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Speaker 1 (00:17):
Call Mojo in the morning eight four to four Mojo
Live eight four four sixty sixty five six five.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Four as I'm gonna say this, and then I want you,
if you have a opinion or a personal story, to
just simply text call me and I will make sure
that lovely Lydia calls you. Okay, So text me just
like you text your friends when you want to say
something to them. Just text call me, okay. The ninety
(00:44):
five five zero zero, here's the question. Just a second
ago and wore the roses, Brian heard his girlfriend with
a blatant other guy. It was obviously our Kevin, but
this guy obviously sounds like Kevin, and they were going
back and forth about wanting to be with each other.
(01:06):
We hung up the phone with Brian just a moment ago.
And the moment ago when we hung up, he said
to me, I don't know if I really want to
know who that guy is. I personally don't want to
sit there and try to sway him on this, but
I personally would want to know. I would want to know.
I would want to see what he looks like. I
(01:27):
would want to have a conversation of finding out where
they met. I would want to.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Know how often they're talking, how they're communicating, other than
what we already know.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
When did it start?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
But why this will change your opinion on the situation.
Like to me, I'm over it, I know what's going on.
I don't want anything to do.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
With see even though I'm there, I still want all
of the information.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
What it does for me is it's like a police report.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I want to know who was driving, where where they
were going, and how fast they were going. And I'm
going to say the reason why this relationship is I
don't be offended by this, Brian. This relationship ain't gonna last, right,
But with that said, I want to keep my relationships
lasting in the next you know, years, And I want
to know exactly what caused this relationship to happen. There
(02:16):
was obviously some kind of a connection that has happened
between this girl and what the hell was her name
of Kayla? Uh this girl and this other guy, and
we have no idea who this other guy is. So
quick comments and the d I've been on both sides
of the uh of. I guess the thought process.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I've been in a situation where I didn't want to
know anything, and I was comfortable being in the dark
quote unquote and moving on with my life and found.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Happiness, joy and success. Would that be in my reality?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
And then I've also been in a situation where no,
I need my police report, I'm asking you're being interrogated,
I'm asking a thousand questions, And I think, for me personally,
if there's nothing left in that relationship, then I don't
need to know anything. But if there's some symbolism of
like maybe there's something here in there, then I think
(03:10):
I may want to know more.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I agree with you, I'm both of those.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Yeah, I think it's honestly about the future. I think
it's really about the future not of just them, but
the future of Brian being able to get over it too.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Brendel, what's up.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Hey, longtime listener, first time college?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
What would you want to know?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
I would just want to say, I feel like the
obsessive and on the healthy side of me would want
to know who the person is. But I feel like
it would be healthier not to know, because if I knew,
I would just be comparing myself to them, and I
feel like nothing good would come out of it.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, I listen, I understand the whole comparison thing and
the mental anguish that would cause you by knowing this
whole thing. But I think you'd have that that if
you didn't know, you'd wonder and wonder.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Wondering might drive you crazy.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah, yeah, if you're if not necessarily, if you're insecure.
I don't want to start it like that. But if
it's a physical thing and you see the person and
you think that they look better than you, that's one
way of putting yourself down. And then on the other side,
if you don't think they look better to you, and
you're like, well.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Damn, they not even look as good as me. Do
you really feel out of place?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Hey, Brian, not this Brian that's in War of the Roses,
but a Brian who's a listener that wants to comment
on this.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Would you want to know?
Speaker 6 (04:30):
So if he wants to continue or try to repair
this relationship, then I can see a need to know.
But if this relationship is just done over with, we're
cutting ties, why put yourself through that pain in everything else?
Like you've figured out at this point that there's somebody else,
(04:51):
there's something going on. Yeah, she's not being honest with.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
You, Like so like that.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
I think that's enough enough of an answer right there
to not want to know. Unless you're genuinely wanting to
work it out with this person, and this person wants
to work it out with you, then then there needs
to be some openness about who, where, when and why
and all those you know questions at that point. But
if it's I it's over, then then it's just over.
Speaker 8 (05:17):
Who cares?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, and and I don't know where uh the other Brian?
Where the roses stands on that, Sherry, what's happening is
Mojoe in the morning?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Hi?
Speaker 8 (05:27):
I Yeah, what's done is John? Why would you want
to beat yourself up and dwell on all the gory details?
