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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second date up date mojule in the morning.
All right.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
If you are not getting a call back after you've
been on a date with somebody, text date to nine
five five zero zero. Grant is on with us right now. Grant,
are you there? Yeah, I'm here, Grant not getting a
call back? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Buddy?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
That's why I'm calling you.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Guys. All right, I understand. Tell us about the day.
Would you do.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Uh? I made dinner.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I'm a cook, I'm a chef, and I made dinner
with wine at my house. I prefer okay, and being
at your house? Did it lead to anything more than
just eating and drinking?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
You know?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Actually it did, and it it was really nice.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I thought it was very good.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I thought we had a really great time. But I
haven't talked to her since.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
What a great first date.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
By the way, can you imagine dating a chef? Thank you?
How great would that be? So, Grant? When you say
you guys, did you guys ended up having sex? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Okay? When you said goodbye to her? Was it the
next morning or that night? It was that night and
everything was good. When she left, she seemed happy, and
you guys say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah. Yeah, that's when I.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Mean, I was honestly really surprised that she completely goes
to me.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
All Right, we're gonna find out what's going on, dinner,
drinks and more. Nicole, will you say hello to Grant?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Oh, what's happening? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
No, this is just I mean I feel a little awkward.
Like everything everything was okay with the date. It was
like it was okay, we had a good dinner and
he's a great cook, and good wine and good conversation.
Everything was good, but it just was yeah, oh gosh,
(02:02):
I just feel like it wasn't up to like the
standards I would expect.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
What do you mean in.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Terms of how I was actually treated? What like I
I like, I mean even from the very beginning, like
I got there and like you didn't even greet me
at the door, you like texted me that it was
good to come in.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
It's probably cooking. Yeah, okay, literally was cooking. I mean
I had you know, I literally was.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Coming to your house for the first time. Like I
literally am used to somebody greeting me. But that wasn't
like the only thing, Like when we went to eat
like you didn't pull my chip out for me. It
just had to like sit down.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Okay, what year is it. I mean.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Just used to being treated a little bit like there's
just it was like a little I don't know, I
guess I want to be treated like a princess. And
like the next day like yeah, I will give you that.
It was like we had good chemistry. That part was fine,
but like even going out to my car, like you
didn't even walk me to my car.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
So when he said about that would be the one
thing I would say.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Maybe he the car thing, but the idea that he
said when he the text about coming in, did you
send it to her grant basically, hey, just come in
when you get here. No, Well, when she got to
my place, she had texted me that I'm here, and
I texted her you said just.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Coming text because I was still finishing. Okay, okay, fair,
just go ahead. The doors open water. It does not
bother me.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
And the chair thing to me is I mean you're
at his house. I mean I think if you're at
a restaurant or something.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Now they're walking out to the car. That's that's maybe
the one where I would kind of go that would
have been nice.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I feel that, but it sounds like it was a
pattern for her though. If she's looking for a gentleman,
it was the.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I don't understand though, like this gentlemanly. I mean, I
consider myself to be a gentleman. I cooked dinner, I
got everything ready.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I'm I'm sorry, but like on other days in the past,
I'm not someone that goes, oh, let me pull out
the chair.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I mean, I feel like that's a little too old fashioned.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
How many people do you see on dates or like
I'm pulling out that's nice.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
I think that's chivalrous.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I like that. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
If I had an otherwise amazing date.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
If that's the thing, I'm going to Dingy in old
on TC has a great comment here, TC, what's up?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
What is she talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:39):
She loved the treatment because she gave him the cookie.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah? Talking about now, Nicole.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Nicole, you hated every bit of coming to his house
and not getting the chair pulled out, yet you still
had sex with him.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Why did you still have sex?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I mean maybe it like all caught up to me
when I was walking back to my comment myself, like
I don't like it. Was. I don't know, didn'ything like
you didn't pull like toweled, I didn't have my You
guys would like you deserved.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
The treatment you deserved because you gave it up.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
He didn't walk you to them, didn't door because I.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Disagree with that. I disagree with that part of what
you say. Why why you're getting the treatment.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
That you deserved just because you gave it up on
the firstment?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
No, real quick, Grant.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Talking about she she didn't like him pull her out
her chair, but she didn't like that, but she.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Gave him some. Yeah, I was with you till that point.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Hold on though, real quick, Grant, did you at least
give her the leftovers?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did you give her the leftovers? Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
She didn't ask for them.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, I was gonna say maybe maybe if he gave
her the leftovers, that was enough.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
What's up, Terra High, I don't okay, So listen, none
of this. None of those small things would matter if
you put it down right.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
That's why when she walked out, she.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Didn't like, Yes, you're right, you're right this day this
date went wrong in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Grant, I hate to say this to you.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
If I like something, I'm calling back like as soon
as I leave, like, oh my god, that.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Was really good off for you to know. Are we
wrong on that, Nicole?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
I feel like that is something that should probably just
stay priced. I don't know, I know, I am trying to.
