October 7, 2025 • 5 mins
What are some things you really don't understand the appeal?
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Is there some things that you just don't understand the
appeal of? And I thought this was I thought this
was interesting because you know, people can weigh in on this,
and it's been on social media for the last two
days here, But like, what don't you get the appeal of?
Here's an example social places where the music is too
loud to talk to anyone, but everybody wants to be there.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
No, I get the appeal. I mean that's you're not
going there to talk. You don't go to those places
to have conversations, to be in a scene. You're going
there to be seen, to meet someone, to dance. So
I don't particularly want to go there anymore.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
But I used to.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Yeah, yeah, And I.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Do like this topic because it could be endless the
things you.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Know that people think are so great and you're like,
I'm not seeing it.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Well, look at like, for instance, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Like Taylor Swift is very polarizing with people, but the
largest group of people, the ones buying the records and
going to the show, are the majority, I think. But
it's the loudest ones that are like who Taylor Swift?
You know, they don't get the appeal.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
But March Safe from listening to the Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Like, Okay, I do get people feeling inundated by a trend,
but a long time ago because she used to rub
me the wrong way a little bit, but a long
time ago. I made my piece with the fact she's
just really awesome at what she does. And even if
I don't love all the songs, like again, I get
the appeal some people.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
And I hear this a lot. Some people don't get
the appeal of slot machines. They're like, you're not doing anything.
You're not using any skill, like if you're playing poker,
like and I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Like, no, I don't even think it's that.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I think it's more that, like you, you can't be
in control of any of it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
No, it's total random, right, It's totally random. A slot machine.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Well, I'll just tell you.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
When I started with the casinos, I played roulette. I
started there and then I moved to blackjack, and I
love blackjack.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
You don't have any control in blackjack. You can think
you do.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yeah, And after almost being banned from all three casinos
because oh almost flipping tables like sixteen again.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Did you get in some fights at the blackjack table?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I kept my I kept I kept a lid on it.
But I mean I went to I went to seven.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Some people don't understand the appeal of strip clubs. I
gotta tell you, I'm a maze. Strip clubs are still
even around.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
I am too. I mean for two reasons.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Nakedness on the internet.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Well, nakedness on the internet. It's like, yeah, I mean
listen back in the day, be like.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I'm gonna turn twenty one, Yeah, I'm gonna go to
see naked ladies or.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Your bachelor party.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Everyone was going to the strip club every I think
almost every single one of my friends who is married
has actively said to their husband, if you have a
bachelor party to go to, you will not be going
to a strip club.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's so funny, though, It's so funny that those statements
are made, like you actually don't like, if you're an
insecure person, the chance of your person going to a
strip club and hooking up with the stripper isn't real good.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, I'm not keeping anybody that that I'm with from
going to the strip club.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
It doesn't bother me.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
But I also I get the appeal of strip clubs
because even though nakedness abounds on the Internet. There's something
about a guy walks in there and because it's a
real live person, maybe thinks they have a chance.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Plus you can touch them. Gross.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Gross.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Gross.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I don't get the appeal of buffets at strip clubs.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah, I don't. I don't get that either. That base
state dinner, Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Feel like that doesn't mix. Great huh, I feel like
they go together.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
But I gotta tell you, Porscha, you look beautiful.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Also, we are low on mashed potatoes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Could a clothes person bring the mashed potatoes?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Yeah? Please?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I don't know if you know, but the brownies are gone?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
What else is on here? A couple more m you
know what.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't get the appeal.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Worshiping a celebrity or an influencer. The worshiping part.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I like, there's people I like, but yeah, it's the
crazy fan base really. Yeah, they like like Swifties or
the BTS Army.
