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Speaker 1 (00:00):
All right, it's Mojo in the morning show. Are you
guys ready for the big Kevin.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Building this up?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Tavin's Christmas? Are you ready for Cav's Christmas? He told
us before the break that Cav and Josiah's mom were
going to spend Christmas together.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, and we did. It was our second year in
a row. And uh previously before these two years, we
have share a parenton so some years I would have Josiah,
some years I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
But one of the things that you might have missed was,
remember keV tried to do this whole thing with us. Hey,
give us your confessions, and he goes, I'll start first,
I had sex.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
With Jasmine, Josiah's mom.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
By the way, how did she feel about you announcing
that on the radio like that? Like I said, she
knew I was going to do it.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
That's not something that I would share without her knowing
that I'm going to share. She asked people that listened
to the show. She got people to hit her up
and let her know what I'm talking about her. She
listens to the show. So that's not a bomb that
I just want to drop out of nowhere. So she yeah,
for a warning and that did not happen last Christmas,
right the sex? No, no, no, no, no, you guys.
Actually I think one slept on the couch or something.
I slept on the couch. Yeah, but you know this
(01:11):
year was different. Well, I don't want to say that, Dan,
I don't like Jasmine is kind of like you know
what I'm saying. She don't really want me to say
certain things respectful her. We didn't have sex though, Okay,
but you know, Santa drink some milk.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
No, but it was a memory. Remember before the show,
I said, we're going to have a new start to
a year.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Was going on.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Listen. This Christmas was even better than last year.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I think last year we were kind of putting our
toe in the water, trying to see if having Christmas
together again for the reason and the purpose of like
showing Josiah that that was.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
It was kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I mean, her inviting me even into her house because
we were at a point where I don't even know
where Jasmine lived, like let alone, let me walk inside
and stay for a minute. Having to use the bathroom
was like pulling teeth almost. So the first year was weird.
It was to get to know you type of thing.
Now a year removed from that where we're older, we
have much better communication and much better and then actual
relationship now it was completely different. And Jasmine she's incredible, bro. Like,
(02:16):
she put together this document where she designed this keVs
At Christmas thing and she used some characters that Josiah created.
She brought over. She made like this fire beef stew.
She had like this shark cruderie board. We made cookies,
like in the literal sense. We sat down, we watched movies.
I had decorated the whole house. It was pretty dope.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Man.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
We had an incredible Christmas and I'm looking forward to
next year.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Wow. So you guys spent Christmas together? And this is
interesting because here we are. We were talking earlier about
being in a you know, family that's gone through divorce
or you know split. You guys actually full on spent
the holidays together. But you guys also spent the holidays together. Yeah,
(03:04):
we did it. We exchanged gifts.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I'll be.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Just I need to clarify because it's like I'm a
little fuzzy and I know there are things and I
love Jasmins, so I want to be respectful for her.
You you did not sleep on the couch, which meant
you you shared a bed.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
No, we slept on the couch.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
We both of you together slept on the couch.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Okay, okay, No, Josiah was nowhere to be found. Are
you toddling with her? Or is she at one end
of the couch or at the other end.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Like she's in the middle. I'm in my spot on
the left. Okay, maybe like in front of Josiah. Yeah,
for sure, Hugger.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Now does Josiah is he aware that anything else has
gone on?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
He's a smart kid. He is thirteen going on forty.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I'll say that I don't know what Josiah knows.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know what he knows.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Okay, I just didn't know if he was like, oh,
you know, they're out there on the couch together. I'm
not coming out of my room because I know what happens.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
No, it's not a situation like that. Okay. Are you
giving him false hope? You keep knowing? Because you said
having a baby, and I said, why don't you guys
just have another children child together so that you guys
have at least siblings that have you know, the same
genetics and You're like that would give him false hope,
says the man who's you know, milk and cookiing. You know,
(04:28):
I think.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
One of the things that I've always done with Josiah,
maybe even earlier than he was ready for, is communicate
with him, okay, And I'm very open with Josiah, and
I'm very upfront with Josiah about things and the relationship
and my feelings towards his mother and what I believe
a future quote unquote looks like with her and I.
(04:49):
He completely is aware that that's not something that I'm
interested in or going after. And us being together for
the holidays and doing all of this isn't a needle
and thrill. Let's sew our relationship together. That's not what
this is for. This is for Josiah. Let's all celebrate
Christmas together and do that, and that's all it is.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
So it's not one of those things where you believe
that all of a sudden, you guys spend enough time
together and you know, enjoying these moments, you could say
to yourself, you know what, I can see a future
of us together.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Not necessarily, but I just I don't think. I don't
know if Jasmine is the person for me? Like, that's
not what I see.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Does she know that? Yeah, she know that. Does she
feel the same as you do?
