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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojo in the morning show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Question have you ever been to a bar and a
guy did something weird made you feel uncomfortable? Eight four
to four Mojo Live eight four four six six five
sixty five four eight.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Megan, what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
So this past weekend, I was trying to go out
and meet up with somebody and I ended up at
the wrong bar. Now, I was really annoyed because I
was all dressed up and ready to go. So when
I walked into this bar, the bartender was like, oh,
sit down, I'll buy you a drink. And at this point,
I'm like, well, I put in all of this effort,
I'll take her for a drink. Sure, why not? And
(00:41):
Uh sat down started a drinking my drink. All of
a sudden, the bartender goes around the bar, sits down
next to me, turns his chair around so like I'm
facing towards the bar. He's facing away from the bar,
but we're sitting directly next to each other, so he's
looking me like right in the face. And then he
keeps like touching my arm, asking me where I lived,
(01:03):
trying to follow me on social media, asked me out
on a date, and I had said no. Over and
over and over again, to the point where I left
the bar before I.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Even finished the drink.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I just went thanks, and I stood up, and I
walked out the door. He was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
It wasn't funny.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Have you heard from him since then, since he knows
your social media?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah? Yeah, multiple times, multiple times, and I'm comfortable at
all the time.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
Please leave me alone.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
The zero responses should be all of the response you
need before I block you.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Way, So let's go back. So you go to the bar.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You were supposed to meet somebody else.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Correct, you're looking amazing.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Okay, You sit at the bar and he immediately comes
over and starts to hit on you.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
That's what it sounds like. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I walked in, I said, is so and so here?
He said no, but let me buy you a drink
and comes around the bar yep, and sits next to you.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Is this the thing that happens like?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I mean, he didn't have to I did it. He
have other people that he was serving my question then
he was the only game heard them. Yes, it was
so weird.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
It was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, remind me not to go to that bar because
I'll never get my drink.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
It was like people had walked up to the bar
and were standing there waiting for a drink, and he
had his back to them, talking to me, stroking my arm.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Oh yeah, I are going back there. I hope you
don't so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So uncomfortable, but like I didn't understand why.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
He just like didn't get the hint. At what point
do you have to be like go away?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah? I wonder as a as a woman when you
go out to bars, how weird it is, especially when
you run into situations where you meet a guy and
it's just uncomfortable for one because you're alone. You don't
have anybody that's near.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You, right, and honestly, usually it's the bartender I trust
to make my drink.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But can you act this way?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Right by all of a sudden, felt very uncomfortable at
the drink you made me so like I didn't want
to finish.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I just wanted to go home. Yeah great, God.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
I mean I always have a really hard time if
if we're going to a bar and it's a crowded bar.
I'm five feet tall, so if I'm not ponied right
up to the bar, I have to do the jump
up and down with like my credit card in the
air to get somebody, to get a bartender to notice me.
And so when I was living in Atlanta, and this
is years right before I moved back home to Detroit,
there was a bartender at this place was called the
(03:32):
Twisted Taco and he finally realized what was happening. It
was our favorite place to hang out on the weekends,
and so he was like, here's the deal, give me
your phone number. You guys always sit in the table
over there.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
In the corner.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Whenever you need something, just text me. I'll bring it
out to you and I'll put it on your tab.
I'm like, this is amazing until he started sending me
selfies of him and his dog.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And then it's like the lions crossed there.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Right, and now I can't go back to my favorite place.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Yeah, that sucks.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yude's eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six
six five six five for eight. If you got a
crazy bar story, we'd love to hear about it. Let's
go to Ali, Ali.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (04:12):
So I work at a bar in Royal Loak and
I was chewing a piece of gum one day on
my shift and one of the customers had asked me
for a piece of gum, and I was like, yeah,
I'll go to the back, I'll get you on and
he was like, no, that's fine, I'll just take the
piece of and I was the piece that's in my mouth,
and then he took the piece of gum out of
my mouth and put it in.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
His No, no, no, no, you let him take it
out of your mouth.
