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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second Date Update Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
All right, we're going to do the second date update.
Why are you not getting a call after you went
on a date? We're going to find out for Amanda
this morning. So, Amanda, Hi, how are you good? I
guess this would be probably one of the worst things
to happen to you in the last month, right when
you're trying to figure out, like why he's not calling back.
Speaker 1 (00:27):
You, guys, went on a date.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
You are a divorced mom and went on a date
with went on a date with a guy. You thought
things went great, and now you're not getting any calls
back from him, and you want to know exactly what's
going on.
Speaker 3 (00:43):
Yeah, it's been super weird. It's awkward.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
All right, We're going to find out what's going on.
Jake is on the phone with us right now. Jake,
say hi to Amanda.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Oh, Hey, how's it going.
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Guys?
Speaker 1 (00:58):
It's going good, Jake.
Speaker 2 (01:01):
We're on the radio right now, okay, and Amanda's on
with us, and we're doing a thing we do call
the second Date Update. And Amanda she entered in to
try to get on and find out why she's not
getting a call back. First off. I gotta just ask
you guys a question. How was the date?
Speaker 1 (01:18):
Like?
Speaker 2 (01:18):
Where where did you guys do? And what did you
guys do? Amanda?
Speaker 3 (01:24):
Oh? Well, so yeah, we just it was like a
really it was a really nice time. We ended up
going for dinner and then we had so much fun
that we ended up like hanging out for drinks and
it was really really nice. Like I thought, it was
a really great time.
Speaker 1 (01:45):
I don't know, I feel I don't know, you can't figure.
Speaker 2 (01:47):
Out, Jake, Jake, what's going on? So, Jake, why are
you not calling her back?
Speaker 1 (01:55):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (01:56):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (01:56):
I mean it was a great date. I don't know.
I think maybe I was just a little anxious to
send some anxiety about going forward after the first date.
Speaker 2 (02:09):
I don't know, why is that? Why did you have anxiety?
Speaker 4 (02:15):
I mean maybe it was just too I felt too
good to be true. I mean we really we hit
it off, and I just you know, after being divorced
and getting back into things, it's like it's not easy.
Speaker 1 (02:26):
You know.
Speaker 2 (02:26):
Is there something that would keep you from continuing to
dat Amanda and just getting to continue to get to
know her?
Speaker 1 (02:34):
I mean, no, yes and no, what's the yes?
Speaker 4 (02:41):
Well, I mean we kind of have something in common
that I'm nervous about.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
What is that?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
If you don't mind us asking, if you don't mind
sharing with us.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
So I found out that our kids go to the
same school.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
Okay, how old are your kids?
Speaker 4 (03:05):
They're both in high school?
Speaker 2 (03:06):
Okay, so your kids go to the same high school
and you didn't Amanda, You guys didn't know that until
the date or was it.
Speaker 1 (03:12):
After the date that you guys figured that out?
Speaker 3 (03:15):
Yeah, so we kind of I mean I actually saw it.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
Is that.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
I mean, that's where I feel like we connected a
little bit, Like, yeah, we found out on the date,
but I didn't realize that was like a bad thing.
I was like, this is actually like kind.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
Of cool, Like you guys could drop the kids off together,
or or I guess they're in high school, they probably
don't need to be dropped off or would it be
weird for your kids?
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Is that what you're thinking, Jake, Yeah, I mean I
just I don't know.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
I just didn't want to like throw my son into that,
and like, I just I didn't want to just dive
into this school on and then and then just say like, hey,
this is what's going on and then he's like embarrassed.
Speaker 2 (03:55):
Or I'm dating Yeah, I could see that. Can I
ask you guys a question? You guys went out just
for dinner and drinks. Did anything more happen with you guys?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Mm?
Speaker 5 (04:08):
Hm?
Speaker 1 (04:11):
Did you guys? Did you guys go back? Did you
guys go back to one of your homes? Mm hmmm?
Speaker 4 (04:16):
Where did you might have been some after hours activities?
Speaker 1 (04:20):
Where did you guys go? Where did you guys go? Amanda,
we went back to my place.
Speaker 3 (04:26):
Actually, so you.
Speaker 1 (04:27):
Went back to your house.
Speaker 2 (04:28):
The kids weren't home, and you guys were just being kids,
weren't you.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
I mean yeah, basically?
Speaker 4 (04:35):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
So okay, So here's the here's the thing.
Speaker 2 (04:38):
So Jake is a little now uncomfortable with the fact
that he's gonna have to tell his kids, or would
have to tell his kids that he's dating one of their,
you know, friends from school or somebody that.
Speaker 6 (04:50):
Maybe not friends from school parents.
Speaker 1 (04:54):
And yeah, would I just feel like would that be weird?
Speaker 2 (05:02):
Like would and I'll ask this question if that's ever
happened to anybody or if you would think that would
be weird? Eight four to four Mojo Live eight four
four six six five six five forty eight. Would it
be weird as a divorce mom or dad to start
dating somebody and then to know that that person is
a mom or a dad of one of the kids
(05:24):
that your kid goes to school with. I think that
would be pretty wild. I actually think this is a
reality show in itself.
Speaker 6 (05:29):
But I think it's not uncommon. No, I know, it's
not uncommon at all.
Speaker 1 (05:33):
Have you known anybody at all or because I know, yeah.
Speaker 6 (05:35):
I know I shouldn't say tons, but I know I
know several now married couples that their kids go to
the same school.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Can I went to school with kids who?
Speaker 3 (05:44):
Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:44):
Did you really do the kids like that?
