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Speaker 1 (00:07):
Mojo in the Morning eight four to four Mojo Live
eight four four sixty six.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
As Mojo in the Morning Wore the Roses.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Anybody that didn't hear what was said in the beginning,
I'll tell you the name so you kind of know
who these people are. A girl named Melanie dating a
guy named Spencer, who we just called the second ago,
and he sent the flowers to Melanie, Okay, his girlfriend.
She had looked through his DMS and saw that he
(00:44):
was talking back and forth with a girl named Bella.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That's the other girl that you just heard voices from
just a little bit ago.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And Melanie, instead of confronting Spencer about this other girl
and who she is, she reaches to Bella and says
to Bella, I'm dating this guy. You know you should
know this. Then they talk to each other and say,
let's do the Mojo in the Morning War the Roses,
(01:13):
and let's see what's going on. Because Bella doesn't believe
that Melanie is who she says she is, does not
believe that she's actually a girlfriend. Well, just a moment ago,
you heard the War of the Roses where we actually
made the phone call and he sent it to and
he said his girlfriend, Michelle. You just heard that whole
thing comment from you. What are your thoughts on the
War of the Roses?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
I did good morning. I was thinking, like Spencer went
radio silent, and instantly I thought he Bella was probably
texting him like either what the hell or.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
What you know? And that's and he was reading or trying.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
To respond to the Texas because it was really bizarre.
He didn't even try to explain or defend himself or anything.
It was just like silent.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So that's actually very interesting.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I never thought that, And I want to go back
in and I want to listen back to it on
podcasts or maybe on replay and see. The length of
time was weird because he was on the phone line.
We can tell when somebody's still on there because the
phone line automatically will disconnect when that happens, because we
have a computerized phone line system, so that that'd be
(02:19):
a scene.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
The whole scene was weird and confusing in the idea
that she would be tipping them off saying I can't
believe you're doing this or whatever, saying who knows what,
like she's got this thing still.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
I thought that the question though, that was asked to
Melanie of you are you going to stick around through this?
And she's like, probably not. Was also an interesting one too, Sam,
what's up?
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Yeah, not too much, but at all.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
It's all like he got them right where he needs them.
He should step this game up and he could probably
lock both.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Of them down.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Well listen, I don't know if that's what we're encouraging,
but Sam, I'll be honest with you. Bella, it seems
like she is, you know, willing just to be with
him and doesn't really care.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, she's definitely gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah, the girl that is the mistress might be what
he falls back on. What's up? Amber? Hi, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 8 (03:11):
I think that Kevin is onto something. I think there's
something sketchy about Bella. I think she's lying about something,
and I'm not sure what it is. I don't know
if it's that she's like a stage five cleaner or
she just likes to make mess in relationships, but I
(03:34):
think she's maybe making things bigger than what they are
and trying to just get Spencer in trouble.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, we've had it before, where the Bella or the
mistress or the girl that's cheating will contact the girlfriend
or wife and say hey, let's do this, and then
we've had that. I was actually and I think there
is something weird with Bella. I do now after especially
after that first caller says about the texting thing, it
(04:04):
wouldn't surprise me, but there is something to the fact
that you would be told I'm the girlfriend and this
girl would be like, I don't believe.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
That whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, but then there is also something and this could
be you know, they're in their twenties, who knows, but
this could be whatever.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
But are you going to stick around? Probably not, you
know what I mean. I think there's.
Speaker 9 (04:26):
Also a portion of it where we kind of give
the guy fleck for being silent. And I don't think everybody,
for one, is comfortable being on a radio, comfortable having
a business out on the radio, comfortable with the relationship
being out on the radio. And sometimes I've been in
situations where I've been accused of things more than once
and you just get to a point where you just
(04:47):
shut on, like, oh my god, here we go again.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
At this point, people are saying that his silence was
him pleading the fifth you know, kind of like the
in a court of law, not trying to incriminate himself.
It's probably honestly, he was probably smarter than saying I mean,
it's nervous. It could be nervousness on the radio, or it
could just be that he's just damn smart for being silent.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Has anybody ever been this is just throw it out there.
