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Speaker 1 (00:11):
Joe in the Morning, stayed home dad finds out that
his wife is cheating with a coworker. I mean, you guys,
tell us and you'd be the judge. I mean, the
conversation was kind of, I don't not romantic between the
two of them, except for this was just a weird
moment during the conversation that they.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Come when you get off, you want me to come over?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah, you heard Russia.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
I mean, it wasn't romantic. It was comfortable her little uh,
we've done this before. And also come over after you
get off. That had nothing to do with within work hours.
Come over after you get off.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Plus he was so forceful, I mean, like that.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Was like you know what I mean, you know what
I mean, there was like craziness.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
All right, it's Mojo in the Morning eight four four
Mojo Live eight four four six six five six five
four eight. One of the things that was interesting in
this particular case is, you know, you rarely see a
stay at home dad, and I love that that's the case.
I love that here is a situation where they're able
to have a parent home with their kids, and actually
(01:25):
the parent is the dad in this case who's getting
to stay home and help us, you know, kids get
off to wherever they're going, or I don't know how
young that young they are, you know, raise them, and
sometimes that's got to be very, very tough, I'm sure
for a man to do. And I wonder if her
cheating on him is going to make this guy even
(01:47):
more paranoid than ever before, thinking of the fact that
here he is, he's given up obviously his career to
stay home with the kids, or maybe she's not looking
at him the same way, or I don't know, I
don't have any stayed home dads that have ever been
faced with us at all that would call us up
and tell us what your thoughts are eight four to
four Mojo Live. His whole reasoning of doing it was
(02:10):
because his paranoia over the fact that she's been out
late and changing things up a little bit.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And then coming home all done up like more so than
she was when she left for work in the morning.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Also, wonder did he ever have a job, Like what
was the reason why he was a stay at home
dead Because if he had a job and he was
out quote unquote bringing home the bacon and he was
one way, and then whatever happened in their relationship or
finances or you know, whatever was the reason why that
switched and now he's a stay at home debt if
that changed some type of dynamic in their relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I have two friends of mine that are stay at homes.
One was my buddy Rick McGill. Rick used to work
for Delta and then his wife was an executive at
General Motors.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
She had a big job.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
He had a good job too, He was like, I
don't know, a head of gate agents or something like that.
But they decided that they wanted to have one of
them home with the kids, and her job was you know,
a much, you know, bigger job than what he had.
And then the other one is my buddy Will and Jessica,
and and Will stays home with the kids, and Jessica
(03:17):
you know, has her business beauty culture, but it's wild
to see like what it does for the kids when
a dad is there. First off, I would never be
like Will or Rick because I'd probably be on the
couch watching.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
The prices right the entire time.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
They both were really active parents, both physically and emotionally
with the kids. Like they do a lot with their
kids and have done a lot with their kids. But
I look at those guys, and I think it's awesome
that they do it. Like I thought it was wonderful
that my wife was able to stay home with our kids,
So I think it meant a lot to our kids.
Not everybody can do that, not every family can afford.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I just don't understand why it's like so gender based,
because I would not be a good stay at home mom,
But I think, like I think about my brother and stuff,
and he would be a phenomenal stay at home.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Dad, Like there are people.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I think it's more personality than just yeah, how you
were born.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Oh, it's wilde and it's wild too, like for Jess
and Will, just and Will are like Chelsea and I,
where Jess and I are so similar to each other,
and Chelsea and Will are so similar to each other,
which is really wild, and they probably and Jess is
a great mom. But it's wild because I would probably
be a horrible stay at home I don't know what
Jess would be, because it would you know, Will has
(04:29):
a lot more patience. It seems like his patience is amazing,
Like Chelsea has more patients. I could never do it.
I'd be like, get your ass same. Don't you dare
turn my channel. I'm telling you, i'd be watching TV.
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Shay? How you doing?
Speaker 7 (04:44):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Good morning? Ya?
Speaker 7 (04:44):
How y'all doing good?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 8 (04:48):
Now?
