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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Bianca from our show is meeting the parents.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I know this is like the scariest moment of my life.
I'm very nervous.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
We're going to do it. An update tomorrow after she
goes out with the parents because she's meeting her boyfriend
his mom and dad.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well, actually I can't call him boyfriend. I have to
call him man friend.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Wait, wait, what do you mean man friend?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
So I talked to the mom yesterday to kind of
get a little little nerve relaxation.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And wait, hold on, explain this. Wait what did you do?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I talked to his mom yesterday about tonight because I'm
meeting them tonight. So yesterday she kind of gave me
a rundown of what's going to be going on.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Did you do that on your own or did your
boyfriend say man friend? Ma?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Friend? He called his mom and was like, hey.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Do you want to talk to Bianca before you guys
get together?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yes, just to kind of ease a so that you.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
At least is not going in cold. Yes. In wait,
she said something about calling him a man friend. I've
never heard of man friend before.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, she gave me a little rundown of rules. I
cannot call him boyfriend. So we are a lady friend
man friend. But if we meet anyone out there, So
we're going to the Rochester Lights, there's going to be
some media people there were we're either just friends or
I'm out there getting social media from Mojo other morning.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Oh my god, she does not like you that I
want to talk to.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
No, I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, No, I think she likes me, But I think we're
not official enough yet to the point where I should
be telling everyone and all of the family and everyone
that they know that we're like dating.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Why does she think that she gets to decide that. Well,
I think the.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Relationship with you, my moms, I still do not mess around.
But I have to pass a test first. So tonight
we're I'm gonna have a test. She's gonna ask me
a whole bunch of questions. Apparently I'm going to get
really interrogated, harder than the real estate exam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
And I hope I passed this test. I don't know
what's going on. Are you sure you want to be
in this family? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I love the All right, what is this test about?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
You know anything on this test?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
No? But I just know that my man said, I
should be scared that's all I know.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
He did.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Uh huh. He told me I should be scared. I
should be a little worried.
Speaker 6 (02:05):
Has she done this to a previous no friend of his.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
The first girls he's ever brought home to his family.
It's making so I think. I think the parents are overprotected.
They want to make sure their sons in good hands.
And honestly, this is my dad. My dad would probably
do the same thing.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
Are My anxiety would be through the roof right now.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I'm a little dirvous, but I feel like I've never
met a family or anyone else that did.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Not like me.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Are very Are you bringing a family like well, your daddy. No,
it's just you. You're going in unprotected. Yes, because you
know what, I actually think that this is actually this
is good, because I do agree with what you said,
your assessment of there are not many people. I don't
think I know any that do not like Bianca. Bianca
(02:54):
is not like not like. Bianca is very She's very engaging,
She's got a great personality. I would probably pull back
a little bit because I think sometimes sometimes I think
your nervous energy sometimes might be a little too much,
and I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Talk too much, and you don't drink tonight.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I know I'm not okay. I don't think I should
never drink in front of their family.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Ever, he can't drink, so that would be bad.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Can we ask the listeners advice and things that maybe
you did or didn't do right that could actually tell
Bianca what she should do when she goes and meets
the family for the first time tonight? What do you?
What do you call her like? When you meet her?
Speaker 7 (03:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
What do you how do you acknowledge her?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
She said, I call her by her first name. The
dad I call him by his last name.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
I would call both of them mister and miss.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I was calling the mom by the last name, and
she said, you could just call me by the first name.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Can I tell you something I think out of respect
I would continue to do really, yeah, because I think
it shows respect to them. And I think that honestly,
I think that it's It's one of those things where
you're if you don't want it to be, you can
she's that could be a test that she's given you,
and the test the test could be let's let's see
how comfortable she really feels? No, and then what let
(04:10):
me tell you. I know kel Dean's okay, And I
know Keldyan moms and anybody that is listening right now,
that's kel Dean, one of my Caldan friends. You tell
me that that you agree or disagree on this one.
