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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Mojo, you.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Don't take one.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Let me take you back to the beginning.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Alright, you ready, you're listening.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
To Mojo in the Morning. You're a dodo ahead. It's
the second date Update, Mojo in the Morning, Second ate update.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Why are you not getting a call back after you
went on a date? We're going to find out for
Nolan this morning? Who is getting ghosted?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Nolan? What's going on? Good morning? How are you? Hello morning?
How are you Nolan?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
So, Nolan, you're not hearing back from a girl that
you met?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
How did you guys meet? So then I'm tender to
wipe in.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Okay, and uh yeah, go for it?
Speaker 5 (00:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
And what was what's been your relationship? You guys uh
gone out on dates.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
With each other? Are you guys just talking to each other?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Like traditional dates? It definitely was what you know, I
think Tinder were set up to be.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
We're trying to just hook up.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
But then I accidentally started to really like.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Her, so I was like, all right, let's let's keep
doing this.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Let's go out again.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
And I got to go out with me again the
same week, and I was like, Okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Going in a good direction.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
So you know, we've been seeing each other now for
four weeks, all right.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
And now now all of a sudden, after four weeks
of seeing each other, she is nowhere to be found,
and you're wondering what's going on?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, so blown ghosting.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
We're gonna find out. I don't know, I want to
do more than hook up. I don't you know, I
don't want to see anybody else.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
And she did not answered my maps like ever since Christmas.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
All right, Well, we got around the phone with us
right now. Her name is Lena. Lena. Are you okay
with your voice on the radio?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Yeah, Lena, could you hear Nolan on hold?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Sometimes we have certain lines that don't have the hold on.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, yeah, I heard him.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, will you say hello to Nolan?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I Knowlan?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
No, no, no, not, I don't.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
This is so weird.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
We kind of contact a little bit.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Yeah, like well, it's it's you know, it's it's early,
and it's also weird that we're here.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
We are contacting for Nolan.
Speaker 7 (02:37):
You s there's a reason because you are acknowledging that
you haven't answer to snaps.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, I haven't. I don't, I don't know. We're just
I mean, look, we definitely have textual chemistry, but I
just I feel like I need more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
You know, what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
I'm sorry you you you have sexual chemistry, but you
need more than that, or you use your relationship only
been about sex.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Yeah, I mean we we met on Tinder and.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You know, we've hooked up a couple of times, and
it is it's great, we have sexual chemistry, but then
I mean, we don't even go on dates and we
lay in bed all the time, and that's kind of it.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And I don't know, I just hate somebody, Okay, just
my vibe.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
So your guys' is dates, the dates that no one said,
you guys have gone on a couple of times have
been what just going to either either your house or
his house, and.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah they were just hook up.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
So you're just hooking up with the show.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Yeah they were dates.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
I mean I don't even have his I don't even
have his number.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Well, then how do you communicate with you don't have number?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
On ron?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Snapchat and I don't know, I mean Snapchat. It's cool,
it's fine, but it also like.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
That feels like a red flag.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Why Nolan, why do you Why did you guys not
share your numbers with each other, Me.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
And Sam chat.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I feel like there's a you know, the next step
after Tinder.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's kind of like, all that's the next level. Okay,
so you guys are.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
At once, you see a nigga body, don't you move
up to phone numbers?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
I feel like, I mean, notification is notification? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah, I mean I like like communicating, you know, with
the photo, it's a little more personal.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I feel like.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's better than texting, and you.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Know that it also usually leads to us linking up
to you know, hang out.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
No, and I'm not gonna lie. I like your excuses,
but if you had a phone number, you could FaceTime,
so if you really want to see your face, you
could do that. It just seems very sketchy that you
only want to communicate on a means where it is
a race.
Speaker 7 (04:47):
But also because you said that you want a relationship
with her, you want to actually date her. You want
to be like you said, you only want to date her.
But I feel like your behavior, like your actions, show otherwise.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
You guys want the same thing. She said.
Speaker 7 (05:04):
She wants more than to just look up with you.
So there's where's the miscommunication.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I mean, if she wants my phone numbers. She can
have my phone numer anytimes she asked, or she's never.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Asked for it.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I just you, but that is actually snapchat you my
phone number.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Lena, though that is that is actually a really good point.
If you wanted the phone number, why didn't you say, hey,
let's call each other. Was it his responsibility to say,
here's my phone number?
