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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojoe in the morning show. So Bianca on our show
is twenty.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Two, yeah, twenty three, next month.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Twenty three, and she's been kind of interested in this boy.
And this is an interesting thing, Bianca. For those that
don't know, this is cal Dian, which if you're Caldean,
you are an Iraqi Catholic. There's many of them in
the trade area. I have to explain this, which, by
the way, Martin Manna, my buddy, Martin Mana, just text
(00:28):
me a second ago. He goes, congratulations on getting the
key to the city. I remember back when Coleman Young
gave it to Saddam Hussein. You're a good company, bro,
Saddam Saddam Hussein and kolemen A Young. That's right, what
a what an honor group. We're among a good company.
(00:54):
But Bianca has to hide her boyfriend from her parents
because her parents don't want her dating. They want to
arrange marriage her or something.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
What isn't it, Yeah, something like that. I don't honestly
know how to ever tell my parents. I'm like hanging
out with the guy or see a guy. I've never
done that before, and I don't know how other kids
or girls ever did that. And was not awkward about it.
Whenever I go out and I'm hanging out with the
guy or something, I always tell my parents I'm hanging
out with my other friends. But I don't do my
(01:22):
close friends where I know they have their numbers, so
she can't call them and ask my friends. So I
do friends where I know she won't bother them. So
I use Lydia Now, so Lydia is my friend. Now
that I tell my parents I'm hanging out with the
other guy.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
When you're going out with like, yes, I'm going I'm
your parents will say what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Experience, So if I'm going to say, hey, Mom, I'm
going out, she's like, Okay, who are you going out with?
Who are you going with? Oh, I'm hanging out with Lydia.
We're going to We're to go see a movie or something.
And she's like okay. And my dad'll be like, what
are you doing there? What are you doing with the movies?
Who else going to be there? What boys are going
to be there?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Wow? He's interrogating.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, he's very scary. Yesterday that happened again and he
was like screaming at me on the for going out again.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I can't where did you say you were going yesterday karaoke?
But we didn't.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
We went to the movies.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
A second, wait a second, I feel like there's a
flaw on this because You're mom and Lydia's mom are friends, right.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah, but she will never contact Lydia's parents and says
Bianca with you, like she would never do that, dio Hashi,
h no, no, no, she's never asked.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
But also, I know, did your mom life for for Bianca? Probably?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah, I think she would Lydia lie for Bianca. Lydia,
I know you're a very good Catholic. Yeah, is not
good when it comes down to Bianca.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I'll do it, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yeah, So like the good influence friends, my parents will
never ask questions if I'm with Lydia. You know what
I'm saying. But also, I'm twenty three. I'm gonna be
twenty three. I don't know why I'm going around the
bush still at this age, I'm.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Going on to the bush. I don't know if that's
the same I'm going right. I love it. I love
if people uses saying it's kind of like, I don't know,
beaten around.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
One.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I think you're hiding I think he's actually hiding him. Okay,
so I save the bush here. Everybody's focused on the alibi,
and I want to know about the guy. She did
say before this topic she didn't want to get into
the guy. Oh I didn't hear that.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
But no, we can't get into it. I just don't
want to say his name.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No, don't say his name.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
He's not a character yet.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, she's a character. So I first off, I love
this girl. This girl literally, if I had a daughter,
I'd want her to be Bianca because I think Beca's
got like the greatest personality. She's a great hearted kid
and I have a heart problem. Should kill me in
a week. She literally her dad. I know why her
dad asked her these questions, because you know why, she's
a freaking mess and he needs he's checking it out.
(03:50):
I just can't believe that Lydia, like Anna said, who's
the most honest human being in the world, is lying
for her girl.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I also used mojo to what wait, how did you U.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Wom a dad? I don't want any part of this.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
So when I've hanging out with it, my parents are
calling me, I say, stop calling me, moj I'm on
the fault, Mojo, leave me alone, and then they left.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Wait, so when you're hanging out with your boyfriend, if
they call you, you say I'm with me.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
No, I say, I'm on the fault, Mojo.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You're on the phone with me, I can't call you.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, so I did that.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
My lawyers are sending you a cease and desist.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
I know, well it works, it works, and they don't
bother me because they know that we can't mess around
with Mojo quick lies.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah. Now you've said before. I remember you were at
a bar or something like that, a club, and your
dad found you on Life Alert. He pulled up through
sixty years old? Easy? Do you ever worry about that?