Has anybody ever been contacted by.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
The person who is either the girlfriend or the person
that's throwing around?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah? Really, yeah, you're saying, yeah, like that's a calling
you're taking. I don't know what you've had.
Speaker 9 (05:22):
I've had this situation. I was I was outside my
boy John to crib. I was dealing with a girl.
I don't remember if I knew she had a boyfriend
or not. I probably didn't even care back then, just
to be one hunder with you. But anyway, the boy
caused me and he's like, are you messing with my girlfriend?
And I was just quiet. I'm like, you, like, come on, man,
(05:42):
just man to me. He's like, I know you're doing
your thing. I just need to know.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Like I'm just like, bron, that's just not like, so
did you know that I'm confused?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Did you know that she had a boyfriend. I didn't.
I don't remember.
Speaker 9 (05:54):
To be honest with you, I don't remember, but I'm
saying I probably didn't care either way.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Uh huh.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
But I got a random phone calls. I guess he
got my number out of her phone somehow someway and
called me like, I just need to know. I know
you're doing your thing. I know, no, no, no, no, no,
but I need to know what's going on.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
I'm just like, man, that's just why not say nowhere?
Speaker 10 (06:12):
Yes?
Speaker 9 (06:13):
Because I don't. I felt at the time I didn't
owe him anything. And why are you calling me? You
need to deal with her. I don't know why we
need to have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I didn't reach out to me on Instagram too? What
did you tell her everything? Any guy was cheating.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Between guys and girls like guys will be like none
of your business.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Girls will be like, yes, let me show you all.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
No, this was like three years ago now and the
dudes actually engaged to this to another girl now, so
God bless her.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Okay, people can change. That's what I said, Sarah, What
what do you want to say?
Speaker 10 (06:54):
I wanted to say that I think that Bella believes
Melanie but because she knew it would lead to like
them breaking up, she didn't say anything so that they
could break up and she could just swoop in and
keep dating him.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Yeah, get Melanie out of the picture, Clara, what's up?
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
First time? Call it a long time.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Listening what's happening?
Speaker 5 (07:20):
So, I think I've been in a situation somewhat like
this before, and I just think Fella's reaction was kind
of it threw me off. I'm gonna be honest, because
she basically got the entire truth put right in her face,
and it seemed like she still didn't believe it. And
that's kind of like a that seems like she might
be under like kind of a spell. I guess maybe
(07:42):
like the honeymoon phase or something. But if I was,
I'll believe it right away. If I heard a phone
call like.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
That, Yeah, sometimes you almost need a moment to react
to it. And that's why I think we need to
get them back on the phone and get an update.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
From them on where they all are.
Speaker 11 (07:57):
He could be feeding or something too, and saying no,
that's crazy, there's no way, no way, and like, so
she was already in advance ready for this because she
thought that this isn't real, because he's been telling me
that she's been trying to do this.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Forever and making up these well, and you wonder if
maybe before we even made the phone call, if he
knew what was going to go on.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
What's going on? Rebecca?
Speaker 7 (08:20):
Hi? Hey, I was calling him because you asked if
anybody has ever had this happen. I had an ex
boyfriend who's still tried to contact me after thirteen years,
and he had a whole fiancee and I have my
own separate family, and his fiance will still contact me
asking me to come get him, that we're together, that
(08:40):
she knows we're together, and I've had to take out
a restraining order against her.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
She's a hobby.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
That's wild though, that she's so she's really going after you.
She needs to just leave that guy, right.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
She live in the hospital pregnant with my daughter, and
she thought that I was hooking up with them.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Oh my god, geez, voice, this guy's alias will call you, Rena.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
What's up? Hey? Oh? I got to push the button.
I'm sorry I didn't push the button. Go ahead.
Speaker 12 (09:09):
I actually had a situation about five years ago now
where my husband was having a two year long affair
and we were separated because he, because of the affair,
wanted a divorce and I suspected something was going on,
And after they had been together for about two years,
(09:32):
she ended up reaching out to me on Facebook messenger
and told me everything had been going on for the
past two years.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Were you happy that she reached out to you and
told you?