Speaker 7 (04:38):
I didn't believe he was going to do it.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
So did you open your mouth or did he just
put his fingers in there.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Like pulled it out?
Speaker 7 (04:45):
I pulled.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
Okay, that makes me feel a little better about this situation.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Put Ali, I'm not I'm not mad. I'm mad at you.
He called your bluff. You took the gum out.
Speaker 8 (04:57):
I wanted to see if.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
He would do it.
Speaker 7 (05:00):
He did.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We got asked voice disguise wants to throw something in
the hat?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Ask what's going on? Asked you there?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Oh, I'm someone else.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I'm talking to you your voice disguise, what's up?
Speaker 7 (05:20):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (05:20):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I was living in a very nice area and working
a lot, so on the weekends I would go to
the same place, very nice restaurant bar. But I would
stay at the bar just so I could sat with
the bartenders and watch TV. But this person way over
served was rubbing, started rubbing his nasty foot on my leg,
(05:45):
broaking my arm, and I put the bartenders, who knew me,
took care of him and escorted him right out of
the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh you got good?
Speaker 7 (05:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Was he barefoot?
Speaker 5 (05:59):
I think sometimes it's the bar tenders that need to
be called out when they're crazy, but these these were
actual people.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Did you ever come back, like, did you ever run
into footsy guy? Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:11):
No, And I had been there before, but I think
they were never going to serve him account.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I gotta know. Was he barefoot?
Speaker 8 (06:17):
Yeah? Yeah, well flip flaps.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I was living in a state where we flip.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I feel like it's even working. That's a dirty shoe
and a dirty foot.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Kayleie, what's up? Hey? Kaylee, Hey, what's up?
Speaker 7 (06:41):
So?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
I okay, So I don't have a bar story. But
I went to University of Toledo to get my degree,
and during one of the games, my fiancee, well my
boyfriend at the time now my fiance, we went to
the game. We went inside the game to watch the game. Well,
my friends were at a tailgating parking lot. So after
(07:03):
the game, we went back to the parking lot and
as I was trying to find my friend to pick
him up to take them home, one of the frat
guys was trying to flirt with me and take me
home back to his place in front of my boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Oh that's really lovely. What a dummy?
Speaker 8 (07:24):
Yeah, he was not impressed, and my boyfriend kind of
sat there. I mean, he's very introverted, so he definitely
like didn't know what to say.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
But once he got the.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
Car, he was like, why did he not see me there?
And I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Why does it feel like your boyfriend at some point
would just watch you get abducted and just be like ah, man,
you know, in.
Speaker 8 (07:50):
The situation like that, he might. But then again, like
he is very caring, so he might do his letterflight
because he was a lifeguard well back when he was
in college.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
So he's I'm sorry, wait, wait, hold on, hold on,
I know that we were about to hang up on you.
What does him having to be a lifeguard have anything
to do with this?
Speaker 8 (08:12):
Well, like fight or flight kicking in when there's like
an emergency situation.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I have never in the history of mankind heard somebody
talk about their fight or flight reflexes and be like, well,
I was a lifeguard, so I got it together A
sink or swim
Mojo in the morning show.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
Question have you ever been to a bar and a
guy did something weird made you feel uncomfortable? Eight four
to four Mojo Live eight four four six six five
sixty five four eight.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Megan, what happened?
Speaker 3 (00:18):
So this past weekend, I was trying to go out
and meet up with somebody and I ended up at
the wrong bar. Now, I was really annoyed because I
was all dressed up and ready to go. So when
I walked into this bar, the bartender was like, oh,
sit down, I'll buy you a drink. And at this point,
I'm like, well, I put in all of this effort,
I'll take her for a drink. Sure, why not? And
(00:41):
Uh sat down started a drinking my drink. All of
a sudden, the bartender goes around the bar, sits down
next to me, turns his chair around so like I'm
facing towards the bar. He's facing away from the bar,
but we're sitting directly next to each other, so he's
looking me like right in the face. And then he
keeps like touching my arm, asking me where I lived,
(01:03):
trying to follow me on social media, asked me out
on a date, and I had said no. Over and
over and over again, to the point where I left
the bar before I.