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Nah, Jasmine kind of like me.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Knowing that and you still do this.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
No.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
But that's the thing though, it's like we you know,
being an adult and putting all the accountability on someone
else is I don't think that's the right thing to do.
You know how you feel in the situation. You have
to be grown enough to either remove yourself.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Well, and she knows how you feel in the situation,
and I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I don't like.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yes, I think she likes me.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Is she in love with me and wants to build
a family and do all of that? I have no idea.
I don't think so, but I know she likes me.
She It could or it couldn't, you know, I don't
know it could. We living in a world of if
Right now, I'm hearing the voice of my wife going.
Women get emotional when sex is involveds come into play.
(06:25):
So Jazzon and I actually talked a little bit about that,
and she said that Chelsea read her on air, like
when Chelsea said, like you getting a little like her
emotions are getting involved. Jazzon admitted that they were and
that Chelsea kind of said it.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
She said, yeah, my wife's kind of smart. No, that's
I got a din disappointment. I was like, are you
I want to open this up to ask the listeners
anybody else have something like this? Anybody else have their
X in the picture or you know the you know
the I say, I don't want to say baby mama,
(06:59):
but the mother of your Yeah, anybody have one of
these things where they for the holidays, you guys all
come together and you guys, uh, you know, have one
of these moments. I ate four to four, Mojo live
eight four four six six five six five for eight
or do you want to make a comment on Kev's situation.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I will say this though, if there comes a point
in time, and maybe that time is now where the
emotions could interfere with the progress that we've made co
parenting and being the best together for Josiah, than it
is something that needs to quit immediately.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I just hope that it doesn't make things tougher for
you guys. I would love to see you guys, this
be one of those magical moments, you know. I like
that thing. I would love to see you guys. You
want the family stone. I want to. I want you
guys together, but I also don't want it to become
a situation where you then meet some girl and then
(07:53):
it's like you discard Jasmine discard or vice versa. I'll
just jump into things. I hope she actually made somebody
and throws him to them. You would love that. When
I just want to see you hurt. You already saw
me hurt. Hold on a second, Cheryl wants to comment.
What's up, Cheryl, It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Good morning, Happy New Year.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
Eryl.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
So I just jumped down and heard Kev's little situation thing,
and it's the same for me.
Speaker 8 (08:23):
I have two daughters.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
They are six and seven, and yes, they love that
they are currently six and seven, and we spend time
together for the holidays and everything, but there is absolutely
no chance that him and I will ever be a unit.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Do you think either of you guys wants it.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
I think I'm exactly like Kevin. I think he would
if I chose to. But I've made it very clear
that I'm just trying to harmoniously co.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Parent and you're not trying to bring anything into the
messiness into this because you don't want to hurt his
his emotions, right, No, I don't, and.
Speaker 6 (08:59):
I'm currently single, so I don't know how he would
feel if I brought somebody in. I think it might
bump things up a little like bumpy, like you.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Know, rock it up.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
But I don't know. Right now, things are okay and
it's like we spent the holidays together and the kids
are happy.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
No, he sleeps on the couch.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Okay, that's where you should be, the couch. Initial a,
what's up your voices? Guys?
Speaker 9 (09:26):
I really late to the cabin situation so much. Me
and my ex husband we just got to divorced a
year ago, and we spent Christmas together because his family
does brunch and they wanted, like each family to have
like everyone together for the kids. This year was too
(09:49):
much for me, so I just wanted it as to
be easier. Is this type of thing almost mandatory because
I don't want to have to see her? Apparently, but
we have to do it for the kids.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
So wait a second, I don't understand. Are you are
you like Kevin in that you? Guys?
Speaker 4 (10:10):
She does not want to be around her cop.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Oh you don't want to be around him? Period?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
What?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
What?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Was for their for their child.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
So I realized that the I think, let's let's do this.
Let me let me ask you this question because if
I want to, I want to stay on Kev's topic. Here,
what do you think about keV and his uh? Beautiful?
You know Jasmine? Here? What do you think about these guys?
Speaker 4 (10:38):
It's beautiful whatever.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
The lady who gave birth to Josiah and Kevin here
doing their thing, because I your situation is wonderful, but
I want to focus on Kevin. That's she's gone. She
hung up right. Yeah, we already talked about stuff like
the Yeah, yeah, I want to talk about I'm prayings.
(11:01):
This is about you.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
I want to ask a question, what's next for you guys?
Because I know Mark, Like, have you planned anything else
together that you guys are.
Speaker 10 (11:13):
Going to do?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I do want to go to Like that's the thing,
like like.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
Mid winter break, spring break coming up? Are you guys
planning on doing something together?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Not necessarily, but you miss out on so many and
you notice like you miss out on so many things
when you're not together. Yeah, And I don't want to
say that we're like making up for lost time. But
now I don't want to have to like miss out
on anything. I don't want to her to have to
miss out on anything. Chicago like they got this sonic
the Hedgehog is like Josiah's s h like that's it,
(11:41):
sh isn't it? And Chicago has like this sonic the
Hedgehog like diner thing that's like a pop up. I
want to take Josiah and sure, Jackson, would you like
to go?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Like you should? You guys want to do family vacations together.
