July 10, 2025 • 30 mins
We answer a talk backers engagement question. We discuss the merits of snooping on other people's phones and say our most embarrassing moments. Listen to Billy & Lisa weekdays from 6-10AM on Kiss 108!
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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You tap the little microphone button that's called a talk
back and join the show. We welcome it.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Could you please do a segment on engagement party gifts?
What is the protocol? These young people have parties for everything,
and I just wanted to see what the listeners thought
the protocol was.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
But engagement party gifts.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Thank you well, Lisa Dunovan. You are the princess of protocol.
So what's the deal on engagement gifts?
Speaker 4 (00:54):
All right?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So that talkbacker was right.
Speaker 6 (00:56):
There are several parties associated with weddings from the BA
from the wedding shower to the bachelorette party. To the
engagement party, to the wedding. So I've been invited to
a lot of those, like for different weddings. So usually
for the shower, you're doing something that they registered for.
I would say, give money. I've always given money at
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an engagement party.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Okay, cash, no, well, right, you can't go wrong with
gift cards.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
I just think engagement party that's a safe bet. But
I have to say sometimes people are not invited to
the shower, but they are invited to the engagement party.
Speaker 7 (01:40):
But I don't think some engaged parties are more just
to celebrate the engagement, because sometimes they do the night
of right, like they'll like, if they know it's a
sure thing, they'll plan it, and then right after everyone
will go and meet, and that's kind of the engagement party,
I guess. I think it's a lot to ask someone
to give the engagement to pay for the bachelorette party,
for going right the brill hour, and then the actual
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wedding because bridal, shower and wedding are automatically giving gifts.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Okay, so if you're invited to all of them, you
could probably skip getting them something for the engagement party.
But if you're not invited to the shower, and you're
invited to the engagement party, because this is a thing
a lot of times engagement parties. The parents' friends are
invited to the engagement party, and that's their opportunity to
give something. They may not be invited to the shower,
but they will be invited to the wedding.
Speaker 8 (02:24):
The bridal showers still exist, Yeah, they absolutely do.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
I just went to one a few weeks ago.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
But they're not They're not opening up gifts anymore at
the at these bridal showers, which is a good thing
because I always thought that was.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Time.
Speaker 7 (02:38):
I actually sent the gift to their house so they
are destured to like Amazon and I they I got
the invitation in March and right away went on well
and I sent right to her in their house.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, that's the new way. I feel like, you don't
actually bring the physical gifts, just get it sent. It
sounds like a lot to me, But I think we
I think we had all three and really gifts at all.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Three's lucky you.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
But yeah, but.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Did you have like a destination bachelor party and a
destination bachelorette now party that.
Speaker 9 (03:06):
Do we do that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I went to New York for my bachelor party. But
it wasn't a huge thing. It was just a couple
of my friends. We had a bridle shower, We gave
you a party, and we had a wedding. People went
to all three and I think we got gifts at
all three.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
It's a lot to add.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
I mean, I'm in that era where everyone's getting married
and all that stuff, and I just I'm so glad
I don't have a lot of good friends.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
But think of it this, What if you had all
those right, you had all those parties, but you also
had a destination bachelor party, destination bachelorette party, destination wedding. Yeah,
think about how much that costs everybody.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You were telling me before the show this morning. So
your best friend, Dukie's daughter who had on the show
because she was invited to so many weddings. Yes, still
getting invited to crazy amount of weddings.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Right, she just came home from Montana for a bachelorette
party and now she's gonna be in yet another wedding.
Like she's been in more weddings than anyone I've ever known.
Speaker 7 (03:59):
She could put away on a house for the money.
She easily on weddings. She has to start saying no.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's too much. Yeah, that's too much. Good morning.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
On the topic of gifts for engagement parties, I've only
been to one, I think in my entire life.
Speaker 10 (04:15):
But I've been took plenty of brad shows.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Of plenty of weddings, and you will not be receiving
three gifts from me.
Speaker 11 (04:21):
So invite me to one, invite me to two, but
do not invite me to three.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
If you're expecting gifts at all three, it's true, pick
pick and choose where you're going to do your gift.
Speaker 8 (04:31):
I'd rather just not be invited.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Well, that's it.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
And if they're close enough to you, you send them
a nice gift, but you don't have to go.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Well, if they're close enough to you, you need to go.
Like okay.
Speaker 7 (04:41):
For instance, one of my really close friends to getting
married on a boat in August, and I do not
want it.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
I love her to death, I do not want I
want an Irish accent. She knows this about me. I
don't want to have to stay the whole time.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
You're on a boat you cannot leave, and I'm expected
to be there.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I will be there.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
I love her death, but I am a like Oh
my god, girl, we're on a boat for four hours.
I can't get off unless I jump off. It's one
of those cruises or yeah, I'm d of Boston Harbor.
And but it'll be fun, I know.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
But it's just like, I think it's tough that that
type of wedding because if you've got inviting people that
have young kids, sometimes they do have to leave early
because there's like a babysitter issue.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You know, you're kind of stock.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
You're all trapped on this boat for four hours from
six to ten.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Are there going to be kids on the boat.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
She does have a couple of nieces. I'm assuming they'll
be at the wedding. I don't know about her fiance's side,
so I think there will be some children there. But
all I know is that like I was trying to
go after like cake, like I wasn't going to try
to stay till the last dance, and.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I will be here.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I'm on the boat.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
You're fully committed.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Waiting, and you know I love you, But I'm having
a vision of you falling overboard.
Speaker 8 (05:49):
You know, I want to.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Tell you that I wouldn't laugh, honestly, I might jump off.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
I would probably laugh but then dive in the.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Hell thank you. So this is a wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
It's a wedding. Yes, yeah, that's what I went to
her per shower a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
So you're getting a gift for the wedding.
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Of course, I already said I'm going to probably give
like two two fifty in cash.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I figured.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
So if you're invited to the shower, the engagement party,
and the wedding.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Yeah, give gifts twice. Shower and then either engagement party
or wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yeah, what about one of the three.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Well, the thing is, guys get away.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
If the guys, the friend they get away with, the
wife or whoever they're plus one, is not going to
the bridle shower sometime, then they only get to the
wedding because guys don't have like a broad shower.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
So what females are the ones spending the money to.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Do addresses here and makeup?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Yeah, So what's an acceptable gift for an engagement party?
I think that was the original question, right, what is
the acceptable amount?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I think you give what you can give.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
I again, you do not want to put yourself, you know,
out like in you know, put yourself out financially.
Speaker 8 (07:00):
You know, just know they'll talk about you afterwards.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
My presence there is the gift. Okay, it's not much
of a gift.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Give what you can give.
Speaker 12 (07:09):
Yeah, good morning guys, especially Billy.
Speaker 8 (07:12):
Listen.
Speaker 12 (07:12):
I don't know if it's Monday or because I'm all
hot and bothered or whatever, but listen, there's way too
many parties, bridal showers now where guys have to go,
wedding whatever. Listen, if you send me an engagement invitation,
this is what I'm getting you. I'm getting you and
I'm not coming to your freaking engagement party.
Speaker 8 (07:28):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What on Boston is Benson Boone and you're waking up
with million Lisa in the morning on Kiss Want to Wait,
Boston's number one hit music stations. Hey Lisa, Hey guys,
good morning. Justin Harris. A couple of minutes ago we
were talking about engagement party gifts. One of our listeners
reached out wanted some help on what's up bring for
an engagement party, and that got us talking about well,
not just engagement parties, but weddings in general and all
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the craziness around them. It's got Linda in Easton, Hey Linda.
Speaker 13 (07:55):
Good morning. Well my daughter just got engaged, and it's
kind of put a little damper on her plans because
she's been to eighteen weddings in two years, and she's
invited to seven more, and she has been in the
wedding party eleven so all those expenses that you've been
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talking about. But Whinnie, I agree with you for sure.
