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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is Mojo in the morning show. You
know we haven't started with Anna and a bit Anna, Rob.
It's good to have you got here with us. Did
you have a good weekend? Did you have a good time?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I had a great weekend.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
But yes, I need help. Oh but okay, all right,
what did you do anything? Do anything fun or exciting?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I did a lot. So Saturday, I had a little
meet day.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I did all of my favorite things, like going to
Eastern Market, my favorite coffee shops. And then yesterday I
volunteered and was just outside watching the Lions for you.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Dope.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah it was cool.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
This was so I volunteered a lot, but this time
it was like in the neighborhood that I live in,
so what was right downtown, So we were passing out
food and I was like passing out food to people
that I see every day walking the streets. So it
was like cool to finally talk to them and hear
a little bit about their story and so.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Good for you. That's awesome. So what was the thing
that you need to help with now?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Yes, okay, So I went out last night to watch
the Lions game and I saw this guy that I
have a huge crush on. I would love us to
have a thing. But here's the catcher. He is really
good friends with somebody that I talked to earlier this year.
So I don't know if this is like a conflict
(01:19):
of interest. I don't think that he knows that me
and his friend talked either.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Just talked, or like did you date for like a
couple of months.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
It was like a casual dating thing for like three months,
Like we went out a couple of times, Like I
would go over to his crib, he would come over
to my apartment, Like I liked his friend, but I
like this other guy more.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
I always wonder, like when Shannon, I'm happy that you
said that just talk? Does just talk and then coming
over to your place mean he's is he touching you?
He was, okay, all right, So because I think that's
where I was wondering, is like just talk or yeah, casual?
Whatever the deal? All right, you guys, if you guys
(02:00):
have if you guys have even kissed, okay, take a side.
If you guys have actually touched each other's naughties, I
think you got to say something like I think if
you kiss his friend, you know what I mean, it's
got to be something that comes up, because otherwise it's
going to come up between the two friends. Is the
(02:21):
guy that that you have a crush on aware that
you have.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
A crush on him, know that that, yeah, you talked
to his friend.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
See, I don't know. I don't think so. I definitely
didn't say anything. He doesn't act like he knows because
the guy that I have a crush on is in
my DMS, like liking all my stuff, hard eyes, So
I feel like he wouldn't be doing that he knew
that I used to talk to us.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I was gonna say, I kind of think this is
more between them, right, But she's got to be the disclosure,
don't you think anything. She's got to say, hey, by
the way, you know we have a mutual friend, or
we have a I think the guy you're interested in,
which is the more recent guy, you should tell him
a by the way, just so you know your friend?
(03:06):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I mean how would I say that, like just so
you know, say it.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Oh, by the way, because you don't want to get
blindsided by that or kiss him and then.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Now they're That's what I'm saying. You don't want to
get blindsided with that information.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And then what would you do though, like, do you
think this guy would that's a turn off.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
It depends on what you did with my friend.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
You know what if I'm or like, you know, my
nephews are now, you know, you know he's going to
be like sloppy seconds.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
You don't want to be the sloppy second.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
So I really picked the wrong one to start.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
You know what. Sometimes they that usually happens, and then
you find and then the one that you then with
end up with second is usually the one they end
up in a longer term relationship with. And that's okay.
I will say, the earlier you tell them, the better.
We have friends that are married to uh. I have
a friend who's married to a twin and dated the
brother first. No, yeah, they dated the brother when they
(04:03):
were in college and out of college, you know, you know,
went their separate ways and then ended up back with
the brother and dated the brother, which, by the way,
definitely made the right choice to go secondary because not
all twins are identical. This guy was my best friend too.
Really yeah, actually she's so my best friend.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Her sister is dating a guy that my friend used
to date, so like her sister's now.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Dating you guys are Caldeans, though that happens all the time.