It's not okay, it's wonderful. It's in and outside. You're hey,
your comments here, Lacy, what do you think? Lazy?
Speaker 10 (12:03):
Hi guys, good morning. So I think I'm sorry, keV.
I think you're being a little selfish. So I feel
like you're not understanding like what potentially this could be
doing to Josiah. So I get you wanting to be
there for these like special moments. But you said thirteen.
I think I heard at the beginning of this segment
February and how long how many years of his life
has he gone having two Christmases and then all of
(12:26):
a sudden at an age where he can start to
kind of piece things together and understand you're now changing
things and what happens if you get in another relationship
or it hasn't gets in a relationship and those co
partners aren't comfortable with you spending the night at your
ex's house.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Now you have to take it all away from again.
Speaker 10 (12:45):
Yeah, well he's a little child, right, Like, why can't
you get up super early that morning and be there
before he even wakes up? But let Josias see you
leave Christmasy, let him see you come back. Like, I
just feel like the picture you're painting for him, you
might not see it, and you're you know where you're
coming from, where you're looking at But I think, like
(13:07):
you potentially cookies.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Are you doing this for Josiah? Are doing it for you?
Speaker 6 (13:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
I think there's value in the things that she said.
But I don't live for what is.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
I live for what I can control in this moment
and do the best that I can right now and
pray that what I'm doing right now does provide a
better future. But I'm not gonna live for the future
me and mess up the current met the you should
Last year, like, let's talk about reality. Last year was
the first year we actually did this for Josiah. Josiah
was one of the happiest that I've ever seen him.
(13:35):
Having both of his parents together for the first time
in his life celebrate Christmas was incredible for Josiah.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
That is what mattered. I think that's great, you know
what I mean, Like, I'm not trying to worry about.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
When he's eighteen years old, what is like. No, he
was the happiest he's ever been.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Did you cross the line though in having sex? Maybe?
I don't know, because that's that's the part that I
wonder if.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
But that's the part I think that Josiah does not
need to know about. Wow, He's gonna be very personal, Jazz.
I'm gonna see if Joe could took he doesn't need
to know that.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Could talk tomorrow on air and let's see how you
feel about it, because we can try to ask all
these and theorize and all that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
What is he actually for me?
Speaker 5 (14:12):
I think that you, and really you and Jasmine just
and Josiah too, you need to know that this is
probably not how it's going to be forever forever, you know,
like it is going to be ever changing, especially if
one of you gets into another relationship, like the odds
are the person you get into a relationship with is
not going to be comfortable with what you guys do.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Do you know what Jasmine is communicating to Joe about you?
Because you said you're very real with him about no,
I'm her feelings towards her. But is she saying like, oh, maybe.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
We well, I mean, I don't. I don't know what
she's having in her personal conversations. But some of these
conversations that I've had with Josiah, she's been present now,
like I'm only having him with him alone, like she's
she's there when we're having these conversations. Also, and Joe
will be thirteen in February. Do I think he'll need
us to wake up with him every day? It's you know,
saying when he's eighteen nineteen years old. I don't think so,
you know what I mean, Like this is not a
(14:59):
forever thing.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
I think there's a there's a difference between waking up
with him and then waking up and having to put
your pants on. Last year, she should but you know what,
what the moment the moment though that she says, yeah,
it did give me feelings. He should know that you
might have, so I just stop, Yeah, don't don't mess
(15:23):
with her, don't mess with her.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Head already know she's gonna have a hard time saying no,
don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Ari y'ell, what's up?
Speaker 7 (15:31):
Second time?
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Long time?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Nice to have you back. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Right? I was?
Speaker 7 (15:37):
I was just I disagree with I totally agree with
the co parents. I think I think that's so cool
and having the holidays together. I'm recently divorcing. That's like
the goal for me. But I think that the sex
part is like really complicated things because I feel like
Kevin is a really honest guy, and I feel like
he's a really good guy. So I think that him
(15:59):
saying that his child understands and his uh Jasmin understands,
I think it's more so you're being honest and we
respect you and we understand your stance.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
But it's not like there's no off type six.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Are Are there any people out there who can just
have sex together and that be it?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Because it doesn't sound like that, but I know there
are people.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Here's the piece for here's the piece for you, And
you even said it. You admitted that you think she
likes you, so her already having feelings for you, compounded
with the fact that you guys, are you know as
doctor Warner, the show guy in a college just as
having relations?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
It makes it kind of murky.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
What if she enjoys it though? What is she like him? Well,
she's a grown woman.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
She can say no, ding but yes ding ding ding.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
But Kevin can also say no. And I know the
reason why Kevin didn't is because it all goes back
to her chili that she makes.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
That chili was incredible to beefs I just had that
was even better. What's up, Allison hy Cook?