She's got so many friends. It's okay to say no
to some of these, but now she wants to have
a small wedding because she's seen everything you can imagine
in weddings, and I don't know, I just feel like
it's kind of put a damper. But in the engagement party, realm,
she's I just talked to her and she said she
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they don't do any any gifts, any money or anything
for engagement because there's so many of that era now
that's getting married and they're all friends. So anyway, eighteen
weddings in two years, how is your needless to say?
Speaker 2 (08:55):
How does your daughter have so many friends?
Speaker 13 (08:58):
I have to just tell you one more thing. They're
buying a house, so the amount of money that were
helping them out has just increased. So I told her
no more money, stopped going to weddings. It's enough already.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
How does she have so many friends?
Speaker 13 (09:14):
She went to a school, she played she played a
sport in school, and it was a high level Division
one school and there was just so many friends. And
her fiance also played a Division one sport also, and
so between the two of them, I mean, they have
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so many friends, lovely kids. But you know, the destination,
the destination bachelorette parties are the.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Things that are Oh god, I was going to say,
of all the eighteen weddings, how many were destination weddings
and or bachelorette parties.
Speaker 13 (09:48):
No weddings, but the bachelorette party She's been to everywhere, Arizona, Tennessee,
they went to Florida. They just came back from Puerto
Rico two weeks ago on one of them, are literally
coming back from Maine right now on another shower.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
How much did she spend last year on weddings? Do
you think so?
Speaker 14 (10:10):
So?
Speaker 13 (10:10):
Of course, you know they're they're pretty close mouths about it.
But I know how many wedding parties she's been in,
So I'm gonna guess sixty seventy thousand dollars on easy Easy,
Easy easy. I know the one that for Puerto Rico.
It was five thousand dollars. The one that went they
went to Tennessee, it was four thousand dollars. Because you're
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gonna have to pay for the airfare and the hotels
and everything that you do at the shower. The bridal party,
you know, pitches in like obviously the bride doesn't for
any of that.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
That's insane.
Speaker 8 (10:44):
Puerto Rico was a bachelorette party.
Speaker 13 (10:48):
Yes you have you have no idea. One was in
the Caribbean. One was in the Sonoma Valley. They went
to Sonoma and had a wine country to experience.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
What did you do for a living?
Speaker 8 (10:59):
Yeah, she like a lawyer or a doctor or what
does she do?
Speaker 13 (11:04):
She's a nurse and her husband is just they just
started out in finances.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
Well, maybe they have the money, but maybe they need boundaries.
I think they need a little boundaries.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Start saying, don't you think if they say no to
some friends then and yes to others, they fall into
that situation where you know, you upset some people. You're
saying yes one person, no to another.
Speaker 13 (11:26):
Yes, and she's and they're all like really super close
knit friends. But she wants to have a small wedding
and I said, well, you know what, you need to
at least put all of those people that you've spent
all this money for on your list to make sure
they come so you can recoup a little bit. But
you know that, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Justin my thought is you want to disappoint some of
them and then you don't have to go.
Speaker 7 (11:48):
You can't convince me that there's eleven people that I
should be in their wedding because like, I'm not close
with them. I mean, she can't convince me eleventh a
lot that's she was in, and then she's in another
four like twenty five, so she's twenty five, and now
the twenty five eleven she was in them.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
I'm nice. You guys sixty or seventy grand?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Yeah, and these are all friends, right, and yet they're
trying to up one up each other.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Yeah, Like, oh no, we're going to do this.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
You're my friend. I'm not going to ask you to
spend five grand on my party.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I think I only have like three friends.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
Yeah, no, I literally am like, I thank god, I
only have like three friends.
Speaker 6 (12:20):
It's so funny because if you go down the road,
most of the people that go to your wedding you're
not going to be friends with in twenty years.
Speaker 8 (12:26):
Yeah, twenty you won't know them the next year.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah yeah, I don't even remember. It was at my wedding.
Yeah yeah, crazy.
Speaker 15 (12:32):
Good morning, morning crew. So for a gift to every
party I'm invited to, which it's many, is I give
the gift of myself on this, my crazy party self,
because I bring the fun.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I love that.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
I don't give a wedding gift.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
All well, she should, but still.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
You know, I say give nothing and make sure you
drink more than anybody else.
Speaker 8 (12:57):
I eat more than anybody else.
Speaker 16 (12:59):
It's too wait and we're back with Villy and Lisa
in the morning.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Hey, everybody, good morning, Welcome back to the show. It's
justin here. So when I first started dating my wife,
I was very jealous. I was insecure, and I would
do things like go through her phone. But the good
news is over time, I've gone a lot better with that.
No longer am I snooping. But a new study says, yeah,
people are snooping more than ever.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
I'm just gonna read this headline. It says more than
four and five people admit to snooping through other people's
devices ie cell phone, computer, laptop, iPad, whatever says have
something to hide your digital advice may not be the
best place to keep it, as a new survey finds
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eighty two percent of people admit to snooping through other
people's devices, and they have really good skills out it too.
Eighty one percent claim they've never been caught snooping. And
by the way, need to point out this is not
just people in a relationship, you know, like a couple
or spouses digging into somebody else or the other cell phone.
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It could be a lot of different categories. According to
the poll of a thousand Americans, fifty three percent say
they've found something incriminating or concerning while poking around.
Speaker 8 (14:19):
Okay, okay, I've never done it.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
I thought you when you started I that you were
talking about just relationships.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
No, no, just snooping on it on anybody any Lisa
brought up a good point off here before we went
into this that you know, parents could yeah, kids, the
kid's phone.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Definitely kids.
Speaker 6 (14:35):
I know that my kids when my phone's out and
you know, like text messages just pop up, they'll read
them openly.
Speaker 7 (14:41):
I still read my mom's text messages. Mom has no
walk on our phone, so I just go and read
all what's going on? Why hearners to just have a
group chat. I read through that.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I think want me to know that you're doing it hotly?
Speaker 4 (14:50):
She cares.
Speaker 8 (14:51):
I didn't care.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I'll go mom for all the time.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
God, you really need a life of some sort, get
you away from the life that you're living.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
I think just grabbing.
Speaker 5 (15:01):
Someone's phone and reading their business, it's like.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Oh, she's the ultimate snooper.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
I still have the screenshots from last time I did it.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Yeah, you're taking scratch shots.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Yes, you have to have proofs of water.
Speaker 7 (15:15):
Of the conversations that I found in your mother's no
on my ex phone, So.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
There was no There was no lying because I had
the proof.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
I wasn't even going to ask you if you've done it,
because I know you're the queen.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Of doing it.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
I've done it, of course I've done it.
Speaker 8 (15:28):
You follow and stake out people overnight Sandwich.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Have you ever gone on to your wife Michelle's phone?
Speaker 8 (15:38):
Never? Never, never, never, And if it ever crossed my
mind to do it, I would know. I'm you know
it's right time to split.
Speaker 9 (15:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
I have never done it to Tim, just because I
can never remember his past code.
Speaker 8 (15:51):
That's a different thing.
Speaker 6 (15:53):
That's not the same thing, right, But I have to
say that my kids, that's a big one because when
you have teenage kids, there's a code of sort of trust.
And I feel like I know that the two of
them would be very upset if they knew that I
was looking through their phone.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
But what if you had what you thought was reason
to look, Like, what if you thought they might be
in some.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Right, if they were in a situation that could be.
Speaker 6 (16:20):
I mean I think then I think you have a
conversation with them, and we are still paying for their phones,
So I think that that gives us more of an
opportunity to say, hey, can I look at your phone?
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Because just doing it could break the trust?
Speaker 6 (16:33):
Right, No, that's always it's a delicate balance.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Yeah, because they're on the if they're on the verge
of trouble, you know, the trust doesn't matter. It's more
like I got to get into justin if you ever
looked at someone else's cell phone.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
My wife, or or look at when I first started dating,
but not anymore a.
Speaker 8 (16:51):
Minute, what you were looking in Jen's phone?
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Oh my god? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (16:54):
Why?
