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Speaker 1 (00:00):
It's Mojo in the Morning show. It is time now
for am I the a Hole? On Mojo in the Morning.
What's the am I the a Hole?
Speaker 2 (00:08):
This week? Hey?
Speaker 3 (00:10):
So I'm going to my girlfriend's Thanksgiving instead of my famili's.
Speaker 4 (00:13):
Does that make me an a hole?
Speaker 1 (00:16):
Is he an a hole for choosing his girlfriend's house
over his I'm assuming parents' house. Is that where it
would have been aiden you would be? Are you you're
not going to Is it a celebration at your mom's
house or dad's house?
Speaker 2 (00:29):
What is it? Just?
Speaker 4 (00:31):
You know, family get together at my mom's house.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
So you're choosing your girlfriend over this?
Speaker 5 (00:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Questions about this girlfriend of yours? Okay, how far does
girlfriend live from where you live? Where do you live?
I live in McCollum, and where does the girlfriend live?
He then in arbor, So oh that's a far. That's
a distance that's over an hour. And how long have
(01:01):
you been dating this girlfriend of yours?
Speaker 4 (01:04):
About two months?
Speaker 1 (01:05):
Oh my gosh, Okay, why are you choosing her? It's
only two months, buddy?
Speaker 4 (01:11):
You know, I just really want to meet her family, So.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
This is the time to do it. You can't meet
her on any other night.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
I mean Thanksgiving. You know everyone's going to be there.
Speaker 6 (01:22):
And you've never spent Thanksgiving away from your your mom,
your family.
Speaker 4 (01:27):
No, this would be the first.
Speaker 2 (01:29):
Have you told them at all that you're even considering it.
Speaker 4 (01:35):
My mom isn't happy about it, So.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
You have told your mom, So your mom is disappointed.
Speaker 4 (01:41):
Yeah, is.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
There a world where, say, for you know, you absolutely
feel like you have to go to Anna Arbor to
be with this girl in her family? Is there any
way that you can do Thanksgiving breakfast with the family
and then go.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
To your I don't think that's the thing.
Speaker 6 (02:02):
I mean, it's an entire day. You could definitely split
up the day.
Speaker 4 (02:08):
I mean, you're just choosing that to.
Speaker 2 (02:15):
Aiden.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
I'm guessing your I'm guessing your young twenties. Right, how
old are you? I'm like twenty four, you're twenty four, Okay,
I'm guessing that you're a guy that you know you
like this girl. You think that this girl is a keeper,
a little attractive girl.
Speaker 4 (02:34):
Well, yeah, I like her a lot.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
Let me tell you something. I'm gonna talk to you
like you're one of my kids. You're going to disappoint
your mom, who's been with you for twenty four fricking
years taking care of your ass, washed your dirty draws,
cooked you countless meals. You've had twenty three Thanksgivings with
(02:57):
her over a piece.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
Of ass that you've known for two minds.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
And I want to say this to you, but I'm talking, yeah, Aiden,
father's talking. You don't know how good of a cook
this mom of this girl is going to be.
Speaker 2 (03:15):
I don't care. He's still about the food. Yeah. And
I got to be honest with you. The first off,
I'm going to say this to you.
Speaker 1 (03:22):
I've got three sons, Aidan, And I don't know if
you know that, but I got three sons. And if
they did this to their mom, and my sons have
chosen to stay with their girlfriends. Uh, Joe did, but
Joe is in another state. If it was in the
same state, I'd beat his ass. I would, I swear
(03:45):
to you. I would, absolutely I would. I would tell
you that you have your priorities in the wrong place, Aidan.
I think that you're you are an ahole. You're worse
than an a whole, You're an effing a hole.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
I want to ask you this question, and you know
Heaven forbid you guys break up. I know you really
like her, but how are you going to feel come
New Year's if you guys are no longer together and
you skipped this family Thanksgiving? It's gonna suck.
Speaker 4 (04:11):
I mean not Yeah, it wasn't feel good, but I'm
in it for the long haul, you know.
Speaker 2 (04:18):
God, Hey, sometimes lissen has got to be learned, man. Yeah, exactly,
learn your lesson.
Speaker 1 (04:23):
Your mom's not inviting you next year when you're not
with this girl, Monique, what'd you want to say?
Speaker 2 (04:27):
Is aiden? Nahole?
Speaker 8 (04:29):
Aiden is an a whole that's going to cause animosity
between a mother and a girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
Yeah, do you think about that? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Yeah, you think your girlfriend's gonna have fun coming over
to your mom's house after persuading you to go to
her family's in arbor house for Thanksgiving? Good luck, my friend.
