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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second date update Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
All right, second date update. Parker is getting ghosted this morning. Parker,
what's going on? How are you?
Speaker 3 (00:12):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (00:12):
I'm doing out there?
Speaker 1 (00:13):
You good? So Parker? First off, how did you guys meet?
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (00:20):
We met on on on bumble. I mean there's yeah, there's.
Speaker 2 (00:25):
Simple as that and met on bumble. You guys go
out once twice? How many times.
Speaker 6 (00:33):
We went out?
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Just the one time?
Speaker 5 (00:35):
But we were talking a bunch like texting and facetiming
before we run out. So that's why I don't know
why I'm being ghosted.
Speaker 2 (00:43):
You thought things went great and you've been trying to
get a second date out of this deal, but now
are not getting any calls back. We're gonna find out
what's going on. Janelle is on the phone with us
right now. Janelle, will you say hello to Parker?
Speaker 3 (00:57):
Hello?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Hight Kay Janelle, Janelle, do you remember Parker?
Speaker 7 (01:11):
Yeah? Yeah, of course.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
What's going on? Janelle?
Speaker 2 (01:14):
You've just been busy and that's why you guys haven't
been able to hook up or what's what's happening?
Speaker 7 (01:22):
Yeah, yeah, it's been busy. Yeah. Sorry, sorry, Parker.
Speaker 5 (01:29):
I didn't well, I mean, well, I apologize. I just
thought that I did everything right on our day because
I know we talked about how you like being treated
very well, and so I was trying to be, as
you know, on my game, Chivalris, gentlemanly as possible, and
(01:49):
I thought I was.
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Doing all that.
Speaker 1 (01:51):
So hearing from here Janelle was he was he a
nice guy? Was he chival Ris personal?
Speaker 6 (02:03):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (02:03):
But the day itself was good.
Speaker 5 (02:07):
But I don't know.
Speaker 7 (02:11):
I think I just I was maybe raised a little
differently than Parker, and I'm I we did talk about
this before.
Speaker 6 (02:26):
I am I'm used to to certain things, and I
feel like, if you know, if those expectations aren't met, I.
Speaker 1 (02:37):
Don't want to waste What are you talking about?
Speaker 2 (02:39):
You're kind of beating around because I think you're not
wanting to either hurt his feelings or you're embarrassed to
say what's going on. But Parker called us up, so
I know he wants to know what's going on. What
do you mean raised differently? What did he do that
makes you feel like he was raised differently?
Speaker 7 (02:53):
My dad treated me like a princess, and I'm used
to princess treatment.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
But it sounds like said, yeah, what did he do.
That was not princess treating.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
I mean the date itself was good, but it was
after the date.
Speaker 1 (03:14):
Okay, what did he do after the date?
Speaker 7 (03:18):
He didn't walk me to my car, And that's a
real issue for me.
Speaker 2 (03:26):
You didn't walk her to her car, parker, what did
you do? Did you say goodbye? Where you guys went out?
And then she just walked to the parking lot by herself.
Speaker 5 (03:36):
We were on different than the parking lot, but I
thought like we could see her car from where I
dropped her off, Like it was just down the aisle
from the restaurant. So I thought that I thought it
was okay because I could I.
Speaker 1 (03:48):
Could literally see it, so quick question, is it is
that a bad thing?
Speaker 2 (03:53):
Is it is if if they walk out of a restaurant,
you can see the car he's parked somewhere else, and
you say goodbye right there at the front of a
rest and don't walk her to her car door.
Speaker 1 (04:03):
I always felt like if you do that, they think
that you're trying to get more than just yeah, that's.
Speaker 8 (04:08):
What this is very fifty to fifty because I do appreciate,
like when Wes and I first started dating, even now,
he always will opened the car door for me or
walk me to my car, like he is very, very civilrous. However,
those first couple of dates, when he did walk me
to my car and I opened the door to get
in my car, I was like, uh, are we kissing?
(04:28):
Are we not kissing?
Speaker 1 (04:29):
I don't really want to kiss you yet.
Speaker 9 (04:30):
I don't know what to do.
Speaker 1 (04:31):
You're actually super vulnerable position.
Speaker 8 (04:34):
Don't That is not a deal breaker to me, though, Janelle,
if he did everything else right, you're going to ding
him on that I not go out with him again.
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Yeah, that's weird. It's so hard to amy.
Speaker 8 (04:45):
I don't think that that's worth not giving him a
second chance by any means.
Speaker 7 (04:50):
But to mean it was, it was dark. We I
have and to be to be fair to me, I
laid out, like you said, we talked about this before,
and I said, like, I, you know, want to be
want to be honest. I'm used to princess treatment, and
(05:10):
if you're not gonna treat me, you know right, like,
if you're not going to treat me like a princess,
I'm going.
Speaker 1 (05:19):
To say that out loud though?
Speaker 9 (05:21):
Is that to me?
Speaker 8 (05:23):
If I were a guy, I would run real far
and real fast.
Speaker 4 (05:26):
There is a shoe for every foot, but good luck
finding it, because you seem like a size fourteen still
out of heal. Like good luck.
Speaker 8 (05:33):
It's one thing in your head to think my dad
raised me a certain way, I expect a certain type
of treatment, which that that's a great that's a great
attribute that your dad, you know, instilled in you to
look for in a man. But the to say out
loud I deserve the princess treatment, I'm cringing for you.
Speaker 2 (05:51):
I actually do think that that it's good to put
it out there like what you're wanting, but don't say
it that way. But I definitely don't think that you
say that way. And I think that it's also not
bad to say, hey, walk me to my car like
he honestly, just be open and honestly I feel more
comfortable you walked to my car.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Bryce. I don't want that.