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Well, because I was just you know, I was insecure.
I was. I was worried that she was cheating on
me when she wasn't. So I was always looking around.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
Yeah did she catch you?
Speaker 14 (17:05):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, yeah, because I would find stuff that I that
I thought meant something when they really didn't. You know,
like if she was texting a number that wasn't saved
in her phone, I'd be like, who's this person? Why
aren't they saved? Who is it? What are you hiding?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Would she get upset with you?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
We would fight about it. Yeah. It was definitely some
trying times in the relationships, and it was all my fault.
But I think that once you develop a trust, if
you have trust in your partner and they have trusted you,
then this reason too, you know. As far as the
kids thing though, I mean this is you know, I
my son will look in my phone, you know, look
at some stuff. No, he'll just look in and see
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you know, he's only six, but you know he there was.
He almost found some explicit stuff that I had saved
in my phone.
Speaker 8 (17:50):
So you've got some weird sis.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
I used to no, no, no, just nothing, nothing terrible,
just you know, stuff with my wife and I.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Yeah, I know that both my kids have tried to
figure out my whoa whoa.
Speaker 8 (18:01):
Whoa whoa. Let's pump the brakes here. What are you
talking about? You like save videos of.
Speaker 17 (18:08):
No no, but you know, sometimes send pictures to each other,
you know, just fun stuff, playful, playful pictures that would
be in there.
Speaker 8 (18:18):
Give me an example of a playful pair to your.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Wife of myself or of her, of her, of yourself,
you know, maybe just me, you know a little bit less.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Okay, Yeah, I think I think you can figure out.
Speaker 8 (18:38):
You know, you know what good for you?
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Bro?
Speaker 8 (18:40):
Look at you?
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Well, I'm just The point is not the pictures. The
point is that, you know, I have to be careful
on that because you know, if you have kids, they
can grab the phone and look through it. That's all.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
Do you think there's a chance Michelle is going through
my phone?
Speaker 7 (18:53):
Your wife, Michelle has no reason to go through your phone.
You're the lamest man I've been through your phone. There's
nothing there, Yeah, there's nothing there.
Speaker 18 (18:59):
Yeah, yeah, her worry, I'm too lame.
Speaker 8 (19:06):
There's nothing there, I will say, and call me old school.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
If I realized that she had gone through my phone,
I would think we're in trouble.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Well, I think that you're right about that.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
I think that if someone is going through someone's phone,
then there's a trust issue.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Yeah, there's normally trouble.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Right, So again, I think you guys are good. I
don't think that there's any trouble.
Speaker 8 (19:26):
You don't think she's in my phone. I don't think
she's welcome to go in my phone. Yeah no she's not.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
She didn't care about your phone. But I was good
about the coffee.
Speaker 8 (19:34):
Okay, I'm onto something else.
Speaker 5 (19:36):
I'm thinking maybe I should be cendering her things like
justin does okay.
Speaker 6 (19:40):
Again again, if that's something that you want to explore,
then yeah, go for it.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
I didn't see I didn't mean for her to take
down this road. I was just trying to make a point.
Speaker 7 (19:51):
If you're with a party you trust, you should be
able to say whatever you want back and forth through message.
Speaker 8 (19:56):
Have you ever trusted anyone?
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (19:59):
No, I didn't think so, And now she Snoop. I'm
telling you something.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
You would have to literally find some device that like
a padlock for your cell phone because she's going to
get in it.
Speaker 8 (20:10):
When he's going to get in your phone, and for
no reason.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
No, there was reason. There was There's a.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Lot of reasons.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Yes when superpower.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
Yeah right, I'll find out.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
From the planet fitness.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Kiss one O.
Speaker 16 (20:22):
Wait studios, we're back with the Villy and Lisa in
the morning.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I kiss.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
All right, Good morning, everybody, welcome back. Final hour of
the billion leads a show coming in hot and you
want to talk about an embarrassing moment about this little
incident with Leanne Rhymes recently.
Speaker 10 (20:37):
So last night I was on stage in the middle
of one Way ticket fils.
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Something pop in my mouth.
Speaker 10 (20:45):
And if you've been around you know I've had a
lot of dental surgeries and I have a bridge in
the front and it fell out in the middle of
my song last night, to which I panicked in the
middle said hold on and ran to the side of
the stage and put it back in, like popped it
back in and.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
Then just went on singing. Did she play college hockey
or something? She was like a little girl.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
She came into our studio. We've met her before. Love lovely.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Sometimes people genetically people have bad teeth. Yeah you know.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Yeah, my brother Frank had very soft teeth. He always
his teeth were constantly getting chipped.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Okay, yeah, no, that's a real thing. Sometimes you can't.
You can take care of them, and they just they
and that's how it is, like the formed. Yeah, but
that is embarrassing. One time, Billy's tooth popped out on
the air, remember that.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
No, it was the best thing ever.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Yeah. He was challenged by Maddie to eat a Snickers
and the Crown came home and she just fell right out.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
You don't understand.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Was the best moment ever. And He's like, no, really,
my tooth just fell out.
Speaker 8 (21:55):
Yeah, and then I had to put it right on
the counter.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah. Would that be your most embarrassing.
Speaker 8 (22:01):
I think so.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
One other that sticks with me is years ago at
a Kiss concert. You know how, Maddie and I used
to do these skits on stage, and for some reason
we did a skit where Matt was John Travolta and
I was dressed as Olivia Newton, John from Greece. And
we came off stage after doing the skit, which, by
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the way, I thought we were fabulous.
Speaker 8 (22:29):
And immediately they grabbed me.
Speaker 5 (22:31):
The backstage people grabbed me and they said, Steven Tyler
and Aerosmith are waiting for the interview.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
They're standing waiting.
Speaker 5 (22:37):
They made me walk over dressed as Olivia Newton John
to interview Steven Tyler from Aerosmith and the first thing
he says to me is, oh, you look different, and
he wanted he wanted to borrow the outfits.
Speaker 4 (22:51):
For the tour.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
No, the first thing he said to you was.
Speaker 8 (22:56):
Come on, it was I mean, I had I think
Lisa did my makeup? I had rouge on my cheeks and.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Yeah, Lisa, can I guess yours? From knowing you for
many years, I'm sure you have many remember the time
that you were at the beach with a bikini.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Oh my, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
It was in Mexico and I was boogie boarding and
I had I had a bikini on and I got
I got hit by one of the waves. I'm telling you,
they just they just crashed into you and I went tumbling, tumbling, tumbling.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
I popped up.
Speaker 6 (23:27):
Out of the water because you're like, oh my god,
am I still alive? And my bikini top was completely
off and I didn't realize it because I literally you're like.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's like a washing machine.
Speaker 6 (23:37):
So this lovely Mexican man is speaking to me and
telling me in Spanish your top like, and I looked around.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
I'm like, oh my god, I was mortifying. Yeah, and
the entire beach is looking.
Speaker 6 (23:52):
Yeah, I've always had wardrobe malfunction issues, like most embarrassing.
Speaker 8 (23:56):
Yees, anybody hit on you afterwards?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Oh you know they did?
Speaker 8 (24:00):
Are you going?
Speaker 16 (24:02):
These kids went away and we're back with a Billy
and Lisa in the morning.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
What's the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
We started this conversation a couple of minutes ago because
Leanne Rhymes was on stage performing recently and her teeth
fell out.
Speaker 18 (24:16):
In high school, we had iPads and when we did presentations,
we used to mirror our iPads on the board. And
I was eighteen at the time. When I was in
theology class and I was doing a presentation and mirrored
my iPad. I forgot I had.
Speaker 19 (24:30):
Kept in my search bar at the top. Does sex hurt?
Because I was looking that up as a curious eighteen
year old and everybody in my theology class saw So yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
That's embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
I'm never going back to school if that happened.
Speaker 13 (24:45):
Never.
Speaker 7 (24:46):
Well, I'm assuming too was a Catholic school. She was
in theology class.
