TD&L Full Show For Wednesday- Straight Up Creepin'

On today's show we talked about the guy who studied his girlfriend like a creep before they started dating. We also talked about the time you got your tooth knocked out and we started our hunt for Tanner's dad!

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Near listing or Drew you Drew and Laura, Hey, what's
what's happening? We're having Monday problems on a Wednesday?

Speaker 2 (00:08):
What's up with that?

Speaker 1 (00:09):
We were having some serious tech issues this morning. Start
a little late today, And Laura, what happened when you
woke up?

Speaker 2 (00:16):
I stepped in cat barf ew. I was running.

Speaker 3 (00:21):
I had just fed the cats, and I was running
around getting ready, about to put my work snacks in
my bag, and I stepped on something wet.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
And I looked down barefoot.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Yeah, and one of my cats had thrown up not
only her breakfast but also a big juicy hairball.

Speaker 2 (00:41):
Oh wow man.

Speaker 3 (00:42):
And then immediately I was like, well, which cat threw
up her breakfast because she's going to be hungry, But
I didn't know which cat it was, so I didn't
know who to feed again.

Speaker 2 (00:50):
So I just fed the ball again. So somebody got
double breakfast today. I'm sure they were fine with that.

Speaker 4 (00:55):
How big is a a cat barf pile?

Speaker 2 (01:00):
Well, because it was just like their food. It was
just like a forth a cup of wet slashed cat
food and then like normal hair ball size, but it
was a sizeable pile.

Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yeah, that's a lot right when you get up and
it went between your toes and everything.

Speaker 2 (01:17):
Yeah, and it's just like I wasn't expected afower. Yeah,
so clean foot, yeah yeah, and then I didn't really
have time to clean it up properly, so like I
picked up the pile, but they're still like probably stains,
and now I gotta go.

Speaker 1 (01:32):
Home and wash the My cat as old as balls,
and she like pukes every once in a while. And
over the weekend I found like three spots on the
hardwood floor. Sometimes she does it on the carpet.

Speaker 2 (01:42):
Yeah, it was on a rug and I was like,
come on, and.

Speaker 1 (01:44):
When she does it on the carpet, like I can't.
Sometimes I don't see it, and I'll see it like
two or three days later when it's stained.

Speaker 2 (01:50):
And really mark it out at that point. Yeah, I'm
sorry to feel the vomit between my toes.

Speaker 4 (01:59):
It's which is you know, some days it feels like
the world's pulling the air brake on you, like what's
going on? Step and vomited equipment doesn't work from freckle
foot to vomit foot. Yeah, wait, there's a mark.

Speaker 2 (02:12):
Should have taken a picture launched over the video missed
an opportunity there.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
All right, follow us on the gram at one of
five nine the Brew.

Speaker 2 (02:20):
Let's do this.

Speaker 5 (02:23):
Stories.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
This is where we go around the room sharing what
we think the biggest stories of the day are. Vomit foot.
Would you like to go first?

Speaker 2 (02:30):
I will go first. Sure, I think the big story that's.

Speaker 4 (02:34):
Mees vomit foot, better, vomb foot, puke foot. It's pretty good.

Speaker 2 (02:40):
I don't know either way.

Speaker 4 (02:41):
You pick which one and I'll run with it.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
That's me vomitfoots. Finally, Okay, I think the big story
is that a new study has shed light on a
surprising link between the way our body store fat.

Speaker 3 (02:52):
And this says the month we were born, but I
think it's more so the month we work. Can see
because according to new research published in the journal Nature Metabolism,
the temperature we were exposed to when we were conceived
has a link to like, so, what it's called is

(03:15):
brown at apose tissue. I don't know what that is,
but it's linked to lower internal fat accumulation, higher body
energy expenditure.

Speaker 2 (03:27):
Are fat, well, but you would be conceived in.

Speaker 4 (03:29):
One where you can well nine and a half months
before that nine point four or something.

Speaker 2 (03:33):
So no, because you would have been conceived in like
July or something. Look, I don't know, but all I'm
saying is this study says that when that egg was fertilized,
that has an impact on how fatty you're going to be.

Speaker 4 (03:50):
All right, all right, maybe it was fourth of July
and it's the hot dogs.

Speaker 2 (03:54):
Yeah, it could be.

Speaker 1 (03:55):
I think the big story of the day is this
is kind of creepy man. NASA is keeping a close
eye on a massive asteroid that's been nicknamed a city killer. Oh,
the space rock officially known as twenty twenty four.

Speaker 2 (04:06):
Why Are four?

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Won't hit Earth, which is good news, right, yeah, but
it might slam into the moon and twenty thirty two,
the latest data from NASA's James Web telescope shows that
the asteroid has a four point three percent chance of
crashing into the Moon. Now that may sound like sound
like a small chance, but the odds have increased since
it was first forecasted late last year. Why Are four
is about the size of a ten story building. And

(04:29):
if it were hit, if it were hit to you know,
hit Earth, it would just wipe out Portland. My god,
they would wipe out Seattle. Yeah, here's part of the
problem with the new technology. Fear comes with it. Right,
Like when we couldn't see deep into space, we slept better.

Speaker 2 (04:46):
That's true. Ignorance is bliss.

Speaker 1 (04:47):
Yeah, but I'm thinking that, you know, at some point
we'll have some sort of armourgeddon situation where we because
they're not going to blow the asteroid up into pieces
that would just make more like little tinier asteroids.

Speaker 4 (04:56):
Yeah, but what we blow like you.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Can blow a nuclear weapon up next to it and
push it.

Speaker 4 (05:01):
Yeah, that's what I'm thinking.

Speaker 1 (05:02):
Now, it's gonna come back around, and I like another's
you know, however many years this problem YEA, treat it
like a swing when it comes back, push it again.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
Yeah, oh boy.

Speaker 4 (05:14):
That's ridiculous. The big story to me, something for you
guys to do. I could see, uh, I see you guys.

Speaker 2 (05:19):
Hit this up.

Speaker 4 (05:21):
It's the Zoo Nights is going to return all summer now.
It will be back at the Oregon Zoo starting June twentieth.
Guests can enjoy live music, food cards, animal encounters, and
other activities. Hit Machine kicks it Off, which is a
fun band, followed by Petty Fever and a ton of
other bands. Petty Fever Yeah, we had both those bands

(05:43):
play here at the station and since which is great
and you can't see Tom Petty anymore. So like this
is the best kind of thing you're gonna get. Zoo
Nights will continue through August twenty third, when the Garcia
Birthday Band wraps it up.

Speaker 2 (05:57):
Oh true, you're gonna go.

Speaker 4 (06:00):
Get out there and start browing me and the Elephants
school Man more of those stories.

Speaker 1 (06:04):
At one of five nine in the dot com.

Speaker 6 (06:07):
You're listening to or Drew and.

Speaker 7 (06:09):
Laura dinner Drew and Laura, Hey.

Speaker 1 (06:13):
Real fast, we want to drop a load on your
dad for Father's Day, which is coming up on Sunday.

Speaker 2 (06:19):
Yeah, it's creeping.

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Now, we've got Metallica's nineteen ninety six album Load. Every
week someone's gonna have a chance to win it digitally,
and then the grand prize winner is gonna win.

Speaker 2 (06:28):
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Speaker 1 (06:30):
We're talking about the CD, vinyl cassettes even and of
course a digital copy. So if you just want to
throw that on your phone or something, yeah, you can
do that. If you want to win load for your father,
you just got to go to our iHeartRadio app download
it for free for your cell phone and once you
have the Bruce streaming, send us a talkback message telling
us why he deserves a load.

Speaker 4 (06:50):
Yeh, that's right, pretty easy to dial it in.

Speaker 1 (06:52):
Yeah, so download our heart radio app today. Hopefully we'll
pick a winner here by around nine thirty this morning.

Speaker 2 (06:58):
All right, it is to him for another edition.

Speaker 5 (07:01):
And now Drew and Laura's Dumbass of the day.

Speaker 2 (07:06):
Lots of dummies running around. Yeah, that's right, a lot
of them on the road this morning.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Very frustrating just byd the slowest people.

Speaker 4 (07:13):
Yeah, I had the usual suspects this morning.

Speaker 2 (07:15):
You know, it's so awkward today. On the way to work.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
I got behind. I got behind somebody. I get behind
all the time, and I swear to god, I think
they think I'm following them.

Speaker 4 (07:23):
And that's what I mean by the usual suspects, Like
when you drive the same way for years and years
and years, you get.

Speaker 1 (07:29):
Yeah, I was behind this guy and like he was
going a little slow, so I may or may not
have been in tailgating a little bit right, and I
could I keep seeing him.

Speaker 2 (07:37):
I back off because.

Speaker 1 (07:38):
I realized what I'm doing and I'm being the hot Yeah,
and then I see him keep looking in his rearview mirror,
and like yesterday, I was behind the guy, you know,
and it looks like I'm going the same place he's going.
And so I know he thinks that he's got a stalker,
but he doesn't. It's just me late for work.

Speaker 7 (07:54):
I was.

Speaker 4 (07:55):
I was, if it makes feel better, I was on
top of this lady who drives into this business park
in a red SUPERU every morning, Yeah, dropping her girlfriend
off or whatever.

Speaker 2 (08:04):
And it's like, they come in here at ten miles
an hour. I gotta go, Well, you know that'd be
safe ten miles an hour. Watch out for all the
pedestrians that are out and about at.

Speaker 1 (08:12):
This hour, right anyway, those aren't the dumbasses of the day.

Speaker 2 (08:15):
They are also for those people.

Speaker 1 (08:19):
This is about a man in Florida who thought it'd
be a good idea to call police after a stripper
wouldn't give him sex.

Speaker 4 (08:27):
Hmmm, it's going to be a hard sell.

Speaker 1 (08:29):
Yeah, this happened at the OZ Club in Florida. Very
fancy establishment, I'm sure in Florida. Oh yeah, But a
twenty one year old Saudi Arabian man called nine one
one to complain that he paid three hundred dollars for
a private room at a strip club and quote requested
sex from a staff member, but was denied said acts.
According to this Florida police.

Speaker 2 (08:48):
Report, well, I mean, depending on which strip club you
go to, that's not normally what goes on in there, right.

Speaker 4 (08:54):
Well, yeah, if three hundred dollars, anybody who's been to
one knows that they'll rip that out of your pocket
just by sitting on your lefe.

Speaker 2 (09:00):
No problem, for sure.

Speaker 1 (09:01):
Investigators say that Sultan Alfani called police around one am
on Sunday to say, Hey, they stole my money.

Speaker 4 (09:09):
I guess the guy was hammered. Oh yeah, he wreaked
a booze.

Speaker 1 (09:12):
And I guess he didn't really you know, I didn't
really understand though, the process of a strip club.

Speaker 2 (09:17):
Maybe he just got a little excited.

Speaker 4 (09:18):
Yeah, he thought it was kind of a buffet type
of deal.

Speaker 1 (09:20):
Yeah, A Fani told deputy that they fade. They failed
to give him any you know, finishing moves, sexual fish,
sexual favors.

Speaker 2 (09:31):
I failed to clop any cheeks tonight he spent three
hundred dollars. I was informed that there would be the
slapping of cheeks.

Speaker 8 (09:38):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (09:38):
I don't know who told him that, but a high
end strip club especially is a no.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (09:44):
Yeah, he was arrested for the misuse of nine one one.
Actually that was really good.

Speaker 2 (09:48):
That is really something.

Speaker 1 (09:50):
Yeah, he told the operators that everything that I just said,
that's what he was telling the operators, Like I gave
them three hundred dollars for sex, they denied me.

Speaker 2 (09:58):
They took my money. Operators are doing the lord's work.

Speaker 4 (10:02):
Couldn't you get him for soliciting prostitutions?

Speaker 2 (10:06):
You would think so, because it's not you, is not
a thing that you.

Speaker 4 (10:11):
You're trying to do.

Speaker 1 (10:12):
Yeah, he just kind of lost his mind because he's
from Saudi Arabia.

Speaker 2 (10:17):
He just turned twenty one last week, so he doesn't
really know. So he's lost his mind, so he doesn't
know how things work. Yet he's still figuring it.

Speaker 1 (10:25):
I remember the first time I got really hammered. It
was at a bar called Upfront FX on Front Avenue
in downtown Portland. Oh yeah, and I was doing like
I was doing like a club event, working for a
Z one hundred and I started this was my first
time drinking a MFS. I had like five of those things.

