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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Smoke Joe in the morning, Kevin you this weekend, feeling
a little sad as he felt like, where's the music from?

Speaker 2 (00:10):
Is that? Hold on? It might be my phone.

Speaker 1 (00:17):
Feeling all sad in his feels as the girls like
to say, because he is all alone at Christmas. No,
just being single just sucks.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
Sometimes it's amazing and it has its beautiful moments, but
there are other times where it's not beautiful. And when
you gotta go grocery shopping by yourself, you gotta come home.
You gotta put up the groceries by yourself. You gotta
take the trash out, throw that away, then refiel the
trash bag, then wash the dishes or dish washing, being

(00:48):
clean up after yourself. You gotta cook like it's just
this is not what it's cracked up to be. When
it's come down to these responsibilities. You gotta decorate by yourself.
You gotta hang lights by yourself, build a Christmas tree
by himself, decorated by yourself, go to the mail room
by yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:03):
You just got to do.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
Everything alone, necessarily, all alone.

Speaker 1 (01:06):
You've got your son, You've got your mom, you've got grandmama.

Speaker 2 (01:10):
I'm talking about you.

Speaker 3 (01:13):
I'm talking about household household thing like yes, man, like
my mama not coming over my house, Josiah Thera when
he their, but he's not helping me in his room
playing robots because.

Speaker 2 (01:23):
This weekend he's like Dad, it's a full server an
update liked.

Speaker 1 (01:28):
Do you so you think about this when you got
all this stuff at the holidays and you're like, man,
I gotta get you, gotta wife yourself, somebody up.

Speaker 2 (01:35):
I'm not going out.

Speaker 5 (01:36):
Here's my question. I feel like you have a lot
of interested callers. What is preventing you from getting into
a relationship because when we talk, it sounds like you
don't want to be in one.

Speaker 2 (01:47):
Really do I give off that impression?

Speaker 5 (01:49):
I literally thought you told me that the other day.
Was that's just not what you're looking for right now.

Speaker 3 (01:52):
I'm not looking for it. I'm not reaching my hand
out searching for a relationship at the moment. I want
to be ready when that happens. But while I'm in
my waiting period, I can't acknowledge that this is what's
going on right now.

Speaker 2 (02:08):
It sucks the way you're single.

Speaker 5 (02:10):
Do you feel but like I feel, I feel like
you have options and you're not taking those options.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
No, no, no, just because you have options don't mean
they're for you. I need to be intentional because things are.
Things aren't incorrect, they're incomplete. And I think sometimes when
you try to move too fast, that's when you have
a blessing at first, and then since it's incomplete, it

(02:39):
no longer starts to look like a blessing just because
it's not fool And that's when you start rushing in
other stuff. And I'm not trying to rush into something
because I'm just quote unquote incomplete or okay, yeah, you better.

Speaker 1 (02:48):
By the way, you know how they always say don't
get into a relationship when you're just getting over a relationship,
because you might run too fast. That is the reason
why is because you don't want to, because you're missing
out on certain things. You want to just race into
something and the next thing you know, you're you know,
knee deep into it, and next thing you know, you're like,
what the hell did I just do?

Speaker 3 (03:09):
And a lot of times too, when you run from
relationships to relationship, like say you got out of a
terrible relationship it was a level ten like terrible situation.
You can get to somebody that's just a level eight
and think you've upgraded and it's.

Speaker 2 (03:21):
Still like eight is still terriful.

Speaker 1 (03:23):
But it would be nice to have somebody to help
put you the tree up, put your groceries away.

Speaker 3 (03:27):
I mean the tree was like it was Amazon. I
was just three parts. So but still you got to
do all of this stuff.

Speaker 6 (03:33):
It's so interesting because you said something really important though.
You said while I'm in my waiting period, so you
know that this is your quote unquote waiting period that
there is going to eventually be somebody absolutely, So like
I almost want to tell you to look at it
right now. If you are able to do everything the
way you want to do it, that's a good one.

(03:54):
Then you're going to have some lady come into your life.
That's like, are Christmas tree is going to be pink
matching and not for Amazon? And you don't put the
dishes away this way, keV, You do it this way?

Speaker 2 (04:09):
You know?

Speaker 1 (04:09):
Yeah, Kevin, Kevin, why don't you uh you invite friends over?

Speaker 2 (04:16):
No, I'm not good. Do you think you think I
was gonna go down?

Speaker 5 (04:18):
Friends aren't helping you do the dishes.