You don't want to do the whole I'm gonna call her,
you know, say her name is Marcella or whatever, you
know what I mean, Hey, Marcella, what's going on? Marcel
And I's going and people are going to be around her, going. Boy,
that young girl feels like she's you know, yeah, you're right.
(04:33):
I think you call her mister. You call them mister
and missus. And I think, honestly, I think that you
just lay low and you let things kind of develop.
And and I think, first off, I know them. I know,
I know your boyfriend's dad more than that's going to
be a bad thing. But also the other thing too,
is his wife is wonderful. Okay, So Bryce's mom isendmine.
(05:00):
His mom is a wonderful lady. She's a beautiful lady. Yes,
I do think she's a little intimidating for me even Okay,
So I think you gotta like play cool.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yeah, I was like going to the mall looking for
outfits I'm like stressing out.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I just want to make sure.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
What are you going to bring? I feel like you
have to bring something.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I already got that planned out.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I'm probably gonna get like a bokay of flowers, do
nothing bunk cakes.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
She's gluten free, so gluten free nothing bunk cakes.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I know they like the Sanders chocolates, so I was
gonna get them a little bag of that, And then
I was just I was gonna get her a bottle
of wine.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
But then I don't want her to think.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I'm like, that's crazy, y'all gonna be outside, right, Yeah,
but I want.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
To dinner first. Interrogation's happening, so.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I wouldn't get anything big that I got to carry
around her whole either though.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, you know, I'm I was thinking maybe I could
drop it off at his house before we go, or
just bring like the desserts to dinner.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Are you going to meet them at the house and
then all you guys are going on.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
She told me that he's to talk to the husband
and see if the husband will allow me to go
to their house first.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Oh, man, him this whole thing. I do have to
tell you that this is so funny. Because it brings
back memories of going to see my wife, Chelsea's dad
and mom for the first time. And Chelsea gave me
all these fore warnings of what to do and what
not to do. Has your boyfriend man friend given you
four warnings?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
He just told me to act normal. I asked them.
He said, don't talk too much. He said, I'm a
little loud.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
So Chelsea told me don't talk too much to her dad. Really,
just don't talk too much. So I literally sat there
and her dad thought I was like a deaf. Yeah,
and he and the wildest is I wasn't prepared for
some of the questioning because he gave me all these questionings,
you know, like the mom was great, Like there's always
I believe one parent that's easier to talk to than
(06:48):
the other parent, And now it's actually the reversal of that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
He told me, I have to prepare how to tell
them how much I'm gonna love their son and how
much I'm going to take care of her son. And
he said they might even bring up like past boyfriends
of mine.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
And this is literally the parents about to meet Robert Demiro.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I asked the mom yesterday, I said, could I end
you on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I think it'd be super cool to have you on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
She said, You're not allowed to add me until I
know I liked you after tonight, I would not add joking.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I take it the vibe. I don't know her like that.
I just met her on the phone.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
I know what I would not add.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I would not add them, do any social media with them.
You stay away from that until you know it's a relationship. Sarah.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Right now, Hi, how is everybody doing.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
We're doing good. Bianca is going to be meeting the parents.
Speaker 8 (07:40):
Yes, So my advice, Bianca, remember when you did the
family vacation with your friends.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Mom was kind of upset because you.
Speaker 8 (07:48):
Were shaking your booty a little too much.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
My advice is keep it contained.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
You behave yourself.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
So that's not ever coming out, and make sure you
wear something that doesn't, you know, show your booze.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Oh yeah, no, no, I have I'm wearing a turtleneck dress, coat, jeans,
but okay, it's yesterday.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Yes, that's good. None. I think it's funny though, that
they told you don't introduce yourself as their sons.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, he said, she said, I'm just I don't want
to be mean, but no one knows, and no one
should know that you guys are talking or dating yet,
so you guys are friends?
