants sent it on possibly unregistered
lobbying by Giuliani for foreign clients, and according to CNN Anyways,
seven out of ten people asked that the President's speech
last night left them feeling optimistic. Now back to the
Steve Harvey Morning Show. You're listening to Morning show, all right,
Come on, jun You're introduced your crazy partner in crime.
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This here is my writing buddy, my sick buddy. But
I'm gonna tell you his mind is demented. I don't
know what's in it. Ladies and gentlemen. Let's take a
look into the mind. Up Dathany Brown. Thank you, thank you.
Before we start, music, please music please, good evening, ladies
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awards to people who should have received awards, but they
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Could You Kill the Museum? Okay? The worst the worst divorce.
The worst actor in the divorce award goes to Kanye West.
The worst actor in the divorce goes to Kanye West.
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Not a chance in the hell goes to Caitlyn Jenner
for thinking she could be the governor of California. She
won that award. The most Neked Award, the most negad
Award again, Lizzo. Lizzo gets the most Neked Award. The
way too damn happy couple goes to niss Nash and
her wife. Nobody is that damn happy. Okay, I know happiness,
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but nobody is that damn They truly aren't happy. The
best acting like they give a damn goes to Ted Cruise,
Linda Graham, and Mitch McConnell. The award going out to
me I have my black card back goes to Tim Scott.
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Tim Scott, can I please have my Oh? This is
the great Award? Right here. The Best Cursing Award is
the three way tie. Three way tie for the best cusser.
Steve Harvey, Yeah, Cardi b Kurt Franklin, Oh my god,
it's the three way time. I just knew you were
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gonna say, Samuel al no, man, Kurt from Samuel, come on,
come on, all right. The most sweat, the most sweat
and a black movie. Now for a long time, time
to kill head this award, and it was held by
them for the longest. But the most sweat and a
black movie, My Rainy's Black Bottom. I've never seen so
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much sweat in a damn movie. They were sweating so
much I turned on my air condition. That's a lot
of damn sweating. The most award for you can't fire
me because I'm a white woman. Award goes to Sharon Osborne.
You can't fire me. I'm a white woman. And the
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last one goes out to I'm doing every damn thing
I can do to keep from cussing your ass out
goes to my girl, Sharon Underwood. On the Steve, Nat
and Joe your dinners coming up with thirty four minutes
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after the hour, Thank you, Jay, We'll have more of
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening
to Steve Morning Show. All right. So in trending News,
one of the jurors from the Derek Chauvin trial spoke
about the jury deliberations and the trial. His name is
Brandon Mitchell. He did an interview with Robin Roberts from
Good Morning America, and Brandon said, there was not too
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much of going back and forth to get to the
guilty verdict. Take a listen, we weren't watching the news,
so we don't know what was going on. We were
really just locked in on the case. And then with
so much stress coming from the case, I mean, those
things are so secondary because you're literally, throughout the trial
you're watching somebody die on a daily basis. So that
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stress alone, um, is enough to take your mind away
from whatever's going on outside of the four walls of
the courtroom. I mean, that was that was not even
that wasn't even something that's of our minds. I don't
think so. Wow, I never thought about that every day.
I have to watch that over video. Wow. Yeah. And
I saw the beginning of that interview where he also
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offered his condolences to the Floyd out of the gate. So, um,
he's a secondary got it right. Yeah, they did speaking,
but I know everybody was nervous because it could have
on either way because we've seen it go the other way.
I'm so glad and still a lot more to go,
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you know. Um wow, all right, we'll switching gears and
other trending news. President Biden delivered his first address to
Congress last night at the US Capitol, now one hundred
days into his presidency. President Biden took a victory lap
about his rebonding economy and the success of the COVID
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vaccine rollout. He announced a one point eight trillion dollar
proposals to create universal pre K and paid leave, infrastructure improvements,
and free community college. I mean, he has a list
of things that he wants to get done while he's
in office, and he's a politician. He does know what
he's doing. The President also addressed police reform and gun violence. Okay,
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and you know this was the crazy part to me.
I'm scott a Republican was the one the Republican rebuttal, yes,
the only black man in the Senate, uh was Republican.
That's yeah, that that is a Republican, right, that I
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said earlier, what is a Republican? They chose him to
respond to the president? Interesting, don't you think the all
we know they can that going after Tim? Go tell
it Tim, Now, were gonna need you on this one.
Now you're here, man, and don't let us down. Now.
