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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Mojos.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I don't think my god, let me take that back
to the beginning.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Is alrighty ready you're listening to Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
You're a dude, you hack. We shot time. Here we go.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Welcome to the Mojo, the Mojo in the Morning Show.
This is the mojo Mojo in the Morning show. We
have got your mojo Mojo in the Morning show Fridays
on Mojo Mojo in the Morning Show. This is the
Mojo Mojo.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
In the Morning show.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Freemix on Mojo Mojo in the Morning Show. Kev's got
the remix Mojo.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
In the Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
It is Friday mojo Jo Morning.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So this is a moat joke the morning.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So this is the moat joke morning. So this is
the mot j Monzie mo Joe in the Morning. I
want to bring something up here right now. So I
went out and partied over the weekend, got a little
(02:17):
bit drunk, and I want to ask this question and
see if you guys have an answer for me. Can
you explain to me why some straight people turn gay
when they drink. I got hit on by a married
guy this weekend and I think it was like full
on hit on, like I was like one of those
(02:37):
things where I felt like the guy was the guy
was really enjoying me. I don't know what the story was,
but it only seems to happen to me that I
get hit on by straight guys or guys that I
thought thought that were straight, the married guys, and it's
usually when they're drunk. And somebody needs to explain this
to me because I know that there are a lot
(02:58):
of women that this happens too, where women become by
when they have a lot of cocktails, and I want
to know what is it about that happening and I
and maybe I maybe I'm lending myself to this because
maybe I become more feminine or something when I'm when
I'm drinking. I don't know what it is like even
(03:21):
holding my hand. I'm like, what is going on here
right now? But I get when I get drunk or
where I'm out, I have guys that will hit on me.
And explain this to me.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
It's literally just a drinking thing. You don't think that
they're like on the d L type of guys.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I don't know. I have no idea. Are you listening.
I'm flattered by it. I actually am very flattered. It's
nice to have somebody actually pay attention to you.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Give me an example, because are they acting the same?
And then you're just drunk. So you're beginning.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Beginning of the night, we're not drinking, okay, or we're
not drunk, we're just drinking. We're all hanging out. Everything's cool,
we're high five in each other. And in the night,
I'm getting hugged and groped and stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
And I had a guy friend who was like this,
I don't want to say his name. I have a
guy friend.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He's us and tell me if he does this. When
he does this at the beginning of the night, everything
is good. At the end of the night, he's copying
my private parts. I mean, I'm just kidding. Now, does
he do that at all?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
He really.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
The way he talked changed, the way he interact other
guys changed. He would talk to you about like dreams
that he's had about other guys.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And I'm like, I am, I don't know if this
is the alcohol spirits. Maybe this is.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
You and you're just too afraid when you're sober to
be the guy, the man that you are that you
are period.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Wow, Well, I don't know. I'm gay now. Wow. I
don't know what what it is, but it has happened
to me a couple of times over the course of
the last few months where I'll go out, we'll drink,
we'll have fun, and then at the end of the
I got guys wrapping their arms around me. You know
what I mean.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I will say I feel like a girls, or maybe
I'm just speaking for myself, but I feel like a
girls who like tend to get a little touchy, touchy
or feelure if they drink a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
It's just me, you know that. I have never I
get very husky.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
No, I don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I get very okay. Girls like to kiss. Maybe no,
girls make out. They make out when they're I feel like.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Girls are more.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
No, we're lucky, we're touching, more like we appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And I also think some of it is I'll protect
you from these creepy dudes at this bar by hanging
all over you so they can't What about the creepyes
that are hitting on their friends.
Speaker 7 (05:39):
You don't have to worry.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
About them at that point, just the same person that's
doing this to you or No, it's different, it's totally different.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I had one guy one time. We're sitting at We're
literally sitting at a bar. This is no joke. We're
at a bar. We're sitting there, and every five seconds
he kept grabbing my leg like he would talk to
me and he would go, yeah, you know what I'm
talking about, and he would grab my legs. At first,
at first, when he's like grabbing my hed grab like
right above my knee caup. And after he grabbed me
right about my knee cap. The first time, I was
(06:06):
a little startled. I was like, oh, okay, well that
kind of feels okay then and then I stopped and
next thing, I know, the hands lingering there like it's
not slapping me anymore, it's now holding on. And it
made me feel weary this weekend. This weekend, it was hugging.