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I said, Okay, I'm I'm media trained.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I'm not going to tell everyone you doing social media
on the morning.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Mike Morning, how you guys doing good? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Hey? All I gotta say is if you're getting told
all this stuff, and if you can't be yourself and
he's not meant to be, just go be yourself, have fun,
don't change for nobody.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
And that honestly is the same. But you don't know, Bianca.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
No, I'm a little wild, like even my parents don't
like me at times.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
That's fine, but eventually you will be yourself. Well, it's
truth in there.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Though the first time meeting them I should be a
little too, you know what I'm saying, because if if
he had my personality you met my parents for the
first time, they would.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Not like him.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
How are you really nervous? You seem nervous, But I'm
so scared. I am so scared.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I never ever had a boyfriend where I met the
parents at a restaurant ever, never had anything like that.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah, I think you're gonna do great, I really do.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
And I feel like you've talked to the mom.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
You've talked to both of the parents on the phone
several times already, right.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
To the Pistons game, so you've kind of.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Already been introduced to them all little like they know
your personality.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Talked to the mom.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Though, Yeah, I think it's being in a restaurant setting.
Tho it's kind of formal, that's nervous.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Seven three four says, take a page from Kevin and
bring her grapes.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Actually candy grapes.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
At least you got witnesses and round so she can't
kill you.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
The other thing, too, is it's funny. I met Chelsea
for the first time, and I was we were eating
and her mom made lasagna, which you knew especial because
if mom made lasanni, that man she liked you or
was preparing to like you. And all I remember the
whole time was I was so afraid to eat too
much money, you know how I am. And so I'm
like eating like that ever, and Chelsea looks over he goes,
you can eat like you normally eat.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
I'm like, so I will say this, though, the only
bad experience I had was one time, and the only
reason it really mattered. Is because some children listen to
their parents more than they listen to themselves, and they'll
allow their parents to make every decision they like, especially
their relationships. And I remember this girl came over to
my house and her mom had to come pick her
up or something or something had happened, and this was
(10:45):
my first time meeting her mom. It's winter, it's cold
as hell outside. I got my jacket on, got my
hat on, and when I went up to the car,
I introduced myself. I'm like, hey, you know so on
so nice to meet you, and can no d She
told me the next day, my mom hated her mom
hated me because I didn't take my hat off, and
like taking my head off is like I understand it.
If I'm in size outside is called I'm like, bro,
(11:05):
you want me to take it off?
Speaker 1 (11:06):
It's smelling all side wear hat? You should do something.
You hear story, what's going on? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
It's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Courtney High, Hi, good morning morning.
Speaker 8 (11:22):
I think Bianca will kill it with his parents, But
I also think, like, first off, are you at all
concerned that like the mother, like if it's progresses that
like your mother in law would potential mother in law
would be crazy like forever.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
No, she seems very nice, like she raised great kids,
so I'm not worried about her. She seems cool, like
I think her and my mom would be great friends.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
You know, just interesting. I think that that in her
culture too, the moms play such a huge role. They're
pivotal in this one.
Speaker 8 (11:52):
So no, I think you're going to kill it, but
just don't. I know, you're like crazy and like have
so much fun, but don't yourself too much because that's
what makes you great. And yeah, yeah, but you're so
fun and loving and uh and.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
Just like you're so you're so great.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
How could her mom or his mom not listen to
the show and listen to listeners like Courtney talking about
how awesome you are and have that as a because then.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
They hear how crazy I am, how Mexico And then they're.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Like, oh, I don't know all that.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
What's up, Jeff? Now, how you do good? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Well not, but to.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Uh to the situation on hand, I would uh say,
don't be someone you're not.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You don't be who you.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Are because that's who you're They're gonna see you act
as somebody else in the beginning, that's what they're gonna see.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
You're not like you know, so I would.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Just uh, yeah, no, I'll be myself. But I'm obviously
not as crazy as I used to be. Okay, So
it's guys.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
I think we all though we all you know, do
a piece of this in parts of our life, interviewing
for Josh, even first dates. On first dates, we aren't
usually who we are, and then meeting the parents is
very similar to that one too. I think we try
to like shine ourselves up a little bit and then
we get comfortable. And then once we get comfort, you
(13:17):
don't want to be too comfortable. Because I hate to
say this, and everybody's like, you be yourself, be comfortable.