Speaker 5 (04:05):
I mean, there are so many good fans who just like,
genuinely like the person and like their work of art
and all that. But there are others that just like
take it to the next level and ruin it for everyone.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Isn't there something too?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
It's interesting we just talked about strip clubs and about
how people that go into strip clubs.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Have a little bit of that I might have a chance,
I might have a chance.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah right, just like people that follow artists or celebrities around.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, I kind of think they might might be friends
with them.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, I mean that's real, right, sad.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, and they start to believe it.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
I mean we've met people who are who tell us like,
we'll be at a meet and greet and they're like,
this is my nineteenth time, right, getting my picture with whoever.
And I'm and You're just like, wow, I love the cure.
But I only met him twice, and I'm good with that.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
He totally knows me.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
And I feel like you have someone specific, frecking mind
that you're trying to elude us, allude to us.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
No, I'm not somebody who has a Shawn Mendes blanket.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Oh well I never met him. She's never met him.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
No, don't worry. Wrap yourself in him every day, don't worry.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Literally everybody uh in the iHeart Radio World in Michigan
got to meet him when he came to Little Caesar's Arena.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
But Nope, I didn't get to meet him.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
What are his fans call It's a great question.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, yeah, Tony, I'm still mad at you over that.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
By the way, if you really want to feel like
you're a part of something, become an agent to one.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Of the people. Get to work.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I was gonna say, I'm going to be your agent
just to get you to Shawn Mendes pulldos through that place.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
That's right now, just like Jay, I'm not going to
pay you. Yeah, that's none of Jay's clients pay him.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
No, no, it's not the kind of agent the management
company out there
Is there some things that you just don't understand the
appeal of? And I thought this was I thought this
was interesting because you know, people can weigh in on this,
and it's been on social media for the last two
days here, But like, what don't you get the appeal of?
Here's an example social places where the music is too
loud to talk to anyone, but everybody wants to be there.
Speaker 2 (00:17):
No, I get the appeal. I mean that's you're not
going there to talk. You don't go to those places
to have conversations, to be in a scene. You're going
there to be seen, to meet someone, to dance. So
I don't particularly want to go there anymore.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
But I used to.
Speaker 4 (00:31):
Yeah, yeah, And I.
Speaker 3 (00:33):
Do like this topic because it could be endless the
things you.
Speaker 2 (00:36):
Know that people think are so great and you're like,
I'm not seeing it.
Speaker 4 (00:39):
Well, look at like, for instance, Taylor Swift.
Speaker 1 (00:41):
Like Taylor Swift is very polarizing with people, but the
largest group of people, the ones buying the records and
going to the show, are the majority, I think. But
it's the loudest ones that are like who Taylor Swift?
You know, they don't get the appeal.
Speaker 5 (00:54):
But March Safe from listening to the Taylor Swift.
Speaker 2 (00:58):
Like, Okay, I do get people feeling inundated by a trend,
but a long time ago because she used to rub
me the wrong way a little bit, but a long
time ago. I made my piece with the fact she's
just really awesome at what she does. And even if
I don't love all the songs, like again, I get
the appeal some people.
Speaker 1 (01:19):
And I hear this a lot. Some people don't get
the appeal of slot machines. They're like, you're not doing anything.
You're not using any skill, like if you're playing poker,
like and I'm.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
Like, no, I don't even think it's that.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I think it's more that, like you, you can't be
in control of any of it.
Speaker 4 (01:34):
No, it's total random, right, It's totally random. A slot machine.
Speaker 3 (01:37):
Well, I'll just tell you.
Speaker 2 (01:38):
When I started with the casinos, I played roulette. I
started there and then I moved to blackjack, and I
love blackjack.
Speaker 3 (01:44):
You don't have any control in blackjack. You can think
you do.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Yeah, And after almost being banned from all three casinos
because oh almost flipping tables like sixteen again.
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Did you get in some fights at the blackjack table?
Speaker 2 (01:57):
I kept my I kept I kept a lid on it.
But I mean I went to I went to seven.
Speaker 1 (02:06):
Some people don't understand the appeal of strip clubs. I
gotta tell you, I'm a maze. Strip clubs are still
even around.
Speaker 4 (02:13):
I am too. I mean for two reasons.
