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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Oh Joe in the Morning Show. So Kev's mom thinks
that Kevin's soulmate is out there and Kevin is missing
out on his opportunity because he is choosing wrong. And
this is an interesting one because there's a lot of
times where parents will tell their kids who they think
(00:22):
they should date or who they think that they should
be in relationships with. And I wonder if there are
any other people that have had this where their mom
or their dad told them, you know what, this is
who you should be with? Who is it that your
mom thinks that you should be with?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Sharue? Whoa she thinks Sharia is the one?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Doesn't she doesn't she know Sharrella is with me now.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Were close and are still close even though you guys
aren't together, right.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah for sure, Yeah, yeah they are. They talk all
the time. They're extremely close.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
But yeah, it's one of them situations where she felt
like we were perfect for each other, and she felt like,
even though we haven't been together for almost a year,
that that's even more of the reason why we should
give it another chance, because, in her words, we've matured.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Have you matured?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I feel like in some respects definitely, But I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Don't agree with that. Charrelle want to be with you.
I haven't asked her that question. I don't see why
she wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Do you.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Do you want to be with her? No? Oh jesus,
where's mom?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I asked her if she wanted to talk and she
said she didn't want to talk about it. She said,
she don't want me to talk about Sharyl or can
I talk to her real quick?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Just for a second.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
You want to Lydia, we call her? Just tell her
I want to talk to her for one second? That yeah, okay, Son,
try to weasel it in there. Have a question for you.
How have I been with you on this whatever? What's
my advice over the time?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Ben, I don't know. I don't remember what you said.
Did I give What did I say to you? I
don't remember.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Honestly, I said time will heal everything, and I both
gave you guys.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Of course, of course, Tom will take your time.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
I don't foresee myself going down that same street anymore,
but I love that road, and well recommend you know anybody.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They have the wildest relationship because their relationship is very interesting,
and his mom or him and Cherrelle because they they split,
they split up, they go off. I have no idea
what Charrel's doing. I know Chelsea talks to Charrell a
lot more than I talked to Chrell, but I they
they get along very well though, like they actually have
like it's.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Nice, we're great people, but it should be.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But also it's interesting. The thing that's interesting about them
is I've always kind of because your mom, did your
mom say that she was thinks that she's this old man,
you know, so she thinks that she's the one. I
actually kind of felt that way too, but I didn't.
I thought that, honestly, that a few other people were
soul mates and they weren't. But hold on a second.
(03:01):
I can't talk to her about Cherrell, but I can
talk to her about her. I guess Kev's mom's on
the phone right now with me. How are you, Kev's mom?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
I'm doing good. I'm outside walking to the car. I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
What are you going to the car for? Where you're
heading off to?
Speaker 6 (03:18):
Well? A man an appointment And.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Okay, I don't want to keep you hey real quick.
I just wanted to ask you a question that is
not about Cherrell. I wanted to just say to you
that I agree with you. That's all I wanted to say.
That's all I wanted to know about. That's all I
wanted to say. By the way, I love your son.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You know that.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Yeah, I think so, if you want it, I do.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I love this kid. I love him.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
He's very You should have seen him last night. By
the way, we got him. We got him drinking fancy
wine last night.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Pino is good wine.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
What what kind of wisdom can you give to your
son in just a short period of time Right now
while we're talking to you, Mom.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
To breathe, because it's a miracle to breathe, and to
take take everything one step at a time. Don't rush it,
don't rush into anything. And the past is the past,
and moving an open space, move in the right direction.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Kevin, I love this woman.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
And I know it's radio everybody, and Kevin says some
things that.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
It's not even him. She don't like yesterday when I
said I sucked toes.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
She ain't like he's By the way, it's disgusting that
he would put a toe in his mouth.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It is so disgusting. You put worse things in your mouth.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I've put yes, I have, and I had heart issues
because of it.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Problems. You got to you gotta take care of yourself.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
You Mama, We all love you.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You see, Mom?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Take care all right? Are there? Well, I mean, Shanny,
your kids. I hold enough to date. But like I'm
sure there are people, oh yeah, that you may have
thought in the past were the one.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
My kids, or that you knew I wasn't the one.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
No, well, no, can I tell you. I'm gonna give you.
