Should They Have Another Baby?

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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Mojo in the morning show, Kevin's gonna bring something up
on the air right now that I feel responsible for.
And I think that when it happens and it comes
to truth, I think we are all going to be
happier people. But what's going on, Kevin.

Speaker 2 (00:13):
The come to truth part? I'm not fully on your
side with that. And I knew your nipples were gonna
get hard the moment I brought this up.

Speaker 1 (00:21):
I knew you always though.

Speaker 3 (00:24):
It's very strange phenomenon, I knew you were.

Speaker 2 (00:26):
Going to get excited the hairs on your back with
Stan but a couple of days ago, and I feel
like we've kind of like sprinkled this throughout the show
for like the past year. Ever since I announced that.
Last Christmas, I went over to Jasmine's house, that's Josiah's mom.
When I went over to their house and we spent

(00:47):
Christmas together. I feel like Mojo has always been like, oh,
what would it be like if you guys got together?

Speaker 1 (00:53):
And throughout the.

Speaker 2 (00:53):
Months, he's always a little sprinkle little things here. And
it came to a head earlier in this week where
we had a conversation around would I have another child
with Jasmine? To give Josiah a biological sibling, and I'm
so against it, so against it. So I had a
conversation with Jasmine about this, like yesterday, and she's not

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opposed to the idea.

Speaker 3 (01:18):
Really telling you, how did this conversation go.

Speaker 2 (01:22):
I just asked her and in full transparency, like she's
kind of said that before a little bit, like, I
want another baby, but I wouldn't have another baby unless
it was with you, or if I were to have
another baby, it would be with you, because she wants
like she wants her children to be birthed by the
same father. But I'm not any just to have a

(01:42):
baby for the sake of having a baby. Yeah, Like,
that's not why you haven't.

Speaker 4 (01:46):
I could see how that could become confusing for Josiah
if y'all weren't actually together really like, oh, mom and
dad are having a baby together. Ooh, maybe they're going
to get back together. But then if that's not happening.

Speaker 1 (02:00):
Well, what if you were opening with him and said, hey,
we just want to give you a sibling and we
do care about each other and leave the rest, you know,
to everything.

Speaker 2 (02:10):
Uh, you can say that, but the mind of a
child will conclude whatever it wants to do, and sometimes
hope can be more powerful than truth, you know. But
I honestly think Josiah is beyond that point. All right,
I think he's beyond the guys. Well, let's let's ask
the listeners this.

Speaker 1 (02:28):
Has anybody ever had this happen or known of this
happening where you guys were not together, So you were
not a couple, but you had a child with you know, somebody,
and you guys decided, you know, that you wanted to
have another one together because you wanted your kids to
have biological, you know, compatibility. I guess I don't know genetics,
but I think I think you guys make a beautiful child.

(02:51):
You make a very smart young man in Josiah, And
I think you're getting up there in age. What does
that mean? I'm not pushing out? Does you? If you don't,
swimmers are at a Michael Phelps level. Hold on a second,
how do we know this? Would you like to find out? Hello? Hello,
who is on the phone with us right now? Hello?

(03:14):
Who is this? Hello?

Speaker 5 (03:17):
Oh?

Speaker 6 (03:18):
With that mic cue, I'm sorry, this is Jazzmine?

Speaker 1 (03:24):
Jasmine?

Speaker 3 (03:26):
Were you being serious with your answer?

Speaker 1 (03:29):
Yeah?

Speaker 6 (03:30):
Real, Yeah, I told Kevin that before this topic even
came up. I was kind of joking with him to
like see how he would feel about it. But yeah,
I feel like the dating pool has a little p
in it.

Speaker 7 (03:41):
And if I were to have.

Speaker 4 (03:41):
Another kid, you know, Kevin, would you want to do
it the old fashioned way or would you get you.

Speaker 1 (03:48):
Know, turkey based officially inmated.

Speaker 6 (03:54):
That's a great question. I haven't thought that far.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
Listen, if I'm giving anybody a baby, you better believe
I'm doing it.

Speaker 8 (04:01):
I ain't.

