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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojoe in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
So cav says he's not using it for hookups, but
he's using it as a means of social media exactly,
And what is it?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Tender?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I am a firm believer that, yes, there are certain
dating apps where people are looking to find love. And
you got your Bumbles, you got your Christian mingles, you
got all the things Christian.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I feel like the way Tender is set up.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, it can be used as a means to find
love or to find somebody to bake you know, that
good cookie session with. Or it can just be used
like an Instagram, which is how I use it. I've
never met up with anybody on Tender, but I have
my profile set to me being attracted to women and
you I don't even pay for Tender first off, so
(00:47):
I'm on a little free version plan. But you get
it's basically Instagram without having to look at food and dudes.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
So you just go on there to look at girls,
and that's you don't talk to anybody.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I mean, I'm a shut up, but it ain't I'm
not trying to meet anybody or anything.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Do you from Tinder see a hot girl, get her
name and then go into Instagram to check her profile
there and d have you heard done that? Uh?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Sometimes they'll have it listed in their bio, like if
they're really trying to be seen, okay, they'll put it there,
but that's it. Like and then some people have three
pictures that they post, some people have like ten pictures
that they post.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
It feels like Instagram.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
So there's not I think you're bringing this up because
we were talking yesterday to people like what'd you find
in your significant other's phone?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Right?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
And when the person said that they found that their
boyfriend of a year was on Tinder, you right away
were quick to defend them, going, oh, I got Tinder
on my phone, and you know I don't use it
for ups, Like look at.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Breathe twenty five eighteen miles away right. This to me
feels like I'm looking at an Instagram page. So you're
just looking at her picture and then what do you
do from there?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
And then I'm an hit.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Light and you hit like and then what if she says, hey,
you want to go out tonight? That doesn't happen and
on my Instagram page.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You got the wrong I DMS, Oh so you are
looking for it for hook up.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I'm not, so, then the actual topic should not be
I don't use Tender for anything other than social media.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
It should be I use Instagram to hook up.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I think everybody you can hook up on any social
media platform. Yeah, I'm just saying Tender doesn't have to
be an exclusive hookup app. Okay, you can view it
like social media and just keep it moving.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean, if West had Tender on his phone and
gave me that excuse, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Why what's the difference from him buying what's the difference
of him following on Instagram?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
You're right, I guess it's just it's the rep that
the app has, Like the purpose of it is for
hooking up?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four sixty sixty
five six y five four eight is our telephone number?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Is this true?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
My favorite Texter is Katie, who texted and said if
Megan were there, should be screaming lies.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Here.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay. Here's here's the other thing. As I think about
this more. If you are on Tinder, everybody thinks your
intention is to dat a hookup. Okay, well you are
all there quote unquote for the same reason. So I
have thinking that you're just on there to like photos.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Well, you can select why you're there. You can put
short term, long term, or a lot of people have
just friends, looking for just friends and what do you
have it clicked as I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I got is.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
But to me, if you're putting just friends on Tinder,
that's like you wanted no strings attached, just hook up
and be done.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I think that's what it doesn't mean just friends.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
I don't think he has it as just friends though,
There's no way I think I'll put short term on there.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Hey is this Myra?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
It is? Why what's your thoughts on Kevin and his
Liza Minellian going.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Well tender is a hookup? However, I put a lot
of videos on TikTok and I got just a few
pictures for myself, a lot of videos of my son
because he dances at juliar.
Speaker 7 (04:07):
Well DM and me asking for do you are you
looking for sugar daddy or I just want to be
your friend? And my kids are saying, don't answer them,
just a scam.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
And I'm like, shoot, I can use the sugar daddy
to help me.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Take it all right? You got juli.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Uh By the way, Mira, I want you to know
that I use Snapchat just for magic tricks.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
That's my thing.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
To make pictures from your girls go away, that's my
that's my thing. Kevin's got the most bogus explanations to things.
He tries to explain it, like, yeah, no, I'm not
on tendered just a hook up. By the way, what
did you have your setting set up?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I don't know how to Zach. You got to come
show me what I got. It probably shorts, he but
I can't find it. What's up, Dallas?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
What's going on? Guys? Are you doing?
