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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(00:02):
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get your name on the air. Shannon has a question

(00:23):
to ask involving how relationships handle certain things, and one
of them is when one person's out of town, how
do you how do it?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
Finn do you communicate? Like how often do you call
each other? And I asked this question because my husband Wes,
is back home in Toronto right now visiting some family
and friends. And it's so funny. It made me think
about this yesterday because I went through the whole day
and we had like texted once or twice about like
house stuff, because I have a lot of stuff going
like construction stuff going out at my house right now.

(00:52):
But it got to be maybe I was making dinner
for the kids and I was like, whoo, I don't
call them all day. I better call, and it's so
funny because I'm out of town he calls me a ton.
But we are so not balanced when it comes to
how we communicate when one person is out of town
over another. For me, it's just my days are crazy

(01:14):
busy and so not that I'm not thinking about him.
I'm always thinking about him, But like the phone call,
I'm like, oh God, you need to call him and
catch up on.

Speaker 3 (01:21):
Whose responsibility is it to call?

Speaker 1 (01:22):
Because you say, when when you're out of town he
calls you a ton, are you supposed to call him
or is he supposed.

Speaker 3 (01:27):
To call you?

Speaker 4 (01:28):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
I don't well, to be honest, I'd missed calls from him.
I have not called him yes yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:35):
Because when if I'm out of town or Chelsea's out
of town, I usually say that the person who's out
of town should be the one checking in because if
they're out of town, you don't know what they're doing,
like especially if they're out for work or something like that.
But it all depends. If I'm out of town and
say I'm doing work in Chicago or Nashville or you
know whatever, then check in once twice a day. If

(01:59):
I'm in Vegas, it's a totally different times changed.

Speaker 3 (02:07):
Random would you make the kids for dinner last night?

Speaker 2 (02:11):
Oh my god, what did I make? I can't even
remember what I ate this morning?

Speaker 3 (02:15):
Why is that?

Speaker 5 (02:16):
Just to get that in my mind, I will say this, though,
I think that you you text and say landed right
immediately say landed, or you call and say landed safely.
You might wait until you check in, say I'm made
to the hotel room.

Speaker 2 (02:31):
Check the text I'm talking at.

Speaker 5 (02:35):
Maybe I would say maybe at the end of the night,
maybe a little night time vibe.

Speaker 1 (02:41):
But what if it's but what if it's a time
change thing like where you're on the West coast or
you know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (02:46):
I feel like I feel like the first day you
might need to connect.

Speaker 2 (02:51):
We just we just talked a lot throughout when he's
home or I'm home, we talk a lot throughout the day.
It's just so different. But when when one of us
is out of town.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
My time is always the drive home from work. I
always check in with Chelsea here, so usually that even
if she is out of town, like you know, if
she's visiting her family or whatever, or our family, like,
she'll you know, be available usually for that. But I
and I always call her usually at that time. But
didn't you guys say that our boss, Tony, who travels
a ton for work, because Tony oversees like a bajillion

(03:22):
markets for this company for iHeart, didn't you guys say
that you were having a conversation with him about just
this too.

Speaker 2 (03:28):
Yeah, so, Tony and Tony, if you're listening and I
misheard you, please call and correct me. But I'm pretty
sure Tony said he does not call his wife Brook
usually a single time. If he's out of town, he'll text,
like landed.

Speaker 3 (03:44):
He's the only.

Speaker 2 (03:47):
But as far as phone calls go, he's like it
might be crazy.

Speaker 3 (03:52):
She's busy.

Speaker 2 (03:53):
I'm busy to go.

Speaker 5 (03:54):
Three days report that's a keating scandal. Wait and that
we're the roses right?

Speaker 6 (04:03):
Uh?

Speaker 3 (04:03):
No contact for days?

Speaker 4 (04:05):
Uh?

Speaker 1 (04:05):
Eight four four Mojoe live eight four four six six
five six fy four eight Jake?

Speaker 3 (04:09):
How you doing?

Speaker 4 (04:11):
Heiny good.

Speaker 6 (04:12):
I think it's the responsibility of the person that's.