Speaker 8 (17:03):
I'm just I'm just saying I feel like now everybody's
agreeing with me.
Speaker 7 (17:07):
Why I said that they shouldn't continue to do like
the family pictures and the family vacation because it.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Seems like Kevin is leading this girl alone.
Speaker 8 (17:16):
Like my sixteen year old son just said, it's like, what.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Are they doing?
Speaker 4 (17:20):
What's the point?
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Wait, your sixteen year old sons in the car with you, guys.
Speaker 10 (17:24):
He was.
Speaker 7 (17:25):
I just dropped him off in school and he just said,
he said, what's the point.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
What is Kevin doing?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
That's a sixteen year old.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Yeah, let's let's listen to sixteen year old.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
All right, listen, all right, everybody's coming down on Kevin
here and Amber. Everybody's coming down on Kevin here.
Speaker 3 (17:46):
I know.
Speaker 8 (17:46):
I'm so sorry Kevin. It is happy New Year, Okay.
The baking cookies, that's between you guys. You two are grown,
you two figure it out. But what you guys are
doing for Josiah is the best thing that you guys
are doing for him. Six years divorce and I wish
me and the father of my son could do things
(18:07):
that you.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Guys are doing.
Speaker 8 (18:08):
There's no feelings. I don't want him back, he don't
want me back, but to do it for our son
would be fantastic.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Yeah, they do co parent amazingly, but Kevin, I definitely
think needs to think of her feelings when it comes
to the fact that he can't keep his Why is
it me though? Why is it? Why is it me? Though?
Speaker 8 (18:31):
She knows that she knows that he doesn't feel that way.
So she understands that she knows, and she can pull
away and say, you know what, Kevin, I don't want
to do this, but let's do it for Josiah and
we don't need a bake cookie.
Speaker 6 (18:45):
She's grown.
Speaker 8 (18:46):
She can say that and Kevin will respect that.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
But knowing that she likes him, in the back of
her mind, she could be thinking like, Okay, right now,
he doesn't see me as that, but like I'm gonna
keep cooking for him. I'm gonna do this for him.
Maybe one day he will.
Speaker 8 (18:58):
We'll go in with not of high hope. Don't have
your hope teps.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Well, let's just hope that one gets past the goalie
and we get another baby.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
That's one thing that Josiah did, didn't he say?
Speaker 5 (19:12):
He was like, yeah, I feel like that age difference
would be way too much.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
It's not it's not what we we're after, guys. Last
comment from Deshaun, what's up DeShawn? All not all black guys,
sounded like, what's up Dejaun?
Speaker 2 (19:37):
I'm already thinking from experience.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Okay, before I got married, all this stuff, Kevin, listen
to me, all you've gotta keep screwing your baby mama. Man,
that's the only way coparentson don't work.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Be back in hill.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
When I got.
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Married, I got married at all.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
This can't stand me.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
I'm trying to tell you, Kate thanking her, Okay.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Keep words of wisdom from Josahn. Thank you, Jehaun. I
appreciate that. Over the sixty year old know what he's
talking about. Oh my
All right, it's Mojo in the morning show. Are you
guys ready for the big Kevin.
Speaker 2 (00:07):
Building this up?
Speaker 1 (00:08):
Tavin's Christmas? Are you ready for Cav's Christmas? He told
us before the break that Cav and Josiah's mom were
going to spend Christmas together.
Speaker 3 (00:18):
Yeah, and we did. It was our second year in
a row. And uh previously before these two years, we
have share a parenton so some years I would have Josiah,
some years I wouldn't.
Speaker 1 (00:30):
But one of the things that you might have missed was,
remember keV tried to do this whole thing with us. Hey,
give us your confessions, and he goes, I'll start first,
I had sex.
Speaker 4 (00:41):
With Jasmine, Josiah's mom.
Speaker 1 (00:44):
By the way, how did she feel about you announcing
that on the radio like that? Like I said, she
knew I was going to do it.
Speaker 3 (00:49):
That's not something that I would share without her knowing
that I'm going to share. She asked people that listened
to the show. She got people to hit her up
and let her know what I'm talking about her. She
listens to the show. So that's not a bomb that
I just want to drop out of nowhere. So she yeah,
for a warning and that did not happen last Christmas,
right the sex? No, no, no, no, no, you guys.
Actually I think one slept on the couch or something.
I slept on the couch. Yeah, but you know this
(01:11):
year was different. Well, I don't want to say that, Dan,
I don't like Jasmine is kind of like you know
what I'm saying. She don't really want me to say
certain things respectful her. We didn't have sex though, Okay,
but you know, Santa drink some milk.
