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Speaker 1 (00:00):
This is the home of Lord of the Roses. Mos
you in the morning. I hope this brings you some
joy the holiday season and happy holidays. Nice guy, huh uh?
That is Tanya's husband Patrick, sending flowers to a recently
(00:23):
divorced mom from their daughter's swim team. Now is what
he did wrong? Because he didn't see anything wrong with it.
He thought he was just trying to help out and
make somebody's season brighter after a horrible situation happened to them.
The phone numbers eight four tour Mojoe Live eight four
(00:44):
four six six five six' five four Eight, allison your
thoughts on this, One, Allison.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yes he's.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Wrong he is there.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Wrong what that.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Lady got going on and got none to do Whim
hunter boards ain't got nothing to do with. Him And
i'm pretty sure his wife has made it a point
to let him know that she's uncomfortable around this lady
and you're gonna go onto her flown and then the
kids hanging out like they're just a happy.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Family, Ye, no. WRONG i always love when the guy
is say BECAUSE i feel like this, scenario not the specific,
scenario but it's, like, oh it's somebody that's going through
a hard, time then why don't you sign the flowers
on behalf of the entire. Family even that to me
would be slightly weird, still but at least then it's
like our family is thinking about. You but, no it's
(01:31):
it's never.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
That he may not be, cheated but he's definitely. Interested, like,
yep he's interested in that. Woman, yeah And shannon said,
this why is your wife not top of?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Mind?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Like that's my biggest next? Point so long. Disbelief, hey hold,
On Alison ruba is on with us. Too ruba are you? There?
Hello you agree or disagree With? Alison?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh, YEAH i agree that. Part it ain't none of.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
His you.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Know IF i have, problems she got a.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Divorce, YEAH i got.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
To do with.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Him SO i don't like that. Take i'm gonna be
honest With. Joe, Clearly i'm not. Married i'm not in
a long term. RELATIONSHIP i don't know the rules and.
Regulations maybe they, differ BUT i could see a situation
or a scenario WHERE i would like to show my
sympathy towards.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Someone NOW i.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
DISAGREE i think you guys are. Correct why is your
wife not top of? Mind BUT i could see you
wanting to show someone supported in the time of distraught and.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
We were only talking about. FLOWER i will tell you
THAT i do think as a, GUY i think that,
sometimes you, know the intention is not always, sexual AND
i think that it initially goes always. SEXUAL i think that.
Women if a woman were to feel for a man
(02:56):
whose wife just recently cheated on him and left him
and be, like, oh, MAN i feel so bad for the,
guy we wouldn't right away go yeah you want to
you know WHAT i? Mean where a guy automatically guess.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
That but there's a big difference between a woman just, saying,
MAN i feel so bad for, him and then going
out and buying him you know. WHATEVER i. MEAN i
just think of my own situation because that's ALL i
have to compare it to of like we. Has wes
has bought things or done things for women in his
life when they were going through a tough. Time in,
fact it literally just happened this. Week but he was, like,
hey do you think it's a good idea IF i
(03:30):
GET i don't want to say her name, this you,
know because she's going through. Something AND i was, like, yes,
ABSOLUTELY i knew what it.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Was what was.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Happening who is the woman to? ME i don't know
THAT i want to say who it?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Is no SPECIFIC i have met, HER.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I know of, HER i know what she's. Going, yes,
Absolutely and he's like that Exactly that's What i'm. Saying
but he said it almost is then on behalf of,
us Like i'm aware that he is doing something for this.
WOMAN i was a part of the. Decision thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Session is it wrong you went through a, divorce and
when you went through a, DIVORCE i felt like you
AND i developed a very close relationship WHERE i was
trying to help you through what was a very tough
thing and also was not public on the radio at
the time before you even announced. It and so is
it wrong THAT i take you to a lunch or
whatever the deal?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Is but to be, fair When chelsea always knew if
that was. Happening two we were having conversations here in
the studio because certain things couldn't end up on the.
Air and three you never bought me anything or sent me.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Anything, WELL i get to tell, you SO i did
you just sent it? Back?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
No CAN i be? Honest CAN i be? Honest THOUGH
i don't know this guy's? INTENTIONS i do not think
that that what his message was was an intention Of
i'm going to eventually one day be in a relationship with.
YOU i don't know what his intention is when he's
talking to this woman at their swimming, events BUT i
will say this to, YOU i would worry more about
what he would be doing if he was not doing that,
(05:02):
publicly you know WHAT i. Mean like if publicly he's
talking to her and hanging out with her and being
friendly with, her and then he sends the flowers and
then he defends himself like, That i'm, Going, okay maybe
this guy really doesn't have a thing going with, her
like if he's on the sly hanging in the parking,
lot in the backseat of their, car you, know. Doing
but maybe.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Public stuff is tip of the. Iceberg and AGAIN i
go back, to if he's so, concerned then why doesn't
he send the flowers from him and his wife to?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Her? Yeah, NO i, mean, listen and it could be
tip of an. Iceberg but let's just hope that that
iceberg still stays. Icy what's going? On row.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
You don't?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Wanting first of, all pattes you a.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Cheater you're a.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Cheater you a cheaterah by, nature and you slick with.