Like you say, I'm at the movies and he looked
and you you know.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I gotta pulled up right now so I make sure
they're at home right now so they're not listening. Or
yesterday when I was at the movies, we had the
Life Through sixty f on the whole time so we
can see where they're at. Because my brother was ten
minutes away, so I was like, he could just pull
up whenever he wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can I ask you though, like you're twenty three you're
twenty two years old.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I'm acting like I'm seventeen.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I know, but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Why don't you just said to your parents, yes, I
am seeing somebody.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Because then they ask questions and then it gets to.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
You know what. This sounds exhausting to me. It's culturally
not the thing like our old babysitters used to have
their dad come to our house when they were babysitting
because he didn't believe that they were babysitting. Wow, and
I'll never forget seeing him picking in our window, swear
to you.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
What so imagine wanting to post on Instagram and you
can't because your friend tells you not to because she's
out the guy. Yeslines won't match and I told you
couldn't post anything on Friday. Just make sure everything will
lined up.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Oh my god. Hold on, Abe wants to make a
comment on this, And I know your question A but
we already answered that. I don't know if you heard
the answer to it. What do you What do you think? Abe?
What do you think about bianca using lydia? I just
think that if you came up with this beautiful master
plan to go out and do what you want to
do as far as dating, why would you air it out?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I'm looking at the location their home right now?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So they got the podcast A A what's your what's
your background? Where are you from? I'm add okay, So
did you have to hide dating too? Or did your
sisters have to hide dating? Probably my sisters do. I
don't know what they do because they don't really help
their businesses.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
I got. I thought I started dating at I thought
of dating at twenty one, and I got maybe at
twenty two, So I guess.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
You know what it's It's funny because I do think
that this is definitely a cultural thing that you, you know,
see a lot more often. But I also think that
part of this is a bianca thing too.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I don't think that I actually had a boyfriend back
in like twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, and he came
over all the time, like my parents knew about him.
He like slept over. So yeah, so it already sleird
in the basement.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Okay, where you sleep in the basement. How did they
meet him tho? Because maybe that's why he.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Allt had He had to come to my house first
meet my parents. And that's another thing I feel like,
I'll introduce him to my parents when I feel like
it's serious enough for I'm when to start dating him,
like seriously, and then he can come over and then
I think it's fine. But I think it's just this
beginning stage where I don't know exactly what's going on.
I don't want to bring someone in if it's not
long term.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Can we do this as a street scam to your dad?
Can we find some like fifty five year old like
Jeff Sackwall, get my buddy Jeff Sackla and when you
go introduce this guy to your your dad, Jeff Sackwa
comes pulling out. But I would love to marry your
daughter out. What's up, Stephanie? Are you doing good?