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We ain't gonna and close the game out. Okay, Now
we know, we know, we know, we've never talked to
you since you've been here, but we need you now
more than Yeah, what's his name, Tim? Timmy? Right? Is
it Tim? Tim? Tim? They never talked to him, say,
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old boy. It is kind of crazy though. You know,
he's the only black Republican in the Senate, mail in
the Senate. And there's a video you can go online
and see it. What Tim Tim Scott is standing up
there and he's trying to shake hands with the other
Republicans And you know, the worst thing you can do
the black man is leave him hanging with that hand
up and left. They left his ass hanging like it's
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like not the camels all on it. Man, I'm gonna
let my hand fall off. That's what y'all gonna do.
Running in front of a So here's your South Carolina. Yeah,
he is he's from from your state. I'm not from
I'm from North Carolina. You are, Oh now tonight, yeah, tonight,
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So we'll be uh, we'll be hearing more from Tim
Scott in the future. You think, you know, man, Tim,
it's just interesting that they picked him. We're not mad
at him, you know, no, of course not. Yeah, but
you need somebody black to you, I mean, to criticize Biden.
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He's got to be a black person. So strategy. Yeah,
he's been sitting on the bench alone. Time, it's time
to go into game to him come home sitting you in?
I mean who while I mean, I think the first
thing needs to happen is gun reform. Though they got
in policing. They got police reform. Yes, yes, all right,
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Coming up next, the nephew is here. The MTV nominee
is here with today's praying phone call. Right after this,
you're listening to show coming up at the top of
the hour, about four minutes after to my strawberry letter
for today, the subject all of my ex's friends are fine.
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We'll get into one. We'll get into it though, but
right now it is the Nephew's turn with the prank
phone call for today is the MTV Award. Now I'm
a need what you got for us? Is there a heart?
Is there a heart in the house tonight? Okay, this
is right here is heart of a brother, Heart of
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a brother. Let's go. Yeah, y'all. Hello, Hey, I'm trying
to reach Alan. This is Alan Alan. How you doing? Man?
My name is Bobby, Bobby Book. Uh what can I
do for you? I got your number, man, from the
from the hospital. Did you just um, within the last
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I guess three four months? Did you get a heart transplant?
But then a half months ago? Yeah I did? I
did three and a half months ago. Okay, how you
can feel the man? Actually good, I'm actually up and
around faster than I thought it was gonna be, you know.
So I'm doing well. Thank you? Are you with are you?
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Are you at the hospital? No? No, I'm not. Actually
you know, they gave me your number. Man. I hope
you kate, but you you actually? Uh the heart that
you got was from from my brother charm Oh my god.
Really yeah that's my brother, my brother. I'm so sorry
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about your brother. But wow, I gotta tell you he
saved my life. Man. Yeah yeah, yeah, so so I
you know, I just want to call you. Man, I
hope you on mind. You know, no, no, not at all.
It's kind of like a little bit of my brothers.
It's still living, you know what I mean, It kind
of it kind of feels like my brother's still living.
So that's a good thing. It's a good thing that glad.
(45:43):
Thank you. Yeah. Yeah, let me ask you this, man.
I'm just curious because your Caucasian, right yeah, yeah, yeah,
I'm like, yeah, do you feel any any different having
a black man's heart and your body cutting up? No?
I don't feel any difference. Uh No. I didn't really
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think about it though, And this would just make me
and the rest of the family feel good that we
knew what he was dedicated to and the things that
matter to him. Would you feel all right joining the NAACP? Uh?
Is that are there? Some people are gonna be upset
that I joined? I mean, is that okay? Well, you know,
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I don't know about anybody being upset. Man, It's just
I know my brother that that's what he was a
part of, and you know, you you're walking around with
his heart. Man, it would just feel different, feel great,
you know, to have to feel like he would be
back in there. Doing what he was doing and fighting
for for injustice for the black community. Now you were
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Democratic or Republican? Well, you know, I mean honestly that
I was Republican until Trump, and now I'm just really
I'm kind of on the science. I mean, that guy's
an idiot. You did vote for Trump. I did not,
But I am a Republican, okay. So and the reason why,
you know, because I'm just curious man about it. What
I what I would hate to see is you know
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when come around, you know, you you over there in
the voting booth, you know, with my brother black Heart
and you and there, you know, voting Republican. Uh, you know,
and and and that's something that I know my brother
wouldn't be doing, you know what I'm saying. So I'm
just I'm just asking, well, I mean, I'm not happy
with Trump, but if someone else in the Republican party
runs and I agree with them, I'm it's kind of
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like it's my heart. Now, I can't change my point
of view just because of that. I mean, yeah, but
but but but what you're not gonna do, though, man,
is be in there with my brother black Heart and
you up in there making some decisions that I know
my brother wouldn't. Do you see what I'm saying? That's
the long way off, man, But I can't promise you that.
I mean, if somebody runs in that like I mean,
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I'm gonna vote the way I feel my heart and
my head tell me the d don't don't say what
my heart because that ain't your heart. You know I'm
standing my brother hard, So you got every right to
ask me what you think my brother would feel in
his heart? And I tell you, do you understand what
I'm saying? I don't ask the way I see? Hey, man,
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let me ask something. Have you have you been like
craving different kinds of foods that you don't lo e?