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I mean, was it his responsibility? No?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Did it seem like this is all that it was
and that it was going to run its course?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Nah?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
So I let it run its course.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
Well, that's the same logic with the dating thing about
you waiting around for him to ask for the phone number, Like,
have you made mentioned that you wanted something more than
a hookup?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Are you all meeting at the same place? I said
the same time?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
No, I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:06):
I guess, I mean the chemistry's there, I just.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Don't I don't know. But we don't really talk about
anything like it's.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Like we're talking about so Nolan, you haven't offered more
than just sex like you got.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
And I don't blame you fully for this.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
I think that Lena's got to be a little bit
more vocal about what she's hoping for and also maybe
not just go for sex each time.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
I to think that both you guys, if you guys
want something more, then just don't stop calling him, like
just say hey, listen, I want more than this. And
I get sometimes that's the hardest part to do. But
got it. It's not offering anything.
Speaker 8 (06:49):
And she's the one that left.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
It's not well, it's on both of them. But I
will say this, she's the one that that's what she wanted.
Maybe he does, maybe he is miss got miscused from
her that all she wanted was to have sex. If
I was and I'm not on Snapchat, but if I
was on Snapchat, I would think that that was all
we're doing is just you know, we're just f buddies,
(07:12):
you know, and we're just doing that.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Snapchat doesn't scream relationship curious to.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Me, although some people may be screaming at their radios
right now saying different. Call us eight four four Mojo
Life eight four four six six five six five four
eight hundred. Let's get some comments from listeners. What's going
on on her? What are your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I kind of agree with somebody said about the whole
Snapchat and the photo thing, because I get the point
with face time, well, with face time, I feel like
I can't do anything else whilst I'm on the phone.
I feel like I have to pay attention completely. And like.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
The FaceTime comment, you guys could text, yeah that snapchat
well you could.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You could send a text to you know, she'll be
doing stuff, and when I'm on FaceTime, I feel like
my attention has to be for that person. Otherwise it's rude,
and that's it's kind of personal, kind of piered.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
But you know that's how I feel.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
But if you wanted to date somebody, would you only
exclusively talk to.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Them via Snapchat? No, you know, not the point. We're
getting hooked up.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
On FaceTime, but then she girlfriend on him and you know,
we've got it on snapchat, and eventually we wanted to,
you know, hey, let's talk on face time so we
can get a little bit more familiar with each other.
And then we went on in the wed already had
each other's number.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
But Meg Meghan, is it on? Is it on Nolan
to be the one to say this is what I want?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Next? She should have just said it to him, this
is what I want.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Blaming her for leaving because she's not interesting, because he didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Want blaming her for if she wanted more and he
wanted more of a relationship, tell him just say something.
Speaker 8 (08:47):
She's not the one reaching out to us saying I
got ghosted.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
What am I going to do? He did? He dropped
the ball. She said, I wanted more.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
You weren't offering what I was interested in.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I've moved on, Brandy. What's up your thoughts?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I have a good day?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
All right? Thanks?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Are you talking? Where you are? Are you working and
doing this?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
I'm shot my baby off at school.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I think that they would be okay though. I think
that they just.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Need to work on communications.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
It sounds like it's the biggest problem.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeh Here. It sounds like he wants what he wants exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
He's not being about it, and he's not being more
dominant and aggressive about it.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
It's not like he kind of wants He said it
right before we picked her up.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
That's what he said. He said he wanted to Yeah, no, no, no,
You're right. It was exactly what he wants. He wants more.
What's up, Danny?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Mojoe, Hey, good morning. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Listen.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
I might be old fashioned, but I haven't Sally listen to.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
The females on the show all telling him basically take charge,
like I don't know what happens to many days, you know,
Like he's basically telling him, Hey, you know we did hook.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Up now and that's moving on to the next trouble,
and this guy's talking snapchat, grow up?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Well, wow, thanks listening? Was going to take ding ding ding.
I thought that we got strong, vibrant women on this
radio show. Listen.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I will say this, though, I disagree completely with the
women on the show, Megan specifically that the.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Guy, if he wanted more, he should have said more.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
How do you disagree with that?
Speaker 4 (10:25):
Well, no, I'm saying I disagree with Megan saying that
I'm just not going to call him anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Why not? Why Why ruining what could be a good relationship?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
If if she likes him and enjoyed being with him,
why not say hey? Is it his responsibility to say
here's my phone number?