Speaker 7 (04:48):
Y'all know I love y'all, but if everybody in denial
this morning, I mean, come on, now, you heard the
tone and the little laugh and stuff.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
I mean, it is clear that something.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
Is going on. And keV I normally could count on
you to call.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Out the foolishness.
Speaker 7 (05:02):
I don't know, maybe it's a little too early. I
got to get your coffee in, but I mean, come.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
On, dad, Yeah, nobody nobody said they weren't cheated.
Speaker 8 (05:10):
I know.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
I didn't say that.
Speaker 7 (05:11):
You're no, I'm saying, y'all was kind of like, well, maybe.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
No, No, I think it's clear he's I mean, if
you really want me to get real, I think she
looking at her husband like he's soft, and this dude
sounds like he throwing it down on her.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
I mean, he was exactly. It was kinky.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
She was.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
He was all like, you know what I'm She was like, yeah,
that's what I'm talking now.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
I will give you. I didn't notice it was kinky
because that's not my kink.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
But as soon as like you say it, or like
we had somebody text in and say it, I was like.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Uh uh hold on a second, real quick, I want
to ask Jennel, Jennell do you think that Troy is soft?
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Can you answer that question for me? Please? Jennell? Or
were you at my bet is wrong?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ran?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Because my button one question? There you go, he said, Joe,
bitch my dad. I was trying. I was trying. I
thought you said that too.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
I was.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Let me, let me try it again, Shay, Hey, John
l do you think Troy is soft?
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Oh? There you go.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
That laugh, by the way, will be forever ingrained in
my head. What's going on?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Quinn? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 9 (06:18):
Hey, first time, long time.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
How did you do that to your voice? That was amazing?
What's going on? Well, here's the deal.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
I'm married too, And if my husband came in and
was like and had a phone call like that, oh,
his stuff will be.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Out on the lawn.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
There's no way, absolutely not.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
You're doing something.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
So you're thinking, you're thinking this, this wife is definitely
involved with this guy more than just.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
For soul sustinct.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I was one, yeah, and you know what, it's It's interesting.
A lot of people that started off going I wonder
if there is more to this now are all doing
the exact opposite with the first two calls I take
of Shay and Quinn on this. Quinn, thank you for
the call. Travis, what's your thoughts on this? What do
you think? Do you think Troy's wife is cheating?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I think Janelle had no intention of.
Speaker 8 (07:19):
Going over picking up documentary, Yeah, to go o there
and have the jump door pushed in.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
I never.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
But why do they the code that they talk in
in the in the things.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
It's weird. I didn't think there was a code. No,
what do you mean, well, like the whole thing, like
just come over.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Just like that, because because this is this is normal,
that's their thing. I feel like they've done this a
million times. It's not like they're sitting there and hemming
and hawing over whether or not they're going to, you know,
hang out today. This is a common occurrence. And I
don't love when she said, like it was so gas
lady to me when she said, you want the truth,
but you're tricking me to her husband. Yeah, Like when
(08:03):
when somebody on more of the Roses said, Oh, you
tricked me. I'm like, you're so now you're trying to
victim shame right?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Hillary? The radio back, Hillary's turn, Bye, good morning, good morning.
Who you're listening to us with? Who's there?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
My son?
Speaker 8 (08:19):
We're working?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Hillary?
Speaker 5 (08:22):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 9 (08:23):
So, when you were asking her if she contacted her
coworker because you guys couldn't get a hold of them,
I heard a whisper in the background. Now I don't
know if that was somebody in the station or if
that was her whispering to him, because he might be
(08:44):
right next to her, but it was highly stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Well then you know what we got to do. We
got to listen to the podcast. So we're gonna have
to go back and listen to this podcast. Uh and
check that out. Everybody are private investigative listeners. Go listen
to that. So, was at what point of the conversation.
Speaker 9 (09:02):
When you were asking her if she contacted him after
they had hung up and you were trying to get
him back on the line. A whisper that.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Was right around that time? Interesting, around that time. I'm
going back to listen to it. I appreciate you for
tipping us off on that it could be nothing. I
don't think it might have been us, but it might
have been who knows. At that point, our MIC's were
definitely up. Uh voices, guys are are uh you stay?