Have you been looking at I don't know. I mean
girl like greens like my brother ate a lot of greens.
Did you do you feel like you ge wounds and
greens sometimes? I like greens occasionally. Yeah, Okay, have all
of a sudden, do you like women who have big
butts or all of women in general? I didn't think
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about specifics, but you know, if they're good looking, they're
good looking. Well wait, wait a minute, what kind of
calls this? Man? I mean, you're asking me all these
random questions. Why what I don't understand where it's coming from.
It's coming from my brother's haart, That's where it's coming from.
You got my brother's black heart inside of you. You know. Yeah,
I'm asking you. I'm asking you to do what my
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brother would do, not what you would do. You want
to do it from your heart? You then you're doing
it from my brother's heart. When you first called me
about your brother, I was excited. Now I'm saying, how
much did the hospital give you? Just this number? And
you get to call me up? That's privilege information. You
shouldn't get this call me and ask me all these
random questions. Man, I just thought a mart plan. Now
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it's starting to get me worked up. If I'm not
trying to get you worked up, all I'm trying to
man Okay, okay, well let me let me just come down.
All I know is you got Tchory hard and inside
of you, and I'm trying to let you know the
kind of person Choy appeals. Okay, so let me let
me it. Has your music change? Are you listening to
more art and B? Now? I do like R and B,
but I listened to hard rock too. That hasn't changed
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because what's in truth hard on stage, in short hard
you understand. So you got to hand that's in your
heart now, greens big but in ACP. That's what I'm saying. Okay,
what I'm trying to tell you about Choy? What are
you crying? Man, I'm trying to tell you about Chobe. Hey, hey, hey,
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I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Don't I know you miss your brother,
don't damn, I'm sorry. Okay, let let me say this say, Okay,
since you got my brother hard, I think it's the
only right and me and you we get to gether
and go to go to a jay Z call Sor together.
I think that's the only right jay Z and be honestly,
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because Sor we go to gether because that's what me
and my brother did. We we will go see him perform. Well,
I mean they are to the best of all time.
So am I buying both the tickets? Oh? Yes, up,
you got trouble and you worry about who's gonna pay
for some tickets. I didn't know. I thought maybe you
might want to tweet your brother one last time. I'm sorry,
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I'm sorry, man, Yeah, no, no, okay, listen, I'm really
I'm really sorry. I mean, I get upset. I didn't
mean the yell at. I'm sorry. I'm really sorry. Do
you do you do you listen to black radio? Sometimes?
I do listen to black radio. Do you ever listen
to the Steve Harvey more than the show? Boy? Yeah,
he's one of the best. Man When he was on
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Family Cude, he trade what He's got a nephew on
the show and he does frank phone calls. Yeah, and
that would be me, Alan, this is nephew Tommy, baby,
Steve Harvey Morning show man out? Are you serious? Are
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you kidding me? I'm not kidding back. Oh my god, dude,
you almost gave me a second heart attack. Jesus, Oh
my god. You've been franked man by your wife Robbing
and her co worker Bridget Potting. You gotta tell me, guys,
what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio
show in the land. It's your show, baby, Steve Harvey?
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Come on, man, is that hard in the house for nighte?
That was too far? Yeah, I'm usually that home run,
right man. He was holding a regular conversation too. It's
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my heart now. Green didn't get the damn black heart,
because I don't need all this man. I want you
come on that far right? He said, will you pay
footed tickets? So that's black right there. He didn't go black,
He went black real quick. But she wanted to treat
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your mother one last time. That was too far. That
was that was. It was hartless, heartless man. Have a
heart in the house tonight. All right, well, thank you, nephew. Wow,
coming up Strawberry Letters. Subject, all of my ex's friends
(52:51):
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All right, thank you, MTV Award nominee. Subject, all of
my ex's friends are fine, okay. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm
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a thirty one year old single female and I met
a really good man on a dating app. We're from
the same city and we know a lot of the
same people. We dated for three months and he revealed
to me that he went to college with my ex
boyfriend and didn't want me to run off by telling
me that upfront. I was cool with it, but my
ex boyfriend wasn't, and when he found out, he called
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to tell me his friends were off limits. I dated
my ex boyfriend for five years and his friends would
openly flirt with me and make inappropriate comments often, and
he would just laugh it off. I must admit that
all of my ex's friends are fine, but I never
wanted any of them until I met the guy on
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the dating site. His sex was amazing, but I ended
things with him out of respect for my ex boyfriend.