It's called called being a cal Dean. No, okay, it's
a white friend, so I think it's okay.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
I think she should just do whateverver she wants.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
What's going on, Taylor, Yeah, I definitely think you should
go for it, honestly, because guys are at.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Different than girls. Like I do think you should bring
it up like so that he knows that, like there
was a thing, but at the end of the day,
he'll tell you that he's uncomfortable with it. Most guys aren't.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Really th to like, uncomfortable those things.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I disagree with you. You don't think that most guys
would be uncomfortable with the idea that their friend was
with the girl that now they're starting to talk to.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
But they weren't.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
They were just talking, Yeah, but they were they were
doing more than just talking. It sounds like I don't
know exactly what you extent of it, but I'm telling
you I think that I think most guys at first
would be a little freaked out by the whole thing.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
It depends on the severity of the interaction you had
with my friend and if I really like if if
you are not seeing you, Anna, just speaking in general,
if I'm not viewing this as anything serious, Like if
I'm not trying to date you with intention, then I
don't care what you did with anybody as long as
you do that same thing with me and hopefully even more.
But if you're somebody I'm actually interested in pursuing, then
(05:47):
it'll matter.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Corey. What's up? Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Corey? Love you long time?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Love you too.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
I was just I called him last week and was
talking about how.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Anna needed some guidance, Like if this was happening reverse.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
And it was like one of her friends and whatever
it may be, it would be totally she'd be upset.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
So like, you gotta let this guy know.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
What do you think about that? Anna? If you put
the shoe on the other foot?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
I do.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I think it's different for girls. I mean I personally would.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Also.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I wonder like, is it my place to tell him
or should this be a conversation between him and his friend.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You're afraid that if you tell him it ruins the mood?
Aren't You got a little bit?
Speaker 6 (06:35):
But you should tell him or it's like you're keeping
a secret.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
It's not that serious between me and this guy. Like,
I don't even know if I should pursue it, like,
pursue it because I'm wondering if this will be problematic.
Maybe I'll just leave him a.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
No, I think you pursue I think I think you're problematic. Well, Corey,
you're very optimistic, man. I can tell you you're kind
of You're kind of a glass is half empty kind
of guy, aren't you.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Uh not really, I'm just trying to help guide this
young woman.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Okay, all right, Well, thanks for looking out for Anna.
We appreciate it. But I think you shouldn't give up
on it. But I think that it's just a quick
little Hey, by the way, we have mutual friend Well,
after I.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Heard Kevin talk about his little how he feels about it,
now I'm rethinking of like, I don't think he'll ever
take me seriously.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Now, Yeah, because here's the deal. As a guy, if
I knew that, and I'm going to go right for it.
But if I knew that the girl was having sex
with a buddy of mine, I think the whole time
that we were together, I'd be thinking, oh my god,
she Yeah. Yeah, like I would be thinking about that
kissing is you know whatever or pursuing and stuff like that.
But if all of a sudden like, okay, he's going
(07:45):
to forever have that on me? What's up? Justin?
Speaker 6 (07:49):
Hey, good morning, guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
How you doing? Are you a little bit more of
a hopeful person here than Corey was that we just
talked to.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
So here's my theory. I think the guy knows maybe
they talked and they said, oh yeah, and that's why
he's in her DMS and stuff like in all these
pictures and stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Right, you know what this is? This is uh, this
is kind of a Yelp review of dating all right, Honestly,
can I tell you something that there have been a
lot of times as a guy where you saw your
friends dating a girl and you're like, why are they
with them? And you would look at them in a
totally different light like I would like I would see
guys sometimes with with girls and I go, he's definitely
(08:30):
not right. But then it's you know, people like word
of mouth. Right, you go, right, you go to your
you know, favorite restaurant because somebody said, hey, this place
was great. I mean, how many times have we had
that happen where you go see a movie because somebody
said that movie was great. They're saying, Anna Rob is
great right justin so I don't like that's like.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I'm a good or service. That's being harder.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Do you remember when you remember in high school? Honestly,
in high schoo you used to date the girls or
the guys that usually other people would date, and you
would hear a story. I remember when my son Joe
was in high school, it felt like everybody was kind
of like every member of the friend group dated every
member of the boyfriend group. Especially he went to a
(09:16):
small high school, so it was kind of a you know,
there was only limited guys and girls in the entire school,
and it was wild. You'd be like at homecoming pictures,
No you're not, Morris, Maurice. I will be with you
in one second. I remember you go to homecoming pictures
and You're like, this is so weird. That was Joe's
homecoming date last year, Maurice. Now, I'll talk to you, hi, Maurice.
