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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Just the second date up date Mojo in the morning.

Speaker 2 (00:03):
Why are you not getting a call back? Nia wants
to know. Nia, what did you guys do for your date?

Speaker 3 (00:10):
We just went to dinner, okay.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
And how did you guys meet?

Speaker 3 (00:16):
We met at work?

Speaker 1 (00:18):
Okay, So this is actually a coworker of yours.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
M hm.

Speaker 1 (00:23):
And is it awkward at work?

Speaker 2 (00:25):
Do you see him on a daily basis or do
you guys not see each other at work?

Speaker 3 (00:30):
Well, we work in different departments.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
Okay, I don't When was your date.

Speaker 3 (00:38):
About a week ago?

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Okay, so it's been a week and he has not
talked to you about the date or tried to ask
you on another date.

Speaker 1 (00:47):
No, that's awkward when you're at work. Absolutely.

Speaker 2 (00:51):
I always feel like this is the reason why companies
don't like inter office romances. For this particular reason, that's
not the money. That things get a little crazy. We're
going to find out what's going on. And the weird
part is both you guys are on your way to work.
Chris are you there?

Speaker 3 (01:05):
Oh? Yeah, I'm here.

Speaker 1 (01:07):
Hey, Nia, say hi to Chris.

Speaker 3 (01:10):
Hey, what's up? Hey?

Speaker 1 (01:14):
So Chris, this is the second date update.

Speaker 2 (01:16):
This is something that we do to try to figure
out for a listener why they're not getting a call back.
And we kind of, you know, put you on the
spot by asking you if you come on the radio
with us, and I appreciate you doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:31):
Is there another date in store for you? Guys? Do
you see yourself and Nia getting together?

Speaker 3 (01:37):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:39):
Why is that.

Speaker 3 (01:42):
Isn't the one for me?

Speaker 1 (01:45):
Does something happen or how did you come to that concluse?
It's some of the things we talked about. It just
was a bad time. What'd you talk about?

Speaker 4 (01:57):
She's not close with her family and that's you for me?

Speaker 1 (02:02):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (02:02):
Yeah, Nia, did that come up during the day that
you're not close with your family?

Speaker 1 (02:06):
Or how would Chris know that you're not close with
your family?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
Yeah, we've briefly talked about it. It's not like a
big deal to me, Like I'm not close to them.
That's just what it is.

Speaker 1 (02:19):
What it is a big deal to him? What was it?
Why is it such a big deal, Chris? Why do
you care so much about that?

Speaker 5 (02:27):
Oh?

Speaker 4 (02:27):
I'm a big family oriented guy myself, So I want
to be with someone who's going to be close to
her family because it's gonna.

Speaker 1 (02:33):
Be my family.

Speaker 2 (02:33):
And what did she say? About her not being close
to her family. Explain the conversation that you had without
giving out too much information.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
As he mentioned how they've tried to reach out to
her and she has been very receptive, and that's a
red flag.

Speaker 3 (02:46):
Of my book.

Speaker 2 (02:48):
I mean, again, without giving away too much information, could
you understand why she's feeling that way.

Speaker 3 (02:53):
Or or no, she didn't re elaborate on why.

Speaker 1 (03:00):
I don't think that's fair. You're not giving her a
chance or given Yeah, you need to understand her reasoning first.
I think, yeah, it could be valid.

Speaker 3 (03:11):
Yeah, I don't I don't understand why that. I don't
understand why that's like that's a reason for us not
to go on a date. Like what does my family
have to do with this situation?

Speaker 4 (03:23):
Well, we can go a long term, but going to
be my family and I won't be connected to my family.

Speaker 1 (03:27):
If they're not good people. Exactly are they bad people?

Speaker 3 (03:32):
Nia they are not, but they just didn't accept me
and what I you know, my career choices when I
was younger, and so we haven't.

Speaker 1 (03:42):
Spoken in a little bit.