You become too comfortable, and they're going to say this
girl honestly has no sense of a fear, and I
think you have to have a little sense of respective fear.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, no, I think it's gonna be okay. I've been
like situations meeting people for the first time, nervous things
like that, but I've never been it for a relationship standard,
which is gonna be a little weird.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
But I just pray everything goes good.
Speaker 6 (13:45):
I Also, I think you need to really notice how
your man friend is around you, with his parents around us.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
That's interesting, that's going to be super telling.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Yeah, what's some ray of flags that she should potentially
look out for?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
I just think that you want to make sure that
he I think, is himself and like you, you want
to be with somebody that's going to put his foot
down for you. And I feel like you can tell
that right from the get go.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Can I ask you this without having revealed too much?
But I'm sure I think I know the answer. That's
why I'm asking you this. What does he say about
his parents? Like? What? What? What level of uh? You know,
Like when you have a conversation you say, hey, tell
me about your mom, telling me about your dad? What
does he say about each of them?
Speaker 2 (14:31):
He says he really loves them, like he never says
anything better about them.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
His dad's like his inspiration. He wants to be like
his dad.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
I love that. That's huge.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
He's really big and his family's always take care of
his grandparents and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
So and how does he speak of his mom?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Very well, very highly of both the same way I
do with my parents. I speak telling of Miso good.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
That's also very telling you.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I see a lot of my parents and his parents,
so I think it's I think it's okay.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
So the thing with Bianca that sold me on her
years ago, like when I first got a chance to
meet her, was when I first started getting a chance
to meet her, I saw her hard work. That was
one of the first things I saw. It was she
would do things that you would have to ask other
people to do, and they would even not want to do,
you know, some of the work that she would do.
And then when I heard stories of her with her family,
to know that her dad owns a store, and so
(15:15):
that her dad could be home resting because she thought
he was working too much. She would go in and
surprise him and say, I'm going to take I'm gonna
work this weekend for you and let like to me
like I saw that, Like that's the stuff that you
got to let them know about you, because to me,
as a dad of kids, like if my son brought
home Bianca, I would go, you did well, kid, you know,
(15:37):
I'm proud of you.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I let a lot of people see the crazy side
of me, like on the show and on the air,
on social media and stuff, and obviously because I'm trying
to entertain. But I have a good heart, and I
am a good kid, and I have good morals and standards,
so hopefully they see that part too.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, don't polish yourself up to be you know, not
too crazy, but be yourself and let her know the
true great side of you. Okay, you're gonna doos alright, Maha,
be beat Okay, have no idea what you don't want
to know? Caldeans and then you.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Don't know that.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Okay, No, but I do know who has the best doma.
You know who it is? Lydia mama her man friend's mom.
Bianca from our show is meeting the parents.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
I know this is like the scariest moment of my life.
I'm very nervous.
Speaker 1 (00:09):
We're going to do it. An update tomorrow after she
goes out with the parents because she's meeting her boyfriend
his mom and dad.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Well, actually I can't call him boyfriend. I have to
call him man friend.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Wait, wait, what do you mean man friend?
Speaker 2 (00:24):
So I talked to the mom yesterday to kind of
get a little little nerve relaxation.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
And wait, hold on, explain this. Wait what did you do?
Speaker 2 (00:33):
I talked to his mom yesterday about tonight because I'm
meeting them tonight. So yesterday she kind of gave me
a rundown of what's going to be going on.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
Did you do that on your own or did your
boyfriend say man friend? Ma?
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Friend? He called his mom and was like, hey.
Speaker 1 (00:46):
Do you want to talk to Bianca before you guys
get together?
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Yes, just to kind of ease a so that you.
Speaker 1 (00:51):
At least is not going in cold. Yes. In wait,
she said something about calling him a man friend. I've
never heard of man friend before.
Speaker 2 (00:57):
Yeah, she gave me a little rundown of rules. I
cannot call him boyfriend. So we are a lady friend
man friend. But if we meet anyone out there, So
we're going to the Rochester Lights, there's going to be
some media people there were we're either just friends or
I'm out there getting social media from Mojo other morning.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Oh my god, she does not like you that I
want to talk to.