You stayed home? And uh, you know this kind of
(09:36):
is an interesting dynamic here right now?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Are you there?
Speaker 8 (09:40):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 10 (09:41):
So how you guys doing good?
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Are so as a man being a stay at home?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (09:46):
You know? And I understand you're still doing some work
from home too, write.
Speaker 10 (09:51):
Oh yeah, I ran it up.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Did your wife ever look at you differently when from
staying home?
Speaker 8 (09:58):
No?
Speaker 10 (09:58):
Because I made him almost five or fifteen grand with
in the month kind of in the marijuana industry over
there in California. Okay, So, but there was just times
to where I found like certain dying, Like there's a
random belt in the car and uh, you know kind
of like certain different clothing and I could have called
(10:22):
her name out on it, but to me, like my
main thing was keeping the family together, so I didn't
want to like call out for something I had no
proof for.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But it was happening articles of clothing in the car
like a belt that No, definitely yeah, And you never
brought that to.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Oh, no, I did.
Speaker 10 (10:42):
But it's kind of like, if you're dealing with the narcissist,
how are you going to convince them that it came
from them?
Speaker 1 (10:51):
What What was her explanation about the male some guy's
belt being in her car?
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Your wife, I don't know, that's it. She had no
exc I don't know. Yeah.
Speaker 10 (11:02):
Yeah, again, like I was saying, I'm not travel the lineup,
but I cannot felt it.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
But I had no proof.
Speaker 10 (11:10):
But at the same time, in my mind, it was
important to keep the family together. If she want to
do what she want to do. I mean, it really
doesn't hurt my manhood or whatever, but I just wanted
the kids to have mother and father at home, and
now they're not. Mom's in California. I moved back to
California to uh, I'm in down River now, and then
(11:31):
it's just meanly two kids.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
Wow, you got the custody huh uh.
Speaker 10 (11:36):
Yeah, it was not in paper, but just it's what's
best for them.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Interesting, that's interesting that you were willing, you know, as
a state owned dad, just to give it up as
far as letting her do her thing, because you just
didn't want to disrupt your kids. That's got to be
so hard. I can't imagine art. What's up? You were
a stay at home dad?
Speaker 8 (11:58):
Yes, I was so the wife. Hey, respect her. I
love her to death. That's my girl. I was working
the stuff, I got sick.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Her mama was sick. She is bread winner up until
like five years ago. You know that's some when I
started working and getting everything. But uh, you know that
phone call when you hear her talk like that to him, Uh,
I'm giving them hands. But as a man in the
stay at home dad, hearing that, you got a lot
of pride. You know if you ain't got the money,
(12:29):
but the girl does, and vice versa. I don't think
girls and females and no disrespect to women, but I
think they'll get it figured out, you know what I mean.
But as a man, we got so much, so much
pride and stuff.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
But was it hard for you knowing that she was
the bread the breadwinner, and she was the one with
the money and stuff like because you hear why stay
at home wives that say that, You know they if
their marriages are tough, they worry because that spouse of
theirs is the one making the money.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
So you know, it was even more difficult because for me,
you know, because I had a daughter, you know what
I mean. When we got together, she became a parent,
you know what I mean, And she held us both down.
You know, I was helping out with her mom or
mom was sick and everything. We lost her in twenty nineteen.
We had three deaths. But you know what I mean,
like she played the role as a mom. You know,
(13:20):
she's bussing her butt. You know, me, I was sick
for like a long time or whatever, and then but
you know what I mean, like she just she locked
it down. She was always there for me. She still is,
you know what I mean. Every relationship goes through something.
Speaker 8 (13:35):
I believe communication is key.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
Did you ever worry about her with guys at her work?
Speaker 6 (13:41):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
You know, you know there was one time she told
me this Jamaican dudes that she had some cute feet
to find them the stuff.
Speaker 8 (13:50):
But I ain't do nothing, you know what I mean.
But she's an amazing woman, you know, like and uh,
you know, like I try to give her as much
as much pops as I can, you know, because at
(14:10):
the end of the day, you know, me being a
staying home dad, you know, I felt down. I put
myself down all the time. She's always there to pick
me up, motivate me, you know what I mean, Like
when you don't have that person in your life, like
trying to lift you up, you know.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
And if that in that situation with those two, I mean,
come on, a girl, you ain't going to nobody else.