Speaker 2 (03:44):
And and Chris, you don't understand that she's got some
issues that maybe she needs to work out or is
it that you just feel like you want to be
with somebody that.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
That's part of your criteria. They you need somebody who
is very close with their.

Speaker 4 (03:59):
Family, right and with them reaching out to her step
being now with that gift back, that's a bad look.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
So I say this you, Chris has every right to
not be interested in going on another date with Nia,
and we shouldn't judge, just like I don't think that
we should judge or Chris should judge why Nia doesn't
have a relationship. We don't know the whole stories behind it.
And I will say this to you, Nia, I as
somebody who is a pretty family oriented guy. One of

(04:27):
the things that attracted me to my wife was her
closeness to her family and the fact that she had
a very tight knit Italian you know, you know, Christian family.
So I kind of get both sides on this deal.
And it's the first date and it's one and done.
It's like, honestly, I give him credit for just cutting

(04:47):
it off at just to going to dinner.

Speaker 1 (04:48):
Yeah, you know, call it, call it a day. Well,
it's a deal baker for him.

Speaker 2 (04:53):
It sounds like, yeah, he's got his non negotiable Hey,
what's up, Jen, you wanted to comment on this.

Speaker 6 (05:00):
Yeah, I think that when people aren't close to their
family usually they have pretty good reasons for that. Now
to expect somebody to be receptive to them reaching out,
you don't know the past, You don't know the history.
I mean, I feel like if you're such a family guy,
you could provide that for her. She could have a
family that she's never known before.

Speaker 7 (05:22):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (05:23):
Good point, But do you want to become the guy
that's the therapist for the family when you're just trying
to start dating somebody?

Speaker 6 (05:32):
Therapist I don't mean therapist because there's many people that
have gone through therapy and still don't talk to their family.

Speaker 2 (05:40):
I understand, but I like to me like I I
think first dates are meant to see if there's a red.

Speaker 1 (05:48):
Flag or not.

Speaker 2 (05:49):
And when you go on the first date, if you
sense any kind of red flag, I think it's fair
enough to just say cut it quits. I think Chris,
you should have said something to her like it wouldn't
agree like me?

Speaker 1 (06:00):
Yeah, did you text Chris and say hey, what's up?
How are you? Or have you reached out to him
at all?

Speaker 2 (06:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (06:06):
I did. I reached out to him, and he just
left my message on red Yes.

Speaker 1 (06:11):
I never loved that part of second date of date?

Speaker 6 (06:13):
Why did I think that's a run flag?

Speaker 1 (06:17):
Chris? Why did you not answer it back?

Speaker 4 (06:20):
I don't think I'll ever respond at the one day?

Speaker 1 (06:23):
Okay, well, yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 2 (06:25):
I think you at least would be especially because you
guys work together. How is this going to be you
guys seeing each other at work?

Speaker 3 (06:33):
I'm just it's not the big of a deal.

Speaker 1 (06:35):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (06:36):
Do you date a lot of people at work? I say, Neia,
do you date a lot of people from your work?

Speaker 5 (06:44):
No?

Speaker 3 (06:45):
The first and last time?

Speaker 1 (06:47):
Yeah, I don't recommend that. Kyle. What's up? It's Mojoe
in the morning. What do you think, Kyle?

Speaker 8 (06:54):
I think that, uh, the first date is just kind
of the bullet points. And if close to family is
a big thing for him and she's not there, he
doesn't have to go into a deep understanding. It's not
a therapy thing.

Speaker 1 (07:06):
It's just kind of.

Speaker 8 (07:07):
You're getting to know each other. If she doesn't meet
what he's looking for, then that's fine to call it there.

Speaker 3 (07:13):
Yep.

Speaker 1 (07:13):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
Do you think though that he at least should have
text her back saying, hey, you know, not interested anymore.

Speaker 8 (07:21):
Probably it's only been a week, so maybe benefit of
the doubt that that's hard to figure out how to say.

Speaker 7 (07:29):
But yeah, no, I think he knew right away. You
just you let her know the next day or that day.

Speaker 8 (07:36):
Do you have the family thing kind of way?

