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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is time now for amid a hole
on the Mojo in the morning show. You can go
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Speaker 2 (00:13):
So I've been doing this go for like a couple,
couple like five months. Right now, I ask her to
block and follow every guy that she that she talks
to you in the past.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Am I the a hole for this or not?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
I don't think it's that big of a deal.
Speaker 4 (00:30):
She thinks it is.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
She guys have been dating and you're asking her to
block and unfollow anybody that she's been When you say
ethan in a relationship like they had, they were dating
at one point or another, falling around with each other,
and those are the people.
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Yeah, they they They had a few exits in the past,
and so have I. So I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Like, so question for you, why are you so insecure?
Speaker 1 (00:57):
Why do you why why do you feel like you
need to have them get rid of them as well?
Speaker 3 (01:02):
That's because I got cheed on multiple times. What do
you expect like if I had so, if I was
dating someone and they I find out they're talking to
their exits, like what happens there? You know, maybe they
have other feelings, like they still have feelings for those people.
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Two things, One it feels very controlling to me, I
feeling like suffocated. I would feel that way if I
were her. And Two, just because they're blocked on social
media or whatever. If she if she is gonna cheat
on you, she's gonna cheat on you. That's not going
to do a dang thing.
Speaker 4 (01:33):
I'm almost to just like take that.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Not.
Speaker 6 (01:36):
I think what you should do is take yourself to therapy,
because it sounds like you need to heal from your
past trauma experiences.
Speaker 1 (01:47):
Do you have any people that you are currently on
Instagram friends with or Facebook whatever social media platforms, and
and you have been in relationships with.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
I mean not like I had a few sents with
like college friends, but like that's that's about it. Say
friends after that, because.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
I was going to say, if you find yourself that
you always you know, have to unfriend people that you've
ever had a relationship with. I think there's something wrong
with that. Like I think there's a really well I
think just because you had a relationship with them, doesn't
mean that you have done I mean it.
Speaker 4 (02:22):
I unfriend all my exes. You do, I don't want
to see them, I don't care about them. So every end,
every relationship family members, Actually.
Speaker 6 (02:30):
You need to date this guy? Yeah, you saw perfect.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
I mean that's just what I do. I told me
to do that.
Speaker 5 (02:37):
I would be like, heck, no, I think it'd be
different if what's his name? I'm sorry anyways, I think Ethan,
it'd be different if she had an ex or exes
that were consistently reaching out to her and it made
you uncomfortable. I think it's one thing to say, hey,
this makes me uncomfortable and throw that out there and
see what she does with it, because that would be
up to her. Then to say, like, okay, I need to,
(02:58):
you know, set a boundary here. I'm going to block
them or unfriend them or whatever. But to just tell
her she has to do that, I don't like.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
Hey, Rick, what do you think is Ethan and a hull?
Speaker 7 (03:08):
He's a knucklehead modg.
Speaker 1 (03:10):
Yes, what would you do if a girl that you
were dating told you that you had to unfollow and
unfriend anybody that you were in a relationship with.
Speaker 7 (03:21):
Old I'll give you a story and this is a
guy on his suit. When I was serving in the army,
this girl told me to get rid of my gold
chains and my cologne so no other girl could smell
me or be near me, and I told her to
get lost.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
That's my wife and I've been together.
Speaker 8 (03:40):
Last forty years and.
Speaker 7 (03:43):
She has friends that are her ex as well as
I have. There is this guy's a knucklehead.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
Well, I think that the thing, like Shannon said, is
there's an insecurity because if he had past bad relationships,
and I think those are the people that they need
to probably go to therapy.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
What's up, Sarah? You doing Hi?
Speaker 9 (04:02):
I just think that he's a hole. He said that
the reason was because he's been cheated on multiple times
in the past. But what I want to know is
did she cheat on him in this five months or
was he cheated on by other people? Because that's not
really fair to her if he's going to be controlling
based off of his past relationship.
Speaker 4 (04:21):
Has she ever cheated on you, Athan?
Speaker 10 (04:24):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Yeah, dude, yes, in the in the five months, I've
seen a couple of texts and it's.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
Like, oh okay, now, now we're getting somewhere.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Now, now you're actually now you're explaining yourself a little
bit better. So she has been talking to some of
these people, and that's the reason why you're doing this. Yeah, okay, Okay, Now,
now I think that we got a little bit of
a pattern here. I thought it was just out of
the blue in the way you explain yourself on your
(04:57):
talk back, and then in the initial part of this call,
I didn't realize that she has done it. Sarah, now
you probably think a little bit better of Ethan.
