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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Budge in the Morning or the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So no cheater, I mean, well unless you're our listeners
who we've I believe trained you to believe everybody's cheating.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
The uh War of the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
This morning on the show, a wife suspects that her
husband is cheating because he is going away on a
vacation with his ex wife and their children.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
By the way, I do believe this.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I believe where they're going away on vacation plays a
part into why he is inviting his ex, but also
why he probably shouldn't be inviting his ex. Let me
kind of explain. So they're going to Hawaii. He's taking
the kids there for a vacation, and to me, that's
(00:57):
a very far place to go to and with kids
that are as young as his kids are. I mean,
that's a long way to travel, but it's also a
long way to travel with your ex wife. Like, I
just don't understand. I don't know, Tiffany, I'll grab you first.
I don't understand why you just don't have Heather come with.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Your thoughts on this.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, I would feel very uneasy about it. First of all,
it's your ex wife. If you all got along, then
you guys would go together. But since you guys are
already divorced, you should have went on vacation when you
guys were married. Why are you going on vutation now?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
And why aren't you.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Taking the new wife with you? Because the new wife
with you, then you would you know, you're creating that
new relationship with the kids at bond. But to take
the ex wife and leave the new wife at home,
I'd be following for a divorce.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
I'd be pissed.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
You would be while that you would think that this
is not a good enough relationship to stay in Hawaii.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Hawaii is in an exotic place. It's not a place
that you go and take a family vacation, like if
it was like Disneyland or like a fair or something
like that, or like something like local.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Did you say, yeah, by the way, I'm something like Okay,
we're going to like Chuck E Cheese or we're going
to like the fair grounds or something like that.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
But to take them to an exotic place like Hawaii
with your ex wife, that's something you should be doing
with your your wife now.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
And okay, you did the thing.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
I remember it was a different situation because so my
ex husband Andrew and I took our kids to Disney
World together. Was it last year or the year before,
I can't even remember. It was the year before last year,
and we were both we had both been in our
respective relationships for like a couple of months, so nobody
(02:55):
was married, and both of our you know, both Wes
and Andrew's now wife, knew the situation. They were cool
with it. That trip had been planned. I think now
that I don't think that trip would happen anymore. If
it did, it would be the respective partners would be
coming with. Now do I think that, like Andrew and
(03:16):
I could take the kids out to dinner or something,
the four of us. Yeah, that may or may not fly.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
But the vacation, now that like in this case, you know,
there are other families that have been created through marriage.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
It does get a little sticky.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Don't you also think though, that Disney made it the
easy reason why you get you did that because it's
kind of like about the kids.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
That's a vacation about the kids.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Uh yeah, And I mean we didn't stay obviously in
the same hotel room or anything like that. Like that
was all very separate.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
But do you believe though if you would have gone
to a place like a Hawaii, that would have been
maybe a different thing where you guys you know, no, really.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
No, I actually don't think I don't think the place
has anything to do.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think on the surface, it can make it seem
like it's more focused event on the kids of his disney.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You're still going anywhere.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, yeah, well but I think that like a disney,
like what the you know was just said, Like if
it's a place where you're taking your kids to go
have fun and you know the ride rides, there's let
me say this, there ain't no sex happening a disney.
You all, okay, goofy boy?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
How much fun was it? Goofy? Was it good for you?
For the whole? I think, you know, those situations.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I know that there are a lot of co parents
that can do that. But everybody's on board. Everybody's on
board with the situation. And clearly here you know you
have somebody who is not on board and very uncomfortable
with it. And it's also made to feel uncomfortable with like,
oh no, this is this is.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Our little family. You're not a part of this little feeling, right,
that's yucky. Uh, Brittany, your comment here? What are the
roseses mojo in the morning.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
We are here with me and.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
My girlfriend Trish, and we both are step parents and remarried,
and this would never fly with us. Like, first of all,
Hawaii is a straight romantic vacation they're giving your kids
maybe like hope that who knows how all these kids
are already feeling them that this is our happy family.
(05:29):
So now the new wife's and outcast.