It was like hugging and cuddling. And I have been
told that I would be a great, you know, gay
(06:30):
person's beer bear. A bear is like that, the big,
the fat guy in the relationship, the big hairy guy.
I'm the bear.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Cubs that are guys that are just a little overwait yeah, yeah,
a little bit younger, a little bit less.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Harry keV you could be a bear. I'm gonna let
you be, do you eight four four Mojo Live? Eight
four four six sixty five six five four eight is
our telephone number. Hi, Jessic, How are you?
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Good? How are you good?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I explained this to me. Why is it that when
guys drink, even girls, when they drink, all of a sudden,
they they go from being heterosexual to bisexual?
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Mojo? My mom always raised me to know that a
drunk mind reveals a sober heart. I believe that people
who kind of lean towards that already, it just comes
out when they're drunk. I had an ex who was
I thought completely straight, but when he would get drunk,
he would start talking about how hot certain guys were,
(07:34):
and he insisted, you know that he was straight, but
I don't know. He started talking about dudes more often
when he was drinking.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
And I think, in the closet, Yeah that so maybe?
So do you think it brings them out of the
closet when they're drinking with the guy. Just come out
of the closet, please, I think so.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
I feel like, I mean, I'm one straight. If I drink,
I will not exhibit any type of gay behavior. But
if some people are, they might you know, that's just
the way I feel about it.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Hold on a second. This text is great one seven,
three or four goes it's not gay, it's homi sexual.
I like that. This other text is a great one too.
If three to one three says Kev's not a bear,
he's a cub.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Do you think these guys would take you there if
you allowed it to go further?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Are you comfortable playing the role? I honestly could be
quite honest with you. I wasn't attracted to them. If
I was attracted to him, I don't know. Like if
it's Tom, if it's Tom Brady, you know, maybe I
take my clothes off of him. I don't know. I'll
commit it to this bit. I'm not, but but it does.
(08:50):
It does. Find I find it interesting. Women do this
a lot, And I don't know, Jessica, are you this
way when you're out with your girlfriends or maybe you
have girlfriends? Are like this? Girls kiss other girls when
they're drinking, and they won't do it if they're sober,
Like you don't see a girl start, Oh, that's a lot.
Next thing, you know, they're making out when at the
beginning of the night, it's at the end of the
(09:11):
night that happens, right.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Yeah, I've seen it happen. My friends are like that.
But I can't. I just can't do it. I can't
bring myself to do it. And I have nothing against it,
but it is not my thing, and so like, I'm
not like that. So I one know that it has
to be you have to have some sort of open
mindedness to it that I just don't have.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah, I think what ends up happening is what you're
talking about. You can't bring yourself to it. I think
that there's there's no attraction there, so you don't find
yourself wanting to do it. But I do think that
the other thing is if you're so drunk, you're wondering
what did you do at the end of the night,
you know what I mean, Like your inhibitions, your sexual
(09:54):
inhibitions definitely come into play, Like when you're drinking, like
no offense what you're saying, No offense to women who
are maybe not incredibly gorgeous. But sometimes I actually find
everybody in the bar beautiful. Drunk goggles are real thing.
I mean, I like, I see I see girls that
are at the bar that at the beginning of the
night had no interest at all in at the end
(10:16):
of the night. But you know, I'm I'm you know,
let's go like hey whatever, you know, one of those
type of things.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
So all right, well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
You ever had a sex in the bathroom and the club?
Have you really have a restaurant? Restaurants? You've done this? keV.
I've had some times in my life like where are
we talking? What kind of places? What kind of bar?
Cosmos on wood piza? It was good? Wait a second,
(10:48):
isn't Como's also a gay hang too? I mean yes
and no.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
But they also pizza for even if you're straight, you're
allowed to go down.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
That's a gay place for the pizza chill out.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Textures by the way, that are texting in all these people,
all these people don't want to pick up our phone
calls because they say that they're too embarrassed that their
friends will hear them. Right now, it cannot be real?
Speaker 4 (11:25):
No, I wait, which one?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
All right? Is it is? Three? One? Three?
Speaker 6 (11:36):
You can't read that, can you?
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Thirty five years of his life?