Speaker 2 (10:40):
Ooh, Audio, it's a miracle that even alive today.

Speaker 1 (10:44):
But I got so ham boned that I got thrown
out of the club I was working at.

Speaker 4 (10:48):
Because you don't even like you get that hammered and
you're broken.

Speaker 2 (10:52):
I didn't think I was going I didn't think I
was going hand, but they threw right out of Wait,
were there other coworkers there who like nobody.

Speaker 1 (11:00):
Saw it, but they heard about it later, Like the
guys called and said, like the student got really hammered, and.

Speaker 2 (11:05):
Say, at least who could And I was never invited back? Damn. Well,
I mean, you know it goes that club.

Speaker 4 (11:10):
It didn't worry that it's the doors are shuttered.

Speaker 2 (11:13):
Yeah over there, I think it's a week shop because
they fired you. Yeah, exactly sure they had rocking the mic.

Speaker 1 (11:21):
Anyway, he went to jail, I'm sure just for a
misuse of nine one one call.

Speaker 2 (11:25):
He's probably out by now, Maybe they'll be soon.

Speaker 4 (11:28):
Maybe they threw him a break because of the things
you just said that he's just twenty one by a
few days that he's not I mean, is he not
from hearing Rabia? So maybe that's totally Arabia, but this
is also Florida, and so he.

Speaker 2 (11:42):
Thought all things.

Speaker 4 (11:44):
You know, you know, he's seen the Internet. He's like, no,
it's gotta happen.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
I really truly believe that Florida it goes.

Speaker 1 (11:50):
I really true believe that's the that's the cure for
the conflicts in the Middle East. You put a Hooters
there and a strip club. I'm telling you, watch watch
people chill out real fast. It would help shop you know.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
I bet Hooters would do well over there, not so
much over here. They can move, Yeah, they can move
these operations over there. I'm telling you.

Speaker 1 (12:08):
You want to calm that country down, give them a
couple of franchises, you know, let people just enjoy.

Speaker 4 (12:13):
Themselves though they don't even know the foods borderline.

Speaker 2 (12:16):
That's true. They might think it's the best thing in
the world. Do you think get these little mini frozen
Britos there. It's the best place ever. It's like heaven
on Earth. Bro I swear.

Speaker 3 (12:26):
But this guy, maybe his dad was like a big
oil tycoon something and baled him out of jail.

Speaker 2 (12:31):
Yeah, oh no, you never Sorry.

Speaker 4 (12:34):
I'm not sure every Saudi Arabian is a billionaire, but
I'd like to think they are. They If you're a
billionaire and you're complaining about three hundred dollars that's true.

Speaker 2 (12:43):
That's a good point.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
Ninety one nine seven is on McLoughlin Chevrolet text line
all this week.

Speaker 2 (12:49):
We do have tickets to go see the Offspring. They're
gonna be.

Speaker 1 (12:51):
Taken over the Tanner Join Law Amphitheater coming up in September.
We'll sitting there coming up around seven thirty this morning.
Some talkback messages coming in on our iHeartRadio app yesterday
on the show, we were talking about minor stressors like
or minor annoyances that stress you out, just little tiny
things that are stupid, like sitting at a stop light

(13:13):
when nobody's coming in either direction and you're just sitting
there forever. Yeah, and it makes you insane. We got
a talkback message. I think this is from Steph.

Speaker 7 (13:20):
This is more of.

Speaker 9 (13:21):
An annoyance rather than a stressor. Is the metered on
ramps and people have to form two lines, but they
don't start forming two lines until the very last second
of getting to that light. And then folks getting onto
the freeway that the pedal to the metal. You're getting
on with fast traffic, and then folks that are on
the slow lane who see someone getting onto the freeway

(13:42):
and are still in that slow lane.

Speaker 10 (13:44):
Get your butts over.

Speaker 1 (13:45):
I'm being informed that is not stuph but she's absolutely correct,
and we got a lot of people yesterday saying that
the same, you know, the same thing. The on ramps
to the freeway. People are stupid. I was at the
on ramp the other day and people weren't even paying
attention to it, like they were just they'd stop for
a second and just go whether it was rhetor green.

Speaker 4 (14:01):
And they're right, we're here at work when I'm heading home,
you have an on ramp and then right after that
there's an off ramp, like it's on and off if
you want it.

Speaker 2 (14:09):
So I have to scooch over though.

Speaker 4 (14:11):
Well, the idea is that these people will fight me
as I'm trying to like get on the freeway, and
then they just get off the next exit. It's like,
why are you trying to get ahead when you're getting off? Yeah,
like you gained no spaces, zero minutes of your day, congratulations.

Speaker 3 (14:28):
I also feel like the spatial awareness is lacking. It's
like if you see something like if you're in the
right hand lane and there's an entrance ramp there, pay
attention to who's coming down the entrance ramp because half
the time I feel like it's like people are purposefully
blocking me from merging into the right lane.

Speaker 2 (14:43):
I'm like, come on, I don't know. I saw that
happen over the weekend.

Speaker 1 (14:46):
Somebody's trying to get in this person and the actually
and was like, I'm screw this guy.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
It just pulled right up blatantly. It was just like that,
that's the problem right there, Zipper. We're all trying to
get somewhere. This text came in from nineteen eighty one.
It's it's the year of Drew's birth.

Speaker 1 (15:04):
It says, my slight annoyance is when you're trying to
order it the drive through and after every word you say,
the employee is asking, is that everything that drives me crazy? No,
let me finish what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (15:15):
I'll say, and that's all. When I'm done, and finally
you know, and I'm done.

Speaker 2 (15:20):
But like it is so annoying to me.

Speaker 1 (15:22):
That's the same thing as when the waiter or the
service are sets food on your table and then within
thirty seconds comes to ask you.

Speaker 2 (15:29):
How it is. I haven't even tried it yet. Let
me chew my food.

Speaker 4 (15:33):
There's no been no swallowing yet or just here.

Speaker 2 (15:36):
That drives me crazy.

Speaker 1 (15:38):
This one from ninety one to seventy one says, I
get stressed out over the online surveys that us that
want us to take that they want us to take.

Speaker 2 (15:45):
Rather I go see a doctor. How do we do?
You go to a restaurant? Please review us? How do
we do?

Speaker 6 (15:50):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
I went, I took my car into a dealership like
three weeks ago. I've gotten to call almost every other day.

Speaker 2 (15:55):
Since it's out of control. Would you like to do
take your customer.

Speaker 3 (15:59):
Service was good, but I'm about to take you down
to a three point five star just for all the
emails I'm getting.

Speaker 4 (16:05):
Dude, you know how I told you guys yesterday that
I was hiding around the corner from a solicitor. Yeah,
like you know, someone at the door.

Speaker 2 (16:12):
Did they come back? I come home with.

Speaker 4 (16:14):
The girls and I've got you know, I'm carrying their
bags like a sherpa. And this dude, same guy pulls
up on one of those hover boards no zips up,
and I have so much going on. I got two
yelling kids, I got two water bottles, I got two bags,
I got all this stuff from the year, and this
guy I just hear this, Yo, boss, I'm holding all

(16:37):
this stuff, and I'm like, if he does this right now?
And they're remodeling a house across the streets, like anybody
live in this house, I'm like, no, bro, And I
just walked in the door and I was like thank God,
like he saw the look on my face and did
not come for me. But yo, boss, little stresser.

Speaker 2 (16:56):
Oh man, I'm the hoverboard that would dude, And they
just hover up and down the street the edge. Yeah,
what are they selling? Do you think I gave him
any time? I have no idea.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
It could be spaceships ninety nine seven. That's a McLaughlin
Cheverlet text line. We got sports coming up next, What
do you have?

Speaker 4 (17:13):
NBA Finals continues tonight with a big one.

Speaker 5 (17:18):
And now Bruce Sports, here's Drew Well.

Speaker 4 (17:23):
Aaron Rodgers is officially a Steeler and it only takes
a couple of minutes for him to be there to
just take over the whole place. You know, there's a
guy who calls the plays for you, but when you
hear Aaron Rodgers talk, it kind of feels like he
calls him to listen to this. Oh sorry, I don't
have a quil that's all right, Star, we can play
in an hour. But you know he's basically already saying that,
you know, if I want some plays, and there are

(17:44):
gonna be some plays in there, but well, we'll play
it later. The Thunder and Pacers tonight Game three of
the NBA Finals. After the drumming from the Thunder in
Game two and even though they lost game one, they
had a massive lead the whole time. So just a
five and a half point favorite tonight against Indy on ABC.
It's on the road. We'll see what they can do.

(18:04):
There's just sports.

Speaker 2 (18:05):
Thank you about it.

Speaker 1 (18:05):
Much more on the stories at one of five nine
in the brew dot com coming up in an hour,
less than an hour. Here, we're gonna have your shot
at tickets to go see the Offspring. We'll play finish
that lyric for your chance to win.

Speaker 5 (18:16):
And you're listening to dan Or Drew and Laura Drew
and Laura.

Speaker 1 (18:24):
All right, Father's Day's coming up on Sunday, and we
would like to drop a load on your dad.

Speaker 2 (18:30):
Huh.

Speaker 1 (18:30):
We've got Metallica's nineteen ninety six album load on digital
for you. And then the grand prize winner is gonna
get the album on all platforms. You'll get it digitally,
you'll get it on CD, you'll get it on vinyl.
You'll even get it on cassette, which is cool. Yeah,
I think that's pretty bad ass man to have that.
That'd be like the collector's edition or collector's item. I
wouldn't even take it out of its packaging, leave it

(18:51):
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Download our iHeartRadio app, shoot us a talkback message and
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M So, boy, I got another Uh, I got another
story here that's going to lead us to another edition of.

Speaker 2 (19:08):
Is It Creepy?

Speaker 4 (19:09):
Oh Okay, which surprisingly, you know, like normally you think
they're just creepy, but last time the person was deemed
not a creep not creepy, so this is going to
be interesting.

Speaker 2 (19:20):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
I don't know this one is This one's a toss up.
I'm not sure actual it's a little creepy. So it
kind of sounds like a scene right out of.

Speaker 4 (19:29):
The TV show You Oh Yeah, where the guys stalks
the girls, Yeah, and kind of locks him in a case,
and he legitimizes it.

Speaker 1 (19:38):
He legitimizes it. So this woman went to Reddit to
post a story that she thinks is pretty creepy. She's
got a boyfriend, Yeah, and they went out recently. We're
having some drinks, got a little drunk, and the boyfriend
at one point said, uh, quote, could you believe we
wouldn't be this happy if I hadn't watched you for
so long?

Speaker 4 (19:58):
Oh?

Speaker 2 (19:59):
What is that?

Speaker 1 (20:00):
That kind of sobered up. She's like, what do you mean?

Speaker 2 (20:02):
Can you elaborate? I'm confused here?

Speaker 1 (20:05):
And the boyfriend revealed that when he first laid eyes
on her, he didn't immediately introduce himself, which I guess
would have been more normal, you know, maybe the rational
thing to do. But instead he quietly observed her. He
eavesdropped on her conversations with friends. He made mental notes
of her likes and personality quirks. He then planned to
bump into her at a coffee shop that she liked,

(20:27):
where he ordered her favorite drink. Thinking it was fate
that brought them together. One could imagine that the girl
might think, oh, this guy's perfect. He just knows all
my interests and he likes the same things that I do,
and he likes the moca, and she says, quote, I'm
mainly I mainly am just upset because I feel like
a relationship is built on a lie, even if it
was a smallish one.

Speaker 2 (20:49):
So what do you think here?

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Is it creepy? Is it? Is it just you know here?
Is it just being a guy being tactful and like
trying to plan it out?

Speaker 2 (21:00):
Or is it? Yeah? What is it? What is it? Laura?
You've got a confused look on your face.

Speaker 3 (21:03):
Yeah, I don't think it's that creepy. I think maybe,
like she said, it's a little dishonest. But if it was,
because I was when you first brought this up, I
was thinking it was gonna be like.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
For weeks, he followed her, and he cound out where.

Speaker 3 (21:21):
She shops, and this is it sounds like he was
just sitting next to her and her friends at a
coffee shop and just kind of was listening into their conversations,
took that information and then used it to his benefit.
So if it's a one time thing, it.