You know, she's doing what she's doing. She's done what
she's done, even if you are going to work it out,
which I would highly not recommend in that case, Why
would you want to beat yourself up with the gory
details and go over it in your head daily?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Because I don't think, you know, Brian has any blame
in this, but I do think that there's something that
maybe triggered her, and it might just be honestly, because
they've been together for two years, that's a long time,
but it might just be honestly that she's not the
type of person that can be in a relationship, at
least right now, and he was.
Speaker 8 (06:06):
It sounds to me like she's a selfish person who
want your cake and eat two. Yeah, and he doesn't
deserve that. And I hope he does move on from that.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, thank you Sherry for the call. I man, I.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Will tell you that he sounded really in a lot
of pain listening to this conversation. I don't know how
he was able to sit there and hear her so
excited about the idea that she was going to try
to make plans with this guy. Let's talk to some
people that have been through this that needed to know
and what's up, Tori?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Hi, how you doing.
Speaker 7 (06:41):
I'm good, good morning. How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (06:44):
You actually not necessarily needed to know, But that person
wanted to tell right.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Multiple times, like we were in a relationship for two years.
And it's funny because I wanted to get out of
the relationship. I could tell he was just shady. Tuition
was telling me he was shady, and he called me
once by mistake. I heard him and the girl talking
and I just hung up and text him like, don't
text me ever again, it's over. And week after week
(07:12):
she would send me messages, explicit videos from random numbers,
and you would no, she would yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
This was sham was saying, how how did you get
your number?
Speaker 7 (07:24):
I'm not sure. I don't know if she got it
from his phone, but she would send me explicit videos
of them, two of her performing X and.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I was doing that. I mean, that's harass.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I have no idea.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
I didn't even want to know. I didn't want to
ask him.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I didn't care.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
She's just like, it's over.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Did Wow? Did you watch the stuff that she sent you?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (07:50):
It was probably like twelve videos back back to back, and.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
You watched it because that would be top.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Well, I watched it because I'm like, let me make
sure this is him, even though I really didn't care,
but I'm like, wow, that's aggressive for you to sit
in these video.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
And it's funny because it started with h with do
you think that was a butt dial? Or do you
think that he or she.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
You?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
So you go got you're like the person you know,
they're like Brian here, you got to listen to him
with her, which is like our three way calls, that
we do all the time to hear exactly how he
was with her, and then it leads to that that's awful.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
I'm sorry that you dealt with that, Tori.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Oh, I'm glad because I needed to get out of it.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
Good afterwards.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Good for you, Thank you for the call. Voice disguis
this next one? Initial? D? Are you there?
Speaker 8 (08:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I'm here?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right? So I D's a guy, right, he's got nuts.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah, I'm gonna do Definitely, you're a dude, all right, D.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What's going on?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
So I've caught my significant other JD before. It's actually
my wife of now we've been together like almost ten years.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I've caught her multiple times.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
And I get it, and he want he don't want
to know, But I want to know, you know what
I mean. I want to know if this person been
around me and like blinking my wife, you know what
I mean? Yeah, But I think he don't want to
know because he may do something that he doesn't want
to do. You get what I'm saying, because you can
tell he.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Was kind of hurt.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
See, I I got some questions I want to ask you.
You caught your wife multiple times? You have kept in
the relationship what is the thing keeping you going?
Speaker 3 (09:35):
I mean, people make mistakes, and if you really want
to work it out, or you really love that.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Person, that's what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
At the end of the day, we look back at
it and laugh and you know what I mean. But
I love her, you know what I mean, and she
loves me, and we did what we had to do
to work it out and figure out what our issue was.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
And that's just what it is.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
We haven't had any more problems in years.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
How did you find out who the guys were that
she was cheating with?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
How did I find you knew that? Guys? Wow? Yeah,
I know the guy?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
And did you know that right off the bat? Or
did you have to do a little investigating, A.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Little bit investigating. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 8 (10:13):
I lie.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
When y'all called me and I said I didn't get
get back, I definitely got my get back.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Okay, explain, explain to me. Oh that's what this was
her you were I had.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
To get my get back.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Okay, man, you guys, yeah, long time geta get back?
Speaker 6 (10:35):
D you already know? Kevin?
