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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Joins a discussion now eight four four Mojo Live four
six eight.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
This is Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Mojo in the Morning, War of the Roses.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Eight years is a long time to be in a
relationship with someone in the relationship not to take to
the next level, or at least be talking about that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
It also blows my mind how many times guys will
send the flowers to just some random person at work
and nothing that that's a big deal.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Yeah, do we know that who this person is or
do we know who this random person is?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Because honestly, I think you're right.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I'm just assuming work, but I'm but you know what
I'm saying, like to a random person and be like,
oh she you know, just somebody I know?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Find find out? Uh, Lydia, let's find out who this
person is. If there's a somebody that knows anybody that
its name is Reagan that has been hanging out with
an Ethan, you got to call us up because sometimes
that's where we end up getting the details. Uh, what's up.
It's Mojo in the Morning Show. Melissa wants to make
a comment. What's going on? Melissa?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Hey, guys, so.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
My comment is, after eight years, you're still using protection
with your girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
That's a red flake for me right there. Why because
to me.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
If you're you're going to use other protection a guy
who wants to use protection, it takes away a lot
of the pleasure.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
It's, you know, the pleasure for not pregnant. That that
pleasure is the peace of mind and.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Other other other ways for that.
Speaker 7 (01:54):
I know somebody who's gotten pregnant on every other method
and let me tell you, I'm on birth control and
I still require him to wear a condom. Condoms can
break and my birth control can be wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
And that actually doesn't strike me as odd as the
fact that they've been together for eight years and well
there's there's no talk of another stuff in the release.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
That strikes me as more odd.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
But it also strikes me as more as odd is
that his excuse to why the condoms are suddenly after
eight years in the car is because he would like
to explore more interesting forms of sex right.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
There, just in case, because we all know how prepared
guys are.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Yeah, let's I'm gonna put by the way, one of them.
That's all I want to do is one time, because.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
One though they don't do.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
It in the gore Honestly, I think cars is uncomfortable
to have relations and to bake cookies.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
And I disagree with you.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The cars are not fun.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
You don't drive the kind of cars I drive.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
What's up, uh, Lara, what's up? Hey?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Good morning?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
So I was thinking what the kind of thing as well?
He probably is sleeping with other women and maybe just
doesn't want to pass anything along or potentially have a kid,
you know, because he's wearing protection.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Well that's that's probably the case, is that at least
he's wearing protection, so he's not carrying any kind of
diseases or anything like that to uh, you know, to her,
to Erdonica.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
I think about it like this, if you get your
significant other an STD, they know instantaneously you were cheating
on they would know right way.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
I agree with you on that, but I also but
I also say, thank god that he's not trying to
get her, you know, uh, infected with somebody else.
Speaker 8 (03:47):
It ain't even about it ain't about getting her effected.
That he don't want to get affected himself. Well that too,
but at least he's a responsible cheater. Let's give him
credit for that. Eight four four Mojo Live eight four
four sixty six five.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Six for eight?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Is there or are we looking for just a topic here?
A red flag in the fact that they've been together
for eight years and there has not been any kind
of more of a commitment. Eight years is a long time, folks.
That is two years shy of ten years. What's going on, VICKI.
Speaker 9 (04:19):
Yeah, you can totally hear him start to say yeah
when she asked, do you think I'm stupid?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
The stuff that you guys pick up that we don't
we're recording them is so brilliant. I applaud you for
discovering that.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Hey, Vicky, do you think eight years is a long
time without a more committed relationship?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (04:41):
Yeah, Oh yeah, that's toy too long.
Speaker 8 (04:44):
Yeah, some people don't want to be married, bro, which
is very true.
Speaker 9 (04:47):
You don't want to be married, But if you're dating
with the intention of marriage, eight years is too long.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Because you know what eight years says to me, commitment?
Speaker 8 (04:54):
Yeah, some people are literally just had his conversation maybe
about a week ago, young lady that I'm not dating.
She was a friend and we were around a group
of friends and it came up and she said, as
long as we're locked in together and I know you're
my person. Putting a ring on my finger doesn't change
anything for her in her mind, she said, it only
creates more financial problems and a whole bunch of other stuff.
(05:17):
But if we can stay committed in this relationship and
know that I'm with you, You're with me, that's all
I need.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Hi, Alison, what's going on?