I'll give you a couple of things. When I got
married to Chelsea, my dad literally said to me, don't
ever screw this up because he actually he believed that
Chelsea was the one. And during time my dad didn't
know about difficulties. I never shared it with him. Actually,
to be honest with you, I tell this to people
all the time, don't share. I shared our struggles with
(05:47):
my sisters and it changed my sister's relationships with Chelsea
because they took sides. So don't ever share stuff with
your family. We actually get on our We don't podcast
and talk about that a little bit.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
But I think back to my kids. Uh.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I loved Jacob's old boyfriend Ryan. Now I love his
new boyfriend way more than I love uh.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Uh. You know the old one.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love Joe's old girlfriend like she was a daughter.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I thought she was a daughter for me.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Now I do love Joe's girlfriend or fiance fiance now,
But it's it's hard when you see your kids, when
you see your kids dating people.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And you and bring these these boys and girls into
your family.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Never again after Joe and Katie.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Well, that's not true.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I was so focused. True, I'm telling.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
You, you go out with Chris and his family's Jacob's boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Maybe maybe I got so bonded by this thing. I
said to Chelsea, I gotta protect myselves with this thing.
But I will say this to you, Uh. I think
parents see only the part of the relationship, you know
what I mean. We don't see the whole thing. We
can't make it. We can't make the decisions for you.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Is Cherrelle telling her more?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
And whenever she brings Charille, I kind of be like,
leave that alone. I don't really need to hear all that.
I kind of shut it down. What do you think, Ashley?
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I agree with Keub's mom and take what I say
with a grain of salt because it's just what I
hear over the radio. But I just thought that I
liked the persona of Kevin as a husband and a father,
and you know the man that he kind of was
when he was with Charrelle. So I think a good
woman will give that influence and make you a different
(07:34):
kind of man. And that's just my opinion.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
That's beautiful.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
That's beautiful, and I think one day that side of
me will be birthed again.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
It's not like it died. It's just lion dormy.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I'm not who I am as a single man and
the same person that I was as someone that was
about to get married.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
That's just the reality. It's a It.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Is funny Ashley that you say that, because I was
thinking about the ange that keV has had over time,
and he's very uh transparent, and how he feels. He
says stuff on the radio. Honestly, I did don't even
think I have the guts to say. And he definitely
is different post Cherrelle than he was with Cherrell.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
But I like every human being, when you're in a relationship,
you behave a little differently than you do if you're
not in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
But I also think that with you. No I agree
with you, No, I agree with you. But I also
think that it is interesting. It is interesting. He's a
wild and out guy now like he's out with this
is probably who I was before, Charro, that's me.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Y'all just knew me. Y'all just knew me. But now
you're right, you're right.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Actually, I the thing I do think that the funny,
the most interesting with your mom is how much your
mother loves the hell out of you. And and I
do think that it's really cute how she kind of
when she does they when her voice comes up, she
gets that mom voice.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Going, says Kevin, very certain, so much pass to him.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Did you can hear the a hole undertis?
Speaker 1 (09:25):
How soon after the toe sucking conversation did she call?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
You know?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
She text me like I think when we went to
break no, let me see, let me see what Kevin.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Most of the time.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
She said she was like, oht too much, son.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
I get one of those almost every day. I need
a drop from her like that. We got to get
in the drop
Oh Joe in the Morning Show. So Kev's mom thinks
that Kevin's soulmate is out there and Kevin is missing
out on his opportunity because he is choosing wrong. And
this is an interesting one because there's a lot of
times where parents will tell their kids who they think
(00:22):
they should date or who they think that they should
be in relationships with. And I wonder if there are
any other people that have had this where their mom
or their dad told them, you know what, this is
who you should be with? Who is it that your
mom thinks that you should be with?
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Sharue? Whoa she thinks Sharia is the one?
Speaker 1 (00:42):
Doesn't she doesn't she know Sharrella is with me now.
Speaker 3 (00:48):
Were close and are still close even though you guys
aren't together, right.
Speaker 2 (00:53):
Yeah for sure, Yeah, yeah they are. They talk all
the time. They're extremely close.
