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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Just the second date update in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
All right, second date update? Why are you not getting
a callback? We're going to find out. Skyler is getting
ghosted now after going out on a date that you
thought actually went well, but you didn't think it went
like excessively well, like you thought it was just a
good date.
Speaker 1 (00:19):
Yes, what did you guys do, Skyler?
Speaker 3 (00:23):
We went bowling?
Speaker 4 (00:25):
Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:26):
Okay, okay, and you guys had pretty good conversation with
each other while you were bowling.
Speaker 5 (00:32):
Yeah, you know. It was on and.
Speaker 3 (00:35):
Off, but I won.
Speaker 2 (00:40):
But I hope that's not the reason why some guys
get competitive, man, I do. We talked about that with
Kevin one time with a date. He gets competitive. He
does not want to see anybody win, not even his
kid does Kevin want to see win? All right, let's
see what's going on. We're going to find out what's
happening here. Did you guys kiss or hugbye? What did
you guys do at the end.
Speaker 1 (00:59):
Of the date? Kissed?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
But that's it?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Okay. Alex is on the phone with us right now. Alex, Hey,
how are we going good? Good to have you on, Skyler.
Say hi to Alex, Hey, could you hear that Alex, Yeah,
I heard it. Okay, all right?
Speaker 2 (01:20):
So Skyler was just wondering what's going on and if
everything's okay?
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Was everything okay? Did you Did you have a good
time on the date?
Speaker 4 (01:29):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (01:29):
Yeah, I had a good time on the day.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
So what well?
Speaker 5 (01:34):
I you know, I just didn't really like this bracelet
she was wearing.
Speaker 1 (01:39):
What she was wearing a bracelet is expensive? What would
Jesus do?
Speaker 6 (01:45):
Well?
Speaker 5 (01:45):
It was like one of those permanent bracelets.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Oh yeah, what is a permanent bracelet?
Speaker 1 (01:50):
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
It's like a like a usually a gold or a
silver chain link and they solder it on you, like
you have to go somewhere to get it soldered on you,
but you can't take it off.
Speaker 2 (01:59):
What's wrong with her wearing a bracelet like that? Why
is that a bad bracelet to wear?
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Well, it's from her ex.
Speaker 3 (02:07):
How do you know that? Did you ask?
Speaker 1 (02:10):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (02:10):
She told me. She said it was from her ex
from last year.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Yeah, so she's wearing a bracelet that he gave her
and it's a bracelet. Is there meaning to the fact
that you think that she's still wearing it and is
because to me, if it was a ring, I would
say something with that. But is a bracelet a bad
thing to be wearing?
Speaker 5 (02:29):
Yeah, I mean it feels like, you know, I just
don't like that she's still wearing jewelry from her ex.
That just doesn't feel right.
Speaker 3 (02:37):
Why do you still wear it? Tyler? Well, it cost
it a lot of money. I bought it with my
own money.
Speaker 2 (02:45):
It's permanent, and it's a cute bracelet, so I don't
feel like there's any need to remove it. Does.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
It doesn't have like initials or anything on it. It's
just like a it's just metal.
Speaker 2 (02:56):
I mean, it's got his first initial, my first initial.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
But oh see that okay for anything?
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (03:03):
That is that is.
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Kind of weird to me. Actually, if it if it
didn't have anything like that on it and it was
just like the chain, I would say that's fine, Like
I get it, it's cute. They're expensive, but the fact
that it has his initial and your initial on it
is kind of strange to me. I like, for real, Like,
you know, I mean you can go, you can, so
she can if she wanted to. Yes, we had to
(03:27):
cut it off of her for a swim season.
Speaker 1 (03:29):
Do you where do you go to?
Speaker 3 (03:30):
I mean we did it at home.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Oh, really okay, So, Skyler, are you willing to cut
that thing off to stay in a relationship with Alex?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
And Alex, I'll ask you.
Speaker 2 (03:38):
The question first, or actually I'll ask Skyler that question first,
then I'll ask you my last question, my question next, Skyler,
would you cut it off? It would have to take
a lot for me to cut it off.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
What do you mean?
Speaker 2 (03:50):
But it would have to well, he would have to
wow me so much more than the ex.
Speaker 1 (03:57):
I had before him, Yeah, to have.