Speaker 8 (10:40):
She said they had sexual chemistry and chemistry, not that
she was into him or like liked him, liked him.
You can be sexually attracted with somebody or very compatible
in the bedroom, but not on a date or like
the person themselves.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Maybe that was the case. Maybe they were had a lot.
Speaker 8 (10:58):
Of fun at night, and then it sucked during the
day when he wasn't communicating.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
Were you guys communicating during the day or were you
just talking on snapchat?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Just snapchat? Okay, it's hard to take it serious with
puppy filter on.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
I also think everybody, and I include myself in this
because this is something that constantly comes up in my relationship.
But like, if you want something, you have to be
very clear and ask for it. The risk of making
an assumption that the other person can read your mind,
it never works.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Out well, Witney.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
Whitney says exactly, it's a certain standards that you don't communicate.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
I feel like, if you want someone, you want someone.
So if the guy is not reaching out and planting
actual dates and doing stuff with you and wanting to
have another way of communicating with you, shouldn't they do it?
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Like why should she have to well ask, He's doing
it right now, he's calling us up. He says, he
still wants a relationship with her. I don't know, Whitney,
what's up? What are you gonna say, Whitney?
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I mean, I basically agree with the women I feel.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Found tight sexes. But it's the same way he called
you guys. Why didn't he be more aggressive with her
and be like, well, what was your number, let's go
on the date. Let's was going off like we expect
that from the mean a lot of times.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
What were you doing, Nolan? What were you doing Nolan?
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Were you trying to get her on Snapchat and you
couldn't get hold of her?
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, she blocked you on Snapchat opening my stuff but
that came back. Were you asking her for did you
ever ask for her phone number?
Speaker 4 (12:29):
Well, I mean, if you're not going to get back
to me on snapchatould ask for her phone number.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
He only wanted to hook up.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
But that was how it started exactly.
Speaker 8 (12:41):
That was the landscape. It's weird that you started catching
fields as soon as she stopped sleeping with him. Yeah, withdraws,
which gets to me he doesn't want a relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
He wants her back in bed.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I don't believe he ever really wanted more. He's just
saying he wants.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
More than because I guess her voice, so you're hearing
a voice on the I want a voice. By the way,
somebody just said that he's just a bed rat. I
like that. That's an everybody is saying.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
Snapchat is just hook up behavior.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
Done a no second date or actually wouldn't be a
second actually be a first date one the whole.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Thirty on the thirty fro back thrown a second date
update and more than roses.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
This is Mojo in the Morning.
Mojo, you.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
Don't take one.
Speaker 1 (00:12):
Let me take you back to the beginning.
Speaker 3 (00:15):
Alright, you ready, you're listening.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
To Mojo in the Morning. You're a dodo ahead. It's
the second date Update, Mojo in the Morning, Second ate update.
Speaker 4 (00:29):
Why are you not getting a call back after you
went on a date? We're going to find out for
Nolan this morning? Who is getting ghosted?
Speaker 1 (00:36):
Nolan? What's going on? Good morning? How are you? Hello morning?
How are you Nolan?
Speaker 4 (00:41):
So, Nolan, you're not hearing back from a girl that
you met?
Speaker 1 (00:46):
How did you guys meet? So then I'm tender to
wipe in.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Okay, and uh yeah, go for it?
Speaker 5 (00:56):
No?
Speaker 4 (00:56):
And what was what's been your relationship? You guys uh
gone out on dates.
Speaker 1 (01:01):
With each other? Are you guys just talking to each other?
Speaker 5 (01:04):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:04):
Like traditional dates? It definitely was what you know, I
think Tinder were set up to be.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
We're trying to just hook up.
Speaker 1 (01:12):
But then I accidentally started to really like.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Her, so I was like, all right, let's let's keep
doing this.
Speaker 1 (01:17):
Let's go out again.
Speaker 3 (01:18):
And I got to go out with me again the
same week, and I was like, Okay, it's.
Speaker 2 (01:21):
Going in a good direction.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
So you know, we've been seeing each other now for
four weeks, all right.
Speaker 4 (01:26):
And now now all of a sudden, after four weeks
of seeing each other, she is nowhere to be found,
and you're wondering what's going on?
Speaker 6 (01:35):
Yeah, so blown ghosting.