After a while, I was back on the dating scene
but not having much luck. Then I ran into a
guy that used to work with my ex boyfriend. He
invited me to a sip and see art exhibition that
was in town. I went to the gallery the next
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night and he cornered me and said he'd always wanted
to get to know me better, but he couldn't because
of my ex. I could feel his eyes on my
body all night as I walked around. He kissed me
on my neck before I left, and he asked me
if he could see me again, but in a more
private setting so we could get to know He could
(55:02):
get to know me much better. I know that if
I'm ever alone with him, we will definitely have sex.
Because the sexual tension is thick. I'm willing to risk
my ex boyfriend hating me. That's how bad I want
this man. My inner whore is tell what That's what
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I said, Junior, My inner wore is telling me to
have sex with him and tell my ex to mind
his business. Would it be wrong to mess around with
this guy? Are there anymore guys in town beside your
ex as friends? All right? I mean you got to
(55:45):
get out of this circle and break out. Okay, Obviously
it's a small town, and these guys have been coveting
you since you know you were with your ex for
those five years. I just think this is too messy
of a situation. You still talk to your ex and
he's still friends with his friends. These guys are still
his friends. It's awkward. It's got that pass around vibe,
(56:08):
which you don't want and you already you know, had
two in this group come at you like that. So
tell your inner horror as you called it. No, no,
you will not have sex with your ex's friends, no
matter how fine they are and how thick the sexual
(56:29):
tension is. Just say no, keep it clean. There are
plenty of guys. I'm sure that you can date without
having to date your ex's friends. Jay, Why would you
have to do so? Why would you have to work
so hard when the sex is right there? Why why
(56:51):
you got to go out and get all dressed up
and go to the club and they right there. Hit
it and quit it? You want to go through the
whole old group. In fact, when he left, he left
his ex friends. He left you, and he left his friends,
He left every damn body. He just took his ass
to school and just left everydamn body. So you on
your own. They right there, they're there, they're there for
(57:13):
the taking. Hit it, quit it, see what he's working with?
No not, he he left everybody, He left his friends,
he left you. So if he left you, that means
he left. The word left mean he gone, mean he
not there no more, I mean he not around. That
would left mean that would left mean to me, he
left you alone. You, he left you alone, and you
(57:36):
don't want to be alone. Go through the whole damn bunch.
When he bring his ass back. He got to get
new friends because they damn soon't won't be talking to him. Yeah,
all right, you gotta get brand new friends with your
little smart ass self. Wonna go to college and leave
me here with all these fine friends. Go ahead, girl,
enjoy your damn self. Go and enjoy yourself. You ben't
(57:56):
want to hit it. You ben wanting to hit it
with all. Knock him out the box, y'all knock knock.
I apologize for Jay's answer. Come on, Junior, with you guy.
All of my friends are fine. This is against this,
(58:18):
against the rules. No, no, you need another city is
what you need because it sounds like the population in
this city is folk. And three of me is Joe
ext friend and you that that that's I don't see
how you could do this. This is not something I
would do. I mean, do you want to just get
what everybody called? No that just do you know? Call okay,
(58:39):
wen we go get together. That's what it was like. Yeah,
you went to you went to preschool with Carl. We
got to get together then gonna do what y'all love
to say, little league team. We got to get together
then because I didn't. All called friends. This is y'all
go everywhere. Man who cannot do this? No that is no, no, no,
(59:04):
no man. Men don't do that. If we gotta, if
we if my boy got a girl he used today
and they break up, I don't go over there. Does
not does not that work? You wouldn't you went to
church with car No, just one time. It was just
one time. Yeah, it ain't yea all of it. We
only prayed together one time. Now that was here, Thank you, Junior.
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All right, coming up, we'll hear from the MT the
award nominee. All right, we'll be back with the nephew.
All my exes friends are fine. At twenty three minutes
after the hour, we'll be back right after this. You're
listening string show. All right, guys, come on, let's recap
today's Strawberry letter. All of my exes friends are fine.
(59:57):
Thirty one year old single female called in. I mean
I called in, wrote in. She met a really good
man on a dating app. They're from the same city.
They know a lot of the same people. They dated
for three months. Then he told her that he was
a friend of her ex's. She was okay with it,
but her X found out and he said he was
(01:00:17):
not cool with it and that his friends are off limits.
She dated her X for five years, then they broke up.
His friends would openly flirt with her and make inappropriate comments,
and at that time her X would just laugh it off.
But now he's not interested in her dating any of
his boys. So she broke it off with that guy.
(01:00:38):
Then she met another guy at an art exhibition, and
you know, the sexual tension between them was really thick.
She wanted to get with him, but she's trying to
find out would it be wrong to mess with this
guy who was also a friend of her X. I
said absolutely not, Jay said why not? Junior said no?
(01:01:00):
And Tommy, you say what all my extra friends are fine?