Speaker 6 (11:41):
You can you can.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I've not acted on it, but I have a major craving,
but I'm scared to act on it sometimes because I
don't know how it would actually feel. Okay, go live
your life, man. But it's only when he drinks though,
That's the thing. It's only when he drinks that comes
from somewhere.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Like I feel like if you if you're if you're
doing that, you have an emotion that's lying dormat and
the alcohol is just unlocking what's already inside of me.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
It's not like it's just coming from out of nowhere.
Somebody just texted in.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
Sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it summer,
and I really do believe that it is a spectrum,
as you're not you know, it's it's yeah, you know
what it's not. It's not clear cut like I am
this or I am this, like yes you are, But
I do I do believe that that sexuality is a spectrum.
Like the girl who's like I am one hundred percent straight.
(12:33):
I mean, I would say that same thing, but I've
always found I've also found girls attractive before, so technically
I'm not one hundred percent straight, do you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
It's like, I don't know, but does that not make
you straight because you find them attractive. Are you going
to act upon that attraction? Right? Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It's a spectrum. We got to go because Kevin and
I are going to comos. We'll be right back. Do
the best piecea
Mojos.
Speaker 2 (00:11):
I don't think my god, let me take that back
to the beginning.
Speaker 3 (00:14):
Is alrighty ready you're listening to Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 2 (00:19):
You're a dude, you hack. We shot time. Here we go.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
Welcome to the Mojo, the Mojo in the Morning Show.
This is the mojo Mojo in the Morning show. We
have got your mojo Mojo in the Morning show Fridays
on Mojo Mojo in the Morning Show. This is the
Mojo Mojo.
Speaker 2 (01:37):
In the Morning show.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
Freemix on Mojo Mojo in the Morning Show. Kev's got
the remix Mojo.
Speaker 2 (01:44):
In the Morning Show.
Speaker 3 (01:46):
It is Friday mojo Jo Morning.
Speaker 4 (01:52):
So this is a moat joke the morning.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So this is the moat joke morning. So this is
the mot j Monzie mo Joe in the Morning. I
want to bring something up here right now. So I
went out and partied over the weekend, got a little
(02:17):
bit drunk, and I want to ask this question and
see if you guys have an answer for me. Can
you explain to me why some straight people turn gay
when they drink. I got hit on by a married
guy this weekend and I think it was like full
on hit on, like I was like one of those
(02:37):
things where I felt like the guy was the guy
was really enjoying me. I don't know what the story was,
but it only seems to happen to me that I
get hit on by straight guys or guys that I
thought thought that were straight, the married guys, and it's
usually when they're drunk. And somebody needs to explain this
to me because I know that there are a lot
(02:58):
of women that this happens too, where women become by
when they have a lot of cocktails, and I want
to know what is it about that happening and I
and maybe I maybe I'm lending myself to this because
maybe I become more feminine or something when I'm when
I'm drinking. I don't know what it is like even
(03:21):
holding my hand. I'm like, what is going on here
right now? But I get when I get drunk or
where I'm out, I have guys that will hit on me.
And explain this to me.
Speaker 5 (03:31):
It's literally just a drinking thing. You don't think that
they're like on the d L type of guys.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
I don't know. I have no idea. Are you listening.
I'm flattered by it. I actually am very flattered. It's
nice to have somebody actually pay attention to you.
Speaker 4 (03:43):
Give me an example, because are they acting the same?
And then you're just drunk. So you're beginning.
Speaker 2 (03:48):
Beginning of the night, we're not drinking, okay, or we're
not drunk, we're just drinking. We're all hanging out. Everything's cool,
we're high five in each other. And in the night,
I'm getting hugged and groped and stuff.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
And I had a guy friend who was like this,
I don't want to say his name. I have a
guy friend.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
He's us and tell me if he does this. When
he does this at the beginning of the night, everything
is good. At the end of the night, he's copying
my private parts. I mean, I'm just kidding. Now, does
he do that at all?
Speaker 6 (04:18):
Yes?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
He really.
Speaker 6 (04:21):
The way he talked changed, the way he interact other
guys changed. He would talk to you about like dreams
that he's had about other guys.
Speaker 2 (04:32):
And I'm like, I am, I don't know if this
is the alcohol spirits. Maybe this is.
Speaker 6 (04:37):
You and you're just too afraid when you're sober to
be the guy, the man that you are that you
are period.
