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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it is Mojo in the Morning phone number
eight four to four Mojo Live textas nine to five
to five zero zero. I want you guys, tell me
if you think this is a red flag. We have
a friend who has been dating a guy for gosh
over a month or so, and he still hasn't told
his friends or co workers that he's dating this girl.
(00:25):
And I want to know. They're staying at each other's
places and uh, touching naughty bits and hanging out with
each other all the time. They're going to dinners, they
hold hands, they do things like that red flag if
you don't tell friends, like you don't tell your actual
(00:45):
close friends, or you don't tell like your family that hey,
I've been seeing this person. I think that there's something
that you got to be aware that this is not
a relationship. This is not going to be for some reason,
he's something's crazy, there's something shady.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
So you're saying the person that's being dated if the
other person doesn't tell everybody, I should think that's a
real yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Like, like we were having a conversation and we said, hey,
you know, uh, so as have you met like anybody
like you've been together for a couple of months. I
think it has been.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Have you you know, so it has it hasn't just been.
I was just gonna say, because a month to me
is not that crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Like her friends have met, but his friends haven't, and
I just think that they're like to me, I would
do war the roses on this guy. It's I would
think that there's somebody else.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
I would tell you that when wesn't I started dating,
that I had started dating somebody because I was trying
to keep our newness in this little protective cocoon, just
to see like, okay, I want this, do I want this?
But do you go somewhere? And then I was like, okay,
now I can tell everybody.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
But you told somebody. I guarantee you told oh yeah somebody. Yeah,
tell you didn't tell us because we're you know, the show.
But I guarantee you told your closest friends. You're right,
I did. Yeah, and maybe family like your sister or
somebody knew. But so this is this is weird. He
has not told anybody. Yeah, after a couple of months
serious to him? Huh? Is it that serious to him? Well?
(02:11):
I could tell you this that he looks like he's
enjoying every bit of her.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
See that's the thing, though, Brouse. I've been in situations
before where the girl and I we were just smashed
and she would come over, we would do our thing,
we might go outside and get a bite to eat,
hit the movies.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
But it's not a relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
So it's not going to be something that I feel
is serious enough for me to involve other people.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
If you're a guy and you don't let your best
guy friends know that you met somebody, you're not into
that person. That's what I'm saying. It's not serious. Now.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I can be into the person, but it doesn't mean
that I see this person as somebody I'm going to
be in.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
A relationship with her. And if I was a girl,
I would think that that is a I would be
red flagging that and taking this from a guy that
you know has dated but also has a lot of
friends that date. I have a lot of guy friends.
I know when a serious about a girl when they're
telling the group text, Hey man, that went out with her,
we had a great time, like stuff like that, or
(03:08):
I don't know, bro, I've never liked that.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
See I agree with that, if I know, if I
if I'm dating a guy hypothetically obviously, If I'm dating
a guy and it's been two three months and he
hasn't told any of his friends about me or family,
I haven't met anybody, I'm thinking there something is very
very wrong now.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
And I think that if you're spending like weekends like
where you're spending the whole weekend. And I said this
to her, I said, hey, like, does he take calls
when you guys are around? And he goes, no, He's
really good about like not picking up his phone or
doing stuff like we spend time together. We really are
with each other. I'm like going, Okay, guess what, he's
(03:47):
turning his phone off because he doesn't want people know
he's got somebody over. I hold my hiding.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
I hold my friends and my family to the highest
of standards, and everybody just not about to come around
and meet them. Some of my family members have only
met one person that I've dealt with literally okay. And
it's not because I was ashamed of the person or
I was hiding them. I just like, no, my family
is my like they but they're gonna meet the one.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But have you been consistent you're solo with or you're
only with that person and you still haven't even talked.
You're with other people exactly. That's what I'm saying. I
think that she's got to be worried about I think
she's got to be worried that there's other people that
are Are we are? Do we believe that she's only
dealing with him? Yes? I know her intentions, she's she's
she's a friend. What's going on, Gina? What do you think?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Hey, Gina and Nathan time?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Why what's happening? Guys?
Speaker 4 (04:49):
So we're just in here listening.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
We think that it's not a red flat because what
if the family is crazy and they just get all
up in their business and try to like interfere in
their relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah, but what about friends though? What about close guy buddies?
What about that? What about he hasn't told anybody, She
has not much. She has not met anybody associated with him,
not even coworkers, not you know what I mean, Like,
it's the only the only person that she she has.
