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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all
don't know. Y'all look back to back down, giving them
just like the milling bus things, and it's not good. Steve, together,

(00:38):
don't join. You gotta use that turn very You gotta

(01:25):
turn to turn them out. Got to turn them out,
to turn the water the water. Come come on your baby,

(02:02):
I shall will come Martin. Everybody you are listening to
the voice, come on now, dig me one and only
Steve harvey Man got a radio show. What God doing, y'all? Huh,
what are he doing? What are you doing in your life?
He's doing something, He moving, he working. Don't lose your
patience though, so I did that before. Don't lose your patience.

(02:26):
Don't don't. Don't get so sick of waiting that you
take matters into your own hands. Don't do that. Boy,
you're blowing it. Listen to me. You're listening to somebody
who's done it that way. I had a dream, I
had a vision. I had some hope, I had some faith,
I had some aspirations. But I got a little impatient

(02:48):
waiting on it. So I tried a couple other things
move it along. But I can't tell you how I
messed it up. Then I messed it up. Then, because
God gave me the power of decision, what I had
to do was then after I took matters into my
own hand, messed it up. Now, guess what, He still
got something from me. But now I gotta fix all
the mistakes. Now I gotta straighten them out. I gotta

(03:10):
I gotta suffer some consequences. I gotta pay for my transgressions.
All of that, All of that, it's gotta go down.
You can't do something wrong and not pay for it.
It's you call it, calma, call it whatever you wanna
call it. Every action has an equal and opposite reaction
every action. If it just stays sunny all the time,

(03:34):
you might think it's cool, but there's gonna be a
reaction to it. Ain't no dark, ain't no shade, ain't
no break, ain't no rain. Gonna be hard if it's
just sunny all the time, vice versa. So you need
you need the opposite. You need the darkness so you
can get your break from that sun. You need the
rain so you can nourish the roots so that sun

(03:57):
it can soak up the sun and get the benefit
of the sun. If you don't get the opposite, you
got a problem, man. And it happens throughout nature, it
happens throughout your life. Don't think that you can do
wrong and not have to pay for that. Do you
think this is man? We we think man, because we'd
have made a decision that we think is best for us,

(04:18):
and no matter how it to affect nobody else, we
got the right to make that call. No, you don't.
Whoever is telling you that, whoever's misguiding you into the
gang life, telling you, yeah, man, you need to be
this a way to be down with us. I tell
you what, Get yourself stuck on chuck with that gang.
See how many of them be there for you. Oh,
they'll go around the corner with you and starts shooting.
But okay, when it's time to do some time and

(04:41):
they can lessen their centers, you're gonna get that time.
They're gonna point their finger dead at you. I watched
for eight hours all the time, man, I watch a
lock up raw all the time, all the time, man,
all the time. Ain't no real cold dudes out there
just holding to the mantra and sticking to it. Even
the mob turns stateside. Evidence go fed all that. Now

(05:02):
we are in the hound the hood. We didn't created
this ignorant mess called no snitching. With that hignorant mess,
you don't even understand. No snitching was created by criminals
as a code of honor. If you do dirt and
you get busted doing the dirt, don't bring my name
up if I was with you. That's a code of
honor amongst the thieves. Now, so many code of honor
thieves that then came out of prison. They ain't got

(05:23):
no honor. They haven't bought that stuff back to the street. Now,
that's all in the neighborhood. No snitching, No snitching, You
gotta be crazy. That's for people who disobey the law.
That's who people have made a code of honor amongst
themselves as thieves. Hey, man, if you get busted, don't
drag me down. What you just do your time. Oh man,
you can't bring that stuff out here to me. I'm
a law biden citizen dog. I'm trying to live right

(05:46):
over here, man. I don't want to crack house up
street from my mama's house. I'm trying to do right
out here. Man. You can't do wrong and expect wrong
not to come to you. You got to make a
decision every day to do right. God ain't got no
protection you on dirt. You got what you got coming.
You made a decision. You go down there to get
some you might got get got see, we got to

(06:10):
come on. I'm talking to so many men out here
right now. I should have said that any me getting
but a conversation and kind of got away from me.
I was going to talk to you about something else
this morning, but did just only man, because our communities. Man,
it's just going to the pot man, because it ain't
nobody can about nobody else. Don't nobody care when they
see that young dude over that doing wrong. Look at

(06:31):
them foods over that man, Go over there and talk
to one of them. Put them to the side. Man.
You might not be able to approach the group, but
you can approach an individual. Come in, young man. Let
me talk to you. I saw you the other day. Man.
You look like you got something going on in your life.
What's happening with you? Let me talk to you, man,
Let me share something I learned. I was doing what
you was doing. You know, it's like toimmy did a

(06:52):
prank phone call one time as a limo driver, and
the dude the prank was he called this limo company
to ask this limo driver to take him to this
location late at night, and the limo driver got a
young business he going, yeah, okay, I got you. I
don't normally work like that. But how long you need it?
He said for just bout an hour. He said, well,

(07:13):
I'm gonna have to charge you for the full three though,
because a three hour minimum. Tommy told him, now, I
just need it for one hours. He said, okay, I'll
give you a break, young man. You're trying to do something.
Where you want to go? He gave the address. The
man stopped writing. He said, that's a bank. He said yeah.
He said, you want to go to the bank at
twelve thirty at night. He say yeah, and I'm gonna

(07:34):
be in for a few minutes. And when I come
out that bank, I need for you to flow it
that to dude with the limo. He stopped writing. He said, ho,
hold on, hold on, man, you want me to take
you to a bank twelve thirty at night. You're gonna
be in there for a few minutes and you're gonna
come out and you want me to float it. He says, sir,

(07:56):
I don't do stuff like that. He said, you got
the wrong company. He said, what made you call here?
He said, hey, man, don't worry about that. You a
limo come to you. Just drive. He stopped and took
the time out. He said, young man, let me tell
you something. He said, I've been down before, I've been
locked up before. It ain't pretty. He said, that's what's
wrong with you young people to day. Instead of going

(08:16):
to get a job, trying to work your way, you're
always looking for some fast money. He's I'm gonna tell
you what I already know. Don't go down they're messing
with them people's money like that because they love that
money where more than they love you, and they're gonna
do something to you down now. Now, you stop this foolishness.
And I'm not caring you nowhere, but I'm gonna take
a little bit of time out to tell you something.
Don't go down here with messing with these people's money,

(08:38):
because it ain't gonna go good. They're gonna take care
of their business where they come to that money. Tommy
kept insisting to this man to pick him up in
the limit. It was a playing phone call. But the
point I'm making it the man took out time. He
could just hung the phone up. But you know what
he's said, he's a hold up young man. Let me
hip you to something. Because the brother had been locked
up before. He said, no, no, no no, I see I've
done that when I was young. Now I gonna stop

(09:00):
and I'm gonna take some moment out to tell you.
I'm gonna here, working man trying to earn an honest living.
I ain't going back down there because I don't. I don't.
They make you eat what they want you to eat.
You don't want the food. You gotta get up when
they say get up. You gotta stay where they say stay,
live with who they say live. He said, man, you
don't want that, and he just tried to talk the
young man out of it. You can change a young
man's mind with a conversation. A conversation can change a

(09:24):
young man's man. Most of these young men that are
misguided ain't having conversations with real men. They're just not
having them. And it's up to us who know what
manhoo it is is to start delivering the message. The
problem that we have in our communities. We could solve ourselves.
It didn't escalated to a point because we who are
men won't stop on our corporate climb and our day

(09:46):
to day making money and trying to ball out. We
won't stop and grab some of these young soldiers and
tell them the truth about manhood. That's the real deal. Okay,
So I went there. I don't know where they came from.
You're listening to show, ladies and gentlemen. It is about time.
It has begun to Steve Harvey Morning Show. It's upon us.