I'm going with you. Then I'm gonna sending a car,
go sign the papers, get.
Speaker 8 (14:32):
Your house out.
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
No, no, that's interesting, And I wonder if that's something
that Trey has to do, like, no, no, you're not
going to some guy's house in the middle of the
day or we all and one of the things we've
never gotten clarification on is was she going to his
house or is she going to him at work? And
we're still trying to figure that out.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Well, but I still think come over after you get off,
like that doesn't seem like work to me.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Well no, all right? Were the Roses hair on the
Mojo in the Morning show the whole of.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
The second date update the Roses. This is Mojo in
the Morning
Joe in the Morning, stayed home dad finds out that
his wife is cheating with a coworker. I mean, you guys,
tell us and you'd be the judge. I mean, the
conversation was kind of, I don't not romantic between the
two of them, except for this was just a weird
moment during the conversation that they.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
Come when you get off, you want me to come over?
Speaker 3 (00:39):
Yeah, you heard Russia.
Speaker 4 (00:42):
I mean, it wasn't romantic. It was comfortable her little uh,
we've done this before. And also come over after you
get off. That had nothing to do with within work hours.
Come over after you get off.
Speaker 5 (00:56):
Plus he was so forceful, I mean, like that.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
Was like you know what I mean, you know what
I mean, there was like craziness.
Speaker 1 (01:03):
All right, it's Mojo in the Morning eight four four
Mojo Live eight four four six six five six five
four eight. One of the things that was interesting in
this particular case is, you know, you rarely see a
stay at home dad, and I love that that's the case.
I love that here is a situation where they're able
to have a parent home with their kids, and actually
(01:25):
the parent is the dad in this case who's getting
to stay home and help us, you know, kids get
off to wherever they're going, or I don't know how
young that young they are, you know, raise them, and
sometimes that's got to be very, very tough, I'm sure
for a man to do. And I wonder if her
cheating on him is going to make this guy even
(01:47):
more paranoid than ever before, thinking of the fact that
here he is, he's given up obviously his career to
stay home with the kids, or maybe she's not looking
at him the same way, or I don't know, I
don't have any stayed home dads that have ever been
faced with us at all that would call us up
and tell us what your thoughts are eight four to
four Mojo Live. His whole reasoning of doing it was
(02:10):
because his paranoia over the fact that she's been out
late and changing things up a little bit.
Speaker 4 (02:15):
And then coming home all done up like more so than
she was when she left for work in the morning.
Speaker 6 (02:20):
Also, wonder did he ever have a job, Like what
was the reason why he was a stay at home
dead Because if he had a job and he was
out quote unquote bringing home the bacon and he was
one way, and then whatever happened in their relationship or
finances or you know, whatever was the reason why that
switched and now he's a stay at home debt if
that changed some type of dynamic in their relationship.
Speaker 1 (02:43):
I have two friends of mine that are stay at homes.
One was my buddy Rick McGill. Rick used to work
for Delta and then his wife was an executive at
General Motors.
Speaker 5 (02:53):
She had a big job.
Speaker 1 (02:54):
He had a good job too, He was like, I
don't know, a head of gate agents or something like that.
But they decided that they wanted to have one of
them home with the kids, and her job was you know,
a much, you know, bigger job than what he had.
And then the other one is my buddy Will and Jessica,
and and Will stays home with the kids, and Jessica
(03:17):
you know, has her business beauty culture, but it's wild
to see like what it does for the kids when
a dad is there. First off, I would never be
like Will or Rick because I'd probably be on the
couch watching.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
The prices right the entire time.
Speaker 1 (03:32):
They both were really active parents, both physically and emotionally
with the kids. Like they do a lot with their
kids and have done a lot with their kids. But
I look at those guys, and I think it's awesome
that they do it. Like I thought it was wonderful
that my wife was able to stay home with our kids,
So I think it meant a lot to our kids.
Not everybody can do that, not every family can afford.