I say, let yo in a hold Joe out. You've
got to let it out, Yo, hold Joe. You've got
to let it out. You can't keep the hold Joe
pent in it. Trust me, it's nothing worse than a
(01:01:21):
pent up hold Joe. It's just it's just bad, all right.
You can get sick when you don't let you hold
Joe out. You gotta let your hold Joe out. You
know what I'm saying. You get stick to your stomach.
That's how you get stomach offers and stuff like that,
because you why what's wrong with you? I ain't let
my hold Joe out. My hold Joe was pent up.
You gotta let you hold Joe out. People be getting
the asthma and stuff, can't breathe. You know why I
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got that hold Joe pent up in there. Let Joe
hold Joe out. Okay, you got answer? Reflect I don't know.
I just keep feeling like I don't know what it
is and it's burned up here? What is that? That's yo?
Hold Joe. Let Joe old Joe out. When you release
yourself and let your hold you out, you'll be surprised
how free you are, so all of him. I'm with Jay,
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all of his friends. Get them out, your sister, and
we look out. How free you gonna be. Ain't nothing
wrong with you? Know what? You know what? You know what?
It's like a It's like a it's like a clean
like a hole. Joe cleans. You know you you release
things like that, you know, hold you out like it's
all like It's like, Whoosa, come on Charlotte calling Hold Joe?
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Hold Joe? What did you want to add? Jay? Yo?
I hate both of you? But yes, I know this
is not right. You wouldn't want your your boy. Let me,
let me, let's say something. How many people like day
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X do? Nobody liked the ex? So why are we
worried about his feelings? Why does it matter? Why? Why
should I be worried about his feelings when I'm pimped
over here with this hole Joe? No, no, it's either
him or my whole Joe, what's it gonna be? Let Yo?
Hold Joe out? Man release his friends? He knows too
many people. Tommy, you'll take bath together? What we got
(01:03:13):
to get together? We got I would go, I would
go out with some of his friends in front of him.
Why not? It's just not something that we do. You know,
I don't know what? What? What? Then? Why don't we start?
Let's start doing something we don't normally do. Let's try
to think outside of the boxes up inside of hers.
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He needs to be released in need. Let that hold
Joe out? Okay? Why why do I visualize a man
with a Jerry Clel dripping right now? Yeah, yeah, Wow,
let yo hold Joe out. Girl. We're worrying about this
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man that you don't even date no more. You ain't
got nothing to do with him. We got We're not
gonna be just just lose. Everybody know him. They still
talk and he's still friends with his friends. So those
are the two that's about to change. What, dude, don't
look like the friends give a damn sure they don't.
Well they don't, obviously they don't. Okay, should everybody trying
(01:04:19):
to let they hold Joe out, even the guys. Find
some other guys if she wants to let it out,
find some other guys that aren't his friends. Too many
damn people, Yeah, too many people. You don't know a
long time, you know, a whole stadium of people. That's
too many people. We can't. We can't. We can't find nobody.
(01:04:41):
What I was gonna play together. We got we got
to yea to cut his friends. He's gonna cut his
friend list down when he get back. He't gonna see
he donna have that minty friends soon get back. Carl,
This is obviously John. You know John. That's that's an introduction,
that's it's just yeah, I don't I don't get it happens.
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Don't get me wrong. I know it happens. I know
it does happen. But this is just too close, I
think personally, not only AAU team. If we have, you
got to get to get everybody. She said, they're fine, though,
she says, there's gotta be a limit though, somewhere you
(01:05:25):
gotta be ab cut it out. Really, I mean a
limit on this own. How many people you know, we
gotta be. It's gotta be somewhere where we can say
you don't need with three friends and that's it. He
got to be damn friends with you, all right? Listen
post your comments on today Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM,
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on demand. Two Please coming up at forty six minutes
after the hour, our girl Cheryl Underwood from the Talk.
Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming
up at the top of the hour, we got our
girl Carlos Reality Update. But right now, come on, Jay,
introduce our girl. It's my sister, y'all, please give it
(01:06:07):
up for shell Undo. Thank you, my brother five baby
sigment Jay Anthony Brown, you know it, you know it,
you know it. And while I love you with that
blue and white family love. Now I got to talk
about why me and Junior may not last. I don't think.
Let me. Let me break it down for you. Shirleye
(01:06:31):
Hey Carlin for RELs. You know how you always wanted
a man, and now that you got them, you gotta
deal with all the other women that want them to
thank you. I can't handle this right here, Tommy. You
know place we can go beach brawls, diving in, jumping
(01:06:52):
off a dressles and selling fans. They parachuting in to
be with Julia. Listen, so men, Julia, decide if we're
gonna get our praise on right this Brad, keep keep kid,
keep you d until your faith, I listen, shut it
from every I try not to cuss in church. I said,
(01:07:13):
if you don't turn your ass around because the word
is up that way, get off, my man. I can't
take this no more. I can't take it. There's no
place we can go, Tommy, that these brawls ain't always
keep keep kidding and Junior faith, he's mine. Get off
of We was going through the drive through jay Ethan
(01:07:36):
Brown all the brawls came out, bro extra Popeye ticket
sad with fish. I said, get y'all ass away from
this call. He's mine. You can't have none of this.
