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Speaker 1 (00:01):
It's the second date up daate Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Why are you not getting a call back? We're going
to find out. Jeff is on with us right now. Hi, jav, Hey,
what's going on? What's happening in Jeff? So, Jeff, why
are you not getting a call back? Is what we're
going to try to figure out. Where did you guys.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Meet the best place ever online? On Facebook? Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, Facebook dating? And what did you guys do for
your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Just simple just went out to dinner, had a nice conversation,
and he did end up going back to my place.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Oh okay, see what happened there? No? She yeah, who
did you? Did you guys do anything at your place
other than just hang out?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Or yeah, she stayed over if we want to put
it that way.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Okay, so she spent the night, you guys ended up
baking cookies.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I've never heard of call that, but you sure?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
We hooked up.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Okay, all right, We're going to find out exactly what's
going on. Jeff has not heard from her since then,
and Don is on with us right now. Jeff, will
you say hi to down? Hey?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Done a long time? No cough?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Hi, Don?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
What's going on. How are you? I am good?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
How about you guys?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
We are doing fantastic. Don Jeff contacted us to do
second date update. That's what we call this saying, and
it's for the purpose of trying to figure out if
there is a possibility for a second date, if the
two of you guys could get together for a second date.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Is there a possibility he called you all to ask
me for a second date?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Well, he sent in a text for second date update.
You can text date to nine five five zero zero.
Did you just say no?
Speaker 3 (01:48):
No?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No? Why?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Why?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Well? We you know, God, this is I can't believe this.
So we went out and we went back to his place,
and you know, things happened, and I went to the
bathroom and he's got a bunch of women's stuff under
a sync Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Like what like toilet treees, tampon stuff like.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
That, mayor yeah, like tampon, makeup make up, okay, make
a remover, makeup remover like like stuff that would be
for a woman. So obviously he's already got somebody, So
why would I go out with him again?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Jeff? Why do you have do you have a roommate
or something? Or why do you have women's stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Well, appreciate your snooping in the bathroom, And those are
for my teenage daughter who I have custody. You have
to split custy with my ex wife with, so they're
not my They're not for all of the women I have,
you know, coming from my life. That is my teenage
daughter's stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Done. Yeah, don Why did you not just ask him
that when you came back or.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Like realize that, because I'm sure you taught you knew
he had a daughter.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Did you know he had a daughter?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
No?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
He never once said a word about having a daughter,
much less having custody of a quote unquote daughter. I mean, please.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Wait, that is a very normal explanation for why that
stuff was under there. And why are you are you
thinking he's lying about having a child.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
He literally never brought it up. You mean you have custody. Okay,
you have custody of a child. And I go back
to your place and you're not going to mention that
there's a teenage daughter that's living there. I mean, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Well, he said they joined custody, so I'm sure that
she was probably at her mom's house. You don't believe
his story you're telling us you think that he's lying
to you right now, but also lying to all of us.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
I mean, why would he not tell me he had
a teenage daughter until I until I see all of this?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Jeff, why did you not tell her that you have
a teenage daughter?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Well, it never really came up. But also I'm laughing
because there's a photo of my daughter and myself, like
I framed on my wall in the living room. So
I mean, yeah, I didn't point it out, but if
you're snooping underneath the sink, you could have snooped on
the wall and he could have said, who was this
my daughter? I didn't know that I had to lead
with the family history.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
I I you know, I think that this is just
a misunderstanding. But don you seem like you're a little attacking,
which makes me think also that you just didn't enjoy yourself.
Did you not enjoy your date?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean it was okay. But also if I'm going
to go out with someone and he's gonna think that
just telling me he has a daughter is going through
his like family history. I wasn't asking about like his
great grandfather or anything. I mean, you might want to
tell me about current events in your life. So if
he's gonna wishole something like that, what else is he
going to withhold for me?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So I just I gotta be honest with you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I you're getting married to having kid by history, so
I'm a great great grandfather.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
But I also you seem she seems very, uh, I
don't know, antagonistic about it. And yeah, Megan, what did
you want to say about this? Hi? Megan, Hi, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
So I have a few questions.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
I don't understand why.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Were you going through his cabinets anyways?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yeah, down, Meghan wants to know why you were going
through his stuff?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Okay, okay, because I'm in that group. Are we dating
the same guy? And there's so many women that have
gone through a man's bathroom and found women's things and
realized that they were not the only one. So I thought,
let me make sure that there's no women's stuff in here.
And guess what there was women's stuff. So I was like, well,
I'm probably one of many.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Then I think that got in your head and you
have made up a story before or even went in there.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Stay off the group, chat, live your life. Hey, what's
going on? Amanda?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (06:06):
How are you guys good?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
What's going on? What do you want to say to
these guys?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
I truly believe him because he answered very quickly.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
I do believe he has a daughter, But I also do.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Find it kind of odd that it wasn't brought up.