Speaker 5 (07:30):
I'm just wondering, Bianca, how are you going to break
the news to them because I have a boyfriend and
they're not going to approve of him.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
I well, I think one he's kelled Dean, so I
think it's going to be easier on my dad. But
him and I were actually talking about it. I don't
know exactly how we're gonna do it or what I'm
going to do. If they ask me about it, I'll say, yeah, sure,
I'm talking to someone. If not, then I'll be like, hey, whatever,
I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
What's your situation, Stephanie.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Well, I called actually in the past about having an
arranged marriage because my parents had one. So I think
that even if I introduced my boyfriend, I'm still gonna
have to get an arranged marriage.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
So that's crazy that they'll make you arrange with somebody
else or the boyfriend somebody else. That's nuts.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I don't know. I don't think my parents would ever
do that to me. That's whatever to me.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I that's sad, Like if you find somebody that's the
love of your life, that's your one, and then your
parents make you be arranged to somebody else. What's up, Sam?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Hi, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How are you guys? We're great? What's going on? First?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Long time?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Sam? Sami am.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
I just want to say to Lydia.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
So I'm Jordanian.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
My wife's Scaledean and when we first met at a
Halloween party, and you know, I wanted to talk to her,
Dad was really strict, so I had to.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
What I did is I went and.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Talked to him and I told him like, hey, I
want to talk.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
To your daughter and whatever, and he appreciated that. Oh
that so so be the guy that steps up. I
think for Bianca this is such a new thing. But
it's also their younger and like, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
That's another thing that the boy is younger. So I
don't know if that's going to be if that's harder
for the.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah, I don't know. Uh, what's up, Fadia, Hi, good
morning morning.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
This really really is very, very scary. She needs to
have a better relationship communications relationship with her parents. Oh,
I need to have not only the communication, but to
explain to them that she's an adult.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
They need to know where she goes. They need to
know what she does. She doesn't need to be explicit
and say I'm going to go to a hotel with
this guy or whatever kind.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Of Uh, they're just going to the Imagine.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
Imagine. Seriously, even if she goes to Imagine, things can
happen there and she may get into her position where
she does not want to participate in something. So she
needs to explain to her parents where she is.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Adia. I mean, you sound like a very nice lady,
almost kind of like you could be a surrogate mom.
Could you be the alibi if Lydia has to go
out of town. Would you be no, I she needs
to come parents.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
No, no, no, you need to sit down with your parents.
Be honest with that.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
No no, no no. Why do you give an advice? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Well no, I mean I have two children that are
adults and my husband was very very strict with them,
and I explained him, if my daughter is going to
go out and she gets raped, what.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Do you want to do?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Honestly, I'm.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
All right, Well, thank you, Foddy. I appreciate the advice.
It was actullent advice. Thank you. Initial b A is
cal dean and wants to be voice disguised. What's up?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
B Hi?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
So back then when I was dating, now I did
marry for a lone for a long time. I yeah,
traveled with my boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, now I stopped for one sey Stop you're married? Now?
Why are you? Why are you voice disguised? Why can't
you just say back before I was married, I used
to travel with my boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Because sometime now I cannot say this story.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Up your parents now as you, as a married woman,
would be upset with you.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Yes, I mean I still cannot say it's too well, I.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Think how many years have you been.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
Married twenty some years?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Twenty some years? You can't even say this later in life,
like what you did, that's what.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You have to No.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Definitely, Wow, that's unbelievable. That's kind of well, you were
a boy, you were naughty when you're your father. I
want to hear her story. I can't understand her story,
but I know.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
So I want to way to I stress with.
Speaker 6 (12:20):
My boyfriend and I told my m bove with my
friend and uh, we told my family back when it
was like two way cold that's not very common, and
we talked together see each other.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
But actually she would you understand and I'm sorry, we yeah,
I need a translator to understand because of her where
her phone is, so she sounded like she went away
out of town with her boyfriend, but would say she
was out with her girlfriends Now she's been married twenty
some years to the band and they can't even tell
she would use a two way call system, A two
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way call.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
System that's actually kind of go that far.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
On basically conferencing, like you you know, you would call
for them.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Worry about with this kid either, he's very safe, protective,
he's a very good kid. So I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
You keep calling him a kid.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
He's a guy.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Just stop that, you guys, to stop it. Stop he's
a teenager. Yeah, a kid. He's twenty years old.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
He's nineteen.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Come on, you nineteen year olds are key? Is bro?
Thank you. We'll be trying to grow this guys. Guys
racial here than me? Uh? Initial Jay? What did you
want to say? Your voices? Guys? Yes, better than that
last voice this guy's called.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
Well again, I understand the culture devide. She doesn't want
to have her parents gallos really serious?
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Well, then can you get can you pick up the
phone off of your bluetooth because it's really hard to
hear in lydia. We need to tell these guys when
they're on voices. Guys, that's better. Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Okay. So, like I said, I understand the culture device.
She doesn't want her parents to know, and so she's
ready to be in serious and explain all that. But
I come from the other position. I'm always the alibi.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Oh, you're like the lydia of the thing.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
So you're the alibi, like the lydia, And it's fine,
and for I've been doing it for years now, and
it's fine, but I have to watch everything I post, everything,
I do, everything I say who I talk to because
I'm for Albi and I have to go back and think, God,
was I suppot to alby her that day? Or am
I not blot alby her?