It your wife is a. PRIORITY i don't care if
someone else is going through a. Divorce that's not your
place to comfort. Them they're going through a divorce or
they went through a. Divorce you wish doing, well the
best wishes and keeping. Moving not only that your wife
(06:02):
had already questioned you about the situation and got. Upset
woman's insuition is a woman's and it's something we're gonna
stand by that, point we already. Knew, yeah if you
already knew that your wife was uncomfortable with the situation
when she asks, you why would you still send this woman?
Flowers your concern is to make your wife feel comfortable
(06:26):
and make her feel that she can trust you in
the marriage that you have with. Her that other woman's
marriage is not your. Concern that's already for.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
One giving your.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Wife the assumption that she can't trust you by getting
upset when she questioned. You that's the first thing a
cheating man or a man who's on the next level
or going to the level of cheating of interest does
when he's questioned by his lady or by his. Wife
and then not only, that this is your child's sports,
(07:00):
mom one of the sports. Moms so now you've also
put your child in a bad space because if your
wife recognize, it you rest assured everyone else who sees
the intellection recognize.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
IT i have, OKAY i can tell you.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Don't put your family in that type of position. Now
even though it may not be, sexual it's something you're.
Interested as the previous call it, said you're very. Interested
and now you've caused a bigger problem in your household
where it's not going to be. Quiet so don't expect
for it to be quiet and easy going. Forward you're a.
(07:41):
Cheater you know you're a. Cheater you're manipulating and your.
Deceasing it's no, Way LIKE i sayd, before a woman's
intuition is a strong woman's, intuition and once we have that,
intuition ain't ain't no falling back from.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
It you're.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Cheated you're a Cheetah, patrick and you need your tail.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Looks thank you for the, call AND i know just
the person to do. It and your name starts with AN.
R what's going, On? Matt how you doing?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Good how are?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You? MATT i feel LIKE i literally just got yelled
at by my. Mom what do you want to?
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Say, oh, man, man, Now, MOJO i think you hit
it right at the. Beginning he's such a nice guy
for what he's. Doing he's a, nice nice. Man BUT
i would say he's not a nice man and a good,
man AND i think he's not a good. HUSBAND i
think he's one hundred percent of the. WRONG i think
there's definitely some underlying, thing AND i believe the whole
show just Did, like kudos to the whole. Show you
(08:39):
guys kept him, talking you kept it a safe place
for the caller that they called, in AND i think
just it was very well. Handled.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Yeah, well it's sad to say that now you have
just made the swim stuff that goes on between your
daughters really. Weird and that's the part that THAT i
think is too bad for This it's too bad For
tanya that she's got to go and subject herself to.
That it's also probably in some, regards it's too bad
(09:09):
for this woman that he sent the flowers, to because
now it's going to get even weirder for her With,
tanya uh and then the. Kids most, importantly it's too
bad for. Us so, WELL i appreciate you, Man thank
care take care of. Yourself i've never my kids never.
SWAM i, Know, shannon your kids. Swim does it get
steamy and hot inside inside of, swimming.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yes but like temperature, wise because you're in an, eddatorium not.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Relationship imagine the next time that these people get in
the same, place it's going to get even. Worse i'm
putting on my. Hat what do they call the swim swim?
Cap do they still wear? Those by the, Way, yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
That's HOW i always cheer for the wrong.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Kid they don't have like team names and stuff on
the on the sides of some of.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Their swim caps have their last. Name some of them.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Don't, well it's wore The roses hair on The mojo
in The morning show the whole of the Second Date
Update war The. Roses this Is mojo in The morning
This is the home of Lord of the Roses. Mos
you in the morning. I hope this brings you some
joy the holiday season and happy holidays. Nice guy, huh uh?
That is Tanya's husband Patrick, sending flowers to a recently
(00:23):
divorced mom from their daughter's swim team. Now is what
he did wrong? Because he didn't see anything wrong with it.
He thought he was just trying to help out and
make somebody's season brighter after a horrible situation happened to them.
The phone numbers eight four tour Mojoe Live eight four
(00:44):
four six six five six' five four Eight, allison your
thoughts on this, One, Allison.
Speaker 2 (00:51):
Yes he's.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Wrong he is there.
Speaker 4 (00:53):
Wrong what that.