Speaker 2 (04:57):
What are your thoughts on what Kev's talking about?
Speaker 1 (05:02):
What's that? Did we lose them against Dallas? Where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know. It got disconnected there, Dallas? Call back?
Call us back, Zach, look and see what is short
term fun?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Why do you wait? What do you think short term
is a good way to get girls to talk to you?
It's working on for.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Me meeting up with the girl from Tinder a week?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh it's a month, probably like two, Okay, I don't know.
Dallas is back? Dallas?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Yeah, sorry about that, guys. Yeah, when I travel, I'll
get on tender and you know, just to make friends.
That way, when you get to a certain location, you
have they can refer you to good places to go,
or you have somebody to hang out with and show
you the ropes without necessarily trying to hook up with them.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
But how much are you hooking up with them?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
It's been a while, I haven't done it a long time.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Okay, but before I mean, yeah, right, okay, yeah, just
show you the ropes.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So you're just looking for tour guides, they should call it.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Absolutely yeah, and this you have somebody that that's a
little more trustworthy, so you build up that rapport in
that friendship beforehand.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Sure, you know, yeah, I use it.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I use Tinder just so I can have somebody that
shares the same food with me at restaurants.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Don't discount his reality. And people love smashing on these apps.
There's more than that, you guys use it. By the way,
is they're not an app. They should have an app
called ghosted. Why if they're not had an app called ghosted,
It's like, just have the app as ghosted and that
would be the dating thing and just say, hey, it's
a perfect place to get ghosted on.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And then why would I want to go on that?
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Because some people sometimes just don't they want to want
and done? You know that could be, but if they
haven't had that, I'm gonna buy it. What's up, Laura high.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Tay, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So my thoughts are, if.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
You're in a committed relationship, you should never have any
type of dating app on your phone.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
It's just not the.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Right, you know idea.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And if you're a single casually seeing someone and they're
aware of it, then by all means go ahead. Kevin
uses Zillow to hook up with girls. He wants to
see what kind of beds and houses they have. That's
what I use about program. I have a great day, Dustin.
(07:34):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
My thought on Snapchat is if you have Snapchat, you're
just doing that to cheat.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Believe me, that's insane.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Although there are people that that's the only form of communication.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
They use that as their way to text people. So yeah,
my kids are like that. That's all they have is Snapchat.
But if you need an app to automatically.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Delete some messages, yeah, if you're a grown ass man
or grown ass woman, you're you're on Snapchat, you're probably
doing it for some kind of a shady rea right.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
The wrong reasons. The wrong reasons exactly. Have you got
snapchat on there?
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (08:05):
No, no, but you know who does? Who? Yaka? Okay?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And she I think she has one of the highest
consecutive days of posting of anyone in the world.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
How do you know that if you're not she showed me. Oh, okay,
she showed me. Do you get awards for the day?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
You gotta? Asks her.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
I don't know, Okay, Actually I have a snapstreak of
like thirty eight hundred days, which is like nine.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Years wow in a row. And how many wieners have
been sent to you on that snapchat?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How do you say not saying that the.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Fit your dad, by the way, has got a personal
call right in here to me.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
So
Mojoe in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:01):
So cav says he's not using it for hookups, but
he's using it as a means of social media exactly,
And what is it?
Speaker 1 (00:09):
Tender?
Speaker 3 (00:11):
I am a firm believer that, yes, there are certain
dating apps where people are looking to find love. And
you got your Bumbles, you got your Christian mingles, you
got all the things Christian.
Speaker 1 (00:23):
I feel like the way Tender is set up.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Yes, it can be used as a means to find
love or to find somebody to bake you know, that
good cookie session with. Or it can just be used
like an Instagram, which is how I use it. I've
never met up with anybody on Tender, but I have
my profile set to me being attracted to women and
you I don't even pay for Tender first off, so
(00:47):
I'm on a little free version plan. But you get
it's basically Instagram without having to look at food and dudes.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
So you just go on there to look at girls,
and that's you don't talk to anybody.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
I mean, I'm a shut up, but it ain't I'm
not trying to meet anybody or anything.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
Do you from Tinder see a hot girl, get her
name and then go into Instagram to check her profile
there and d have you heard done that? Uh?