Speaker 3 (04:00):
Me cut it off. So you're keeping that on until
you meet somebody who surpasses the expectations of what you
had for your ex.
Speaker 2 (04:07):
Almost definitely, which will never happen.
Speaker 1 (04:10):
Gosh, should you be dating?
Speaker 2 (04:13):
Yeah, you're still probably still have feelings for that X.
It sounds like I mean.
Speaker 5 (04:17):
I don't, but but.
Speaker 1 (04:18):
You like the piece of jewelry.
Speaker 2 (04:19):
Yeah, yeah, all right, Alex, if she were to cut
it off, if you guys were to date for a
period of time, and she would have done a ceremonial
cut on this, saying would you be okay with that?
Or you want her to cut it off before she
starts going dating again?
Speaker 5 (04:34):
No, I mean, did you hear her answers? She still
has feelings for her ex. I mean the bracelet just shows.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
That, Yeah, somebody, I don't have feelings for my ex.
Where you're not listening to what I was saying. You
just said you would never find it out better than him.
Speaker 7 (04:49):
Yes, but I also said that if I did, maybe
I would want to cut it off.
Speaker 1 (04:55):
But she's waiting.
Speaker 2 (04:56):
I don't have any feelings for my ex. I just
take the bracelets.
Speaker 1 (05:00):
It's cute. I don't know about you, but I do
not like my ex at all. I would never say.
Speaker 2 (05:04):
That, But you like the jewelry back eight four four
Mojo Live eight four four six sixty five six five
four eight.
Speaker 1 (05:12):
What do you think it should Skyler cut it off? Or?
Speaker 7 (05:16):
Uh?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Do you think that this is that even that big
of a deal? I probably, and it's weird. I probably
am one of those guys that just doesn't notice things.
I would I would look and think it was just
a bracelet. I don't think I would look and see
what it says.
Speaker 3 (05:28):
But when you but when you see initials on it.
Speaker 1 (05:31):
But I probably wouldn't look that close. I don't know.
Speaker 3 (05:34):
I depend on what it looks like, but I I
feel like I would be curious it's if it's like
I have bracelets that have words on them and names
on them, and I guess I would be curious and
be like, oh, who's that?
Speaker 2 (05:45):
You know?
Speaker 3 (05:45):
What does that mean?
Speaker 1 (05:46):
Scott? What do you think she shouldn't be in the
dating scene?
Speaker 3 (05:50):
Because when you asked if if like she met someone
when she cut it off, she said, no, it'll never happen. Yeah.
Speaker 1 (05:57):
Anna said the same thing too. Anna kind of that.
Speaker 2 (06:02):
Maybe she's not over that X in order to be
out there getting into another relationship.
Speaker 1 (06:07):
What's up, Sarah?
Speaker 3 (06:07):
Hi?
Speaker 7 (06:08):
Hey, Alix comment, I'll say that she wouldn't need the
guy would need to replace it.
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Oh so so if you were dating Alex, you would
cut it off, but he's got to get.
Speaker 1 (06:19):
You a new one.
Speaker 5 (06:21):
Yeah, it had to look better.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
But if it's gold, maybe she can melt it down.
Gold'sworth while. What's up, Mackenzie?
Speaker 1 (06:29):
How you doing?
Speaker 4 (06:31):
Hey? Good morning?
Speaker 6 (06:33):
I feel like this has become such a big deal.
Speaker 4 (06:36):
Like the first disagreement or argument they get into, she's
going to be like.
Speaker 5 (06:39):
Well, I cut my bracelet.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Off for you, Yeah, right, true?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Can I ask this question if this was a tattoo,
would you feel the same way? Alex because tattoos are
hard to get rid of.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
You know, I think it would be it would be
a red flag, but it would it wouldn't be as
big a deal. But as long as she said, you know,
I'm working on getting rid of.
Speaker 1 (07:00):
Yeah, this is a quick thing. This is kind of
like this is the jewelry version of a tattoo.
Speaker 2 (07:06):
What's up, Michelle?
Speaker 1 (07:07):
This is what's going on? Michelle?
Speaker 5 (07:11):
Hello, Hi?
Speaker 1 (07:12):
What do you think?
Speaker 6 (07:15):
At first, I didn't think anything of it, because you know,
women love jewelry, But the comments that she made, I
feel like she does.