Speaker 6 (09:35):
How you doing, Hey, man, I'm good about to man. Good.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
I appreciate you asking that because sometimes I'll pick up
phone lines and people would just keep They'll be having
their own conversations.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Man. I was confused because I was like, why am
I hearing people right now.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
This conversation. Well, we do have we have like a
whole thing where you can listen to us on hold
so that you don't you know, when we tell you
to turn your radio down, you at least know what's
going on.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
But now I'm excited to hear what he has to say. Yeah,
what's the story?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
No, man, I'm saying this from experience, and I'm gonna
be honest messing with Like, you know, I've had friends
who who dated women. In fact, I bought my home
with a woman who I didn't know at the time,
but her two kids is by a man who she's
actually the third woman in common that I've had with
this man in passing through.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
Well, in a small town, you know that'll happen sometimes,
and when you know, they're gonna do what they do.
So the thing is is for me, if I have
a friend, if a woman says, hey, I mess with
your friend before you know, and it was all of that,
like she's going to his house, he going to her house.
He's probably gonna tell me no matter what she wants
(10:49):
to believe, at some point when she tells me, I'm
gonna say something to him and he's gonna give me
all the details. It's gonna be hard in the long
run to have a serious relationship with her. So it
depends on what she wants and what what she trying
to do. Like if she's trying to just have is
she trying to just talk and you're.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Gonna come over?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
That's what I say.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah, but we're not.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
We're not. We're not gonna be posting each other. You know,
that's not happening. But and that and that's real, you know.
So I would say, if you're gonna pursue him, to
do it with reservation, like, understand that that this man,
even if he do act like he want to have
a relationship with you, once he's smashed, he might just
get weird with you, because that's that's just what happens,
(11:34):
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
So but I think you have to say something before
you smash. If you say something after the fact, I
think that that's where it. We'll get that.
Speaker 6 (11:43):
Yeah, yeah, but most guys don't. I got to say,
like me, honestly myself, like when I felt that way,
I've had times in my life with women where I
looked out the corner of my like uh with the
like I already made my mind up, like after today,
I am not talking to her now. Wow. So sometimes yeah,
you you have time.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Men do that? Hey, hold on a second, Amy Amy
wants to say something more recent. I want you to
hear this. Amy says that Anna's got to beware.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Why ain't Amy, Anna don't be a homie happer girl?
Speaker 6 (12:15):
All right, They're.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Just gonna talk about you without you knowing, And that's
just so awkward like that.
Speaker 6 (12:22):
I feel like that's what would happened, Like if you
are last one and you go smash.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
The other, They're gonna converse without you.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Knowing because that guy probably already knows, to be honest
with you, he probably already knows what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yeah you.
Speaker 6 (12:39):
Yeah, that's why he in the DM. Like I've literally
I've literally pursued a woman because of what I was
told about it and then vice versa to me because
of something someone said, well.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
That's good, that's good then for and gets ye, this
is what I'm that's good. Else women do it too.
Speaker 6 (13:02):
I like, why say Anna, why say Anna you too
pretty for this? Or or something about men? When it's
really like what if what if he's just what if
he has standards that is too high to date a
woman that had his friend, who's willing to date two friends.
You gotta understand. Look at it like this, She openly
knows I slept with your man.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Yeah, but I date you too, and.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
I want you to be comfortable with that. Let's be
fair in the situation now.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
Otherwise, as Amy says, a homie hopper right there.
Speaker 6 (13:29):
So
All right, it is Mojo in the morning show. You
know we haven't started with Anna and a bit Anna, Rob.
It's good to have you got here with us. Did
you have a good weekend? Did you have a good time?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I had a great weekend.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
But yes, I need help. Oh but okay, all right,
what did you do anything? Do anything fun or exciting?
Speaker 2 (00:19):
I did a lot. So Saturday, I had a little
meet day.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
I did all of my favorite things, like going to
Eastern Market, my favorite coffee shops. And then yesterday I
volunteered and was just outside watching the Lions for you.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Dope.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Yeah it was cool.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
This was so I volunteered a lot, but this time
it was like in the neighborhood that I live in,
so what was right downtown, So we were passing out
food and I was like passing out food to people
that I see every day walking the streets. So it
was like cool to finally talk to them and hear
a little bit about their story and so.