Matt is the DoorDash delivery guy that comes and brings
(05:22):
food to their house when they go over to his playoffs.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yeah, I mean, maybe maybe he just wants a little
privacy and he just don't want empty in this business.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, that's a DoorDash drovert.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Sometimes people rush into stuff too much and start introducing
him to everybody? Is my other?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Like? No, take it easy, bro, slow down.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I don't even know what this is said too about.
You know, maybe it's just now I'm curious.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
You don't even get health assurance to you ninety days in?
Why are you? Melissa? Do you agree that it's not
a red flag like the last callers?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
No, it's a big red fer.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Even my twelve year old daughter's who texted and things
is a big red flash.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh my gosh, I like it. I like we're taking
advice from a twelve year old daughter. Here. What's going on, Melissa?
Speaker 4 (06:07):
He's right here, so Bella say hi, Hi, Bella, Bella.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
How do you know it's red flag? Are you a
twelve year old that actually is? Dates?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No, my uncle is doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Oh wait, a second, hold on your uncles. Let's sell
out your uncle here a little bit. He's hiding a
girl for everybody. Yes, how do you know?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Because we're still friends with her?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Oh you really do you think that your do you
think your uncle is uh he's got some other girls
on the side, some potential. Yes, really, Oh my god,
I like this. By the way, we need to have
we need to have more twelve year old moments where
they're given a absolutely all. They're giving us all the
(06:54):
gossip about what's going on in their family's business. Exact Melissa,
are you are you with? Uh? You know a guy
right now?
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Or who you?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
What do you got in your life? Uh?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Sort of?
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Yeah, yes, yes I am.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Did your daughter give you advice on relationships?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Yeah, here's my biltin best friend, and.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
She gives advice to you, guys, just not on the phone,
but on the way to school every morning. Are there
any red flags with mom's boyfriend? Yes?
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Many?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Which ones are right? Does she know this? Yes? Flags?
The way he acts like what specifically, just.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Like his like his emotions. He's still like I don't
know how to explain it, but he's back and forth.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Up and down, hot and cold. Yes, this is amazing.
You think that kids don't notice stuff that goes on.
They notice everything. That's unbelievable. You guys need to call
us more. I like that. Anaya what's up?
Speaker 5 (08:01):
A Naya morning? Guys, Good morning, I say It's definitely
a red flag or maybe even yellow flag, because my
first date with my now boyfriend of five years is
actually with his best friends.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
So it.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Was more so like his best friends mean the world
to him. So if I kind of passed that test
with mingling with his friends and I was good to go.
So now we're five years start.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
I agree, if you are that good, he's going to
bring everybody and want you to be around everybody because
his goal is that he wants to show you off
first day.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
So you could ask her though, if the guy, if
his friends are that important to where they really need
to know within.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
The first first date with best friends, I feel like
you don't know how you know, you know, you don't
know how to operate on your own.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
But within the first within the first month or two,
you you can't wait to introduce him to your family
unless your family is like Shannon's family and there embarrassing
that you don't want pe what's up, Tiffany High?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, I think it's a red flag.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
I kind of feel dumb.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
But I dated a guy for six years and never
met any of his friends or coworkers.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, why why was he keeping you a secret?
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Well? He was cheating the whole entire time. But he
was cheating with coworkers and he was a R nurse,
but they cheated within the whole entire you know, working industry.
But I've heard, yeah I've met his family, but yeah,
I never met any of his coworkers or friends.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, that's I'm telling you. I think this is maybe
not going to go six years before he introduces, But
I think that there is something to this relationship. Not
introducing to people that you supposedly care about, including your
best friend.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Has he had a lot of failed relationships.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
I don't know. I don't know this story.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Maybe he's like, I don't want to just keep introducing people.
I want to make sure this is someone that will last,
and then I'll introduce.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Or maybe you're the embarrassing friend.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I'm actually not. I'm friends with We're friends with her.
So that's why why I'm bringing up, you know, because
I think that there's definitely something to be said about that.
All right, it is Mojo in the Morning phone number
eight four to four Mojo Live textas nine to five
to five zero zero. I want you guys, tell me
if you think this is a red flag. We have
a friend who has been dating a guy for gosh
over a month or so, and he still hasn't told
his friends or co workers that he's dating this girl.
(00:25):
And I want to know. They're staying at each other's
places and uh, touching naughty bits and hanging out with
each other all the time. They're going to dinners, they
hold hands, they do things like that red flag if
you don't tell friends, like you don't tell your actual
(00:45):
close friends, or you don't tell like your family that hey,
I've been seeing this person. I think that there's something
that you got to be aware that this is not
a relationship. This is not going to be for some reason,
he's something's crazy, there's something shady.