Speaker 2 (04:45):
Wow, Well, I don't know. I'm gay now. Wow. I
don't know what what it is, but it has happened
to me a couple of times over the course of
the last few months where I'll go out, we'll drink,
we'll have fun, and then at the end of the
I got guys wrapping their arms around me. You know
what I mean.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
I will say I feel like a girls, or maybe
I'm just speaking for myself, but I feel like a
girls who like tend to get a little touchy, touchy
or feelure if they drink a little bit.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
It's just me, you know that. I have never I
get very husky.
Speaker 5 (05:17):
No, I don't know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (05:18):
I get very okay. Girls like to kiss. Maybe no,
girls make out. They make out when they're I feel like.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
Girls are more.
Speaker 6 (05:25):
No, we're lucky, we're touching, more like we appreciate you.
Speaker 2 (05:29):
And I also think some of it is I'll protect
you from these creepy dudes at this bar by hanging
all over you so they can't What about the creepyes
that are hitting on their friends.
Speaker 7 (05:39):
You don't have to worry.
Speaker 4 (05:39):
About them at that point, just the same person that's
doing this to you or No, it's different, it's totally different.
Speaker 2 (05:45):
I had one guy one time. We're sitting at We're
literally sitting at a bar. This is no joke. We're
at a bar. We're sitting there, and every five seconds
he kept grabbing my leg like he would talk to
me and he would go, yeah, you know what I'm
talking about, and he would grab my legs. At first,
at first, when he's like grabbing my hed grab like
right above my knee caup. And after he grabbed me
right about my knee cap. The first time, I was
(06:06):
a little startled. I was like, oh, okay, well that
kind of feels okay then and then I stopped and
next thing, I know, the hands lingering there like it's
not slapping me anymore, it's now holding on. And it
made me feel weary this weekend. This weekend, it was hugging.
It was like hugging and cuddling. And I have been
told that I would be a great, you know, gay
(06:30):
person's beer bear. A bear is like that, the big,
the fat guy in the relationship, the big hairy guy.
I'm the bear.
Speaker 4 (06:38):
Cubs that are guys that are just a little overwait yeah, yeah,
a little bit younger, a little bit less.
Speaker 2 (06:44):
Harry keV you could be a bear. I'm gonna let
you be, do you eight four four Mojo Live? Eight
four four six sixty five six five four eight is
our telephone number. Hi, Jessic, How are you?
Speaker 6 (07:01):
Hi?
Speaker 4 (07:01):
Good? How are you good?
Speaker 2 (07:03):
I explained this to me. Why is it that when
guys drink, even girls, when they drink, all of a sudden,
they they go from being heterosexual to bisexual?
Speaker 7 (07:14):
Mojo? My mom always raised me to know that a
drunk mind reveals a sober heart. I believe that people
who kind of lean towards that already, it just comes
out when they're drunk. I had an ex who was
I thought completely straight, but when he would get drunk,
he would start talking about how hot certain guys were,
(07:34):
and he insisted, you know that he was straight, but
I don't know. He started talking about dudes more often
when he was drinking.
Speaker 2 (07:42):
And I think, in the closet, Yeah that so maybe?
So do you think it brings them out of the
closet when they're drinking with the guy. Just come out
of the closet, please, I think so.
Speaker 7 (07:55):
I feel like, I mean, I'm one straight. If I drink,
I will not exhibit any type of gay behavior. But
if some people are, they might you know, that's just
the way I feel about it.
Speaker 2 (08:07):
Hold on a second. This text is great one seven,
three or four goes it's not gay, it's homi sexual.
I like that. This other text is a great one too.
If three to one three says Kev's not a bear,
he's a cub.
Speaker 4 (08:24):
Do you think these guys would take you there if
you allowed it to go further?
Speaker 5 (08:28):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (08:30):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Are you comfortable playing the role? I honestly could be
quite honest with you. I wasn't attracted to them. If
I was attracted to him, I don't know. Like if
it's Tom, if it's Tom Brady, you know, maybe I
take my clothes off of him. I don't know. I'll
commit it to this bit. I'm not, but but it does.
(08:50):
It does. Find I find it interesting. Women do this
a lot, And I don't know, Jessica, are you this
way when you're out with your girlfriends or maybe you
have girlfriends? Are like this? Girls kiss other girls when
they're drinking, and they won't do it if they're sober,
Like you don't see a girl start, Oh, that's a lot.