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Do you live a very exhausting life, my friend? But
thank god, it's calm down and you guys are sitting
at home on the couch watching Netflix.
Speaker 8 (10:48):
Yeah, hopefully here it is.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'll make sure that you're okay. That voice of guy's
or machine is good. Hold ahead, Corey wants to say
something to Kevin. What did you want to say?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Corey Kojo?
Speaker 8 (11:03):
Long time?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Me love you, long time? I love you too? Thank you?
What's going on?
Speaker 6 (11:10):
I got I got this for keV ted with that
soutry voice you had, you could have did both.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Was for like a GPS app.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
The next at the next right, you have arrived at
Rby's and yes, baby, we have the meet.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Thank you Corey. But the second date update this Joe
in the morning
Call Mojo in the morning eight four to four Mojo
Live eight four four sixty sixty five six five.
Speaker 2 (00:22):
Four as I'm gonna say this, and then I want you,
if you have a opinion or a personal story, to
just simply text call me and I will make sure
that lovely Lydia calls you. Okay, So text me just
like you text your friends when you want to say
something to them. Just text call me, okay. The ninety
(00:44):
five five zero zero, here's the question. Just a second
ago and wore the roses, Brian heard his girlfriend with
a blatant other guy. It was obviously our Kevin, but
this guy obviously sounds like Kevin, and they were going
back and forth about wanting to be with each other.
(01:06):
We hung up the phone with Brian just a moment ago.
And the moment ago when we hung up, he said
to me, I don't know if I really want to
know who that guy is. I personally don't want to
sit there and try to sway him on this, but
I personally would want to know. I would want to know.
I would want to see what he looks like. I
(01:27):
would want to have a conversation of finding out where
they met. I would want to.
Speaker 3 (01:31):
Know how often they're talking, how they're communicating, other than
what we already know.
Speaker 1 (01:35):
When did it start?
Speaker 3 (01:36):
Yep?
Speaker 1 (01:36):
But why this will change your opinion on the situation.
Like to me, I'm over it, I know what's going on.
I don't want anything to do.
Speaker 2 (01:45):
With see even though I'm there, I still want all
of the information.
Speaker 1 (01:50):
What it does for me is it's like a police report.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I want to know who was driving, where where they
were going, and how fast they were going. And I'm
going to say the reason why this relationship is I
don't be offended by this, Brian. This relationship ain't gonna last, right,
But with that said, I want to keep my relationships
lasting in the next you know, years, And I want
to know exactly what caused this relationship to happen. There
(02:16):
was obviously some kind of a connection that has happened
between this girl and what the hell was her name
of Kayla? Uh this girl and this other guy, and
we have no idea who this other guy is. So
quick comments and the d I've been on both sides
of the uh of. I guess the thought process.
Speaker 4 (02:37):
I've been in a situation where I didn't want to
know anything, and I was comfortable being in the dark
quote unquote and moving on with my life and found.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Happiness, joy and success. Would that be in my reality?
Speaker 4 (02:48):
And then I've also been in a situation where no,
I need my police report, I'm asking you're being interrogated,
I'm asking a thousand questions, And I think, for me personally,
if there's nothing left in that relationship, then I don't
need to know anything. But if there's some symbolism of
like maybe there's something here in there, then I think
(03:10):
I may want to know more.
Speaker 1 (03:11):
I agree with you, I'm both of those.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
Yeah, I think it's honestly about the future. I think
it's really about the future not of just them, but
the future of Brian being able to get over it too.
Speaker 1 (03:20):
Brendel, what's up.
Speaker 5 (03:22):
Hey, longtime listener, first time college?
Speaker 1 (03:28):
What would you want to know?
Speaker 5 (03:30):
I would just want to say, I feel like the
obsessive and on the healthy side of me would want
to know who the person is. But I feel like
it would be healthier not to know, because if I knew,
I would just be comparing myself to them, and I
feel like nothing good would come out of it.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, I listen, I understand the whole comparison thing and
the mental anguish that would cause you by knowing this
whole thing. But I think you'd have that that if
you didn't know, you'd wonder and wonder.
Speaker 4 (03:59):
Yeah, that's true.
Speaker 5 (04:00):
Wondering might drive you crazy.
Speaker 4 (04:01):
Yeah, yeah, if you're if not necessarily, if you're insecure.