This is my man. Get off of Julia. But no,
but brads got mask on these braws. Is showing day
(01:08:02):
COVID vaccination cards to my Julian, ready, you don't give
a damn about my respect, my relationship. I can't take
this city for I don't know. And the sex is amazing.
I'm talking about hot monkey love, Tommy. I'm looking bad
or heat it up in the microwave. Jillian be blowing
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that back out. I can't take this. I can't take this.
These women be hanging onto the hood of a car
like Mannix. I can't take this. No, mother, No, these
pros ain't loyal. I can't do that. We got white
women running out day he carrol us. I can't do this, though, Julian,
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I don't know how long I'm gonna last. You know,
I want a man that's attracted to other women. But
I don't know how I'm ana laugh. I don't know
how I'm a laugh all right, Cheryl hanging there girl,
dam scaliwag all right coming up at the top of
the hour, Carla's reality update right after this. You're listening
(01:09:11):
to Steve Morning Show. All right, come on, Tommy, introduce
that girl, ladies and gentlemen. She is here the one
and only call of ferrol with what reality update coming
in hot? You betta know it, Shirley girl, I love it.
(01:09:31):
All right, here we go, Thank you, Charley and nephew.
Let's talk about this reality show, couples Retreat. Have you
guys seen this? Yes, it's a couples they're going through
therapy with our girl A J. Johnson. She's the host.
She's trying to help them, counsel them. So we all
know Mendces and Gandy from Loving hip Hop but it's
(01:09:55):
really called Love and hip Hop but Loving hip Hop
New York. But anyway, we know that Gandy she stood
by her man and held it down while Mendces was
into being He was locked up in prison for a
while for some time. YANGI, she's devoted wife. She was
devoted wife and mother of their children. Well, on the show,
(01:10:17):
A J. Johnson talked to them about therapy. Let them,
you know, just let them go invent This is what
was so shocking. Take a listen. When YANGI asked Mendaces,
if she was in prison, would he do the same
for her and hold it down because they're having some
issues in their marriage, Take a listen if the shoe
(01:10:38):
was on the other foot, you know, I don't know
what I would be able to do, and that's a problem,
so men. DC finally admitted that he doesn't know if
he would see if the rules were reversed. And that's
sortful because people have said to me, either doing all this,
where he do that for you? And I've always come
(01:10:59):
at he wouldn't we love each other. I don't even
know where to begin. You un grateful. I don't think
I would have said that, even if I didn't believe it.
I don't think I would have said that right Tommy
in the moment, that is just not the thing for you.
I wouldn't have hurt rushed her. He absolutely broke her heart,
(01:11:24):
and she held it down through all his troubles. She
was there for him. And then, like she said, it
was just so hurtful for her to say that. All
her friends were like, if the roles were reversed, would
he do the same for you? And She's like, what,
of course, your husband, the father of your children. Wow,
that's cold. I don't love I could stay in that relationship.
(01:11:46):
I don't look at him like black coming in high
a man when you think you're sleeping in right Carler
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Michael Black on the show too. Yes, he's on the
retreat show as well. So I keep you posting, keep
you updated quickly. Yeah, this is crazy. Real Housewives of
Atlanta Reunion Part one. The ladies they were dressed beautifully
in their black gowns and dresses, and they were all
designed by talented black designers. So shout out Hunt and
(01:12:30):
I'm coming for you. Shirley. Listen, we have to give
a special special shout out to your friend and designer
Linda Stokes. This is Shirley Strawberry. Yeah, she designed Kenya's
dress and she happens to be Kenya's on so that's cool.
That's cool. We got to see Linda's work on Real
(01:12:52):
Housewives of Atlanta, but she always designs her dresses. Yeah,
so quickly before we run out of time. Um, the
same old beef between Kenya and Porsche. Kenya is beefing
with also Drew, the new cast member on the show,
and then we all wanted to know what was going
on with Drew and her husband Ralph. He went to
Tampa for three days and didn't tell her wife. And
(01:13:15):
then he comes back and gives her copies of receipts,
saying he had dinner just by himself. And he tries
to she says that he showed her to receipt with
his guests for one get out of him. You know
you can get chick. Come on, Tommy exactly. Kenny's looking
at him the whole time. Twist Smith like boy please.
And Andy asked Candy could her husband Todd do that?