Speaker 4 (01:17):
No, I don't get it.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
No, No, I think she likes me, But I think we're
not official enough yet to the point where I should
be telling everyone and all of the family and everyone
that they know that we're like dating.
Speaker 3 (01:28):
Why does she think that she gets to decide that. Well,
I think the.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
Relationship with you, my moms, I still do not mess around.
But I have to pass a test first. So tonight
we're I'm gonna have a test. She's gonna ask me
a whole bunch of questions. Apparently I'm going to get
really interrogated, harder than the real estate exam.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
And I hope I passed this test. I don't know
what's going on. Are you sure you want to be
in this family? Yeah?
Speaker 5 (01:51):
I love the All right, what is this test about?
Speaker 1 (01:56):
You know anything on this test?
Speaker 2 (01:58):
No? But I just know that my man said, I
should be scared that's all I know.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
He did.
Speaker 3 (02:03):
Uh huh. He told me I should be scared. I
should be a little worried.
Speaker 6 (02:05):
Has she done this to a previous no friend of his.
Speaker 2 (02:10):
The first girls he's ever brought home to his family.
It's making so I think. I think the parents are overprotected.
They want to make sure their sons in good hands.
And honestly, this is my dad. My dad would probably
do the same thing.
Speaker 6 (02:22):
Are My anxiety would be through the roof right now.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
I'm a little dirvous, but I feel like I've never
met a family or anyone else that did.
Speaker 4 (02:31):
Not like me.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
Are very Are you bringing a family like well, your daddy. No,
it's just you. You're going in unprotected. Yes, because you
know what, I actually think that this is actually this
is good, because I do agree with what you said,
your assessment of there are not many people. I don't
think I know any that do not like Bianca. Bianca
(02:54):
is not like not like. Bianca is very She's very engaging,
She's got a great personality. I would probably pull back
a little bit because I think sometimes sometimes I think
your nervous energy sometimes might be a little too much,
and I.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Talk too much, and you don't drink tonight.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
I know I'm not okay. I don't think I should
never drink in front of their family.
Speaker 4 (03:17):
Ever, he can't drink, so that would be bad.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Can we ask the listeners advice and things that maybe
you did or didn't do right that could actually tell
Bianca what she should do when she goes and meets
the family for the first time tonight? What do you?
What do you call her like? When you meet her?
Speaker 7 (03:35):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:35):
What do you how do you acknowledge her?
Speaker 3 (03:37):
She said, I call her by her first name. The
dad I call him by his last name.
Speaker 1 (03:42):
I would call both of them mister and miss.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
I was calling the mom by the last name, and
she said, you could just call me by the first name.
Speaker 1 (03:47):
Can I tell you something I think out of respect
I would continue to do really, yeah, because I think
it shows respect to them. And I think that honestly,
I think that it's It's one of those things where
you're if you don't want it to be, you can
she's that could be a test that she's given you,
and the test the test could be let's let's see
how comfortable she really feels? No, and then what let
(04:10):
me tell you. I know kel Dean's okay, And I
know Keldyan moms and anybody that is listening right now,
that's kel Dean, one of my Caldan friends. You tell
me that that you agree or disagree on this one.
You don't want to do the whole I'm gonna call her,
you know, say her name is Marcella or whatever, you
know what I mean, Hey, Marcella, what's going on? Marcel
And I's going and people are going to be around her, going. Boy,
that young girl feels like she's you know, yeah, you're right.
(04:33):
I think you call her mister. You call them mister
and missus. And I think, honestly, I think that you
just lay low and you let things kind of develop.
And and I think, first off, I know them. I know,
I know your boyfriend's dad more than that's going to
be a bad thing. But also the other thing too,
is his wife is wonderful. Okay, So Bryce's mom isendmine.
(05:00):
His mom is a wonderful lady. She's a beautiful lady. Yes,
I do think she's a little intimidating for me even Okay,
So I think you gotta like play cool.