Speaker 1 (21:39):
Doesn't sound like it was a one time thing. He says,
I've been watching you like almost like he was stocked.

Speaker 2 (21:45):
He was stalking I'm.

Speaker 4 (21:46):
Guessing they come back to the same location. Yeah, I
mean it happened more than once.

Speaker 2 (21:51):
Well, like if I like a couple of years ago,
Oh my god, I think it has been a couple
of years ago.

Speaker 7 (21:56):
Now.

Speaker 3 (21:56):
Remember when I went to that burger place that I
always go to and I saw a cute guy.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
Yeah, and you be like, oh.

Speaker 3 (22:04):
He's cute, but I didn't say anything. And then the
next time I went, I saw him again and I.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Was like, oh, that guy, he's there again.

Speaker 3 (22:11):
And if he comes back again, I'm going to talk
to him. And then he never came back again. So
I never talked to him. But like, is that creepy
because I went to the place hoping.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
No, that's not well creepy. What's creepy, Laura, is when
you overheard a guy's name and then you, you know,
search him on Instagram that I sent him a message
saying you don't know me, but I heard you talking
to him.

Speaker 4 (22:30):
That Yeah, you've got some tendencies to line up with
this guy, but it doesn't necessarily make it creepy. It's
to me, I'm guessing he is kind of somewhere in
between that he's also kind of nervous pervis here, Like
if you have to go through all this to get
up the gumption to ask her out, it shows that
a you really like her, so if you want to

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peel it all the way back, but you're also kind
of a nerve.

Speaker 2 (22:54):
You And it's not like he was making her uncomfortable
or she and.

Speaker 4 (22:59):
She felt for it right, like she's together now and
we're in a happy place. So like you could tear
it all to the ground because he didn't step into
the room, right.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
But it is weird though the way he phrased that,
like if I hadn't been watching it, well, he was drunk,
he was drunky, you know, if I hadn't been watching he.

Speaker 2 (23:15):
Probably could have worded that a little bit better, but.

Speaker 4 (23:17):
Not exactly a poet after all those michelo.

Speaker 1 (23:19):
But he also didn't say exactly how long he was
watching her, So that to me might be a little creepy.

Speaker 2 (23:25):
But what do you think?

Speaker 1 (23:26):
Eight six six four four five one oh five nine
is the phone number. You can also shoot us a
text message on a McLoughlin Chevrolet text line at nine
eighty one ninety seven. This person says, go, if your
gut this this dude literally stalked you and manipulated, manipulated
you into going out with him.

Speaker 2 (23:41):
That is pretty creepy. I don't know if it's I
don't know if I would call it manipulating.

Speaker 1 (23:44):
This person says, hell no, this is the creepiest thing
that I've read in a while now.

Speaker 4 (23:49):
If you showed up to her house, if you did
the there are certain things that red flag it, like
if you can't go over to her apartment and be like,
I did see that you like this food because as
I watched you make it through the window, like that
type of stuff.

Speaker 2 (24:03):
We've crossed a lot. It's like they were in a
public place. You went to get a coffee. Yeah, did
he change his coffee order based on what she was
interested in? Yes? And that's like that's for me. That's
like the weird part too.

Speaker 4 (24:13):
It's like sometimes I just lay under your car, all.

Speaker 2 (24:16):
Right, So Laura, you say it's not creep that creepy, Like,
I don't know if I would love it, but I
don't think it's going to be a relationship ending thing
for me if I genuinely care for this person.

Speaker 4 (24:29):
Right, it's pretty hard to find a good person these days.
I mean we're having a good time, a little stocking.
You can look at why'd you have to open your
big mouth?

Speaker 2 (24:37):
And you, Drew, you say the same thing. It's not creepy.

Speaker 4 (24:40):
Not creepy unless we get to where you're at their place,
if you if you go into their personal space or
like you went through their house.

Speaker 2 (24:47):
Now you're done.

Speaker 3 (24:48):
Yeah, And I do think you're walking the line. You know,
it's easy to cross, but I think he stayed behind it.

Speaker 4 (24:53):
So with what Tanner said, I I'm if it was
long term, then it gets more creepy. So short term,
I don't know.

Speaker 2 (25:00):
I think the girl's going to be murdered. So what
do you think?

Speaker 4 (25:02):
Eight six six four four five one o five nine
is the phone number? I watched too much True Crime, Man,
too much to Crime.

Speaker 2 (25:08):
Anything can happen?

Speaker 1 (25:09):
Got to talk about message through our iheartready what I
tried introducing Metallica to my dad during they did Justice
for All album days.

Speaker 2 (25:17):
He absolutely thought it was garbage and trash. For the
next many years, I was trying to show him that
Metallica had great.

Speaker 7 (25:23):
Lyrics and good music.

Speaker 10 (25:24):
Finally Load came around with some bluesy riffs and some
very interesting lyrics.

Speaker 2 (25:28):
That got his attention.

Speaker 11 (25:29):
It's not always been his favorite music, but he certainly
appreciates that album for what it does for him musically.

Speaker 2 (25:35):
I got that guy wants to get his dad load
very sweet. It sounds like he wrote that out it.
It sounded like wed, It felt like chat.

Speaker 1 (25:43):
You think that's like he just as I'm saying, he
went to Chappie Chee and just started reading what chatby
t You know, Chad GPT told him sounded.

Speaker 2 (25:51):
Pretty, sounds convincing. I'm convinced.

Speaker 1 (25:55):
This text from fat Thor says, I don't find that creepy.
Laura does that stuff all the time. I'm this person
says time, I don't do that. This person says, hey,
whatever works for Jeffrey Dahmer. Oh all right, this talkback
just came in. Throw her out, dude.

Speaker 7 (26:10):
The guy did his homework like that's it.

Speaker 10 (26:13):
You know, he saw what he wanted, He made an effort,
he did some research, like bro.

Speaker 3 (26:23):
Success it did work, and that isn't We're like in
any other situation, like Drew, if you were to overhear
Amy say to a friend, oh.

Speaker 2 (26:34):
Man, these are my favorite flowers, or I wish we
could do blah blah blah, and then you like surprised
her with that gift or whatever, like brownie points for you, you
know what I mean? So I see that.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
I mean the guy is right. Like any other situation,
if you do your homework, you get.

Speaker 2 (26:49):
A plot rewarded.

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Yeah, but you know, are you allowed to do it?

Speaker 1 (26:53):
You know what's what's messed up though, is like the guy,
she found the guy cute, because if she didn't find
him attractive, everything that he did is super creepy.

Speaker 2 (27:00):
You're getting charged.

Speaker 1 (27:01):
So yeah, you get to get That's the way it
always works. Like if you hit on the girl and
she finds you attractive, then it's not.

Speaker 2 (27:06):
Creepy that you're making an assumption. That's what you girls think.
If she's thinks you're not gonna go with but a girl,
a girl, A girl?

Speaker 4 (27:16):
Will we work as a little creepiness for a nice smile.

Speaker 1 (27:19):
Let's go to the line one at standard, you and Laura.
Hopefully this isn't an ugo. We're all ugoes in here.

Speaker 2 (27:26):
So's it's good morning. Hello, we can say that yellow
Joe on the phone. Yeah, go.

Speaker 8 (27:34):
What's going on?

Speaker 2 (27:34):
Brom what's up?

Speaker 8 (27:36):
Ste I got you there? I'm pretty creepy. Huh yeah,
I think I think that guy is pretty creepy, dude,
if you if you really want to know the things
about the girl. Normally what normal people do as you
date and then figure things out, you know, like see
what color, what flavors, whatever. But this guy is one
of those people like everybody, you know, everybody knows he's

(27:57):
gonna people like they come out of the shadows and
just like listening to you, you know what I mean,
Like there's always that one guy like always creepy and
listen to your conversation. And I think this guy is
a professional man. That girl's gonna end up in the
river somewhere.

Speaker 2 (28:13):
I don't think. So. Was the guy on you a killer?
Oh yeah, oh yeah, yeah absolutely so. I didn't know that.
So he like through people's windows and stuff, and.

Speaker 4 (28:23):
A lot of times he would date a girl and
then and they'd either break up or he would just
run into him and they'd say something and smile, and
he's like, oh, she loves me, and so then all
of a sudden, now infatuation comes and then he locks
you in a basement in an airproof room.

Speaker 2 (28:38):
Perfectly normal behavior, all right, SERI?

Speaker 8 (28:41):
I mean and this girl is like, oh my gosh,
you knows so much about me. She just like, you know,
she's like so overwhelmed about it. But as little you know, man,
that guy, I'm telling you, I hope that guy would
list over here the stuff on uh on a news bro.

Speaker 1 (28:57):
And I like, listen, you know he got he didn't
tell her when he sober. He got drunk and let
it slip. So maybe makes me think that there could
be some more stuff.

Speaker 2 (29:05):
He's not saying maybe, but like he knew her coffee order.
It's not like he was like, hey, so I overheard
your conversation and I heard your favorite colors blue or whatever.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
Did you know I had collected nine pairs of your underpants.

Speaker 12 (29:18):
Yeah, he's gonna you know, he's gotta be dumbing her
that kind of stuff.

Speaker 2 (29:20):
Where here, it's true, we don't know.

Speaker 1 (29:23):
We don't know that he hasn't broken into her house.

Speaker 2 (29:25):
And that's true. Thanks Serian, Steve appreciate.

Speaker 7 (29:28):
You know.

Speaker 1 (29:28):
We got more talkbacks coming in through our iHeartRadio app.
Download it for yourself.

Speaker 6 (29:31):
Believe it or not.

Speaker 13 (29:32):
That's what humans have been doing for a long time.
It's just how you make first contact. It kind of
starts off with a little bit of watching or stalking,
I don't know. Then it goes into light touching or
high fiving, and then the high five becomes a hold
to handle just a second to really make that connection.

Speaker 6 (29:56):
It's just human behavior.

Speaker 7 (29:58):
Uh.

Speaker 13 (29:58):
He was just blatant about it, and a lot of
people don't chose to do it.

Speaker 2 (30:02):
Yeah, yeah, he was just being honest, all right, kind
of what do you think?

Speaker 1 (30:06):
Is it creepy that this guy was kind of following
his girlfriend and watching her before they got together, just
trying to figure out see what she likes so you
can know you know just what to say to woo her.

Speaker 4 (30:18):
True A bit of a seat snipper if you ask me.

Speaker 2 (30:21):
Eight six six four four five, one oh five nine.

Speaker 5 (30:25):
Near listing Danner, Drew Youner, Drew and Laura doing another
edition of Is It Creepy?

Speaker 1 (30:32):
This woman posted on Reddit so that her boyfriend one
night got drunk and said, can you imagine we wouldn't
be this happy if I didn't watch you before we
got together.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
I guess he was.

Speaker 1 (30:45):
You know, I don't know if the word stalking is
what you want to use, but I guess he was
stalking in a way lurking at the very least, he
was listening to her conversations with friends and people. He
figured out her favorite coffee. Then he had had arranged
in his head to you know, bump.

Speaker 2 (31:02):
Unto her to her. But it sounds like they go
to the same coffee shop all the time.

Speaker 4 (31:05):
Anyway, it's like, oh, are you getting a scone? I
was getting a scone.

Speaker 2 (31:09):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (31:09):
I would like to know if it were multiple places
that he felt like, if it's one place and you
just like, you're right, Laura, if it's not that creepy,
if they just meet up in a coffee shop and
he's sitting next to her and just hears her, and
it's both of their coffee shop, but if he they
go to the next location, and he walks to the
next location, it's creepy.

Speaker 2 (31:25):
Now we're inting weird, right, I agree with that. This
text comes to us.

Speaker 1 (31:32):
From zero six five six says I think it's the
I think the creepy part is when he says that
he's been watching her for a while and from afar,
it's not like he followed her home. But there's a
piece about that that makes me question if she rejected him,
what would.

Speaker 2 (31:46):
Be his result. What would be there, you know, the result.

Speaker 4 (31:49):
That is interesting most dudes, though it would just be
seen as another round of letdown. Well, I gave it
a shot, she said, No, okay, I know how to
deal with that.

Speaker 2 (31:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 4 (32:00):
But six, but some people put you in a trunk.

Speaker 2 (32:04):
That's true.

Speaker 1 (32:04):
Sixty nine ninety six says it can't be creepier than
meeting you are now fiance off Craigslist off a craigslick
side from almost thirteen years ago, just saying, give the
guy a chance, but don't let your guard down.