Speaker 12 (09:45):
I was devastated At first. I was happy and we
stayed together. We're actually still married and we worked through everything,
but it was it was heartbreaking. I was crushed and
devastated for a long time that he would do something
like that to me. Are you him, Uh, yes, for sure.
(10:10):
And he is very very open and honest and you know,
communicates everything with me now. So like I said, it
was it was a long, long process of getting that
trust back and we're actually in a really good place
now and we're probably stronger than we were before. So
it was kind of one of those situations where everything,
(10:32):
you know, works out for the best.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
But did.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
You ever meet the mistress face to face?
Speaker 12 (10:41):
Have I met her face to face?
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Did you ever meet her face to face or was
it just everything over the phone?
Speaker 2 (10:46):
No?
Speaker 12 (10:46):
I didn't. I never met her face to face, worked
on the phone a couple of times, and she has
me blocked now. But that's fine. I don't need to
have anything to.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Do with her, and he doesn't need to have anything
to do with her.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Run of the exact same thing happened to me. She
actually showed up to one of my station events. She
won tickets just to show up to the event after
she had reached out to me, just to like talk
to the prop and person, and then she has me
blocked now. But it always ends up like that because
they want to talk to you to get the information,
and then they'll block you.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Good luck, Randa.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
If you think that your significant other is cheating, text
cheater to nine five five zero zero. It's wore the
Roses on Mojo in the Morning, channel ninety five one
oh four point five SNX and ninety two point five
Kiss FM.
Mojo in the Morning eight four to four Mojo Live
eight four four sixty six.
Speaker 2 (00:13):
As Mojo in the Morning Wore the Roses.
Speaker 3 (00:20):
Anybody that didn't hear what was said in the beginning,
I'll tell you the name so you kind of know
who these people are. A girl named Melanie dating a
guy named Spencer, who we just called the second ago,
and he sent the flowers to Melanie, Okay, his girlfriend.
She had looked through his DMS and saw that he
(00:44):
was talking back and forth with a girl named Bella.
Speaker 2 (00:48):
That's the other girl that you just heard voices from
just a little bit ago.
Speaker 3 (00:53):
And Melanie, instead of confronting Spencer about this other girl
and who she is, she reaches to Bella and says
to Bella, I'm dating this guy. You know you should
know this. Then they talk to each other and say,
let's do the Mojo in the Morning War the Roses,
(01:13):
and let's see what's going on. Because Bella doesn't believe
that Melanie is who she says she is, does not
believe that she's actually a girlfriend. Well, just a moment ago,
you heard the War of the Roses where we actually
made the phone call and he sent it to and
he said his girlfriend, Michelle. You just heard that whole
thing comment from you. What are your thoughts on the
War of the Roses?
Speaker 4 (01:33):
I did good morning. I was thinking, like Spencer went
radio silent, and instantly I thought he Bella was probably
texting him like either what the hell or.
Speaker 5 (01:46):
What you know? And that's and he was reading or trying.
Speaker 4 (01:49):
To respond to the Texas because it was really bizarre.
He didn't even try to explain or defend himself or anything.
It was just like silent.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
So that's actually very interesting.
Speaker 3 (01:58):
I never thought that, And I want to go back
in and I want to listen back to it on
podcasts or maybe on replay and see. The length of
time was weird because he was on the phone line.
We can tell when somebody's still on there because the
phone line automatically will disconnect when that happens, because we
have a computerized phone line system, so that that'd be
(02:19):
a scene.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
The whole scene was weird and confusing in the idea
that she would be tipping them off saying I can't
believe you're doing this or whatever, saying who knows what,
like she's got this thing still.
Speaker 3 (02:32):
I thought that the question though, that was asked to
Melanie of you are you going to stick around through this?
And she's like, probably not. Was also an interesting one too, Sam,
what's up?
Speaker 5 (02:41):
Yeah, not too much, but at all.
Speaker 7 (02:43):
It's all like he got them right where he needs them.
He should step this game up and he could probably
lock both.
Speaker 1 (02:47):
Of them down.
Speaker 3 (02:48):
Well listen, I don't know if that's what we're encouraging,
but Sam, I'll be honest with you. Bella, it seems
like she is, you know, willing just to be with
him and doesn't really care.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Yeah, she's definitely gonna stay.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Yeah, the girl that is the mistress might be what
he falls back on. What's up? Amber? Hi, good morning,
Good morning.