Speaker 2 (05:09):
Yeah, I was like going to the mall looking for
outfits I'm like stressing out.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
I just want to make sure.
Speaker 4 (05:14):
What are you going to bring? I feel like you
have to bring something.
Speaker 3 (05:17):
I already got that planned out.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I'm probably gonna get like a bokay of flowers, do
nothing bunk cakes.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
She's gluten free, so gluten free nothing bunk cakes.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
I know they like the Sanders chocolates, so I was
gonna get them a little bag of that, And then
I was just I was gonna get her a bottle
of wine.
Speaker 3 (05:31):
But then I don't want her to think.
Speaker 2 (05:33):
I'm like, that's crazy, y'all gonna be outside, right, Yeah,
but I want.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
To dinner first. Interrogation's happening, so.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I wouldn't get anything big that I got to carry
around her whole either though.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Yeah, you know, I'm I was thinking maybe I could
drop it off at his house before we go, or
just bring like the desserts to dinner.
Speaker 1 (05:51):
Are you going to meet them at the house and
then all you guys are going on.
Speaker 2 (05:54):
She told me that he's to talk to the husband
and see if the husband will allow me to go
to their house first.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
Oh, man, him this whole thing. I do have to
tell you that this is so funny. Because it brings
back memories of going to see my wife, Chelsea's dad
and mom for the first time. And Chelsea gave me
all these fore warnings of what to do and what
not to do. Has your boyfriend man friend given you
four warnings?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
He just told me to act normal. I asked them.
He said, don't talk too much. He said, I'm a
little loud.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
So Chelsea told me don't talk too much to her dad. Really,
just don't talk too much. So I literally sat there
and her dad thought I was like a deaf. Yeah,
and he and the wildest is I wasn't prepared for
some of the questioning because he gave me all these questionings,
you know, like the mom was great, Like there's always
I believe one parent that's easier to talk to than
(06:48):
the other parent, And now it's actually the reversal of that.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
He told me, I have to prepare how to tell
them how much I'm gonna love their son and how
much I'm going to take care of her son. And
he said they might even bring up like past boyfriends
of mine.
Speaker 5 (07:01):
And this is literally the parents about to meet Robert Demiro.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
I asked the mom yesterday, I said, could I end
you on Facebook.
Speaker 3 (07:10):
I think it'd be super cool to have you on Facebook.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
She said, You're not allowed to add me until I
know I liked you after tonight, I would not add joking.
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I take it the vibe. I don't know her like that.
I just met her on the phone.
Speaker 4 (07:20):
I know what I would not add.
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I would not add them, do any social media with them.
You stay away from that until you know it's a relationship. Sarah.
Speaker 3 (07:32):
Right now, Hi, how is everybody doing.
Speaker 1 (07:34):
We're doing good. Bianca is going to be meeting the parents.
Speaker 8 (07:40):
Yes, So my advice, Bianca, remember when you did the
family vacation with your friends.
Speaker 3 (07:45):
Mom was kind of upset because you.
Speaker 8 (07:48):
Were shaking your booty a little too much.
Speaker 7 (07:51):
My advice is keep it contained.
Speaker 1 (07:59):
You behave yourself.
Speaker 6 (08:01):
So that's not ever coming out, and make sure you
wear something that doesn't, you know, show your booze.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Oh yeah, no, no, I have I'm wearing a turtleneck dress, coat, jeans,
but okay, it's yesterday.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
Yes, that's good. None. I think it's funny though, that
they told you don't introduce yourself as their sons.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, he said, she said, I'm just I don't want
to be mean, but no one knows, and no one
should know that you guys are talking or dating yet,
so you guys are friends?
Speaker 3 (08:28):
I said, Okay, I'm I'm media trained.
Speaker 2 (08:29):
I'm not going to tell everyone you doing social media
on the morning.