Speaker 1 (01:38):
We're gonna find out. I don't know, I want to
do more than hook up. I don't you know, I
don't want to see anybody else.
Speaker 2 (01:43):
And she did not answered my maps like ever since Christmas.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
All right, Well, we got around the phone with us
right now. Her name is Lena. Lena. Are you okay
with your voice on the radio?
Speaker 2 (01:54):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Yeah, Lena, could you hear Nolan on hold?
Speaker 1 (01:59):
Sometimes we have certain lines that don't have the hold on.
Speaker 2 (02:03):
Yeah, yeah, I heard him.
Speaker 1 (02:05):
Okay, will you say hello to Nolan?
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I Knowlan?
Speaker 3 (02:18):
No, no, no, not, I don't.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
This is so weird.
Speaker 3 (02:25):
Oh my god.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
We kind of contact a little bit.
Speaker 4 (02:29):
Yeah, like well, it's it's you know, it's it's early,
and it's also weird that we're here.
Speaker 1 (02:33):
We are contacting for Nolan.
Speaker 7 (02:37):
You s there's a reason because you are acknowledging that
you haven't answer to snaps.
Speaker 2 (02:43):
Yeah, I haven't. I don't, I don't know. We're just
I mean, look, we definitely have textual chemistry, but I
just I feel like I need more than that.
Speaker 1 (02:56):
You know, what do you mean?
Speaker 4 (02:59):
I'm sorry you you you have sexual chemistry, but you
need more than that, or you use your relationship only
been about sex.
Speaker 5 (03:06):
Yeah, I mean we we met on Tinder and.
Speaker 2 (03:11):
You know, we've hooked up a couple of times, and
it is it's great, we have sexual chemistry, but then
I mean, we don't even go on dates and we
lay in bed all the time, and that's kind of it.
Speaker 3 (03:25):
And I don't know, I just hate somebody, Okay, just
my vibe.
Speaker 4 (03:28):
So your guys' is dates, the dates that no one said,
you guys have gone on a couple of times have
been what just going to either either your house or
his house, and.
Speaker 2 (03:39):
Yeah they were just hook up.
Speaker 1 (03:41):
So you're just hooking up with the show.
Speaker 2 (03:43):
Yeah they were dates.
Speaker 3 (03:44):
I mean I don't even have his I don't even
have his number.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Well, then how do you communicate with you don't have number?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
On ron?
Speaker 2 (03:52):
Snapchat and I don't know, I mean Snapchat. It's cool,
it's fine, but it also like.
Speaker 3 (03:57):
That feels like a red flag.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Why Nolan, why do you Why did you guys not
share your numbers with each other, Me.
Speaker 1 (04:06):
And Sam chat.
Speaker 4 (04:07):
I feel like there's a you know, the next step
after Tinder.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
It's kind of like, all that's the next level. Okay,
so you guys are.
Speaker 8 (04:15):
At once, you see a nigga body, don't you move
up to phone numbers?
Speaker 1 (04:18):
I feel like, I mean, notification is notification? Yeah?
Speaker 4 (04:23):
Yeah, I mean I like like communicating, you know, with
the photo, it's a little more personal.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
I feel like.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
It's better than texting, and you.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Know that it also usually leads to us linking up
to you know, hang out.
Speaker 8 (04:36):
No, and I'm not gonna lie. I like your excuses,
but if you had a phone number, you could FaceTime,
so if you really want to see your face, you
could do that. It just seems very sketchy that you
only want to communicate on a means where it is
a race.
Speaker 7 (04:47):
But also because you said that you want a relationship
with her, you want to actually date her. You want
to be like you said, you only want to date her.
But I feel like your behavior, like your actions, show otherwise.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
You guys want the same thing. She said.
Speaker 7 (05:04):
She wants more than to just look up with you.
So there's where's the miscommunication.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
I mean, if she wants my phone numbers. She can
have my phone numer anytimes she asked, or she's never.
Speaker 2 (05:14):
Asked for it.
Speaker 1 (05:14):
I just you, but that is actually snapchat you my
phone number.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
Lena, though that is that is actually a really good point.
If you wanted the phone number, why didn't you say, hey,
let's call each other. Was it his responsibility to say,
here's my phone number?
Speaker 3 (05:38):
I mean, was it his responsibility? No?
Speaker 6 (05:40):
Did it seem like this is all that it was
and that it was going to run its course?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Nah?