Speaker 2 (05:47):
Because I could just picture I'm thinking of all the
kids of that are friends of ours that their parents
are divorced.
Speaker 1 (05:53):
I could see them being a side.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
It could go either way. It could be a really
really great thing, or it could be a really bad thing.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You could say that about anything, right.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Yeah, But as a kid, you don't want I don't
necessarily think you want to know that your mom or
dad is dating you know, Joey's you know parent or
something like that, you know or whoever the kid is.
I remember when one of my best buddies got in
our couple friends got divorced, and I remember I had
people that would reach out to me. I'm both both
(06:24):
men and women, going hair, so and so's got divorced. Yeah, yeah,
do you think they're ready to start dating? I'm like going,
wait a second, man, that is like crazy? How fast
the people like yeah, because when you're a single parent
sometimes you you know, you don't just take that time
you want to be able to get back on the
thing because you think you're not going to be able
to do that. But hold on a second, let me
grab some calls here Brook, what's happening.
Speaker 7 (06:46):
Hey, I am a high school teacher and was dating
one of my not on purpose. That I was dating
a guy and then his son was in my class.
Speaker 6 (06:57):
That to me is really tough, Like that would be
so hard.
Speaker 1 (07:02):
Maybe that my parents were dating my teacher. Yeah, was
it awkward for him to know that?
Speaker 7 (07:08):
I don't think he knew, so it was awkward for me,
but he had no idea.
Speaker 1 (07:11):
When were you re friends with him? Yeah?
Speaker 2 (07:14):
When did you realize that he was a dad of
one of the kids.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
Well, I so I was set up with him by
a mutual friend, and so we were. We started talking
for quite a while, and so his son had gone
to the middle school that feeds into this high school
where I work, So I knew that, but then I
didn't know that things were going to you know, progress
at all. And then he was in my class and
he was like, hey, my Stun's in your class with
his buddies, and I'm like, yeah, that's not no.
Speaker 3 (07:42):
Thank you.
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Wow.
Speaker 3 (07:44):
It was super awkward, but he ended up switching out. Actually,
so I.
Speaker 7 (07:47):
Was like really really happy because every day I felt
super awkward starting class and having him just like watch me.
Speaker 2 (07:53):
Right, Thanks for the caller, I appreciated, Kristen. What did
you want to say?
Speaker 5 (07:59):
Hi?
Speaker 8 (08:00):
So I just wanted to say, isn't it isn't it
worse for the kids if he's thinking about, you know,
what his kids think and how that could be uncomfortable
for it? Like what if her kids found out that
her mom got ghosted by her you know, classmate or whatever.
I'd be And it's not worse than like getting you know,
like uncomfortably dating or with respect.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
If somebody ghosted my mom, I'd beat that kid's ass
just to show.
Speaker 1 (08:25):
That dad, you should never do that again.
Speaker 2 (08:27):
Right, Take care? Of business there, Shaye, what's up? It's
Mojo in the morning. Second date update, Amanda went on
a date with Jake. Now they have the awkwardness of
the fact that their kids go to high school together.
Speaker 1 (08:38):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 7 (08:40):
He is reading way too much into it.
Speaker 8 (08:42):
It's high school.
Speaker 3 (08:43):
There's like how many kids in the high school.
Speaker 7 (08:45):
It's not like it's a little elementary school where there's
you know, a few kids.
Speaker 8 (08:48):
I literally dated a guy that I met. It was
the first time I dated after my divorce, actually, and
we met at the school. Our kids went like across
the hall from each other. The kids didn't care. They
thought it was cool.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (09:00):
You know what actually is good about your kids going
high school together.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
You have the same break times, so you get the
same February breaking crazy. Yeah, you can all go together
on vacation. Hey, thank you for the call. Appreciated. He
is probably reading too much into it, Miranda, what's up?
Speaker 3 (09:14):
Hi, Hi, Mojo.
Speaker 8 (09:17):
I think he's just embarrassed to be seen with her now,
you know, around the kids and everything. If she was hot,
I don't think he cared.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Oh, I don't know that. I don't know.
Speaker 2 (09:30):
That's a little I feel bad when you're saying that, Annie,
what's up?
Speaker 5 (09:36):
Hey, I just wanted to talk about that. My dad
used to date some girls parents at my school, and
it was just always so weird because I mean, I'm
gonna be honest, he might be a bit you might
talk to a lot of women, but he just he
(09:56):
like just talked to a bunch of girls at my school.
Speaker 2 (09:59):
Wait, your dad was a player with the parents of
the girls that you went to school with.
Speaker 5 (10:04):
Yeah, like basically, and and it was a lot of
the a lot of my friend's parents. And like, I mean,
he wasn't like weird. They like he would just tell
me that their parents are like pretty or whatever. But
like still it was like, man, weird.
Speaker 1 (10:23):
I don't know if women love dads especially involved, as
when they see you at the school and they see
how you handling your son or.
Speaker 2 (10:29):
Your daughter maybe all are you speaking from experience for sure?
Speaker 1 (10:32):
Wow? He looks Maybe choose Annie.
Speaker 2 (10:35):
Were there any girls that you hated in school that
your dad ended up fooling around with their mom?
Speaker 1 (10:42):
No?
Speaker 5 (10:43):
Not necessarily, like no, but like a lot of them.
I just feel there was a time period where I
was like in a group chat and they were texting
about my dad, like basically calling him a player and
like coming at me.
Speaker 2 (10:59):
And I was like, Yo, come on to hey, Annie,
your dad's over here right now in mom's bedroom. It's
like crazy, all right. Second date update here on the
Mojo in the Morning.
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