Speaker 2 (07:39):
Sorry, well let me ask you in in this question,
because do you say to her the next day, wake
up the next morning too?

Speaker 1 (07:46):
You're not a family person. I don't want to know.

Speaker 7 (07:48):
I mean, obviously there's a kind and respectful way to say, like,
this is just I'm just not interested in going on
a second date with you to work.

Speaker 1 (07:56):
Yeah, you know, I.

Speaker 2 (07:57):
Would like actually I would look across the table at
her and I would say to her, you no likey family,
I don't like you. I want to see somebody actually
just be like playing out like at the moment in
the moment.

Speaker 1 (08:13):
Yeah, has anybody ever done that? Has anybody?

Speaker 2 (08:15):
Have you guys ever been on a date with somebody
and they said, you know what, this is our last date?

Speaker 1 (08:19):
Is I did?

Speaker 7 (08:20):
My husband did that to somebody, not to me in
the middle. He dated a lot before we got together,
and he left dates in the middle of the like
was just in the middle. He was just very honest
and saying, I don't think that this is going to
work out at all, and left. In fact, we drove
past the place the other day and he's like, that
was that situation.

Speaker 1 (08:41):
It was that restaurant right there.

Speaker 7 (08:43):
He did not want to lead anybody on for any
amount of time.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Yeah, wow, did at least what are you saying, did
he at least pay the bill before or not?

Speaker 1 (08:50):
I don't know. I hope so you could stay, but
I'm gonna go, what's up, Michelle? Good? What's going on? Michelle?
You say you agree you with Chris.

Speaker 5 (09:02):
I do just because if you know, you know, and
if that's like you know, something that's very important to you,
then I wouldn't waste my time either. I did the
same thing as my fiance now that you know, because
my ex husband has nothing to do with our grown
kids at all. He's never met our grandson afore. And

(09:23):
I was never going to date somebody that didn't have
nothing to do with their grown kids, and you know,
because that's very important to me. My kids didn't have
don't have that.

Speaker 2 (09:33):
That is a red flag that I don't care what
the circumstances is if you don't have a relationship with
your own kids. I don't want to get into the
messy situation. I really don't want that.

Speaker 5 (09:45):
I think that I'm like, how he dating somebody who
has kids. I'm like, oh, he's not a red flag
to her that he don't even talk to his own kids.
And he's doing, you know, because they were happened to
be at the same place at the same time for
you know, that side of the family. Look at his
hands like a woman like if somebody if I seen

(10:07):
that in my face, I'd be there so fast.

Speaker 1 (10:11):
Did you swear? I think I thought she said a heck?
Now did you say okay?

Speaker 2 (10:16):
I thought you said no second, Okay, make sure hold
on a second.

Speaker 1 (10:21):
Uh? Sheiana is on with us.

Speaker 2 (10:23):
You wanted to say something that actually I was thinking too,
and I've been thinking about since he said it.

Speaker 1 (10:27):
What did you want to say? How many floors is
Chris avoiding?

Speaker 3 (10:31):
Because when you're.

Speaker 4 (10:35):
When you asked him who he was dating, who all
he was dating, he didn't want to say, so are
once through thirteen?

Speaker 1 (10:46):
That's so great?

Speaker 2 (10:48):
But I want to say this, this has got to
be pretty interesting. If he's been dating a bunch of
people from his work, and he's avoiding certain floors.

Speaker 1 (10:55):
You know, you're right, that'd be pretty crazy.

Speaker 2 (10:59):
I don't think you can there and just go around
the office and start just dating people and then stop
talking to them, depending on how big office is like
this man, what kind of like how many people you can.

Speaker 1 (11:11):
Work out here this little teeny tiny space. I mean,
people would have to come first. Well, there's true. Maybe
they're avoiding this. Maybe that's the case, all right. Second
Date updates.

Speaker 2 (11:22):
This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty
throw Back fro Day Second Date Update and more than Roses,
this is Mojo in the Morning.
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