I don't want to start it like that. But if
it's a physical thing and you see the person and
you think that they look better than you, that's one
way of putting yourself down. And then on the other side,
if you don't think they look better to you, and
you're like, well.
Speaker 1 (04:17):
Damn, they not even look as good as me. Do
you really feel out of place?
Speaker 2 (04:20):
Hey, Brian, not this Brian that's in War of the Roses,
but a Brian who's a listener that wants to comment
on this.
Speaker 1 (04:28):
Would you want to know?
Speaker 6 (04:30):
So if he wants to continue or try to repair
this relationship, then I can see a need to know.
But if this relationship is just done over with, we're
cutting ties, why put yourself through that pain in everything else?
Like you've figured out at this point that there's somebody else,
(04:51):
there's something going on. Yeah, she's not being honest with.
Speaker 7 (04:54):
You, Like so like that.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
I think that's enough enough of an answer right there
to not want to know. Unless you're genuinely wanting to
work it out with this person, and this person wants
to work it out with you, then then there needs
to be some openness about who, where, when and why
and all those you know questions at that point. But
if it's I it's over, then then it's just over.
Speaker 8 (05:17):
Who cares?
Speaker 2 (05:18):
Yeah, and and I don't know where uh the other Brian?
Where the roses stands on that, Sherry, what's happening is
Mojoe in the morning?
Speaker 1 (05:26):
Hi?
Speaker 8 (05:27):
I Yeah, what's done is John? Why would you want
to beat yourself up and dwell on all the gory details?
You know, she's doing what she's doing. She's done what
she's done, even if you are going to work it out,
which I would highly not recommend in that case, Why
would you want to beat yourself up with the gory
details and go over it in your head daily?
Speaker 2 (05:48):
Because I don't think, you know, Brian has any blame
in this, but I do think that there's something that
maybe triggered her, and it might just be honestly, because
they've been together for two years, that's a long time,
but it might just be honestly that she's not the
type of person that can be in a relationship, at
least right now, and he was.
Speaker 8 (06:06):
It sounds to me like she's a selfish person who
want your cake and eat two. Yeah, and he doesn't
deserve that. And I hope he does move on from that.
Speaker 1 (06:15):
Yeah, thank you Sherry for the call. I man, I.
Speaker 2 (06:19):
Will tell you that he sounded really in a lot
of pain listening to this conversation. I don't know how
he was able to sit there and hear her so
excited about the idea that she was going to try
to make plans with this guy. Let's talk to some
people that have been through this that needed to know
and what's up, Tori?
Speaker 1 (06:40):
Hi, how you doing.
Speaker 7 (06:41):
I'm good, good morning. How are you guys?
Speaker 2 (06:44):
You actually not necessarily needed to know, But that person
wanted to tell right.
Speaker 7 (06:50):
Multiple times, like we were in a relationship for two years.
And it's funny because I wanted to get out of
the relationship. I could tell he was just shady. Tuition
was telling me he was shady, and he called me
once by mistake. I heard him and the girl talking
and I just hung up and text him like, don't
text me ever again, it's over. And week after week
(07:12):
she would send me messages, explicit videos from random numbers,
and you would no, she would yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1 (07:21):
This was sham was saying, how how did you get
your number?
Speaker 7 (07:24):
I'm not sure. I don't know if she got it
from his phone, but she would send me explicit videos
of them, two of her performing X and.
Speaker 1 (07:36):
I was doing that. I mean, that's harass.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
I have no idea.
Speaker 7 (07:40):
I didn't even want to know. I didn't want to
ask him.
Speaker 1 (07:43):
I didn't care.
Speaker 7 (07:44):
She's just like, it's over.
Speaker 1 (07:45):
Did Wow? Did you watch the stuff that she sent you?
Speaker 5 (07:50):
Yes?
Speaker 7 (07:50):
It was probably like twelve videos back back to back, and.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
You watched it because that would be top.
Speaker 7 (07:56):
Well, I watched it because I'm like, let me make
sure this is him, even though I really didn't care,
but I'm like, wow, that's aggressive for you to sit
in these video.
Speaker 1 (08:05):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (08:05):
And it's funny because it started with h with do
you think that was a butt dial? Or do you
think that he or she.
Speaker 7 (08:17):
You?