(10:07):
Yours truly is in the building. Give it up for
the Steve Harvey Martin Show. Yes, Yeah, happen out, Shovy
strong Perry. I'm welcome back, Team Harvey. We missed you.
I'm all TD. I'm back in love again. Yeah, good morning,
caller Farrell, welcome back, Hey Steve. What's a cruise? That's

(10:30):
welcome back? Carter. I'm a sweathole. Yeah, I got old things,
so no matter what you say, so for this boy here,
because he don't go back no further than nineties. What's
up doing lording. Good to see you man, Good to
see you see that. Toy ain't got nothing for that
got nothing now, nephew, Tommy top top that's my uncle. Yeah, yeah,

(10:56):
fucking getting mixed your moved shock because he said, and
I feel so satisfied. Excuse me, I'm sometimes I pot, well, yeah,

(11:17):
I'm in the middle of nowhere now tell us, well,
I'm in Africa now. But it's a journey man, and
I'm like right now, I'm I'm I'm just we're ahead
of y'all. We're ahead of y'all, like nine hours ahead. Wow,

(11:41):
how you feel? How was the plane ride and traveling?
You know, it's long. You know, they got a lot
going on because COVID now you know you gotta take
test to go into Everyone in South Africa is not
the safest place on Earth right now. No, it's just
not really well. I mean, you know, we because they
say they're finding all these new different strands and all

(12:03):
of this. Yeah, all these variants, but you know, vaccinated
up and you know, everybody here they're they're doing the
right things. Everybody's wearing mask and everything, so you know,
and then uh, you know, we stopped in the UAE,
which is like the number one city for safety is
out of dropping. Uh, they're the number one. You you don't, don't, don't.

(12:25):
Don't come in there without your tests if they're not playing. No,
you know what, it's mandatory mask laws. You'll find if
you don't have your mask on immediately people stop you
in the streets. And you don't have your mask all
the way ever, I mean they've huh haven't they been

(12:50):
wearing masks way before this anyway, always covered most most
of them. They're facial and stuff is covered most of
the time. But that's not everybody, you know, now, everybody,
I don't care. If you've got what you got wrapped around,
you got to have mask. But don't you think Steve
or you were heading mask on somewhere. Yeah, if they
had done that here last year, we wouldn't be in

(13:12):
the position we're in right now. No, we wouldn't. But
you know, some places are getting better. And I'll tell
you one thing, Biden and Harris is playing with these
vaccines and these it's starting to help out of course
some places. Or spiking because of the kids would do
young folks. All right, super spreaders. All right, Steve is

(13:34):
back and coming up at thirty two minutes after the hour.
We're gonna find out what's really going on. With Steve.
Right after this, you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well,
later on this morning, we're going to talk about the
latest killing of an unarmed black man. His name was Dante, right,
Dante was killed during a traffic stop by a twenty

(13:58):
six year veteran officer. Her name is kim Porter. She
since resigned. Uh, she shot right while trying to use
her taser on him. All right, that's the story. And
she has since resigned, so as a police captain. Yesty,
you mean she since she said she thought right, she

(14:20):
was using her taser, but it was her gun. Now,
you just told me something I didn't know. She's been
on the force twenty six years. Yeah, you don't know
the difference between a gun and a taser. I've never
took pistol range training, and I promise you I know
the difference between a gun and a taser. The taser yellow, yes, yeah, right,

(14:44):
yellow yes, purpose, Yeah, it doesn't you know, man, I
have so much to say on this subject, but go
ahead and say it. But but you know, most of
us anger, Yeah, we're out rage. Absolutely. Yeah, here we
go again. I mean, look, man, and and and and
and and and and I don't. I don't understand how

(15:07):
everybody ain't outraged. The only reason you can't be outraged
is because it's just not happening to you in yours.
The only way that this is going to get fixed
is if police suffer the same consequences that we would
suffer if we committed the same DM and call it

(15:28):
what it is. If you're killing an oar person, if
you're choking on oar person, if you kill a person
by accident, if you mistakenly identify somebody and kill them,
all this is gonna get you in jail at minimum
for manslot, right, But you're gonna do some time. And
you can't open up a door and kill somebody and

(15:49):
then say, wow, I thought that was my place. Yeah,
Ambergeiger in Dallas, Yeah, both of them, John, Yeah, right,
you remember, Steve, you were traveling. But this happened just
ten miles from where the George Floyd I'm sorry, the
Derek Chauvin trial is going on. That's what is this
police department doing right? Right? Either either they got some

(16:13):
training that that well, there's two different areas. Let me
tell you see, Brooklyn Center is where the officer who
killed Dante, right, that's a city in Minnesota. It's near Minneapolis.
That's the name of the city, Brooklyn Center. And then
Minneapolis is Derek Chauvin. He was a police officer from Minneapolis.

(16:34):
But the same area your point, Yes, the same, the
same It's still in the same state, you know, same area.
But I'm tired for all the other black people. That's tired. Yes,
I'm sixty four. I've been sick of this mess. Yes,

(16:57):
I've been sick of it. Yes, I'm so tired of it,
and I'm tired of nothing being done about it, and
I'm tired of them finding a way to lessen the charges.
I was watching the trial on CNN. I saw a
clip on the plane right and the defense on there

(17:17):
that was the yeah, the yeah yeah, the police officer trial.
They put a defense on had a goy on the
trial that says that Chauvin acted within his rights as
a police officer, and he went to what he was
trained to do, or the prosecutor got up there and
ate him alive. Yes, when when a person is in

(17:40):
your custody, are you responsible for his health? He said, yes,
I am. Are you responsible for the treatment of him? Yes,
you are? Are you responsible for any endangerment of that person.
That's he said, yes, we are. He said do you
are you responsible for a person's life at that point,

(18:01):
he said yes you are. He said, so, then that
would mean you were in charge. You're responsible for his breathing. Yes,
what about if he has no pulse? Are you responsible?
He said yes, he said, I rest my case. He
want to set out, Yeah, because I'm sitting to it going, Hey, dude,
did you understand you said Derek Chauvin was within his rights,
but everything the prosecutor asked you showed that what he

(18:23):
was did was out of bounds. I don't even see
why we're wasting this damn money with this. I know
everybody saw what happened on tape all across the world,
and during the trial, they keep playing it over and
over and over, which is and I'm gonna be honest

(18:43):
with you, I'm not watching. Here's what throws me in
this country. It sounds good you're innocent until proven guilty,
but that ain't always the case. If you walked into
school and you shot it, and your ass it's the
only one on trial for shooting it, and everybody know

(19:04):
it was you that shot through. You are not innocent
until proven guilty, y'all ass guilty. Yeah, we see some
of this stuff we don't need to trial for. If
we got shooting in Colorado, you did it, the Columbine
you did it. The little dude with the red hair
to kill all the people in the movie theater. You

(19:26):
did it. The white boy winning that black church and
killed all the people. You did it, Sandy Hook. I
mean you did this. Said not a question about was
it you? It was you. But we have this system
and in this reasonable doubt scenario, too many police officers
are getting off and then the amendment that they have

(19:48):
if he's acting in the line of duty says that
he can get away with certain things. We got to
get rid of all of these laws, y'all because until
they have to pay like we pay, we're the only
was just gonna keep paying. And it's a damn shade.
Remember Jacob Blake in Wisconsin. You remember him, the police
officer that shot him, Jacob Blake. He's back at Yeah,

(20:10):
he's back at work. He's back at work. I saw
that in the same city. Yeah, that paralyzes man m
to Nosha, Wisconsin. Yeah, this is unbelievable. Yeah, what is
that I'm tired of saying this, you know, of going
through this every every so often. But anyway, all right,

(20:33):
we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming
up right after this. You're listening to show. Coming up
at the top of the hour, Miss Anne is standing
by with our national news and we'll have today's entertainment news.
Bobby Brown talked about his alcohol dependency on Red Table
Talk plus another entertainment news. Halle Berry says she trusts

(20:54):
men too much. We'll talk about allies at the top
of the Yeah, okay, but right now you don't have
a chance, nephew. But right now, well the nephew is
here with keep going what you got for us. Now, listen,
you gave my sister the wrong directions. You gave my

(21:16):
sister the wrong direction. Let's go cat out who thank
you for Carl. My name is Frederick Stammond. Down, Tamera,
let me see she's any office one moment. Thank you.
Just don't it don't make sense for the all ago

(21:36):
out there like we didn't didn't running in the type
of problem that Hello. Hello, listen, my name is Frederick Stammonds. Okay,
now my sisters Si stam is buried out there, okay,
And we come out there last week on Monday to
come out there and pray over the spacewash. Year. Now,

(21:57):
you as the one that told us that it was
a few spaces away from the mother limb. Now we
got out there and prayed over my such the friends
and this barrel, and find out that we were in
the wrong space. And they say, you was the one
that told it to us. So I don't even know
what you're talking about. You was the one that told
us that my suster friend, I don't give us spaces.