Speaker 1 (04:21):
Have friends come over that like and make it a
make it a thing that where it's fun, Like invite
Zach over, so.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
That will help you, I will say lately I have
because I don't know, I like to entertain people, but
I don't like to host people. That makes it like
I'm not an come over to the crib y'all, like
let's have fun at my place. Like I'm not that
type of person. But lately I've been inviting the homies
to come over and watch like Thursday night football or
Monday night football.

Speaker 2 (04:45):
Like starting to get more into into that. What's up, Brittany.

Speaker 7 (04:50):
I.

Speaker 4 (04:51):
I just was listening in on the show, and I
just wanting to put my input in about like he's
not missing a lot where he wants a housemaid.

Speaker 2 (05:02):
Oh help me. Maybe maybe he needs like Molly maid
to come over.

Speaker 4 (05:11):
He wants things done for it.

Speaker 2 (05:15):
Yeah, well with with me, just with me.

Speaker 6 (05:18):
Was there one thing, like one instance that really made
you feel it?

Speaker 2 (05:22):
Because I feel like all the things you.

Speaker 3 (05:24):
Just well it was a culmination but being hungry and
like not wanting to prepare a good meal and just
like like all right, let me just eat up these
Tyson chicken patties and make some popcorn. That's gonna be dinner.
Because I don't feel like preparing something because you're not
gonna prepare it just for yourself. Yeah, and it takes
time to make something nice. What's up, Amy, how you doing.

Speaker 2 (05:48):
I just wanted to say, Kevin, welcome to being a woman.

Speaker 5 (05:51):
Yeah, every year, all the time, every day.

Speaker 2 (05:58):
I could, all right, thank you for having me. I appreciate.

Speaker 1 (06:04):
I actually do think that there's a bit of Kevin
that he has been single for a good period of time.

Speaker 2 (06:09):
Been a year now. Maybe it is time for you
to find a relationship. Maybe you're ready.

Speaker 6 (06:15):
Don't necessarily find a relationship. I think if you found
somebody that you could just do things with every once
in a while, kind of like easier.

Speaker 2 (06:22):
Way back in.

Speaker 6 (06:23):
It have only been a year.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
This guy was actually not he was about to get married.

Speaker 6 (06:28):
I understand That's why I'm saying, But it's only been
a year. It's dated over a year, Okay, but you've
dated people, You've gone out with people, you had someone
reverse cowgirl last week.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
Your word's not mine?

Speaker 1 (06:42):
Can I tell you something though, that have you noticed
that there have been even posted over the weekend picture
of him, Josiah and Josiah's.

Speaker 2 (06:51):
Mom, Jazz.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
We had a great time so still try to make
Miss Saturday was great. There's going to be something to
this thing, you think. So I just I really do
feel like there's something that is pulling the two of
you guys closer together.

Speaker 2 (07:03):
And it's not just Josiah. No, it's not just so.
I don't think so.

Speaker 1 (07:07):
No, because I think that you have done it for
a long time without you know, and you've been there both.

Speaker 2 (07:11):
You guys have been so good for Josiah.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
You guys are getting along better than you did I
bet you back in the days when you guys made
Josiah absolutely. So it is interesting and it's wild because
I'll tell you this, the two of you guys. When
I when I saw her and met her for the
first time, which was not that long ago, it was
not what I thought that she was gonna, you know,
look like.

Speaker 2 (07:32):
Or be like.

Speaker 1 (07:34):
And then I thought, okay, I think I could see
Kevin with her like because most of the girls, like
when I talked to Kevin, you know about girls, it's
like I like them thick and no, but he goes
it's like this all stuff is like I like him thick,
and I like him dressed like this, and I like
them this up and I look at her and I go,
you know what, she's really beautiful and she's a sweet woman.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
She's a great mother. Mm hmmm try and she can
help put a tree up together and she makes good
chilia amazing.

Speaker 1 (08:08):
Would she uh if you guys got together, would you
move to her or she moved to you?

Speaker 2 (08:14):
What's up traveling? That sounds like you guys have talked
about this right? What's going on, buddy? Not much?

Speaker 4 (08:21):
I was just calling.

Speaker 8 (08:22):
I just want to talk to v uh job. I
was doing it all by myself for my life, and
I wasn't looking for my wife, but you're not looking.
I met her bringing other. Now she's a full time
high Johannas. I work underground and utility work and I'm
still doing a lot of the work at home, and
we put our parts in when we can. But you're

(08:42):
a great guy, man, Just keep your eyes, just keep
rides on your stuff that you.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Got going on.

Speaker 4 (08:46):
You got a backy life, You're going a lot. You're
a great guy.

Speaker 8 (08:49):
Someone will all right in your lafe.

Speaker 2 (08:51):
But look at this you. I appreciate that man. I
like it you and it sounds like you're doing great. Trevor.
Sounds like things are good for you.