Speaker 1 (08:35):
Mike Morning, how you guys doing good? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
Hey? All I gotta say is if you're getting told
all this stuff, and if you can't be yourself and
he's not meant to be, just go be yourself, have fun,
don't change for nobody.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
And that honestly is the same. But you don't know, Bianca.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
No, I'm a little wild, like even my parents don't
like me at times.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
That's fine, but eventually you will be yourself. Well, it's
truth in there.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Though the first time meeting them I should be a
little too, you know what I'm saying, because if if
he had my personality you met my parents for the
first time, they would.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Not like him.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
How are you really nervous? You seem nervous, But I'm
so scared. I am so scared.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
I never ever had a boyfriend where I met the
parents at a restaurant ever, never had anything like that.
Speaker 1 (09:27):
Yeah, I think you're gonna do great, I really do.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
And I feel like you've talked to the mom.
Speaker 6 (09:32):
You've talked to both of the parents on the phone
several times already, right.
Speaker 3 (09:36):
To the Pistons game, so you've kind of.
Speaker 6 (09:38):
Already been introduced to them all little like they know
your personality.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Talked to the mom.
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Though, Yeah, I think it's being in a restaurant setting.
Tho it's kind of formal, that's nervous.
Speaker 1 (09:49):
Seven three four says, take a page from Kevin and
bring her grapes.
Speaker 3 (09:56):
Actually candy grapes.
Speaker 1 (09:58):
At least you got witnesses and round so she can't
kill you.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
Okay.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
The other thing, too, is it's funny. I met Chelsea
for the first time, and I was we were eating
and her mom made lasagna, which you knew especial because
if mom made lasanni, that man she liked you or
was preparing to like you. And all I remember the
whole time was I was so afraid to eat too
much money, you know how I am. And so I'm
like eating like that ever, and Chelsea looks over he goes,
you can eat like you normally eat.
Speaker 5 (10:23):
I'm like, so I will say this, though, the only
bad experience I had was one time, and the only
reason it really mattered. Is because some children listen to
their parents more than they listen to themselves, and they'll
allow their parents to make every decision they like, especially
their relationships. And I remember this girl came over to
my house and her mom had to come pick her
up or something or something had happened, and this was
(10:45):
my first time meeting her mom. It's winter, it's cold
as hell outside. I got my jacket on, got my
hat on, and when I went up to the car,
I introduced myself. I'm like, hey, you know so on
so nice to meet you, and can no d She
told me the next day, my mom hated her mom
hated me because I didn't take my hat off, and
like taking my head off is like I understand it.
If I'm in size outside is called I'm like, bro,
(11:05):
you want me to take it off?
Speaker 1 (11:06):
It's smelling all side wear hat? You should do something.
You hear story, what's going on? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (11:17):
It's gonna be fine.
Speaker 1 (11:18):
Courtney High, Hi, good morning morning.
Speaker 8 (11:22):
I think Bianca will kill it with his parents, But
I also think, like, first off, are you at all
concerned that like the mother, like if it's progresses that
like your mother in law would potential mother in law
would be crazy like forever.
Speaker 2 (11:36):
No, she seems very nice, like she raised great kids,
so I'm not worried about her. She seems cool, like
I think her and my mom would be great friends.
Speaker 1 (11:44):
You know, just interesting. I think that that in her
culture too, the moms play such a huge role. They're
pivotal in this one.
Speaker 8 (11:52):
So no, I think you're going to kill it, but
just don't. I know, you're like crazy and like have
so much fun, but don't yourself too much because that's
what makes you great. And yeah, yeah, but you're so
fun and loving and uh and.
Speaker 5 (12:07):
Just like you're so you're so great.
Speaker 1 (12:10):
How could her mom or his mom not listen to
the show and listen to listeners like Courtney talking about
how awesome you are and have that as a because then.
Speaker 2 (12:18):
They hear how crazy I am, how Mexico And then they're.
Speaker 3 (12:21):
Like, oh, I don't know all that.
Speaker 1 (12:22):
What's up, Jeff? Now, how you do good? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (12:28):
Well not, but to.
Speaker 1 (12:31):
Uh to the situation on hand, I would uh say,
don't be someone you're not.