(22:19):
I'm in an administrative office. I don't know why you're
work out. All I know is you was the one
that told us this. No, yes, you did. You were
the one that my grandbaby said that she talked to
the woman named Tabor, and you had us out there
standing over some white man's boy water out of concert.
So I can't tell you we're a space to you.
So your granddaughter last you ain't nobody lige mean that

(22:42):
you had us out there in the wrong space. I
couldn't have had you in the wrong spaces. I don't
even know the cemeteries. You know what, I must send
my grand baby up there to talk to you. Okay,
I'll be here to five. You're very mischievous, you know
that I'll be here to five o'clock. You have a
good day, No, you don't. You hang up, just phone
on me. You have a good day. No, I'm not

(23:02):
gonna have a good day. You had me praying over
the president's body, and that was the raw one. And
when's in that praying over this white man's body? It
was right? Hello, I'm listening to you. You don't have
an apology or nothing, because I know I didn't tell
your granddaughter where a space was. Then what did you

(23:24):
tell them? I don't even know what your granddaughter is.
What do you mean the Stamon's family if we were
not I don't know who the Simmons family is. If
not Simon, that Stamons Stamons, I don't know a Simon's family.
That's what I'm telling you. I'm not a counselor. I
don't even deal with family. Here's what I need you
to do. Can you go out there and pray over

(23:44):
my sons the body. I don't know where your sister
is buried. It's supposed to have been six baths away
from the mother. Limb. I don't are there any faces?
Where is it? Where is it? We was in section two,
but there was something man was that that wasn't my siris. Okay,
I don't even know who your sister friends is. I

(24:08):
do not even know where section two is. Whoever came
into the cemetery and said that they spoke to me.
They probably did speak to me, and I probably got
the information from a concert, but I never told them
exactly where the spot was. So they were out there
praying over your sister, and they were in the wrong spot.
That's not my problem. That's praying over some white man.

(24:29):
That's not my problem, sir. If you gave the wrong
the wrong spot, if you gave the wrong information, it
is just I don't give the wrong information. I told them, yes,
she's in section two. I did not physically go out
there and point to the spot to tell them to
pray over that spot. Let me explain what I'm trying
to stop from happening. If my people come out there,

(24:50):
it's gonna be some more bodies getting buried, and I
don almost nobody to get her. I mean, your family
can come up here. It's not gonna be no more
bodies than buried that. What they can do is come
up here writing. We can conversate about this, but it's
not going to be an up world here. I want
you to go out there and you pray over friends
and the body. I'm not going out to pray over
nobody's body now, it's not Remember I didn't tell them

(25:14):
the wrong information. Do you do you love the Lord
I dearly do? Then you ought to have some sympathy.
I want you to bow your head right now. No,
I'm going to end this conversation because that all the
work to do. Now they will come in and trust
to me, I will be hearing to five o'clock. Can
I say one more thing for you? Go one more

(25:36):
thing and I'm ending the car. Okay, this nephew Tommy
from the Steve Harvard Morning Show. You just got prank COVID.
You are crazy, your sister to me because sets your
up baby and you just got it baby from nephew.

(26:00):
How mean? Well? You were standing your ground? You like
this guy. You wasn't prayed over the wrong bout it.
That don't mean that I ain't all right. Check it out.
You gotta tell me one thing. What's the baddest radio
show in the land. So so I gotta tell y'all us, right,

(26:32):
this actually happened at a funeral that we went to
went to that that they sent us to the wrong burial.
You know how you get to the cemetery, you say
your last words. Yeah, sent us to the wrong burial
the grave site exactly, did the whole prayer and everything,

(26:54):
and find out later that it was not our loved
one man. Yeah, says mister Harris brupt. But guess what
happened wind up getting the entire funeral for free because
of that. Oh yeah, Like I told you yesterday, you

(27:14):
should have gone to bury By Bernards. Shout out to
Memphis Berards and Bernards. You know, I'm gonna start watching
you all Bernards, but I want to make show Bernards
that y'all are watching Ready to Love at the same time. Okay,
I'm I'm gonna we're gonna share that thing. I'm gonna

(27:35):
watch the Bernards and y'all tuney and on Friday night
and catch that Ready to Love. Okay, get that Ready
to Love in your system. Everybody needs someone, somehow or
some weight to love. Okay. Ready to Love only on
Network nine eighth Central only on on Friday night tomorrow night.
Come watch me work. If you in Birmingham, put your
dbyall on, come on down to the comedy club and

(27:58):
watch me work. I'm working in working on Friday. Are
you hearing I'm working and workrnos ws okay, well, are
you working all right? Nephew? Thank you. Coming up at
the top of the hour, we'll have some entertainment and
national news for you. Right after this. You're listening to
This Day Morning Show and Today's Entertainment News. Former New

(28:23):
Edition member Bobby Brown sat down with Jada Pinkett Smiths
on Red Table Talk. This time, Bobby has opened up
about how substance abuse affected his life and the lives
of his loved ones. For instance, Bobby said that his
alcoholism made him completely dependent. He says, I wasn't getting
drunk anymore. I wasn't getting a little tipsy anymore. I

(28:44):
needed it to wake up. I needed it to stop
the shakes. I needed it to function on a day
to day basis. He says. For me, it wasn't recreational. Um,
it just wasn't you know. He needed it. He he
just talked about the deaths of his children. Bobby Christina
and Bobby Brown Junior. Um. He said, um, yeah, I mean,

(29:05):
you know you just felt for Bobby, as you know,
both of them, of course, died of drug related causes.
Bobby is just heartbroken, just heartbroken. I just saw Bobby
when we were shooting Celebrity Family Feud a week ago.
I saw him at the hotel with his family, and
I just helved a brother. Man. He said, unk, I

(29:27):
appreciate you, man. I said, no, I appreciate you something
like ro man. But Bobby, Bobby really looked well, man.
He really looked well good. And I think I thanked
his girl for standing beside him, you know, seeing him
through these hard time because her brother been through it. Man.
But he really looked well, man. And I've seen Bobby

(29:49):
a lot over the years. This is the best I've
seen Bobby Brown little. That's good. Oh he was clean, man,
he was solid, and kids was climbing on him, loving him.
You know. It was a really good thing. I was
really warmed to see Bobby. And I told his sister too,
you know, I said, hey, I really appreciate your standing bodies, man.

(30:09):
I said, because that's what you need, man, you need
a support system. Yeah. Yeah, sure you're right, Yeah, all right.
In other entertainment news, halle Berry has admitted something we
all suspected. Um. Hallie says she tends to trust men
too much. Um. This was during an episode of her

(30:30):
IG series Bad and Bougie with her best friend Lindsay
flores Um. They were discussing real versus fake friends, and Hallie,
who's been divorced we know three times, said that she
tends to look at the good in people, and especially
the good in men. Her friend was a little more blunt,
saying that Hallie can't see the forest for the trees.

(30:53):
Listen to my voice, Haley, Well, you ain't got shot
in here, but go ahead, let's hear. Let's hear. J
come on, little force, little force, a little force. But listen.
I am here if you need me, if you're ever
so desire, Tommy is here. Haley. Just listen to my

(31:15):
voice whenever you hear this whole morning. Yeah, Tommy curiosity.
You do know your status? Right? He Oh man, I'm
just playing with Haley. Hell I'm just playing, ain't I mean?
I mean, if you'll get caught up in anything like that,
I just speaking to just caught up any you were

(31:37):
trying to pull your ass out of it. I'm just saying,
believe you call it heten, what are you doing? Listen
to this bush. I know you can't see the force
for the trees, but I'm just aberys this nursery. Yeah,

(32:04):
I'm just a plant. I ain't even trying to be
that much to you. All Right, we're moving on, guys.
Time for today's headline Steve. Ladies and gentlemen, Miss Anne trip,
thank you, thank you very much. This is a trip
with the news. Well, I'm part some of those trees
for y'all and tell you what's going on. President Biden
is announced that he intends to end America's longest war

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by pulling all US troops out of Afghanistan. And soon.
We went to Afghanistan because of a horrific attack that
happened twenty years ago. That cannot explain why we should
remain there in twenty twenty one. We have to focus
on the challenges that are in front of us. We
cannot continue the cycle of extending or expanding our military

(32:49):
presidence in Afghanistan, hoping to create ideal conditions for their
drawal and expecting a different result. The President says he
knows many lawmakers are going to quote loudly insist that
diplomacy can succeed without a robust US military in place
over there, But he says he'd be the fourth US
president to preside over that situation, and it hasn't worked yet.