Speaker 1 (14:31):
That's true.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
Yeah, so it makes it very difficult for the other
person's life. I just want to live my life now, Lydia.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
You feel that pain, don't you.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Oh yeah, but I'll do anything for Bianca, so that's
fine you. He should probably be coming out for her.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
That's why I've been doing it for years.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Yeah, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I hope I don't need to keep him a secret
for much longer. So yeah, Lydia won't have to be
playing games anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
And don't use me as that, because I don't want
it to be that. All of a sudden, your dad's
mad at me. I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
It's okay, it'll be good. It's all my fault. It's
all good.
Mojoe in the morning show. So Bianca on our show
is twenty.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
Two, yeah, twenty three, next month.
Speaker 1 (00:07):
Twenty three, and she's been kind of interested in this boy.
And this is an interesting thing, Bianca. For those that
don't know, this is cal Dian, which if you're Caldean,
you are an Iraqi Catholic. There's many of them in
the trade area. I have to explain this, which, by
the way, Martin Manna, my buddy, Martin Mana, just text
(00:28):
me a second ago. He goes, congratulations on getting the
key to the city. I remember back when Coleman Young
gave it to Saddam Hussein. You're a good company, bro,
Saddam Saddam Hussein and kolemen A Young. That's right, what
a what an honor group. We're among a good company.
(00:54):
But Bianca has to hide her boyfriend from her parents
because her parents don't want her dating. They want to
arrange marriage her or something.
Speaker 2 (01:02):
What isn't it, Yeah, something like that. I don't honestly
know how to ever tell my parents. I'm like hanging
out with the guy or see a guy. I've never
done that before, and I don't know how other kids
or girls ever did that. And was not awkward about it.
Whenever I go out and I'm hanging out with the
guy or something, I always tell my parents I'm hanging
out with my other friends. But I don't do my
(01:22):
close friends where I know they have their numbers, so
she can't call them and ask my friends. So I
do friends where I know she won't bother them. So
I use Lydia Now, so Lydia is my friend. Now
that I tell my parents I'm hanging out with the
other guy.
Speaker 1 (01:34):
When you're going out with like, yes, I'm going I'm
your parents will say what are you doing?
Speaker 2 (01:39):
Experience, So if I'm going to say, hey, Mom, I'm
going out, she's like, Okay, who are you going out with?
Who are you going with? Oh, I'm hanging out with Lydia.
We're going to We're to go see a movie or something.
And she's like okay. And my dad'll be like, what
are you doing there? What are you doing with the movies?
Who else going to be there? What boys are going
to be there?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Wow? He's interrogating.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
Yeah, he's very scary. Yesterday that happened again and he
was like screaming at me on the for going out again.
Speaker 1 (02:01):
I can't where did you say you were going yesterday karaoke?
But we didn't.
Speaker 2 (02:05):
We went to the movies.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
A second, wait a second, I feel like there's a
flaw on this because You're mom and Lydia's mom are friends, right.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Yeah, but she will never contact Lydia's parents and says
Bianca with you, like she would never do that, dio Hashi,
h no, no, no, she's never asked.
Speaker 1 (02:20):
But also, I know, did your mom life for for Bianca? Probably?
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Yeah, I think she would Lydia lie for Bianca. Lydia,
I know you're a very good Catholic. Yeah, is not
good when it comes down to Bianca.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I'll do it, thank you.
Speaker 2 (02:36):
Yeah, So like the good influence friends, my parents will
never ask questions if I'm with Lydia. You know what
I'm saying. But also, I'm twenty three. I'm gonna be
twenty three. I don't know why I'm going around the
bush still at this age, I'm.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
Going on to the bush. I don't know if that's
the same I'm going right. I love it. I love
if people uses saying it's kind of like, I don't know,
beaten around.