Speaker 5 (03:53):
To do that.
Speaker 2 (03:54):
I just don't understand why it's like so gender based,
because I would not be a good stay at home mom,
But I think, like I think about my brother and stuff,
and he would be a phenomenal stay at home.
Speaker 5 (04:03):
Dad, Like there are people.
Speaker 2 (04:04):
I think it's more personality than just yeah, how you
were born.
Speaker 5 (04:07):
Yep.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
Oh, it's wilde and it's wild too, like for Jess
and Will, just and Will are like Chelsea and I,
where Jess and I are so similar to each other,
and Chelsea and Will are so similar to each other,
which is really wild, and they probably and Jess is
a great mom. But it's wild because I would probably
be a horrible stay at home I don't know what
Jess would be, because it would you know, Will has
(04:29):
a lot more patience. It seems like his patience is amazing,
Like Chelsea has more patients. I could never do it.
I'd be like, get your ass same. Don't you dare
turn my channel. I'm telling you, i'd be watching TV.
What's going on?
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Shay? How you doing?
Speaker 7 (04:44):
Hey?
Speaker 3 (04:44):
Good morning? Ya?
Speaker 7 (04:44):
How y'all doing good?
Speaker 5 (04:46):
What are your thoughts?
Speaker 8 (04:48):
Now?
Speaker 7 (04:48):
Y'all know I love y'all, but if everybody in denial
this morning, I mean, come on, now, you heard the
tone and the little laugh and stuff.
Speaker 8 (04:56):
I mean, it is clear that something.
Speaker 7 (04:58):
Is going on. And keV I normally could count on
you to call.
Speaker 5 (05:01):
Out the foolishness.
Speaker 7 (05:02):
I don't know, maybe it's a little too early. I
got to get your coffee in, but I mean, come.
Speaker 6 (05:07):
On, dad, Yeah, nobody nobody said they weren't cheated.
Speaker 8 (05:10):
I know.
Speaker 5 (05:11):
I didn't say that.
Speaker 7 (05:11):
You're no, I'm saying, y'all was kind of like, well, maybe.
Speaker 6 (05:16):
No, No, I think it's clear he's I mean, if
you really want me to get real, I think she
looking at her husband like he's soft, and this dude
sounds like he throwing it down on her.
Speaker 5 (05:25):
I mean, he was exactly. It was kinky.
Speaker 8 (05:28):
She was.
Speaker 7 (05:28):
He was all like, you know what I'm She was like, yeah,
that's what I'm talking now.
Speaker 5 (05:33):
I will give you. I didn't notice it was kinky
because that's not my kink.
Speaker 2 (05:37):
But as soon as like you say it, or like
we had somebody text in and say it, I was like.
Speaker 1 (05:42):
Uh uh hold on a second, real quick, I want
to ask Jennel, Jennell do you think that Troy is soft?
Speaker 5 (05:49):
Can you answer that question for me? Please? Jennell? Or
were you at my bet is wrong?
Speaker 3 (05:53):
Ran?
Speaker 5 (05:54):
Because my button one question? There you go, he said, Joe,
bitch my dad. I was trying. I was trying. I
thought you said that too.
Speaker 2 (06:01):
I was.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
Let me, let me try it again, Shay, Hey, John
l do you think Troy is soft?
Speaker 5 (06:10):
Oh? There you go.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
That laugh, by the way, will be forever ingrained in
my head. What's going on?
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Quinn? It's Mojo in the morning.
Speaker 9 (06:18):
Hey, first time, long time.
Speaker 5 (06:26):
How did you do that to your voice? That was amazing?
What's going on? Well, here's the deal.
Speaker 7 (06:33):
I'm married too, And if my husband came in and
was like and had a phone call like that, oh,
his stuff will be.
Speaker 5 (06:41):
Out on the lawn.
Speaker 3 (06:42):
There's no way, absolutely not.
Speaker 5 (06:44):
You're doing something.
Speaker 1 (06:46):
So you're thinking, you're thinking this, this wife is definitely
involved with this guy more than just.