Speaker 1 (01:27):
No, but it was a memory. Remember before the show,
I said, we're going to have a new start to
a year.
Speaker 2 (01:36):
Was going on.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Listen. This Christmas was even better than last year.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
I think last year we were kind of putting our
toe in the water, trying to see if having Christmas
together again for the reason and the purpose of like
showing Josiah that that was.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
It was kind of weird.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
I mean, her inviting me even into her house because
we were at a point where I don't even know
where Jasmine lived, like let alone, let me walk inside
and stay for a minute. Having to use the bathroom
was like pulling teeth almost. So the first year was weird.
It was to get to know you type of thing.
Now a year removed from that where we're older, we
have much better communication and much better and then actual
relationship now it was completely different. And Jasmine she's incredible, bro. Like,
(02:16):
she put together this document where she designed this keVs
At Christmas thing and she used some characters that Josiah created.
She brought over. She made like this fire beef stew.
She had like this shark cruderie board. We made cookies,
like in the literal sense. We sat down, we watched movies.
I had decorated the whole house. It was pretty dope.
Speaker 1 (02:39):
Man.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
We had an incredible Christmas and I'm looking forward to
next year.
Speaker 1 (02:42):
Wow. So you guys spent Christmas together? And this is
interesting because here we are. We were talking earlier about
being in a you know, family that's gone through divorce
or you know split. You guys actually full on spent
the holidays together. But you guys also spent the holidays together. Yeah,
(03:04):
we did it. We exchanged gifts.
Speaker 2 (03:06):
I'll be.
Speaker 5 (03:09):
Just I need to clarify because it's like I'm a
little fuzzy and I know there are things and I
love Jasmins, so I want to be respectful for her.
You you did not sleep on the couch, which meant
you you shared a bed.
Speaker 1 (03:19):
No, we slept on the couch.
Speaker 4 (03:21):
We both of you together slept on the couch.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
Okay, okay, No, Josiah was nowhere to be found. Are
you toddling with her? Or is she at one end
of the couch or at the other end.
Speaker 3 (03:30):
Like she's in the middle. I'm in my spot on
the left. Okay, maybe like in front of Josiah. Yeah,
for sure, Hugger.
Speaker 5 (03:37):
Now does Josiah is he aware that anything else has
gone on?
Speaker 4 (03:43):
He's a smart kid. He is thirteen going on forty.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
I'll say that I don't know what Josiah knows.
Speaker 1 (03:53):
I don't know what he knows.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Okay, I just didn't know if he was like, oh,
you know, they're out there on the couch together. I'm
not coming out of my room because I know what happens.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
No, it's not a situation like that. Okay. Are you
giving him false hope? You keep knowing? Because you said
having a baby, and I said, why don't you guys
just have another children child together so that you guys
have at least siblings that have you know, the same
genetics and You're like that would give him false hope,
says the man who's you know, milk and cookiing. You know,
(04:28):
I think.
Speaker 3 (04:29):
One of the things that I've always done with Josiah,
maybe even earlier than he was ready for, is communicate
with him, okay, And I'm very open with Josiah, and
I'm very upfront with Josiah about things and the relationship
and my feelings towards his mother and what I believe
a future quote unquote looks like with her and I.
(04:49):
He completely is aware that that's not something that I'm
interested in or going after. And us being together for
the holidays and doing all of this isn't a needle
and thrill. Let's sew our relationship together. That's not what
this is for. This is for Josiah. Let's all celebrate
Christmas together and do that, and that's all it is.
Speaker 1 (05:08):
So it's not one of those things where you believe
that all of a sudden, you guys spend enough time
together and you know, enjoying these moments, you could say
to yourself, you know what, I can see a future
of us together.
Speaker 3 (05:24):
Not necessarily, but I just I don't think. I don't
know if Jasmine is the person for me? Like, that's
not what I see.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
Does she know that? Yeah, she know that. Does she
feel the same as you do?
Speaker 3 (05:35):
Nah, Jasmine kind of like me.
Speaker 2 (05:40):
Knowing that and you still do this.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
No.
Speaker 3 (05:42):
But that's the thing though, it's like we you know,
being an adult and putting all the accountability on someone
else is I don't think that's the right thing to do.
You know how you feel in the situation. You have
to be grown enough to either remove yourself.
Speaker 4 (05:56):
Well, and she knows how you feel in the situation,
and I don't.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
I don't like.
Speaker 1 (06:02):
Yes, I think she likes me.
Speaker 3 (06:04):
Is she in love with me and wants to build
a family and do all of that? I have no idea.
I don't think so, but I know she likes me.
She It could or it couldn't, you know, I don't
know it could. We living in a world of if
Right now, I'm hearing the voice of my wife going.
Women get emotional when sex is involveds come into play.