Speaker 4 (32:16):
Be safe and not every love story reads like a
Mel Gibson movie.

Speaker 2 (32:20):
You know.

Speaker 4 (32:21):
Sometimes it comes about a weird way and you weren't
even weren't expecting it, But here it is, and this
is just a different way of being happy.

Speaker 3 (32:29):
Well, and obviously it's working out. I wonder how long
they've been together.

Speaker 4 (32:34):
It's a good question, it doesn't say well in the
trust tree now spilling all the good information.

Speaker 1 (32:38):
After a few drinks, I get the vibes that it's
less than a year.

Speaker 4 (32:41):
Yeah, this feels early.

Speaker 2 (32:42):
This doesn't it feel early? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (32:44):
We got more talkbacks coming in though our iHeartRadio. WAP
is it creepy that this guy followed his girlfriend before
they got together.

Speaker 7 (32:50):
Hey, good morning, guys.

Speaker 14 (32:51):
I want a little bit more, some substance to this.
I mean, how long have they been together the guy?
Has he been creepy at all? And he read legs
as he treated her? You know, amazing ever since? You know,
plus drunken talk. There's some truth that comes out, but
also a lot of slobbery nonsense as well.

Speaker 2 (33:10):
So oh, yeah, this is true.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
He could back this up later and be like, oh,
I was hammerd. I was just messing with you.

Speaker 2 (33:17):
Yeah, I think some things you can't put back into
your mouth. You know.

Speaker 1 (33:23):
That's also true. We have more talkbacks coming in through our.

Speaker 2 (33:25):
App if you guys think about it.

Speaker 15 (33:28):
This is like the plotline of a lot of high
school rom coms. I can't name one off the top
of my head, but you know what I'm talking about,
where the guys talking to his best friend like, oh,
how do I get this girl to notice me? I
know all secretly learned stuff about her?

Speaker 7 (33:43):
And that is.

Speaker 4 (33:44):
True, Yeah, the armed Matthew McConaughey.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Yeah, and then it usually falls apart and he finds
out that that's not the girl he should be with
in the first place.

Speaker 2 (33:52):
It's his teacher's best friend Jenny.

Speaker 4 (33:54):
It was the homely looking one who's got the good jokes.

Speaker 2 (33:57):
Yeah, but no, she got her braces off in contacts
and she's hot. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (34:01):
I love that movie.

Speaker 2 (34:03):
Yeah, it's creepy. Is its creepy? Is the question? I
don't know. I'm standing for him on this one. I
don't think unless we have you're kind of creepy. So,
I mean, that's why I would imagine this is in
your this is in your lane.

Speaker 4 (34:17):
I mean it's it's mirror. Even if you're not, it
mirrors that.

Speaker 2 (34:21):
I don't think you're a creepy I think.

Speaker 3 (34:22):
I don't think learning somebody's coffee order just by like
overhearing them say it at the coffee shop that you
both go to, it's creepy.

Speaker 1 (34:30):
Drew, Drew, what's creepier overhearing the woman's coffee order over
you know, he's dropping on your conversations, or overhearing a
man's name in a bar and then looking him.

Speaker 2 (34:39):
Up on Instagram and following the message that was creepy.
It's it's creepier, and we did he followed me for
a while.

Speaker 4 (34:48):
Unfollowed, And it's also a psycho, and so you went
back to check multiple times, because that's how you know
he has unfollowed you. So you were still kind of no.

Speaker 3 (34:58):
It was like pretty because I was like, there's there's
no way this guy is going to keep following me,
and he did for a while, and then after a
while he was like, nah, not for me.

Speaker 4 (35:07):
Yeah, unfair.

Speaker 2 (35:09):
It truly hurts me. You missed out.

Speaker 1 (35:11):
Yeah, I missed even though like you can't understand why,
sometimes it still hurts when you find out you've been unfollowed.
I found out like a month or two ago that
this girl I was kind of talking to, we weren't
really doing it much, but she just unfollowed me one day,
and I was like, damn, what happened?

Speaker 2 (35:24):
You know what?

Speaker 7 (35:25):
Did?

Speaker 2 (35:25):
I feel like? You feel like human garbage, unprovoked? Just like, nah,
I don't really want this guy around anymore. Well then
I feel like a creepy I feel like the guy
from you all of a sudden. Yeah, you know, like,
what did I do? I'm not weird exactly right, right?
Tell me I'm not weird. That's pretty weird. It's pretty weird.
What do you think?

Speaker 1 (35:44):
Is this guy creepy or not eight six six four
four five one oh five nine is the phone number
coming up in a few minutes. We do have your
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Speaker 6 (35:56):
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Speaker 7 (36:01):
Drew and Laura.

Speaker 1 (36:03):
Portland's Rock Station one o five nine In the Brew.
It's tannerd and Laura doing another edition of Is It Creepy?
And this is a lot like the TV show you
if you watch that About this, about that the stalker guy?

Speaker 4 (36:15):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 1 (36:16):
I mean this guy you know that we're talking about today, didn't,
as far as we know, kill anybody.

Speaker 4 (36:20):
He doesn't have, like you, have five deaths on his
hands or more.

Speaker 1 (36:24):
But if you missed the scary we know, uh oh,
we know if you missed the story this woman posted
on Reddit. That's her boyfriend. And we don't know how
long they've been together. But I get the vibe that
it's fairly, fairly short.

Speaker 2 (36:35):
It's like it's new but not that.

Speaker 1 (36:37):
Yeah, I get within my vibe says within the first year,
long enough.

Speaker 4 (36:41):
For bed talk, not long enough to know everything.

Speaker 1 (36:44):
But they got they went out one night they got
drunk and he says to his girlfriend, you know, we
wouldn't be this happy if I hadn't watched you from
Afar for so long, and was basically saying that he
learned he would over you'ves dropping conversations, you know, and
over over your things and then learn things about her
and then figured out her favorite coffee and stuff like this.

(37:05):
He just went to great lengths to get information on
this girl. And now they're happy and then love.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:11):
Right, But she's like a little rattled. She feels like
the whole relationships based on a lie.

Speaker 4 (37:16):
It's just smoking mirrors here.

Speaker 2 (37:17):
So is it creepy? We got talk backs coming in
through our iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 16 (37:22):
I think we're missing a ton of context because, like
if he was just at the coffee shop and he
was like, oh, she's cute, and then she was with
her friends and he overheard some of it. Then he
went back and she's there with her friends, and he
didn't want to go talk to her with while she
was there with her friends, so he listened a little more.
It's like, oh, she sounds interesting. Then he tried to
find the time when she was by herself to talk
to her but if it was like weeks and weeks

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and like he said, he followed her somewhere, then it's weird.
So we need more context.

Speaker 1 (37:46):
Yeah, we don't know, like how long he because he
didn't tell her that. I guess as far as I know,
he didn't say, you know, it was like a day
or two or two or three months.

Speaker 4 (37:55):
Yeah, because if your fogging windows at a place, like
looking at her, she got a great shower last night,
he had, like why I never saw someone who starts
at their feet like that and it works up?

Speaker 1 (38:06):
Should really do your hair for We got more talkbacks.

Speaker 7 (38:09):
Hey, deacon here, I don't think it's creepy. I mean,
every hunter has to know his prey.

Speaker 2 (38:16):
Oh god, don't deep.

Speaker 4 (38:19):
No, that's the wrong thing to say, right, that's creepy,
yeah hunter, But he's not wrong surviving the game, Laura,
I have more talkbacks. I don't think it's that creepy.
They're full, full grown adults.

Speaker 17 (38:32):
So what would have made it creepier is if he
had babysat her as a child.

Speaker 18 (38:36):
Now that's creepy that.

Speaker 2 (38:38):
It was my dream as a kid though.

Speaker 4 (38:39):
At that baby'shitry back.

Speaker 2 (38:41):
Yeah, you know you're kind of funny.

Speaker 1 (38:42):
I had such a crush on one of my babysitters,
and that would have been a dream of.

Speaker 2 (38:45):
Like she's doing these days.

Speaker 1 (38:47):
I don't even remember her name. Man, I was so young.

Speaker 2 (38:49):
Probably for the best, I'd be blowing her up. Yeah,
you'd be the.

Speaker 1 (38:54):
Creepy thirty two fifty eight sent a text in and says, Hey,
I don't think it's creepy. I mean I met my
boyfriend through a threesome of all things.

Speaker 4 (39:02):
Oh man, that's an interesting ride.

Speaker 2 (39:05):
Wait were you okay? So you and these dudes?

Speaker 5 (39:09):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (39:09):
Was it two dudes? It was another girl? It really
we need context.

Speaker 3 (39:14):
Then you won the war, because like, my whole thing
with that situation is I feel like I can get
a little jealous.

Speaker 4 (39:19):
You know, jealousy runs rampant in the threes game.

Speaker 2 (39:23):
Yeah, so I mean that's kind of a I don't
want to have a threesome just because I don't. I
only want to disappoint one woman at a.

Speaker 4 (39:30):
Time, and not all my angles are the greatest.

Speaker 1 (39:33):
Oh my god, can I can't the thought of someone
seeing my ass you're behind me doing my thing.

Speaker 2 (39:39):
I was just just a terrible visual. Hello. Hello, Hi,
this is Tanner. Joan Laura.

Speaker 1 (39:46):
Can we put you on the aerow fast?

Speaker 19 (39:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (39:49):
Awesome, we just got your text. So you met your
boyfriend through a threesome?

Speaker 19 (39:53):
Oh god?

Speaker 2 (39:57):
Yeah? Wait was it? I have a question? Was it?

Speaker 7 (40:01):
Was it?

Speaker 2 (40:01):
Two girls or two guys?

Speaker 19 (40:04):
Two guys and me?

Speaker 2 (40:05):
Oh? Man man? That other dude probably is like, what
am I chop liver?

Speaker 7 (40:10):
Like?

Speaker 2 (40:10):
I'm good on movie night? Why leave?

Speaker 8 (40:13):
So?

Speaker 2 (40:13):
Have you guys had threesome since then? Or you just
met and then those three since?

Speaker 19 (40:17):
So we met like we did twice three times and
then I have first phone number and then we're together.

Speaker 2 (40:24):
Wow, that's cute. That's a fun love. Wait, hold on,
back it up a second. Three times? Three times? His
phone number?

Speaker 7 (40:31):
Same?

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Was it the same?

Speaker 12 (40:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (40:35):
Which scenario does that come up? Though?

Speaker 4 (40:37):
You didn't even have his phone number and you had
three threesomes with him based on a nine pack.

Speaker 2 (40:45):
We're just trying to learn how this works. Yeah, is
that like a re arranged.

Speaker 19 (40:50):
It was a new thing and what was it?

Speaker 4 (40:53):
And found love?

Speaker 2 (40:56):
That's actually that's so sweet. Well, she sounds like a
fun girl. She does sound functions, living her best life
out there.

Speaker 1 (41:03):
Congratulations, So you don't think it's creepy you don't think
it's creepy at all.

Speaker 19 (41:06):
I don't. All right, well, thank you stalking her or something?

Speaker 2 (41:11):
Then a different story.

Speaker 1 (41:14):
Well, thank you appreciate it. Gond to be thinking about
your story all day now.

Speaker 2 (41:17):
I gotta be honest that she put an extra wrinkling
in my brain, not being pervy about it.

Speaker 4 (41:22):
There's nothing pervy about that's interesting, but that is going
to be something I think about until you.

Speaker 2 (41:26):
Know you guys? Would would you consider two guys? No? Oh,
come on? Why you could meet thet I found love.
I'm bring her to the table.

Speaker 1 (41:37):
It's got to be with somebody I didn't like, didn't like,
you know, or have super emotional attachment to right the dude.

Speaker 4 (41:46):
H you're talking about the dude, I'm like strangers. I
don't think you two are even supposed to look at
each other.

Speaker 1 (41:53):
Eiffel Tower and that's it.

Speaker 2 (41:54):
Oh god, no, I I am.

Speaker 1 (41:57):
Yeah, if I didn't have any emotional connection to her, her.

Speaker 2 (42:01):
Okay, sure? And Laura, oh yeah, that's the only way
I doing for sure.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
All Right, thank you. We appreciate it. Learning so much
about each other this morning. I'm gonna regret this later.
That's just the way it goes here. Yeah, you know
what I'm saying. Offspring tickets. We got those here in
just a few minutes. We are commercial free. It's Tanner,
Drew and Laura on the Brew.