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So mister Biden says US service members are going to
start leaving Afghanistan on May first, which Donald Trump had
promised that was going to be Donald Trump's day. But
Donald Trump said that would be the mark of the
very end of his pullout. Mister Biden said that would go.
It's too fast, so he's doing it. He's starting it today.
He's starting it rather May first. Biden thought that that
was too soon, so he's beginning getting withdrawal May first.

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The white now retired Brooklyn Center, Minnesota police officer who
shot and killed twenty year old unarmed Dante Wright has
been arrested, booked free on two million dollars bail, and
doing court later on this morning. Kim Potter, a twenty
six year veteran and training officer, claimed she didn't realize
that she'd pulled her gun and not her taser when
she killed the young black man after pulling him over

(33:54):
and a traffic stop. Potter's charge with a second degree
manslaughter and now in hiding because someone leaked her address.
Legal analysts say that the penalty in Minnesota for second
degree manslaughter ranges from ten years in prison to only
twenty thousand dollars in fines. Some people, like civil rights
attorney Benjamin Crump, wonder why she was trying to chase
the unarmed man the first place. Instead is simply giving

(34:14):
him a ticket. In fact, Crump says that's what Derek
Schauvin should have done with George Floyd. Speaking which the
defense in the Derek Chauvin George Floyd murder trial yesterday
brought in their own forensic pathologists, doctor David Fowler, who
said that George Floyd had died of a bad heart
and not strangulation. Mister Floyd had a sudden cardiac a
rhythmia or cardiac a rhythmia due to his anthroscogic and

(34:37):
hypertensive heart disease, or you can write that down multiple
diffroms during his restraint, and said Joel by the pizza
restrained by the police. Well, they're making their case. The
CDC says that they wanted to take another ten days
before deciding if people can start taking Jay and Jay's
COVID vaccine again and time marches on. Now back to

(34:58):
the Steve Harvey Morning Show listening. Okay, So Steve, now
for those of us, for those who may have missed it,
please tell us where you are and just what's going
on with you. We want to know what's up, what's happening. Oh,
it's a long flight to Africa, but and then it's
a huge time difference, especially for La. So I left

(35:22):
a Family Feud uh last week last Sunday and uh
and and I left and started the flight to Johannesburg,
but I had to stop through Dubai. So then then
we flew on in And now I'm um sitting in
Johannesburg and getting ready tomorrow morning tomorrow to start taping

(35:45):
Family Feud in Africa. Yeah, this is the second season
of Family Feud South Africa. It's the number one show
in South Africa. It's going really really well, and we're
over here just to do the set a season. So
that's what I'm doing now. It's a huge time difference.
So good morning to everybody. But it ain't morn into me.

(36:11):
You're adjusting. Steve. Yeah, I gotta ask you this, what's
the difference between doing family feud in Africa and doing
family feud here in the US. Well, I mean there's
a big bit of a challenge the accents. Because I'm
the one over here with the accent. They can understand

(36:32):
me because they have every TV station you can name,
But now them a little bit different. I don't know
what they'd be saying. Sometimes all you gotta do is
watch your clips. One of the questions was, but it's
English though, right, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, oh oh, they
all speak English. But you know there's five thousand, No,
there's two thousand and two hundred, two thousand and two

(36:53):
hundred different, and there's different dialects, different sects. I mean, man,
this place is really and you know, you have different
different cultures, different regions, different tribes, and it's all and
we have all different types on this show. So I
meet everybody, man, and it was really cool. It's really
a learning experience for me. They know all about America. Yeah,

(37:15):
but I'm really learning a lot over here. It's really really, really,
really kind of a cool thing. Food is a bit different,
but it's delicious. Lord of Him is it. They got
some great, great meals over to the a Central African
Republican and say what's up to my people, because that's
where you know, I'd like to ask I came from.

(37:36):
I'm from Ghana. My people, h we act like it's
just right by. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, y'all.
You know, you know, y'alling had y'alls roots research and everything. Yeah,
African ancestry callers from Ghana. Yes, I'm from the Central
African Republic. I'm gonna be with Jo pretty soon, calling

(37:56):
because because one of my best friends is there. We
gotta go see my cousin said yeah. A minute thirty
four minutes after the hour more of the Steve Harvey
Morning Show. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve
Harvey Morning Show. Dante Wright was killed during a traffic
stop when a twenty six year veteran officer, Kim Kim Potter,

(38:21):
accidentally shot him. She claimed she was trying to use
her taser on him, saying it was a mistake she
pulled her gun. Yesterday, Nisha Wright, the aunt of Dante Wright,
spoke at the family's press conference about the killing of
her twenty year old nephew, Tick a listen, please, sad night,

(38:42):
sad night. They murdered my nephew. She killed my nephew.
Every pistol, every dayser, it has a safety on it.
She saw that she had to release that. I watched
that video like everybody else watched that video. That woman

(39:05):
held that gun out in front of up our long
damn time, my long damn file. Yes he did. My
nephew was twenty years old. Twenty years old. I don't
care what nobody got to say about him. He was love,
he was our. He came from my brother. My sister's hurt.

(39:33):
You feel her pain, Oh Lord Jesus and Dante right
had a two year old son. See that we see
and and I don't. I don't know what has to happen.
I just don't. I'm gonna just be real honest with you.
I'm disappointed in this country. I have been, but now

(39:58):
because of social media, when you see what we've known
all these years, I've known this mind tire life, this
type of behavior for police, and what people have had
to do. You know, listen, what what what's what? The
troubling part of me, the sickening part for me now
is when we show it to you you're gonna do

(40:20):
a damn thing when we let you see it what
we've been seeing. It's still business as usual. This is
the same damn state. Just just happened. Just got a
man on trial, not not not miles from here, and
now we got another incident from another officer? Are you
kidding me? Are you kidding a year? Lay't even look man,

(40:44):
and what has to happen here? Are you gonna wait
until it happened to one of yours? That's all I
can think of now that the only hope we got
is that it happens to one of yours. That's all
all I can see. That's all I can see. And
you know, Steve, people are saying, well, why didn't he comply?

(41:04):
Why didn't he just comply? Why didn't he just do
what the officer said? You don't understand this young man
is scared. Do you know how many cop shows I've seen? Well,
white people don't comply with the police officer, but they
don't die for it, right, Just cut cut all the

(41:28):
damn cop shows on It happens every day. Just look
at it. This is America and stop saying, stop saying,
this is not the America. We have this? Is it? Yeah?
Is this the one we see? Like Marta Luther King say,
all black people won't is for America to be what
you say you are on paper? And how much longer

(41:50):
do you want us to be patient? Do you do that?
How much? Why long we got We've been here for
a hundred years, right, how long we got to wait?
But that tape the other day and my son just
showed me this video of this white man in the
airport getting taken down by the TSA, and he said,
you're treating me like blanking black people. Wow. Wow? Have

(42:14):
you seen that video? Yeah? No, I haven't seen it.
Oh doglet let me send it to you. Okay, they're
trying to he's fighting them with the coust He told them,
you're treating me like a blanking black person. He said it.

(42:35):
He said it so they know they'll wear Yeah. Yeah,
but let me tell you something. It's not a secret.
He did a really cool video after that. He said,
if they do this to me, all right, and I'm
a fifty nine year old doctor. We'll be back with
more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.
You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at

(42:58):
the top of the hour, right about four minutes after
it's my strawberry letter forward today the subject please stop
me from cheating. We'll get into that. We'll wait till
you hear this. We'll get into that in a few Yeah, yeah,
yourself yourself all right, But right now the nephew is
here with today's praying phone call. What you got for us? Neff?