I agree, Monica, that's a great call. Becky, what do
you think?
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Good morning? All I have to say is quick Field
Terri and the kid. He's had twenty three Thanksgivings with
his mom. Well he can go and have one with
this girl even.
Speaker 4 (05:03):
Though it's been two months.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
Just wait until she grew up and then she becomes
the boy mo. Yeah, well there's a baby involved, and
then she's not involved in anything.
Speaker 2 (05:15):
So I'm waiting really good, by the way, I'm waiting for.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
I was waiting for where you're going with this one, Becky,
And I'm thinking to myself, Becky, you have kids, don't you?
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Yep?
Speaker 5 (05:25):
And I have a twenty four year old and he's
going to his girlfriend.
Speaker 2 (05:30):
And you know what, Becky, he's a little prick too.
You're living there. What are you doing for Thanksgiving?
Speaker 5 (05:38):
I am enjoying it. Kids free. Oh my god, she
pray to do it too.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (05:43):
Nothing yep.
Speaker 2 (05:44):
Man. Yeah, I'm telling you.
Speaker 1 (05:47):
If this was Chelsea, if this was our son that
was on the phone and this was Chelsea here, she
would call up and she would rate this guy for
doing this.
Speaker 2 (05:56):
Ryan, what's going on?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Chelsea called Chelsea and asked Chelsea's thoughts on this one.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Yeah, am I the a hole? What do you think? Ryan?
Speaker 9 (06:04):
Bay?
Speaker 2 (06:04):
Good morning morning?
Speaker 8 (06:05):
Hi?
Speaker 10 (06:08):
Uh first time, long time.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Yeah, Ryan's on the file. Ryan is aiding an a whole.
It's am I the a hole? Right now?
Speaker 10 (06:16):
He is not the a hole. I have a similar
story where I did the same thing. I only knew
this girl for two months and fast forward thirteen years later,
we've been married and have three children.
Speaker 2 (06:27):
Wow.
Speaker 1 (06:28):
Wait, you left your family for a girl two months
into the relationship, just like him, and it worked out.
Speaker 10 (06:35):
It did work out, and we were only an hour
away from my family as well with her family.
Speaker 2 (06:40):
The whole day was your parent? Were your mom like
really upset about this?
Speaker 10 (06:48):
We kind of had a separate Thanksgiving a few weeks later,
kind of like an early Christmas.
Speaker 4 (06:54):
Yeah, that kind of made up for it.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
I guess was she pested though at the time, Like,
was she devastated at the time?
Speaker 10 (07:01):
I don't think so, because all my other siblings were there.
She was able to you know, we planned that we
would meet up in a couple of weeks anyway.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
Yeah, wow, interesting, Well it worked out for you. I
you know, I give your mom a lot of credit
because I think most moms would be hurt by that.
Speaker 2 (07:22):
Kelly, what's up?
Speaker 7 (07:24):
Hi?
Speaker 11 (07:25):
I think that he's not because mom boys like no
sense to mom boys out there, but they're just too
much And it's like, you're twenty four. You can do
whatever you want to do. If you don't set your
stance now in saying what you want to do, then
your mom's just going to control your life and be oh, well,
(07:46):
you know, it's always gonna be his family and you're
always going to want to do his stuff. It's just
set in a stance in your relationship now that I
want to be with you, whether it's two months or not,
I want to be with you. I'm going to spend
time with your family.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
Hey.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
By the way, Aiden lives with his mom, So maybe
mom boy needs to hold on a second real quick.
I'm a mom, boy or a boy.
Speaker 2 (08:09):
Mom is on the phone with us right now. Her
name is Chelsea, she's my wife. What do you think
about that?
Speaker 9 (08:15):
Caller Kelly Kelly said, we need that says it all.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
Say Hi Chelse Kelly.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
Hi.
Speaker 11 (08:24):
You know I'm a mom of both, so I kind
of understand that.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
They're probably young. How old are your kids mine?
Speaker 10 (08:31):
They are little?
Speaker 2 (08:33):
Good luck? All right?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
Let me so let me ask Chelsea. Chelsea, you're on
with Aiden too. He's choosing to not go to mom's
Thanksgiving but choose choosing to go to his girlfriend's Thanksgiving
two months. What do you think about that?
Speaker 9 (08:50):
Aiden?
Speaker 10 (08:51):
Aiden?
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Aiden?
Speaker 9 (08:54):
That is not I don't think I think that that's
awful for your family. But you know what, then we
have to live with our choice and choices always come
back later.
Speaker 1 (09:02):
Really, Okay, what do you think what do you think
the choices are that will come back later on this one?