Speaker 2 (05:46):
So I let it run its course.
Speaker 6 (05:49):
Well, that's the same logic with the dating thing about
you waiting around for him to ask for the phone number, Like,
have you made mentioned that you wanted something more than
a hookup?
Speaker 1 (05:58):
Are you all meeting at the same place? I said
the same time?
Speaker 2 (06:02):
No, I mean.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (06:06):
I guess, I mean the chemistry's there, I just.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Don't I don't know. But we don't really talk about
anything like it's.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
Like we're talking about so Nolan, you haven't offered more
than just sex like you got.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
And I don't blame you fully for this.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
I think that Lena's got to be a little bit
more vocal about what she's hoping for and also maybe
not just go for sex each time.
Speaker 1 (06:34):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
I to think that both you guys, if you guys
want something more, then just don't stop calling him, like
just say hey, listen, I want more than this. And
I get sometimes that's the hardest part to do. But
got it. It's not offering anything.
Speaker 8 (06:49):
And she's the one that left.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
It's not well, it's on both of them. But I
will say this, she's the one that that's what she wanted.
Maybe he does, maybe he is miss got miscused from
her that all she wanted was to have sex. If
I was and I'm not on Snapchat, but if I
was on Snapchat, I would think that that was all
we're doing is just you know, we're just f buddies,
(07:12):
you know, and we're just doing that.
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Snapchat doesn't scream relationship curious to.
Speaker 4 (07:17):
Me, although some people may be screaming at their radios
right now saying different. Call us eight four four Mojo
Life eight four four six six five six five four
eight hundred. Let's get some comments from listeners. What's going
on on her? What are your thoughts.
Speaker 3 (07:28):
I kind of agree with somebody said about the whole
Snapchat and the photo thing, because I get the point
with face time, well, with face time, I feel like
I can't do anything else whilst I'm on the phone.
I feel like I have to pay attention completely. And like.
Speaker 7 (07:45):
The FaceTime comment, you guys could text, yeah that snapchat
well you could.
Speaker 3 (07:50):
You could send a text to you know, she'll be
doing stuff, and when I'm on FaceTime, I feel like
my attention has to be for that person. Otherwise it's rude,
and that's it's kind of personal, kind of piered.
Speaker 1 (08:02):
But you know that's how I feel.
Speaker 8 (08:04):
But if you wanted to date somebody, would you only
exclusively talk to.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
Them via Snapchat? No, you know, not the point. We're
getting hooked up.
Speaker 3 (08:15):
On FaceTime, but then she girlfriend on him and you know,
we've got it on snapchat, and eventually we wanted to,
you know, hey, let's talk on face time so we
can get a little bit more familiar with each other.
And then we went on in the wed already had
each other's number.
Speaker 4 (08:31):
But Meg Meghan, is it on? Is it on Nolan
to be the one to say this is what I want?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
Next? She should have just said it to him, this
is what I want.
Speaker 8 (08:39):
Blaming her for leaving because she's not interesting, because he didn't.
Speaker 4 (08:42):
Want blaming her for if she wanted more and he
wanted more of a relationship, tell him just say something.
Speaker 8 (08:47):
She's not the one reaching out to us saying I
got ghosted.
Speaker 1 (08:50):
What am I going to do? He did? He dropped
the ball. She said, I wanted more.
Speaker 8 (08:54):
You weren't offering what I was interested in.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
I've moved on, Brandy. What's up your thoughts?
Speaker 6 (09:00):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (09:01):
I have a good day?
Speaker 1 (09:01):
All right? Thanks?
Speaker 3 (09:02):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (09:05):
Are you talking? Where you are? Are you working and
doing this?
Speaker 3 (09:07):
I'm shot my baby off at school.
Speaker 2 (09:11):
I think that they would be okay though. I think
that they just.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Need to work on communications.
Speaker 2 (09:15):
It sounds like it's the biggest problem.
Speaker 3 (09:17):
Yeh Here. It sounds like he wants what he wants exactly.
Speaker 2 (09:20):
He's not being about it, and he's not being more
dominant and aggressive about it.
Speaker 3 (09:25):
It's not like he kind of wants He said it
right before we picked her up.
Speaker 4 (09:30):
That's what he said. He said he wanted to Yeah, no, no, no,
You're right. It was exactly what he wants. He wants more.
