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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it's Mojo in the morning show. It is
(00:01):
time now for am I the A Hole? You want
to be on with us? Simply go to our iHeartRadio
app where the radio station is hit that talk back
Mike and send us one of these.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
My boyfriend recently broke up with me, and I hooked
up with his best friend the day after.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Am I the e hole? For that little revenge and
the boyfriend? This is a question, Grace.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Yeah, I think it's a great question, because your boyfriend
breaks up with you, in you for revenge sleep with
his best buddy as a way to get back in him.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I don't
think you're an a hole. I mean, it wasn't to
get back in him. Actually what he was it?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Then?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Why'd you do it?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
It just happened organically.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
He reached out to me to see how I was
doing and make sure that I was okay, and one
thing led to another and it just happened.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
It was not intentional, by.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
The way, I don't think, and I know it's this
is am I an a whole? We're talking about Grace only.
But if we were doing am I a hole? And
it was him. He's the a whole the friend. Yeah,
the friend because you have because you have no responsibility
to him. He broke up with you, you're no longer
with him. There's no waiting period. He's the one that
shouldn't be contacting you now. To be honest, have you
(01:25):
all flirted even when you were in a relationship?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
No? Never, has he ever flirted with you?
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Never?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Man, Oh no, you just don't up Bay. That guy,
by the way, has had feelings for you for a
long time. First him contacting you makes me realize that
that guy's probably had you on his mind a few times.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Would you do it again?
Speaker 6 (01:53):
I don't know, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I don't think so, that's yes, what are right circumstances?
Was it good? It wasn't bad? Was it your ex
his friend? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Now let's talk about the whole thing. Your ex your ex?
Does he know about this? Does he know that you
banged his best FT buddy? Not to my knowledge? Okay,
so you're not using it as a revenge thing. Then
you're not using it as a way to stick it
back to him?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
No? Are you secretly kind of hoping then he finds
out about it? Though, I honestly don't care if he does.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Okay, because there's no feelings at all anymore, or no
harsh feelings.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Those harsh feelings, but I don't care if he finds.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Out or not.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Uk, Hey, Joey, am I the a hole is Grace
and a whole for sleeping with her ex's best friend.
Joey absolutely absolutely would you do?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Did you mute your phone by accident with your with
your cheek? Uh?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Actually my puppy did it all right? Expand on that one,
Why do you think she's in a hole?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Because who does that?
Speaker 5 (03:23):
Like?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, like, I mean, I get it, he.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Broke up with you, but still I'm sure he still
has some sort of.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Feelings for you. I doubt that.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
It's just I seem like it. I just seem like
it just seems like a real aole move to me.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
So Grace says, I doubt that because he's the one
that did the breaking up.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
How does he still have feelings? Uh? For her? If
he broke up with her?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Come on, now, we've all dated a girl or guy
you know, girls here how long ago and what and
you know it's just there's one maybe little thing or
something like that, or maybe they try talking to them
about it. They don't listen, they don't change anything.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And yeah, how long ago did you break up with him? No,
she broke up, he broke up. Yeah, he broke up
with me. How long ago?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
About a month and a half ago.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
And when you got into the best friend's arms and
other places he got into, what that was less.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Than twenty four hours? Two?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, his best friend? I think his best friends more
of the a hole. How long it was less than
twenty four hours?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Yeah, it was about a day later.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So you guys talk to each other, decided, hey, let's
get together because he's going to console you. And how
soon after you guys saw each other face to face?
Were you guys naked?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Hours? He came over to make sure I was okay.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I'm sure he did. I I got a handed. He's
smooth with this one. Now would she be an a
hole if she called her accent told him who's she
an a hole? To him for making him feel bad
or the friend for ratting him out?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
She just looked like a I don't want to say that,
but like you can't call in his face, and you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
You look crazy at that point, Hey, Derek, what's up
and hold on, hold on, Derek, Grace wants to say something.