Speaker 9 (09:06):
I mean I think listen, I think once you are
in an established relationship and it's a full un commitment.
And by the way, i'd love to hear what your
opinion is now, because you're yeah, because you've been very
vocal about stuff lately.
Speaker 1 (09:22):
I my opinion is, my opinion is that it's he
doesn't need to it's two months into it, you know
what I mean, that's my opinion.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
Explain explain what my vocalness has been about.
Speaker 9 (09:34):
Well, because all of a sudden this year when it's
our holidays are very very different. Now, all of a
sudden you come to the realization, like they'll say, well,
I guess we'll never see him again. Our holidays are
always going to be different now, where before you're.
Speaker 2 (09:51):
Like, let them do what they want to do.
Speaker 9 (09:53):
And I think there's just so many years you know
that you have your kids and you can have a
family thinks giving before the dynamic changes, and when the changes,
it changes for two months, come on, yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:04):
Hold on, hold on saying hold on, this is even
better than Chelsea being on the phone. On the phone, Aiden,
you're there.
Speaker 2 (10:11):
Yeah, I'm here, your little bastard.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Hold on a second. The mother of the little bastards
on the phone's mom, Laura, was on.
Speaker 9 (10:20):
Laura, Hi, Mojoe, how are you.
Speaker 2 (10:24):
I'm good, Laura. Say hi to my wife Chelsea.
Speaker 8 (10:28):
Hi, Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
And then you're and say hi to your son Aiden.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
Oh? Aiden?
Speaker 6 (10:36):
Why why are you doing this?
Speaker 8 (10:39):
Why calling up and talking?
Speaker 4 (10:43):
What?
Speaker 3 (10:43):
What?
Speaker 4 (10:44):
What?
Speaker 2 (10:45):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (10:46):
I I don't know. I just need some advice, that's all.
Speaker 8 (10:52):
You're being very disrespectful.
Speaker 4 (10:55):
No, this is ridiculous.
Speaker 2 (10:57):
What what do you How are you feeling about this? Laura?
How are you feeling about aid and not being there
on Thursday?
Speaker 8 (11:03):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Upset?
Speaker 8 (11:05):
I you know what I this is a tradition and
you know all the family will be there, so it's
it is very bothersome.
Speaker 3 (11:12):
And I already told you, Okay, I've been to every
Thanksgiving before.
Speaker 4 (11:19):
This is the only one that I'm gonna miss.
Speaker 8 (11:22):
Okay, yeah, I know, But I think it's you're disrespecting
the rest of the family.
Speaker 5 (11:28):
And why can't you.
Speaker 8 (11:29):
Share the day?
Speaker 4 (11:32):
What do you mean? How am I supposed to share
the day?
Speaker 11 (11:35):
Like?
Speaker 8 (11:35):
What does that mean, well, go to go to her family,
go to you know, have dinner with us, and then
go to her family for dessert or something like that.
Speaker 4 (11:43):
Or it's like over an hour. That doesn't make sense.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
So it's an hour Charles. Should we beat his ass?
Speaker 1 (11:55):
We should we help Laura beat his ass? On Man,
Here's here's the thing, Aidan. Your mom gave birth to you.
How long was labor Laura?
Speaker 8 (12:10):
Oh boy, draft Oh yeah, that's true.
Speaker 2 (12:16):
That's true.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
I mean.
Speaker 1 (12:19):
Your mom, your mom hasn't been the same since she
gave birth to you, your little bastard.
Speaker 8 (12:26):
I was just gonna say that.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Listen. Yeah, go ahead, Aidan.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I'm very grateful for my mom, my family. Okay, but
I just have a feeling about this girl.
Speaker 2 (12:43):
Okay, Mom, have you met the girl?
Speaker 5 (12:46):
Yeah, I have, I have. She's nice.
Speaker 8 (12:49):
But again it's so early in the relationship.
Speaker 2 (12:52):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 4 (12:53):
But okay, but like when you know, you know, oh god,
I think I know you.
Speaker 2 (13:00):
Don't listen, I will say this another show right there.
I will say this to you, Aiden.
Speaker 1 (13:10):
We all have to live with our concent we all,
we all, we all have to deal with the consequences
of our actions. As my wife will say, and I
think you're gonna have to deal with it too. And Mom,
he's no longer the favorite in the family. I guess
after this one.
Speaker 8 (13:26):
The leftovers, Yeah, that's right, that's right, all those favorite
dishes you like me to cook it are not going
to be available.
Speaker 9 (13:34):
And you know what, I'm going to tell you what happens.
Then you get a phone call from the girlfriend asking
for the recipes.
Speaker 2 (13:40):
Tweak, What a good idea.