Speaker 8 (03:11):
I think that Kevin is onto something. I think there's
something sketchy about Bella. I think she's lying about something,
and I'm not sure what it is. I don't know
if it's that she's like a stage five cleaner or
she just likes to make mess in relationships, but I
(03:34):
think she's maybe making things bigger than what they are
and trying to just get Spencer in trouble.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, we've had it before, where the Bella or the
mistress or the girl that's cheating will contact the girlfriend
or wife and say hey, let's do this, and then
we've had that. I was actually and I think there
is something weird with Bella. I do now after especially
after that first caller says about the texting thing, it
(04:04):
wouldn't surprise me, but there is something to the fact
that you would be told I'm the girlfriend and this
girl would be like, I don't believe.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
That whole thing.
Speaker 3 (04:14):
Yeah, but then there is also something and this could
be you know, they're in their twenties, who knows, but
this could be whatever.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
But are you going to stick around? Probably not, you
know what I mean. I think there's.
Speaker 9 (04:26):
Also a portion of it where we kind of give
the guy fleck for being silent. And I don't think everybody,
for one, is comfortable being on a radio, comfortable having
a business out on the radio, comfortable with the relationship
being out on the radio. And sometimes I've been in
situations where I've been accused of things more than once
and you just get to a point where you just
(04:47):
shut on, like, oh my god, here we go again.
Speaker 2 (04:49):
Yeah, I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 3 (04:50):
At this point, people are saying that his silence was
him pleading the fifth you know, kind of like the
in a court of law, not trying to incriminate himself.
It's probably honestly, he was probably smarter than saying I mean,
it's nervous. It could be nervousness on the radio, or it
could just be that he's just damn smart for being silent.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Has anybody ever been this is just throw it out there.
Has anybody ever been contacted by.
Speaker 3 (05:12):
The person who is either the girlfriend or the person
that's throwing around?
Speaker 2 (05:17):
Yeah? Really, yeah, you're saying, yeah, like that's a calling
you're taking. I don't know what you've had.
Speaker 9 (05:22):
I've had this situation. I was I was outside my
boy John to crib. I was dealing with a girl.
I don't remember if I knew she had a boyfriend
or not. I probably didn't even care back then, just
to be one hunder with you. But anyway, the boy
caused me and he's like, are you messing with my girlfriend?
And I was just quiet. I'm like, you, like, come on, man,
(05:42):
just man to me. He's like, I know you're doing
your thing. I just need to know.
Speaker 6 (05:46):
Like I'm just like, bron, that's just not like, so
did you know that I'm confused?
Speaker 2 (05:52):
Did you know that she had a boyfriend. I didn't.
I don't remember.
Speaker 9 (05:54):
To be honest with you, I don't remember, but I'm
saying I probably didn't care either way.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
Uh huh.
Speaker 9 (05:59):
But I got a random phone calls. I guess he
got my number out of her phone somehow someway and
called me like, I just need to know. I know
you're doing your thing. I know, no, no, no, no, no,
but I need to know what's going on.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
I'm just like, man, that's just why not say nowhere?
Speaker 10 (06:12):
Yes?
Speaker 9 (06:13):
Because I don't. I felt at the time I didn't
owe him anything. And why are you calling me? You
need to deal with her. I don't know why we
need to have a conversation.
Speaker 1 (06:24):
I didn't reach out to me on Instagram too? What
did you tell her everything? Any guy was cheating.
Speaker 6 (06:32):
Between guys and girls like guys will be like none
of your business.
Speaker 2 (06:34):
Girls will be like, yes, let me show you all.
Speaker 1 (06:39):
No, this was like three years ago now and the
dudes actually engaged to this to another girl now, so
God bless her.
Speaker 2 (06:45):
Okay, people can change. That's what I said, Sarah, What
what do you want to say?
Speaker 10 (06:54):
I wanted to say that I think that Bella believes
Melanie but because she knew it would lead to like
them breaking up, she didn't say anything so that they
could break up and she could just swoop in and
keep dating him.