Speaker 3 (04:14):
Working, yeah, to call, like when they have available.

Speaker 6 (04:19):
Time slots like go on my lunch, I can call
you clear and yeah tip finished work.

Speaker 1 (04:23):
Yeah, but what if it's a leisure thing, Like what
if say what if it's a guy's golf trip or
it's you know something like that, Like who's the responsibility on?
Is it on the person that's away or the person
that's at home.

Speaker 6 (04:36):
Well, the person at home probably is still working if
the guys on the golf trip, but she's probably trying
to figure out when to call. Yeah, if you're on
a golf trip or a boy's trip, you better be
calling me at least.

Speaker 3 (04:48):
See.

Speaker 5 (04:49):
I get annoying though, Like I've been in relationships where
the person is non stop calling you.

Speaker 3 (04:54):
That person being on a trip, You're like, yeah, are
you having fun? Like leave me alone? Like, go live
your life, tell myself.

Speaker 1 (05:00):
I had a guy, not too much, a guy that
made a comment to Chelsea that guys on golf trips
hire hookers. And I've been on a couple of golf
trips and Chelsea calls me or on the way home,
goes do you know what so and so I just
said about the golf trips that you guys go on
and what you guys hire hookers. I'm like, can be
honest with you, I'm so exhausted after golfing, for you know,

(05:23):
sometimes these guys want to play more than eighteen holes.

Speaker 3 (05:25):
There ain't no hooker. They would even get me excited.

Speaker 2 (05:28):
And also I love you and would never do that.

Speaker 1 (05:30):
Yeah, well no and that too, that too, but they
worry about the wrong holes. But it was it was
like he was trying to ruin the golf trip game
for everybody.

Speaker 3 (05:39):
What's going on, Brian? How you doing.

Speaker 4 (05:42):
Good?

Speaker 6 (05:42):
All? Are you this morning?

Speaker 3 (05:43):
Good?

Speaker 4 (05:43):
I travel often for work, usually three four days at
a time, and I do not call my wife and
kids while I'm on the road. It started out when
the kids were young. I just didn't call because they
got emotional and.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
You know the rest of it.

Speaker 4 (05:59):
And it's just kind of to adapted into, like, you know,
I plane landed, boarding the plane on.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
My way home in the car.

Speaker 4 (06:08):
Other than that, I don't like that mean when I
hit the door.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
So who's You're emotional being away from them or they're
emotional that you're away.

Speaker 6 (06:16):
Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 4 (06:17):
I when they were kids, I didn't like to be away.
Like the younger you know, I kind of got emotional.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
Now it's now it's them.

Speaker 4 (06:24):
And just all the extra drama of two teenage girls
and the rest of it.

Speaker 6 (06:28):
I'll deal with it when I get home.

Speaker 1 (06:30):
Man, you've got a great wife that she's willing to
let you go the entire time that you're away and
not check in at all.

Speaker 3 (06:37):
I think you have to check in.

Speaker 6 (06:40):
My wife is absolutely amazing. I have to agree with that.

Speaker 3 (06:44):
So who the girls that they're hanging out with when
you're on these trips.

Speaker 4 (06:48):
No, And it's too much, too busy. I got too
much stuff going on at home. It's uh, it's not
I don't know. That's not what I'm there for.

Speaker 1 (06:57):
I have a couple buddies that are in the auto.
I don't know if you or an auto, but there
they have to go down to Mexico to plants down there,
and they tell me all the time, They're like, yeah,
I'm down in Mexico, and my wife has this belief
that we're hanging out at Mexican strip clubs. They have
no idea that literally there's nothing in the towns that
our factories are in, Like there's you know.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
Sounds like a job the open market.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, But they they're certain wives that that get a
little bit worried about what these guys are doing. What's up, Jersey, Hi, Jersey, Hi, Hey?

Speaker 6 (07:32):
I are we still on the soft topic about who
should call.

Speaker 3 (07:36):
Yes, Yeah, absolutely, Okay.

Speaker 6 (07:40):
So I play a sport in college, and I think
the person that's a way should call because my boyfriend
also plays a sport in college. And when you're away,
like you.