Speaker 5 (42:22):
You're listening to Tanner Drew and Laura, Drew and Laura Laura.

Speaker 1 (42:28):
Orland's Rock Station one O five nine the Brew. It's Tanner,
Drew and Laura. We want to know if it's creepy.
We got this this story about this woman who went
to Reddit saying that her boyfriend got drunk and said, hey,
you know, we wouldn't be this happy if I hadn't
watched you for so long to learn things about you.
And she feels like the relationships now built on a lie.
So is it creepy or is he just one of

(42:49):
these guys that really liked a girl and wanted to
do everything he could to make sure that he knew
that she knew that, and then that he was paying
attention to her little things, you know.

Speaker 4 (42:59):
And because it's up the same alley as you know,
these girls or you hear them say the day I
met my husband, I knew I was gonna marry him.

Speaker 2 (43:07):
Well, you're gonna do some creepy stuff.

Speaker 4 (43:08):
Along the way to ensure that right, Like, you can't
just walk in and say it, so you're you're doing
that to him as well. And I'm not just saying girls.

Speaker 2 (43:16):
Guys do nobody's ever said that about me, but you.

Speaker 4 (43:18):
Hear it like you hear people say that I knew it,
would say, well, he didn't know, So what did.

Speaker 2 (43:22):
You imagine saying that to someone after the first date?

Speaker 4 (43:26):
WHOA, yeah, humpy, you saved that conversation for years.

Speaker 2 (43:30):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
I always wanted that too, because you'll hear somebody like
when I met my wife first night, I knew, and
it's like, that's kind of weird.

Speaker 2 (43:35):
I've never like I've ever thought, never felt that either.

Speaker 1 (43:40):
I'd like to That sounds very nice. So we got
talkbacks coming into our iHeart Radio AP.

Speaker 20 (43:45):
I've been following law for months, just trying to figure
out a way to get me some of those feats.

Speaker 10 (43:51):
Okay, So, well, back in the eighties when I was
chasing girls around, there wasn't social media or any access
to any infntion like cyberstocking fundies, Facebook page, and so
that was kind of a part of courting is to
you know, find out something about a girl, find out
where she's gonna be so you can make the hookup.

(44:13):
Nowadays kind of creepy though, So.

Speaker 11 (44:16):
I gotta tell you, man, dating nowadays is weird, even
meeting people. I met this one girl on on the
road and you know, she's walkie is I you know,
went up to her and started talking to her. She
didn't want nothing to do with me, and that's I
matched with her on a dating app. She didn't want
to tell me what your dating app. She just said,

(44:38):
get on a dating app and you find me. We
match day, we could talk. I'm like, is that how
we do it nowadays? I don't even know?

Speaker 4 (44:46):
And I send you on a wild goose hunt across
the internet.

Speaker 2 (44:50):
If she really liked it, she was just giving you
your number.

Speaker 4 (44:52):
It was right there.

Speaker 1 (44:52):
She was like, you figure it out? Which dating app?

Speaker 19 (44:55):
What?

Speaker 7 (44:55):
Right? Hell?

Speaker 4 (44:56):
I mean right here?

Speaker 3 (44:57):
In his defense, I do feel like sometimes, like nowadays,
people do think it's weird to like have somebody just
approach you in the wild.

Speaker 2 (45:06):
You're like, oh, you're not behind a screen, Like I
don't know, I can't swipe right or left on you?
What do I do?

Speaker 6 (45:13):
You know?

Speaker 3 (45:13):
So it is kind of just meeting people out and
about is so uncommon these days.

Speaker 2 (45:18):
Maybe she was just sketched out. Who knows? Is it creepy.

Speaker 1 (45:22):
We'll take more of your calls in a little bit,
but first we got to play finish that lyric for
some chance of tickets to go see The Offspring. We
need college ten and eleven eight six, six, four four
five one oh five nine. We'll play right after Weezer
on the Brew.

Speaker 5 (45:34):
Here listening, Drew, you Banner, Drew and Laura.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
All Right, The Offspring it's gonna be at the Tanner
Join Laura Amphitheater. Also on the Cask Dam on September fourth,
and we've got your tickets all week. Also, Newfound Glory
and Jimmy World are gonna be open to up. Party time,
fun show. Let's meet our contestant this morning, Colin from Portland.

Speaker 2 (45:56):
His name is Ryan. What's happening brow, You guys.

Speaker 7 (46:01):
Doing doing well?

Speaker 2 (46:02):
My friend? You a big Offspring fan, you know?

Speaker 21 (46:05):
Yeah, I mean I grew up in the eighties and nineties,
so I used to listen to out of my Compact
disc player back in the mid nineties. Yeah, I loved
I never seen him alive, so I'm excited for a
chance a game we're playing, so I'm excited.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
I remember when that Self Esteem album came out of
that what was called whatever that album was.

Speaker 2 (46:22):
Yeah, I can't. It didn't leave my CD for like
Smash and.

Speaker 4 (46:25):
My DELFA scene was the title songs, like four or
five months.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
It was just constantly in my CD player, and uh,
I'd listened to those first two tracks over and over
and over and over and over again.

Speaker 2 (46:34):
Is that the one was a little kid on the
swing set with the cockroach in his lap?

Speaker 6 (46:37):
Or what?

Speaker 2 (46:38):
I feel like there's like an X ray. I feel
like it's an X ray. Yeah, oh yes, it was
an X ray. Yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (46:43):
My brother had it and I used to ride in
his car to soccer tournaments and I just it's core
memory stuff. Those songs come on and it gives me
the heats.

Speaker 1 (46:50):
Yeah all right, dude, Well, we're gonna play an Offspring song.
I almost said, Lincoln Park. We're gonna play an Offspring
song and at some point we're gonna stop it and
you're just gonna have to finish the lyric.

Speaker 21 (47:02):
Oh, right on, good, I tested my memory perfect.

Speaker 1 (47:06):
If you don't win, you have to listen to us.
Give your Offspring tickets to somebody who's just sitting on
the other line doing nothing.

Speaker 2 (47:11):
All right, well, good for them.

Speaker 21 (47:13):
If I don't win, I'm happy for him.

Speaker 2 (47:15):
But I'm gonna try to win this very sweet go
get it, finish that lyric.

Speaker 7 (47:23):
Life.

Speaker 4 (47:25):
I could find you them, wait for your time.

Speaker 12 (47:36):
Oh man, and it's you.

Speaker 2 (47:42):
I don't know it, ye lyric is. I can't deal
it so unfair?

Speaker 8 (47:53):
So oh.

Speaker 2 (48:00):
Hammering a show far away?

Speaker 4 (48:03):
Yeah, if I figure death punched it a really good cover
of the song.

Speaker 2 (48:06):
Yeah, all right, bro, man, you gotta listen to us.
Give your tickets to somebody who did absolutely nothing in
That person's name is Brian. Good morning, Brian, Good morning.
Congratulations Bro, you're going to the offspring right on.

Speaker 18 (48:23):
That's awesome.

Speaker 4 (48:23):
Much appreciated, and appreciate that too, Ryan. Look of the
bro Mo.

Speaker 21 (48:28):
You're welcome, Man, You're welcome. I'm I got I'm busy
stocking some women today.

Speaker 3 (48:32):
So.

Speaker 2 (48:33):
Going the usual stuff. Got a froggy window he's gonna
look through.

Speaker 4 (48:38):
Hang on the phone. We'll get your information and get
you those tickets.

Speaker 1 (48:41):
You'll have another chance tomorrow morning and online at one
oh five nine the brew dot com.

Speaker 6 (48:48):
You're listening to or Drew and Laura.

Speaker 1 (48:51):
Drew and Laura Happy Wednesday got the sweekest flying by.

Speaker 2 (48:57):
Yeah, guess his meat day? It is tomorrow. We don't
have time. Yeah, Drew's birthday.

Speaker 4 (49:02):
Dragging my feet.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
I know he turned forty four.

Speaker 4 (49:06):
Yeah, whoa a lot. It's been weeks worth of anxiety
about it. It's all coming to a head.

Speaker 1 (49:13):
We'll be celebrating that tomorrow on the show This morning.
I want to know how you knocked your tooth out?
For people who have knocked their tooth out, how did
it happen? And uh, you know, like you know, I
was talking to a friend over the weekend who knocked
his tooth out once and I and you know, he
was just doing something dumb, playing sports.

Speaker 2 (49:34):
Yeah, and you know, like ran into a fence or
whatever the hell he did.

Speaker 1 (49:37):
And I was thinking about it the way my friend
in high school chipped his tooth. I mean, he cracked
this thing, the front tooth. He cracked it in half,
like a diagonal half, so it started at the top
right and then like went down to the other side.

Speaker 4 (49:49):
Yeah, And it's the dumb and dumber.

Speaker 1 (49:51):
It's because we are at Westmoreland Park and Sellwood and
he took a skateboard down the slide, oh, and landed
face first on the.

Speaker 4 (49:58):
Slide and just took ahead.

Speaker 2 (49:59):
And but he just he looked right up.

Speaker 1 (50:01):
At us with his eyes wide and put his hand
to his tooth and just stood up and ran away.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
It makes you check your own teeth while you're hearing
the story, like you're rubbing. I'm rubbing my tongue against
the back of the teeth, like you all there.

Speaker 1 (50:12):
I'll never forget that story. I forget the kid's name,
but I'll never forget the story.

Speaker 2 (50:16):
And I feel like losing a tooth as an adult,
like there's nothing that makes you feel more unattractive, Like
when it's a front tooth, you're like, well, I can't,
I can't go out.

Speaker 4 (50:27):
Well, that kid, he's got a double edged sword. On
the good side, it did not ruin the root, so
he won't have to do the whole tooth. But anyone
who has a diagonal like that knows that that's not
easy to hold.

Speaker 1 (50:38):
So it's not a cap that puts you just cover it.

Speaker 4 (50:41):
He's likely going to get a cap unless they want
to whittle it all the way down and then do
a full on crown. There it's an ongoing process if
they don't, because you know, you've had a partial before
and they come out right like if you get a
little piece. So I feel like, if he doesn't get
that cinch down, it's gonna come out as whole life
every time he has a hot dog.

Speaker 2 (51:01):
Was he was this an adult tooth?

Speaker 18 (51:04):
Was he old enough to school?

Speaker 2 (51:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (51:09):
That's the only time I've busted out a tooth is
when it was a baby tooth.

Speaker 4 (51:14):
Really yeah, which that is no big deal, right.

Speaker 2 (51:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
I was on a swing set and there was like
this is the first and only time I saw a
swing set and it had like a little surfboard on it,
but it was connected. I remember those bars and you
could swing back and forth on it. And I fell
off of one and it came back around and hit
me square in the mouth.

Speaker 2 (51:36):
You can feel it, you feel it.

Speaker 3 (51:37):
Oh, I lost my tooth and you know what front sky, Yeah,
front tooth. And you know what bummed me out about
the whole thing is that we looked around for the
tooth in the grass it just disappeared.

Speaker 2 (51:48):
And I was just bummed because I was like, the
tooth fairy is not going to bring me any money
because I can't find the tooth to put on my pillow,
and so I wrote the tooth Fairy And now I
was like, please, I'm sure they can make a pass.

Speaker 1 (52:00):
Yeah, that's pretty great. Let's go to line one. It's
Tanner Jou and Laura tell us, how did you knock
your tooth out?

Speaker 7 (52:09):
Oh?

Speaker 12 (52:10):
Funny story. I was about ten years old, Me and
a friend were at a park. Our parents were talking
and they said, go do whatever you want to do,
just don't get wet. And she started using the willow
trees and swinging out with the branches out over the water,

(52:33):
and she just literally the leaves just gave way and
she just went sliding right out into the water. And
I was laughing so hard I started choking. So I
went to go get a drink out of the drinking fountain,
started laughing again and slammed my face into the water fountains,
Oh water fountain, and broke my front tooth off.

Speaker 2 (52:57):
Oh out, damn. So mom is super pissed.

Speaker 12 (52:59):
Now you broke both parents, both both sides, because her
parents were mad at her and my parents were mad
at me.

Speaker 4 (53:08):
Yeah, oh my god, I would have been so frustrated
like this isn't even a good story to go along with.