(01:13:38):
And she said, all hell, whatever hoops. If my husband's
gone for three days, all right, that is all the time.
We have four Reality Update which cast Shirley Well, thank you, Carla.
That was great, more of the trending stories and Steve
Harvey Morning Show. We'll be back in twenty minutes after
(01:13:58):
the hour right after this You're show. Well, um, it
was all good. I thought last night the President's first
addressed to the Joint Session of Congress history was made
in so many ways. The first time, two women, Nancy Pelosi,
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Speaker of the House and of course Vice President Kamala
Harris sat behind the President that looked at the girl power. Yes, yes, Harris, yes, madam. Yes.
And in the words of my wife, that's that ski
we up there, that's that. Yeah. That was really cool
(01:14:43):
to see. Um. And my favorite, one of my favorite
parts is when the president comes in right before he
comes in and they yell the President of the United States.
I love that. And then he comes in and shakes
hands and all that. But he probably, you know, because
of COVID, it was spread out. A lot of people
were saying there weren't there, weren't there weren't a lot
(01:15:04):
of people what that's because they had COVID restrictions in protocols. Yes, yeah,
I felt this is the first time in about four years.
So he felt so relieved about the President doing his
speech in front of Congress, not on edge, not waking up.
What do you say, you know, not full anxiety, right, junior,
(01:15:24):
complete sentences. Yeah, and he didn't use the word terrific.
Hut good nature. Yes, all right, We'll have more of
the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three
minutes after the hour. Right after this. You're listening to show,
(01:15:48):
all right, Jay, come on, bitter Man. A slight disclaimer
and then we're going to get into ask bitter man. Um,
I'm not here to help you now. If you're listening
and you gathered around the radio to get help, this
is that you're not You're not gonna get it. Okay,
go ahead, chilly, what you get? All right? Well, thank
(01:16:09):
you for that? All right. This one's from Cindy and Detroit.
Cindy says, I'm a single mother of two teenage boys
and I'm a massage therapist. I have a massage table
in my son room for my female clients only. My
son's track coach had a minor car wreck and he
asked me to loosen up his back for him. I
suggested that he made an appointment with me at the
(01:16:30):
spot where I work full time. He begs to come
to my house instead. My son's joked me about their
coach liking me. Uh is this weird? And is this
his weird way of trying to get to me? What
do you think? Good or man? No? What is what?
This is? To get your son more playing time for
whatever sport he's in. And if you you're gonna be
(01:16:52):
a selfish mom, he's gonna it sounds like you're about
to be a selfish mom and not help your set
every damn game. This is what this is about it.
I don't bowling of marvels. The boy needs time and
you can help this boy further his career. About that
(01:17:14):
dessage in that back room back then, with all its soul.
While you're right, thank you, Jay. Let's move on to
Loretta and I know. Loretta in Tennessee says, my husband
and I have been married for a very long time,
and a year ago he started sleeping in the other bedroom.
He didn't give an explanation, and I didn't ask for one. Lately,
(01:17:36):
he's been sliding into my bedroom late at night trying
to have sex. But I'm not having it. If you
don't lay with me, you can't play with me. Now
he's mad and he's threatened to cheat on me. Is
he having an old man crisis? Kind of like a
midlife crisis. What's what's going on? I was just trying
to put some spark into the relationship. You like you
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on the other side of town, and he's sneaking in
the room. It gets something, I mean, that's all. It's
just stop being like that. He's like, oh you wig,
He's knocking on the door He's adding excitement instead of
just rolling over. He's sneaking in the room, gets who's
in here, gets who's in here, gets who got the
drows off? You know, playing, he's playing getting bobbed. It's
(01:18:26):
excitement breaking. Can I say something? Yeah, you can. My
grandparents left in different rooms. Of course, we know they
used to sleep in the same room, cooking got all
these kids. But I noticed that when I was, you know,
in college, you know, maybe by my third or four
of y'all started noticing that my daddy starting to sleep
more in against room. I was like, what is going
(01:18:48):
on the time. But now I'm fifty three, dude, you know,
I'm in my house looking for a different place to say,
I am looking for a new room, and happened. Coming up.
It is our last break of the day and we'll
close out the show at forty nine minutes after the
hour right after this. You're listening, all right, guys, here
(01:19:12):
we are last break of the day on this Thursday.
Thanks to our girl Cheryl Underwood for you know, telling
us what it's really like being with Junior. That was
about an hour ago too, Yeah, it was, you know, yeah, yeah,
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So how's it going, Junior? Y'all, y'all moving at Oh,
I don't, I don't know. I just thought it seemed
like she seems like she's happy though. But Junior, you've
been working out though, right, Yeah, yeah, I'm working out.