Speaker 8 (05:31):
To this family, like it doesn't matter how good you
get along, like that's away on vacation and now that
this wife has to stay here and think for the
next week, Like, well, you know, it's just an uncomfortable feeling.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
We're spoth secure in our marriage and we would and
like we have like on my side we have good
like co parenteeing and everything. But I would never be
okay with that, Like would he be okay with her.
Speaker 8 (06:01):
For a week with her kids?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Yeah, listen when you're going three time zones over, you
know what I mean? I into it, And like you said,
it is a very romantic place.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Why he is you know that's yeah, not prioritizing the
new wife at all, and he is not. Thus doing
her in front of his children.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Wait, saying, so Brittany, who who is the other voice there?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
My girlfriend? So Brittany and seventeen years of experience as
a step there, and I will never want that.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Brittany and Trish say hello to Goofy. Goofy's on the
phone with us too, ladies looking for a.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Third Oh my god, you're ruining my childhood.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Ever been with an animation.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
You?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Look of the things I can do. We love you guys.
Thanks for listening together. I like that. I like that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Our friendship that listens to War of the Roses together
stays together.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
What's up Andy? Are you doing buddy?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
First off, were they getting different rooms at the motel?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay? I asked?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I asked Lydia to ask that question to them because
of by the way, this has not been a good
situation for that, you know, for Heather and they. He
he is saying that they are getting separate rooms. Wayne
said that they are getting separate rooms.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Okay, So by him, you know, he said, while we
discussed it, Now, does that mean that that he had
just assumed? Give her okay for them to go out
and just do what they want to do. Yeah, are
you right, because they discussed it, and how is he
one of those people? Well we discussed it, so you
shouldn't have anything to.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Say about Yeah, now that's that. That is one of
those ones where it's like, if it already has been
talked about, why are you still thinking that there's cheating
going on? You know, obviously she she doesn't feel comfortable
with it.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
But I think that when he said, well, we discussed it,
so do you think that gives him permission to do it?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Well, they discussed it, and that at that point she
should have put her opposition up to it, you know
what I mean? Like, if they discuss it and she
still is wavering on what's going on and then calling
us up to do war the Roses, you know, that's
bad communication on her part. You know, it's not not
a smart move on her part to do. But and
(08:34):
now she's in a you know, bad situation with him.
What's going on, Susan, what's happening is Mojo in the
morning War the Roses Again, if you're just tuning in,
we had Heather on with us who suspected that her
husband was cheating with his ex wife because he is
taking his ex wife and his children to Hawaii on
vacation next week together.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
What's up?
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Okay, excuse me. I don't think he's cheating. I think
he's very misguided. He's trying to keep the peace between
these two women who do not get along. And when
I say misguided, that's being nice for them. He is
giving his children, and I don't know how old they are,
(09:16):
I don't care if they're two or ten, a false
narrative of what their family looks like. Their family with
him now looks like him, Hather and the kids, not
the ex wife.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
I mean, it's just I don't know if I agree
with that part of your comment, because I do believe
that that's always going to be your family. That's always mom,
dad and the kids. But I think that he needs
to prioritize and show that stepmom is also part of
that family now.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Right, No, No, I agree. I mean, I have my
husband's ex wife over.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
She'll be here Easter.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
I totally agree with that. But I mean, they're not
in a good place. So what you're teaching the kids
is that you know, kids, no matter what age, they're
going to be like, oh, well the stepmoms at home,
so are my mom and dad? Getting back together.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I think that sometimes that does bring a false you
know thought to the kids. You know that that dad
and mom are together, especially when dad and mom are
having fun together, you.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Know exactly, it's a pretty picture. And then and then
they're going to go home and go it's confusing.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Yeah, I think it's confusing for the kids.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Bruno, Bruno, this is a comment here, Bruno, would you
want to say.
Speaker 9 (10:41):
Okay, so I'm looking at this, you know, very differently.
First of all, the husband said that Heather doesn't get
along with the ex wife, and they don't. The kids
don't get to see Heather as much, which gives me
the impression that the kids probably have not bonded with Heather. Now,
if Heather works go on that trip with the kids
(11:03):
and the husband, chances are they might not like that trip.