Speaker 8 (05:23):
Yeah, it is definitely a red flag.
Speaker 9 (05:26):
After eight years.
Speaker 8 (05:27):
Yeah, after one year.
Speaker 9 (05:28):
We getting engaged, Bookie, in the next year we get married.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Are you? Are you saying Kevin?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Why does he Why does he always have to pinpoint this?
He's profiling you, Allison. He shouldn't be doing that. John
a little tight, Alison. The if you found a lone
condom in your guy's car when you guys never are
going into the car to go do this, you're or you're.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Not get the bail money?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
How we question for you? I've never asked this question
of anybody. How would you kill him? I've been watching
Dateline NBC's lately. It's all anti freeze. Everybody uses anti
freeze to kill.
Speaker 8 (06:16):
It's a different one.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Chelsea and I watched two episodes of Dateline NBC back
to back, and they were both anti freeze, and I
said to her, I go, I'm going to uh oh oh, Riley, listen.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It doesn't mean they check for that on the toxicology.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Now, I say, it does not matter how you do it.
You just got to get rid of the body. Nobody,
no grind. I will say this though.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah, I have seen movies where they take like pliers
and peel off the fingers.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I do kind of want to do that a little bit.
Samantha's just torture. What's going on, Samantha that much?
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Me and my husband didn't get married till after we
had been together for ten years, and we've now been together.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
For eighteen.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
And I still have him use protection even though my
tubes are tied. Because I know two people whose tubes
reattached and they got pregnant like ten years after they
were well grown.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Why why tie your tubes then?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Were you doing it for medical reasons or because I
would at that point?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Why go through the surgery? None of them work.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
We have to do something because you guys won't wear condoms,
I think.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Sections.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
So I was yeah, table, so I said, go ahead
and time and.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
A lot of women do that.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
By the way, the worst thing ever is getting it
for a guy, don't ever get vasseectomies. I'm against vassectomies.
It completely screws you up as a guy to get
a v sect.
Speaker 7 (07:43):
On hormones for all over the life.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
I would rather wear protection and wear good old fashioned
Uh you know condoms?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
What's out now? That doesn't never work? Drive away? Yes,
what's going on? And hi?
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (08:00):
Okay? One pull out method not effective?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
My husband and I now, but we met at twenty
and he knew that I didn't want a long engagement,
so if he was planning on proposing, it needed to
be at a time in our lives where we were
financially stable to have the wedding that we wanted, and
so we prioritized other things. First, people thought we were crazy,
but we bought a house together at twenty three, both
of our names on it. We were not married. We
(08:26):
knew that we wanted to be together, but we were
prioritizing different things. First, we went on big vacations, we
had fun, and then at twenty nine we got married.
And now we're thirty five, so we've been together for
fifteen years now. I don't think that it was a
red flag at all. It was just what we agreed on.
So I don't think if you both agree on it,
it's not it's not a sign that something's wrong with
(08:47):
the relationship.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Well, I think also the other thing problem in this
relationship is they don't talk about it, like Erica brought
it up more with us than she probably did with him,
And I think that.
Speaker 9 (08:58):
That's just And vacation is so key in any relationships,
and if you can't talk about things like that with
your partner, you shouldn't be with them.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
But this is also an intuition situation too, where her
you know, intuitive side, aside from the condom, was hey,
he has cheated before on me in the past, and
this seems like he's doing something a little shady right
now
Speaker 3 (09:17):
All right, War of the Roses
Joins a discussion now eight four four Mojo Live four
six eight.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
This is Mojo in the Morning.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
Mojo in the Morning, War of the Roses.
Speaker 4 (00:28):
Eight years is a long time to be in a
relationship with someone in the relationship not to take to
the next level, or at least be talking about that.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
It also blows my mind how many times guys will
send the flowers to just some random person at work
and nothing that that's a big deal.
Speaker 4 (00:49):
Yeah, do we know that who this person is or
do we know who this random person is?
Speaker 3 (00:53):
Because honestly, I think you're right.
Speaker 1 (00:55):
I'm just assuming work, but I'm but you know what
I'm saying, like to a random person and be like,
oh she you know, just somebody I know?
Speaker 4 (01:02):
Find find out? Uh, Lydia, let's find out who this
person is. If there's a somebody that knows anybody that
its name is Reagan that has been hanging out with
an Ethan, you got to call us up because sometimes
that's where we end up getting the details. Uh, what's up.