What do you want to say, Grace?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I mean you want to call me a hoe?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
No?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I mean you did, though. If you're going to say that,
tell him you want a public apology.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
If you called the if you called him and said no, no, no, no, no,
I slept with your.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Best friend, then you would be oh, that's what I
was saying. Say I want a public apology and I
want you to come over and no, no, that would
be bad.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Derek was up.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Derek, good morning, guys. How's it going good.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
What do you think is Grace and a hole?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Well, she would be an a hole if she broke
up with him just to sleep with someone, because if
you break up with someone and go asleep with someone
the next day, she would be the a hole. But
in his case, she was vulnerable. So what he's gonna
do is he's gonna take all.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Those heartfelt strings and tug on him until he gets
what he wants. It's a common thing that happens, and
it shouldn't happen, but men tend to do that to
women that are vulnerable, and he's the a hole.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, yeah, no, I agree, she's I don't think she's
an a hole at all.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Steve, what's up? Am I the a hole? What do
you think? Hold on? Hold on?
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So Bro went over to her house to quote unquote
check if she was okay.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
He'd been wanting to smash for a minute. We absolutely.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Though.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, I know, but he'd been on the sidelines, like
waiting for the time.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
She's vulnerable. I'm almost why.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I gotta be honest with you. I'm not gonna lie.
I think that that's a great move. It's such a
great one. You know what if you're a single guy.
He's a single guy, right, Grace, Yes, okay, So he's
a single guy and you're an attractive woman, Grace, here's
an opportunity.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Why not? You guys are both too grown adults. You
gotta I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
People get back together in the worst of situations, and
a month that's not enough time.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, Amanda, Amanda, you say no loyalty hair right?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
No, she doesn't owe him any loyalty.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
He broke up with her, so at that point it's
a friend that owes him the loyalty because they're still friends.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
She's got his girlfriend no more.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Hey, Grace, I want to know this, and I'm sure
Amanda you want to know too. Do you see yourself
ever doing more than just that one hookup with the
best friend?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I do not, okay, because that would be interesting when it, Amanda,
she gets into a relationship with him.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I mean, I still feel like she wouldn't be an
a whole even if she's into a relationship with them.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yeah, I agree, Chris has a conspiracy behind this whole Thing's.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Hey, what's up everybody?
Speaker 5 (08:11):
First time? Long?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Well, just think about it.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Maybe the acts probably told his friend go ahead and
try to bankr ah.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Oh my god, would that not be amazing?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
You know, maybe he already had something and just totally
you know, a.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Friend probably acting what's up with your act?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Like, go ahead and banker?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
You know, she don't mean nothing to me?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
And are weird?
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I know, keV has.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Heard of that happening. You don't, don't act like you
don't know?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Man, has that happening in your life at all? Any
of your friends?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
And did they tell you to go banger?
Speaker 4 (08:53):
You told them, No, they told me.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
But it's like, you know, it's it's open game right there.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So yeah, right, interesting, No, that's interesting where they conspire
together and say yeah, go ahead, like you know, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
Grace.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Am I the A hole on Mojo in the morning,
and I hope that we got some answers for you,
but you're all clean.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Thank you, Grace. Appreciate you going on with us.
All right, it's Mojo in the morning show. It is
(00:01):
time now for am I the A Hole? You want
to be on with us? Simply go to our iHeartRadio
app where the radio station is hit that talk back
Mike and send us one of these.
Speaker 2 (00:12):
My boyfriend recently broke up with me, and I hooked
up with his best friend the day after.
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Am I the e hole? For that little revenge and
the boyfriend? This is a question, Grace.
Speaker 1 (00:29):
Yeah, I think it's a great question, because your boyfriend
breaks up with you, in you for revenge sleep with
his best buddy as a way to get back in him.
Speaker 3 (00:39):
I don't think there's anything wrong with that. I don't
think you're an a hole. I mean, it wasn't to
get back in him. Actually what he was it?
Speaker 2 (00:48):
Then?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Why'd you do it?
Speaker 2 (00:51):
It just happened organically.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
He reached out to me to see how I was
doing and make sure that I was okay, and one
thing led to another and it just happened.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
It was not intentional, by.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
The way, I don't think, and I know it's this
is am I an a whole? We're talking about Grace only.