I don't think of myself as old fashioned though, or
like I have these high ideals. I think of it
like there's just a standard, and it was like we
were almost at it, but these key things kind of
(06:48):
kept us back. I mean, I can't even believe the
leftover thing, Like if you would to be fair, if
you would have sent me out with like a doggy bag,
I think that would have been worse. Like I don't
think I wanted to watch.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
All. I was just kidding with that kind of mona Mona, Well.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Good morning guys, first.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Time, long time.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
So her demands are insane, and.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
It's infuriating because I am fifty one, I am single,
and I'm single because of the ridiculous demands that these
younger women are here are out here.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Are putting on these great guys.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
He sounds like a great guy.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
He cooks for you, You.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Got naked for him?
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Are we still talking about he didn't walk.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You through the.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Single because these men are terrified that they do not
know what in the world we want.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Grant, would you like a date with Mona? And do
you have a meal that you could make for this
lovely lady?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
You know, see Mona? She sounds great. Okay, that's exactly
how I feel.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
And yes, there's a great I have a great lasagna
I would make fit.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Although lasagna is two filling men that have sex afterward. Bro,
that's the problem. That's because that's listened. When you're att
do you eat.
Speaker 5 (08:18):
Everything you want at one time. I'm about to say
this real quick, and I don't care how it sound. Yeah,
some women just too easy, bro, Like you just got
to cook for now. She eating out to pull in
your hands. Literally, Yeah, everybody, Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
My god, he cooked for me. He's such an that's
all they take or hollow y'all, bar is.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
I don't know if it was that or it was
it was a nice He planned a nice date for her,
truly he It sounds like he took care in making
sure that it was a nice evening.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
He planned a day, He invited her over and cooked.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Yeah, but you gotta got a plan menu, you got
to store, you got to get all the thing.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
I'm giving credit for that.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I think that's a really nice first date and if
everything else was great about the date, but he didn't
pull out a chair.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
That's not why I'm not going to never reach out
to him again.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Date, second date updates. This is the home of the
dirty on the thirty fro back FRODA, the second date update,
and more than roses, this is Mojo in the Morning.
It's the second date up date mojule in the morning.
All right.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
If you are not getting a call back after you've
been on a date with somebody, text date to nine
five five zero zero. Grant is on with us right now. Grant,
are you there? Yeah, I'm here, Grant not getting a
call back? What's going on?
Speaker 1 (00:17):
Buddy?
Speaker 3 (00:19):
Oh?
Speaker 1 (00:20):
You know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
That's why I'm calling you.
Speaker 1 (00:21):
Guys. All right, I understand. Tell us about the day.
Would you do.
Speaker 3 (00:26):
Well?
Speaker 1 (00:28):
Uh? I made dinner.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
I'm a cook, I'm a chef, and I made dinner
with wine at my house. I prefer okay, and being
at your house? Did it lead to anything more than
just eating and drinking?
Speaker 3 (00:44):
You know?
Speaker 1 (00:44):
Actually it did, and it it was really nice.
Speaker 3 (00:47):
I thought it was very good.
Speaker 1 (00:48):
I thought we had a really great time. But I
haven't talked to her since.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
What a great first date.