(43:22):
Side job clean us? Yeah? Fine, job clean? What I'm
saying that side job cleaning? You ain't ready for you?
Watch me work. Let's go get down side job clean us?
Talk or Jarvis is Robbie? How can I help you? Robbie?
I'm trying to get a order in for some construction

(43:42):
uh supplies I need to pick up. That's fine. What's
your what's your company? Uh? Roofing company? Okay? Have we
have we done listening to you before? No? No, you
have it. This is my first time call. I heard
you guys were pretty good. I appreciate the compliment. Okay,
I know. Listen. Uh, I need to get this as
soon as possible. Man, can I possibly pick up these
supplies like in the next couple of hours? Uh? Well,

(44:04):
you know, normally don't work that fat kind of a
quick turnaround. We got a little bit of a backup,
but I can I can get my BASTI depends on
what you need. Okay, here's here's what I need. Man,
I need five rolls of duct tape. Okay, that's no problem,
that's quick. Okay, I need plastic. Man. Listen, if you
was gonna wrap up something in plastic that's like about uh,

(44:24):
six foot two in height and two hundred pounds, how
much plastic you think I would need to wrap to
wrap that up? In this the second you're you're asking
for plastics, like a roll of plastics. Yeah, but I'm
telling I need to wrap up something that's six foot
two and like two hundred and ten pounds. I probably
wouldn't get about three yards four yards of plastic. Okay, okay,
I need to get that. Then let me ask you

(44:46):
this here. If you was gonna try to put some
seamen on that to hold it down, how much seamen
you think I hold that down? I'm look confused. You
you're running the roofing company, right, Yeah, I'm a roof
of company, but I'm doing a little side work for
some friends of mine. Oh okay, okay, I just got
a little confused. Can you tell me it's the Collegers
and company? No problem, no problem, We've got some man
way You're you're you're trying to hold something down. I'm

(45:08):
trying to I'm trying to hold something down. So how
many bags to see men? Do you think I need
to hold out something that's two hundred and twenty pounds? Wow?
I don't know. E eight bags? Eight bags? Eight bags?
I would recommend at least. Okay, okay, give me eight
bags to see men. Now, just something else I want
to ask you. Do you have anything any type of

(45:28):
cleaner man that can get uh, that can get blood?
I mean a paint off the floor. Yeah. We got
industrial cleaners, I mean all kinds of industrial cleaners that
when you said paint the paint or blood, uh, paint
pat pat. Oh okay, yeah, I mean I've got industrial cleaners,
all kinds. And you have a preference. No, just whatever
you could throw in there. I need that. Now let
me ask you this here. Do you have anything that

(45:49):
can like just kill a smell? You know what I'm
saying that if you know, if you don't want something
to smell, you got anything for that way? Something something
something die in your place is something something? Did you
like there an animal or something you found? I mean,
I'm kind of confused. You're talking about smell and cleaning up.
Did you find some sort of animal on a construction?
A robby? Listen, man, just take the order. That's all

(46:10):
I need you to do. Okay, Okay, No, I'm sorry.
I wasn't asking your business. I just it was a
little concerned. What are we getting? What are we cleaning up?
And what do we I mean I guess that are
we clean up a tile ford to clean up carpet?
I mean, what's the what's the cleaner form? What's what?
Where's the odor? Sir? All, I'm asking you, do you
have something strong enough? Like do you think ammonia can
can keep a smell down? What do I need to

(46:31):
keep a smell down? You're definitely gonna need ammonia. I mean,
you're gonna get something to just scrub that right down.
Because whoever that sense is, if it's in your if
it's in the walls, if you got fabrics in that place,
I mean, whatever whatever you got it, you probably have
a different type of the odorize or something for the
carpets of them for the walls. I mean, I don't.
I guess, I guess it's kind of confused as to
as to where the sense coming from. And I don't

(46:54):
worry about all that. Man, Hey, man, listen, just just
right down. What the order is? Okay, I got it you.
I got the five holds of duck there, I got
to the full yards of plastic at the eight back
of cement. I got the industrial cleaner, I got the ammonia.
I'm i'm, I'm, I'm typing it all in. I got
I've got your order. Okay, let me do y'all. Hell uh,
any type of machet anything that's real shop they can
put what? Oh okay, hold on a second. And now

(47:17):
now you're completely off base. You do realize you call
the hardware store, right, I'm calling the hardware stalker. But
I need some supplies. Man, I'm doing the job on
the side. I need some supplies. I get there, you can.
You said there already. But I'm confused about it is.
Now you're asking for a weapon. What what what would
use a machetting for? I mean, you're you're talking about
what you're gonna chop down some some some brush. I don't,
I don't, I don't get it. What's the macheting for? Hey? Man, listen, listen.

(47:39):
Your job is to take the order man, that's your job, Robbie,
don't tell me what my job is. I know what
my job is. This is my store, man, Okay. I've
been working here a lot longer than you even can
match it. And people don't call up asking for ammonia
and and cleaner and and trying to get a smell out.
I mean what I just I'm trying to figure out
how best to help you. I'm sorry where I'm doing, Robbie,

(48:02):
is you be a nosy? You be a nosy. All
you gotta do is field or order. And I haven't
haven't done in two hours when I get there. That's
all you gotta do. I can't do that in two hours.
I can't even I go back duck with this point.
I'm not even sure I can get this done. Maybe
tomorrow morning, just tomorrow morning work for ye oh. Man.
I got to get rid of this body. I got
to get rid of this guys today. Whoa whoa, whoa,

(48:24):
whoa whoa. I need to call listen, I need to
call the policeman. You just hit body man right there.
That's about white people always want to call the police
when it ain't got nothing to do with them. Listen,
all you need to do is field or order. Okay, Okay,
you're listen. I need to tell you something. Okay. And

(48:44):
I don't know if you if you found a body,
I don't know if you're respondful for the body either way.
I don't want to be any part of this business. Okay.
I don't know why you're planning or where you're trying
to bury this thing, but you're basically asking me to
be an accomplice to something that's none of my business. Hey,
I need your name right now. Okay, what I'm not
giving you my name? You say those trufing Hey, hey,

(49:05):
listen to me. You said you're calling from Truth and Company?
Are you? I'm not? I'm not. Hey, man, let me
tell you something. Why are your wife folks always trying
to be a bar? Tell you like that? Why are
you want to wait acting like? Why are you folks?
What your problem talking about? Wife? Folks talking about purple green, black,
blue wolf? It's talking about why? It's what you're asking
for that sounds like trying to bury your body. Okay,
that's what I'm trying to figure out are you and

(49:26):
you're not? What is your name? I need your name
and your name right now? Hey man, well, first of all,
you at work, do you're not? You can't you guys
want to be talking to me like this. I don't
care if I'm swearing at work. Min co workers, the
people here, they all know who I am. And I
know if I was talking to someone so you, I'd
be talking like this too. Okay, I'm gonna trace this
call you hear me. I'm gonna trace this call. I'm
gonna get the cops on your ands figuring out who

(49:48):
the you are? Okay, Okay, well let me let me
ask you this. Since you want to know who I am?
Do you know Marcus? I don't, Mark don't market he
works here, man, I know him? Okay, Marcus is who
got me to call you? This is nephew Timmy from
the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Robbie, you just got pranked
by your co worker, Marcus. You have got to be

(50:13):
kidding me, Marcus, Marcus. I see you over there, I
see you. I can't believe that. Who son of a Marcus?
Why don't you tell me this? I gotta ask you, Robert,
you gotta tell me this man, what is the baddest
and I mean the baddest radio show in the land.

(50:35):
That's easy, Steve Harvey Morning Show, Come out here, bad body.
I need some duct take, I need some plastic by
foe y'ads and plays. I'm gonna need eight bags to
see man, and then I oh, I need some ammonia
and all kind of struy. What you what you got?

(50:56):
What you recommend? We watched dates, we watch all that.
We know you do realize you call a hardware store
that Machette brings up, raising all eyebrow. Oh whoa hold on,
Wait a minute, wait a minute. Are you responsible for
the body too much? Why did your wife always asking

(51:20):
all these question? Yeah? Man, I think that was grat
That's that good stupid right there. You know what I'm
saying All forward till you got to Machetti. Yeah, yeah,
until he said body. He no when he said body Junior. Yeah,
we watched too much, Ray Donovan not Yeah, all right,

(51:44):
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(52:27):
Please stop me from cheating. Dear Stephen Shirley, I am
a fifty three year old man and I have been
married for going on twenty five years. My wife and
I used to have an active sex life, but for
the past few years the magic has been happening less
and less, and now we do it once or twice
a year. I've talked to her about it, but she

(52:48):
always seems to make up excuses. The one I hear
the most is that she's not in the mood because
I've made her mad about something. Or she'll say something
like if you picked up your clothes off the floor
side times and maybe I would give you some On
those rare occasions when we do have sex. It has
become so boring. She just lies there until it's over.