Next thing, you know, they're making out when at the
beginning of the night, it's at the end of the
(09:11):
night that happens, right.
Speaker 7 (09:14):
Yeah, I've seen it happen. My friends are like that.
But I can't. I just can't do it. I can't
bring myself to do it. And I have nothing against it,
but it is not my thing, and so like, I'm
not like that. So I one know that it has
to be you have to have some sort of open
mindedness to it that I just don't have.
Speaker 2 (09:32):
Yeah, I think what ends up happening is what you're
talking about. You can't bring yourself to it. I think
that there's there's no attraction there, so you don't find
yourself wanting to do it. But I do think that
the other thing is if you're so drunk, you're wondering
what did you do at the end of the night,
you know what I mean, Like your inhibitions, your sexual
(09:54):
inhibitions definitely come into play, Like when you're drinking, like
no offense what you're saying, No offense to women who
are maybe not incredibly gorgeous. But sometimes I actually find
everybody in the bar beautiful. Drunk goggles are real thing.
I mean, I like, I see I see girls that
are at the bar that at the beginning of the
night had no interest at all in at the end
(10:16):
of the night. But you know, I'm I'm you know,
let's go like hey whatever, you know, one of those
type of things.
Speaker 6 (10:24):
So all right, well, thank you.
Speaker 2 (10:27):
You ever had a sex in the bathroom and the club?
Have you really have a restaurant? Restaurants? You've done this? keV.
I've had some times in my life like where are
we talking? What kind of places? What kind of bar?
Cosmos on wood piza? It was good? Wait a second,
(10:48):
isn't Como's also a gay hang too? I mean yes
and no.
Speaker 5 (10:57):
But they also pizza for even if you're straight, you're
allowed to go down.
Speaker 2 (11:01):
That's a gay place for the pizza chill out.
Speaker 5 (11:13):
Uh.
Speaker 2 (11:14):
Textures by the way, that are texting in all these people,
all these people don't want to pick up our phone
calls because they say that they're too embarrassed that their
friends will hear them. Right now, it cannot be real?
Speaker 4 (11:25):
No, I wait, which one?
Speaker 2 (11:33):
All right? Is it is? Three? One? Three?
Speaker 6 (11:36):
You can't read that, can you?
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Thirty five years of his life?
Speaker 6 (11:41):
You can you can.
Speaker 2 (11:43):
I've not acted on it, but I have a major craving,
but I'm scared to act on it sometimes because I
don't know how it would actually feel. Okay, go live
your life, man. But it's only when he drinks though,
That's the thing. It's only when he drinks that comes
from somewhere.
Speaker 4 (12:00):
Like I feel like if you if you're if you're
doing that, you have an emotion that's lying dormat and
the alcohol is just unlocking what's already inside of me.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
It's not like it's just coming from out of nowhere.
Somebody just texted in.
Speaker 5 (12:11):
Sexuality is a spectrum and we're all on it summer,
and I really do believe that it is a spectrum,
as you're not you know, it's it's yeah, you know
what it's not. It's not clear cut like I am
this or I am this, like yes you are, But
I do I do believe that that sexuality is a spectrum.
Like the girl who's like I am one hundred percent straight.
(12:33):
I mean, I would say that same thing, but I've
always found I've also found girls attractive before, so technically
I'm not one hundred percent straight, do you know what
I mean?
Speaker 2 (12:42):
It's like, I don't know, but does that not make
you straight because you find them attractive. Are you going
to act upon that attraction? Right? Yeah, that's what I'm saying.
It's a spectrum. We got to go because Kevin and
I are going to comos. We'll be right back. Do
the best piecea
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I’m Jay Shetty host of On Purpose the worlds #1 Mental Health podcast and I’m so grateful you found us. I started this podcast 5 years ago to invite you into conversations and workshops that are designed to help make you happier, healthier and more healed. I believe that when you (yes you) feel seen, heard and understood you’re able to deal with relationship struggles, work challenges and life’s ups and downs with more ease and grace. I interview experts, celebrities, thought leaders and athletes so that we can grow our mindset, build better habits and uncover a side of them we’ve never seen before. New episodes every Monday and Friday. Your support means the world to me and I don’t take it for granted — click the follow button and leave a review to help us spread the love with On Purpose. I can’t wait for you to listen to your first or 500th episode!