Speaker 2 (08:18):
So you go got you're like the person you know,
they're like Brian here, you got to listen to him
with her, which is like our three way calls, that
we do all the time to hear exactly how he
was with her, and then it leads to that that's awful.
Speaker 1 (08:32):
I'm sorry that you dealt with that, Tori.
Speaker 3 (08:34):
Oh, I'm glad because I needed to get out of it.
Speaker 7 (08:37):
Good afterwards.
Speaker 2 (08:39):
Good for you, Thank you for the call. Voice disguis
this next one? Initial? D? Are you there?
Speaker 8 (08:45):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (08:45):
I'm here?
Speaker 1 (08:46):
All right? So I D's a guy, right, he's got nuts.
Speaker 4 (08:50):
Yeah, I'm gonna do Definitely, you're a dude, all right, D.
Speaker 1 (08:54):
What's going on?
Speaker 4 (08:56):
Oh?
Speaker 3 (08:57):
So I've caught my significant other JD before. It's actually
my wife of now we've been together like almost ten years.
Speaker 4 (09:06):
I've caught her multiple times.
Speaker 3 (09:07):
And I get it, and he want he don't want
to know, But I want to know, you know what
I mean. I want to know if this person been
around me and like blinking my wife, you know what
I mean? Yeah, But I think he don't want to
know because he may do something that he doesn't want
to do. You get what I'm saying, because you can
tell he.
Speaker 1 (09:23):
Was kind of hurt.
Speaker 2 (09:24):
See, I I got some questions I want to ask you.
You caught your wife multiple times? You have kept in
the relationship what is the thing keeping you going?
Speaker 3 (09:35):
I mean, people make mistakes, and if you really want
to work it out, or you really love that.
Speaker 1 (09:39):
Person, that's what you want to do.
Speaker 3 (09:41):
At the end of the day, we look back at
it and laugh and you know what I mean. But
I love her, you know what I mean, and she
loves me, and we did what we had to do
to work it out and figure out what our issue was.
Speaker 8 (09:51):
And that's just what it is.
Speaker 3 (09:52):
We haven't had any more problems in years.
Speaker 2 (09:54):
How did you find out who the guys were that
she was cheating with?
Speaker 1 (09:58):
How did I find you knew that? Guys? Wow? Yeah,
I know the guy?
Speaker 2 (10:03):
And did you know that right off the bat? Or
did you have to do a little investigating, A.
Speaker 3 (10:11):
Little bit investigating. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 8 (10:13):
I lie.
Speaker 3 (10:13):
When y'all called me and I said I didn't get
get back, I definitely got my get back.
Speaker 1 (10:18):
Okay, explain, explain to me. Oh that's what this was
her you were I had.
Speaker 3 (10:23):
To get my get back.
Speaker 1 (10:24):
Okay, man, you guys, yeah, long time geta get back?
Speaker 6 (10:35):
D you already know? Kevin?
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Do you live a very exhausting life, my friend? But
thank god, it's calm down and you guys are sitting
at home on the couch watching Netflix.
Speaker 8 (10:48):
Yeah, hopefully here it is.
Speaker 2 (10:52):
I'll make sure that you're okay. That voice of guy's
or machine is good. Hold ahead, Corey wants to say
something to Kevin. What did you want to say?
Speaker 3 (11:00):
Corey Kojo?
Speaker 8 (11:03):
Long time?
Speaker 1 (11:04):
Me love you, long time? I love you too? Thank you?
What's going on?
Speaker 6 (11:10):
I got I got this for keV ted with that
soutry voice you had, you could have did both.
Speaker 1 (11:14):
Was for like a GPS app.
Speaker 3 (11:16):
The next at the next right, you have arrived at
Rby's and yes, baby, we have the meet.
Speaker 1 (11:27):
Thank you Corey. But the second date update this Joe
in the morning
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CrimeLess: Hillbilly Heist
It’s 1996 in rural North Carolina, and an oddball crew makes history when they pull off America’s third largest cash heist. But it’s all downhill from there. Join host Johnny Knoxville as he unspools a wild and woolly tale about a group of regular ‘ol folks who risked it all for a chance at a better life. CrimeLess: Hillbilly Heist answers the question: what would you do with 17.3 million dollars? The answer includes diamond rings, mansions, velvet Elvis paintings, plus a run for the border, murder-for-hire-plots, and FBI busts.