What's up, Danny?
Speaker 1 (09:38):
Hey?
Speaker 2 (09:39):
Good morning?
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Mojoe, Hey, good morning. What's going on?
Speaker 2 (09:42):
Listen.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
I might be old fashioned, but I haven't Sally listen to.
Speaker 3 (09:44):
The females on the show all telling him basically take charge,
like I don't know what happens to many days, you know,
Like he's basically telling him, Hey, you know we did hook.
Speaker 6 (09:55):
Up now and that's moving on to the next trouble,
and this guy's talking snapchat, grow up?
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Well, wow, thanks listening? Was going to take ding ding ding.
I thought that we got strong, vibrant women on this
radio show. Listen.
Speaker 4 (10:12):
I will say this, though, I disagree completely with the
women on the show, Megan specifically that the.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
Guy, if he wanted more, he should have said more.
Speaker 7 (10:23):
How do you disagree with that?
Speaker 4 (10:25):
Well, no, I'm saying I disagree with Megan saying that
I'm just not going to call him anymore.
Speaker 1 (10:29):
Why not? Why Why ruining what could be a good relationship?
Speaker 4 (10:33):
If if she likes him and enjoyed being with him,
why not say hey? Is it his responsibility to say
here's my phone number?
Speaker 8 (10:40):
She said they had sexual chemistry and chemistry, not that
she was into him or like liked him, liked him.
You can be sexually attracted with somebody or very compatible
in the bedroom, but not on a date or like
the person themselves.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Maybe that was the case. Maybe they were had a lot.
Speaker 8 (10:58):
Of fun at night, and then it sucked during the
day when he wasn't communicating.
Speaker 4 (11:03):
Were you guys communicating during the day or were you
just talking on snapchat?
Speaker 1 (11:10):
Just snapchat? Okay, it's hard to take it serious with
puppy filter on.
Speaker 7 (11:13):
I also think everybody, and I include myself in this
because this is something that constantly comes up in my relationship.
But like, if you want something, you have to be
very clear and ask for it. The risk of making
an assumption that the other person can read your mind,
it never works.
Speaker 1 (11:28):
Out well, Witney.
Speaker 6 (11:29):
Whitney says exactly, it's a certain standards that you don't communicate.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
I feel like, if you want someone, you want someone.
So if the guy is not reaching out and planting
actual dates and doing stuff with you and wanting to
have another way of communicating with you, shouldn't they do it?
Speaker 1 (11:44):
Like why should she have to well ask, He's doing
it right now, he's calling us up. He says, he
still wants a relationship with her. I don't know, Whitney,
what's up? What are you gonna say, Whitney?
Speaker 2 (11:54):
I mean, I basically agree with the women I feel.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
I mean, I.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Found tight sexes. But it's the same way he called
you guys. Why didn't he be more aggressive with her
and be like, well, what was your number, let's go
on the date. Let's was going off like we expect
that from the mean a lot of times.
Speaker 1 (12:13):
What were you doing, Nolan? What were you doing Nolan?
Speaker 4 (12:16):
Were you trying to get her on Snapchat and you
couldn't get hold of her?
Speaker 1 (12:20):
Yeah, she blocked you on Snapchat opening my stuff but
that came back. Were you asking her for did you
ever ask for her phone number?
Speaker 4 (12:29):
Well, I mean, if you're not going to get back
to me on snapchatould ask for her phone number.
Speaker 2 (12:35):
He only wanted to hook up.
Speaker 1 (12:38):
But that was how it started exactly.
Speaker 8 (12:41):
That was the landscape. It's weird that you started catching
fields as soon as she stopped sleeping with him. Yeah, withdraws,
which gets to me he doesn't want a relationship.
Speaker 1 (12:52):
He wants her back in bed.
Speaker 2 (12:54):
I don't believe he ever really wanted more. He's just
saying he wants.
Speaker 4 (12:59):
More than because I guess her voice, so you're hearing
a voice on the I want a voice. By the way,
somebody just said that he's just a bed rat. I
like that. That's an everybody is saying.
Speaker 7 (13:10):
Snapchat is just hook up behavior.
Speaker 1 (13:12):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:13):
Done a no second date or actually wouldn't be a
second actually be a first date one the whole.
Speaker 3 (13:19):
Thirty on the thirty fro back thrown a second date
update and more than roses.
Speaker 1 (13:24):
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