Speaker 4 (03:03):
One.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
I think you're hiding I think he's actually hiding him. Okay,
so I save the bush here. Everybody's focused on the alibi,
and I want to know about the guy. She did
say before this topic she didn't want to get into
the guy. Oh I didn't hear that.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
But no, we can't get into it. I just don't
want to say his name.
Speaker 1 (03:25):
No, don't say his name.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
He's not a character yet.
Speaker 1 (03:27):
No, she's a character. So I first off, I love
this girl. This girl literally, if I had a daughter,
I'd want her to be Bianca because I think Beca's
got like the greatest personality. She's a great hearted kid
and I have a heart problem. Should kill me in
a week. She literally her dad. I know why her
dad asked her these questions, because you know why, she's
a freaking mess and he needs he's checking it out.
(03:50):
I just can't believe that Lydia, like Anna said, who's
the most honest human being in the world, is lying
for her girl.
Speaker 2 (03:58):
I also used mojo to what wait, how did you U.
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Wom a dad? I don't want any part of this.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
So when I've hanging out with it, my parents are
calling me, I say, stop calling me, moj I'm on
the fault, Mojo, leave me alone, and then they left.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Wait, so when you're hanging out with your boyfriend, if
they call you, you say I'm with me.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
No, I say, I'm on the fault, Mojo.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
You're on the phone with me, I can't call you.
Speaker 2 (04:17):
Yeah, so I did that.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
My lawyers are sending you a cease and desist.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
I know, well it works, it works, and they don't
bother me because they know that we can't mess around
with Mojo quick lies.
Speaker 1 (04:26):
Yeah. Now you've said before. I remember you were at
a bar or something like that, a club, and your
dad found you on Life Alert. He pulled up through
sixty years old? Easy? Do you ever worry about that?
Like you say, I'm at the movies and he looked
and you you know.
Speaker 2 (04:39):
I gotta pulled up right now so I make sure
they're at home right now so they're not listening. Or
yesterday when I was at the movies, we had the
Life Through sixty f on the whole time so we
can see where they're at. Because my brother was ten
minutes away, so I was like, he could just pull
up whenever he wanted to do.
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Can I ask you though, like you're twenty three you're
twenty two years old.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
I'm acting like I'm seventeen.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
I know, but that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (04:59):
Why don't you just said to your parents, yes, I
am seeing somebody.
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Because then they ask questions and then it gets to.
Speaker 1 (05:05):
You know what. This sounds exhausting to me. It's culturally
not the thing like our old babysitters used to have
their dad come to our house when they were babysitting
because he didn't believe that they were babysitting. Wow, and
I'll never forget seeing him picking in our window, swear
to you.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
What so imagine wanting to post on Instagram and you
can't because your friend tells you not to because she's
out the guy. Yeslines won't match and I told you
couldn't post anything on Friday. Just make sure everything will
lined up.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Oh my god. Hold on, Abe wants to make a
comment on this, And I know your question A but
we already answered that. I don't know if you heard
the answer to it. What do you What do you think? Abe?
What do you think about bianca using lydia? I just
think that if you came up with this beautiful master
plan to go out and do what you want to
do as far as dating, why would you air it out?
Speaker 2 (05:56):
I'm looking at the location their home right now?
Speaker 1 (05:57):
So they got the podcast A A what's your what's
your background? Where are you from? I'm add okay, So
did you have to hide dating too? Or did your
sisters have to hide dating? Probably my sisters do. I
don't know what they do because they don't really help
their businesses.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
I got. I thought I started dating at I thought
of dating at twenty one, and I got maybe at
twenty two, So I guess.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
You know what it's It's funny because I do think
that this is definitely a cultural thing that you, you know,
see a lot more often. But I also think that
part of this is a bianca thing too.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
I don't think that I actually had a boyfriend back
in like twenty twenty, twenty twenty one, and he came
over all the time, like my parents knew about him.
He like slept over. So yeah, so it already sleird
in the basement.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
Okay, where you sleep in the basement. How did they
meet him tho? Because maybe that's why he.
Speaker 2 (06:51):
Allt had He had to come to my house first
meet my parents. And that's another thing I feel like,
I'll introduce him to my parents when I feel like
it's serious enough for I'm when to start dating him,
like seriously, and then he can come over and then
I think it's fine. But I think it's just this
beginning stage where I don't know exactly what's going on.
