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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Just the second Date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I love second Date update. I love the fact that
we're able to figure out some answers for you. Why
is it that you're not getting a call back after
you went on a date and you thought things were great?
Yolanda has had this happen? You'll lind out. How many
dates have you guys been on with each other?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Just one?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, but you guys talked for a while, so this
is something that you should probably answer to, right if
he's not calling you back, if you tried him multiple times?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah, and what.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Does your gut tell you? Does your gut tell you
that he's just completely blowing you off?
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I have no idea. I have no idea. So we
used to talk, we used to face him and I nothing.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
And what was the date? What'd you guys do.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Without lunch? Before my shift?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I thought it went well.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
I thought it was good about Yeah, like anything other
than lunch or lunch?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Was there?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Just hanging out with them and stuff? Afterwards? We're gonna
find out whole on second Greg.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Greg? Say? How do you say? Hi?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
Do?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yolanda?
Speaker 6 (01:16):
Hey? What's up?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Who was the chemistry?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I can.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Greg.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Yolanda is wondering what's going on. She says that she
hasn't heard back from you after you guys went on
a lunch date with each other.
Speaker 7 (01:35):
Yeah, I mean it was I mean it was a
lunch date. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I that's her she been.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
Hey, you've been just I don't know. I don't know
what to tell you.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
What do you mean you've been? What do you what
do you speak? And what do you guys? What is?
What's the deal? Are you? Are you not interested in
dating her? I mean I didn't.
Speaker 7 (01:58):
I didn't see that as a like a date. I
saw the like a like a lunch hangout.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It wasn't like a date, So you're not dating?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
You don't consider that you and Yolanda went on a
date with each other?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Why not?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
What do you see it as?
Speaker 6 (02:16):
She just?
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Uh, I was a phrased when you guys decided to
go out, Like who asked you out?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I mean, what what did?
Speaker 7 (02:29):
What did?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What did you think it was? Yolanda?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I mean, I mean I thought it was a date.
I suggested for us to you know, grab lunch uh
for work, and you know we have been you know,
kind of hanging out before and I thought that that
would be something nice to do.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
Wait, so you guys, you guys knew each other. You
guys have met each other before. You went out on
a date.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, yeah, you said grab lunch for work. Is it
like a client relationship or what is the relationship?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
How do you know each other?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
We were order at the hospital. Okay, so you were
together and you got lunch.
Speaker 8 (03:12):
You guys, let's just not screen date unless you said,
would you like to go on a date with me?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Is that something that you said?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
No? No, no, But but what I just you know,
we've spent time together before, and we talk and we FaceTime.
I thought that I didn't have to say it was
a date because I thought that we were dating.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I know, but that's a big assumption to make.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
So this is a coworker that you went to lunch with,
and your thinking, Yolanda, that it was a date. Greg,
You're thinking, it's we both got the same lunchtime. Let's
just go together and have lunch.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
Yeah, that's that's what I'm thinking. Also, I don't date
co workers.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Have you guys? Have you guys gone out? You guys
haven't done any You talked about going out after.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
This but you went out with Sarah and she works
with us.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Was it just a lunch?
Speaker 7 (04:21):
I mean that's different. I currently is that different?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
How is that different? It's just it's just different.
Speaker 7 (04:30):
Like what we our little hangout was just casual, and
we've only just been friends.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Here, here's casual. We've hooked up several times.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Like, how could you be just casual and just friends
of someone you've hooked up with?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Wait a second, hold on, so confused, Yolanda, who is
hooked up? Sarah's hooked up with him?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or you have hooked up with him?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Me and Greg, you have Wait, you have had so
there is more than just lunch you have had. You
guys have had sex with each other. So you guys
have had sex with each other. But that the last
time you guys were together, you guys had lunch. Greg
says to us, this is just going to lunch with
(05:17):
a coworker. But Greg, you don't just go to lunch
with a coworker that you've had sex with.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I view this whole thing just very casual. I'm not
sure so with the.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Actually I agree.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
I agree with him because if they did not have
any sort of communication to say this is a date
we are going to like move in that direction.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
It's hooking up and they're grabbing lunch. YEP, I agree
with them.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, not a coworker though. You can't have sex with him.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
You can't have sex with a coworker and then take
them to lunch.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
And you're going that doesn't mean that doesn't mean that it's.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
A date paid? Greg, did you pay?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
You think it does?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I split it, you guys, split the h that's.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Going to grab lunch.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So if hypothetically we have two co workers that are here,
they're hooking up with each other, they go to lunch,
and then one coworker decides, I'm not the guy coworker size,
I'm not going to call the girl coworker anymore.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
That's crappy.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
But I I don't think I Matt.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
What do you think call her? Matt? What's up?