I do think it's a big deal because some people,
you know, don't even want to date people with kids,
So I do think that should.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Have already been brought up.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I agree with you there.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
I've always said that would be like the number one
thing that I lead with. But over the years that
I've said that, I also understand that people want to
get to know somebody before they you know, disclose.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
That sure, but I do agree with you.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Why not ask the question? Right? Have you ever been married?
You have kids? What's up? Crystal High?
Speaker 4 (06:43):
So this lady sounds really kind of preppy. I mean,
on the first date, she expects him to tell her everything.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Sometimes people like to keep their privacy, you know, with
their children protected and don't want to talk about.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Their children right away. He doesn't even know if he
likes this woman or not, But like he said, there's
a picture of his daughter on the wall. Sounds like she.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Doesn't like that He has a daughter.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Oh I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Well, that's really crappy.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I mean, I get that's.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Important to tell people you have children, but like he
doesn't even know if he wants to date this person.
For real, it's the first day.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Come on.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Thanks for the call, Christal, appreciate it. What's up, Jay?
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I I can see why Don's single. First guy, she
already snooping through stuff and she assumed she needs to
stay single.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Thanks for the call, Jay, appreciate it. What's up? Natalie Hye,
good morning. I think that Don is looking for a problem.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I think that she just like, why are you snooping?
First of all, that's so weird.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
And two just explanation was very calm.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
It didn't feel like I have a daughter like sometimes
we hear people do on here. It was very like
straight to the point, Yeah, I have a teenage daughter.
You could have asked me about it. And also like,
I feel like on the first date, there are like
if the worlds were reversed and it was a woman
that had a child and like maybe didn't want to
disclose that on the first date, this would.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Not even the same true, there's definitely a standard there.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, hold like Larissa doesn't believe Jeff. It sounds like
with her line of questioning, go ahead, question Jeff, Larissa.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Hey, I was wondering how old is this daughter?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
And when I was a teenager, I didn't use tampons.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I would definitely fifteen. Every else she's totally very normal. Well,
he just said that his daughter is fifteen, Larissa, I.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Think I was the lazy pad that I was.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Fifteen in swim your experience, yea is not so you're
still a child.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
How old are you, Larisa?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I'm twenty three?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Okay, So are you.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Doubting over to a guy's house?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I'm definitely snooping too.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
So she has like, like, what does she needed a tampon?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
She needed a for one?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I don't know. Well, then guess what. Luckily she's dating
the right guy because he's got tampons there for him that.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Actually I know that I would to help you anyway.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
So wait, can I tell you I have I have
a a guy, single guy, not in a relationship at all,
and he actually has everything that you would need as
a woman to go to his house. Do you like that? Okay?
Speaker 5 (09:39):
So that was This reminds me so much when I
first started dating West because he he had a daughter
who was she was a tween at the time. But
he also the very first time I spent the night,
like made a like a care package, yes, with like
a razor and a toothbrush and tampon and juice. At first,
I was like, did you collect all this stuff from
(09:59):
like an X and have it? And he was like, no,
this is just so my mom. This is how my
mom raised me. Accommodating.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
I said to a buddy of mine who did exactly that,
I said to me, it would look like you are
bringing a lot of women into your place. And I
said that to him, Yeah, all right, second date up there.
This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty
throw back fro down, a second date update and more
of the roses. This is Mojo in the Morning.
It's the second date up daate Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 2 (00:04):
Why are you not getting a call back? We're going
to find out. Jeff is on with us right now. Hi, jav, Hey,
what's going on? What's happening in Jeff? So, Jeff, why
are you not getting a call back? Is what we're
going to try to figure out. Where did you guys.
Speaker 3 (00:17):
Meet the best place ever online? On Facebook? Oh?
Speaker 2 (00:23):
Okay, Facebook dating? And what did you guys do for
your first date?
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Just simple just went out to dinner, had a nice conversation,
and he did end up going back to my place.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
Oh okay, see what happened there? No? She yeah, who
did you? Did you guys do anything at your place
other than just hang out?
Speaker 3 (00:46):
Or yeah, she stayed over if we want to put
it that way.
Speaker 2 (00:50):
Okay, so she spent the night, you guys ended up
baking cookies.
Speaker 3 (00:56):
I've never heard of call that, but you sure?
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (00:59):
We hooked up.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Okay, all right, We're going to find out exactly what's
going on. Jeff has not heard from her since then,
and Don is on with us right now. Jeff, will
you say hi to down? Hey?