Speaker 3 (02:15):
Nakedness on the internet.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Well, nakedness on the internet. It's like, yeah, I mean
listen back in the day, be like.
Speaker 4 (02:21):
I'm gonna turn twenty one, Yeah, I'm gonna go to
see naked ladies or.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Your bachelor party.
Speaker 5 (02:26):
Everyone was going to the strip club every I think
almost every single one of my friends who is married
has actively said to their husband, if you have a
bachelor party to go to, you will not be going
to a strip club.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
It's so funny, though, It's so funny that those statements
are made, like you actually don't like, if you're an
insecure person, the chance of your person going to a
strip club and hooking up with the stripper isn't real good.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
Yeah, I'm not keeping anybody that that I'm with from
going to the strip club.
Speaker 3 (03:00):
It doesn't bother me.
Speaker 2 (03:01):
But I also I get the appeal of strip clubs
because even though nakedness abounds on the Internet. There's something
about a guy walks in there and because it's a
real live person, maybe thinks they have a chance.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Plus you can touch them. Gross.
Speaker 4 (03:15):
Gross.
Speaker 3 (03:16):
Gross.
Speaker 2 (03:16):
I don't get the appeal of buffets at strip clubs.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Yeah, I don't. I don't get that either. That base
state dinner, Yeah, I don't.
Speaker 4 (03:22):
Feel like that doesn't mix. Great huh, I feel like
they go together.
Speaker 1 (03:26):
But I gotta tell you, Porscha, you look beautiful.
Speaker 4 (03:30):
Also, we are low on mashed potatoes.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Could a clothes person bring the mashed potatoes?
Speaker 4 (03:37):
Yeah? Please?
Speaker 1 (03:38):
I don't know if you know, but the brownies are gone?
Speaker 4 (03:44):
What else is on here? A couple more m you
know what.
Speaker 3 (03:48):
I don't get the appeal.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Worshiping a celebrity or an influencer. The worshiping part.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
I like, there's people I like, but yeah, it's the
crazy fan base really. Yeah, they like like Swifties or
the BTS Army.
Speaker 5 (04:05):
I mean, there are so many good fans who just like,
genuinely like the person and like their work of art
and all that. But there are others that just like
take it to the next level and ruin it for everyone.
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Isn't there something too?
Speaker 1 (04:17):
It's interesting we just talked about strip clubs and about
how people that go into strip clubs.
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Have a little bit of that I might have a chance,
I might have a chance.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah right, just like people that follow artists or celebrities around.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
Yeah, I kind of think they might might be friends
with them.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Yeah, I mean that's real, right, sad.
Speaker 4 (04:38):
Yeah, and they start to believe it.
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Yeah yeah.
Speaker 2 (04:42):
I mean we've met people who are who tell us like,
we'll be at a meet and greet and they're like,
this is my nineteenth time, right, getting my picture with whoever.
And I'm and You're just like, wow, I love the cure.
But I only met him twice, and I'm good with that.
Speaker 4 (04:55):
He totally knows me.
Speaker 5 (04:57):
And I feel like you have someone specific, frecking mind
that you're trying to elude us, allude to us.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
No, I'm not somebody who has a Shawn Mendes blanket.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Oh well I never met him. She's never met him.
Speaker 3 (05:10):
No, don't worry. Wrap yourself in him every day, don't worry.
Speaker 5 (05:12):
Literally everybody uh in the iHeart Radio World in Michigan
got to meet him when he came to Little Caesar's Arena.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
But Nope, I didn't get to meet him.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
What are his fans call It's a great question.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
Okay, yeah, Tony, I'm still mad at you over that.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
By the way, if you really want to feel like
you're a part of something, become an agent to one.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Of the people. Get to work.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
I was gonna say, I'm going to be your agent
just to get you to Shawn Mendes pulldos through that place.
Speaker 5 (05:42):
That's right now, just like Jay, I'm not going to
pay you. Yeah, that's none of Jay's clients pay him.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
No, no, it's not the kind of agent the management
company out there
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