They might be miserable. So if those kids probably don't
like Heather now, they're probably do not hate her doing
that trip.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
So I see that, and I think you're what you're
saying is you're saying, maybe the kids don't want Heather
on this trip. But I think as a as a
you know, the father needs to put the line in
the sand, draw the line in the sand and say
this is my wife. And you know, I don't think it.
I don't think it makes the kids like Heather anymore
that she's not there and they're having the time of
(11:38):
their lives without her. You know, maybe this is a
great opportunity to bring Heather and not have it be
a situation where the kids further hate Heather, you know,
And I don't know if they hate Heather, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Like, I know that it sounds to.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Me like Heather does not have a good relationship with
Alicia the ex wife exactly.
Speaker 9 (11:56):
And who knows what Alicia has been telling the kids too.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Well, I am just telling you this right now that
I would like to see if we had a budget,
like you know Howard Stern has, I would like to
send Kevin on this trip with them with a GoPro
and go, yeah, could you imagine what this is going
to be like? Like, wouldn't it be great if we
(12:21):
as a show could send Heather out there and put
her up in her room so that she can be
close to them in Hawaii? I meanf we had budget, like,
we can't even put her up at the Holiday inn
down the street on Haggarty.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
You know
Budge in the Morning or the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:05):
So no cheater, I mean, well unless you're our listeners
who we've I believe trained you to believe everybody's cheating.
Speaker 1 (00:17):
The uh War of the Roses.
Speaker 2 (00:18):
This morning on the show, a wife suspects that her
husband is cheating because he is going away on a
vacation with his ex wife and their children.
Speaker 1 (00:32):
By the way, I do believe this.
Speaker 2 (00:35):
I believe where they're going away on vacation plays a
part into why he is inviting his ex, but also
why he probably shouldn't be inviting his ex. Let me
kind of explain. So they're going to Hawaii. He's taking
the kids there for a vacation, and to me, that's
(00:57):
a very far place to go to and with kids
that are as young as his kids are. I mean,
that's a long way to travel, but it's also a
long way to travel with your ex wife. Like, I
just don't understand. I don't know, Tiffany, I'll grab you first.
I don't understand why you just don't have Heather come with.
Speaker 1 (01:20):
Your thoughts on this.
Speaker 3 (01:22):
Well, I would feel very uneasy about it. First of all,
it's your ex wife. If you all got along, then
you guys would go together. But since you guys are
already divorced, you should have went on vacation when you
guys were married. Why are you going on vutation now?
Speaker 4 (01:39):
And why aren't you.
Speaker 3 (01:40):
Taking the new wife with you? Because the new wife
with you, then you would you know, you're creating that
new relationship with the kids at bond. But to take
the ex wife and leave the new wife at home,
I'd be following for a divorce.
Speaker 5 (01:53):
I'd be pissed.
Speaker 2 (01:54):
You would be while that you would think that this
is not a good enough relationship to stay in Hawaii.
Speaker 3 (02:01):
Hawaii is in an exotic place. It's not a place
that you go and take a family vacation, like if
it was like Disneyland or like a fair or something
like that, or like something like local.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Did you say, yeah, by the way, I'm something like Okay,
we're going to like Chuck E Cheese or we're going
to like the fair grounds or something like that.
Speaker 3 (02:22):
But to take them to an exotic place like Hawaii
with your ex wife, that's something you should be doing
with your your wife now.
Speaker 1 (02:28):
And okay, you did the thing.
Speaker 6 (02:33):
I remember it was a different situation because so my
ex husband Andrew and I took our kids to Disney
World together. Was it last year or the year before,
I can't even remember. It was the year before last year,
and we were both we had both been in our
respective relationships for like a couple of months, so nobody
(02:55):
was married, and both of our you know, both Wes
and Andrew's now wife, knew the situation. They were cool
with it. That trip had been planned. I think now
that I don't think that trip would happen anymore. If
it did, it would be the respective partners would be
coming with. Now do I think that, like Andrew and
(03:16):
I could take the kids out to dinner or something,
the four of us. Yeah, that may or may not fly.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (03:21):
But the vacation, now that like in this case, you know,
there are other families that have been created through marriage.
Speaker 1 (03:30):
It does get a little sticky.