It's Mojo in the Morning Show. Melissa wants to make
a comment. What's going on? Melissa?
Speaker 5 (01:24):
Hey, guys, so.
Speaker 6 (01:25):
My comment is, after eight years, you're still using protection
with your girlfriend.
Speaker 3 (01:30):
That's a red flake for me right there. Why because
to me.
Speaker 6 (01:35):
If you're you're going to use other protection a guy
who wants to use protection, it takes away a lot
of the pleasure.
Speaker 7 (01:43):
It's, you know, the pleasure for not pregnant. That that
pleasure is the peace of mind and.
Speaker 3 (01:52):
Other other other ways for that.
Speaker 7 (01:54):
I know somebody who's gotten pregnant on every other method
and let me tell you, I'm on birth control and
I still require him to wear a condom. Condoms can
break and my birth control can be wrong.
Speaker 1 (02:07):
And that actually doesn't strike me as odd as the
fact that they've been together for eight years and well
there's there's no talk of another stuff in the release.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
That strikes me as more odd.
Speaker 4 (02:17):
But it also strikes me as more as odd is
that his excuse to why the condoms are suddenly after
eight years in the car is because he would like
to explore more interesting forms of sex right.
Speaker 1 (02:32):
There, just in case, because we all know how prepared
guys are.
Speaker 4 (02:36):
Yeah, let's I'm gonna put by the way, one of them.
That's all I want to do is one time, because.
Speaker 3 (02:40):
One though they don't do.
Speaker 4 (02:43):
It in the gore Honestly, I think cars is uncomfortable
to have relations and to bake cookies.
Speaker 1 (02:49):
And I disagree with you.
Speaker 3 (02:50):
The cars are not fun.
Speaker 4 (02:52):
You don't drive the kind of cars I drive.
Speaker 3 (02:59):
What's up, uh, Lara, what's up? Hey?
Speaker 2 (03:02):
Good morning?
Speaker 5 (03:03):
So I was thinking what the kind of thing as well?
He probably is sleeping with other women and maybe just
doesn't want to pass anything along or potentially have a kid,
you know, because he's wearing protection.
Speaker 4 (03:18):
Well that's that's probably the case, is that at least
he's wearing protection, so he's not carrying any kind of
diseases or anything like that to uh, you know, to her,
to Erdonica.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
I think about it like this, if you get your
significant other an STD, they know instantaneously you were cheating
on they would know right way.
Speaker 4 (03:38):
I agree with you on that, but I also but
I also say, thank god that he's not trying to
get her, you know, uh, infected with somebody else.
Speaker 8 (03:47):
It ain't even about it ain't about getting her effected.
That he don't want to get affected himself. Well that too,
but at least he's a responsible cheater. Let's give him
credit for that. Eight four four Mojo Live eight four
four sixty six five.
Speaker 3 (03:59):
Six for eight?
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Is there or are we looking for just a topic here?
A red flag in the fact that they've been together
for eight years and there has not been any kind
of more of a commitment. Eight years is a long time, folks.
That is two years shy of ten years. What's going on, VICKI.
Speaker 9 (04:19):
Yeah, you can totally hear him start to say yeah
when she asked, do you think I'm stupid?
Speaker 1 (04:25):
The stuff that you guys pick up that we don't
we're recording them is so brilliant. I applaud you for
discovering that.
Speaker 4 (04:34):
Hey, Vicky, do you think eight years is a long
time without a more committed relationship?
Speaker 3 (04:41):
Oh?
Speaker 9 (04:41):
Yeah, Oh yeah, that's toy too long.
Speaker 8 (04:44):
Yeah, some people don't want to be married, bro, which
is very true.
Speaker 9 (04:47):
You don't want to be married, But if you're dating
with the intention of marriage, eight years is too long.
Speaker 3 (04:52):
Because you know what eight years says to me, commitment?
Speaker 8 (04:54):
Yeah, some people are literally just had his conversation maybe
about a week ago, young lady that I'm not dating.
She was a friend and we were around a group
of friends and it came up and she said, as
long as we're locked in together and I know you're
my person. Putting a ring on my finger doesn't change
anything for her in her mind, she said, it only
creates more financial problems and a whole bunch of other stuff.
(05:17):
But if we can stay committed in this relationship and
know that I'm with you, You're with me, that's all
I need.