Speaker 8 (24:49):
Yeah, yeah, justin you have got one right, Well, you
never want.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Your search history to be no exposed. No, no, Yeah,
my embarrassing moment. One of them is six years ago,
I believe twenty nineteen, around this time Fourth of July,
I was here working doing the countdown, actually before the
fourth I think it was July third, And as When're
recording with Billy, I noticed that I'm starting to feel
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a little itchy down there. I don't really know what's
going on. But we finished our work and we went
home and we had a big Fourth of July party
the next day. Yeah, and it got worse as the
day went on into the next day, and I had
gotten poison ivy doing yard work, and I had transferred
the poison ivy down there moneymakers.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
What a nightmare.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
It was complete hell. So we had fifty people coming
to our house for Fourth of July and I was
in the bedroom itching NonStop until I went to the
emergency room. I couldn't take it anymore. Yeah. It was hot,
I was sweaty, I was itchy. Poison ivy is the worst,
and it's highly contagious. Isn't very contentious. And the embarrassing
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part was that my wife had to explain to all
of our guests why I had to leave and go
to the hospital.
Speaker 8 (26:03):
And that's something that never free.
Speaker 6 (26:04):
And it goes on for like a week or two.
It doesn't just go away.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
They gave me medication. It went away in like a
day or two.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
A boot better, Yeah, but but it still is there.
Speaker 5 (26:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Oh my god, that's horrible.
Speaker 8 (26:15):
Was youre a money maker?
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Now it's doing okay?
Speaker 5 (26:17):
Okay, yeah, uh producer Riley, you've got one, you were
telling me in the hallway.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
Okay.
Speaker 14 (26:22):
So basically I worked two summers at Canoby. And when
I first started, it was the fourth of July, the
hottest like day of the summer, and I was wearing
these khaki shorts that were like the light light ones.
We had a red polo that we had to tuck in.
I sweat through the shorts oh so bad that it
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looked like I had peed my pants on my very
first day. Oh god working yep, and everybody could. There
was no way of hiding it. I had to tuck
my shirt. I was working at the Pirate Ship. Oh
great job, great job. Loved Canoby so embarrassing well.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
And they were really talking about you behind your back
to their.
Speaker 8 (27:07):
Do you have one?
Speaker 7 (27:08):
My whole life's kind of embarrassed. I have many things
I think growing up. This happened to me twice. And
this says nothing about anybody in my family. But I
got I was going in the bathroom two times in
like within like a couple of years of each other,
and I had different family members walk in on me,
and not my immediate family. It was like an uncle,
like my grandparents are like I had a piece so bad,
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I ran to the bathroom, my father to the door.
So my uncle just walked in too, go to the bathroom,
and I'm just there paying. And then the same thing
happened with a different uncle at my house.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
It's weird, like.
Speaker 7 (27:42):
Not on some weird no no, not see this sounds weird,
but it doesn't sound weird.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
When I say it.
Speaker 7 (27:48):
But it was like a complete accident. It could have
been Lesa that walked in on me. It was just
someone wanted to use the bathroom. They didn't know I
was in there, and it was like the oh oh,
you know, and it's like two seconds of the most
uncomfortable situation.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
I was like my mom or my siblings like whatever, but.
Speaker 8 (28:03):
You know, somebody walking in on No, but.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
It half was my faught. I didn't shut the door.
Speaker 8 (28:08):
Yeah, you left it wide open.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
I was at a piece so bad. Oh, Okay, I
didn't shut so it's off. Really, it's my fault.
Speaker 6 (28:16):
I just had wardrobe malfunctions, like my whole Like you'll
wear a skirt and you'll walk across like a busy
street in Boston and the wind kicks in and lifts
your entire skirt up over your head and you're like
exposing yourself to the entire like Boston community.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
That happened to me like so many times.
Speaker 6 (28:33):
And then the one about the bikini top when I
was when I was bookie boarding, it came off and
I didn't realize it.
Speaker 9 (28:40):
Good morning. My most embarrassing moment, one of many. Actually,
I was on vacation with my boyfriend at the time.
I showered and just put on the same jeans or
shorts that I had worn earlier, and we went to
a restaurant and ate, and when we left, my underwear
I fell out of my pants, like in the middle
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of the restaurant, and everybody stared, and I didn't know
what to do. So I panicked and I left it
there and I ran out.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Okay, I have a great question.
Speaker 8 (29:08):
I can see that happening.
Speaker 5 (29:10):
You forgot, you left your underpants in the jeans, or
you put.
Speaker 8 (29:13):
Them on and then down the leg they go.
Speaker 11 (29:15):
My embarrassing story is that I was going to work
out in my apartment complexes Jym and I walked in
and I wasn't really paying attention. I was texting and
I was going to get on the treadmill and I
gone and immediately fell and burned myself because it was
going twelve miles an hour, because some bros were doing
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sprints in between their reps and I wasn't looking, so
mostly my ego was bruised.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
My worst fear is going down on a tread I did.
Speaker 6 (29:46):
I have a scar on my leg because of it.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
It was horrific.
Speaker 6 (29:51):
You feel like you're being burned a lot. Oh yeah,
and then yeah, it was horrible.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
There's nothing worse than yet, there's nothing funnier to see
than somebody falling.
Speaker 8 (29:59):
On the treadmill.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I love the videos on social media, but I don't
want it to happen.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
It's like, it's like it's so painful.
Speaker 13 (30:05):
Good morning, guys.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
So an embarrassing story for me.
Speaker 11 (30:10):
I am a dental assistant and you were doing a
filling on a patient and I was really gassy, and.
Speaker 18 (30:18):
You know, patient head is right between my legs.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
A little something slipped out. It was silent but deadly,
and the patient proceeded to say
Speaker 8 (30:28):
Wow, that filling material smells awful, right, yeah,
What up, guys, Welcome back to the show. Justin here, Billy,
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We have a thousand bucks to give away. How about
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You do it on the iHeart app. You can download it.
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You tap the little microphone button that's called a talk
back and join the show. We welcome it.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
Good morning.
Speaker 3 (00:27):
Could you please do a segment on engagement party gifts?
What is the protocol? These young people have parties for everything,
and I just wanted to see what the listeners thought
the protocol was.
Speaker 4 (00:45):
But engagement party gifts.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
Thank you well, Lisa Dunovan. You are the princess of protocol.
So what's the deal on engagement gifts?
Speaker 4 (00:54):
All right?
Speaker 2 (00:54):
So that talkbacker was right.
Speaker 6 (00:56):
There are several parties associated with weddings from the BA
from the wedding shower to the bachelorette party. To the
engagement party, to the wedding. So I've been invited to
a lot of those, like for different weddings. So usually
for the shower, you're doing something that they registered for.
I would say, give money. I've always given money at
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an engagement party.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
Okay, cash, no, well, right, you can't go wrong with
gift cards.
Speaker 6 (01:28):
I just think engagement party that's a safe bet. But
I have to say sometimes people are not invited to
the shower, but they are invited to the engagement party.
Speaker 7 (01:40):
But I don't think some engaged parties are more just
to celebrate the engagement, because sometimes they do the night
of right, like they'll like, if they know it's a
sure thing, they'll plan it, and then right after everyone
will go and meet, and that's kind of the engagement party,
I guess. I think it's a lot to ask someone
to give the engagement to pay for the bachelorette party,
for going right the brill hour, and then the actual
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wedding because bridal, shower and wedding are automatically giving gifts.
Speaker 6 (02:04):
Okay, so if you're invited to all of them, you
could probably skip getting them something for the engagement party.
But if you're not invited to the shower, and you're
invited to the engagement party, because this is a thing
a lot of times engagement parties. The parents' friends are
invited to the engagement party, and that's their opportunity to
give something. They may not be invited to the shower,
but they will be invited to the wedding.
Speaker 8 (02:24):
The bridal showers still exist, Yeah, they absolutely do.