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Well? You know what, I called it a while ago,
and I've been on hold.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
The whole thing's changed.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Since I initially called in. So men out the window
now they're ha And I was just going to call
it and say that that. You know, she wasn't given
a lot at the beginning. It was a pretty boring.
I could see why you just thought it was a
lunch thing, but she gives a little.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Now it's changed all kinds of stuff, So my comments
out the window. So good luck with that.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Wait, wait, Matt, honestly, do you think that they're in
a not a relationship, but do you think that there's
more than just a coworker lunch when they are have
had sex with each other and they've gone out.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
That's I mean, I do, I do, yes, I mean
when you're coworkers and you have sex and then you
go to lunch, you you know, I do think that's
more kate scenario. But again, I don't know. I've been
married twenty two years. My knowledge on the dating scene
is different than what it could be.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
But it sounds like me it seems like it's going
to be very awkward at the hospital, so to speak,
because they both seem to work there, and God, I
hope that you guys don't work together, do you or
just work around each other.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Around?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Saying it is up to both of you.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
If it's a scenario like that, especially if you are coworkers,
you have to be crystal clear about what the situation is.
If you're if you're hooking up if you're then going out, like,
you cannot make assumptions in those situations.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
I don't even think you've got to be crystal clear though.
I think the vibe will give you the definition until
you're ready to take it to another But.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
The vibe, but the bag gave her the definition that
they were dating.
Speaker 8 (08:03):
So she's thinking more than what it is, Adam, what
do you think as much on the morning?
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I think they're just hooking up and she caught feelings
and he's just laying around. Like I mean that just
the hospital. It's a lot of people at the hospital
just come over to the right people cooking up and
all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
So is a hospital a big hook up place, Yolanda,
do a lot of people hook up with each other
at the hospital you work at?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Sort of?
Speaker 9 (08:31):
I mean, like it's not like Gray's Anatomy or anything,
but like people do like like see each other and stuff,
and like sometimes people form real relationships.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
And I thought that that was something the show.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
First work day, it is the first time you hooked
up with somebody at work.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Yeah, it get easier by the way. Everybody's calling Greg
the f boy.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Nick, what do you think Nick.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think he's the player. I think he's trying to
talk her and smooth her into, you know, get in
the bed, making her think that that he likes her,
and he got what he wanted. Now he's gone, he's done.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
He's gone.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
He's still with her, he's still Yeah, but like here, what.
Speaker 8 (09:21):
He has more than once though? It's all right, So
it's not just a smashing.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
He's just not a smash.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
But his intentions are not her intentions, and unfortunately she
just found that out right here.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
On Second Date update. This is the home of the
Journey on the thirty fro back fro day on the
second Date update and more of the roses. This is
Module in the morning, Don, What did you want to say? Don?
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I'm just trying to understand his logic because he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
He won't date a co worker, but it's okay for
him to sleep with them. Yeah. It's a fun hospital,
isn't it. I guess so?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Off the air, tell me the name of that hospital.
I want to know there's drama on that floor. Yeah,
thank you for the caller, I appreciate it.
Just the second Date update module in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
I love second Date update. I love the fact that
we're able to figure out some answers for you. Why
is it that you're not getting a call back after
you went on a date and you thought things were great?
Yolanda has had this happen? You'll lind out. How many
dates have you guys been on with each other?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Just one?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
Just one?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Okay, but you guys talked for a while, so this
is something that you should probably answer to, right if
he's not calling you back, if you tried him multiple times?
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Yeah, and what.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Does your gut tell you? Does your gut tell you
that he's just completely blowing you off?
Speaker 3 (00:38):
I have no idea. I have no idea. So we
used to talk, we used to face him and I nothing.
Speaker 1 (00:49):
And what was the date? What'd you guys do.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Without lunch? Before my shift?
Speaker 4 (00:57):
I thought it went well.
Speaker 5 (00:59):
I thought it was good about Yeah, like anything other
than lunch or lunch?
Speaker 1 (01:03):
Was there?
Speaker 2 (01:05):
Just hanging out with them and stuff? Afterwards? We're gonna
find out whole on second Greg.
Speaker 1 (01:08):
Are you there?
Speaker 3 (01:09):
No?
Speaker 1 (01:11):
Greg? Say? How do you say? Hi?
