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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, Mojo in the morning show eight four to
four Mojo Live textas ninety five to five zero zero.
Friday night, got a chance to have dinner. Chelsea and
I went to dinner with this lady over here, Anna.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Ross lay over here.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
It was fun. I wanted to catch up with I.
See I didn't get sick, and I know I felt great.
I felt great. I was just making a joke.
Speaker 2 (00:23):
I was.
Speaker 1 (00:24):
I was actually Saturday, I was on my I was
on my game, man, I was doing all kinds of stuff.
So it's funny, and I feel good this morning. Are
you feeling better or no?
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Yeah, I'm feeling a little better.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
So so Friday night went to dinner with Anna, and
I wanted to ask her this question. Could you tell
that something was going on between Chelse and I on
Friday night or No?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
Not really. But there were comments made when we got
into talking where I was like, oh, snap, I think
they might be fighting.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Would you hear? Oh? You and I made the comments.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Chelsea was mad at me for that. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I think I don't know exactly what Mojo said, but
he had said to and I was like, oh, maybe
they were fighting.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Just now we were talking about something, and Anna was
talking about some friends of hers that are going through
a fight, and I said.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
Well, I know some people that are going through I think.
But here's the thing I bring up. So Chelsea and
I are good.
Speaker 1 (01:15):
I mean, I will say this to you if you
don't get it, If you don't ever hear people talk
about getting in fights in their relationship, they're lying to
there's any relationship they're fighting going on, right, So Chelse,
Chelse and I got into a fight earlier in the
day and that let into the evening and we were
going out. We had this plan to go out with
Anna on Friday night, and I kept seeing the clock
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ticking closer and closer to the time that we're getting
with Anna, and the argument that we were having was
escalating even more, and I'm going, how are we going
to do this? And we weren't going to cancel. I
said to Chelsea, do you want me to call Anna
and tell her? And she said to me, she goes, no,
she goes, We're going I'm going, oh God, this is
now going to make it even worse, because now you know,
(02:01):
I got to be like careful of you know, what
I say or what I don't say. So instead, I'll
just get drunk, and I got really drunk. I got
did you can you tell how drunk I was on Friday?
Speaker 3 (02:10):
I think I left when when maybe y'all started drinking
a little more. That's when you were like, maybe we
should call someone to drive us home.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
He's like yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
I was like, we're calling an uber. But I want
to ask the listeners this. Have you ever been in
a situation where you either like Chelsea and I, you
are having your relationship argument with each other, and then
you got to go to a party or go out
with friends, or just in general, go to like family's
house and you have to kind of like fake family.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
You got to fake it with.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
Them or are you the person that's on the other
end like Anna and you're like, something doesn't seem right
here right now?
Speaker 3 (02:49):
Was a little quiet, I was you were at dinner,
but I was like, maybe he's just tired. He woke
up at three thirty.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
Well, you and Chelsea got into a conversation, and Chelsea
is like therapist for everybody.
Speaker 3 (03:01):
I love talking to her.
Speaker 1 (03:02):
Oh my god, they're going deep with stuff like I'm
going are we ordering appetizer?
Speaker 3 (03:09):
Do you think that it helped going out or do
you wish you would have just stayed home and figured
it out.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Well, I feel like I didn't handle things well because
here's what I did.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
I threw out the whole dagger of the fight.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I got spicy, and then I got drunk, and it
got to a point where I think that it was
probably not the way that I should have handled it.
And obviously you're you know, you're a coworker of mine,
and I felt like Chelsea had to kind of almost
take care of you. And then we had friends that
came later and they hung out with you and they
were talking, which they loved you. They absolutely ever people
(03:44):
loved Anna. Actually, it's so funny. We show up at
the restaurant and set Anna sitting at the bar next
to two of our biggest fans of the show who
loved Anne and saw Anna right away and then saw
us come in there right afterwards.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
But it was it was awkward. It was it was weird.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
So because I feel like there are two different quote
unquote fights, and depending upon which one it is, either
makes the situation extremely uncomfortable for the people who are
fighting or for the person on the opposite side who
notices did the fight take place at home or has
it been brewing for a while, or did it take
place in the vehicle up now to the place.