Speaker 2 (06:07):
Bryce says that, you know, right real quick, I want
to grab Bryce here for a second. Bryce is calling
us up eight four to four Mojoe Live eight four
four six six five six fy four eight. Bryce, you
think that this is more than just her not getting
walked to the car. What do you think is going on?
Speaker 3 (06:23):
Well, first, of all, I agree with you saying she'd
be honest if she wants him to walk her to
the car. Yeah, it's a first date too, But it
sounds like she's really just not confident in what she's saying,
like she's trying to hide something like not telling us
something here and what do.
Speaker 1 (06:40):
You think that is?
Speaker 7 (06:42):
Just?
Speaker 3 (06:43):
You know, just say that straight up, because if she
did like him, then she'd still be trying to trying
a second date or still talk to him.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
Yeah, if you were attracted to him, it wouldn't matter
if he's walked you to your car or made you
walk five blocks at least.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
What's up?
Speaker 3 (06:58):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (06:59):
I think she's sounds like a Kardashian a giant.
Speaker 2 (07:03):
Bullets that Jim's a lawyer, which Kardashian is?
Speaker 3 (07:10):
She is?
Speaker 1 (07:10):
She a Chloe Courtney Kristin what's going on? Hi?
Speaker 9 (07:15):
I just wanted to say it sounds like he dodged
a bullet because if that's princess treatment, that demand is insane.
Like to me, I think if he has good morals,
he's attractive, these kinds like he's like that should tick
all the boxes. What is this balking the car?
Speaker 7 (07:31):
That's just insane?
Speaker 2 (07:32):
I don't think it's wrong to expect more from people
and to take care of you. But like Shannon said,
it's the wording that she said that makes us all
turned off.
Speaker 8 (07:42):
Also, if he did everything right during the day and
was such a gentleman, and there's that one thing that
maybe he quote unquote missed.
Speaker 1 (07:50):
I mean, come on, Eric, what's up?
Speaker 5 (07:54):
She's gonna die stingless?
Speaker 7 (08:00):
Crazy?
Speaker 6 (08:00):
You are?
Speaker 3 (08:01):
You beat around the bush? I'll be direct, Like that's
what you need to If she's gonna be that way,
she needs to be direct with whoever the heck she's
going on.
Speaker 7 (08:08):
A date with.
Speaker 3 (08:08):
Be direct.
Speaker 1 (08:09):
This is what you want by.
Speaker 2 (08:13):
If you went out with Eric, could drop you off
five blocks away from your car, Nikita, what's up?
Speaker 7 (08:18):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (08:19):
Hi, good morning.
Speaker 7 (08:20):
She's being very extreme, like nobody's gonna know you, like
exactly to the tea, Like you can teach people like how.
Speaker 1 (08:28):
You want to be treated. Yeah, can I ask.
Speaker 8 (08:32):
All this in a kind way that doesn't come off
to landing got to.
Speaker 9 (08:36):
Do with it, like, hey, is this okay?
Speaker 8 (08:37):
If you drop if you walk me to my car,
and then if she's smart enough, you will know like, oh,
this is the type of things that she's like, I'm
going to make sure.
Speaker 1 (08:44):
I do this from now on, all the women on
the show. I want to ask this question of you. Guys.
Speaker 2 (08:48):
If a guy is like the most incredible gentleman ever,
walks you to your car, doesn't expect much, you know
what I mean, He's not trying to get a cast
or anything out of that. He's watched your safety great
at dinner, really focused on you.
Speaker 8 (09:00):
Where's the bad here?
Speaker 2 (09:02):
But doesn't look great Like it's not something that you're
really interested in. Do you overlook his looks for his
kindness or do you think there's something you know that
you just can't deal Like?
Speaker 8 (09:14):
Can you, let's be real, attract the attractiveness to somebody's
physical appearance. I mean that's part of it.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Yeah, I have plenty of friends. Yeah, I'm not attracted
to you.
Speaker 3 (09:27):
I don't know.
Speaker 4 (09:29):
Because here's how I feel about it. I care more
about your values than your looks.
Speaker 1 (09:33):
Because if we don't agree.
Speaker 4 (09:34):
On values, it doesn't matter if you're the hottest person
on the planet. And it doesn't matter if we agree
on absolutely everything and you're the hottest person, You're not
gonna be hot for.
Speaker 1 (09:43):
The rest of your life.
Speaker 4 (09:44):
I care more about getting along with Now does it matter?
Speaker 9 (09:47):
I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:48):
I think it's stupid to write it off completely. But
I also think it's stupid to put too much weight
on attractiveness. It's got to be in the middle, but
it's got to be it's got to be there, so sure,
even a little bit. But I have maybe this happened
for you guys.
Speaker 4 (10:01):
There have been guys that I immediately found unattractive, and
the more I got to know them as people.
Speaker 1 (10:05):
The hotter they got.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
Yeah, And I think that's that's probably a big deal too.
Sometimes you got to get a second or third day
to realize what a true guy really is. If you
don't put your best foot forward on your first date,
then I think you're If you not attracted to that person,
I don't give it. Damn how great of a person
they are. You're not going to fully be part of
the But you've never met somebody that you weren't. Yes, yes,
(10:28):
But in the back of my mind, it would be
days where I will look at it and be like,
and that thought would come up.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
But that's what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (10:34):
I have, like to KP's point, I have guy friends
that treat me so wonderfully and you know, do all
of these things. I am just not attracted to them.
A relationship would have never worked. That there has to
be something that I find attractive. I don't think I'm
saying like somebody in that way that's not fair to
you or them.
Speaker 2 (10:56):
And I think that this is one of those things
where I think that honestly, listeners are calling out they
just don't think she's attracted to this guy. She's using
the car thing as her excuse. All right, Second date
updates It's the home.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
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Speaker 1 (11:11):
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