Speaker 6 (01:14):
Do?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yolanda?
Speaker 6 (01:16):
Hey? What's up?
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Hey?
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Who was the chemistry?
Speaker 3 (01:21):
I can.
Speaker 1 (01:24):
Greg.
Speaker 2 (01:25):
Yolanda is wondering what's going on. She says that she
hasn't heard back from you after you guys went on
a lunch date with each other.
Speaker 7 (01:35):
Yeah, I mean it was I mean it was a
lunch date. I don't know.
Speaker 6 (01:38):
I that's her she been.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
Hey, you've been just I don't know. I don't know
what to tell you.
Speaker 1 (01:46):
What do you mean you've been? What do you what
do you speak? And what do you guys? What is?
What's the deal? Are you? Are you not interested in
dating her? I mean I didn't.
Speaker 7 (01:58):
I didn't see that as a like a date. I
saw the like a like a lunch hangout.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
It wasn't like a date, So you're not dating?
Speaker 2 (02:07):
You don't consider that you and Yolanda went on a
date with each other?
Speaker 3 (02:13):
Why not?
Speaker 1 (02:14):
What do you see it as?
Speaker 6 (02:16):
She just?
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Uh, I was a phrased when you guys decided to
go out, Like who asked you out?
Speaker 1 (02:25):
I mean, what what did?
Speaker 7 (02:29):
What did?
Speaker 1 (02:30):
What did you think it was? Yolanda?
Speaker 3 (02:33):
I mean, I mean I thought it was a date.
I suggested for us to you know, grab lunch uh
for work, and you know we have been you know,
kind of hanging out before and I thought that that
would be something nice to do.
Speaker 5 (02:51):
Wait, so you guys, you guys knew each other. You
guys have met each other before. You went out on
a date.
Speaker 1 (02:57):
Yeah, yeah, you said grab lunch for work. Is it
like a client relationship or what is the relationship?
Speaker 4 (03:04):
How do you know each other?
Speaker 1 (03:08):
We were order at the hospital. Okay, so you were
together and you got lunch.
Speaker 8 (03:12):
You guys, let's just not screen date unless you said,
would you like to go on a date with me?
Speaker 1 (03:17):
Is that something that you said?
Speaker 3 (03:21):
No? No, no, But but what I just you know,
we've spent time together before, and we talk and we FaceTime.
I thought that I didn't have to say it was
a date because I thought that we were dating.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I know, but that's a big assumption to make.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
So this is a coworker that you went to lunch with,
and your thinking, Yolanda, that it was a date. Greg,
You're thinking, it's we both got the same lunchtime. Let's
just go together and have lunch.
Speaker 7 (03:57):
Yeah, that's that's what I'm thinking. Also, I don't date
co workers.
Speaker 2 (04:03):
Have you guys? Have you guys gone out? You guys
haven't done any You talked about going out after.
Speaker 1 (04:09):
This but you went out with Sarah and she works
with us.
Speaker 4 (04:18):
Was it just a lunch?
Speaker 7 (04:21):
I mean that's different. I currently is that different?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
How is that different? It's just it's just different.
Speaker 7 (04:30):
Like what we our little hangout was just casual, and
we've only just been friends.
Speaker 1 (04:37):
Here, here's casual. We've hooked up several times.
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Like, how could you be just casual and just friends
of someone you've hooked up with?
Speaker 2 (04:47):
Wait a second, hold on, so confused, Yolanda, who is
hooked up? Sarah's hooked up with him?
Speaker 1 (04:53):
Or you have hooked up with him?
Speaker 2 (04:55):
Me and Greg, you have Wait, you have had so
there is more than just lunch you have had. You
guys have had sex with each other. So you guys
have had sex with each other. But that the last
time you guys were together, you guys had lunch. Greg
says to us, this is just going to lunch with
(05:17):
a coworker. But Greg, you don't just go to lunch
with a coworker that you've had sex with.
Speaker 7 (05:25):
I view this whole thing just very casual. I'm not
sure so with the.
Speaker 4 (05:32):
Actually I agree.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
I agree with him because if they did not have
any sort of communication to say this is a date
we are going to like move in that direction.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
It's hooking up and they're grabbing lunch. YEP, I agree
with them.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
Yeah, not a coworker though. You can't have sex with him.
Speaker 2 (05:48):
You can't have sex with a coworker and then take
them to lunch.
Speaker 4 (05:53):
And you're going that doesn't mean that doesn't mean that it's.
