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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Catching cheaters. I'm proud of it. Oh I'm sorry, get
your home for Boar of the Roses, Unload you in
the morning. Christy, who is it that you think that
your husband is cheating with?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I suspect there's a woman that we've been involving in
our relationship lately, like.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
A third that you guys brought into your relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, yeah, we yeah, we decided to add another partner
to work. It's beant live just that, and uh, I
think that there's something else going on.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
It's funny whenever people bring a third in and they
tell another person that they did it, they always sound
so embarrassed that they did this thing. But it's becoming
more more popular common. Yeah yeah, but it's also not
uncommon that you start suspecting that they're not playing by rules.
Did you guys have rules set up?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yes? Yeah, oh definitely, and like he set up most
of the rules, which is the insane part of it,
I guess. But no, we agreed to very strict boundaries
and we was just just just fun. It wasn't anything
like we're in a fruftel. No, it was just intimacy,
just sex. And it was one person that we both
(01:16):
had vetted and agreed with would be acceptable.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
How did you figure out that you think that something's
going on outside of what you agreed on with this person.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It's it's not like he's not allowed like any communication
with her. It's it's not that strict. It's just that
I noticed that he and I have a situation where
like if one of us is over working or traveling
or something, that we always FaceTime each other every night.
That's that's always been our routine. And I had to
(01:49):
do some I had to do some work events, so
I had to go out of town in this month,
and I'm out of town, and then he started making
these excuses why he couldn't say time me that night,
which something that has semi off.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Some beard and so so he's, uh, he was making
excuses as to why he couldn't do it, and you
think it was because he was with her. Yeah, when
you guys get together, you and uh this other woman
with you? Know, when I say you you and your
husband and her, you guys get together, is it kind
(02:26):
of laid out like, Hey, this is what we're going
to do. And then like he doesn't spend any time
without you, You spend time without him.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
No, I'm not spending time with her one on one.
He's not spending time with her one on one.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
That it wouldn't be that, it wouldn't be that you're
out of town and she comes over to the house.
Is that against the rules?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
No, that is definitely the rules. That is not what
we agree to you at all.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And he's not and you believe he's not facetiming because
potentially she's there with.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Him, Yes, I think.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
So, all right, we're gonna do this. We're going to
make a phone call to see where he's going to
send a dozen free roses. We thought about doing a
three way call. Unfortunately, this is the weirdest part. This
woman does not answer a phone. She does not have
She only communicates through d MS. So that's why we
decided not to do a three way call. So she's younger, yeah, yeah,
(03:22):
but she has no phone though. That isn't that crazy?
You have no phone? Like, I don't know how do
I communicate without a phone. Listen, I have a phone,
but I'm not picking up a call. How do I know?
All right, here we go, let's let's make a phone call.
We're hoping that the roses go to Christy, be really quiet, Okay,
mute your phone.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Okay, I'll I'm looking for Daniel please.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Oh yes, this is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Hi Daniel.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
My name is Nicole and I'm calling you from an
online floral company called roses boom dot com with an
offer for some free flowers.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
If you have a moment to take two very very
quick survey questions, We're.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Going to give you a dozen long stemmed red roses
that you can send to the person of your toys
anywhere in the country. And this is completely free of
charge to you. I'm not going to ask you for
your credit card information or any sort of financial information.
We're just hoping to spread the name about our new
business and in the process, you get some.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Free flowers out of the deal.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Have you purchased flowers.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
In the last six months, Daniel, No? And do you
plan on purchasing flowers in the next six months?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Probably?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
As a thank you for participating in that survey, roses
bloom dot com is now going to give you that
dozen long stemmed red roses, and here's some info from you.
They are going to be sent out today a little
bit later on this afternoon. And I just got to
need to get a first and a last name to
get started with your with your flowers, yeah, I'd like
to send.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Them to Heather please, okay, okay?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
And what is her telephone number?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:11):
She doesn't have a phone, but can I send it
to like a Facebook or Instagram or something like that?
Would that be all right?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
So I can't do that. I do need a because
I'm gonna need a need a telephone number. Does she
have a place of work?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
And we could we could do.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
It that way?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Actually, can you just send it to me and I'll
send it to her?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
That be all right?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Okay, we can do that. What is Heather's relationship to you?