(06:25):
So Jazzon and I actually talked a little bit about that,
and she said that Chelsea read her on air, like
when Chelsea said, like you getting a little like her
emotions are getting involved. Jazzon admitted that they were and
that Chelsea kind of said it.
Speaker 1 (06:38):
She said, yeah, my wife's kind of smart. No, that's
I got a din disappointment. I was like, are you
I want to open this up to ask the listeners
anybody else have something like this? Anybody else have their
X in the picture or you know the you know
the I say, I don't want to say baby mama,
(06:59):
but the mother of your Yeah, anybody have one of
these things where they for the holidays, you guys all
come together and you guys, uh, you know, have one
of these moments. I ate four to four, Mojo live
eight four four six six five six five for eight
or do you want to make a comment on Kev's situation.
Speaker 3 (07:16):
I will say this though, if there comes a point
in time, and maybe that time is now where the
emotions could interfere with the progress that we've made co
parenting and being the best together for Josiah, than it
is something that needs to quit immediately.
Speaker 1 (07:33):
I just hope that it doesn't make things tougher for
you guys. I would love to see you guys, this
be one of those magical moments, you know. I like
that thing. I would love to see you guys. You
want the family stone. I want to. I want you
guys together, but I also don't want it to become
a situation where you then meet some girl and then
(07:53):
it's like you discard Jasmine discard or vice versa. I'll
just jump into things. I hope she actually made somebody
and throws him to them. You would love that. When
I just want to see you hurt. You already saw
me hurt. Hold on a second, Cheryl wants to comment.
What's up, Cheryl, It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 6 (08:14):
Good morning, Happy New Year.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
Eryl.
Speaker 6 (08:18):
So I just jumped down and heard Kev's little situation thing,
and it's the same for me.
Speaker 8 (08:23):
I have two daughters.
Speaker 6 (08:24):
They are six and seven, and yes, they love that
they are currently six and seven, and we spend time
together for the holidays and everything, but there is absolutely
no chance that him and I will ever be a unit.
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Do you think either of you guys wants it.
Speaker 6 (08:40):
I think I'm exactly like Kevin. I think he would
if I chose to. But I've made it very clear
that I'm just trying to harmoniously co.
Speaker 1 (08:49):
Parent and you're not trying to bring anything into the
messiness into this because you don't want to hurt his
his emotions, right, No, I don't, and.
Speaker 6 (08:59):
I'm currently single, so I don't know how he would
feel if I brought somebody in. I think it might
bump things up a little like bumpy, like you.
Speaker 1 (09:08):
Know, rock it up.
Speaker 6 (09:09):
But I don't know. Right now, things are okay and
it's like we spent the holidays together and the kids
are happy.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
No, he sleeps on the couch.
Speaker 1 (09:18):
Okay, that's where you should be, the couch. Initial a,
what's up your voices? Guys?
Speaker 9 (09:26):
I really late to the cabin situation so much. Me
and my ex husband we just got to divorced a
year ago, and we spent Christmas together because his family
does brunch and they wanted, like each family to have
like everyone together for the kids. This year was too
(09:49):
much for me, so I just wanted it as to
be easier. Is this type of thing almost mandatory because
I don't want to have to see her? Apparently, but
we have to do it for the kids.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
So wait a second, I don't understand. Are you are
you like Kevin in that you? Guys?
Speaker 4 (10:10):
She does not want to be around her cop.
Speaker 1 (10:13):
Oh you don't want to be around him? Period?
Speaker 2 (10:15):
What?
Speaker 1 (10:16):
What?
Speaker 4 (10:16):
Was for their for their child.
Speaker 1 (10:19):
So I realized that the I think, let's let's do this.
Let me let me ask you this question because if
I want to, I want to stay on Kev's topic. Here,
what do you think about keV and his uh? Beautiful?
You know Jasmine? Here? What do you think about these guys?
Speaker 4 (10:38):
It's beautiful whatever.
Speaker 1 (10:40):
The lady who gave birth to Josiah and Kevin here
doing their thing, because I your situation is wonderful, but
I want to focus on Kevin. That's she's gone. She
hung up right. Yeah, we already talked about stuff like
the Yeah, yeah, I want to talk about I'm prayings.
(11:01):
This is about you.
Speaker 5 (11:02):
I want to ask a question, what's next for you guys?
Because I know Mark, Like, have you planned anything else
together that you guys are.
Speaker 10 (11:13):
Going to do?
Speaker 3 (11:13):
I do want to go to Like that's the thing,
like like.