Speaker 1 (00:54):
By the way, can you imagine dating a chef? Thank you?
How great would that be? So, Grant? When you say
you guys, did you guys ended up having sex? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:02):
Okay? When you said goodbye to her? Was it the
next morning or that night? It was that night and
everything was good. When she left, she seemed happy, and
you guys say goodbye.
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Yeah. Yeah, that's when I.
Speaker 3 (01:16):
Mean, I was honestly really surprised that she completely goes
to me.
Speaker 2 (01:20):
All Right, we're gonna find out what's going on, dinner,
drinks and more. Nicole, will you say hello to Grant?
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Hi?
Speaker 1 (01:33):
Oh, what's happening? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (01:40):
No, this is just I mean I feel a little awkward.
Like everything everything was okay with the date. It was
like it was okay, we had a good dinner and
he's a great cook, and good wine and good conversation.
Everything was good, but it just was yeah, oh gosh,
(02:02):
I just feel like it wasn't up to like the
standards I would expect.
Speaker 1 (02:08):
What do you mean in.
Speaker 3 (02:08):
Terms of how I was actually treated? What like I
I like, I mean even from the very beginning, like
I got there and like you didn't even greet me
at the door, you like texted me that it was
good to come in.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
It's probably cooking. Yeah, okay, literally was cooking. I mean
I had you know, I literally was.
Speaker 3 (02:35):
Coming to your house for the first time. Like I
literally am used to somebody greeting me. But that wasn't
like the only thing, Like when we went to eat
like you didn't pull my chip out for me. It
just had to like sit down.
Speaker 1 (02:50):
Okay, what year is it. I mean.
Speaker 3 (02:55):
Just used to being treated a little bit like there's
just it was like a little I don't know, I
guess I want to be treated like a princess. And
like the next day like yeah, I will give you that.
It was like we had good chemistry. That part was fine,
but like even going out to my car, like you
didn't even walk me to my car.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
So when he said about that would be the one
thing I would say.
Speaker 2 (03:18):
Maybe he the car thing, but the idea that he
said when he the text about coming in, did you
send it to her grant basically, hey, just come in
when you get here. No, Well, when she got to
my place, she had texted me that I'm here, and
I texted her you said just.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Coming text because I was still finishing. Okay, okay, fair,
just go ahead. The doors open water. It does not
bother me.
Speaker 2 (03:45):
And the chair thing to me is I mean you're
at his house. I mean I think if you're at
a restaurant or something.
Speaker 4 (03:49):
Now they're walking out to the car. That's that's maybe
the one where I would kind of go that would
have been nice.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
I feel that, but it sounds like it was a
pattern for her though. If she's looking for a gentleman,
it was the.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I don't understand though, like this gentlemanly. I mean, I
consider myself to be a gentleman. I cooked dinner, I
got everything ready.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
I'm I'm sorry, but like on other days in the past,
I'm not someone that goes, oh, let me pull out
the chair.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
I mean, I feel like that's a little too old fashioned.
Speaker 2 (04:22):
How many people do you see on dates or like
I'm pulling out that's nice.
Speaker 4 (04:28):
I think that's chivalrous.
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I like that. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (04:31):
If I had an otherwise amazing date.
Speaker 1 (04:32):
If that's the thing, I'm going to Dingy in old
on TC has a great comment here, TC, what's up?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
What is she talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:39):
She loved the treatment because she gave him the cookie.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
What are you talking about?
Speaker 1 (04:46):
Yeah? Talking about now, Nicole.
Speaker 2 (04:50):
Nicole, you hated every bit of coming to his house
and not getting the chair pulled out, yet you still
had sex with him.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Why did you still have sex?
Speaker 3 (05:01):
I mean maybe it like all caught up to me
when I was walking back to my comment myself, like
I don't like it. Was. I don't know, didn'ything like
you didn't pull like toweled, I didn't have my You
guys would like you deserved.
Speaker 5 (05:16):
The treatment you deserved because you gave it up.