Speaker 4 (02:26):
I just went to one a few weeks ago.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
But they're not They're not opening up gifts anymore at
the at these bridal showers, which is a good thing
because I always thought that was.
Speaker 5 (02:38):
Time.
Speaker 7 (02:38):
I actually sent the gift to their house so they
are destured to like Amazon and I they I got
the invitation in March and right away went on well
and I sent right to her in their house.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Yeah, that's the new way. I feel like, you don't
actually bring the physical gifts, just get it sent. It
sounds like a lot to me, But I think we
I think we had all three and really gifts at all.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Three's lucky you.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
But yeah, but.
Speaker 5 (03:01):
Did you have like a destination bachelor party and a
destination bachelorette now party that.
Speaker 9 (03:06):
Do we do that?
Speaker 1 (03:07):
I went to New York for my bachelor party. But
it wasn't a huge thing. It was just a couple
of my friends. We had a bridle shower, We gave
you a party, and we had a wedding. People went
to all three and I think we got gifts at
all three.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
It's a lot to add.
Speaker 7 (03:19):
I mean, I'm in that era where everyone's getting married
and all that stuff, and I just I'm so glad
I don't have a lot of good friends.
Speaker 5 (03:25):
But think of it this, What if you had all
those right, you had all those parties, but you also
had a destination bachelor party, destination bachelorette party, destination wedding. Yeah,
think about how much that costs everybody.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
You were telling me before the show this morning. So
your best friend, Dukie's daughter who had on the show
because she was invited to so many weddings. Yes, still
getting invited to crazy amount of weddings.
Speaker 5 (03:47):
Right, she just came home from Montana for a bachelorette
party and now she's gonna be in yet another wedding.
Like she's been in more weddings than anyone I've ever known.
Speaker 7 (03:59):
She could put away on a house for the money.
She easily on weddings. She has to start saying no.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
It's too much. Yeah, that's too much. Good morning.
Speaker 6 (04:07):
On the topic of gifts for engagement parties, I've only
been to one, I think in my entire life.
Speaker 10 (04:15):
But I've been took plenty of brad shows.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Of plenty of weddings, and you will not be receiving
three gifts from me.
Speaker 11 (04:21):
So invite me to one, invite me to two, but
do not invite me to three.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
If you're expecting gifts at all three, it's true, pick
pick and choose where you're going to do your gift.
Speaker 8 (04:31):
I'd rather just not be invited.
Speaker 6 (04:33):
Well, that's it.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
And if they're close enough to you, you send them
a nice gift, but you don't have to go.
Speaker 4 (04:39):
Well, if they're close enough to you, you need to go.
Like okay.
Speaker 7 (04:41):
For instance, one of my really close friends to getting
married on a boat in August, and I do not
want it.
Speaker 4 (04:47):
I love her to death, I do not want I
want an Irish accent. She knows this about me. I
don't want to have to stay the whole time.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
You're on a boat you cannot leave, and I'm expected
to be there.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
I will be there.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
I love her death, but I am a like Oh
my god, girl, we're on a boat for four hours.
I can't get off unless I jump off. It's one
of those cruises or yeah, I'm d of Boston Harbor.
And but it'll be fun, I know.
Speaker 6 (05:10):
But it's just like, I think it's tough that that
type of wedding because if you've got inviting people that
have young kids, sometimes they do have to leave early
because there's like a babysitter issue.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
You know, you're kind of stock.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
You're all trapped on this boat for four hours from
six to ten.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Are there going to be kids on the boat.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
She does have a couple of nieces. I'm assuming they'll
be at the wedding. I don't know about her fiance's side,
so I think there will be some children there. But
all I know is that like I was trying to
go after like cake, like I wasn't going to try
to stay till the last dance, and.
Speaker 2 (05:39):
I will be here.
Speaker 1 (05:41):
I'm on the boat.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
You're fully committed.
Speaker 5 (05:43):
Waiting, and you know I love you, But I'm having
a vision of you falling overboard.
Speaker 8 (05:49):
You know, I want to.
Speaker 4 (05:51):
Tell you that I wouldn't laugh, honestly, I might jump off.
Speaker 8 (05:56):
I would probably laugh but then dive in the.
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Hell thank you. So this is a wedding.
Speaker 4 (06:01):
It's a wedding. Yes, yeah, that's what I went to
her per shower a few weeks ago.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
So you're getting a gift for the wedding.
Speaker 7 (06:06):
Of course, I already said I'm going to probably give
like two two fifty in cash.
Speaker 4 (06:11):
I figured.
Speaker 6 (06:11):
So if you're invited to the shower, the engagement party,
and the wedding.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
Yeah, give gifts twice. Shower and then either engagement party
or wedding.
Speaker 1 (06:20):
Yeah, what about one of the three.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Well, the thing is, guys get away.
Speaker 7 (06:27):
If the guys, the friend they get away with, the
wife or whoever they're plus one, is not going to
the bridle shower sometime, then they only get to the
wedding because guys don't have like a broad shower.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
So what females are the ones spending the money to.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
Do addresses here and makeup?
Speaker 5 (06:45):
Yeah, So what's an acceptable gift for an engagement party?
I think that was the original question, right, what is
the acceptable amount?
Speaker 2 (06:52):
I think you give what you can give.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
I again, you do not want to put yourself, you know,
out like in you know, put yourself out financially.
Speaker 8 (07:00):
You know, just know they'll talk about you afterwards.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
My presence there is the gift. Okay, it's not much
of a gift.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Give what you can give.
Speaker 12 (07:09):
Yeah, good morning guys, especially Billy.
Speaker 8 (07:12):
Listen.
Speaker 12 (07:12):
I don't know if it's Monday or because I'm all
hot and bothered or whatever, but listen, there's way too
many parties, bridal showers now where guys have to go,
wedding whatever. Listen, if you send me an engagement invitation,
this is what I'm getting you. I'm getting you and
I'm not coming to your freaking engagement party.
Speaker 8 (07:28):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
What on Boston is Benson Boone and you're waking up
with million Lisa in the morning on Kiss Want to Wait,
Boston's number one hit music stations. Hey Lisa, Hey guys,
good morning. Justin Harris. A couple of minutes ago we
were talking about engagement party gifts. One of our listeners
reached out wanted some help on what's up bring for
an engagement party, and that got us talking about well,
not just engagement parties, but weddings in general and all
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the craziness around them. It's got Linda in Easton, Hey Linda.
Speaker 13 (07:55):
Good morning. Well my daughter just got engaged, and it's
kind of put a little damper on her plans because
she's been to eighteen weddings in two years, and she's
invited to seven more, and she has been in the
wedding party eleven so all those expenses that you've been
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talking about. But Whinnie, I agree with you for sure.
She's got so many friends. It's okay to say no
to some of these, but now she wants to have
a small wedding because she's seen everything you can imagine
in weddings, and I don't know, I just feel like
it's kind of put a damper. But in the engagement party, realm,
she's I just talked to her and she said she
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they don't do any any gifts, any money or anything
for engagement because there's so many of that era now
that's getting married and they're all friends. So anyway, eighteen
weddings in two years, how is your needless to say?
Speaker 2 (08:55):
How does your daughter have so many friends?
Speaker 13 (08:58):
I have to just tell you one more thing. They're
buying a house, so the amount of money that were
helping them out has just increased. So I told her
no more money, stopped going to weddings. It's enough already.
Speaker 2 (09:10):
How does she have so many friends?
Speaker 13 (09:14):
She went to a school, she played she played a
sport in school, and it was a high level Division
one school and there was just so many friends. And
her fiance also played a Division one sport also, and
so between the two of them, I mean, they have
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so many friends, lovely kids. But you know, the destination,
the destination bachelorette parties are the.
Speaker 5 (09:41):
Things that are Oh god, I was going to say,
of all the eighteen weddings, how many were destination weddings
and or bachelorette parties.
Speaker 13 (09:48):
No weddings, but the bachelorette party She's been to everywhere, Arizona, Tennessee,
they went to Florida. They just came back from Puerto
Rico two weeks ago on one of them, are literally
coming back from Maine right now on another shower.