Speaker 4 (01:14):
Even finished the drink.
Speaker 3 (01:15):
I just went thanks, and I stood up, and I
walked out the door. He was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
It wasn't funny.
Speaker 4 (01:21):
Have you heard from him since then, since he knows
your social media?
Speaker 3 (01:25):
Yeah? Yeah, multiple times, multiple times, and I'm comfortable at
all the time.
Speaker 5 (01:31):
Please leave me alone.
Speaker 3 (01:32):
The zero responses should be all of the response you
need before I block you.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
Way, So let's go back. So you go to the bar.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
You were supposed to meet somebody else.
Speaker 1 (01:41):
Correct, you're looking amazing.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
Okay, You sit at the bar and he immediately comes
over and starts to hit on you.
Speaker 1 (01:49):
That's what it sounds like. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
I walked in, I said, is so and so here?
He said no, but let me buy you a drink
and comes around the bar yep, and sits next to you.
Speaker 5 (02:01):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (02:02):
Is this the thing that happens like?
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I mean, he didn't have to I did it. He
have other people that he was serving my question then
he was the only game heard them. Yes, it was
so weird.
Speaker 1 (02:14):
It was so uncomfortable.
Speaker 4 (02:16):
Yeah, remind me not to go to that bar because
I'll never get my drink.
Speaker 3 (02:21):
It was like people had walked up to the bar
and were standing there waiting for a drink, and he
had his back to them, talking to me, stroking my arm.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Oh yeah, I are going back there. I hope you
don't so uncomfortable.
Speaker 3 (02:33):
So uncomfortable, but like I didn't understand why.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
He just like didn't get the hint. At what point
do you have to be like go away?
Speaker 2 (02:41):
Yeah? I wonder as a as a woman when you
go out to bars, how weird it is, especially when
you run into situations where you meet a guy and
it's just uncomfortable for one because you're alone. You don't
have anybody that's near.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
You, right, and honestly, usually it's the bartender I trust
to make my drink.
Speaker 1 (02:59):
But can you act this way?
Speaker 3 (03:01):
Right by all of a sudden, felt very uncomfortable at
the drink you made me so like I didn't want
to finish.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
I just wanted to go home. Yeah great, God.
Speaker 6 (03:09):
I mean I always have a really hard time if
if we're going to a bar and it's a crowded bar.
I'm five feet tall, so if I'm not ponied right
up to the bar, I have to do the jump
up and down with like my credit card in the
air to get somebody, to get a bartender to notice me.
And so when I was living in Atlanta, and this
is years right before I moved back home to Detroit,
there was a bartender at this place was called the
(03:32):
Twisted Taco and he finally realized what was happening. It
was our favorite place to hang out on the weekends,
and so he was like, here's the deal, give me
your phone number. You guys always sit in the table
over there.
Speaker 4 (03:44):
In the corner.
Speaker 6 (03:44):
Whenever you need something, just text me. I'll bring it
out to you and I'll put it on your tab.
I'm like, this is amazing until he started sending me
selfies of him and his dog.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
And then it's like the lions crossed there.
Speaker 1 (03:55):
Right, and now I can't go back to my favorite place.
Speaker 4 (03:57):
Yeah, that sucks.
Speaker 2 (03:59):
Yude's eight four four Mojo Live eight four four six
six five six five for eight. If you got a
crazy bar story, we'd love to hear about it. Let's
go to Ali, Ali.
Speaker 1 (04:08):
What's up?
Speaker 2 (04:11):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (04:12):
So I work at a bar in Royal Loak and
I was chewing a piece of gum one day on
my shift and one of the customers had asked me
for a piece of gum, and I was like, yeah,
I'll go to the back, I'll get you on and
he was like, no, that's fine, I'll just take the
piece of and I was the piece that's in my mouth,
and then he took the piece of gum out of
my mouth and put it in.