Speaker 4 (00:57):
But yeah, it's one of them situations where she felt
like we were perfect for each other, and she felt like,
even though we haven't been together for almost a year,
that that's even more of the reason why we should
give it another chance, because, in her words, we've matured.
Speaker 2 (01:15):
Have you matured?
Speaker 5 (01:16):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
I feel like in some respects definitely, But I don't.
Speaker 4 (01:19):
Don't agree with that. Charrelle want to be with you.
I haven't asked her that question. I don't see why
she wouldn't.
Speaker 5 (01:25):
Do you.
Speaker 2 (01:28):
Do you want to be with her? No? Oh jesus,
where's mom?
Speaker 4 (01:34):
I asked her if she wanted to talk and she
said she didn't want to talk about it. She said,
she don't want me to talk about Sharyl or can
I talk to her real quick?
Speaker 2 (01:41):
Just for a second.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
You want to Lydia, we call her? Just tell her
I want to talk to her for one second? That yeah, okay, Son,
try to weasel it in there. Have a question for you.
How have I been with you on this whatever? What's
my advice over the time?
Speaker 2 (01:55):
Ben, I don't know. I don't remember what you said.
Did I give What did I say to you? I
don't remember.
Speaker 1 (02:00):
Honestly, I said time will heal everything, and I both
gave you guys.
Speaker 2 (02:04):
Of course, of course, Tom will take your time.
Speaker 4 (02:07):
I don't foresee myself going down that same street anymore,
but I love that road, and well recommend you know anybody.
Speaker 1 (02:16):
They have the wildest relationship because their relationship is very interesting,
and his mom or him and Cherrelle because they they split,
they split up, they go off. I have no idea
what Charrel's doing. I know Chelsea talks to Charrell a
lot more than I talked to Chrell, but I they
they get along very well though, like they actually have
like it's.
Speaker 2 (02:37):
Nice, we're great people, but it should be.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
But also it's interesting. The thing that's interesting about them
is I've always kind of because your mom, did your
mom say that she was thinks that she's this old man,
you know, so she thinks that she's the one. I
actually kind of felt that way too, but I didn't.
I thought that, honestly, that a few other people were
soul mates and they weren't. But hold on a second.
(03:01):
I can't talk to her about Cherrell, but I can
talk to her about her. I guess Kev's mom's on
the phone right now with me. How are you, Kev's mom?
Speaker 5 (03:09):
I'm doing good. I'm outside walking to the car. I'm doing.
Speaker 2 (03:14):
What are you going to the car for? Where you're
heading off to?
Speaker 6 (03:18):
Well? A man an appointment And.
Speaker 1 (03:21):
Okay, I don't want to keep you hey real quick.
I just wanted to ask you a question that is
not about Cherrell. I wanted to just say to you
that I agree with you. That's all I wanted to say.
That's all I wanted to know about. That's all I
wanted to say. By the way, I love your son.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
You know that.
Speaker 6 (03:45):
Yeah, I think so, if you want it, I do.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
I love this kid. I love him.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
He's very You should have seen him last night. By
the way, we got him. We got him drinking fancy
wine last night.
Speaker 2 (03:57):
Pino is good wine.
Speaker 1 (04:02):
What what kind of wisdom can you give to your
son in just a short period of time Right now
while we're talking to you, Mom.
Speaker 6 (04:08):
To breathe, because it's a miracle to breathe, and to
take take everything one step at a time. Don't rush it,
don't rush into anything. And the past is the past,
and moving an open space, move in the right direction.
Speaker 2 (04:30):
Kevin, I love this woman.
Speaker 6 (04:32):
And I know it's radio everybody, and Kevin says some
things that.
Speaker 2 (04:41):
It's not even him. She don't like yesterday when I
said I sucked toes.
Speaker 1 (04:44):
She ain't like he's By the way, it's disgusting that
he would put a toe in his mouth.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
It is so disgusting. You put worse things in your mouth.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
I've put yes, I have, and I had heart issues
because of it.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
Problems. You got to you gotta take care of yourself.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
You Mama, We all love you.
Speaker 2 (05:05):
You see, Mom?