Speaker 2 (07:08):
Yeah, get Melanie out of the picture, Clara, what's up?
Speaker 4 (07:13):
Hi?
Speaker 5 (07:13):
First time? Call it a long time.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
Listening what's happening?
Speaker 5 (07:20):
So, I think I've been in a situation somewhat like
this before, and I just think Fella's reaction was kind
of it threw me off. I'm gonna be honest, because
she basically got the entire truth put right in her face,
and it seemed like she still didn't believe it. And
that's kind of like a that seems like she might
be under like kind of a spell. I guess maybe
(07:42):
like the honeymoon phase or something. But if I was,
I'll believe it right away. If I heard a phone
call like.
Speaker 3 (07:47):
That, Yeah, sometimes you almost need a moment to react
to it. And that's why I think we need to
get them back on the phone and get an update.
Speaker 2 (07:55):
From them on where they all are.
Speaker 11 (07:57):
He could be feeding or something too, and saying no,
that's crazy, there's no way, no way, and like, so
she was already in advance ready for this because she
thought that this isn't real, because he's been telling me
that she's been trying to do this.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Forever and making up these well, and you wonder if
maybe before we even made the phone call, if he
knew what was going to go on.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
What's going on? Rebecca?
Speaker 7 (08:20):
Hi? Hey, I was calling him because you asked if
anybody has ever had this happen. I had an ex
boyfriend who's still tried to contact me after thirteen years,
and he had a whole fiancee and I have my
own separate family, and his fiance will still contact me
asking me to come get him, that we're together, that
(08:40):
she knows we're together, and I've had to take out
a restraining order against her.
Speaker 2 (08:45):
She's a hobby.
Speaker 3 (08:46):
That's wild though, that she's so she's really going after you.
She needs to just leave that guy, right.
Speaker 7 (08:51):
She live in the hospital pregnant with my daughter, and
she thought that I was hooking up with them.
Speaker 3 (08:56):
Oh my god, geez, voice, this guy's alias will call you, Rena.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
What's up? Hey? Oh? I got to push the button.
I'm sorry I didn't push the button. Go ahead.
Speaker 12 (09:09):
I actually had a situation about five years ago now
where my husband was having a two year long affair
and we were separated because he, because of the affair,
wanted a divorce and I suspected something was going on,
And after they had been together for about two years,
(09:32):
she ended up reaching out to me on Facebook messenger
and told me everything had been going on for the
past two years.
Speaker 2 (09:41):
Were you happy that she reached out to you and
told you?
Speaker 12 (09:45):
I was devastated At first. I was happy and we
stayed together. We're actually still married and we worked through everything,
but it was it was heartbreaking. I was crushed and
devastated for a long time that he would do something
like that to me. Are you him, Uh, yes, for sure.
(10:10):
And he is very very open and honest and you know,
communicates everything with me now. So like I said, it
was it was a long, long process of getting that
trust back and we're actually in a really good place
now and we're probably stronger than we were before. So
it was kind of one of those situations where everything,
(10:32):
you know, works out for the best.
Speaker 3 (10:34):
But did.
Speaker 2 (10:37):
You ever meet the mistress face to face?
Speaker 12 (10:41):
Have I met her face to face?
Speaker 3 (10:42):
Did you ever meet her face to face or was
it just everything over the phone?
Speaker 2 (10:46):
No?
Speaker 12 (10:46):
I didn't. I never met her face to face, worked
on the phone a couple of times, and she has
me blocked now. But that's fine. I don't need to
have anything to.
Speaker 2 (10:58):
Do with her, and he doesn't need to have anything
to do with her.
Speaker 1 (11:01):
Run of the exact same thing happened to me. She
actually showed up to one of my station events. She
won tickets just to show up to the event after
she had reached out to me, just to like talk
to the prop and person, and then she has me
blocked now. But it always ends up like that because
they want to talk to you to get the information,
and then they'll block you.
Speaker 2 (11:24):
Good luck, Randa.
Speaker 3 (11:25):
If you think that your significant other is cheating, text
cheater to nine five five zero zero. It's wore the
Roses on Mojo in the Morning, channel ninety five one
oh four point five SNX and ninety two point five
Kiss FM.
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