Speaker 4 (11:17):
Mid winter break, spring break coming up? Are you guys
planning on doing something together?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Not necessarily, but you miss out on so many and
you notice like you miss out on so many things
when you're not together. Yeah, And I don't want to
say that we're like making up for lost time. But
now I don't want to have to like miss out
on anything. I don't want to her to have to
miss out on anything. Chicago like they got this sonic
the Hedgehog is like Josiah's s h like that's it,
(11:41):
sh isn't it? And Chicago has like this sonic the
Hedgehog like diner thing that's like a pop up. I
want to take Josiah and sure, Jackson, would you like
to go?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Like you should? You guys want to do family vacations together.
It's not okay, it's wonderful. It's in and outside. You're hey,
your comments here, Lacy, what do you think? Lazy?
Speaker 10 (12:03):
Hi guys, good morning. So I think I'm sorry, keV.
I think you're being a little selfish. So I feel
like you're not understanding like what potentially this could be
doing to Josiah. So I get you wanting to be
there for these like special moments. But you said thirteen.
I think I heard at the beginning of this segment
February and how long how many years of his life
has he gone having two Christmases and then all of
(12:26):
a sudden at an age where he can start to
kind of piece things together and understand you're now changing
things and what happens if you get in another relationship
or it hasn't gets in a relationship and those co
partners aren't comfortable with you spending the night at your
ex's house.
Speaker 1 (12:43):
Now you have to take it all away from again.
Speaker 10 (12:45):
Yeah, well he's a little child, right, Like, why can't
you get up super early that morning and be there
before he even wakes up? But let Josias see you
leave Christmasy, let him see you come back. Like, I
just feel like the picture you're painting for him, you
might not see it, and you're you know where you're
coming from, where you're looking at But I think, like
(13:07):
you potentially cookies.
Speaker 1 (13:08):
Are you doing this for Josiah? Are doing it for you?
Speaker 6 (13:11):
No?
Speaker 1 (13:11):
I think there's value in the things that she said.
But I don't live for what is.
Speaker 3 (13:15):
I live for what I can control in this moment
and do the best that I can right now and
pray that what I'm doing right now does provide a
better future. But I'm not gonna live for the future
me and mess up the current met the you should
Last year, like, let's talk about reality. Last year was
the first year we actually did this for Josiah. Josiah
was one of the happiest that I've ever seen him.
(13:35):
Having both of his parents together for the first time
in his life celebrate Christmas was incredible for Josiah.
Speaker 1 (13:43):
That is what mattered. I think that's great, you know
what I mean, Like, I'm not trying to worry about.
Speaker 3 (13:47):
When he's eighteen years old, what is like. No, he
was the happiest he's ever been.
Speaker 1 (13:50):
Did you cross the line though in having sex? Maybe?
I don't know, because that's that's the part that I
wonder if.
Speaker 5 (13:57):
But that's the part I think that Josiah does not
need to know about. Wow, He's gonna be very personal, Jazz.
I'm gonna see if Joe could took he doesn't need
to know that.
Speaker 3 (14:05):
Could talk tomorrow on air and let's see how you
feel about it, because we can try to ask all
these and theorize and all that.
Speaker 1 (14:11):
What is he actually for me?
Speaker 5 (14:12):
I think that you, and really you and Jasmine just
and Josiah too, you need to know that this is
probably not how it's going to be forever forever, you know,
like it is going to be ever changing, especially if
one of you gets into another relationship, like the odds
are the person you get into a relationship with is
not going to be comfortable with what you guys do.
Speaker 2 (14:30):
Do you know what Jasmine is communicating to Joe about you?
Because you said you're very real with him about no,
I'm her feelings towards her. But is she saying like, oh, maybe.
Speaker 3 (14:38):
We well, I mean, I don't. I don't know what
she's having in her personal conversations. But some of these
conversations that I've had with Josiah, she's been present now,
like I'm only having him with him alone, like she's
she's there when we're having these conversations. Also, and Joe
will be thirteen in February. Do I think he'll need
us to wake up with him every day? It's you know,
saying when he's eighteen nineteen years old. I don't think so,
you know what I mean, Like this is not a
(14:59):
forever thing.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
I think there's a there's a difference between waking up
with him and then waking up and having to put
your pants on. Last year, she should but you know what,
what the moment the moment though that she says, yeah,
it did give me feelings. He should know that you
might have, so I just stop, Yeah, don't don't mess
(15:23):
with her, don't mess with her.
Speaker 2 (15:24):
Head already know she's gonna have a hard time saying no,
don't do it.
Speaker 1 (15:27):
Ari y'ell, what's up?
Speaker 7 (15:31):
Second time?
Speaker 3 (15:32):
Long time?
Speaker 1 (15:33):
Nice to have you back. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (15:36):
Right? I was?
Speaker 7 (15:37):
I was just I disagree with I totally agree with
the co parents. I think I think that's so cool
and having the holidays together. I'm recently divorcing. That's like
the goal for me. But I think that the sex
part is like really complicated things because I feel like
Kevin is a really honest guy, and I feel like
he's a really good guy. So I think that him
(15:59):
saying that his child understands and his uh Jasmin understands,
I think it's more so you're being honest and we
respect you and we understand your stance.