Speaker 2 (04:01):
No way, I'm about to have a magazine as DVDs.

Speaker 1 (04:04):
I'm getting Yeah, off the top road. Wait, is Josidh
in the car well before we start talking like this?

Speaker 6 (04:15):
No, he's thatchool. But he told them, he told me
that we should have hang it up because he's already
old enough and he doesn't want a baby sibling. He
told us to adapt so like tow it could be
around his age.

Speaker 1 (04:27):
Oh wow, for real?

Speaker 4 (04:28):
Is so smart?

Speaker 3 (04:29):
Yeah wow?

Speaker 9 (04:30):
That actually he is an interesting That's like an interesting
point that he makes though, because he's twelve thirteen got
to be thirteen.

Speaker 3 (04:37):
You know that? I mean definitely?

Speaker 4 (04:40):
No.

Speaker 1 (04:40):
Yeah, you see a lot of the You see a
lot of families where they they'll spread them out a
little bit, even with each other looking. And Luke and
in Joey are ten twelve. Lucy's eleven and a half
and she just got a baby.

Speaker 3 (04:53):
Sister, babysitter. Yeah, yeah, but I mean yeah, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (04:57):
Can I tell you, Jasmine? First off, you're an amazing mother.
I just want you to know that you are. You're
I know Kevin's a great dad, but there's no way
Josiah is who he is without a great mom. I
truly believe the moms make the difference, and you do
such an incredible job. But also the other thing too,
is you guys both push aside the crap or could

(05:19):
be crap to make sure that Josiah is your priority.
You guys are both amazing people. With that said, yeah,
thank you. You make a beautiful, beautiful baby. And Kevin
is a beautiful guy. You're a beautiful lady. Here you go.
And I always have this fear, you know, I see
these stories all the time, and I know a bunch
of only children. Jeff Dollar, if he's listening right.

Speaker 3 (05:41):
Now, Jeff, explain so much.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
I didn't know You're insane. Jeff is an only child.
His parents can only have one kid unfortunately, And and
Jeff got into some medical stuff, you know, and I
thought to myself, oh my god, if you had a sibling,
you know. But the other thing, too, is it's not
even so much medical. It's I always wonder like what happened,
you know, when things get older. I have my six
of us in our family to turn to for any

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kind of thing. Josiah obviously has, you know, family, but
he's got no brother or sister to sit there and
bounce things off of. That's life. Not everybody has a sibling, Jasmine.
I know that Kev's got a sister. Do you have siblings?

Speaker 6 (06:23):
Yeah, just five of us all together.

Speaker 1 (06:25):
See, And it's nice to be from a big family,
isn't it. I mean for sure.

Speaker 2 (06:33):
Like the original idea when I mapped out my life
as a child was to have two children, an older
boy and a daughter. And then as I got later
in life, I was like, I want to have twins.
I still think to this day, when I find the
right person, I'm gonna shoot out twins and that'll be amazing.
But I'm not gonna do it just with the intention
of Josiah needs someone. That's why I'm gonna do it.
I think that's the wrong reason for me. I think

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that's the wrong reason to bring a child into the world.
Hold on, Tammy, Tammy, you did this with your kid's.

Speaker 8 (06:59):
Father, Yes, I did first time one time by the way.

Speaker 5 (07:07):
Yeah, when my kids are thirty seven and thirty five now.

Speaker 6 (07:10):
But we decided that we wanted to have the kids
have the same.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Father, same mother. We were dated for years but never married,
and uh yeah that we were separated.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
At the time.

Speaker 6 (07:24):
And when my son was two, I looked at him
and said, I'm not waiting any longer.

Speaker 4 (07:28):
I need to have him as siblings.

Speaker 6 (07:30):
So, yeah, we had my daughter.

Speaker 1 (07:31):
What was that that moment, like, what was that bed moment?
Like for you guys, it was a little awkward.

Speaker 6 (07:42):
Yeah, yeah, because because it was like, uh, we we
were in a good spot at that time, but I
was like, if we're going to do this, we're going
to do it now and get it over with and
then we never have to see each other.

Speaker 1 (07:53):
Guys. Was it a one and done or did you
guys have to try and done?