Speaker 3 (05:19):
He didn't walk you to them, didn't door because I.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
Disagree with that. I disagree with that part of what
you say. Why why you're getting the treatment.
Speaker 4 (05:29):
That you deserved just because you gave it up on
the firstment?
Speaker 1 (05:32):
No, real quick, Grant.
Speaker 5 (05:35):
Talking about she she didn't like him pull her out
her chair, but she didn't like that, but she.
Speaker 1 (05:40):
Gave him some. Yeah, I was with you till that point.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
Hold on though, real quick, Grant, did you at least
give her the leftovers?
Speaker 1 (05:49):
Did you give her the leftovers? Oh?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
She didn't ask for them.
Speaker 2 (05:55):
Okay, I was gonna say maybe maybe if he gave
her the leftovers, that was enough.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
What's up, Terra High, I don't okay, So listen, none
of this. None of those small things would matter if
you put it down right.
Speaker 1 (06:05):
That's why when she walked out, she.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Didn't like, Yes, you're right, you're right this day this
date went wrong in the bedroom.
Speaker 1 (06:14):
Grant, I hate to say this to you.
Speaker 3 (06:18):
If I like something, I'm calling back like as soon
as I leave, like, oh my god, that.
Speaker 1 (06:22):
Was really good off for you to know. Are we
wrong on that, Nicole?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
I feel like that is something that should probably just
stay priced. I don't know, I know, I am trying to.
I don't think of myself as old fashioned though, or
like I have these high ideals. I think of it
like there's just a standard, and it was like we
were almost at it, but these key things kind of
(06:48):
kept us back. I mean, I can't even believe the
leftover thing, Like if you would to be fair, if
you would have sent me out with like a doggy bag,
I think that would have been worse. Like I don't
think I wanted to watch.
Speaker 1 (07:01):
All. I was just kidding with that kind of mona Mona, Well.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Good morning guys, first.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Time, long time.
Speaker 3 (07:14):
Okay, listen.
Speaker 1 (07:15):
So her demands are insane, and.
Speaker 5 (07:18):
It's infuriating because I am fifty one, I am single,
and I'm single because of the ridiculous demands that these
younger women are here are out here.
Speaker 3 (07:30):
Are putting on these great guys.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
He sounds like a great guy.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
He cooks for you, You.
Speaker 1 (07:35):
Got naked for him?
Speaker 5 (07:36):
Are we still talking about he didn't walk.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You through the.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Single because these men are terrified that they do not
know what in the world we want.
Speaker 2 (07:48):
Grant, would you like a date with Mona? And do
you have a meal that you could make for this
lovely lady?
Speaker 1 (07:54):
You know, see Mona? She sounds great. Okay, that's exactly
how I feel.
Speaker 2 (07:59):
And yes, there's a great I have a great lasagna
I would make fit.
Speaker 1 (08:07):
Although lasagna is two filling men that have sex afterward. Bro,
that's the problem. That's because that's listened. When you're att
do you eat.
Speaker 5 (08:18):
Everything you want at one time. I'm about to say
this real quick, and I don't care how it sound. Yeah,
some women just too easy, bro, Like you just got
to cook for now. She eating out to pull in
your hands. Literally, Yeah, everybody, Oh.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
My god, he cooked for me. He's such an that's
all they take or hollow y'all, bar is.
Speaker 4 (08:41):
I don't know if it was that or it was
it was a nice He planned a nice date for her,
truly he It sounds like he took care in making
sure that it was a nice evening.
Speaker 1 (08:51):
He planned a day, He invited her over and cooked.
Speaker 4 (08:54):
Yeah, but you gotta got a plan menu, you got
to store, you got to get all the thing.
Speaker 1 (08:59):
I'm giving credit for that.
Speaker 4 (09:01):
I think that's a really nice first date and if
everything else was great about the date, but he didn't
pull out a chair.
Speaker 1 (09:07):
It's crazy.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
That's not why I'm not going to never reach out
to him again.
Speaker 1 (09:11):
Date, second date updates. This is the home of the
dirty on the thirty fro back FRODA, the second date update,
and more than roses, this is Mojo in the Morning.
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