Speaker 5 (05:42):
She's a friend, Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
And I'm just confirming that red Roses is okay, Yeah, okay, Daniel,
we do something unique at roses boom dot com. And
instead of sending a paper card with the flowers, we're
gonna send a voice memo.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
So I'm going to have you record that here.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
I'm going to count you down and you could just
say whatever you want to Heather and she's gonna go
ahead and be able to play that.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
So whatever you would write on the card, you could
make it a little bit longer than that, though most
people do.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
I would just say that you are incredible, do you
know what?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Let me let me count you down, and you're gonna
go ahead and speak it just as you want her
to hear it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
So three two one.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Heather, you were amazing the other day and you definitely
deserve these roses.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Okay? Are you good with that?
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Okay, Daniel.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I also have to let you know that this call
is being recorded for quality and training purposes.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Are you okay with that?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Agreed?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And Daniel, I'm gonna jump on just to kind of
wrap up this call. It's kind of unusual for us
to send the actual person that's sending the flowers all
the infos, so you will get a message from us
to be able to then play for the person that
you just sent the flowers to. This guy, Heather. I
(07:04):
do need to let you know one last thing. While
you've been sending flowers off, your wife Christy has been
listening in and just heard you send them to another woman.
Oh wow, Daniel, your wife Christy called up the Mojo
(07:25):
in the morning show because she was worried that you
were cheating on her and just heard you send flowers,
not to her, but to another person that she was
suspicious that you guys were doing something with each other.
(07:50):
And she's on the phone with us right now, Christie.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Wow, I didn't know what to play, Christy, what do
you have to say?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I really don't. I really don't know what the hell
to say to him right now. I don't Is this her?
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I tried, that's her. We I just feel like idiot.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Just we talked about this so many times and put
me in a billion times. This exact thing would not happen,
he told me, and I said, I said, are you sure?
And we agreed to this, and I just feel like
such an idiot right now. I'm so sorry. I just.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Daniel, did you have set rules about your relationship?
Speaker 5 (08:45):
No?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I don't think so, So you didn't. You guys didn't
have any rules about the fact that if you were
going to do something like this, that you were going
to make sure that both parties and all three parties
were there at the same time and not doing anything
on your own. Yeah, that's that's correct.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
We didn't really have anything, you know, down like that.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
She said, you wrote the rules, that you made up
the rules for this.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
No.
Speaker 5 (09:16):
No, we didn't write any rules.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So there was no there is no rules that okay
to me. If you're bringing somebody into this whole thing.
I hate to say it, but I feel like you're
asking for this. But I I don't think that this
is one of those.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm not super shocked.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Yeah, and I don't, But I also don't think that
this is one of those situations where here, all of
a sudden, one person goes out of town and it's like, hey,
I got myself a person that I can hang out with.
Do you consider yourself faithful to your wife?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Uh? Well, not by the strictest definition. No, but you
know she knows of her. I mean, we all know
each other. Don't to the big deal? You know.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
This is gonna be a first. We just openly admitted
that we're not.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Faithful, and we don't really discuss it with our wife,
even though we've discussed bringing.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
In a third.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
But then you just get to do whatever you want.
Do you regularly see this other woman without your wife?
Speaker 2 (10:30):
No?
Speaker 5 (10:30):
This is this is like a news thing.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
All right, I'm gonna let you two guys talk to
each other some more without us listening in. Hang on
one second, this is the home of War of the Roses.
I absolutely love it most in the morning.
Catching cheaters. I'm proud of it. Oh I'm sorry, get
your home for Boar of the Roses, Unload you in
the morning. Christy, who is it that you think that
your husband is cheating with?
Speaker 2 (00:09):
I suspect there's a woman that we've been involving in
our relationship lately, like.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
A third that you guys brought into your relationship.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Yeah, yeah, we yeah, we decided to add another partner
to work. It's beant live just that, and uh, I
think that there's something else going on.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
It's funny whenever people bring a third in and they
tell another person that they did it, they always sound
so embarrassed that they did this thing. But it's becoming
more more popular common. Yeah yeah, but it's also not
uncommon that you start suspecting that they're not playing by rules.
Did you guys have rules set up?
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yes? Yeah, oh definitely, and like he set up most
of the rules, which is the insane part of it,
I guess. But no, we agreed to very strict boundaries
and we was just just just fun. It wasn't anything
like we're in a fruftel. No, it was just intimacy,
just sex. And it was one person that we both
(01:16):
had vetted and agreed with would be acceptable.