(53:10):
Sometimes it is so terrible, I just rush to complete
the job. Lately, I find myself on adult sights online,
looking for one night stands and hanging out at my
favorite bar talking to women. I love my wife and
I think she loves me, but I also like sex.
I work over night, so me not coming home is
an unusual So far, I've met up with one woman

(53:33):
from my past and we just had an oral exchange,
but nothing else. I don't want to continue this behavior,
but I don't think that my wife even cares anymore.
This lady from my past that I fooled around with
wants to give me more, but I'm not really into
her like that. There's another lady that I work with
and we've interacted a lot. I have told her about

(53:54):
my situation and she's willing to help me out. She's
single and said there would be no expectations on her end.
That's ideal for me. Right now, I'm praying for strength
to step out on my wife and I have needs
and I think it's only a matter of time. Am
I justified in my actions if I cheat on my wife?

(54:16):
Please advise? All right, I'm gonna say this, No, there
is no justification to cheat. I got it. Everybody has
needs all of that. We all have needs. But I'm
not going to give you an out here. I'm just not.
And please stop blaming your wife. Have you even considered
what she said about you here? I'll repeat it. You

(54:38):
said in your letter that your wife said if you
picked up your clothes off the floor sometimes and maybe
I would give you some. In other words, she's sick
of your mess. She's sick of all of this stuff.
You know, things change. You guys have been married for
twenty five years. She's trying to tell you what she
needs to keep herself going in the marriage. You didn't
say what you were willing to do to help your

(54:59):
own situation out except for go someplace else to try
and get it done. You know, And I'm gonna tell
you this, don't don't do it with someone you work with. Okay,
what if she turns out to be a psychopath or something.
You know that he's taking a big chance right there.
You really really are. Your wife again, is trying to

(55:19):
tell you what she needs, and what are you willing
to do to help this situation out? You haven't mentioned
that you cleaned up after yourself, like she want started
picking up your clothes. You didn't say that, and then
you haven't romanced her. You didn't mention anything about romance
in the letter. Have you massaged her? Feed? Have you
cooked dinner for her? Run her a hot bad? You know?
Women like romance, We like attention, we like affection, we

(55:41):
like all that stuff. I mean, you said you still
love her, so really love her, okay, and mean it
for a change before you go start stepping out on
her again. Steve, All right, I'm gonna just get right
to it. Please stop me from cheat. Do what? Yeah,

(56:02):
you actually wrote this and you and you said Steve
and Shirley, see you can say that, Shirley. But bron,
come on, fifty three year old black dude. Come on, man,
you talked to a six year ye old black dude
and you please help me stop cheat? What? What? How?
This is your decision and yours alone. It's your decision

(56:24):
to cheat. Is your decision to stop. We can't help
you the hell you may help me, bro, Come on,
stop this right here, listen to me. I don't know
why you wrote the letter. Maybe as your guilt conscience,
I don't know, but you go, don't you gone? I
already know it's all in the letter. You're gone, you
you you out of here. You've been married, it's going

(56:47):
on twenty five years. Y'all used to have after sex life,
but now the magic has been happening lesson, lesson. Now
we do it once or twice a year, once or
twice a year, once or twice a year. No, you're
not sitting around for that. I know you're not. Stop

(57:09):
and and and and and and and this is what
she says. I've talked to you about it, but she's
always seems to make up excuses. The one I hear
the most is that she's not in the move because
I made her mad about something, or she canna say
something like if you pick up your clothes off the
flow sometimes, then maybe I'll give you something. What wait
a minute, hold on, talk. You really think that her

(57:31):
not giving you some and it's tied to some clothes
on the flow? What you dog? You think that whether
she give you some or not, it's tied to a
pile of clothes on the flow. Dog, This is something

(57:52):
altogether different. This is the reason she giving you now?
I think it's cause you stepping out and she know it.
But she ain't giving you something for a whole other reason.
Ain't got nothing to do with your clothes in the float.
Can't get the socket the blown baby, baby baby? Want
to do something tonight? See that sock over there. I

(58:15):
can't do this with that sock over there, baby baby?
How about tonight? Okay, Wait a minute, Wait a minute.
Is that your share hanging over the back of your
shirt hanging over back in that chap? Bro Come on, man,
I'll tell you the truth for me. Come back, all right, Steve.

(58:38):
We'll have part two of your response coming up at
twenty three minutes after the hour, subject please stop me
from cheating. We'll get back into it right after this.
You're listening Morning show, all right? Come on, Steve, let's
recap today Strawberry letters, subject please stop me from cheating?

(58:58):
Fifty three year old dude. Tell my been married going
on twenty five years, and he wants us to help
me and Sherley to help him stop from cheating. They
have sex twice a year now, it's happening. Lesson, Lesson.
She always makes up excuses for that, and the one
he hears the motion, she ain't in the mood because
I made her mad about something. Well, you've been making

(59:20):
her mad a lot because you ain't have a sex
twice a year, so she must stay mad. And then
the other one she said was if you picked up
your clothes off the flow sometime, then maybe I will
give you something. If your sex life is tied to
some clothes and the flow, I just don't that right there.
I would give you some. But did you see you

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laid that dish rag back on that stove you got
through Washington dishes. We're not having sex with that dish
rag down now on the stove. Oh no, wait a minute,
hold up, you vacuum the floor and you didn't put
the vacuum up, and now you want some. We're not
doing thing that vacuum out of. It's not in the

(01:00:05):
Come on, listen to me. This is not how this works.
It ain't how this work at all. So there's a
whole other reason why you all are not having sex
the twice a year. Ain't got nothing to do with
the close and the wife and the reason you're mad
or like, yeah, they having sex twice a year, it's
because you work. Nineteen you said that. It's it's interesting

(01:00:26):
because you work with late nights and you usually don't
have to come home. So what you've said to do
is that when you do have sex, that it's so boring.
She just lay down and it's terrible that you have. Well,
lately you find yourself on a dote, sites online looking
for someone night stand and hanging out at my favorite

(01:00:46):
bar talking to women. Now, I love my wife and
I think she loves me, but I also like sex.
I work overnight, so me not coming home isn't unusual.
Now here's where Here's where he gets a real faith.
So I met up with one woman from my past
and we just had an oral exchange, but nothing else.

(01:01:07):
I don't want to continue this behavior. Boy, boy, you
don't want to continue this behavior. You don't met up
with a woman from your past and all y'all having
is an oral exchange, and you don't want to continue
this behavior. You thought you were gonna type that to
Steve Harvey, and until after Steve Harvey, I can't believe

(01:01:34):
you typed it myself. Your fingers went across your keyboard
and said these words like here he had a straight face,
dog dog Doc. That's the most unreasonable thing he could
have possibly said, we have a ail exchange, and that's
nothing else. I won't I don't want to continue. Okay,
we'll stop, that's real. So but just stop. You ain't

(01:01:57):
in jail, ain't nobody got no gun on your head.
Just stop? Okay. So now, but I don't think that
my wife even cares anymore. This lady from my past
that I fool around with wants to give me more,
but I'm not really into her like that. Then hego to,
hego to this way started getting more fuzzy. There's another

(01:02:17):
lady that I work with. It we've interacted a lot. Okay,
now what that means? He interacted? He had an or
exchange with the other one. This one we didn't interacted
a lot? What that meaning? Though? I ain't never interacted
with now you like it out down at bars and
all this hill. But now I now you interact a lot.