Speaker 2 (53:12):
You just head bunted a steady object like it's one thing,
if it's even if it can move at all? How
old are you?

Speaker 12 (53:23):
I was about ten years old.

Speaker 4 (53:24):
Yeah, old enough to know better.

Speaker 2 (53:26):
So you don't. Do you still have your baby teeth
at that point? Or is that a no too?

Speaker 12 (53:30):
No? No, no, it's a full tooth. I've had it
capped I don't know how many times till I was
eighteen and I finally said efort, and I haven't had
a cap since.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
So, wow, are you just walk around missing the missing
party tooth?

Speaker 2 (53:44):
Huh?

Speaker 12 (53:45):
Well, I mean it's mostly grown out since then, you.

Speaker 2 (53:49):
Know, grows a little bit that you know, his dad
was a beaver. Growing teeth is a thing special, well
he was.

Speaker 12 (53:58):
You actually do grow. They're just like your fingernails. You
just wear them down. Nobody notices, oh okay that they
wear down just naturally.

Speaker 1 (54:08):
But it's all those human shoe toys you guys. Well, thanks, dude,
appreciate you sharing that story with us.

Speaker 4 (54:13):
I mean, dumb, oh man, you think it's got that
metal little overhang?

Speaker 2 (54:18):
Yeah, cat's that right on? Oh god, that would hurt. Yeah,
all hung up.

Speaker 1 (54:23):
I wonder did he hit the actual tray or the
little faucet.

Speaker 18 (54:26):
I guess yeah, I'm envisioning the little like backstop thing.

Speaker 4 (54:30):
Came down too hot and that thing is not forgiving.

Speaker 1 (54:33):
Now, how did you chip your tooth? Or how did
you knock a tooth out? Eight sixty six four four
five one five nine. You can also shoot us a
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dumb working on my car and broke a tooth.

Speaker 2 (54:47):
Stripping wires with my teeth. Come not the right tool
for the job. Ouch.

Speaker 4 (54:52):
Yeah, I mean, who needs tools when you got a
pair of chomps.

Speaker 1 (54:55):
I do the same thing Dave Grohl does. And the
only reason I know this because he was on Stern
talking about it. I've been playing drums with my teeth
since I was a kid, and I have to stop
because that's how I chipped my front tooth.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
What do you mean drums?

Speaker 3 (55:06):
Would you just so you like grind your teeth when
you oh, you keep the beat with your mouth?

Speaker 2 (55:11):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (55:12):
I like the bass drums, my molers, the snares, my
front teeth, you know, like I do a whole like
thing with my teeth.

Speaker 4 (55:18):
Yeah, I could see that probably not being great for.

Speaker 1 (55:20):
And I've had to, I have to. I still do it.

Speaker 2 (55:22):
And so ever, once in while, my teeth will kind
of be like content.

Speaker 1 (55:25):
Then, right, Yeah, especially when I'm hearing a song, I'm
just like, or I have one in my head and
I don't hear it. It's usually I guess when I'm
listening to a song in my head and then I'm
just you know.

Speaker 2 (55:33):
Oh, so you're not.

Speaker 3 (55:34):
It's not while you're playing drums. No, it's any time
you listen to music.

Speaker 2 (55:38):
Yeah, oh wow.

Speaker 1 (55:39):
It's just like what I'm walking down the street or something,
And I have to really be self like.

Speaker 2 (55:43):
I have to be conscious of not doing.

Speaker 4 (55:45):
Not doing too many clickity clacks.

Speaker 1 (55:47):
Amy says, close. They almost chipped your tooth. She shattered
one into pieces on a frozen milky way many years
ago on her birthday.

Speaker 4 (55:56):
Bummer to pieces. As long as you keep the root,
you lose the room. You're gonna have no tooth for months.

Speaker 2 (56:02):
Let's go to line one. It's Tanner Joe, Laura, how
did you knock your tooth out?

Speaker 22 (56:06):
Speaking of louzy reeths, I've got a story. Okay, I'm
a younger days throwing a party out at my house
and Malala, big party, and somebody decides to bring their
like medium sized dirt bike o from my house and
he's like, oh, I want to jump it, and we're like,
oh cool, put a jump together, let's try to figure

(56:28):
this out. And he jumps this dirt bike with no
helmet on, head butts the handlebars and blows out completely
his front beaver teeth rule and kind of being out
in the sticks in the woods with where we live
out in Malala, I still run into him to this day, no.

Speaker 1 (56:50):
Front teeth, no front teeth and wow it And all
you can think is, let's build a.

Speaker 4 (56:55):
Jump, Like, why wouldn't you get that fixed? Because that's
that's the game changer. Yeah, Like that's affects ladies and work.

Speaker 3 (57:03):
But I mean maybe he's just thinking he's going to
do more stuff like that. So why put him back
in if he's just gonna bust him back out?

Speaker 1 (57:09):
You know, I guess all right, thanks man, appreciate it
later later, damn that guy.

Speaker 4 (57:16):
I mean you could see the spit. He can launch
down the main highway though with no teeth.

Speaker 1 (57:21):
Oh yeah, we want to know how you knocked your
tooth out. More of your calls and texts coming up.
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They're so good at what they do that when the
insurance companies see the advocates on the phone, they're like, oh.

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Jeez, we're gonna be paying up.

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They've gotten over one hundred million dollars for the clients
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So reach out to them. Tell them your story, even
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Speaker 5 (58:28):
You're listening to Tanner Drew and Laura Drew and Laura.

Speaker 4 (58:34):
Well, Aaron Rodgers is officially a stealer now, and as
he goes to take over the offense, it's gonna be
a situation where we're gonna wonder who's in control. Is
it the offensive coordinator or is it a rog just
getting his way. Well, this is what he said about
the offense.

Speaker 23 (58:51):
I'm gonna learn the offense and Arthur and I are
going to talk a bunch this summer, and there's if
there's things that I like that I'd like to see
in the offense, Arthur, I'm sure is gonna put it in.
But he knows how to call a game. I know
how to get us in the right spot based on
what's called. There's two or three plays called in the huddle.
Sometimes my jobs get us in the right play.

Speaker 4 (59:09):
Now, when you don't have any losses on the season,
it's so easy to be buds. But as soon as
it starts to go sideways, you to hear him say, well,
if I want certain plays, I'm sure he's gonna call him,
which means they're gonna call the plays that I want. Now,
I don't know if he's run that by the coach,
but maybe him and Mike Tomlin are gonna need to
have a chat.

Speaker 2 (59:26):
Aaron, tell us you get wife face. That's what I
want to know. Yeah, everyone's wondering about the ring.

Speaker 4 (59:31):
Also, people are wondering about the enhanced games, Tanner.

Speaker 2 (59:34):
Remember we were talking about this. I can't wait.

Speaker 4 (59:36):
So everyone juices and they try to break world records
and they get a million dollar bonuses if they do that.

Speaker 2 (59:42):
That's awesome.

Speaker 4 (59:43):
Now, the WATA, which is the doping agency that oversees
sports across the globe, is extremely concerned. They said they
will urge the United States authorities to find any legal
way to block this initiative because they think this is
a terrible life idea. But you said it off the Airtanner,
it's ratings there. Yeah, I mean it is a terrible idea,

(01:00:05):
but I'm gonna watch it.

Speaker 18 (01:00:05):
Somebody's spine is gonna come out like Mortal Kombat.

Speaker 2 (01:00:09):
Right, Oh my god, he's gonna break the record. We
got sub zeroad. Oh his heart just exploded.

Speaker 4 (01:00:14):
I know it's bad, but I want to see it. Yeah,
I know anyone is calling for this. For twenty years
I have been.

Speaker 1 (01:00:19):
I've said, like, why don't we have a league where
they're they're they're just it's just them cheers all men,
and then a league where they're just yoke.

Speaker 3 (01:00:27):
I feel like this is natural selection at its finest,
if you want to go for it.

Speaker 4 (01:00:32):
Yoki Doki. Finally, tonight, people who have passed their drug
tests will go head to head in the NBA Finals
in Game three on ABC five point thirty tonight. Oka
Ce favored by five and a half.

Speaker 2 (01:00:43):
Take them. I'm gonna take Okay see to take a
little lead in this series. They've been dominant. Get some
there's your sports.

Speaker 1 (01:00:49):
Thank you about him much. We want to know when's
the last time you knocked out a tooth? Or how
did you knock out a tooth? I mean, I guess
it could have happened multiple times. Uh huh age six
six four five one oh five nine? Would you do? Do
you fall down a slide? Did you get punched in
the face?

Speaker 2 (01:01:04):
Oh? Your calls after tool on the brew here.

Speaker 1 (01:01:09):
You banner, Drew and Laura Happy Wednesday.

Speaker 2 (01:01:16):
So we want to know how you knocked your tooth out?
Did you do it skateboarding? Did you do it?

Speaker 7 (01:01:21):
Uh?

Speaker 2 (01:01:21):
Did you do it in a fight?

Speaker 6 (01:01:23):
Like?

Speaker 2 (01:01:23):
Did you get punched? That's the worst if you get
knocked out and you wake up and you're missing a tooth. Yeah,
but you should see the other guy. But especially if
you are the aggressor. It's one one thing.

Speaker 4 (01:01:30):
If someone just hauls off and hits you with a
knuckle sandwich, he don't see it coming. But if you're
being a bully and you get your tooth knocked out, yeah,
that's that's hilarious.

Speaker 2 (01:01:39):
We want to know how you knocked your tooth out?
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Speaker 2 (01:01:48):
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Speaker 15 (01:01:58):
God Martin, have your big pot of tea and build
a volved here.

Speaker 4 (01:02:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:02:03):
When I was younger, I actually knocked two of my
teeth out.

Speaker 24 (01:02:07):
I went to kick my shirt because.

Speaker 21 (01:02:09):
She made me bad, and she moved out of the way,
and I swung my foot so hard.

Speaker 18 (01:02:14):
That I had read myself in the mouth off.

Speaker 25 (01:02:16):
When I did, I broke two tooths, two teeth.

Speaker 19 (01:02:20):
Yeah, that was a very pretty sight.

Speaker 15 (01:02:21):
Had big flight after my mom.

Speaker 12 (01:02:23):
Do you guys keep rocking.

Speaker 2 (01:02:24):
And like always go waf Yeah? He needed himself in
the chase or picking on your syst.

Speaker 18 (01:02:31):
Sticking yourself in the mouth, that has to be.

Speaker 2 (01:02:34):
You gotta feel dumb, right.

Speaker 4 (01:02:36):
I think that's worseful too. That's worse than headbutting the
water fountain. Oh, it's so bad. If you asked me
before that call, if you can kick your own teeth out,
I'd tell you now.

Speaker 1 (01:02:44):
But apparently you can be watered. Did we ask you did?
Have you ever knocked your own teeth?

Speaker 18 (01:02:48):
I ever knocked one out, but I had one murdered
one time when my brother shoved me into a coffee
table and killed this this right front tooth.

Speaker 2 (01:02:55):
So over time it turned to be wise.

Speaker 18 (01:02:58):
No, it was my baby tooth, so no, it just
turned turn black came out. I didn't have a tooth
for an extended period of time.

Speaker 4 (01:03:03):
He wasn't ready to cry out.

Speaker 2 (01:03:05):
Well, yeah, how old are you?

Speaker 18 (01:03:07):
I don't know, maybe seven or something.

Speaker 4 (01:03:08):
You're so lucky that it was the old tooth, Like
you get that fresh heet. Once he get that full
pack in, you can't lose another.

Speaker 2 (01:03:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (01:03:15):
We were in a battle for our lives, as we
often were. And he shoved me into the corner of
the coffee table. Oh my god, and it shoved the
tooth back a little bit.

Speaker 2 (01:03:24):
Yeah, my good.

Speaker 4 (01:03:26):
Well this permanent one looks pretty good.

Speaker 1 (01:03:28):
Oh you have more talk facts? Who are apt at?

Speaker 10 (01:03:30):
A Japanese exchange student that lived with was when I
was in eighth grade, and when I was a senior.
He sold his little Suzuki car to come back and visit.

Speaker 7 (01:03:38):
So I took him water skiing.

Speaker 10 (01:03:40):
Well, he fell down a couple times, and the third
time the ski come up and he hit him right
in the mouth and.