Speaker 2 (16:11):
But it's not like there's no off type six.
Speaker 3 (16:15):
Are Are there any people out there who can just
have sex together and that be it?
Speaker 1 (16:21):
Because it doesn't sound like that, but I know there
are people.
Speaker 5 (16:24):
Here's the piece for here's the piece for you, And
you even said it. You admitted that you think she
likes you, so her already having feelings for you, compounded
with the fact that you guys, are you know as
doctor Warner, the show guy in a college just as
having relations?
Speaker 4 (16:37):
It makes it kind of murky.
Speaker 1 (16:40):
What if she enjoys it though? What is she like him? Well,
she's a grown woman.
Speaker 4 (16:44):
She can say no, ding but yes ding ding ding.
Speaker 1 (16:48):
But Kevin can also say no. And I know the
reason why Kevin didn't is because it all goes back
to her chili that she makes.
Speaker 3 (16:57):
That chili was incredible to beefs I just had that
was even better. What's up, Allison hy Cook?
Speaker 8 (17:03):
I'm just I'm just saying I feel like now everybody's
agreeing with me.
Speaker 7 (17:07):
Why I said that they shouldn't continue to do like
the family pictures and the family vacation because it.
Speaker 1 (17:13):
Seems like Kevin is leading this girl alone.
Speaker 8 (17:16):
Like my sixteen year old son just said, it's like, what.
Speaker 1 (17:19):
Are they doing?
Speaker 4 (17:20):
What's the point?
Speaker 2 (17:21):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (17:21):
Wait, your sixteen year old sons in the car with you, guys.
Speaker 10 (17:24):
He was.
Speaker 7 (17:25):
I just dropped him off in school and he just said,
he said, what's the point.
Speaker 4 (17:28):
What is Kevin doing?
Speaker 2 (17:29):
That's a sixteen year old.
Speaker 3 (17:31):
Yeah, let's let's listen to sixteen year old.
Speaker 1 (17:37):
All right, listen, all right, everybody's coming down on Kevin
here and Amber. Everybody's coming down on Kevin here.
Speaker 3 (17:46):
I know.
Speaker 8 (17:46):
I'm so sorry Kevin. It is happy New Year, Okay.
The baking cookies, that's between you guys. You two are grown,
you two figure it out. But what you guys are
doing for Josiah is the best thing that you guys
are doing for him. Six years divorce and I wish
me and the father of my son could do things
(18:07):
that you.
Speaker 1 (18:07):
Guys are doing.
Speaker 8 (18:08):
There's no feelings. I don't want him back, he don't
want me back, but to do it for our son
would be fantastic.
Speaker 1 (18:15):
Yeah, they do co parent amazingly, but Kevin, I definitely
think needs to think of her feelings when it comes
to the fact that he can't keep his Why is
it me though? Why is it? Why is it me? Though?
Speaker 8 (18:31):
She knows that she knows that he doesn't feel that way.
So she understands that she knows, and she can pull
away and say, you know what, Kevin, I don't want
to do this, but let's do it for Josiah and
we don't need a bake cookie.
Speaker 6 (18:45):
She's grown.
Speaker 8 (18:46):
She can say that and Kevin will respect that.
Speaker 2 (18:48):
But knowing that she likes him, in the back of
her mind, she could be thinking like, Okay, right now,
he doesn't see me as that, but like I'm gonna
keep cooking for him. I'm gonna do this for him.
Maybe one day he will.
Speaker 8 (18:58):
We'll go in with not of high hope. Don't have
your hope teps.
Speaker 1 (19:03):
Well, let's just hope that one gets past the goalie
and we get another baby.
Speaker 4 (19:10):
That's one thing that Josiah did, didn't he say?
Speaker 5 (19:12):
He was like, yeah, I feel like that age difference
would be way too much.
Speaker 1 (19:17):
It's not it's not what we we're after, guys. Last
comment from Deshaun, what's up DeShawn? All not all black guys,
sounded like, what's up Dejaun?
Speaker 2 (19:37):
I'm already thinking from experience.
Speaker 3 (19:39):
Okay, before I got married, all this stuff, Kevin, listen
to me, all you've gotta keep screwing your baby mama. Man,
that's the only way coparentson don't work.
Speaker 1 (19:51):
Be back in hill.
Speaker 3 (19:56):
When I got.
Speaker 5 (19:56):
Married, I got married at all.
Speaker 3 (20:00):
This can't stand me.
Speaker 4 (20:01):
I'm trying to tell you, Kate thanking her, Okay.
Speaker 1 (20:04):
Keep words of wisdom from Josahn. Thank you, Jehaun. I
appreciate that. Over the sixty year old know what he's
talking about. Oh my
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