Speaker 5 (07:25):
Still have feelings for him, you know what I mean,
like get.
Speaker 6 (07:27):
Rid of the jewelry already.
Speaker 2 (07:29):
Somebody just said, can she just change the letters? Is
that possible? What do you think about that? Michelle has
an idea if I mean, yeah.
Speaker 3 (07:35):
If she did that, but I mean it's more symbolic
with the initials, you know.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
What I mean? Like, yeah, just out of curiosity. When's
the last time you spoke to your eggs?
Speaker 4 (07:46):
Uh? We haven't spoken in a few months?
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Actually, Okay, so it's been a while, so it wasn't
like you recently talked to him.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Maddie. What's up? No, because nobody what do you want
to say, Maddie.
Speaker 6 (08:03):
I was gonna say, like, no, one logically, even if
it was a bad or a good breakup, wants to
wear something they look at every day as a reminder
if you no longer have it, and then also like
that she has it to look at it. If that
was me, I'd be like, oh, I must have done
something right.
Speaker 4 (08:21):
If I was the ex.
Speaker 6 (08:22):
If they're still wearing something with my name on it
or my initial.
Speaker 2 (08:25):
I wonder if he listens, wouldn't that be interesting to know?
And I wonder, do you know, Skyler? Do you know
if he's got does he wear a bracelet too? Yes?
Speaker 1 (08:36):
So he is he still wearing your bracelet? Do you know?
Speaker 4 (08:40):
As far as I know?
Speaker 1 (08:42):
Yes, not the matching bracelets. That'd be kind of wild.
But I paid for it. That's I feel like nobody's
listening to that.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
I paid for it with my own money.
Speaker 3 (08:52):
That's why I wear it.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
We don't care. It's a cute piece of bracelet.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
It's a cute bracelet.
Speaker 2 (08:57):
It costs her some money. Our friend friend from Lucido
find jewelry. She text in, saying she'll help you get
rid of the bracelet and find some new ones if
you want, maybe Alice can buy you one. Who knows,
maybe if you cared about you that much. Second date update,
I'm Mojoe on the morning, go home.
Speaker 6 (09:13):
With a on the thirty, go back fro Dad on
a second date update, and more than roses, this is
Moji in the morning.
Speaker 2 (09:21):
I find it interesting too when there are people that
will split with somebody and they will like discard the
ring that they were wearing for such a long time.
Like to me, if the ring is a beautiful ring,
like I would want to keep wearing it for a
little bit. But I guess there is so much symbolism.
You think that's weird too.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
No way, I sorry, I was eating my breakfast.
Speaker 2 (09:44):
Oh let me, don't let me in a run.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
One of my exes was a huge sneakerhead, and the
hardest thing I had to do was get rid of
all these easies.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
That he bought me.
Speaker 4 (09:55):
But I was like, I cannot be wearing these of
this man bought them for really?
Speaker 3 (09:58):
See you.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Not you.
Speaker 3 (10:01):
I don't like easies, but I'd keep the good shoes.
I would keep the good shoes.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
I don't want to think about him. How quick did
you get rid of the ring?
Speaker 3 (10:09):
I still have it. My my engagement ring and wedding rings,
I still have them, and Nah, why would I get
rid of that. I'm going to make a beautiful piece
of jewelry for hopefully for Lucy one day that she'll
want to wear. I mean, I thought about selling it
and using the money, like to do something, but then
I'm like, then I would feel weird about whatever it
is that I'm doing that it came from something so yucky.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
I don't know the reason why I say, see naw,
is because in my mind it wouldn't even be in
your possession if I wanted to give you something and
we're no longer together, or you said notes an engagement
that ring coming back with.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Me but see oh but not if you get married.
Speaker 2 (10:45):
But I'm putting that in uck. Quick question, Shannon, when
did you take.
Speaker 1 (10:49):
The ring off?
Speaker 3 (10:51):
I took it off the day I believe, if I
remember correctly, I took off the ring the day my
divorce was final.
Speaker 1 (10:57):
Wow, So you wore it?
Speaker 3 (10:57):
I wore it the whole Yeah, I'm pretty sure I did.
Speaker 1 (11:00):
Wow. That you're repurposing it for Lucy?