But if we were doing am I a hole? And
it was him. He's the a whole the friend. Yeah,
the friend because you have because you have no responsibility
to him. He broke up with you, you're no longer
with him. There's no waiting period. He's the one that
shouldn't be contacting you now. To be honest, have you
(01:25):
all flirted even when you were in a relationship?
Speaker 3 (01:30):
No? Never, has he ever flirted with you?
Speaker 5 (01:32):
Never?
Speaker 3 (01:34):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:35):
Man, Oh no, you just don't up Bay. That guy,
by the way, has had feelings for you for a
long time. First him contacting you makes me realize that
that guy's probably had you on his mind a few times.
Speaker 3 (01:49):
Would you do it again?
Speaker 6 (01:53):
I don't know, I don't.
Speaker 3 (01:54):
I don't think so, that's yes, what are right circumstances?
Was it good? It wasn't bad? Was it your ex
his friend? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (02:12):
Now let's talk about the whole thing. Your ex your ex?
Does he know about this? Does he know that you
banged his best FT buddy? Not to my knowledge? Okay,
so you're not using it as a revenge thing. Then
you're not using it as a way to stick it
back to him?
Speaker 3 (02:30):
No? Are you secretly kind of hoping then he finds
out about it? Though, I honestly don't care if he does.
Speaker 1 (02:38):
Okay, because there's no feelings at all anymore, or no
harsh feelings.
Speaker 3 (02:45):
Those harsh feelings, but I don't care if he finds.
Speaker 5 (02:49):
Out or not.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Uk, Hey, Joey, am I the a hole is Grace
and a whole for sleeping with her ex's best friend.
Joey absolutely absolutely would you do?
Speaker 3 (03:08):
Did you mute your phone by accident with your with
your cheek? Uh?
Speaker 6 (03:13):
No?
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Actually my puppy did it all right? Expand on that one,
Why do you think she's in a hole?
Speaker 2 (03:21):
Because who does that?
Speaker 5 (03:23):
Like?
Speaker 3 (03:23):
I mean, like, I mean, I get it, he.
Speaker 5 (03:29):
Broke up with you, but still I'm sure he still
has some sort of.
Speaker 3 (03:34):
Feelings for you. I doubt that.
Speaker 5 (03:39):
It's just I seem like it. I just seem like
it just seems like a real aole move to me.
Speaker 1 (03:45):
So Grace says, I doubt that because he's the one
that did the breaking up.
Speaker 3 (03:47):
How does he still have feelings? Uh? For her? If
he broke up with her?
Speaker 5 (03:53):
Come on, now, we've all dated a girl or guy
you know, girls here how long ago and what and
you know it's just there's one maybe little thing or
something like that, or maybe they try talking to them
about it. They don't listen, they don't change anything.
Speaker 3 (04:16):
And yeah, how long ago did you break up with him? No,
she broke up, he broke up. Yeah, he broke up
with me. How long ago?
Speaker 2 (04:26):
About a month and a half ago.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
And when you got into the best friend's arms and
other places he got into, what that was less.
Speaker 3 (04:36):
Than twenty four hours? Two?
Speaker 1 (04:38):
Oh, his best friend? I think his best friends more
of the a hole. How long it was less than
twenty four hours?
Speaker 3 (04:45):
Yeah, it was about a day later.
Speaker 1 (04:46):
So you guys talk to each other, decided, hey, let's
get together because he's going to console you. And how
soon after you guys saw each other face to face?
Were you guys naked?
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Hours? He came over to make sure I was okay.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I'm sure he did. I I got a handed. He's
smooth with this one. Now would she be an a
hole if she called her accent told him who's she
an a hole? To him for making him feel bad
or the friend for ratting him out?
Speaker 4 (05:20):
She just looked like a I don't want to say that,
but like you can't call in his face, and you
know what I mean?
Speaker 1 (05:24):
You look crazy at that point, Hey, Derek, what's up
and hold on, hold on, Derek, Grace wants to say something.
What do you want to say, Grace?
Speaker 2 (05:34):
I mean you want to call me a hoe?