Speaker 9 (05:05):
Yeah, well, we need all the info O basically all right.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
Yeah, So now with that said, Brianna, what do you
think with that said, do you think he's an a hole?
Speaker 11 (05:14):
I don't think he's an a hole, but I definitely
think he's a little insecure in their relationship. I've had
this happen to me and my boyfriend was cheated on.
He did ask me to block and stop talking all
of my axes. I was a little peeved at first
because I was like, this is really controlling and I
don't think it's right. But I eventually did it up
doing it and it actually worked.
Speaker 9 (05:33):
I did stop talking.
Speaker 11 (05:34):
All my axes out of the like respect, but I
don't even think about it anymore. But I definitely think
you need to become like a little bit more secure
in your relationship, give her like a break.
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Do you think she would ever cheat again Ethan or
talk to these guys again in a way that she
probably shouldn't.
Speaker 3 (05:52):
Well, I mean we haven't gone that far, so I
don't know.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Maybe she has.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Because it's funny because it sounds to me like by
doing this, it doesn't actually give the trust back at all.
Speaker 4 (06:06):
All it does is just make it harder for her.
You know.
Speaker 1 (06:10):
But if if you if you go into a relationship
and somebody has done this to you and then you say, hey,
you got to do all this stuff, and then you
still say I still think that they would probably contact them,
then by doing it, it's not going to help anything
other than just make it harder.
Speaker 12 (06:26):
You know.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
What's up, Robbie.
Speaker 13 (06:30):
I just got a crazy story about one time, one
time my girl, my girl and my mom met through
my friends list. I never introduced them. They they met
each other and they actually started having an intimate relationship
without me even know.
Speaker 4 (06:44):
Bro And start of.
Speaker 13 (06:50):
My name is Rod, by the way, it's not.
Speaker 4 (06:55):
Start from the very beginning.
Speaker 13 (06:58):
Okay, Okay, Okay, So back when I was a little boy,
I met this girl named Chelsea. We went to school together,
and I never it was a secret relationship. I never
introduced her to my parents. We went and grew up,
had had a great relationship for many years. I say
you maybe fifteen years we knew each other. It was
(07:18):
kind of a secret relationship. Like I said, my mom
never met this. My mom never met Chelsea. But Chelsea
and my mom had met each other online without knowing
each other or knowing who each other were, and then
they had an intimate relationship. And I found out that
my girl was my girl was getting with my mom?
Speaker 4 (07:36):
Is true?
Speaker 13 (07:37):
I found out.
Speaker 4 (07:37):
I found out about six months.
Speaker 13 (07:40):
I was reading through her text messages and I was like,
who is this crazy lady texting my girl? And it
turned out I looked at the phone number. It was
my mom's number.
Speaker 4 (07:50):
They both liked before.
Speaker 13 (07:53):
I had no idea. It was actually how my dad
found out.
Speaker 4 (07:56):
She was cheating as well, and it was with your girl.
Speaker 13 (08:00):
With my girl and my mom goes together.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Where you're from, where you're from, I'm just going to
tell me if it's real or not.
Speaker 13 (08:08):
I'm from Birmingham. Okay, They used to have what they
call hot till Tuesdays where they go tugging, and it
became a normal thing.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
We all became. It was a weird.
Speaker 13 (08:26):
I'm in a different place in my life. Noom Or reformed, man,
but yeah.
Speaker 4 (08:29):
For a long time there it was crazy.
Speaker 13 (08:31):
It was really crazy, crazy turn of events.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Wow there, No he left, man.
Speaker 13 (08:40):
I just wanted you guys are all doing real good,
you know, give you credence where you need it. But
Mojo is the man.
Speaker 10 (08:46):
I just wanted to give him to women in Birmingham
right now.
Speaker 8 (08:59):
Not all right, thank you, Rod, take care of yourself.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
That had to be a fake call. I don't know.
I don't know you ever run across guys in Birmingham.
Speaker 12 (09:17):
The sound like that, like Lydia said, Alabama, even I
think that to wrap you up here.
Speaker 4 (09:28):
I think that.
Speaker 1 (09:29):
You gotta be careful of what you're doing, and I
think you got to get over what it was done
to you. But if you don't trust this girl, then
why even be in a relationship with her?
Speaker 13 (09:40):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:43):
Well hm, I guess that's true. I do like her
and all that.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
But all right, Well, good luck to you, buddy, talk
to you later. Yeah, thanks man, All right am, I
the a whole Emojo in the morning,