(01:02:39):
Dog dog you're talking to Steve now and you at work,
you already got your job in jeopardy. Now surely told
you don't mess around this lady at your job too late.
We've interacted a lot. I've told her about my situation.
And why did you tell about your situation so you
could gain her sympathy and understand it. And so guess

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what she said, and she is willing to help me out?
I bet she is. That you know, ain'teet And I'm
telling y'all right now, based on this letter, she hadn't
already helped him out because they didn't interacted a lot. Now,
listen to me. She's single and said there would be

(01:03:24):
no expectations on her end. Are you stupid? At fifty three?
You fit to have a relationship with a woman that's single,
that know your situation at home is raggedy, and you
think she's entering into this with no expectations. Must be
out your ignorant asked mind that statement is about damned,

(01:03:47):
this ignorant as you having a lot of interactions, which
is justice egny that you just having an all exchange.
And I want to stop, but I can't. I don't
want to continue to behave it, but stop. And you
just said you said you wasn't even into her like that.
She won't more, but you ain't even ment to her

(01:04:08):
like that. But you keep going down and you at
the bar talking to other women, and you on these
sites looking for one nice stand bro, come home. This
marriage is over. If you don't follow. Shirley said fight now,
and she said she's single and said there'll be no
interpretation on here. And guess what he said after that,

(01:04:28):
that's the ideal offer for me right now. See right there,
he say that, right there. He gone, yeah, that's the
ideal offer in my situation right now. Yeah, it is dog.
He's a planner. Yeah, And so go ahead and do it.
And like you already doing, I have needs and I
think it's only a matter of time. Boy boy sex

(01:04:50):
twice a year. You hadn't already stepped out and you
said it in your letter. You just typed it to Steve.
Should have just wrote this one to Shirley. All right,
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(01:05:12):
Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.
Carla's Reality Up, David right now from the Talk Our
Girl Cheryl Underwood. Hey Shaw, describe Berry Underwood, Hey Stay Harvest,
Stave Harvey, Hey you ay, stay, This ain't really about you.
I got something else to talk about. I just want
you to play Gil Scott hair. What's the word, Joe Hannenburg? Baby?

(01:05:35):
Oh when the motherland? Okay, I'm sorry. So Julia, when
are you and I calling for reill? Back me up
on this? When are you and I going to start
planning our May festivities? Because we had a wonderful Easter together? Tom,
you remember me and Junia? What was together all night
long like Lina Richie because we did not want to
be late for sunrise service and I'm matching Resurrection Sunday outfits.

(01:05:59):
Now we have to stop planning for Mother's Day and
Memorial Day? So, Junior, when will I meet the rest
of your keen people's in the family that I'm gonna
be in because of me and your mother? We need
to get together my mama, Sheryl? Why not Mama? No serious,
it's already getting serious, Carlin for Rell. Do you know

(01:06:20):
I've already changed I already changed all my documents everything.
I changed the title on my everything all Iver got
junior name on? Are you overing too fast? Now? I'm
over too fast? You know how old I am? Wait
a minute's Junior on your insurance Hey, yeah on the insurance. Hey, hey, hey,

(01:06:47):
I don't know about your insurance. This signle sill is
gonna run it up. Hey, I got the moody, I
got the money. I'm over here working at the top. Hey, Tommy,
tell me what they say. What they say in super Fly.
If I go to Chicken Bone, Junior gonna be a
very happy individ But Julia, Okay, see, so what I

(01:07:08):
was thinking of, your mother is still on this earth.
So when we go to mother to day service with
your mother, I need to be wearing a red flower,
a red flower because she's still alive. Right. And then
because me and your mother, you know, we're gonna get
very very close to each other. Don't be squirt. If
you come downstairs and we are making Simon crow cast
and listening to Johnny Taylor drinking Sanka with a crown

(01:07:30):
raw back, you know what I'm saying, because you know,
fun a minute, what they point about this year is
my mam wa do all that. Listen, Me and your
mama gonna be kicking it. We're busting out the tube tops,
the capsia, we're wearing all the stuff. When you well,
me and your mama got the fish nap Black mad

(01:07:54):
Million Fama, gonna be at the taff. We're gonna be
kicking in that day. We're gonna be Twigs. You'll be
never Monday. We're gonna be the Yaba. This is gonna
be the best relationship I've ever had with your mamma.
All right, let me tell you make a mean gumbo, Shirley,

(01:08:16):
we gotta go. Coming up at the top of the hour,
Carla's Reality Update. Right after this, you're listening to Steve
Hardy Morning Show. All right, come on, Tommy introduced that girl.
Let's get it. Let's get it, let's get it. She
is here with Reality Update, the one and only Carlo Fullo.

(01:08:36):
Let's get it going. Let's start on the coming there hot.
I always catch you off, Shirley, woo, do it again?
Do it again? Coming in coming in hot? Yeah, baby?
All right, Reality Update. Thank you Shirley and Nephews. Since
you introduced me, let me go it right back to you.
Ready to love this Friday night? Right, that's tomorrow night

(01:08:58):
on the Own Network. Tell us what we can expect.
It's season four. Were in Ahetown. Come on, host, We're
in Agetown. We have eliminated two people already out the gate,
out the gate, out the gates. Okay. So now now
we're on our way to our first brunch. Okay, so okay,
we're gonna wait to our first brunch. So guess what

(01:09:20):
somebody else getting ready to leave. Okay, you eliminated folks
after brunch, after the mimosas they gotta go belly full.
But at least I get your bally full drink before
you leave. Okay, But so you know, we're doing len down.
Everybody knows this is the process of elimination. By the
end of this ten week journey, we will end with

(01:09:41):
six people, three couples who have hopefully found love. And
I think you guys, y'all are in for a treat.
This is a very very good season. So they tuned
every Friday night with your pocorn, your friends, your little ones,
your man, your husband's whomever. M ready to love. Man,
this is this is this is a this is a
great show. What you talking about? What you're talking about,

(01:10:05):
franchise host, It's a great show. Congratulations Tommy. My husband
and I we watch it. It's like date night. It's
our thing. Yeah, yes, hey man, that's time. My mama
watch it every Friday. She don't miss it. So what man,
it's so bad time When I call her, she said, ready,
love call me back. Yeah, that's that's the type. And

(01:10:26):
you know what, you know what's funny. You said that
I got brothers. I got brothers. That's hitting me up. Now.
Brothers are to Maryson. Hey man, this is me and
my wife's show every Friday night. I tell you that
every Yeah, yeah, and fan favorite. My husband likes the
guy from New Orleans because as soon as he heard
him talk, he said, oh he from the n Old Baby. Yeah. Now, yes,

(01:10:48):
name is Joel. You're gonna fall in love with Joel.
I'm telling you, Yeah, I like that accent. Thick. Now
it's thick. You got to be paying attention. Tell them
call women old ladies. I'm trying out the yeah, lady.

(01:11:09):
Talk about it all right, Thank you, nephew. We will
be watching it quickly before our run out of time.
Married to medicine. Just want to talk about it real quickly, um,
real quick. If Reverend AWL. Sharpton called up Doctor Heavenly
asked her if her husband's I love Doctor Damon and
the doctors would come to DC during the big March
last year in Washington back in August to do COVID testing.

(01:11:33):
The doctors agreed to take on such an important thing
and important mission. So they were about that, and they
agreed to help out. Reverend Al Sharpton. The fathers, the guys,
they got together and they talked to their sons. They
had like a little guy's day out, little golfing thing,
and then they talked to their sons and thank the
younger generation for helping out with Black Lives Matter and

(01:11:57):
not really helping out I shouldn't say that, but just
take on protesting and handling the voting laws and just
got next this generation doing their part and making sure
that our voices are always hurt. So, yeah, they talked
to their sons about that. That was cool. Yeah, I did.
I love that segment. You're absolutely right, Doctor Contesta. Shirley,

(01:12:20):
she hosted a healing party with crystals and all kinds
of stuff, I guess to get the women to talk
about positivity. And Toya was over Doctor Heavenly because she
apologized and she was like, she don't want to hear
another apologies and heavily because heavily say I'm sorry. Then
she go raw egg right back five minutes later, heavily

(01:12:41):
is about that life. And then finally doctor Jackie and
Doctor Simone. Doctor Simone went to doctor Jackie's office. They
they've been friends for over twenty years. They talked, they cried.
I hope that they can work out their friendship. I
love those two being friends, so hopefully they can work
that out. Follow me at lips by, Carla and watch

(01:13:03):
gosh Earlie. That's it for reality update. All right, we
have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up
right after this. You're listening to show. Bernie Madoff has
died now, yes, you know what? Yeah? Yeah. Last year,
if you recall, Bernie Madoff asked his sentencing court to