Speaker 2 (07:58):
Wow?

Speaker 10 (07:58):
My parents are told me he could look at me
sideways and get me prognesstow.

Speaker 9 (08:03):
Maybe I love it for you and Jasmine Kez because
you guys are in a great place with your relationship.
You hang out from time to time anyway, Like it
wouldn't be like that caller yeah situation.

Speaker 2 (08:17):
But the twelve year gap, like Josiah, like to Jazzmine point,
he's communicating, he doesn't what is he gonna do?

Speaker 9 (08:23):
He doesn't want that and do you need to take
his feelings into consideration too?

Speaker 1 (08:26):
Connie did this with her ex husband and how much
of a gap was there between kids?

Speaker 10 (08:33):
Well, I have a twenty one year old and a
nine year old should be nine Saturday.

Speaker 2 (08:36):
Wow, So what made you guys decide to go back
and do this.

Speaker 10 (08:40):
We're trying to make it work for the sake of
my first daughter when she was you know, eleven twelve,
and I ended up getting pregnant surprise. And but then
when I got pregnant, yeah, I remembered why I divorced you.

Speaker 1 (08:51):
So we just moved off. Do you regret having two
kids with him and having the second child?

Speaker 10 (08:56):
No, I rather just have one baby, Daddy, that's enough.
So I'm glad they're just from the same father and
that's say it works.

Speaker 1 (09:02):
Yep, Yeah, that's that's cool. I like it, so cav
should do it right, Yes, go ahead to do it?

Speaker 2 (09:08):
Out of control, Caitlyn, what did you want to say?

Speaker 1 (09:11):
Kaitlyn? Are there? Hey Kaitlyn? Hello, hey Kaitlyn. What's going on?

Speaker 6 (09:22):
Can you hear me here?

Speaker 1 (09:23):
We go go ahead?

Speaker 7 (09:25):
Oh sorry. My siblings were twenty one and thirteen when
I was born. My oldest my brother has a different dad.
But my mom actually went to get her tubes tied
at thirty nine years old, and before they took her back,
they had the blood test done. And I am now
thirty two.

Speaker 3 (09:42):
Wow, my goodness.

Speaker 1 (09:46):
Yeah, and there's nothing weird about the age differences, right,
there's not. Everything's good.

Speaker 7 (09:52):
When we were younger, it was kind of weird, like
all my cousins are a lot older than me, but
it is kind of cool. Now that we're older, I
have a relationship and it's like almost having a second
set of parents, Like they've been through it already, so
I get some good details.

Speaker 1 (10:07):
And if anything ever happens to your parents, you know
you have somebody. Poor Josiah be an orphan. Yeah, Heather,
what's going on?

Speaker 5 (10:17):
Heather and Jasmin just need to give it a shot.

Speaker 10 (10:21):
I can hear the chemistry.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
That's my dog.

Speaker 2 (10:25):
I mean, we get along. We did have Josiah, so
you know there's chemistry there. Jasmine, if she is listening,
I didn't hang up on you. I think you might
have disconnected with us. I was going to ask you
some more questions. Maybe that's the reason why she Disconectolte.
I heard Heather. Can you hear the chemistry between the
two of them. There's there's more.

Speaker 1 (10:43):
I feel like there's more chemistry with those guys than
there is with some people that are married couples.

Speaker 3 (10:49):
Yeah, twelve years ago is the wrong time, but it
sounds like now it's the right time time.

Speaker 1 (10:53):
Heels. They were kids when they had Josiah. You know
now they're grown ass adults. Could you imagine with that moment,
will be like, here you go, we could have another
baby shower, baby reveal. We could do all kinds of
stuff with the radio show. Here, I could get you
an endorsement deal with baby born.

Speaker 3 (11:11):
I don't impress you know that.

Speaker 1 (11:14):
I don't know great COO isn't in another company, and
I know they're all these kids companies. Yeah, I'm looking
at these calls here, look at all these people. How
many people have done it. This is amazing. I had
a child with my now hold on, Tifany, there, Tiffany,
Oh yeah, I'm here, Hey, Tifany.