Speaker 1 (00:52):
Good for you. That's awesome. So what was the thing
that you need to help with now?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Yes, okay, So I went out last night to watch
the Lions game and I saw this guy that I
have a huge crush on. I would love us to
have a thing. But here's the catcher. He is really
good friends with somebody that I talked to earlier this year.
So I don't know if this is like a conflict
(01:19):
of interest. I don't think that he knows that me
and his friend talked either.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Just talked, or like did you date for like a
couple of months.
Speaker 3 (01:27):
It was like a casual dating thing for like three months,
Like we went out a couple of times, Like I
would go over to his crib, he would come over
to my apartment, Like I liked his friend, but I
like this other guy more.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
I always wonder, like when Shannon, I'm happy that you
said that just talk? Does just talk and then coming
over to your place mean he's is he touching you?
He was, okay, all right, So because I think that's
where I was wondering, is like just talk or yeah, casual?
Whatever the deal? All right, you guys, if you guys
(02:00):
have if you guys have even kissed, okay, take a side.
If you guys have actually touched each other's naughties, I
think you got to say something like I think if
you kiss his friend, you know what I mean, it's
got to be something that comes up, because otherwise it's
going to come up between the two friends. Is the
(02:21):
guy that that you have a crush on aware that
you have.
Speaker 4 (02:25):
A crush on him, know that that, yeah, you talked
to his friend.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
See, I don't know. I don't think so. I definitely
didn't say anything. He doesn't act like he knows because
the guy that I have a crush on is in
my DMS, like liking all my stuff, hard eyes, So
I feel like he wouldn't be doing that he knew
that I used to talk to us.
Speaker 1 (02:44):
I was gonna say, I kind of think this is
more between them, right, But she's got to be the disclosure,
don't you think anything. She's got to say, hey, by
the way, you know we have a mutual friend, or
we have a I think the guy you're interested in,
which is the more recent guy, you should tell him
a by the way, just so you know your friend?
(03:06):
Yeah for sure.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I mean how would I say that, like just so
you know, say it.
Speaker 5 (03:10):
Oh, by the way, because you don't want to get
blindsided by that or kiss him and then.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Now they're That's what I'm saying. You don't want to
get blindsided with that information.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
And then what would you do though, like, do you
think this guy would that's a turn off.
Speaker 1 (03:24):
It depends on what you did with my friend.
Speaker 5 (03:27):
You know what if I'm or like, you know, my
nephews are now, you know, you know he's going to
be like sloppy seconds.
Speaker 1 (03:35):
You don't want to be the sloppy second.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
So I really picked the wrong one to start.
Speaker 1 (03:38):
You know what. Sometimes they that usually happens, and then
you find and then the one that you then with
end up with second is usually the one they end
up in a longer term relationship with. And that's okay.
I will say, the earlier you tell them, the better.
We have friends that are married to uh. I have
a friend who's married to a twin and dated the
brother first. No, yeah, they dated the brother when they
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were in college and out of college, you know, you know,
went their separate ways and then ended up back with
the brother and dated the brother, which, by the way,
definitely made the right choice to go secondary because not
all twins are identical. This guy was my best friend too.
Really yeah, actually she's so my best friend.
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Her sister is dating a guy that my friend used
to date, so like her sister's now.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
Dating you guys are Caldeans, though that happens all the time.
It's called called being a cal Dean. No, okay, it's
a white friend, so I think it's okay.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
I think she should just do whateverver she wants.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
What's going on, Taylor, Yeah, I definitely think you should
go for it, honestly, because guys are at.
Speaker 5 (04:49):
Different than girls. Like I do think you should bring
it up like so that he knows that, like there
was a thing, but at the end of the day,
he'll tell you that he's uncomfortable with it. Most guys aren't.
Speaker 3 (04:59):
Really th to like, uncomfortable those things.
Speaker 1 (05:03):
I disagree with you. You don't think that most guys
would be uncomfortable with the idea that their friend was
with the girl that now they're starting to talk to.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
But they weren't.