Speaker 4 (05:07):
Take care all right? Are there? Well, I mean, Shanny,
your kids. I hold enough to date. But like I'm
sure there are people, oh yeah, that you may have
thought in the past were the one.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
My kids, or that you knew I wasn't the one.
Speaker 1 (05:24):
No, well, no, can I tell you. I'm gonna give you.
I'll give you a couple of things. When I got
married to Chelsea, my dad literally said to me, don't
ever screw this up because he actually he believed that
Chelsea was the one. And during time my dad didn't
know about difficulties. I never shared it with him. Actually,
to be honest with you, I tell this to people
all the time, don't share. I shared our struggles with
(05:47):
my sisters and it changed my sister's relationships with Chelsea
because they took sides. So don't ever share stuff with
your family. We actually get on our We don't podcast
and talk about that a little bit.
Speaker 2 (06:00):
But I think back to my kids. Uh.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
I loved Jacob's old boyfriend Ryan. Now I love his
new boyfriend way more than I love uh.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Uh. You know the old one.
Speaker 1 (06:12):
I love Joe's old girlfriend like she was a daughter.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
I thought she was a daughter for me.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
Now I do love Joe's girlfriend or fiance fiance now,
But it's it's hard when you see your kids, when
you see your kids dating people.
Speaker 3 (06:26):
And you and bring these these boys and girls into
your family.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
Never again after Joe and Katie.
Speaker 3 (06:35):
Well, that's not true.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
I was so focused. True, I'm telling.
Speaker 3 (06:38):
You, you go out with Chris and his family's Jacob's boyfriend.
Speaker 1 (06:43):
Maybe maybe I got so bonded by this thing. I
said to Chelsea, I gotta protect myselves with this thing.
But I will say this to you, Uh. I think
parents see only the part of the relationship, you know
what I mean. We don't see the whole thing. We
can't make it. We can't make the decisions for you.
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Is Cherrelle telling her more?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
And whenever she brings Charille, I kind of be like,
leave that alone. I don't really need to hear all that.
I kind of shut it down. What do you think, Ashley?
Speaker 5 (07:14):
I agree with Keub's mom and take what I say
with a grain of salt because it's just what I
hear over the radio. But I just thought that I
liked the persona of Kevin as a husband and a father,
and you know the man that he kind of was
when he was with Charrelle. So I think a good
woman will give that influence and make you a different
(07:34):
kind of man. And that's just my opinion.
Speaker 2 (07:37):
That's beautiful.
Speaker 4 (07:38):
That's beautiful, and I think one day that side of
me will be birthed again.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
It's not like it died. It's just lion dormy.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I'm not who I am as a single man and
the same person that I was as someone that was
about to get married.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
That's just the reality. It's a It.
Speaker 1 (07:55):
Is funny Ashley that you say that, because I was
thinking about the ange that keV has had over time,
and he's very uh transparent, and how he feels. He
says stuff on the radio. Honestly, I did don't even
think I have the guts to say. And he definitely
is different post Cherrelle than he was with Cherrell.
Speaker 3 (08:20):
But I like every human being, when you're in a relationship,
you behave a little differently than you do if you're
not in a relationship.
Speaker 1 (08:30):
But I also think that with you. No I agree
with you, No, I agree with you. But I also
think that it is interesting. It is interesting. He's a
wild and out guy now like he's out with this
is probably who I was before, Charro, that's me.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
Y'all just knew me. Y'all just knew me. But now
you're right, you're right.
Speaker 1 (08:58):
Actually, I the thing I do think that the funny,
the most interesting with your mom is how much your
mother loves the hell out of you. And and I
do think that it's really cute how she kind of
when she does they when her voice comes up, she
gets that mom voice.
Speaker 3 (09:15):
Going, says Kevin, very certain, so much pass to him.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
Did you can hear the a hole undertis?
Speaker 1 (09:25):
How soon after the toe sucking conversation did she call?
Speaker 2 (09:29):
You know?
Speaker 4 (09:30):
She text me like I think when we went to
break no, let me see, let me see what Kevin.
Speaker 2 (09:37):
Most of the time.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
She said she was like, oht too much, son.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
I get one of those almost every day. I need
a drop from her like that. We got to get
in the drop
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