Speaker 5 (12:37):
You don't be who you.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
Are because that's who you're They're gonna see you act
as somebody else in the beginning, that's what they're gonna see.
Speaker 4 (12:45):
You're not like you know, so I would.
Speaker 3 (12:49):
Just uh, yeah, no, I'll be myself. But I'm obviously
not as crazy as I used to be. Okay, So
it's guys.
Speaker 1 (12:57):
I think we all though we all you know, do
a piece of this in parts of our life, interviewing
for Josh, even first dates. On first dates, we aren't
usually who we are, and then meeting the parents is
very similar to that one too. I think we try
to like shine ourselves up a little bit and then
we get comfortable. And then once we get comfort, you
(13:17):
don't want to be too comfortable. Because I hate to
say this, and everybody's like, you be yourself, be comfortable.
You become too comfortable, and they're going to say this
girl honestly has no sense of a fear, and I
think you have to have a little sense of respective fear.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
Yeah, no, I think it's gonna be okay. I've been
like situations meeting people for the first time, nervous things
like that, but I've never been it for a relationship standard,
which is gonna be a little weird.
Speaker 3 (13:42):
But I just pray everything goes good.
Speaker 6 (13:45):
I Also, I think you need to really notice how
your man friend is around you, with his parents around us.
Speaker 4 (13:52):
That's interesting, that's going to be super telling.
Speaker 1 (13:55):
Yeah, what's some ray of flags that she should potentially
look out for?
Speaker 3 (13:58):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (13:59):
I just think that you want to make sure that
he I think, is himself and like you, you want
to be with somebody that's going to put his foot
down for you. And I feel like you can tell
that right from the get go.
Speaker 1 (14:12):
Can I ask you this without having revealed too much?
But I'm sure I think I know the answer. That's
why I'm asking you this. What does he say about
his parents? Like? What? What? What level of uh? You know,
Like when you have a conversation you say, hey, tell
me about your mom, telling me about your dad? What
does he say about each of them?
Speaker 2 (14:31):
He says he really loves them, like he never says
anything better about them.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
His dad's like his inspiration. He wants to be like
his dad.
Speaker 4 (14:35):
I love that. That's huge.
Speaker 2 (14:37):
He's really big and his family's always take care of
his grandparents and stuff like that.
Speaker 1 (14:40):
So and how does he speak of his mom?
Speaker 2 (14:42):
Very well, very highly of both the same way I
do with my parents. I speak telling of Miso good.
Speaker 4 (14:47):
That's also very telling you.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I see a lot of my parents and his parents,
so I think it's I think it's okay.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
So the thing with Bianca that sold me on her
years ago, like when I first got a chance to
meet her, was when I first started getting a chance
to meet her, I saw her hard work. That was
one of the first things I saw. It was she
would do things that you would have to ask other
people to do, and they would even not want to do,
you know, some of the work that she would do.
And then when I heard stories of her with her family,
to know that her dad owns a store, and so
(15:15):
that her dad could be home resting because she thought
he was working too much. She would go in and
surprise him and say, I'm going to take I'm gonna
work this weekend for you and let like to me
like I saw that, Like that's the stuff that you
got to let them know about you, because to me,
as a dad of kids, like if my son brought
home Bianca, I would go, you did well, kid, you know,
(15:37):
I'm proud of you.
Speaker 2 (15:39):
I let a lot of people see the crazy side
of me, like on the show and on the air,
on social media and stuff, and obviously because I'm trying
to entertain. But I have a good heart, and I
am a good kid, and I have good morals and standards,
so hopefully they see that part too.
Speaker 1 (15:52):
Yeah, don't polish yourself up to be you know, not
too crazy, but be yourself and let her know the
true great side of you. Okay, you're gonna doos alright, Maha,
be beat Okay, have no idea what you don't want
to know? Caldeans and then you.
Speaker 5 (16:07):
Don't know that.
Speaker 1 (16:08):
Okay, No, but I do know who has the best doma.
You know who it is? Lydia mama her man friend's mom.
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