Speaker 3 (05:21):
Hi, Alison, what's going on?
Speaker 8 (05:23):
Yeah, it is definitely a red flag.
Speaker 9 (05:26):
After eight years.
Speaker 8 (05:27):
Yeah, after one year.
Speaker 9 (05:28):
We getting engaged, Bookie, in the next year we get married.
Speaker 3 (05:33):
Are you? Are you saying Kevin?
Speaker 4 (05:40):
Why does he Why does he always have to pinpoint this?
He's profiling you, Allison. He shouldn't be doing that. John
a little tight, Alison. The if you found a lone
condom in your guy's car when you guys never are
going into the car to go do this, you're or you're.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Not get the bail money?
Speaker 4 (06:03):
How we question for you? I've never asked this question
of anybody. How would you kill him? I've been watching
Dateline NBC's lately. It's all anti freeze. Everybody uses anti
freeze to kill.
Speaker 8 (06:16):
It's a different one.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
Chelsea and I watched two episodes of Dateline NBC back
to back, and they were both anti freeze, and I
said to her, I go, I'm going to uh oh oh, Riley, listen.
Speaker 1 (06:32):
It doesn't mean they check for that on the toxicology.
Speaker 3 (06:34):
Now, I say, it does not matter how you do it.
You just got to get rid of the body. Nobody,
no grind. I will say this though.
Speaker 8 (06:42):
Yeah, I have seen movies where they take like pliers
and peel off the fingers.
Speaker 3 (06:47):
I do kind of want to do that a little bit.
Samantha's just torture. What's going on, Samantha that much?
Speaker 6 (06:57):
Me and my husband didn't get married till after we
had been together for ten years, and we've now been together.
Speaker 3 (07:01):
For eighteen.
Speaker 6 (07:04):
And I still have him use protection even though my
tubes are tied. Because I know two people whose tubes
reattached and they got pregnant like ten years after they
were well grown.
Speaker 3 (07:15):
Why why tie your tubes then?
Speaker 4 (07:18):
Were you doing it for medical reasons or because I
would at that point?
Speaker 3 (07:21):
Why go through the surgery? None of them work.
Speaker 7 (07:23):
We have to do something because you guys won't wear condoms,
I think.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
Sections.
Speaker 6 (07:28):
So I was yeah, table, so I said, go ahead
and time and.
Speaker 1 (07:31):
A lot of women do that.
Speaker 3 (07:33):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:33):
By the way, the worst thing ever is getting it
for a guy, don't ever get vasseectomies. I'm against vassectomies.
It completely screws you up as a guy to get
a v sect.
Speaker 7 (07:43):
On hormones for all over the life.
Speaker 4 (07:45):
I would rather wear protection and wear good old fashioned
Uh you know condoms?
Speaker 3 (07:54):
What's out now? That doesn't never work? Drive away? Yes,
what's going on? And hi?
Speaker 5 (08:00):
Hi?
Speaker 9 (08:00):
Okay? One pull out method not effective?
Speaker 3 (08:03):
Thank you.
Speaker 9 (08:05):
My husband and I now, but we met at twenty
and he knew that I didn't want a long engagement,
so if he was planning on proposing, it needed to
be at a time in our lives where we were
financially stable to have the wedding that we wanted, and
so we prioritized other things. First, people thought we were crazy,
but we bought a house together at twenty three, both
of our names on it. We were not married. We
(08:26):
knew that we wanted to be together, but we were
prioritizing different things. First, we went on big vacations, we
had fun, and then at twenty nine we got married.
And now we're thirty five, so we've been together for
fifteen years now. I don't think that it was a
red flag at all. It was just what we agreed on.
So I don't think if you both agree on it,
it's not it's not a sign that something's wrong with
(08:47):
the relationship.
Speaker 4 (08:48):
Well, I think also the other thing problem in this
relationship is they don't talk about it, like Erica brought
it up more with us than she probably did with him,
And I think that.
Speaker 9 (08:58):
That's just And vacation is so key in any relationships,
and if you can't talk about things like that with
your partner, you shouldn't be with them.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
But this is also an intuition situation too, where her
you know, intuitive side, aside from the condom, was hey,
he has cheated before on me in the past, and
this seems like he's doing something a little shady right
now
Speaker 3 (09:17):
All right, War of the Roses
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