Speaker 5 (06:52):
For soul sustinct.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
I was one, yeah, and you know what, it's It's interesting.
A lot of people that started off going I wonder
if there is more to this now are all doing
the exact opposite with the first two calls I take
of Shay and Quinn on this. Quinn, thank you for
the call. Travis, what's your thoughts on this? What do
you think? Do you think Troy's wife is cheating?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
I think Janelle had no intention of.
Speaker 8 (07:19):
Going over picking up documentary, Yeah, to go o there
and have the jump door pushed in.
Speaker 5 (07:27):
I never.
Speaker 1 (07:30):
But why do they the code that they talk in
in the in the things.
Speaker 5 (07:35):
It's weird. I didn't think there was a code. No,
what do you mean, well, like the whole thing, like
just come over.
Speaker 4 (07:40):
Just like that, because because this is this is normal,
that's their thing. I feel like they've done this a
million times. It's not like they're sitting there and hemming
and hawing over whether or not they're going to, you know,
hang out today. This is a common occurrence. And I
don't love when she said, like it was so gas
lady to me when she said, you want the truth,
but you're tricking me to her husband. Yeah, Like when
(08:03):
when somebody on more of the Roses said, Oh, you
tricked me. I'm like, you're so now you're trying to
victim shame right?
Speaker 5 (08:10):
Hillary? The radio back, Hillary's turn, Bye, good morning, good morning.
Who you're listening to us with? Who's there?
Speaker 1 (08:19):
My son?
Speaker 8 (08:19):
We're working?
Speaker 5 (08:20):
Okay, what's going on?
Speaker 7 (08:21):
Hillary?
Speaker 5 (08:22):
What do you want to say?
Speaker 9 (08:23):
So, when you were asking her if she contacted her
coworker because you guys couldn't get a hold of them,
I heard a whisper in the background. Now I don't
know if that was somebody in the station or if
that was her whispering to him, because he might be
(08:44):
right next to her, but it was highly stuff.
Speaker 1 (08:47):
Well then you know what we got to do. We
got to listen to the podcast. So we're gonna have
to go back and listen to this podcast. Uh and
check that out. Everybody are private investigative listeners. Go listen
to that. So, was at what point of the conversation.
Speaker 9 (09:02):
When you were asking her if she contacted him after
they had hung up and you were trying to get
him back on the line. A whisper that.
Speaker 1 (09:14):
Was right around that time? Interesting, around that time. I'm
going back to listen to it. I appreciate you for
tipping us off on that it could be nothing. I
don't think it might have been us, but it might
have been who knows. At that point, our MIC's were
definitely up. Uh voices, guys are are uh you stay?
You stayed home? And uh, you know this kind of
(09:36):
is an interesting dynamic here right now?
Speaker 5 (09:38):
Are you there?
Speaker 8 (09:40):
Oh?
Speaker 5 (09:40):
Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 10 (09:41):
So how you guys doing good?
Speaker 5 (09:42):
Are so as a man being a stay at home?
Speaker 7 (09:45):
Uh?
Speaker 5 (09:46):
You know? And I understand you're still doing some work
from home too, write.
Speaker 10 (09:51):
Oh yeah, I ran it up.
Speaker 1 (09:53):
Did your wife ever look at you differently when from
staying home?
Speaker 8 (09:58):
No?
Speaker 10 (09:58):
Because I made him almost five or fifteen grand with
in the month kind of in the marijuana industry over
there in California. Okay, So, but there was just times
to where I found like certain dying, Like there's a
random belt in the car and uh, you know kind
of like certain different clothing and I could have called
(10:22):
her name out on it, but to me, like my
main thing was keeping the family together, so I didn't
want to like call out for something I had no
proof for.
Speaker 4 (10:32):
But it was happening articles of clothing in the car
like a belt that No, definitely yeah, And you never
brought that to.
Speaker 5 (10:41):
Oh, no, I did.
Speaker 10 (10:42):
But it's kind of like, if you're dealing with the narcissist,
how are you going to convince them that it came
from them?
Speaker 1 (10:51):
What What was her explanation about the male some guy's
belt being in her car?