Speaker 2 (01:00):
So you're saying the person that's being dated if the
other person doesn't tell everybody, I should think that's a
real yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:07):
Like, like we were having a conversation and we said, hey,
you know, uh, so as have you met like anybody
like you've been together for a couple of months. I
think it has been.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Have you you know, so it has it hasn't just been.
I was just gonna say, because a month to me
is not that crazy.
Speaker 1 (01:22):
Like her friends have met, but his friends haven't, and
I just think that they're like to me, I would
do war the roses on this guy. It's I would
think that there's somebody else.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
Bro.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
I would tell you that when wesn't I started dating,
that I had started dating somebody because I was trying
to keep our newness in this little protective cocoon, just
to see like, okay, I want this, do I want this?
But do you go somewhere? And then I was like, okay,
now I can tell everybody.
Speaker 1 (01:48):
But you told somebody. I guarantee you told oh yeah somebody. Yeah,
tell you didn't tell us because we're you know, the show.
But I guarantee you told your closest friends. You're right,
I did. Yeah, and maybe family like your sister or
somebody knew. But so this is this is weird. He
has not told anybody. Yeah, after a couple of months
serious to him? Huh? Is it that serious to him? Well?
(02:11):
I could tell you this that he looks like he's
enjoying every bit of her.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
See that's the thing, though, Brouse. I've been in situations
before where the girl and I we were just smashed
and she would come over, we would do our thing,
we might go outside and get a bite to eat,
hit the movies.
Speaker 1 (02:25):
But it's not a relationship.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
So it's not going to be something that I feel
is serious enough for me to involve other people.
Speaker 1 (02:30):
If you're a guy and you don't let your best
guy friends know that you met somebody, you're not into
that person. That's what I'm saying. It's not serious. Now.
Speaker 2 (02:40):
I can be into the person, but it doesn't mean
that I see this person as somebody I'm going to
be in.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
A relationship with her. And if I was a girl,
I would think that that is a I would be
red flagging that and taking this from a guy that
you know has dated but also has a lot of
friends that date. I have a lot of guy friends.
I know when a serious about a girl when they're
telling the group text, Hey man, that went out with her,
we had a great time, like stuff like that, or
(03:08):
I don't know, bro, I've never liked that.
Speaker 3 (03:10):
See I agree with that, if I know, if I
if I'm dating a guy hypothetically obviously, If I'm dating
a guy and it's been two three months and he
hasn't told any of his friends about me or family,
I haven't met anybody, I'm thinking there something is very
very wrong now.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
And I think that if you're spending like weekends like
where you're spending the whole weekend. And I said this
to her, I said, hey, like, does he take calls
when you guys are around? And he goes, no, He's
really good about like not picking up his phone or
doing stuff like we spend time together. We really are
with each other. I'm like going, Okay, guess what, he's
(03:47):
turning his phone off because he doesn't want people know
he's got somebody over. I hold my hiding.
Speaker 2 (03:52):
I hold my friends and my family to the highest
of standards, and everybody just not about to come around
and meet them. Some of my family members have only
met one person that I've dealt with literally okay. And
it's not because I was ashamed of the person or
I was hiding them. I just like, no, my family
is my like they but they're gonna meet the one.
Speaker 1 (04:14):
But have you been consistent you're solo with or you're
only with that person and you still haven't even talked.
You're with other people exactly. That's what I'm saying. I
think that she's got to be worried about I think
she's got to be worried that there's other people that
are Are we are? Do we believe that she's only
dealing with him? Yes? I know her intentions, she's she's
she's a friend. What's going on, Gina? What do you think?
Speaker 3 (04:38):
Hey, Gina and Nathan time?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Why what's happening? Guys?
Speaker 4 (04:49):
So we're just in here listening.
Speaker 5 (04:51):
We think that it's not a red flat because what
if the family is crazy and they just get all
up in their business and try to like interfere in
their relationship.
Speaker 1 (05:01):
Yeah, but what about friends though? What about close guy buddies?
What about that? What about he hasn't told anybody, She
has not much. She has not met anybody associated with him,
not even coworkers, not you know what I mean, Like,
it's the only the only person that she she has.
Matt is the DoorDash delivery guy that comes and brings
(05:22):
food to their house when they go over to his playoffs.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Yeah, I mean, maybe maybe he just wants a little
privacy and he just don't want empty in this business.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Yeah, that's a DoorDash drovert.
Speaker 2 (05:34):
Sometimes people rush into stuff too much and start introducing
him to everybody? Is my other?