Speaker 3 (01:19):
How did you figure out that you think that something's
going on outside of what you agreed on with this person.
Speaker 2 (01:27):
It's it's not like he's not allowed like any communication
with her. It's it's not that strict. It's just that
I noticed that he and I have a situation where
like if one of us is over working or traveling
or something, that we always FaceTime each other every night.
That's that's always been our routine. And I had to
(01:49):
do some I had to do some work events, so
I had to go out of town in this month,
and I'm out of town, and then he started making
these excuses why he couldn't say time me that night,
which something that has semi off.
Speaker 1 (02:03):
Some beard and so so he's, uh, he was making
excuses as to why he couldn't do it, and you
think it was because he was with her. Yeah, when
you guys get together, you and uh this other woman
with you? Know, when I say you you and your
husband and her, you guys get together, is it kind
(02:26):
of laid out like, Hey, this is what we're going
to do. And then like he doesn't spend any time
without you, You spend time without him.
Speaker 2 (02:38):
No, I'm not spending time with her one on one.
He's not spending time with her one on one.
Speaker 1 (02:41):
That it wouldn't be that, it wouldn't be that you're
out of town and she comes over to the house.
Is that against the rules?
Speaker 2 (02:50):
No, that is definitely the rules. That is not what
we agree to you at all.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
And he's not and you believe he's not facetiming because
potentially she's there with.
Speaker 2 (02:58):
Him, Yes, I think.
Speaker 1 (03:00):
So, all right, we're gonna do this. We're going to
make a phone call to see where he's going to
send a dozen free roses. We thought about doing a
three way call. Unfortunately, this is the weirdest part. This
woman does not answer a phone. She does not have
She only communicates through d MS. So that's why we
decided not to do a three way call. So she's younger, yeah, yeah,
(03:22):
but she has no phone though. That isn't that crazy?
You have no phone? Like, I don't know how do
I communicate without a phone. Listen, I have a phone,
but I'm not picking up a call. How do I know?
All right, here we go, let's let's make a phone call.
We're hoping that the roses go to Christy, be really quiet, Okay,
mute your phone.
Speaker 4 (03:41):
Okay, I'll I'm looking for Daniel please.
Speaker 5 (03:59):
Oh yes, this is.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Hi Daniel.
Speaker 3 (04:02):
My name is Nicole and I'm calling you from an
online floral company called roses boom dot com with an
offer for some free flowers.
Speaker 4 (04:08):
If you have a moment to take two very very
quick survey questions, We're.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
Going to give you a dozen long stemmed red roses
that you can send to the person of your toys
anywhere in the country. And this is completely free of
charge to you. I'm not going to ask you for
your credit card information or any sort of financial information.
We're just hoping to spread the name about our new
business and in the process, you get some.
Speaker 4 (04:27):
Free flowers out of the deal.
Speaker 1 (04:30):
Okay, okay.
Speaker 4 (04:32):
Have you purchased flowers.
Speaker 3 (04:33):
In the last six months, Daniel, No? And do you
plan on purchasing flowers in the next six months?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Probably?
Speaker 1 (04:42):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (04:43):
As a thank you for participating in that survey, roses
bloom dot com is now going to give you that
dozen long stemmed red roses, and here's some info from you.
They are going to be sent out today a little
bit later on this afternoon. And I just got to
need to get a first and a last name to
get started with your with your flowers, yeah, I'd like
to send.
Speaker 5 (05:03):
Them to Heather please, okay, okay?
Speaker 4 (05:08):
And what is her telephone number?
Speaker 2 (05:11):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (05:11):
She doesn't have a phone, but can I send it
to like a Facebook or Instagram or something like that?
Would that be all right?
Speaker 3 (05:18):
So I can't do that. I do need a because
I'm gonna need a need a telephone number. Does she
have a place of work?
Speaker 4 (05:29):
And we could we could do.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
It that way?
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Actually, can you just send it to me and I'll
send it to her?
Speaker 2 (05:35):
That be all right?
Speaker 4 (05:36):
Okay, we can do that. What is Heather's relationship to you?
Speaker 5 (05:42):
She's a friend, Okay.