Speaker 5 (10:57):
Your wife, I don't know, that's it. She had no
exc I don't know. Yeah.
Speaker 10 (11:02):
Yeah, again, like I was saying, I'm not travel the lineup,
but I cannot felt it.
Speaker 5 (11:09):
But I had no proof.
Speaker 10 (11:10):
But at the same time, in my mind, it was
important to keep the family together. If she want to
do what she want to do. I mean, it really
doesn't hurt my manhood or whatever, but I just wanted
the kids to have mother and father at home, and
now they're not. Mom's in California. I moved back to
California to uh, I'm in down River now, and then
(11:31):
it's just meanly two kids.
Speaker 5 (11:33):
Wow, you got the custody huh uh.
Speaker 10 (11:36):
Yeah, it was not in paper, but just it's what's
best for them.
Speaker 3 (11:39):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (11:40):
Interesting, that's interesting that you were willing, you know, as
a state owned dad, just to give it up as
far as letting her do her thing, because you just
didn't want to disrupt your kids. That's got to be
so hard. I can't imagine art. What's up? You were
a stay at home dad?
Speaker 8 (11:58):
Yes, I was so the wife. Hey, respect her. I
love her to death. That's my girl. I was working
the stuff, I got sick.
Speaker 3 (12:07):
Her mama was sick. She is bread winner up until
like five years ago. You know that's some when I
started working and getting everything. But uh, you know that
phone call when you hear her talk like that to him, Uh,
I'm giving them hands. But as a man in the
stay at home dad, hearing that, you got a lot
of pride. You know if you ain't got the money,
(12:29):
but the girl does, and vice versa. I don't think
girls and females and no disrespect to women, but I
think they'll get it figured out, you know what I mean.
But as a man, we got so much, so much
pride and stuff.
Speaker 1 (12:41):
But was it hard for you knowing that she was
the bread the breadwinner, and she was the one with
the money and stuff like because you hear why stay
at home wives that say that, You know they if
their marriages are tough, they worry because that spouse of
theirs is the one making the money.
Speaker 3 (12:58):
So you know, it was even more difficult because for me,
you know, because I had a daughter, you know what
I mean. When we got together, she became a parent,
you know what I mean, And she held us both down.
You know, I was helping out with her mom or
mom was sick and everything. We lost her in twenty nineteen.
We had three deaths. But you know what I mean,
like she played the role as a mom. You know,
(13:20):
she's bussing her butt. You know, me, I was sick
for like a long time or whatever, and then but
you know what I mean, like she just she locked
it down. She was always there for me. She still is,
you know what I mean. Every relationship goes through something.
Speaker 8 (13:35):
I believe communication is key.
Speaker 5 (13:37):
Did you ever worry about her with guys at her work?
Speaker 6 (13:41):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
You know, you know there was one time she told
me this Jamaican dudes that she had some cute feet
to find them the stuff.
Speaker 8 (13:50):
But I ain't do nothing, you know what I mean.
But she's an amazing woman, you know, like and uh,
you know, like I try to give her as much
as much pops as I can, you know, because at
(14:10):
the end of the day, you know, me being a
staying home dad, you know, I felt down. I put
myself down all the time. She's always there to pick
me up, motivate me, you know what I mean, Like
when you don't have that person in your life, like
trying to lift you up, you know.
Speaker 3 (14:23):
And if that in that situation with those two, I mean,
come on, a girl, you ain't going to nobody else.
I'm going with you. Then I'm gonna sending a car,
go sign the papers, get.
Speaker 8 (14:32):
Your house out.
Speaker 6 (14:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (14:34):
No, no, that's interesting, And I wonder if that's something
that Trey has to do, like, no, no, you're not
going to some guy's house in the middle of the
day or we all and one of the things we've
never gotten clarification on is was she going to his
house or is she going to him at work? And
we're still trying to figure that out.
Speaker 4 (14:52):
Well, but I still think come over after you get off,
like that doesn't seem like work to me.
Speaker 1 (15:00):
Well no, all right? Were the Roses hair on the
Mojo in the Morning show the whole of.
Speaker 5 (15:06):
The second date update the Roses. This is Mojo in
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