Speaker 2 (07:51):
You're so busy, so like it's on your time like
kind of thing when you're away to call.

Speaker 3 (07:56):
What sport do you play? And what sport does he play?

Speaker 6 (08:00):
I played volleyball and he plays baseball.

Speaker 1 (08:02):
Okay, And so you guys, if you're away, you guys
are way different times of the year, right, because there's
different seasons for both those.

Speaker 6 (08:09):
Sports, correct, and baseball's all year round, so he's got
stuff going on.

Speaker 4 (08:14):
All the time.

Speaker 1 (08:15):
Who's the more jealous type of the two of you?
You are your boyfriend?

Speaker 6 (08:20):
Oh, he definitely is.

Speaker 3 (08:23):
So is he checking in more with you? Well not
even just yeah checking and he's just like.

Speaker 1 (08:28):
What are you gonna call him?

Speaker 4 (08:30):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (08:30):
I think that sometimes that could be the case, especially
in the young relationship like yours, where you guys are together.

Speaker 5 (08:37):
I wonder if people are starting to FaceTime a bit
more or does that already happen in you know, situations
where you feel like there's potential infidelity making you are
where you are yeah.

Speaker 1 (08:46):
Hey, Cheyenne, you're the spouse of a person that travels
a lot.

Speaker 3 (08:50):
Is that right?

Speaker 6 (08:52):
Yeah, he travels a lot for work.

Speaker 3 (08:54):
And who calls who?

Speaker 7 (08:56):
Oh my god, I call him seven your time.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
To him one day?

Speaker 1 (09:01):
Does it ever become something where he's got to tell you, hey, stop.

Speaker 7 (09:05):
No, no, And if he does, then he's in trouble.

Speaker 1 (09:09):
Do you ever worry about him? Are there any cities
you don't like him to go to? I don't love
him when.

Speaker 7 (09:14):
He goes to like Mexico. It's not like like the fun.

Speaker 6 (09:17):
Part of Mexico, it's like the scary part of Mexico.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
So do you call him a ton because you miss him?
Or you just want to make sure he's doing what
he says he's doing.

Speaker 6 (09:28):
Like I miss him, Like he's my best friend, so
he needs to know what I had for breakfast.

Speaker 1 (09:35):
That's crazy, poor Bastardyanne. You probably also have fine you're
on his phone, don't you?

Speaker 5 (09:43):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (09:43):
Absolutely?

Speaker 3 (09:44):
Yeah? Okay, you're checking out how many times a day?

Speaker 2 (09:47):
She said?

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah, I was gonna say, that's a totally different number
than calling. Probably those are one sided conversation. Yeah, you're
not saying anything. Listen to Stephanie's the exact opp said Stephanie,
what's up?

Speaker 3 (10:02):
Hi?

Speaker 7 (10:03):
So my husband and I have been together for twenty
five years, but when we go away, we're going away
for a reason and we do not communicate unless something
obviously like gotrimental happens. But it's my boys that call
when mom goes away the most because they want to
know when I'm coming home because Dad does not restuck

(10:24):
the house with a good snap.

Speaker 2 (10:27):
Oh that's so funny.

Speaker 3 (10:29):
That is true. I love it. I like it.

Speaker 1 (10:30):
I like it, But I do think that there is
a point to that that in I think early in relationship,
I felt like Chelse and I were always you know,
missing each other and stuff. And now I feel like
when you're away, you kind of go away, and it's
kind of good to be, Yeah, because absence does make
the heart grow fonder, it really does, and it's it's good. Yeah,
it really is good. I was one that never wanted

(10:52):
to be away and I was never good at that
and if Chelsea was away, like I was thinking something
crazy was going on. But I do think that it
makes you realize sometimes how good your relationship is when
you're a okay with them going away and you have
no problem with him, and then b you don't need
to check in like every five minutes. But all right,

(11:12):
well we've learned something in this one. We learned Tony
Travado our boss is a bastard again.

Speaker 3 (11:19):
I mean, you know what, having a week.

Speaker 1 (11:23):
Maybe this is the reason why his algorithm ISOs and
thoughts
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