Speaker 1 (05:15):
They were just talking, Yeah, but they were they were
doing more than just talking. It sounds like I don't
know exactly what you extent of it, but I'm telling
you I think that I think most guys at first
would be a little freaked out by the whole thing.
Speaker 5 (05:27):
It depends on the severity of the interaction you had
with my friend and if I really like if if
you are not seeing you, Anna, just speaking in general,
if I'm not viewing this as anything serious, Like if
I'm not trying to date you with intention, then I
don't care what you did with anybody as long as
you do that same thing with me and hopefully even more.
But if you're somebody I'm actually interested in pursuing, then
(05:47):
it'll matter.
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Corey. What's up? Hi?
Speaker 6 (05:52):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (05:53):
Corey? Love you long time?
Speaker 4 (05:59):
Love you too.
Speaker 6 (06:00):
I was just I called him last week and was
talking about how.
Speaker 5 (06:03):
Anna needed some guidance, Like if this was happening reverse.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
And it was like one of her friends and whatever
it may be, it would be totally she'd be upset.
Speaker 6 (06:13):
So like, you gotta let this guy know.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
What do you think about that? Anna? If you put
the shoe on the other foot?
Speaker 6 (06:19):
I do.
Speaker 3 (06:20):
I think it's different for girls. I mean I personally would.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
Also.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
I wonder like, is it my place to tell him
or should this be a conversation between him and his friend.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
You're afraid that if you tell him it ruins the mood?
Aren't You got a little bit?
Speaker 6 (06:35):
But you should tell him or it's like you're keeping
a secret.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
It's not that serious between me and this guy. Like,
I don't even know if I should pursue it, like,
pursue it because I'm wondering if this will be problematic.
Maybe I'll just leave him a.
Speaker 1 (06:47):
No, I think you pursue I think I think you're problematic. Well, Corey,
you're very optimistic, man. I can tell you you're kind
of You're kind of a glass is half empty kind
of guy, aren't you.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Uh not really, I'm just trying to help guide this
young woman.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Okay, all right, Well, thanks for looking out for Anna.
We appreciate it. But I think you shouldn't give up
on it. But I think that it's just a quick
little Hey, by the way, we have mutual friend Well,
after I.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
Heard Kevin talk about his little how he feels about it,
now I'm rethinking of like, I don't think he'll ever
take me seriously.
Speaker 1 (07:24):
Now, Yeah, because here's the deal. As a guy, if
I knew that, and I'm going to go right for it.
But if I knew that the girl was having sex
with a buddy of mine, I think the whole time
that we were together, I'd be thinking, oh my god,
she Yeah. Yeah, like I would be thinking about that
kissing is you know whatever or pursuing and stuff like that.
But if all of a sudden like, okay, he's going
(07:45):
to forever have that on me? What's up? Justin?
Speaker 6 (07:49):
Hey, good morning, guys, good morning.
Speaker 1 (07:51):
How you doing? Are you a little bit more of
a hopeful person here than Corey was that we just
talked to.
Speaker 6 (07:58):
So here's my theory. I think the guy knows maybe
they talked and they said, oh yeah, and that's why
he's in her DMS and stuff like in all these
pictures and stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Right, you know what this is? This is uh, this
is kind of a Yelp review of dating all right, Honestly,
can I tell you something that there have been a
lot of times as a guy where you saw your
friends dating a girl and you're like, why are they
with them? And you would look at them in a
totally different light like I would like I would see
guys sometimes with with girls and I go, he's definitely
(08:30):
not right. But then it's you know, people like word
of mouth. Right, you go, right, you go to your
you know, favorite restaurant because somebody said, hey, this place
was great. I mean, how many times have we had
that happen where you go see a movie because somebody
said that movie was great. They're saying, Anna Rob is
great right justin so I don't like that's like.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
I'm a good or service. That's being harder.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Do you remember when you remember in high school? Honestly,
in high schoo you used to date the girls or
the guys that usually other people would date, and you
would hear a story. I remember when my son Joe
was in high school, it felt like everybody was kind
of like every member of the friend group dated every
member of the boyfriend group. Especially he went to a
(09:16):
small high school, so it was kind of a you know,
there was only limited guys and girls in the entire school,
and it was wild. You'd be like at homecoming pictures,
No you're not, Morris, Maurice. I will be with you
in one second. I remember you go to homecoming pictures
and You're like, this is so weird. That was Joe's
homecoming date last year, Maurice. Now, I'll talk to you, hi, Maurice.