Speaker 1 (04:20):
No, it happened at home. The argument happened at home,
or the disagreement happened at home. And then we had
to get in the car to go, and because I
was like, we should probably go, and and it's like
we get there and then the car in the car right, No,
the car ride was quiet, and I said, hey, we
should probably talk about this before we get there. And
we actually were a couple of minutes late because we
(04:41):
were finishing in the parking lot.
Speaker 5 (04:43):
So but I feel like this happens to Wes and
I frequently, Yeah, where we get into an argument, and
for me, I can compartmentalize. I can put it in
a box and put it away if we have somewhere
to go where we're going to be around people, and
then I can revisit it and we can like nip
it in the butt. Wes is always like we're not going,
(05:05):
I'm not faking fine, And I'm like, okay, I'll go
by myself then and then he's like, well no, no, no, no,
I'll go.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
It is so much harder for him where and maybe.
Speaker 5 (05:14):
That makes me like a psychopathic no, look, but I can.
I can go Okay, I'm going to enjoy this night
with the people that we're spending it with, and we
will figure out our issue when we get back with
the next morning.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
Let me ask you this because I'm the same way.
But it just popped into my head the reason why
I might be the same as you. If you're saying
it's my fault, then no, we got to figure this
out now. I'm not trying to fake it. If I
feel like it's your fault, then I can compartmentalize, Well, what.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
If it's nobody's fault. It's somebody's fault. It's somebody's But
if it's mutual, what if it's a mutual thing and.
Speaker 4 (05:45):
We all we all have fifty one forty nine like
it's somebody's fault more than another person.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
Do you feel like that is the case though I don't.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
I don't know because I feel like when I used
to get in relationship arguments, if I really felt like
you were the problem, or I could go anywhere and
be fine.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
But if you were trying to make me feel like
all this because you're won this, I tell you this.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
I actually don't mind getting into an argument or getting
into a relationship disagreement when we are going out with
some of our best friends, because I know for a
fact that those best friends are either going to make
it better or make it calm for a couple hours.
Speaker 6 (06:23):
See.
Speaker 5 (06:24):
But the problem is because I'm always under that impression too.
I think, oh, we had such a fun night. We good,
so we good, And then I wake up in the
morning and Russell be like, we need to talk about
what I'm like done?
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Yeah, what's up Ashton?
Speaker 7 (06:40):
Hi, what's up guys?
Speaker 2 (06:42):
Good morning, Good morning, body? What's going on?
Speaker 7 (06:46):
So this literally just happened to me and my girlfriend
that past weekend. We were in the up visiting her family,
and we got into an argument and the whole weekend,
which is ruined because because I can't like, I'm just
okay or pretend like I'm happy when I'm actually not
like I.
Speaker 1 (07:05):
Just rather as you can't fake the funk my friend
and I got to tell you something that's honest of
you to say that, but you also then make it
uncomfortable for her, and you make it really uncomfortable for
your friends who don't want to be in the middle
of this and don't want to be playing divorce court
with you guys.
Speaker 7 (07:25):
Yeah, I try my harder to be like, you know,
cordial around family or just like I don't know, I
just kind of keep it towards her.
Speaker 2 (07:36):
It's interesting that you went through it this weekend. Did
you guys smooth it over?
Speaker 6 (07:41):
Yeah? We did.
Speaker 7 (07:42):
We were better this morning makeup sex.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
I wish uh Seanna, what's up?
Speaker 2 (07:51):
It's mojo in the morning.
Speaker 7 (07:53):
Hey.
Speaker 6 (07:53):
So it's super healthy to compartmentalize it and go back
to it later, like Shannon such she does. But you
have to go back to it and revisit it, and
most of the time you realize that it's not even
worth And this dude on the phone, he probably made
his kids miserable all weekend because he couldn't just put
it aside and deal with it later and an appropriate time.
(08:17):
It's like, if you have a bad day at home
and you go to work, you can't let it affect you.