Speaker 3 (11:03):
Yeah, because in fact, now that I think about, I
don't even know where it is. I mean, I have
it at my house.
Speaker 2 (11:08):
Did any people, because I know you didn't date for
a long long time after you got divorced, but did
any people look at it as weird that you were still.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Wearing the ring even while you were going through a divorce.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
If they did, they didn't say anything to me about it.
Speaker 1 (11:17):
Yeah, hold on, Bianca's on the phone. What's up, Bianca?
Speaker 3 (11:21):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (11:21):
How are you good?
Speaker 2 (11:22):
We were talking about the uh, you know, the the bracelet.
But you wanted to make a comment about Xes buying
you things and keeping the things that the exes buy you.
Speaker 1 (11:33):
What's up?
Speaker 5 (11:35):
Well, we were together like eight years. He bought me
like several Louis Vuitton persons.
Speaker 2 (11:40):
And I've contemplated several times and getting rid of them.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
I just can't do not.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Don't you have them?
Speaker 4 (11:48):
That much?
Speaker 3 (11:48):
Doesn't matter?
Speaker 2 (11:49):
No, No, you keep that stuff, you get rid of it,
sell them for a lot of money.
Speaker 5 (11:54):
Yes, exactly.
Speaker 3 (11:56):
Okay.
Speaker 7 (11:56):
At one point I did throw it like over the gate,
but then my mom made my son go get it.
Speaker 1 (12:02):
What gay, did you throw it.
Speaker 4 (12:03):
Over over my apartment gate?
Speaker 7 (12:06):
Like we live like behind Hines Park and I just
tossed it one day?
Speaker 1 (12:10):
Can I tell you something.
Speaker 3 (12:11):
There's a difference between t Anna point shoes, pursues, you know,
a sweatshirt and jewelry with your initials together on it.
There's a difference.
Speaker 1 (12:20):
What's up, Claire, how you doing?
Speaker 4 (12:22):
Hy?
Speaker 1 (12:23):
Good morning, guys, Good morning.
Speaker 4 (12:25):
I was calling about the second date update and holding
on to jewelry. I still have my forty five hundred
dollars engagement ring that he let me keep and I
still wear it so that guys will stay away from
me because I don't like the attention. But I do
have a gentleman that I'm talking to that doesn't really
care because he knows I'm wearing it because it's pretty.
Speaker 1 (12:45):
Yeah, come on, you know what I think.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
I think guys need to be strong, stronger with who
they are and be like, I don't care what you wear,
you know what I mean? Like what if the guy
what if a guy bought you a car, would you
not want them to drive the car that he bought
you as long as you're not, you know, uh, letting
that guy still make payments to your Huh?
Speaker 1 (13:06):
You know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (13:07):
We're not gonna act like men I quote unquote insecure
beings out here. It's a lot of women.
Speaker 4 (13:14):
When she was wearing the little jewels, I think that's
a little bit much.
Speaker 1 (13:18):
But but keV but predominantly.
Speaker 4 (13:20):
What they want as long as they have an understanding
of what's going on.
Speaker 2 (13:24):
If a guy were to be wearing like say, for instance,
Chelsea bought me a love break or a love ring
back in the day, it doesn't fit me anymore.
Speaker 1 (13:30):
My fingers are fat.
Speaker 2 (13:31):
And but if she brought me that, and if I
went out on the dating scene wearing it, would I
would I even have to explain it.
Speaker 1 (13:38):
I could say my mom bought it for me.
Speaker 7 (13:40):
I'm just saying I've been in relationships where a girl
bought me what do you call those things where you
could have it initial and you have like cups with
your starting to see I feel like you put your
alcohol in it, you know what I'm saying, something to
that effect, where it was engraved and boss whatever you say.
She came over and there was like, wow, where'd you
get that? And I was like, well, my ex or
so bunch, You're like, uh huh. First thing we doing
(14:01):
is getting.
Speaker 1 (14:01):
Rid of that. Yeah.
Speaker 7 (14:03):
They don't want the evens either. I'll be trying to
sit up here act like y'all don't.
Speaker 3 (14:06):
No, I agree, all right, cool, I'm trying to think
of what word you are trying to think of.
Speaker 7 (14:10):
Yeah, me too, Sorry to see you so and I'll
figure out listen later. I'll just randomly yell out the
world no,