Have you seen this? Guns? I'm working out? Got guns Junior? Wait, man,
(01:19:57):
they're coming in you know right now? We got about
like two forty five ass. I mean, I ain't got
no machine guns and nothing like that. You're talking about muscles.
I'm talking about muscles. Yeah, yet you had two forty
five plates on each side and you no no, no, no,
no man, no man, but not working. You don't care
for your trainer too much. No, I don't sure. I
(01:20:18):
don't like him. He always say something you don't like, like,
let's like it. No, I'm getting it. I'm getting it.
Why don't you get it? Sometimes? Working out me? You
gott an attitude with your trainer, call caller. I've talked
about for real. It is a problem in the gym.
And you know what, I'm mad at myself because I
paid him to do this. Right. Hurt you, Yeah, to
(01:20:43):
hurt me? Oh man, it's just too much going right
after we get all this work, Yeah, it's going out.
We're getting healthier and stay. Yeah. Man, it's a good thing.
Yeah yeah, that's right. Hey, hey, I wanted to get
big ups to. I wanted to get big uls to
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Little Real. Little Real hosted the Red Carpet at the Oscars.
But I just, you know, we just gotta stick out before,
you know, when when I see another comic doing something, Man,
big ups, can you brother? Keep doing what you're doing.
And I'm proud of him. He just every time I
looked up commercial head job, he did a good job
hanging there. He did, he did and was doing the
(01:21:25):
butt with Glenn Close. I was a moment that made
me love Glenn Close even more. Who I didn't know
at the time was has been nominated for an OSCAR
for eight times and has not won one. Wait a minute,
wait minute, I won't be ignored, Dan. She didn't get
that Alex Forrester. Nothing. Yeah, nothing for the Wife. She
(01:21:51):
was nominated for the Wife. But yeah, she's been nominated
eight times and has not one. That's a bad girl, man,
that's a bad she really is. But let me tell
you with my lastscar you can I was saying, that
(01:22:14):
proves that she's in it for the acting and for
love of the craft and not for the awards. But
I'm sure she loved to have an award, you know
what I mean. But she still comes every year that
she's nominated one of these years, just like Susan Lucci.
They call her the Susan Susan Lucci of the Oscars,
just like Susan Lucci Eric for all my Children. Yeah, Spike,
(01:22:37):
we gave Glenn Close to shout out to doing the
butt and gave her love. That's how you do the
but though, if you're gonna do the but you're doing
with Glenn Close, she did that, she really really did. Yeah,
and big up to Kim Whitley. She's doing mad work
on over there on E two, So you know, I
just know that's my first Kim. Yeah, yeah, so good
(01:23:05):
have you guys? Oh my gosh, she's looking so good
like Kim is looking good. She's she's lost a lot
of weight. Sherry Shepherd. Shepherd, Yeah right, you know you
know who's looking very healthy? Bad? Who's looking so good?
I've seen all her pictures lately on social media. Tony
Braxton is look what oh I mean, she's already she
(01:23:28):
was already a beautiful, beautiful beautiful girl is out to
Libra's sister. Did you see one of my favorite singers? Huh.
I think she's I think she's showing, you know that
you could look good and healthy at any age. You know,
she's standing up for for that age group. She looks
(01:23:50):
so good, so in shape, so healthy, so beautiful. Yeah,
she looks great. And we talked about her earlier. But
you know who're looking good with a bob in her head? Hello,
Hallett Berry. And I really want to say, Hallett blanketed
blank Berry. That's what I really want to place. Okay,
that's that's that real sex. But halle on social media
(01:24:14):
yet off she looked, she said when they said she
looked like Edna from The Incredible. Oh no, I'm glad
Hallie has a sense of humor. Yeah, she's taking it
all the stride. Yeah, I'm happy. Yeah, Yeah, she's gonna
(01:24:38):
be Oscar. I'm good. Yeah. So that's all this week.
And then last night President Biden, Oh my goodness, who
first presidential speech in front of Congress at the Capitol.
Limited amount of people who were there, you know, because yeah,
(01:24:58):
but did you see our first leg? She was looking
rather rather nice, rather nice with her. I mean she
she dresses so elegantly. I love the way she dresses.
Doctor Jill Biden looking good, Doctor Jill yes, looking yes.
So I said it was they were spread out last night,
(01:25:19):
though it was it was COVID because of the COVID restrictions.
Uh huh, well, get ready for the night. I love
to see what's to night the NFL draft tonight. We
don't know who we Finn again because we don't pick
to the fourth round. They're just hope something. Who is
We were just text texts, Yeah, we not Finn. We
just got a picture. We need to pick somebody that
(01:25:40):
don't like massage. That's what we got to do. We
gotta rub yourself, man, rub yourself. We need somebody. All right.
We appreciate you guys for looking. Thank you so much.
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