Speaker 3 (05:43):
And I'm just confirming that red Roses is okay, Yeah, okay, Daniel,
we do something unique at roses boom dot com. And
instead of sending a paper card with the flowers, we're
gonna send a voice memo.
Speaker 4 (05:57):
So I'm going to have you record that here.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
I'm going to count you down and you could just
say whatever you want to Heather and she's gonna go
ahead and be able to play that.
Speaker 4 (06:05):
Okay.
Speaker 3 (06:06):
So whatever you would write on the card, you could
make it a little bit longer than that, though most
people do.
Speaker 5 (06:12):
I would just say that you are incredible, do you
know what?
Speaker 3 (06:15):
Let me let me count you down, and you're gonna
go ahead and speak it just as you want her
to hear it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
So three two one.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
Heather, you were amazing the other day and you definitely
deserve these roses.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
Okay? Are you good with that?
Speaker 6 (06:34):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (06:35):
Okay, Daniel.
Speaker 3 (06:36):
I also have to let you know that this call
is being recorded for quality and training purposes.
Speaker 4 (06:40):
Are you okay with that?
Speaker 6 (06:42):
Sure?
Speaker 2 (06:43):
Agreed?
Speaker 1 (06:44):
And Daniel, I'm gonna jump on just to kind of
wrap up this call. It's kind of unusual for us
to send the actual person that's sending the flowers all
the infos, so you will get a message from us
to be able to then play for the person that
you just sent the flowers to. This guy, Heather. I
(07:04):
do need to let you know one last thing. While
you've been sending flowers off, your wife Christy has been
listening in and just heard you send them to another woman.
Oh wow, Daniel, your wife Christy called up the Mojo
(07:25):
in the morning show because she was worried that you
were cheating on her and just heard you send flowers,
not to her, but to another person that she was
suspicious that you guys were doing something with each other.
(07:50):
And she's on the phone with us right now, Christie.
Speaker 5 (07:53):
Wow, I didn't know what to play, Christy, what do
you have to say?
Speaker 2 (08:02):
I really don't. I really don't know what the hell
to say to him right now. I don't Is this her?
Speaker 6 (08:09):
I tried, that's her. We I just feel like idiot.
Speaker 2 (08:20):
Just we talked about this so many times and put
me in a billion times. This exact thing would not happen,
he told me, and I said, I said, are you sure?
And we agreed to this, and I just feel like
such an idiot right now. I'm so sorry. I just.
Speaker 1 (08:39):
Daniel, did you have set rules about your relationship?
Speaker 5 (08:45):
No?
Speaker 6 (08:45):
No, I don't.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
I don't think so, So you didn't. You guys didn't
have any rules about the fact that if you were
going to do something like this, that you were going
to make sure that both parties and all three parties
were there at the same time and not doing anything
on your own. Yeah, that's that's correct.
Speaker 5 (09:06):
We didn't really have anything, you know, down like that.
Speaker 3 (09:09):
She said, you wrote the rules, that you made up
the rules for this.
Speaker 1 (09:15):
No.
Speaker 5 (09:16):
No, we didn't write any rules.
Speaker 1 (09:20):
So there was no there is no rules that okay
to me. If you're bringing somebody into this whole thing.
I hate to say it, but I feel like you're
asking for this. But I I don't think that this
is one of those.
Speaker 4 (09:35):
I'm not super shocked.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Yeah, and I don't, But I also don't think that
this is one of those situations where here, all of
a sudden, one person goes out of town and it's like, hey,
I got myself a person that I can hang out with.
Do you consider yourself faithful to your wife?
Speaker 5 (10:01):
Uh? Well, not by the strictest definition. No, but you
know she knows of her. I mean, we all know
each other. Don't to the big deal? You know.
Speaker 1 (10:12):
This is gonna be a first. We just openly admitted
that we're not.
Speaker 2 (10:16):
Faithful, and we don't really discuss it with our wife,
even though we've discussed bringing.
Speaker 6 (10:20):
In a third.
Speaker 1 (10:20):
But then you just get to do whatever you want.
Do you regularly see this other woman without your wife?
Speaker 2 (10:30):
No?
Speaker 5 (10:30):
This is this is like a news thing.
Speaker 1 (10:33):
All right, I'm gonna let you two guys talk to
each other some more without us listening in. Hang on
one second, this is the home of War of the Roses.
I absolutely love it most in the morning.
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