Speaker 3 (01:11):
Done a long time? No cough?
Speaker 1 (01:14):
Hi, Don?
Speaker 2 (01:16):
What's going on. How are you? I am good?
Speaker 4 (01:20):
How about you guys?
Speaker 2 (01:21):
We are doing fantastic. Don Jeff contacted us to do
second date update. That's what we call this saying, and
it's for the purpose of trying to figure out if
there is a possibility for a second date, if the
two of you guys could get together for a second date.
Speaker 4 (01:37):
Is there a possibility he called you all to ask
me for a second date?
Speaker 2 (01:42):
Well, he sent in a text for second date update.
You can text date to nine five five zero zero.
Did you just say no?
Speaker 3 (01:48):
No?
Speaker 2 (01:49):
No? Why?
Speaker 4 (01:50):
Yeah?
Speaker 2 (01:51):
No?
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Why?
Speaker 4 (01:53):
Well? We you know, God, this is I can't believe this.
So we went out and we went back to his place,
and you know, things happened, and I went to the
bathroom and he's got a bunch of women's stuff under
a sync Okay.
Speaker 2 (02:16):
Like what like toilet treees, tampon stuff like.
Speaker 4 (02:18):
That, mayor yeah, like tampon, makeup make up, okay, make
a remover, makeup remover like like stuff that would be
for a woman. So obviously he's already got somebody, So
why would I go out with him again?
Speaker 2 (02:34):
Jeff? Why do you have do you have a roommate
or something? Or why do you have women's stuff.
Speaker 3 (02:41):
Well, appreciate your snooping in the bathroom, And those are
for my teenage daughter who I have custody. You have
to split custy with my ex wife with, so they're
not my They're not for all of the women I have,
you know, coming from my life. That is my teenage
daughter's stuff.
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Done. Yeah, don Why did you not just ask him
that when you came back or.
Speaker 5 (03:07):
Like realize that, because I'm sure you taught you knew
he had a daughter.
Speaker 2 (03:10):
Did you know he had a daughter?
Speaker 1 (03:12):
No?
Speaker 4 (03:12):
He never once said a word about having a daughter,
much less having custody of a quote unquote daughter. I mean, please.
Speaker 5 (03:21):
Wait, that is a very normal explanation for why that
stuff was under there. And why are you are you
thinking he's lying about having a child.
Speaker 4 (03:33):
He literally never brought it up. You mean you have custody. Okay,
you have custody of a child. And I go back
to your place and you're not going to mention that
there's a teenage daughter that's living there. I mean, that's weird.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
Well, he said they joined custody, so I'm sure that
she was probably at her mom's house. You don't believe
his story you're telling us you think that he's lying
to you right now, but also lying to all of us.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
I mean, why would he not tell me he had
a teenage daughter until I until I see all of this?
Speaker 2 (04:05):
Jeff, why did you not tell her that you have
a teenage daughter?
Speaker 3 (04:08):
Well, it never really came up. But also I'm laughing
because there's a photo of my daughter and myself, like
I framed on my wall in the living room. So
I mean, yeah, I didn't point it out, but if
you're snooping underneath the sink, you could have snooped on
the wall and he could have said, who was this
my daughter? I didn't know that I had to lead
with the family history.
Speaker 2 (04:29):
I I you know, I think that this is just
a misunderstanding. But don you seem like you're a little attacking,
which makes me think also that you just didn't enjoy yourself.
Did you not enjoy your date?
Speaker 4 (04:43):
I mean it was okay. But also if I'm going
to go out with someone and he's gonna think that
just telling me he has a daughter is going through
his like family history. I wasn't asking about like his
great grandfather or anything. I mean, you might want to
tell me about current events in your life. So if
he's gonna wishole something like that, what else is he
going to withhold for me?
Speaker 2 (05:03):
So I just I gotta be honest with you.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
I you're getting married to having kid by history, so
I'm a great great grandfather.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
But I also you seem she seems very, uh, I
don't know, antagonistic about it. And yeah, Megan, what did
you want to say about this? Hi? Megan, Hi, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 4 (05:25):
So I have a few questions.
Speaker 5 (05:26):
I don't understand why.
Speaker 4 (05:27):
Were you going through his cabinets anyways?
Speaker 2 (05:31):
Yeah, down, Meghan wants to know why you were going
through his stuff?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Okay, okay, because I'm in that group. Are we dating
the same guy? And there's so many women that have
gone through a man's bathroom and found women's things and
realized that they were not the only one. So I thought,
let me make sure that there's no women's stuff in here.
And guess what there was women's stuff. So I was like, well,
I'm probably one of many.