You've got to get money.
Speaker 7 (08:23):
Right, well, you have to.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
You have to. You have to.
Speaker 1 (08:27):
You have to do a level of being able to
kind of just get on with your day and do
what you got to do, because honestly, the world's not
stopping because you guys haven't settled your argument, and you're right,
don't make it miserable for others. Like I feel bad
that Anna said I was quiet. I think in a
lot of respects. Honestly, I was kind of more tired
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and I think it was exhausted from it. But it
was Anna did not get the best of me.
Speaker 3 (08:53):
That's okay. I also really enjoyed talking to Chelsea.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
You know, it should have just been a one on
one week.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
It felt like I needed to have like a girl talk,
So I was almost happy that you were over there.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
It was interesting because I really do think Anna needed
like a like a female, you know, perspective on some things,
and maybe I was not going to.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
Give good responses. What's up, Joanne High.
Speaker 6 (09:17):
Hi, I was just calling.
Speaker 5 (09:18):
It always seems like my husband I will be hosting
a party of some for Christmas, party, birthday, party, whatever
it may be, and it always seems like something comes.
Speaker 7 (09:27):
Up and he doesn't let it go. I let it go.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
I'm done.
Speaker 3 (09:31):
I'm trying to move on and I got people I
can't back out.
Speaker 1 (09:34):
Yeah, that's the worst is when you're the host and
you're having people over at your house and you guys
aren't getting along.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
You're already stressed because it's the worst.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
Maybe the people that are coming over are causing the fights.
Have you ever thought about that?
Speaker 6 (09:48):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (09:50):
But anytime I say what, I got to say, I'm done.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
He's not done. Yeah, he continues. You got to listen
sometimes too, Hey, what's going on, Kelly?
Speaker 7 (10:00):
Good morning.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
I was just going to say that I don't know
very many people who don't get into some type of
husband and wife fight on the way to family picture time.
And that happened to us last time we have family pictures. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (10:14):
Wait, what did those family pictures look like? Did you
guys look miserable?
Speaker 6 (10:20):
Yeah, there's like.
Speaker 2 (10:21):
The photographers like, let's go on a mom and dad
and like we had to hug and like you can
tell we're trying to put space there. It's it's not good.
Like that's why don't you guys hug each other.
Speaker 3 (10:32):
I don't want to hug you no, And like you
know where you're yelling at each other and we're smiling
and yelling through our teeth, like get the kid over here.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Make her sit down, and like I was like, you're
not helping, And it was just bad.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
That's fun.
Speaker 1 (10:46):
By the way, that that is the almost awkward thing.
It's almost God sending you a message when you get
into an argument with family members in a time when
you're supposed to be happy like that, because what it
does is it makes you realize when you're there and
you're trying to make this happy moment, that okay, we
got to figure this this out, you know, and nothing's Honestly,
(11:08):
I don't. I don't believe that nothing can get you
can't get past something. And I'll be honest. In our situation,
it was all on me. It had nothing to do
with Chelsea, and it all was my fault, the you know,
argument that came up. And so the entire time that
I was sitting there, the whole time I was, I
was more bummed at myself for being such an idiot,
(11:28):
you know what I mean, And and I felt bad
for Chelse. But I will say this about Chelsea. She
was a great sport about things. Because here it is
she's going out with somebody I work with and putting
a smile on and and being good. And she was
very engaged with Anna and and loved Plus Anna was
wearing these like shoes.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
That were so cute.
Speaker 1 (11:52):
We were sitting we were sitting in the We went
eight at a dinner and then we went to the
bar in the restaurant and kind of had drinks with
friends afterwards, and Anna sitting there. I'm like, I didn't
even notice what Anna was wearing. I'm like, Anna really
dressed for this sing.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Well, you took me to.
Speaker 3 (12:06):
A country club. I was like, I want to be
sure I get in and not get kicked out.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
I got to be honest with you, I wondered, you
know when you walked in, did you say you were
there with me?
Speaker 3 (12:17):
Yeah, I said. The carballos like, I'll show you exactly where,
they usually said