Speaker 7 (01:03:44):
Knocked all of his front teeth out.

Speaker 10 (01:03:46):
And first thing he wanted to do was to take
a picture, and then he put his hand over his
mouth for the rest of the twelve days that he
was there. I never saw him again after that, so
I don't know if he got it fixed.

Speaker 2 (01:03:59):
Oh wow, he's like, I'm never coming back here again.

Speaker 4 (01:04:02):
Someumb Americans come back and see you. Now I'm ruined.

Speaker 1 (01:04:06):
We got text messages coming in on the McLoughlin Cheverly
text line. This one says, my brother kicked my My
brother kicked out my front teeth. That made me so mad,
so I threw my school book at.

Speaker 4 (01:04:15):
Him and gave him a black guye Oh he still wins, though.
That black guy's gonna heal up a real nice.

Speaker 1 (01:04:21):
Let's go to Steve. Good morning, Steve. How did you
knock your tooth out?

Speaker 6 (01:04:26):
Well?

Speaker 19 (01:04:26):
I don't really kind as a knockout, but I was
in the seventh grade and I was eating sugar babies.

Speaker 26 (01:04:30):
And I'd bit down something hard and pulled out and
my tooth came out.

Speaker 2 (01:04:33):
Oh sugar babies, do you remember those? You eating too
many sugar babies, that's the problem. But I mean they
are very like sticky. They've got a weird sticky.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
Oh yeah, didnw didn't you chip your tooth on?

Speaker 4 (01:04:44):
An hour and later it was a filling, so it
doesn't fit here, but yeah, I pulled a filling out
those old metal fillings.

Speaker 2 (01:04:51):
All right, dude, did it hurt or did you just
come right out like it was nothing?

Speaker 5 (01:04:55):
It just it came right out.

Speaker 10 (01:04:56):
But I heard what I bit down on.

Speaker 8 (01:04:57):
I was like, what the heck? Guy, that was one
of those really hard ones.

Speaker 12 (01:05:00):
I'm like, wow, that hurt my other teeth.

Speaker 2 (01:05:02):
I pulled it out and realized it was my tooth.

Speaker 7 (01:05:04):
I'm like, oh, I.

Speaker 25 (01:05:05):
Still had a muler lab.

Speaker 12 (01:05:06):
I thought all my teeth were already out, but I
guess what.

Speaker 4 (01:05:08):
Yeah, back in my sugar baby days, you know, you'd
lose like a little chunk of a tooth or filling,
and as soon as your mouth bites down on a
chunk of tooth, it is clear what it is. It's
that if you didn't just eat rocks, it's a tooth. Yeah,
like it has its own consistence.

Speaker 2 (01:05:26):
That happened to me once.

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
I was I never knocked a tooth out, but I
chipped a tooth eating chicken fried steak and I was
just chewing it and I just felt something really hard.

Speaker 2 (01:05:34):
I go, what the hell is that?

Speaker 22 (01:05:35):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
Because it was a pebble, a girlfriend made the chicken
fried steak for me. It was like home chicken fried steak,
and I go, what did she do to me?

Speaker 8 (01:05:40):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:05:41):
It was like bullet fragments or something and shot. But
it ended up just being my front tooth just popped
up and it's still she it's still chipped.

Speaker 2 (01:05:49):
You can see it.

Speaker 1 (01:05:50):
And it's one of the things like Laura's self conscious
about her big teeth, I'm self conscious about my chipped tooth.

Speaker 2 (01:05:54):
Yeah, and you get I mean, you get that fixed all.

Speaker 1 (01:05:57):
I've had it fixed like three times.

Speaker 7 (01:05:58):
In the list.

Speaker 2 (01:05:58):
When are you just gonna say pull it? Put in
a plan.

Speaker 1 (01:06:02):
My dentist is trying not to play, trying to avoid,
trying to avoid.

Speaker 7 (01:06:05):
It, but.

Speaker 2 (01:06:07):
Like every three months to get it. Yeah, and I
eat an apple and it falls off.

Speaker 4 (01:06:11):
You tell him keep this game plan, but you just
start fixing it for free instead.

Speaker 2 (01:06:15):
Let's just put a crown on that par Yeah. I'm
not opposed to it.

Speaker 4 (01:06:18):
I just I hate it, especially since it bothers you
because I don't see it.

Speaker 2 (01:06:21):
And pictures I get. I cringe when I see videos
on the internet. I I hate the way I look.

Speaker 4 (01:06:26):
I hate that tooth is not nearly bad enough for
you to scream my ugly Well.

Speaker 2 (01:06:31):
I didn't scream that. Jeez. Let's go to the iHeartRadio app.

Speaker 1 (01:06:34):
We got texts coming into you.

Speaker 27 (01:06:36):
Know, the BMX tracked down by the stadium in Eugene.
When I was about seven years old, I was on
there with my dad riding a bicycle. I hate it
hard face first, teeth out. I can still taste dirt
and blood if I think about it.

Speaker 2 (01:06:51):
Oh man.

Speaker 27 (01:06:52):
But on the bright side, my teeth came in straight
because they didn't have to push out the old ones,
so I have a great smile.

Speaker 2 (01:06:58):
Nice. That's a nice no break for this guy.

Speaker 1 (01:07:00):
Yeah, dude, My dentist told me to take it. They
recommended braces for me. Yeah, and I'm like, because there's
a little bit of crowding in the front.

Speaker 2 (01:07:08):
Yeah, And I thought about like an in visil line.

Speaker 1 (01:07:10):
They mentioned that too, but it takes longer, you know.
But I don't want to be in my forties within
visile line and braces.

Speaker 2 (01:07:16):
Now.

Speaker 4 (01:07:16):
My brother did it in his thirties and they're pretty
now and he's gotta take it for a secon.

Speaker 2 (01:07:20):
You can get INSI I mean, we got.

Speaker 1 (01:07:21):
A boss's got in visil line, and I can only
tell when I'm really close to him.

Speaker 4 (01:07:24):
Yeah, my daughter, this isn't the right picture, but she
took her she accidentally forgot to take her hers out
when she took her school picture. It can't tell at all.
It just looks like the a little shine on the teeth.

Speaker 2 (01:07:35):
Yeah, well maybe I will.

Speaker 7 (01:07:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:07:37):
I just I don't know if my teeth are that jacked.

Speaker 2 (01:07:39):
If it bothers you is the only thing. Yeah, that's all.

Speaker 25 (01:07:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:07:42):
If it doesn't bother you, then forget no word it
bothers me.

Speaker 1 (01:07:45):
We have more talkbacks coming into our iHeart Radio app
downloaded for your cell phone today.

Speaker 2 (01:07:49):
It's free, right beef.

Speaker 18 (01:07:50):
It is free all the time, especially on Sundays.

Speaker 2 (01:07:53):
It's extra free on Sunday.

Speaker 11 (01:07:55):
Dude, By hitting a parked car while I was check
it out eighty Chicks and nineteen eighty and I four
Mustanker Vertible.

Speaker 7 (01:08:03):
I lost my front tooth from that.

Speaker 4 (01:08:05):
Checking out Chicks, Rubberneck and some beauties worth it.

Speaker 2 (01:08:10):
Still, I'll never forget those girls. Another talk fact, Well.

Speaker 17 (01:08:14):
The first time I lost a tooth too stupidity was
my son was sitting in the back seat and he
was chewing away on some corn nuts and I was
just like, man, I don't eat those because I'll break
my damn teeth. And then I said, you know what,
give me one first bite snap crackle, pop.

Speaker 24 (01:08:31):
Tooth, chipped off beautiful.

Speaker 17 (01:08:33):
And then my last most recent one on dride mango
front two.

Speaker 4 (01:08:38):
Man, guess what getting a partial a warning about those
corn nuts. I got shamed in front of my entire
extended family. I came out of like we were at
a giant bike ride on a family trip, and I
went and got a big bag of corn nuts for
everyone to have a snack, and my brother took the
cornuts away from me, threw them away. It's like, are
you trying to destroy everything that has been done to

(01:09:01):
the teeth because brothers dentists.

Speaker 2 (01:09:03):
It's just disgusted. It's like they were that was ranch.
I just walks in it takes the ba's like, no,
this delicious. They are.

Speaker 1 (01:09:13):
They are addicted. I don't really like them until I
have one, and then.

Speaker 4 (01:09:16):
I go, yeah, whatever that ranch dust is, there's some
I think there's some amphetamine in it.

Speaker 18 (01:09:21):
Those things are incredibly hard. Though they're a harder snack
on the market, I don't it's worked.

Speaker 4 (01:09:26):
Have to work for the flavor.

Speaker 1 (01:09:27):
It's tanner, Joe laur Is this Andy, Yes, it is
hi Andy. When did you knock your two.

Speaker 28 (01:09:33):
Th Well, it wasn't the chip like just a few
others have mentioned. I actually did it twice in my life.
First time was wakeboarding, and from now on I know
to always keep the tip up because I hit the tip,
flipped into some cartwheels, folded over my board and whapped
me in the face.

Speaker 2 (01:09:50):
Somehow and out.

Speaker 4 (01:09:52):
That was a spectacular crash, though it sounds.

Speaker 28 (01:09:56):
I had to lay in the water for a minute.

Speaker 19 (01:09:58):
It hurts, was bad.

Speaker 12 (01:10:00):
And then the next one.

Speaker 28 (01:10:02):
Was you know when people go and like they clink
the beer bottles on top of the other one to
make it film out. Yeah, uh stop, yeah you do
put try to stop a tooth quick and you chip
your tooth and half.

Speaker 2 (01:10:12):
My yeah, somebody pops you and you just like.

Speaker 7 (01:10:15):
All do that.

Speaker 2 (01:10:16):
Yeah, friends don't let friends break to youth.

Speaker 4 (01:10:19):
Careful when foam's sucking.

Speaker 1 (01:10:21):
I thought I knocked at you tooth out, you know
with microphones because you know, especially when you're singing or
something like if you're karaoke or in a band or whatever,
like or your corey Corey Feldman. Yeah, I remember that
video of Himmy that hurts so bad and I thought
I chipped my front tooth.

Speaker 2 (01:10:36):
Luckily you just felt like it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:37):
But uh, I'll do that every once in a while,
and I've never done it in here, but when I'm
doing my own shows in the.

Speaker 1 (01:10:43):
Other studio, don't have about the mic.

Speaker 3 (01:10:45):
And I smacked my face and every time I'm like,
oh my god, please because this metal grid is very unforgiving. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:10:51):
Yeah, and you got that nose ring. You can't. You
can't be doing that.

Speaker 3 (01:10:54):
I know, well, the nose ring. Sometimes you can catch
in here. Sometimes I let me hear it, let me
hear you canna do it on birds?

Speaker 2 (01:11:01):
Yeah, grinding, Yeah, that's Laura's knows me. What is uh more?

Speaker 7 (01:11:07):
Here?

Speaker 1 (01:11:07):
Calls and talkbacks coming up in a few minutes. That
just turned Casey B. F water Bag on very interesting.

Speaker 2 (01:11:13):
Now he's very interesting.

Speaker 1 (01:11:16):
More your calls coming up.

Speaker 6 (01:11:18):
You're listening to Drew.

Speaker 7 (01:11:20):
And Laura Dinner, Drew and Laura.

Speaker 2 (01:11:23):
Orland's Rock Station one O five nine, the brew It's
Standard and Laura. So Father's Day coming up on Sunday?

Speaker 1 (01:11:30):
What was that?

Speaker 2 (01:11:30):
It was my tombe what the rumble tomb. It was me.
Oh okay, was that what you were talking about? I
just heard a bunch of noises and like the door
was open. I didn't know what happened. I think it
was just my tom a lot of action.

Speaker 1 (01:11:43):
My blood pressure is very high right now, it's not
it's fine, okay, okay, it is?

Speaker 2 (01:11:48):
Uh? So about are you thinking about it? You don't
have a dad? Yeah, thanks for bringing it up. Hit him,
Just go for it back around. You'll have a dad.
And you knew years that's true, well kind.

Speaker 1 (01:12:01):
Of, at least I never knew mine, so I didn't
even know the difference, so.

Speaker 2 (01:12:04):
You could know your story satterer than my story. What
a great Father's Day?

Speaker 7 (01:12:08):
Like?

Speaker 2 (01:12:09):
Special thing to do?

Speaker 6 (01:12:10):
Though?