Speaker 5 (05:56):
Then I think that got in your head and you
have made up a story before or even went in there.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
Stay off the group, chat, live your life. Hey, what's
going on? Amanda?
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Hey?
Speaker 4 (06:06):
How are you guys good?
Speaker 2 (06:08):
What's going on? What do you want to say to
these guys?
Speaker 3 (06:10):
I truly believe him because he answered very quickly.
Speaker 4 (06:13):
I do believe he has a daughter, But I also do.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Find it kind of odd that it wasn't brought up.
I do think it's a big deal because some people,
you know, don't even want to date people with kids,
So I do think that should.
Speaker 4 (06:23):
Have already been brought up.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
I agree with you there.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
I've always said that would be like the number one
thing that I lead with. But over the years that
I've said that, I also understand that people want to
get to know somebody before they you know, disclose.
Speaker 4 (06:34):
That sure, but I do agree with you.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Why not ask the question? Right? Have you ever been married?
You have kids? What's up? Crystal High?
Speaker 4 (06:43):
So this lady sounds really kind of preppy. I mean,
on the first date, she expects him to tell her everything.
Speaker 5 (06:50):
Sometimes people like to keep their privacy, you know, with
their children protected and don't want to talk about.
Speaker 4 (06:57):
Their children right away. He doesn't even know if he
likes this woman or not, But like he said, there's
a picture of his daughter on the wall. Sounds like she.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
Doesn't like that He has a daughter.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
Oh I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:08):
Well, that's really crappy.
Speaker 2 (07:11):
I mean, I get that's.
Speaker 4 (07:12):
Important to tell people you have children, but like he
doesn't even know if he wants to date this person.
For real, it's the first day.
Speaker 1 (07:18):
Come on.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
Thanks for the call, Christal, appreciate it. What's up, Jay?
Speaker 1 (07:22):
I I can see why Don's single. First guy, she
already snooping through stuff and she assumed she needs to
stay single.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Thanks for the call, Jay, appreciate it. What's up? Natalie Hye,
good morning. I think that Don is looking for a problem.
Speaker 4 (07:46):
I think that she just like, why are you snooping?
First of all, that's so weird.
Speaker 2 (07:52):
And two just explanation was very calm.
Speaker 4 (07:55):
It didn't feel like I have a daughter like sometimes
we hear people do on here. It was very like
straight to the point, Yeah, I have a teenage daughter.
You could have asked me about it. And also like,
I feel like on the first date, there are like
if the worlds were reversed and it was a woman
that had a child and like maybe didn't want to
disclose that on the first date, this would.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
Not even the same true, there's definitely a standard there.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Yeah, hold like Larissa doesn't believe Jeff. It sounds like
with her line of questioning, go ahead, question Jeff, Larissa.
Speaker 1 (08:33):
Hey, I was wondering how old is this daughter?
Speaker 3 (08:38):
And when I was a teenager, I didn't use tampons.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
I would definitely fifteen. Every else she's totally very normal. Well,
he just said that his daughter is fifteen, Larissa, I.
Speaker 1 (08:56):
Think I was the lazy pad that I was.
Speaker 3 (08:58):
Fifteen in swim your experience, yea is not so you're
still a child.
Speaker 2 (09:04):
How old are you, Larisa?
Speaker 1 (09:07):
I'm twenty three?
Speaker 2 (09:08):
Okay, So are you.
Speaker 5 (09:10):
Doubting over to a guy's house?
Speaker 4 (09:12):
I'm definitely snooping too.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
So she has like, like, what does she needed a tampon?
Speaker 5 (09:17):
She needed a for one?
Speaker 2 (09:18):
I don't know. Well, then guess what. Luckily she's dating
the right guy because he's got tampons there for him that.
Speaker 3 (09:24):
Actually I know that I would to help you anyway.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
So wait, can I tell you I have I have
a a guy, single guy, not in a relationship at all,
and he actually has everything that you would need as
a woman to go to his house. Do you like that? Okay?
Speaker 5 (09:39):
So that was This reminds me so much when I
first started dating West because he he had a daughter
who was she was a tween at the time. But
he also the very first time I spent the night,
like made a like a care package, yes, with like
a razor and a toothbrush and tampon and juice. At first,
I was like, did you collect all this stuff from
(09:59):
like an X and have it? And he was like, no,
this is just so my mom. This is how my
mom raised me. Accommodating.
Speaker 2 (10:06):
I said to a buddy of mine who did exactly that,
I said to me, it would look like you are
bringing a lot of women into your place. And I
said that to him, Yeah, all right, second date up there.
This is the home of the Dirty on the thirty
throw back fro down, a second date update and more
of the roses. This is Mojo in the Morning.
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