Speaker 5 (11:30):
Don't you think I'm gonna say, oh, sorry, go ahead.

Speaker 1 (11:33):
I was gonna say, don't you think these guys should
do it?

Speaker 5 (11:34):
Tell?

Speaker 1 (11:35):
Tell these guys something positive about this.

Speaker 5 (11:37):
So keV, I was honestly in the same situation as you,
me and my now husband, but we weren't together. We
had a child together, and he kept asking for a
brother or sister. I said, absolutely not, like me and
your father are not together. I don't want kids by
more than one person. And lo and behold, we were
apart for over a year and we were just getting along,

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and lo and behold, Now I have a four year
old daughter.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Oh man, everything's beautiful.

Speaker 5 (12:03):
Right, Yeah, it's totally worth it. But you have to
be in a really good place.

Speaker 10 (12:08):
I mean, I get what Kevin's.

Speaker 5 (12:09):
Talking about, and I get why his son might want
a kid, but you know, you have to want to
do it for the right reasons. You want to have
the same last name.

Speaker 1 (12:18):
Right, Thank you, Alyssa. What's up? Hi?

Speaker 5 (12:24):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (12:25):
What's going on? ALYSSI? You got to start next to
your name it says that this is a good call.

Speaker 8 (12:30):
I am a thirty one year old that has a
family of ten with four baby mamas and eight kids.

Speaker 9 (12:45):
Oh my gosh, I can't even flow, repeat, repeat, Let
me say that again.

Speaker 10 (12:52):
I have we have eight kids.

Speaker 1 (12:55):
Who's we well?

Speaker 8 (12:57):
Between me and my husband, we have eight kids.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
And for baby mama, so there's a lot and and
do you a lot of puzzle pieces?

Speaker 1 (13:07):
Do you think the idea of having the same baby
mama and the same baby daddy actually is appealing? More
appealing than that?

Speaker 8 (13:17):
Honestly, it doesn't really bother me because one way or another,
we all get along.

Speaker 1 (13:23):
That's good.

Speaker 2 (13:24):
We need to get them a fifty dollars Croker gift card.

Speaker 1 (13:33):
Everybody else. That's amazing listening to all those kids there,
My goodness, have you guys, has anybody thought of of
wearing protection? Has anybody ever thought about that?

Speaker 10 (13:43):
Of course?

Speaker 1 (13:45):
But it's not fun, it doesn't always work. I love it.
I don't came through it. Hold on a second, Jasmine's
back on with us? Jasmine? Why what's going on in Jasmine?
Didn't you learn? Jasmine? I'm rooting for you, guys, I

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really am. I'm even if it's just honestly, one night together.
You know, my gosh, maybe uh you know, maybe this
time next year we're celebrating with the baby.

Speaker 6 (14:18):
You just have to be the godfather?

Speaker 1 (14:20):
Can you agree? I'm done? Seriously we love that so uh.
I love my buddy Josiah, I really do. And I
and I think that you know, it would be.

Speaker 2 (14:33):
Nice if you don't take Josiah away for Thanksgiving then
we can talk about it.

Speaker 9 (14:38):
Oh, Kevin's gonna try.

Speaker 6 (14:43):
Okay, we can do Thanksgiving at the station.

Speaker 1 (14:49):
Hey, real quick, Maybe you guys all make it a
nice little family home for Thanksgiving and you go maybe
to Atlanta too. No, I'm coming. I'm staying here. I'm
going to draw our house. We're about to have a banger.
Is Jasmine invited? Can she come to stay for sure? Jazz?
There you go? What do you think?

Speaker 2 (15:08):
I'm done?

Speaker 3 (15:10):
Guys, Jasmine, don't play, I'm all right, don't play.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
I am telling you there is something. There is a
wild chemistry between the two of you, guys that I
don't see in a lot of couples that aren't together
like and I think that it's I call it the
Josiah factor. There's something about Josiah. That just makes you
happy when you're around him. Joe. So Joe all right,

(15:38):
We love you, Jasmine. We'll talk to you later.

Speaker 10 (15:40):
I love you too.

Speaker 8 (15:41):
By