Speaker 1 (05:55):
A date paid? Greg, did you pay?
Speaker 4 (05:57):
You think it does?
Speaker 1 (06:00):
I split it, you guys, split the h that's.
Speaker 4 (06:03):
Going to grab lunch.
Speaker 2 (06:05):
So if hypothetically we have two co workers that are here,
they're hooking up with each other, they go to lunch,
and then one coworker decides, I'm not the guy coworker size,
I'm not going to call the girl coworker anymore.
Speaker 4 (06:21):
That's crappy.
Speaker 5 (06:22):
But I I don't think I Matt.
Speaker 1 (06:29):
What do you think call her? Matt? What's up?
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Well? You know what, I called it a while ago,
and I've been on hold.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
The whole thing's changed.
Speaker 6 (06:36):
Since I initially called in. So men out the window
now they're ha And I was just going to call
it and say that that. You know, she wasn't given
a lot at the beginning. It was a pretty boring.
I could see why you just thought it was a
lunch thing, but she gives a little.
Speaker 9 (06:52):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (06:53):
Now it's changed all kinds of stuff, So my comments
out the window. So good luck with that.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
Guys.
Speaker 2 (06:57):
Wait, wait, Matt, honestly, do you think that they're in
a not a relationship, but do you think that there's
more than just a coworker lunch when they are have
had sex with each other and they've gone out.
Speaker 6 (07:09):
That's I mean, I do, I do, yes, I mean
when you're coworkers and you have sex and then you
go to lunch, you you know, I do think that's
more kate scenario. But again, I don't know. I've been
married twenty two years. My knowledge on the dating scene
is different than what it could be.
Speaker 2 (07:23):
But it sounds like me it seems like it's going
to be very awkward at the hospital, so to speak,
because they both seem to work there, and God, I
hope that you guys don't work together, do you or
just work around each other.
Speaker 7 (07:37):
Around?
Speaker 1 (07:39):
Okay?
Speaker 4 (07:39):
Saying it is up to both of you.
Speaker 5 (07:41):
If it's a scenario like that, especially if you are coworkers,
you have to be crystal clear about what the situation is.
If you're if you're hooking up if you're then going out, like,
you cannot make assumptions in those situations.
Speaker 8 (07:53):
I don't even think you've got to be crystal clear though.
I think the vibe will give you the definition until
you're ready to take it to another But.
Speaker 4 (07:59):
The vibe, but the bag gave her the definition that
they were dating.
Speaker 8 (08:03):
So she's thinking more than what it is, Adam, what
do you think as much on the morning?
Speaker 6 (08:08):
I think they're just hooking up and she caught feelings
and he's just laying around. Like I mean that just
the hospital. It's a lot of people at the hospital
just come over to the right people cooking up and
all that kind of stuff.
Speaker 2 (08:22):
So is a hospital a big hook up place, Yolanda,
do a lot of people hook up with each other
at the hospital you work at?
Speaker 3 (08:30):
Sort of?
Speaker 9 (08:31):
I mean, like it's not like Gray's Anatomy or anything,
but like people do like like see each other and stuff,
and like sometimes people form real relationships.
Speaker 3 (08:41):
And I thought that that was something the show.
Speaker 8 (08:43):
First work day, it is the first time you hooked
up with somebody at work.
Speaker 2 (08:51):
Yeah, it get easier by the way. Everybody's calling Greg
the f boy.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (08:57):
Nick, what do you think Nick.
Speaker 6 (09:00):
I think he's the player. I think he's trying to
talk her and smooth her into, you know, get in
the bed, making her think that that he likes her,
and he got what he wanted. Now he's gone, he's done.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
He's gone.
Speaker 3 (09:14):
He's still with her, he's still Yeah, but like here, what.
Speaker 8 (09:21):
He has more than once though? It's all right, So
it's not just a smashing.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
He's just not a smash.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
But his intentions are not her intentions, and unfortunately she
just found that out right here.
Speaker 1 (09:32):
On Second Date update. This is the home of the
Journey on the thirty fro back fro day on the
second Date update and more of the roses. This is
Module in the morning, Don, What did you want to say? Don?
Speaker 3 (09:44):
I'm just trying to understand his logic because he doesn't.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
He won't date a co worker, but it's okay for
him to sleep with them. Yeah. It's a fun hospital,
isn't it. I guess so?
Speaker 2 (09:56):
Off the air, tell me the name of that hospital.
I want to know there's drama on that floor. Yeah,
thank you for the caller, I appreciate it.
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