Speaker 2 (10:05):
How much did she spend last year on weddings? Do
you think so?
Speaker 14 (10:10):
So?
Speaker 13 (10:10):
Of course, you know they're they're pretty close mouths about it.
But I know how many wedding parties she's been in,
So I'm gonna guess sixty seventy thousand dollars on easy Easy,
Easy easy. I know the one that for Puerto Rico.
It was five thousand dollars. The one that went they
went to Tennessee, it was four thousand dollars. Because you're
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gonna have to pay for the airfare and the hotels
and everything that you do at the shower. The bridal party,
you know, pitches in like obviously the bride doesn't for
any of that.
Speaker 2 (10:44):
That's insane.
Speaker 8 (10:44):
Puerto Rico was a bachelorette party.
Speaker 13 (10:48):
Yes you have you have no idea. One was in
the Caribbean. One was in the Sonoma Valley. They went
to Sonoma and had a wine country to experience.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
What did you do for a living?
Speaker 8 (10:59):
Yeah, she like a lawyer or a doctor or what
does she do?
Speaker 13 (11:04):
She's a nurse and her husband is just they just
started out in finances.
Speaker 7 (11:11):
Well, maybe they have the money, but maybe they need boundaries.
I think they need a little boundaries.
Speaker 1 (11:15):
Start saying, don't you think if they say no to
some friends then and yes to others, they fall into
that situation where you know, you upset some people. You're
saying yes one person, no to another.
Speaker 13 (11:26):
Yes, and she's and they're all like really super close
knit friends. But she wants to have a small wedding
and I said, well, you know what, you need to
at least put all of those people that you've spent
all this money for on your list to make sure
they come so you can recoup a little bit. But
you know that, I don't know.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
Justin my thought is you want to disappoint some of
them and then you don't have to go.
Speaker 7 (11:48):
You can't convince me that there's eleven people that I
should be in their wedding because like, I'm not close
with them. I mean, she can't convince me eleventh a
lot that's she was in, and then she's in another
four like twenty five, so she's twenty five, and now
the twenty five eleven she was in them.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
I'm nice. You guys sixty or seventy grand?
Speaker 5 (12:05):
Yeah, and these are all friends, right, and yet they're
trying to up one up each other.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Yeah, Like, oh no, we're going to do this.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
You're my friend. I'm not going to ask you to
spend five grand on my party.
Speaker 1 (12:14):
I think I only have like three friends.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
Yeah, no, I literally am like, I thank god, I
only have like three friends.
Speaker 6 (12:20):
It's so funny because if you go down the road,
most of the people that go to your wedding you're
not going to be friends with in twenty years.
Speaker 8 (12:26):
Yeah, twenty you won't know them the next year.
Speaker 1 (12:29):
Yeah yeah, I don't even remember. It was at my wedding.
Yeah yeah, crazy.
Speaker 15 (12:32):
Good morning, morning crew. So for a gift to every
party I'm invited to, which it's many, is I give
the gift of myself on this, my crazy party self,
because I bring the fun.
Speaker 2 (12:48):
I love that.
Speaker 4 (12:49):
I don't give a wedding gift.
Speaker 2 (12:51):
All well, she should, but still.
Speaker 5 (12:53):
You know, I say give nothing and make sure you
drink more than anybody else.
Speaker 8 (12:57):
I eat more than anybody else.
Speaker 16 (12:59):
It's too wait and we're back with Villy and Lisa
in the morning.
Speaker 1 (13:03):
Hey, everybody, good morning, Welcome back to the show. It's
justin here. So when I first started dating my wife,
I was very jealous. I was insecure, and I would
do things like go through her phone. But the good
news is over time, I've gone a lot better with that.
No longer am I snooping. But a new study says, yeah,
people are snooping more than ever.
Speaker 5 (13:23):
I'm just gonna read this headline. It says more than
four and five people admit to snooping through other people's
devices ie cell phone, computer, laptop, iPad, whatever says have
something to hide your digital advice may not be the
best place to keep it, as a new survey finds
(13:44):
eighty two percent of people admit to snooping through other
people's devices, and they have really good skills out it too.
Eighty one percent claim they've never been caught snooping. And
by the way, need to point out this is not
just people in a relationship, you know, like a couple
or spouses digging into somebody else or the other cell phone.
(14:07):
It could be a lot of different categories. According to
the poll of a thousand Americans, fifty three percent say
they've found something incriminating or concerning while poking around.
Speaker 8 (14:19):
Okay, okay, I've never done it.
Speaker 1 (14:23):
I thought you when you started I that you were
talking about just relationships.
Speaker 5 (14:27):
No, no, just snooping on it on anybody any Lisa
brought up a good point off here before we went
into this that you know, parents could yeah, kids, the
kid's phone.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Definitely kids.
Speaker 6 (14:35):
I know that my kids when my phone's out and
you know, like text messages just pop up, they'll read
them openly.
Speaker 7 (14:41):
I still read my mom's text messages. Mom has no
walk on our phone, so I just go and read
all what's going on? Why hearners to just have a
group chat. I read through that.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I think want me to know that you're doing it hotly?
Speaker 4 (14:50):
She cares.
Speaker 8 (14:51):
I didn't care.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
I'll go mom for all the time.
Speaker 5 (14:54):
God, you really need a life of some sort, get
you away from the life that you're living.
Speaker 8 (15:00):
I think just grabbing.
Speaker 5 (15:01):
Someone's phone and reading their business, it's like.
Speaker 1 (15:04):
Oh, she's the ultimate snooper.
Speaker 4 (15:06):
I still have the screenshots from last time I did it.
Speaker 2 (15:09):
Yeah, you're taking scratch shots.
Speaker 4 (15:11):
Yes, you have to have proofs of water.
Speaker 7 (15:15):
Of the conversations that I found in your mother's no
on my ex phone, So.
Speaker 4 (15:19):
There was no There was no lying because I had
the proof.
Speaker 5 (15:23):
I wasn't even going to ask you if you've done it,
because I know you're the queen.
Speaker 1 (15:26):
Of doing it.
Speaker 4 (15:27):
I've done it, of course I've done it.
Speaker 8 (15:28):
You follow and stake out people overnight Sandwich.
Speaker 2 (15:35):
Have you ever gone on to your wife Michelle's phone?
Speaker 8 (15:38):
Never? Never, never, never, And if it ever crossed my
mind to do it, I would know. I'm you know
it's right time to split.
Speaker 9 (15:46):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (15:46):
I have never done it to Tim, just because I
can never remember his past code.
Speaker 8 (15:51):
That's a different thing.
Speaker 6 (15:53):
That's not the same thing, right, But I have to
say that my kids, that's a big one because when
you have teenage kids, there's a code of sort of trust.
And I feel like I know that the two of
them would be very upset if they knew that I
was looking through their phone.
Speaker 5 (16:10):
But what if you had what you thought was reason
to look, Like, what if you thought they might be
in some.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
Right, if they were in a situation that could be.
Speaker 6 (16:20):
I mean I think then I think you have a
conversation with them, and we are still paying for their phones,
So I think that that gives us more of an
opportunity to say, hey, can I look at your phone?
Speaker 1 (16:31):
Because just doing it could break the trust?
Speaker 6 (16:33):
Right, No, that's always it's a delicate balance.
Speaker 5 (16:36):
Yeah, because they're on the if they're on the verge
of trouble, you know, the trust doesn't matter. It's more
like I got to get into justin if you ever
looked at someone else's cell phone.
Speaker 1 (16:45):
My wife, or or look at when I first started dating,
but not anymore a.
Speaker 8 (16:51):
Minute, what you were looking in Jen's phone?
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Oh my god? Yeah?
Speaker 8 (16:54):
Why?
Speaker 1 (16:54):
Well, because I was just you know, I was insecure.
I was. I was worried that she was cheating on
me when she wasn't. So I was always looking around.