Speaker 2 (00:54):
Lady got going on and got none to do Whim
hunter boards ain't got nothing to do with. Him And
i'm pretty sure his wife has made it a point
to let him know that she's uncomfortable around this lady
and you're gonna go onto her flown and then the
kids hanging out like they're just a happy.
Speaker 3 (01:09):
Family, Ye, no. WRONG i always love when the guy
is say BECAUSE i feel like this, scenario not the specific,
scenario but it's, like, oh it's somebody that's going through
a hard, time then why don't you sign the flowers
on behalf of the entire. Family even that to me
would be slightly weird, still but at least then it's
like our family is thinking about. You but, no it's
(01:31):
it's never.
Speaker 4 (01:32):
That he may not be, cheated but he's definitely. Interested, like,
yep he's interested in that. Woman, yeah And shannon said,
this why is your wife not top of?
Speaker 5 (01:41):
Mind?
Speaker 1 (01:42):
Like that's my biggest next? Point so long. Disbelief, hey hold,
On Alison ruba is on with us. Too ruba are you? There?
Hello you agree or disagree With? Alison?
Speaker 4 (01:59):
Oh, YEAH i agree that. Part it ain't none of.
Speaker 5 (02:02):
His you.
Speaker 4 (02:03):
Know IF i have, problems she got a.
Speaker 5 (02:04):
Divorce, YEAH i got.
Speaker 4 (02:06):
To do with.
Speaker 6 (02:06):
Him SO i don't like that. Take i'm gonna be
honest With. Joe, Clearly i'm not. Married i'm not in
a long term. RELATIONSHIP i don't know the rules and.
Regulations maybe they, differ BUT i could see a situation
or a scenario WHERE i would like to show my
sympathy towards.
Speaker 1 (02:23):
Someone NOW i.
Speaker 6 (02:25):
DISAGREE i think you guys are. Correct why is your
wife not top of? Mind BUT i could see you
wanting to show someone supported in the time of distraught and.
Speaker 1 (02:36):
We were only talking about. FLOWER i will tell you
THAT i do think as a, GUY i think that,
sometimes you, know the intention is not always, sexual AND
i think that it initially goes always. SEXUAL i think that.
Women if a woman were to feel for a man
(02:56):
whose wife just recently cheated on him and left him
and be, like, oh, MAN i feel so bad for the,
guy we wouldn't right away go yeah you want to
you know WHAT i? Mean where a guy automatically guess.
Speaker 3 (03:08):
That but there's a big difference between a woman just, saying,
MAN i feel so bad for, him and then going
out and buying him you know. WHATEVER i. MEAN i
just think of my own situation because that's ALL i
have to compare it to of like we. Has wes
has bought things or done things for women in his
life when they were going through a tough. Time in,
fact it literally just happened this. Week but he was, like,
hey do you think it's a good idea IF i
(03:30):
GET i don't want to say her name, this you,
know because she's going through. Something AND i was, like, yes,
ABSOLUTELY i knew what it.
Speaker 1 (03:37):
Was what was.
Speaker 3 (03:37):
Happening who is the woman to? ME i don't know
THAT i want to say who it?
Speaker 1 (03:42):
Is no SPECIFIC i have met, HER.
Speaker 3 (03:46):
I know of, HER i know what she's. Going, yes,
Absolutely and he's like that Exactly that's What i'm. Saying
but he said it almost is then on behalf of,
us Like i'm aware that he is doing something for this.
WOMAN i was a part of the. Decision thank you.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Session is it wrong you went through a, divorce and
when you went through a, DIVORCE i felt like you
AND i developed a very close relationship WHERE i was
trying to help you through what was a very tough
thing and also was not public on the radio at
the time before you even announced. It and so is
it wrong THAT i take you to a lunch or
whatever the deal?
Speaker 3 (04:24):
Is but to be, fair When chelsea always knew if
that was. Happening two we were having conversations here in
the studio because certain things couldn't end up on the.
Air and three you never bought me anything or sent me.
Speaker 1 (04:36):
Anything, WELL i get to tell, you SO i did
you just sent it? Back?
Speaker 4 (04:40):
No?
Speaker 1 (04:40):
No CAN i be? Honest CAN i be? Honest THOUGH
i don't know this guy's? INTENTIONS i do not think
that that what his message was was an intention Of
i'm going to eventually one day be in a relationship with.
YOU i don't know what his intention is when he's
talking to this woman at their swimming, events BUT i
will say this to, YOU i would worry more about
what he would be doing if he was not doing that,
(05:02):
publicly you know WHAT i. Mean like if publicly he's
talking to her and hanging out with her and being
friendly with, her and then he sends the flowers and
then he defends himself like, That i'm, Going, okay maybe
this guy really doesn't have a thing going with, her
like if he's on the sly hanging in the parking,
lot in the backseat of their, car you, know. Doing
but maybe.