Speaker 8 (08:59):
I appreciate you guys.

Speaker 2 (09:01):
Take care of yourself.

Speaker 3 (09:01):
I would love today the hygienist I think about listen,
so my top I'm not gonna say my top things.
I would love today somebody who's in the culinary arts.
I would love a chef chef. I would love an
interior designer, interior decorator.

Speaker 2 (09:14):
I would love. Uh, we'll start with those two. Those
two fascinating.

Speaker 1 (09:18):
What about a hygienist, you said, a hygienic hygenna is
like a dermatologist slash hydenists. Hold on a second. We
go from Trevor being a beautiful phone call to Leslie.
What's up, Leslie?

Speaker 4 (09:29):
I'll keep you company while you're waiting.

Speaker 2 (09:32):
Really okay, Leslie? Are you wait a second? Are you
an interior designer in the I did.

Speaker 4 (09:40):
Go to vot take for that.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
I went to vow Take and I took interior.

Speaker 2 (09:44):
You come, yeah, I care? Can you load a dishwasher? Leslie?

Speaker 4 (09:49):
I can do all of that.

Speaker 2 (09:50):
I'm gonna hit you up on Instagram.

Speaker 3 (09:53):
We actually did like.

Speaker 4 (09:58):
That free hold. Yeah, I had said something to you
that night, but I had just like kind of walked
away after I had to you for a minute. I'll
ask you like wish was drinking and all of that.
I don't know if you remember I had on the
green dress.

Speaker 2 (10:11):
Okay, well look, send send a message Leslie to hurry out.
Do you have a Do you have a thick or
Kevin says, thick body? Yeah I do. Okay, we're looking up.
Oh my god, nice to Tracy. Hello, this is this topic.

(10:33):
What's going on? Yeah, this is Kevin's dating service.

Speaker 4 (10:38):
Being single sucks.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
I was married for twenty four years with them for
thirty and around holidays it evens worse.

Speaker 1 (10:45):
It's worse.

Speaker 4 (10:46):
I get Kevin's feelings and doing things by yourself sucks.

Speaker 2 (10:51):
Yeah, I could see that.

Speaker 1 (10:52):
You know, we talked with Anna about the same exact
conversation not that long ago.

Speaker 2 (10:57):
It's tough around the holidays. The beauty of it is
a few totally. Did y'all have children?

Speaker 3 (11:08):
We have four beautiful children.

Speaker 4 (11:11):
You're all grown, none of them live at home.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
Would you like to get married again?

Speaker 5 (11:15):
Still?

Speaker 7 (11:15):
Do it?

Speaker 4 (11:16):
I don't know. I don't know. Twenty four years and
then just be done. I don't know if I could.

Speaker 2 (11:23):
That's amazing.

Speaker 1 (11:24):
That's a long time, twenty four years together and then
not being to get you know, that's I could see
where that would be tough. That's odored in Bianca. Would
you like to would you like to get together with
Captain Leslie? They're getting not a bad name.

Speaker 4 (11:36):
Let's go on single dates?

Speaker 2 (11:38):
Okay? Reaching oh god, all right.

Speaker 1 (11:43):
Crystal wants to make a comment about will cav ever
get together with Josiah's mom?

Speaker 2 (11:47):
Would you want to say? Crystal? I want to say
absolutely not.

Speaker 7 (11:52):
And I say that because if you really wanted to
be with her, you guys would have gotten together by now.
And because I'm not sure exactly what will be holding
you back outside of you just don't want to be together,
and there's nothing wrong with that, and you can still
parent and have a great relationship, which seems like you
guys do, which is great. So don't ruin that by

(12:16):
trying to force something that's obviously not happening.

Speaker 1 (12:20):
Well, it happens, it has to be right, because remember,
you do not want to mess with Josiah, absolutely and
I would never do that.

Speaker 2 (12:28):
He will always be the priority.

Speaker 3 (12:31):
But to your point about me making it happen, I
tried to make it happen before, and she didn't want
to be with me.

Speaker 2 (12:37):
So it wasn't me saying how long ago? Is that?
That was years ago?

Speaker 6 (12:43):
What would she say now?

Speaker 2 (12:45):
I don't know. This is a by the way, it's
a plot twist.

Speaker 1 (12:48):
You want to know it's a plot twist because I
always thought that keV was just you know, having his
fun with Jasmine.

Speaker 2 (12:55):
I didn't realize that she turned you away, which means
there's a piece of you it still has.

Speaker 1 (13:01):
You can ask her finish the business she feels in
this week. Wait, is that happening?

Speaker 2 (13:05):
Why not? Okay,
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