Speaker 1 (05:39):
Like? No, take it easy, bro, slow down.
Speaker 5 (05:41):
I don't even know what this is said too about.
You know, maybe it's just now I'm curious.
Speaker 1 (05:46):
You don't even get health assurance to you ninety days in?
Why are you? Melissa? Do you agree that it's not
a red flag like the last callers?
Speaker 4 (05:55):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (05:56):
No, it's a big red fer.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
Even my twelve year old daughter's who texted and things
is a big red flash.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Oh my gosh, I like it. I like we're taking
advice from a twelve year old daughter. Here. What's going on, Melissa?
Speaker 4 (06:07):
He's right here, so Bella say hi, Hi, Bella, Bella.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
How do you know it's red flag? Are you a
twelve year old that actually is? Dates?
Speaker 3 (06:17):
No, my uncle is doing it right now.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
Oh wait, a second, hold on your uncles. Let's sell
out your uncle here a little bit. He's hiding a
girl for everybody. Yes, how do you know?
Speaker 2 (06:29):
Because we're still friends with her?
Speaker 1 (06:32):
Oh you really do you think that your do you
think your uncle is uh he's got some other girls
on the side, some potential. Yes, really, Oh my god,
I like this. By the way, we need to have
we need to have more twelve year old moments where
they're given a absolutely all. They're giving us all the
(06:54):
gossip about what's going on in their family's business. Exact Melissa,
are you are you with? Uh? You know a guy
right now?
Speaker 5 (07:03):
Or who you?
Speaker 1 (07:03):
What do you got in your life? Uh?
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Sort of?
Speaker 2 (07:07):
Yeah, yes, yes I am.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
Did your daughter give you advice on relationships?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
Oh?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Yeah, here's my biltin best friend, and.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
She gives advice to you, guys, just not on the phone,
but on the way to school every morning. Are there
any red flags with mom's boyfriend? Yes?
Speaker 5 (07:26):
Many?
Speaker 1 (07:28):
Which ones are right? Does she know this? Yes? Flags?
The way he acts like what specifically, just.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
Like his like his emotions. He's still like I don't
know how to explain it, but he's back and forth.
Speaker 1 (07:49):
Up and down, hot and cold. Yes, this is amazing.
You think that kids don't notice stuff that goes on.
They notice everything. That's unbelievable. You guys need to call
us more. I like that. Anaya what's up?
Speaker 5 (08:01):
A Naya morning? Guys, Good morning, I say It's definitely
a red flag or maybe even yellow flag, because my
first date with my now boyfriend of five years is
actually with his best friends.
Speaker 1 (08:14):
So it.
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Was more so like his best friends mean the world
to him. So if I kind of passed that test
with mingling with his friends and I was good to go.
So now we're five years start.
Speaker 1 (08:29):
I agree, if you are that good, he's going to
bring everybody and want you to be around everybody because
his goal is that he wants to show you off
first day.
Speaker 5 (08:40):
So you could ask her though, if the guy, if
his friends are that important to where they really need
to know within.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
The first first date with best friends, I feel like
you don't know how you know, you know, you don't
know how to operate on your own.
Speaker 1 (08:52):
But within the first within the first month or two,
you you can't wait to introduce him to your family
unless your family is like Shannon's family and there embarrassing
that you don't want pe what's up, Tiffany High?
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Yeah, I think it's a red flag.
Speaker 5 (09:09):
I kind of feel dumb.
Speaker 4 (09:11):
But I dated a guy for six years and never
met any of his friends or coworkers.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeah, why why was he keeping you a secret?
Speaker 4 (09:22):
Well? He was cheating the whole entire time. But he
was cheating with coworkers and he was a R nurse,
but they cheated within the whole entire you know, working industry.
But I've heard, yeah I've met his family, but yeah,
I never met any of his coworkers or friends.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
Yeah, that's I'm telling you. I think this is maybe
not going to go six years before he introduces, But
I think that there is something to this relationship. Not
introducing to people that you supposedly care about, including your
best friend.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Has he had a lot of failed relationships.
Speaker 1 (09:59):
I don't know. I don't know this story.
Speaker 2 (10:01):
Maybe he's like, I don't want to just keep introducing people.
I want to make sure this is someone that will last,
and then I'll introduce.
Speaker 3 (10:08):
Or maybe you're the embarrassing friend.
Speaker 4 (10:10):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (10:10):
I'm actually not. I'm friends with We're friends with her.
So that's why why I'm bringing up, you know, because
I think that there's definitely something to be said about that.
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