I don't want to bring someone in if it's not
long term.
Speaker 1 (07:09):
Can we do this as a street scam to your dad?
Can we find some like fifty five year old like
Jeff Sackwall, get my buddy Jeff Sackla and when you
go introduce this guy to your your dad, Jeff Sackwa
comes pulling out. But I would love to marry your
daughter out. What's up, Stephanie? Are you doing good?
Speaker 5 (07:30):
I'm just wondering, Bianca, how are you going to break
the news to them because I have a boyfriend and
they're not going to approve of him.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
I well, I think one he's kelled Dean, so I
think it's going to be easier on my dad. But
him and I were actually talking about it. I don't
know exactly how we're gonna do it or what I'm
going to do. If they ask me about it, I'll say, yeah, sure,
I'm talking to someone. If not, then I'll be like, hey, whatever,
I don't know why.
Speaker 1 (07:56):
What's your situation, Stephanie.
Speaker 5 (07:58):
Well, I called actually in the past about having an
arranged marriage because my parents had one. So I think
that even if I introduced my boyfriend, I'm still gonna
have to get an arranged marriage.
Speaker 1 (08:11):
So that's crazy that they'll make you arrange with somebody
else or the boyfriend somebody else. That's nuts.
Speaker 2 (08:19):
I don't know. I don't think my parents would ever
do that to me. That's whatever to me.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
I that's sad, Like if you find somebody that's the
love of your life, that's your one, and then your
parents make you be arranged to somebody else. What's up, Sam?
Speaker 5 (08:32):
Hi, Hey, good morning.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
How are you guys? We're great? What's going on? First?
Speaker 5 (08:37):
Long time?
Speaker 2 (08:38):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (08:40):
Sam? Sami am.
Speaker 5 (08:44):
I just want to say to Lydia.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
So I'm Jordanian.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
My wife's Scaledean and when we first met at a
Halloween party, and you know, I wanted to talk to her,
Dad was really strict, so I had to.
Speaker 4 (08:57):
What I did is I went and.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Talked to him and I told him like, hey, I
want to talk.
Speaker 1 (09:01):
To your daughter and whatever, and he appreciated that. Oh
that so so be the guy that steps up. I
think for Bianca this is such a new thing. But
it's also their younger and like, I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:13):
That's another thing that the boy is younger. So I
don't know if that's going to be if that's harder
for the.
Speaker 1 (09:19):
Yeah, I don't know. Uh, what's up, Fadia, Hi, good
morning morning.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
This really really is very, very scary. She needs to
have a better relationship communications relationship with her parents. Oh,
I need to have not only the communication, but to
explain to them that she's an adult.
Speaker 4 (09:41):
They need to know where she goes. They need to
know what she does. She doesn't need to be explicit
and say I'm going to go to a hotel with
this guy or whatever kind.
Speaker 1 (09:51):
Of Uh, they're just going to the Imagine.
Speaker 4 (10:00):
Imagine. Seriously, even if she goes to Imagine, things can
happen there and she may get into her position where
she does not want to participate in something. So she
needs to explain to her parents where she is.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
Adia. I mean, you sound like a very nice lady,
almost kind of like you could be a surrogate mom.
Could you be the alibi if Lydia has to go
out of town. Would you be no, I she needs
to come parents.
Speaker 4 (10:28):
No, no, no, you need to sit down with your parents.
Be honest with that.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
No no, no no. Why do you give an advice? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (10:36):
Well no, I mean I have two children that are
adults and my husband was very very strict with them,
and I explained him, if my daughter is going to
go out and she gets raped, what.
Speaker 1 (10:47):
Do you want to do?
Speaker 2 (10:56):
Honestly, I'm.
Speaker 1 (10:59):
All right, Well, thank you, Foddy. I appreciate the advice.
It was actullent advice. Thank you. Initial b A is
cal dean and wants to be voice disguised. What's up?
Speaker 3 (11:06):
B Hi?