Speaker 2 (17:03):
Yeah did she catch you?
Speaker 14 (17:05):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:05):
Yeah, yeah, because I would find stuff that I that
I thought meant something when they really didn't. You know,
like if she was texting a number that wasn't saved
in her phone, I'd be like, who's this person? Why
aren't they saved? Who is it? What are you hiding?
Speaker 2 (17:20):
Would she get upset with you?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
We would fight about it. Yeah. It was definitely some
trying times in the relationships, and it was all my fault.
But I think that once you develop a trust, if
you have trust in your partner and they have trusted you,
then this reason too, you know. As far as the
kids thing though, I mean this is you know, I
my son will look in my phone, you know, look
at some stuff. No, he'll just look in and see
(17:42):
you know, he's only six, but you know he there was.
He almost found some explicit stuff that I had saved
in my phone.
Speaker 8 (17:50):
So you've got some weird sis.
Speaker 1 (17:52):
I used to no, no, no, just nothing, nothing terrible,
just you know, stuff with my wife and I.
Speaker 6 (17:57):
Yeah, I know that both my kids have tried to
figure out my whoa whoa.
Speaker 8 (18:01):
Whoa whoa. Let's pump the brakes here. What are you
talking about? You like save videos of.
Speaker 17 (18:08):
No no, but you know, sometimes send pictures to each other,
you know, just fun stuff, playful, playful pictures that would
be in there.
Speaker 8 (18:18):
Give me an example of a playful pair to your.
Speaker 1 (18:21):
Wife of myself or of her, of her, of yourself,
you know, maybe just me, you know a little bit less.
Speaker 2 (18:31):
Okay, Yeah, I think I think you can figure out.
Speaker 8 (18:38):
You know, you know what good for you?
Speaker 3 (18:40):
Bro?
Speaker 8 (18:40):
Look at you?
Speaker 1 (18:41):
Well, I'm just The point is not the pictures. The
point is that, you know, I have to be careful
on that because you know, if you have kids, they
can grab the phone and look through it. That's all.
Speaker 8 (18:49):
Do you think there's a chance Michelle is going through
my phone?
Speaker 7 (18:53):
Your wife, Michelle has no reason to go through your phone.
You're the lamest man I've been through your phone. There's
nothing there, Yeah, there's nothing there.
Speaker 18 (18:59):
Yeah, yeah, her worry, I'm too lame.
Speaker 8 (19:06):
There's nothing there, I will say, and call me old school.
Speaker 5 (19:09):
If I realized that she had gone through my phone,
I would think we're in trouble.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Well, I think that you're right about that.
Speaker 6 (19:15):
I think that if someone is going through someone's phone,
then there's a trust issue.
Speaker 4 (19:19):
Yeah, there's normally trouble.
Speaker 2 (19:21):
Right, So again, I think you guys are good. I
don't think that there's any trouble.
Speaker 8 (19:26):
You don't think she's in my phone. I don't think
she's welcome to go in my phone. Yeah no she's not.
Speaker 1 (19:31):
She didn't care about your phone. But I was good
about the coffee.
Speaker 8 (19:34):
Okay, I'm onto something else.
Speaker 5 (19:36):
I'm thinking maybe I should be cendering her things like
justin does okay.
Speaker 6 (19:40):
Again again, if that's something that you want to explore,
then yeah, go for it.
Speaker 1 (19:47):
I didn't see I didn't mean for her to take
down this road. I was just trying to make a point.
Speaker 7 (19:51):
If you're with a party you trust, you should be
able to say whatever you want back and forth through message.
Speaker 8 (19:56):
Have you ever trusted anyone?
Speaker 4 (19:58):
Absolutely not.
Speaker 8 (19:59):
No, I didn't think so, And now she Snoop. I'm
telling you something.
Speaker 5 (20:04):
You would have to literally find some device that like
a padlock for your cell phone because she's going to
get in it.
Speaker 8 (20:10):
When he's going to get in your phone, and for
no reason.
Speaker 4 (20:14):
No, there was reason. There was There's a.
Speaker 1 (20:15):
Lot of reasons.
Speaker 2 (20:16):
Yes when superpower.
Speaker 4 (20:17):
Yeah right, I'll find out.
Speaker 2 (20:20):
From the planet fitness.
Speaker 4 (20:21):
Kiss one O.
Speaker 16 (20:22):
Wait studios, we're back with the Villy and Lisa in
the morning.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I kiss.
Speaker 1 (20:27):
All right, Good morning, everybody, welcome back. Final hour of
the billion leads a show coming in hot and you
want to talk about an embarrassing moment about this little
incident with Leanne Rhymes recently.
Speaker 10 (20:37):
So last night I was on stage in the middle
of one Way ticket fils.
Speaker 4 (20:42):
Something pop in my mouth.
Speaker 10 (20:45):
And if you've been around you know I've had a
lot of dental surgeries and I have a bridge in
the front and it fell out in the middle of
my song last night, to which I panicked in the
middle said hold on and ran to the side of
the stage and put it back in, like popped it
back in and.
Speaker 8 (21:04):
Then just went on singing. Did she play college hockey
or something? She was like a little girl.
Speaker 2 (21:12):
She came into our studio. We've met her before. Love lovely.
Speaker 1 (21:16):
Sometimes people genetically people have bad teeth. Yeah you know.
Speaker 5 (21:20):
Yeah, my brother Frank had very soft teeth. He always
his teeth were constantly getting chipped.
Speaker 1 (21:26):
Okay, yeah, no, that's a real thing. Sometimes you can't.
You can take care of them, and they just they
and that's how it is, like the formed. Yeah, but
that is embarrassing. One time, Billy's tooth popped out on
the air, remember that.
Speaker 2 (21:38):
No, it was the best thing ever.
Speaker 1 (21:39):
Yeah. He was challenged by Maddie to eat a Snickers
and the Crown came home and she just fell right out.
Speaker 4 (21:51):
You don't understand.
Speaker 2 (21:52):
Was the best moment ever. And He's like, no, really,
my tooth just fell out.
Speaker 8 (21:55):
Yeah, and then I had to put it right on
the counter.
Speaker 1 (21:58):
Yeah. Would that be your most embarrassing.
Speaker 8 (22:01):
I think so.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
One other that sticks with me is years ago at
a Kiss concert. You know how, Maddie and I used
to do these skits on stage, and for some reason
we did a skit where Matt was John Travolta and
I was dressed as Olivia Newton, John from Greece. And
we came off stage after doing the skit, which, by
(22:25):
the way, I thought we were fabulous.
Speaker 8 (22:29):
And immediately they grabbed me.
Speaker 5 (22:31):
The backstage people grabbed me and they said, Steven Tyler
and Aerosmith are waiting for the interview.
Speaker 8 (22:36):
They're standing waiting.
Speaker 5 (22:37):
They made me walk over dressed as Olivia Newton John
to interview Steven Tyler from Aerosmith and the first thing
he says to me is, oh, you look different, and
he wanted he wanted to borrow the outfits.
Speaker 4 (22:51):
For the tour.
Speaker 1 (22:52):
No, the first thing he said to you was.
Speaker 8 (22:56):
Come on, it was I mean, I had I think
Lisa did my makeup? I had rouge on my cheeks and.
Speaker 1 (23:01):
Yeah, Lisa, can I guess yours? From knowing you for
many years, I'm sure you have many remember the time
that you were at the beach with a bikini.
Speaker 2 (23:10):
Oh my, oh my god.
Speaker 1 (23:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (23:12):
It was in Mexico and I was boogie boarding and
I had I had a bikini on and I got
I got hit by one of the waves. I'm telling you,
they just they just crashed into you and I went tumbling, tumbling, tumbling.
Speaker 4 (23:27):
I popped up.
Speaker 6 (23:27):
Out of the water because you're like, oh my god,
am I still alive? And my bikini top was completely
off and I didn't realize it because I literally you're like.
Speaker 2 (23:35):
It's like a washing machine.