Speaker 2 (03:31):
Don't you also think though, that Disney made it the
easy reason why you get you did that because it's
kind of like about the kids.
Speaker 1 (03:39):
That's a vacation about the kids.
Speaker 6 (03:41):
Uh yeah, And I mean we didn't stay obviously in
the same hotel room or anything like that. Like that
was all very separate.
Speaker 2 (03:46):
But do you believe though if you would have gone
to a place like a Hawaii, that would have been
maybe a different thing where you guys you know, no, really.
Speaker 6 (03:56):
No, I actually don't think I don't think the place
has anything to do.
Speaker 1 (04:00):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (04:01):
I think on the surface, it can make it seem
like it's more focused event on the kids of his disney.
Speaker 1 (04:07):
You're still going anywhere.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
Yeah, yeah, well but I think that like a disney,
like what the you know was just said, Like if
it's a place where you're taking your kids to go
have fun and you know the ride rides, there's let
me say this, there ain't no sex happening a disney.
You all, okay, goofy boy?
Speaker 1 (04:34):
How much fun was it? Goofy? Was it good for you?
For the whole? I think, you know, those situations.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
I know that there are a lot of co parents
that can do that. But everybody's on board. Everybody's on
board with the situation. And clearly here you know you
have somebody who is not on board and very uncomfortable
with it. And it's also made to feel uncomfortable with like,
oh no, this is this is.
Speaker 1 (04:57):
Our little family. You're not a part of this little feeling, right,
that's yucky. Uh, Brittany, your comment here? What are the
roseses mojo in the morning.
Speaker 4 (05:07):
We are here with me and.
Speaker 7 (05:08):
My girlfriend Trish, and we both are step parents and remarried,
and this would never fly with us. Like, first of all,
Hawaii is a straight romantic vacation they're giving your kids
maybe like hope that who knows how all these kids
are already feeling them that this is our happy family.
(05:29):
So now the new wife's and outcast.
Speaker 8 (05:31):
To this family, like it doesn't matter how good you
get along, like that's away on vacation and now that
this wife has to stay here and think for the
next week, Like, well, you know, it's just an uncomfortable feeling.
Speaker 7 (05:45):
We're spoth secure in our marriage and we would and
like we have like on my side we have good
like co parenteeing and everything. But I would never be
okay with that, Like would he be okay with her.
Speaker 8 (06:01):
For a week with her kids?
Speaker 2 (06:03):
Yeah, listen when you're going three time zones over, you
know what I mean? I into it, And like you said,
it is a very romantic place.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Why he is you know that's yeah, not prioritizing the
new wife at all, and he is not. Thus doing
her in front of his children.
Speaker 2 (06:23):
Wait, saying, so Brittany, who who is the other voice there?
Speaker 3 (06:28):
My girlfriend? So Brittany and seventeen years of experience as
a step there, and I will never want that.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
Brittany and Trish say hello to Goofy. Goofy's on the
phone with us too, ladies looking for a.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Third Oh my god, you're ruining my childhood.
Speaker 1 (06:49):
Ever been with an animation.
Speaker 5 (06:53):
You?
Speaker 1 (06:53):
Look of the things I can do. We love you guys.
Thanks for listening together. I like that. I like that.
Speaker 2 (07:05):
Our friendship that listens to War of the Roses together
stays together.
Speaker 1 (07:08):
What's up Andy? Are you doing buddy?
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Hey?
Speaker 5 (07:12):
First off, were they getting different rooms at the motel?
Speaker 1 (07:17):
Okay? I asked?
Speaker 2 (07:18):
I asked Lydia to ask that question to them because
of by the way, this has not been a good
situation for that, you know, for Heather and they. He
he is saying that they are getting separate rooms. Wayne
said that they are getting separate rooms.
Speaker 5 (07:32):
Okay, So by him, you know, he said, while we
discussed it, Now, does that mean that that he had
just assumed? Give her okay for them to go out
and just do what they want to do. Yeah, are
you right, because they discussed it, and how is he
one of those people? Well we discussed it, so you
shouldn't have anything to.