Speaker 6 (09:35):
How you doing, Hey, man, I'm good about to man. Good.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
I appreciate you asking that because sometimes I'll pick up
phone lines and people would just keep They'll be having
their own conversations.
Speaker 6 (09:46):
Man. I was confused because I was like, why am
I hearing people right now.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
This conversation. Well, we do have we have like a
whole thing where you can listen to us on hold
so that you don't you know, when we tell you
to turn your radio down, you at least know what's
going on.
Speaker 5 (10:00):
But now I'm excited to hear what he has to say. Yeah,
what's the story?
Speaker 6 (10:04):
No, man, I'm saying this from experience, and I'm gonna
be honest messing with Like, you know, I've had friends
who who dated women. In fact, I bought my home
with a woman who I didn't know at the time,
but her two kids is by a man who she's
actually the third woman in common that I've had with
this man in passing through.
Speaker 1 (10:26):
Wow.
Speaker 6 (10:27):
Well, in a small town, you know that'll happen sometimes,
and when you know, they're gonna do what they do.
So the thing is is for me, if I have
a friend, if a woman says, hey, I mess with
your friend before you know, and it was all of that,
like she's going to his house, he going to her house.
He's probably gonna tell me no matter what she wants
(10:49):
to believe, at some point when she tells me, I'm
gonna say something to him and he's gonna give me
all the details. It's gonna be hard in the long
run to have a serious relationship with her. So it
depends on what she wants and what what she trying
to do. Like if she's trying to just have is
she trying to just talk and you're.
Speaker 1 (11:07):
Gonna come over?
Speaker 2 (11:09):
That's what I say.
Speaker 1 (11:11):
Yeah, but we're not.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
We're not. We're not gonna be posting each other. You know,
that's not happening. But and that and that's real, you know.
So I would say, if you're gonna pursue him, to
do it with reservation, like, understand that that this man,
even if he do act like he want to have
a relationship with you, once he's smashed, he might just
get weird with you, because that's that's just what happens,
(11:34):
you know.
Speaker 1 (11:35):
So but I think you have to say something before
you smash. If you say something after the fact, I
think that that's where it. We'll get that.
Speaker 6 (11:43):
Yeah, yeah, but most guys don't. I got to say,
like me, honestly myself, like when I felt that way,
I've had times in my life with women where I
looked out the corner of my like uh with the
like I already made my mind up, like after today,
I am not talking to her now. Wow. So sometimes yeah,
you you have time.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
Men do that? Hey, hold on a second, Amy Amy
wants to say something more recent. I want you to
hear this. Amy says that Anna's got to beware.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Why ain't Amy, Anna don't be a homie happer girl?
Speaker 6 (12:15):
All right, They're.
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Just gonna talk about you without you knowing, And that's
just so awkward like that.
Speaker 6 (12:22):
I feel like that's what would happened, Like if you
are last one and you go smash.
Speaker 5 (12:27):
The other, They're gonna converse without you.
Speaker 3 (12:29):
Knowing because that guy probably already knows, to be honest
with you, he probably already knows what he's doing.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
Yeah you.
Speaker 6 (12:39):
Yeah, that's why he in the DM. Like I've literally
I've literally pursued a woman because of what I was
told about it and then vice versa to me because
of something someone said, well.
Speaker 4 (12:51):
That's good, that's good then for and gets ye, this
is what I'm that's good. Else women do it too.
Speaker 6 (13:02):
I like, why say Anna, why say Anna you too
pretty for this? Or or something about men? When it's
really like what if what if he's just what if
he has standards that is too high to date a
woman that had his friend, who's willing to date two friends.
You gotta understand. Look at it like this, She openly
knows I slept with your man.
Speaker 1 (13:21):
Yeah, but I date you too, and.
Speaker 6 (13:23):
I want you to be comfortable with that. Let's be
fair in the situation now.
Speaker 1 (13:26):
Otherwise, as Amy says, a homie hopper right there.
Speaker 6 (13:29):
So
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