Speaker 6 (05:36):
No?
Speaker 3 (05:39):
I mean you did, though. If you're going to say that,
tell him you want a public apology.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
If you called the if you called him and said no, no, no, no, no,
I slept with your.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Best friend, then you would be oh, that's what I
was saying. Say I want a public apology and I
want you to come over and no, no, that would
be bad.
Speaker 3 (06:01):
Derek was up.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Derek, good morning, guys. How's it going good.
Speaker 3 (06:05):
What do you think is Grace and a hole?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
Well, she would be an a hole if she broke
up with him just to sleep with someone, because if
you break up with someone and go asleep with someone
the next day, she would be the a hole. But
in his case, she was vulnerable. So what he's gonna
do is he's gonna take all.
Speaker 6 (06:21):
Those heartfelt strings and tug on him until he gets
what he wants. It's a common thing that happens, and
it shouldn't happen, but men tend to do that to
women that are vulnerable, and he's the a hole.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Yeah, yeah, no, I agree, she's I don't think she's
an a hole at all.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Steve, what's up? Am I the a hole? What do
you think? Hold on? Hold on?
Speaker 1 (06:39):
So Bro went over to her house to quote unquote
check if she was okay.
Speaker 3 (06:46):
He'd been wanting to smash for a minute. We absolutely.
Speaker 1 (06:51):
Though.
Speaker 2 (06:52):
Yeah, I know, but he'd been on the sidelines, like
waiting for the time.
Speaker 3 (06:58):
She's vulnerable. I'm almost why.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
I gotta be honest with you. I'm not gonna lie.
I think that that's a great move. It's such a
great one. You know what if you're a single guy.
He's a single guy, right, Grace, Yes, okay, So he's
a single guy and you're an attractive woman, Grace, here's
an opportunity.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Why not? You guys are both too grown adults. You
gotta I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:22):
People get back together in the worst of situations, and
a month that's not enough time.
Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, Amanda, Amanda, you say no loyalty hair right?
Speaker 3 (07:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:35):
No, she doesn't owe him any loyalty.
Speaker 3 (07:36):
He broke up with her, so at that point it's
a friend that owes him the loyalty because they're still friends.
Speaker 2 (07:41):
She's got his girlfriend no more.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
Hey, Grace, I want to know this, and I'm sure
Amanda you want to know too. Do you see yourself
ever doing more than just that one hookup with the
best friend?
Speaker 5 (07:52):
No?
Speaker 1 (07:52):
I do not, okay, because that would be interesting when it, Amanda,
she gets into a relationship with him.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
I mean, I still feel like she wouldn't be an
a whole even if she's into a relationship with them.
Speaker 1 (08:03):
Yeah, I agree, Chris has a conspiracy behind this whole Thing's.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Hey, what's up everybody?
Speaker 5 (08:11):
First time? Long?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Well, just think about it.
Speaker 4 (08:18):
Maybe the acts probably told his friend go ahead and
try to bankr ah.
Speaker 3 (08:23):
Oh my god, would that not be amazing?
Speaker 4 (08:25):
You know, maybe he already had something and just totally
you know, a.
Speaker 3 (08:29):
Friend probably acting what's up with your act?
Speaker 2 (08:31):
Like, go ahead and banker?
Speaker 4 (08:32):
You know, she don't mean nothing to me?
Speaker 3 (08:34):
And are weird?
Speaker 6 (08:39):
I know, keV has.
Speaker 2 (08:41):
Heard of that happening. You don't, don't act like you
don't know?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
Man, has that happening in your life at all? Any
of your friends?
Speaker 6 (08:49):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:51):
And did they tell you to go banger?
Speaker 4 (08:53):
You told them, No, they told me.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
But it's like, you know, it's it's open game right there.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
So yeah, right, interesting, No, that's interesting where they conspire
together and say yeah, go ahead, like you know, it's okay.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
Grace.
Speaker 1 (09:10):
Am I the A hole on Mojo in the morning,
and I hope that we got some answers for you,
but you're all clean.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Thank you, Grace. Appreciate you going on with us.
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