Speaker 3 (01:12):
Sometimes they'll have it listed in their bio, like if
they're really trying to be seen, okay, they'll put it there,
but that's it. Like and then some people have three
pictures that they post, some people have like ten pictures
that they post.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
It feels like Instagram.
Speaker 2 (01:26):
So there's not I think you're bringing this up because
we were talking yesterday to people like what'd you find
in your significant other's phone?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Right?
Speaker 2 (01:34):
And when the person said that they found that their
boyfriend of a year was on Tinder, you right away
were quick to defend them, going, oh, I got Tinder
on my phone, and you know I don't use it
for ups, Like look at.
Speaker 3 (01:45):
Breathe twenty five eighteen miles away right. This to me
feels like I'm looking at an Instagram page. So you're
just looking at her picture and then what do you
do from there?
Speaker 1 (01:54):
And then I'm an hit.
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Light and you hit like and then what if she says, hey,
you want to go out tonight? That doesn't happen and
on my Instagram page.
Speaker 3 (02:02):
You got the wrong I DMS, Oh so you are
looking for it for hook up.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
I'm not, so, then the actual topic should not be
I don't use Tender for anything other than social media.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
It should be I use Instagram to hook up.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
I think everybody you can hook up on any social
media platform. Yeah, I'm just saying Tender doesn't have to
be an exclusive hookup app. Okay, you can view it
like social media and just keep it moving.
Speaker 4 (02:28):
I mean, if West had Tender on his phone and
gave me that excuse, I'm not buying it.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
Why what's the difference from him buying what's the difference
of him following on Instagram?
Speaker 4 (02:39):
You're right, I guess it's just it's the rep that
the app has, Like the purpose of it is for
hooking up?
Speaker 2 (02:48):
Eight four four Mojo Live eight four four sixty sixty
five six y five four eight is our telephone number?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
Is this true?
Speaker 2 (02:55):
My favorite Texter is Katie, who texted and said if
Megan were there, should be screaming lies.
Speaker 5 (03:03):
Here.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
Okay. Here's here's the other thing. As I think about
this more. If you are on Tinder, everybody thinks your
intention is to dat a hookup. Okay, well you are
all there quote unquote for the same reason. So I
have thinking that you're just on there to like photos.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Well, you can select why you're there. You can put
short term, long term, or a lot of people have
just friends, looking for just friends and what do you
have it clicked as I don't know what.
Speaker 1 (03:28):
I got is.
Speaker 4 (03:29):
But to me, if you're putting just friends on Tinder,
that's like you wanted no strings attached, just hook up
and be done.
Speaker 1 (03:34):
I think that's what it doesn't mean just friends.
Speaker 2 (03:36):
I don't think he has it as just friends though,
There's no way I think I'll put short term on there.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
Hey is this Myra?
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (03:45):
It is? Why what's your thoughts on Kevin and his
Liza Minellian going.
Speaker 6 (03:54):
Well tender is a hookup? However, I put a lot
of videos on TikTok and I got just a few
pictures for myself, a lot of videos of my son
because he dances at juliar.
Speaker 7 (04:07):
Well DM and me asking for do you are you
looking for sugar daddy or I just want to be
your friend? And my kids are saying, don't answer them,
just a scam.
Speaker 6 (04:19):
And I'm like, shoot, I can use the sugar daddy
to help me.
Speaker 1 (04:22):
Take it all right? You got juli.
Speaker 2 (04:25):
Uh By the way, Mira, I want you to know
that I use Snapchat just for magic tricks.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
That's my thing.
Speaker 2 (04:34):
To make pictures from your girls go away, that's my
that's my thing. Kevin's got the most bogus explanations to things.
He tries to explain it, like, yeah, no, I'm not
on tendered just a hook up. By the way, what
did you have your setting set up?