Speaker 3 (05:22):
Public stuff is tip of the. Iceberg and AGAIN i
go back, to if he's so, concerned then why doesn't
he send the flowers from him and his wife to?
Speaker 1 (05:28):
Her? Yeah, NO i, mean, listen and it could be
tip of an. Iceberg but let's just hope that that
iceberg still stays. Icy what's going? On row.
Speaker 3 (05:38):
You don't?
Speaker 4 (05:38):
Wanting first of, all pattes you a.
Speaker 5 (05:40):
Cheater you're a.
Speaker 4 (05:42):
Cheater you a cheaterah by, nature and you slick with.
It your wife is a. PRIORITY i don't care if
someone else is going through a. Divorce that's not your
place to comfort. Them they're going through a divorce or
they went through a. Divorce you wish doing, well the
best wishes and keeping. Moving not only that your wife
(06:02):
had already questioned you about the situation and got. Upset
woman's insuition is a woman's and it's something we're gonna
stand by that, point we already. Knew, yeah if you
already knew that your wife was uncomfortable with the situation
when she asks, you why would you still send this woman?
Flowers your concern is to make your wife feel comfortable
(06:26):
and make her feel that she can trust you in
the marriage that you have with. Her that other woman's
marriage is not your. Concern that's already for.
Speaker 5 (06:36):
One giving your.
Speaker 4 (06:37):
Wife the assumption that she can't trust you by getting
upset when she questioned. You that's the first thing a
cheating man or a man who's on the next level
or going to the level of cheating of interest does
when he's questioned by his lady or by his. Wife
and then not only, that this is your child's sports,
(07:00):
mom one of the sports. Moms so now you've also
put your child in a bad space because if your
wife recognize, it you rest assured everyone else who sees
the intellection recognize.
Speaker 1 (07:13):
IT i have, OKAY i can tell you.
Speaker 4 (07:21):
Don't put your family in that type of position. Now
even though it may not be, sexual it's something you're.
Interested as the previous call it, said you're very. Interested
and now you've caused a bigger problem in your household
where it's not going to be. Quiet so don't expect
for it to be quiet and easy going. Forward you're a.
(07:41):
Cheater you know you're a. Cheater you're manipulating and your.
Deceasing it's no, Way LIKE i sayd, before a woman's
intuition is a strong woman's, intuition and once we have that,
intuition ain't ain't no falling back from.
Speaker 5 (07:56):
It you're.
Speaker 4 (07:57):
Cheated you're a Cheetah, patrick and you need your tail.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
Looks thank you for the, call AND i know just
the person to do. It and your name starts with AN.
R what's going, On? Matt how you doing?
Speaker 4 (08:11):
Good how are?
Speaker 1 (08:12):
You? MATT i feel LIKE i literally just got yelled
at by my. Mom what do you want to?
Speaker 5 (08:17):
Say, oh, man, man, Now, MOJO i think you hit
it right at the. Beginning he's such a nice guy
for what he's. Doing he's a, nice nice. Man BUT
i would say he's not a nice man and a good,
man AND i think he's not a good. HUSBAND i
think he's one hundred percent of the. WRONG i think
there's definitely some underlying, thing AND i believe the whole
show just Did, like kudos to the whole. Show you
(08:39):
guys kept him, talking you kept it a safe place
for the caller that they called, in AND i think
just it was very well. Handled.
Speaker 1 (08:46):
Yeah, well it's sad to say that now you have
just made the swim stuff that goes on between your
daughters really. Weird and that's the part that THAT i
think is too bad for This it's too bad For
tanya that she's got to go and subject herself to.
That it's also probably in some, regards it's too bad
(09:09):
for this woman that he sent the flowers, to because
now it's going to get even weirder for her With,
tanya uh and then the. Kids most, importantly it's too
bad for. Us so, WELL i appreciate you, Man thank
care take care of. Yourself i've never my kids never.
SWAM i, Know, shannon your kids. Swim does it get
steamy and hot inside inside of, swimming.
Speaker 3 (09:32):
Yes but like temperature, wise because you're in an, eddatorium not.
Speaker 1 (09:37):
Relationship imagine the next time that these people get in
the same, place it's going to get even. Worse i'm
putting on my. Hat what do they call the swim swim?
Cap do they still wear? Those by the, Way, yeah.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
That's HOW i always cheer for the wrong.
Speaker 1 (09:52):
Kid they don't have like team names and stuff on
the on the sides of some of.
Speaker 3 (09:57):
Their swim caps have their last. Name some of them.
Speaker 1 (10:00):
Don't, well it's wore The roses hair on The mojo
in The morning show the whole of the Second Date
Update war The. Roses this Is mojo in The morning
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