Speaker 6 (11:09):
So back then when I was dating, now I did
marry for a lone for a long time. I yeah,
traveled with my boyfriend at the time.
Speaker 1 (11:22):
Okay, now I stopped for one sey Stop you're married? Now?
Why are you? Why are you voice disguised? Why can't
you just say back before I was married, I used
to travel with my boyfriend.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Because sometime now I cannot say this story.
Speaker 1 (11:41):
Up your parents now as you, as a married woman,
would be upset with you.
Speaker 6 (11:47):
Yes, I mean I still cannot say it's too well, I.
Speaker 1 (11:51):
Think how many years have you been.
Speaker 6 (11:53):
Married twenty some years?
Speaker 1 (11:56):
Twenty some years? You can't even say this later in life,
like what you did, that's what.
Speaker 2 (12:01):
You have to No.
Speaker 1 (12:04):
Definitely, Wow, that's unbelievable. That's kind of well, you were
a boy, you were naughty when you're your father. I
want to hear her story. I can't understand her story,
but I know.
Speaker 4 (12:17):
So I want to way to I stress with.
Speaker 6 (12:20):
My boyfriend and I told my m bove with my
friend and uh, we told my family back when it
was like two way cold that's not very common, and
we talked together see each other.
Speaker 1 (12:36):
But actually she would you understand and I'm sorry, we yeah,
I need a translator to understand because of her where
her phone is, so she sounded like she went away
out of town with her boyfriend, but would say she
was out with her girlfriends Now she's been married twenty
some years to the band and they can't even tell
she would use a two way call system, A two
(12:56):
way call.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
System that's actually kind of go that far.
Speaker 1 (13:00):
On basically conferencing, like you you know, you would call
for them.
Speaker 2 (13:04):
Worry about with this kid either, he's very safe, protective,
he's a very good kid. So I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 1 (13:09):
You keep calling him a kid.
Speaker 2 (13:10):
He's a guy.
Speaker 1 (13:13):
Just stop that, you guys, to stop it. Stop he's
a teenager. Yeah, a kid. He's twenty years old.
Speaker 2 (13:20):
He's nineteen.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Come on, you nineteen year olds are key? Is bro?
Thank you. We'll be trying to grow this guys. Guys
racial here than me? Uh? Initial Jay? What did you
want to say? Your voices? Guys? Yes, better than that
last voice this guy's called.
Speaker 6 (13:40):
Well again, I understand the culture devide. She doesn't want
to have her parents gallos really serious?
Speaker 1 (13:46):
Well, then can you get can you pick up the
phone off of your bluetooth because it's really hard to
hear in lydia. We need to tell these guys when
they're on voices. Guys, that's better. Yeah, go ahead.
Speaker 6 (13:57):
Okay. So, like I said, I understand the culture device.
She doesn't want her parents to know, and so she's
ready to be in serious and explain all that. But
I come from the other position. I'm always the alibi.
Speaker 1 (14:10):
Oh, you're like the lydia of the thing.
Speaker 6 (14:12):
So you're the alibi, like the lydia, And it's fine,
and for I've been doing it for years now, and
it's fine, but I have to watch everything I post, everything,
I do, everything I say who I talk to because
I'm for Albi and I have to go back and think, God,
was I suppot to alby her that day? Or am
I not blot alby her?
Speaker 1 (14:31):
That's true.
Speaker 6 (14:32):
Yeah, so it makes it very difficult for the other
person's life. I just want to live my life now, Lydia.
Speaker 1 (14:38):
You feel that pain, don't you.
Speaker 2 (14:40):
Oh yeah, but I'll do anything for Bianca, so that's
fine you. He should probably be coming out for her.
Speaker 6 (14:45):
That's why I've been doing it for years.
Speaker 1 (14:47):
Yeah, that's amazing.
Speaker 2 (14:48):
I hope I don't need to keep him a secret
for much longer. So yeah, Lydia won't have to be
playing games anymore.
Speaker 1 (14:53):
And don't use me as that, because I don't want
it to be that. All of a sudden, your dad's
mad at me. I don't like that.
Speaker 2 (14:59):
It's okay, it'll be good. It's all my fault. It's
all good.
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