Speaker 3 (04:48):
I don't know how to Zach. You got to come
show me what I got. It probably shorts, he but
I can't find it. What's up, Dallas?
Speaker 5 (04:55):
What's going on? Guys? Are you doing?
Speaker 2 (04:57):
What are your thoughts on what Kev's talking about?
Speaker 1 (05:02):
What's that? Did we lose them against Dallas? Where'd you go?
Speaker 2 (05:06):
I don't know. It got disconnected there, Dallas? Call back?
Call us back, Zach, look and see what is short
term fun?
Speaker 1 (05:16):
Why do you wait? What do you think short term
is a good way to get girls to talk to you?
It's working on for.
Speaker 4 (05:21):
Me meeting up with the girl from Tinder a week?
Speaker 1 (05:27):
Oh it's a month, probably like two, Okay, I don't know.
Dallas is back? Dallas?
Speaker 5 (05:34):
Yeah, sorry about that, guys. Yeah, when I travel, I'll
get on tender and you know, just to make friends.
That way, when you get to a certain location, you
have they can refer you to good places to go,
or you have somebody to hang out with and show
you the ropes without necessarily trying to hook up with them.
Speaker 2 (05:50):
But how much are you hooking up with them?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
It's been a while, I haven't done it a long time.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Okay, but before I mean, yeah, right, okay, yeah, just
show you the ropes.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
So you're just looking for tour guides, they should call it.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Absolutely yeah, and this you have somebody that that's a
little more trustworthy, so you build up that rapport in
that friendship beforehand.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Sure, you know, yeah, I use it.
Speaker 2 (06:20):
I use Tinder just so I can have somebody that
shares the same food with me at restaurants.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
Don't discount his reality. And people love smashing on these apps.
There's more than that, you guys use it. By the way,
is they're not an app. They should have an app
called ghosted. Why if they're not had an app called ghosted,
It's like, just have the app as ghosted and that
would be the dating thing and just say, hey, it's
a perfect place to get ghosted on.
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And then why would I want to go on that?
Speaker 2 (06:47):
Because some people sometimes just don't they want to want
and done? You know that could be, but if they
haven't had that, I'm gonna buy it. What's up, Laura high.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Tay, Good morning.
Speaker 3 (07:00):
So my thoughts are, if.
Speaker 7 (07:01):
You're in a committed relationship, you should never have any
type of dating app on your phone.
Speaker 1 (07:06):
It's just not the.
Speaker 5 (07:07):
Right, you know idea.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
And if you're a single casually seeing someone and they're
aware of it, then by all means go ahead. Kevin
uses Zillow to hook up with girls. He wants to
see what kind of beds and houses they have. That's
what I use about program. I have a great day, Dustin.
(07:34):
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
My thought on Snapchat is if you have Snapchat, you're
just doing that to cheat.
Speaker 1 (07:41):
Believe me, that's insane.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
Although there are people that that's the only form of communication.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
They use that as their way to text people. So yeah,
my kids are like that. That's all they have is Snapchat.
But if you need an app to automatically.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
Delete some messages, yeah, if you're a grown ass man
or grown ass woman, you're you're on Snapchat, you're probably
doing it for some kind of a shady rea right.
Speaker 1 (08:00):
The wrong reasons. The wrong reasons exactly. Have you got
snapchat on there?
Speaker 5 (08:05):
Nope?
Speaker 1 (08:05):
No, no, but you know who does? Who? Yaka? Okay?
Speaker 3 (08:09):
And she I think she has one of the highest
consecutive days of posting of anyone in the world.
Speaker 2 (08:14):
How do you know that if you're not she showed me. Oh, okay,
she showed me. Do you get awards for the day?
Speaker 1 (08:20):
You gotta? Asks her.
Speaker 5 (08:21):
I don't know, Okay, Actually I have a snapstreak of
like thirty eight hundred days, which is like nine.
Speaker 2 (08:26):
Years wow in a row. And how many wieners have
been sent to you on that snapchat?
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How do you say not saying that the.
Speaker 2 (08:37):
Fit your dad, by the way, has got a personal
call right in here to me.
Speaker 1 (08:40):
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