Speaker 2 (07:51):
Say about Yeah, now that's that. That is one of
those ones where it's like, if it already has been
talked about, why are you still thinking that there's cheating
going on? You know, obviously she she doesn't feel comfortable
with it.
Speaker 5 (08:07):
But I think that when he said, well, we discussed it,
so do you think that gives him permission to do it?
Speaker 2 (08:14):
Well, they discussed it, and that at that point she
should have put her opposition up to it, you know
what I mean? Like, if they discuss it and she
still is wavering on what's going on and then calling
us up to do war the Roses, you know, that's
bad communication on her part. You know, it's not not
a smart move on her part to do. But and
(08:34):
now she's in a you know, bad situation with him.
What's going on, Susan, what's happening is Mojo in the
morning War the Roses Again, if you're just tuning in,
we had Heather on with us who suspected that her
husband was cheating with his ex wife because he is
taking his ex wife and his children to Hawaii on
vacation next week together.
Speaker 1 (08:53):
What's up?
Speaker 4 (08:55):
Okay, excuse me. I don't think he's cheating. I think
he's very misguided. He's trying to keep the peace between
these two women who do not get along. And when
I say misguided, that's being nice for them. He is
giving his children, and I don't know how old they are,
(09:16):
I don't care if they're two or ten, a false
narrative of what their family looks like. Their family with
him now looks like him, Hather and the kids, not
the ex wife.
Speaker 6 (09:29):
I mean, it's just I don't know if I agree
with that part of your comment, because I do believe
that that's always going to be your family. That's always mom,
dad and the kids. But I think that he needs
to prioritize and show that stepmom is also part of
that family now.
Speaker 4 (09:48):
Right, No, No, I agree. I mean, I have my
husband's ex wife over.
Speaker 1 (09:55):
She'll be here Easter.
Speaker 4 (09:57):
I totally agree with that. But I mean, they're not
in a good place. So what you're teaching the kids
is that you know, kids, no matter what age, they're
going to be like, oh, well the stepmoms at home,
so are my mom and dad? Getting back together.
Speaker 2 (10:14):
I think that sometimes that does bring a false you
know thought to the kids. You know that that dad
and mom are together, especially when dad and mom are
having fun together, you.
Speaker 4 (10:24):
Know exactly, it's a pretty picture. And then and then
they're going to go home and go it's confusing.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Yeah, I think it's confusing for the kids.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Bruno, Bruno, this is a comment here, Bruno, would you
want to say.
Speaker 9 (10:41):
Okay, so I'm looking at this, you know, very differently.
First of all, the husband said that Heather doesn't get
along with the ex wife, and they don't. The kids
don't get to see Heather as much, which gives me
the impression that the kids probably have not bonded with Heather. Now,
if Heather works go on that trip with the kids
(11:03):
and the husband, chances are they might not like that trip.
They might be miserable. So if those kids probably don't
like Heather now, they're probably do not hate her doing
that trip.
Speaker 2 (11:16):
So I see that, and I think you're what you're
saying is you're saying, maybe the kids don't want Heather
on this trip. But I think as a as a
you know, the father needs to put the line in
the sand, draw the line in the sand and say
this is my wife. And you know, I don't think it.
I don't think it makes the kids like Heather anymore
that she's not there and they're having the time of
(11:38):
their lives without her. You know, maybe this is a
great opportunity to bring Heather and not have it be
a situation where the kids further hate Heather, you know,
And I don't know if they hate Heather, you know
what I mean?
Speaker 1 (11:49):
Like, I know that it sounds to.
Speaker 2 (11:51):
Me like Heather does not have a good relationship with
Alicia the ex wife exactly.
Speaker 9 (11:56):
And who knows what Alicia has been telling the kids too.
Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Well, I am just telling you this right now that
I would like to see if we had a budget,
like you know Howard Stern has, I would like to
send Kevin on this trip with them with a GoPro
and go, yeah, could you imagine what this is going
to be like? Like, wouldn't it be great if we
(12:21):
as a show could send Heather out there and put
her up in her room so that she can be
close to them in Hawaii? I meanf we had budget, like,
we can't even put her up at the Holiday inn
down the street on Haggarty.
Speaker 1 (12:33):
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