Speaker 6 (23:37):
So this lovely Mexican man is speaking to me and
telling me in Spanish your top like, and I looked around.
Speaker 2 (23:45):
I'm like, oh my god, I was mortifying. Yeah, and
the entire beach is looking.
Speaker 6 (23:52):
Yeah, I've always had wardrobe malfunction issues, like most embarrassing.
Speaker 8 (23:56):
Yees, anybody hit on you afterwards?
Speaker 1 (23:58):
Oh you know they did?
Speaker 8 (24:00):
Are you going?
Speaker 16 (24:02):
These kids went away and we're back with a Billy
and Lisa in the morning.
Speaker 1 (24:06):
What's the most embarrassing thing that ever happened to you?
We started this conversation a couple of minutes ago because
Leanne Rhymes was on stage performing recently and her teeth
fell out.
Speaker 18 (24:16):
In high school, we had iPads and when we did presentations,
we used to mirror our iPads on the board. And
I was eighteen at the time. When I was in
theology class and I was doing a presentation and mirrored
my iPad. I forgot I had.
Speaker 19 (24:30):
Kept in my search bar at the top. Does sex hurt?
Because I was looking that up as a curious eighteen
year old and everybody in my theology class saw So yeah, yeah.
Speaker 2 (24:42):
That's embarrassing.
Speaker 1 (24:43):
I'm never going back to school if that happened.
Speaker 13 (24:45):
Never.
Speaker 7 (24:46):
Well, I'm assuming too was a Catholic school. She was
in theology class.
Speaker 8 (24:49):
Yeah, yeah, justin you have got one right, Well, you
never want.
Speaker 1 (24:53):
Your search history to be no exposed. No, no, Yeah,
my embarrassing moment. One of them is six years ago,
I believe twenty nineteen, around this time Fourth of July,
I was here working doing the countdown, actually before the
fourth I think it was July third, And as When're
recording with Billy, I noticed that I'm starting to feel
(25:14):
a little itchy down there. I don't really know what's
going on. But we finished our work and we went
home and we had a big Fourth of July party
the next day. Yeah, and it got worse as the
day went on into the next day, and I had
gotten poison ivy doing yard work, and I had transferred
the poison ivy down there moneymakers.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
What a nightmare.
Speaker 1 (25:36):
It was complete hell. So we had fifty people coming
to our house for Fourth of July and I was
in the bedroom itching NonStop until I went to the
emergency room. I couldn't take it anymore. Yeah. It was hot,
I was sweaty, I was itchy. Poison ivy is the worst,
and it's highly contagious. Isn't very contentious. And the embarrassing
(25:58):
part was that my wife had to explain to all
of our guests why I had to leave and go
to the hospital.
Speaker 8 (26:03):
And that's something that never free.
Speaker 6 (26:04):
And it goes on for like a week or two.
It doesn't just go away.
Speaker 1 (26:07):
They gave me medication. It went away in like a
day or two.
Speaker 2 (26:10):
A boot better, Yeah, but but it still is there.
Speaker 5 (26:13):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (26:13):
Oh my god, that's horrible.
Speaker 8 (26:15):
Was youre a money maker?
Speaker 1 (26:16):
Now it's doing okay?
Speaker 5 (26:17):
Okay, yeah, uh producer Riley, you've got one, you were
telling me in the hallway.
Speaker 4 (26:21):
Okay.
Speaker 14 (26:22):
So basically I worked two summers at Canoby. And when
I first started, it was the fourth of July, the
hottest like day of the summer, and I was wearing
these khaki shorts that were like the light light ones.
We had a red polo that we had to tuck in.
I sweat through the shorts oh so bad that it
(26:43):
looked like I had peed my pants on my very
first day. Oh god working yep, and everybody could. There
was no way of hiding it. I had to tuck
my shirt. I was working at the Pirate Ship. Oh
great job, great job. Loved Canoby so embarrassing well.
Speaker 5 (27:00):
And they were really talking about you behind your back
to their.
Speaker 8 (27:07):
Do you have one?
Speaker 7 (27:08):
My whole life's kind of embarrassed. I have many things
I think growing up. This happened to me twice. And
this says nothing about anybody in my family. But I
got I was going in the bathroom two times in
like within like a couple of years of each other,
and I had different family members walk in on me,
and not my immediate family. It was like an uncle,
like my grandparents are like I had a piece so bad,
(27:30):
I ran to the bathroom, my father to the door.
So my uncle just walked in too, go to the bathroom,
and I'm just there paying. And then the same thing
happened with a different uncle at my house.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
It's weird, like.
Speaker 7 (27:42):
Not on some weird no no, not see this sounds weird,
but it doesn't sound weird.
Speaker 4 (27:47):
When I say it.
Speaker 7 (27:48):
But it was like a complete accident. It could have
been Lesa that walked in on me. It was just
someone wanted to use the bathroom. They didn't know I
was in there, and it was like the oh oh,
you know, and it's like two seconds of the most
uncomfortable situation.
Speaker 4 (28:00):
I was like my mom or my siblings like whatever, but.
Speaker 8 (28:03):
You know, somebody walking in on No, but.
Speaker 4 (28:06):
It half was my faught. I didn't shut the door.
Speaker 8 (28:08):
Yeah, you left it wide open.
Speaker 4 (28:10):
I was at a piece so bad. Oh, Okay, I
didn't shut so it's off. Really, it's my fault.
Speaker 6 (28:16):
I just had wardrobe malfunctions, like my whole Like you'll
wear a skirt and you'll walk across like a busy
street in Boston and the wind kicks in and lifts
your entire skirt up over your head and you're like
exposing yourself to the entire like Boston community.
Speaker 2 (28:31):
That happened to me like so many times.
Speaker 6 (28:33):
And then the one about the bikini top when I
was when I was bookie boarding, it came off and
I didn't realize it.
Speaker 9 (28:40):
Good morning. My most embarrassing moment, one of many. Actually,
I was on vacation with my boyfriend at the time.
I showered and just put on the same jeans or
shorts that I had worn earlier, and we went to
a restaurant and ate, and when we left, my underwear
I fell out of my pants, like in the middle
(29:01):
of the restaurant, and everybody stared, and I didn't know
what to do. So I panicked and I left it
there and I ran out.
Speaker 4 (29:07):
Okay, I have a great question.
Speaker 8 (29:08):
I can see that happening.
Speaker 5 (29:10):
You forgot, you left your underpants in the jeans, or
you put.
Speaker 8 (29:13):
Them on and then down the leg they go.
Speaker 11 (29:15):
My embarrassing story is that I was going to work
out in my apartment complexes Jym and I walked in
and I wasn't really paying attention. I was texting and
I was going to get on the treadmill and I
gone and immediately fell and burned myself because it was
going twelve miles an hour, because some bros were doing
(29:35):
sprints in between their reps and I wasn't looking, so
mostly my ego was bruised.
Speaker 1 (29:42):
My worst fear is going down on a tread I did.
Speaker 6 (29:46):
I have a scar on my leg because of it.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
It was horrific.
Speaker 6 (29:51):
You feel like you're being burned a lot. Oh yeah,
and then yeah, it was horrible.
Speaker 5 (29:55):
There's nothing worse than yet, there's nothing funnier to see
than somebody falling.
Speaker 8 (29:59):
On the treadmill.
Speaker 1 (30:00):
I love the videos on social media, but I don't
want it to happen.
Speaker 2 (30:03):
It's like, it's like it's so painful.
Speaker 13 (30:05):
Good morning, guys.
Speaker 2 (30:08):
So an embarrassing story for me.
Speaker 11 (30:10):
I am a dental assistant and you were doing a
filling on a patient and I was really gassy, and.
Speaker 18 (30:18):
You know, patient head is right between my legs.
Speaker 1 (30:21):
A little something slipped out. It was silent but deadly,
and the patient proceeded to say
Speaker 8 (30:28):
Wow, that filling material smells awful, right, yeah,
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