Speaker 4 (04:33):
His No, no, no, no, you let him take it
out of your mouth.
Speaker 7 (04:38):
I didn't believe he was going to do it.
Speaker 2 (04:40):
So did you open your mouth or did he just
put his fingers in there.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Like pulled it out?
Speaker 7 (04:45):
I pulled.
Speaker 6 (04:45):
Okay, that makes me feel a little better about this situation.
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Put Ali, I'm not I'm not mad. I'm mad at you.
He called your bluff. You took the gum out.
Speaker 8 (04:57):
I wanted to see if.
Speaker 1 (04:58):
He would do it.
Speaker 7 (05:00):
He did.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
We got asked voice disguise wants to throw something in
the hat?
Speaker 1 (05:07):
Ask what's going on? Asked you there?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
Oh, I'm someone else.
Speaker 1 (05:17):
I'm talking to you your voice disguise, what's up?
Speaker 7 (05:20):
Oh?
Speaker 8 (05:20):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (05:21):
I was living in a very nice area and working
a lot, so on the weekends I would go to
the same place, very nice restaurant bar. But I would
stay at the bar just so I could sat with
the bartenders and watch TV. But this person way over
served was rubbing, started rubbing his nasty foot on my leg,
(05:45):
broaking my arm, and I put the bartenders, who knew me,
took care of him and escorted him right out of
the restaurant.
Speaker 1 (05:54):
Oh you got good?
Speaker 7 (05:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Was he barefoot?
Speaker 5 (05:59):
I think sometimes it's the bar tenders that need to
be called out when they're crazy, but these these were
actual people.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
Did you ever come back, like, did you ever run
into footsy guy? Oh?
Speaker 5 (06:11):
No, And I had been there before, but I think
they were never going to serve him account.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
I gotta know. Was he barefoot?
Speaker 8 (06:17):
Yeah? Yeah, well flip flaps.
Speaker 5 (06:19):
I was living in a state where we flip.
Speaker 1 (06:26):
I feel like it's even working. That's a dirty shoe
and a dirty foot.
Speaker 6 (06:29):
Yeah, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:31):
Kayleie, what's up? Hey? Kaylee, Hey, what's up?
Speaker 7 (06:41):
So?
Speaker 8 (06:42):
I okay, So I don't have a bar story. But
I went to University of Toledo to get my degree,
and during one of the games, my fiancee, well my
boyfriend at the time now my fiance, we went to
the game. We went inside the game to watch the game. Well,
my friends were at a tailgating parking lot. So after
(07:03):
the game, we went back to the parking lot and
as I was trying to find my friend to pick
him up to take them home, one of the frat
guys was trying to flirt with me and take me
home back to his place in front of my boyfriend.
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Oh that's really lovely. What a dummy?
Speaker 8 (07:24):
Yeah, he was not impressed, and my boyfriend kind of
sat there. I mean, he's very introverted, so he definitely
like didn't know what to say.
Speaker 4 (07:34):
But once he got the.
Speaker 8 (07:35):
Car, he was like, why did he not see me there?
And I was like, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (07:41):
Why does it feel like your boyfriend at some point
would just watch you get abducted and just be like ah, man,
you know, in.
Speaker 8 (07:50):
The situation like that, he might. But then again, like
he is very caring, so he might do his letterflight
because he was a lifeguard well back when he was
in college.
Speaker 3 (08:01):
So he's I'm sorry, wait, wait, hold on, hold on,
I know that we were about to hang up on you.
What does him having to be a lifeguard have anything
to do with this?
Speaker 8 (08:12):
Well, like fight or flight kicking in when there's like
an emergency situation.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
I have never in the history of mankind heard somebody
talk about their fight or flight reflexes and be like, well,
I was a lifeguard, so I got it together A
sink or swim
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