(01:13:25):
grant him compassionate release so he could die at home
with his remaining friends and family. At the time, Bernie
had a life expectancy of less than eighteen months. Bernie's
sentencing judge denied that request, despite Bernie's terminal kidney disease,
and expressed remorse for his crimes. He adds today, Bernie

(01:13:46):
Madoff passed away at the age of eighty two. Bernie,
up until his death lived with his guilt and remorse
for his crimes. Of course he was. You know, I
guess behind one of the biggest Ponzi schemes in the world. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
well yeah, he passed away yesterday, yesterday at the age

(01:14:07):
of eighty two. He just people money. Yeah, he took
a lot, a lot of people's money, people's lives they
got sure. Yeah. I never met him, don't know him.
Ain't hand the money with him. Good thing I didn't,
because I'd probably be feeling different. So, you know, okay,
probably I just if I had some money with him,

(01:14:32):
just be a different conversation. But I didn't have no
money with him, so well, you know, since I didn't
hand the money with him, you know, rest in peace. Yeah, yeah,
he agreed, man, Yeah right, good thing you ain't had
another Timmy money. That's for damn show. Oh that's whole money.
He couldn't he can't. We'll be back with more of

(01:14:53):
this crazy show at thirty three minutes after the hour.
Right after this you're listening morning. Dante Wright was killed
during a traffic stop when a twenty six year veteran officer,
Kim Kim Potter, accidentally shot him. She claimed she was
trying to use her taser on him. Saying it was

(01:15:15):
a mistake she pulled her gun. Yesterday, Nisha Wright, the
aunt of Dante Wright, spoke at the family's press conference
about the killing of her twenty year old nephew. Tick
a listen, please, sad night, sad night. They murdered my nephew.

(01:15:36):
She killed my nephew. Every pistol, every taser, it has
a safety on it. She saw that. She had to
release that. I watched that video like everybody else watched
that video. That woman held that gun out in front
of half a long damn time, my long damn file.

(01:16:00):
Yes he did. My nephew was twenty years old. Twenty
years old. I don't care what nobody got to say
about him. He was loved, he was ours. He gave
from us, my brother and my sister's her. You feel

(01:16:22):
her pain, O, Lord Jesus and Dante Right had a
two year old son. See, man, see, I don't know
what has to happen. I'm gonna just be real honest
with you. I'm disappointed in this country. I have been,
but now because of social media, when you see what

(01:16:46):
we've known all these years. I've known this man entire life,
this type of behavior from police and what people have
had to do. You know, listen, what what? What? What?
The troubling part of me is sick, any part for
me now is when we show it to you, you
don't do a damn thing. When we let you see

(01:17:06):
it what we've been seeing, it's still business as usual.
This the same damn state. This just happened. Just got
a man on trial, not not miles from here, and
now we got another incident from another officer? Are you
kidding me? Ye? Are you kidding a year later? Not
even again? Saint even look man, what has to happen here?

(01:17:31):
Are you gonna wait until it happened to one of yours?
That's all I can think of now that the only
only gonna happen, hope we got is that it happens
to one of yours. That's all I can see. That's
all I can see. And you know, Steve, people are saying, well,
why didn't he comply? Why didn't he just comply? Why
didn't he just do what the officer said? You don't

(01:17:53):
understand this young man is scared. Do you know how
many cop shows i'ves scene? Well, white people don't comply
with the police officer, but they don't die for it, right,
So just cut all the damn cop shows on. It
happens every day, all right, thank you. We will be

(01:18:15):
back with closing remarks from the one and only Steve
Harvey right after this at forty nine after you're listening
to show. All right, here we are, guys, our last
break of the day on this Thursday, and Stevens in
Africa in the Motherland. And you know, he said he

(01:18:37):
promised he'd go and um, you know see our folks
over there, Carla, yours and Ghanamine in uh the Central
African Republic, you know, Cameroon. Well, I won't get that
this trip cars. It's you know what I mean, man,
You can fly. You can fly on this continent eight

(01:18:57):
hours and you ain't gonna crossing way. You can put
a few continents in Africa. Yeah, yeah, Yo, it's that
massive man. And you know, you know, like I said,

(01:19:18):
I believe it's twenty two hundred different languages in Africa.
But it's not what people think, you know, is their
poverty here, yes, but that's what they tell you about.
But a lot of big businesses are trying to keep
it under wraps because this is really becoming more and
more an emerging frontier and emerging economy, and the Africans

(01:19:40):
there are very very well equipped. Like for example, I'm
doing family feud, and I gotta tell you, the set
designers and the grips and the people who build the
sets over here equal to what's happening in the United States.
It's just the opportunity is different, the dollar is different.

(01:20:00):
And because there's so many languages in fifty fifty some
countries within the continent, you know, that breaks it up.
You know, if Africa was just one place, you know,
where TV stations could coexist with one another, it would
be different and it would be a massive powerhouse. And

(01:20:22):
I think there's a move to get that done. But
then even then you're dealing with language because you have
some African countries that are French speaking, you know, and
so you know, it's it's just a lot, but it
is so beautiful. Man. I just want everybody, everybody, but
especially African Americans. You got to come see this before

(01:20:45):
you leave this world. If you can't, if you can't
put it on your bucket list of things to do,
you have got to come here and see home. It
will change you forever. It would change you forever. But
in the meantime, we have to deal with what's happening
at home for us. And you know what, guys, I mean,

(01:21:10):
we're just exhausted from it. Yes we are. I mean,
you know, look, I'm still a fighting age at sixty four.
But man on, man on man, this has been my
entire life. I've been faced with these major disappointments. And
the first huge, first disappointment I saw was my mother
crying when I came home from school and she was

(01:21:33):
ironing and they had killed President Kennedy. And I didn't
understand why my mother was crying because President Kennedy had
gotten killed. I heard her and my father talking about
he was trying to help black people, and I went then, okay,
so cool. Then a few years later, the biggest event
of my life, Martin Luther King got killed. Our teacher

(01:21:56):
made us watch the funeral on TV. She bought a
black and white TV, plugged it up, and we watched
the funeral on TV. She made us watch it. That
was a life changing event for me. And after that,
it's been one after the other after It's never been
a year, it's never been a six month span. Not
before social media came along. It was just stuff I

(01:22:17):
was seeing in my neighborhood, hearing about from family unions
at what was happening in DC and Detroit in West Virginia,
or what racism was. And then I was just living
in sixties, seventies, I just seen it, eighties, nineties, I've
been just watching it. Two thousand. Then social media came along,

(01:22:38):
and then we figured it might change because now America
could take a look at themselves and what's happened. But
until the pandemic hit and everybody was sitting at home
watching this man's knee on this black man's neck for
eight minutes and forty six seconds, then yeah, then and

(01:23:00):
we realized wow. And then the Black Lives Matter movement
caught some steam because it was a lot of non
blacks involved in it. And that's what it really takes
to solve this problem, because it's not gonna be just
black people. We've been sick of it from the first
boat ride. We were done with this. We've been sick

(01:23:22):
of this forever. And stop stop asking us and expecting
us to be patient. We're done. Well, what do you
want us to wait for? You want to wait for?
Who else got to get killed? How many more of
us got to die on top of the hundreds of
thousands that have gone on, and we out of patients

(01:23:45):
with this mess. We're done it. I can't imagine how
many thousands of incidents we haven't seen nor know about. Brother,
way more than social media is showing. This used to
happen repeatedly all the time. They had Gilanti groups that
was doing stuff. Man clan was just going rocking and
burning people's houses out, lynching tarn and feathering cast straight

(01:24:07):
and Black Men Clan been doing a thing. Man. But
now when you catch the clan member in a blue
uniform and you catch him on tape and he still
get away with it, Like y'all just told me the
dude that killed that shot, uh the man what you

(01:24:32):
go down there and shoot a white person in the
back and see what day you make it back to work.
So y'all, we're done. We're done. So let somebody else walk.
We're done, and I'm not gonna be able to stop it.
Don't call me and ask me, do not ask me
to raise my voice. I'm not because they're tired. We tired,

(01:24:55):
and enough is enough and something has to be done
and maybe this should all pass some love with the
governor Georgia and in Texas, let's start with them too
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