Speaker 2 (01:12:10):
Is email your dad?

Speaker 1 (01:12:12):
Well, Casey said he was going to, but I don't
think he ever did, because I don't really tell me
not to.

Speaker 2 (01:12:16):
I didn't say it not to. You did, Yeah, you
kind of did.

Speaker 4 (01:12:20):
Don't do what I say?

Speaker 2 (01:12:22):
God, now I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:12:24):
I don't really want to reach out because if I
reach out to my dad, because I do, I found
his email dress. I've never spoken to my father. I've
never talked to him, never met him.

Speaker 18 (01:12:31):
I am very much pro send the email because it's
because scenario you end up exactly where you're standing right now.

Speaker 1 (01:12:37):
Yeah, but he lives in another country. He he is
like seventy.

Speaker 2 (01:12:41):
Something years old.

Speaker 4 (01:12:42):
All the more reason.

Speaker 1 (01:12:43):
Yeah, because if forty three, I've never talked to him.

Speaker 3 (01:12:46):
Yeah, but if one day you find out that he's gone,
you're going to regret not reaching out effort.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
Here's one other idea, is that the fear of rejection,
that's what I'm worried about. I know it is, but really,
and this is going to be very band aid off.
What's more rejection than zero calls lifetime? I mean, you've
been rejected.

Speaker 1 (01:13:05):
Yeah, but I don't have that emotional connection there because
of it.

Speaker 4 (01:13:09):
If he but if he cuts you off this time,
I think that would have been but then that shows
his true colors and then.

Speaker 2 (01:13:14):
You I don't want to go through that, Like I
don't want to right now.

Speaker 18 (01:13:17):
It's fine, like you in pain, I got a little bit,
but I don't think as your friend.

Speaker 2 (01:13:23):
I think he would if you emailed him and you
were like I need you in my life, like what
he's I think he will either he won't respond, which
would be a dick move. That's probably likely just because
of the culture, right.

Speaker 3 (01:13:36):
Or he'll be like, hey, thanks for reaching out, what
are you up to? You know, it's probably won't necessarily
be like, let's but let's go.

Speaker 2 (01:13:44):
Do I want to go to a baseball game? I
won't lie.

Speaker 1 (01:13:48):
I've definitely thought about what i'd say if I emailed him,
because I do. I have his email address. I found
it online.

Speaker 4 (01:13:52):
Because he was a professor at a college and I
so I have that faculty email address, and uh, I
thought about it, like hey, not saying I'm your son,
but saying like, hey, I'm I'm I'm Christa's son, you know,
just letting you know that, you guys, I thought about
like it because my mom's not doing well health wise,
and if she passed or something like that, I'd probably
say something like, hey, just let you know Christa passed away,

(01:14:15):
I'm her son.

Speaker 2 (01:14:16):
Just thought that you shouldn't do. I don't think you should.

Speaker 4 (01:14:18):
That's probably not a good opening line, I mean, and
I get that. That's a reason why I thought about this.

Speaker 1 (01:14:23):
And you guys are telling me it's bad, Well, just
make me I'm trying to make it. What I'm trying
to not do. If I don't say that she died.

Speaker 2 (01:14:29):
Whatever.

Speaker 1 (01:14:29):
I'm just trying to not say, Hey, I'm your son,
talk to me.

Speaker 3 (01:14:32):
I'm saying like that, but I think you should because
that's really at the core of it, that's what this
is about all.

Speaker 2 (01:14:37):
I'm not doing it. It's too much stress.

Speaker 4 (01:14:39):
I want you to be happy and that's the key.
So whatever is in your heart, I'm supporting that.

Speaker 2 (01:14:44):
You're a dad. I'm a dad.

Speaker 18 (01:14:46):
If imagine you're in your seventies, right you you know,
time is ticking. If you got an email, I refuse
to believe that he you'd never cross his mind.

Speaker 2 (01:14:58):
I refuse to believe.

Speaker 18 (01:14:59):
That feel like there's dead. Yeah, absolutely, there's no way
that that's not a thing. And if I was getting
close to the end of my life, I would probably
maybe not feel comfortable reaching out because I would imagine
he's feeling the same way. You would probably tell him
to beat it.

Speaker 4 (01:15:16):
If he's not, you don't need him. Yeah, you know
if I if I don't have the love for my kids,
they should not love me back.

Speaker 18 (01:15:23):
I feel like, just as a human I get the
culture point, but as a human being, I think that
that closure would be good for the both of you.

Speaker 2 (01:15:32):
Maybe you know, I'm not saying it wrong. You're running
out of time. I'm just going to lay it out there.

Speaker 1 (01:15:37):
Yeah that's ticky, but it's a lot to think about,
and it's it's it's emotional, and you know what I'm
afraid of is like saying, hey, would you like to
talk and then him saying no, we're not responding at all.
I think that would crush me. I think that'd be
really bothered with that, and I'm trying to avoid that.

Speaker 2 (01:15:50):
Yeah, I get it, but at least you at least
you know.

Speaker 18 (01:15:54):
And now the other option is spending the rest of
your life going like, man, I I what could have been?

Speaker 3 (01:15:59):
Because the option is like another scenario is that he
writes you back and he's like, yes, I would love
to catch up some time.

Speaker 2 (01:16:06):
Let's get on the phone.

Speaker 18 (01:16:07):
I also, we weren't even eighteen million dollars with your
name on it, Yeah, exactly.

Speaker 2 (01:16:11):
We weren't even were even supposed to talk about this today.
But these guys like to bring up my personal business.

Speaker 1 (01:16:16):
This text comes from ninety one to seventy one and
says Tanner, do not reach out to your dad. The
rejection is way worse than knowing for sure. I speak
from experience. It's been forty three years and he hasn't
reached out to you. Why bother this one says, joke's
on you. His real dad is Syrian Steve.

Speaker 2 (01:16:32):
Yeah, you gotta keep him close. He's been watching you.

Speaker 1 (01:16:35):
Zero zero eight two says beef Water should should do it,
acting as Tanner. If he replies, Tanner can take it
from there. If he doesn't, Tanner never knows.

Speaker 18 (01:16:42):
That's a good option.

Speaker 2 (01:16:43):
That's actually not a bad idea. I'm not against that.
Catfishing is dad now sending them a picture of you
and when you bail on a little baby, beautiful, adorable,
handsome baby. This is what you deserve to get catfish. Yeah,
but didn't you to like send money and stuff?

Speaker 1 (01:17:01):
I yeah, he did send money to my mom until
we moved to Oregon when I was like eight or nine.

Speaker 2 (01:17:08):
He was like supported.

Speaker 1 (01:17:10):
There was one time he was stocking, so we like,
I guess my mom took me to McDonald's. She told
me the story a couple of years ago. He took
she took me to McDonald's. When we got home, the
phone ring and the first thing you said.

Speaker 2 (01:17:20):
Was, so the boy likes McDonald's. So he had been
like watching it.

Speaker 4 (01:17:24):
That's an understatement, sir.

Speaker 2 (01:17:25):
The boy loves McDonald's. If you only knew.

Speaker 18 (01:17:31):
This only lends to if he didn't care, he wouldn't
have even.

Speaker 2 (01:17:35):
Right, he would have bailed and like never lost your
phone number.

Speaker 4 (01:17:39):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:17:39):
I do appreciate it, though, either all the way in
or all the way out, and I'm glad that he
chose h one or the other.

Speaker 2 (01:17:44):
You know what I mean, right, So call it. You're
gonna be happy unhappy? I uh, you're an American pot smoker.

Speaker 4 (01:17:54):
Yeah, you don't. So you don't throw those stats his
way straight away.

Speaker 2 (01:17:58):
Like, dear dad, I'm a huge, huge stoner. Here are
the reasons. It's your culture frowns upon my existence.

Speaker 4 (01:18:03):
You know, it's a different culture. And I don't know
how they Yeah, but he.

Speaker 2 (01:18:06):
Was over here.

Speaker 4 (01:18:07):
It's not like he's They're not down with your devil's letters, right,
that's for sure. But you know, honestly, it's what makes
you happy in the end, and if you want to
do it, do it. If not, you have a good life.

Speaker 2 (01:18:16):
All right, Well you guys have if you want.

Speaker 4 (01:18:19):
I can tell you guys all about how great my
dad is. If we really want to put a nail
in it here at the end.

Speaker 2 (01:18:24):
I do want to hear about how great your dad.
I know how great your dad is. I know your dad.
I don't. You don't need to rub it in. Well,
it's amazing.

Speaker 4 (01:18:30):
He's a great I'm his fourth favorite. Kidney's my hero.

Speaker 2 (01:18:35):
It's not his fourth favorite. Don't make me pull the
stats out. Cut it out. He's probably right of them. Yeah,
that's right, but I loved go to line one.

Speaker 1 (01:18:43):
It's Standardjo and Laura.

Speaker 2 (01:18:44):
Good morning, good morning.

Speaker 24 (01:18:47):
So reach out to your dad.

Speaker 2 (01:18:49):
And I speak from experience.

Speaker 24 (01:18:52):
I didn't get to see my dad from the time
I was five until the time I was eighteen because
my mom is not a nic Commerson. Yeah, and told
me a bunch of life about my dad. And then
when I met my dad, he drove they're from Canada
because that's where I was born and that's where he lives,
to meet me after I was eighteen, so that she

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couldn't do anything about it. And I have a great
relationship with him now. And when I was growing up,
my mom always told me that, oh, your dad's all
these horrible things, and it was amazing enough truth and
happy that opportunity was one of the best things in

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my life because I've taken my kids.

Speaker 12 (01:19:35):
I drove in.

Speaker 24 (01:19:37):
Sixteen hours so that my kids get to meet.

Speaker 7 (01:19:40):
Their grandfather.

Speaker 19 (01:19:42):
Now.

Speaker 25 (01:19:43):
And and you.

Speaker 24 (01:19:44):
Know, it's better to have known the truth than to
just think that, oh, you know, my dad never cared
and he did well.

Speaker 4 (01:19:54):
You can thank Laura's whole conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:19:56):
By the way, Thank you, my friend, appreciate it. Just
put a quarter on the train track.

Speaker 1 (01:20:02):
I was all fine and I'm sad.

Speaker 18 (01:20:04):
Yeah, Tanner just door dashed a half rack of corps
light anyway, So.

Speaker 2 (01:20:09):
We want to drop a load on your dad. Tell
us why it's so great on the app.

Speaker 1 (01:20:14):
Yeah, we want to drop a load on your daddy.
Dad Metallica's nineteen ninety six album Load. We'll give you
a digital download if you win, but you'll be qualified
for the grand prize, which is getting Load on all platforms, CD, vinyl, digitally,
cassette tape.

Speaker 4 (01:20:31):
You can sit in my two thousand and four and
listen to it if you want to.

Speaker 3 (01:20:34):
Oh yeah, and these box sets, like these reissues are
not cheap, so this is awesome.

Speaker 1 (01:20:39):
And the remastered and everything, so it sounds a lot
better than they did when they originally came out. Yeah,
if you want to hook your dad up with a load,
you got to send us a talk back message through
our iHeartRadio app. It's free for your cell phone, so
get it and once you have the Bruce streaming, press
the microphone button and tell us why your dad deserves it,
what he means to you, all the good things that
he's done.

Speaker 2 (01:20:58):
For you over the course of your lifetime.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
Yeah, it's free, so get it today, the iHeartRadio app
for your cell phone.

Speaker 2 (01:21:04):
We are commercial free. It's Stander, Drew and Laura on
the Brew.

Speaker 6 (01:21:07):
You're listening to Tanner Drew and Laura.

Speaker 7 (01:21:10):
Drew and Laura.

Speaker 2 (01:21:13):
Portland's rock Station one oh five nine in the Brew.
It's Tanner, Drew and Laura. We're planning to talk about
my Dada today, but somehow we got on a topic.

Speaker 4 (01:21:21):
And every moment his day we got to do a
little bit of dead dad, missing dad.

Speaker 2 (01:21:26):
Yeah, this is just that day.

Speaker 1 (01:21:28):
Father's Day is on Sunday and we're hooking Dad's up
with a load. Metallica's Load on Digital. You know that's
what you'll win, But then everyone will ge qualified for
the Grain Prize, which is winning the Load album on
all platforms, yep. And then Laura brought up the fact
that I never met my daddy, sorry, even though she hasn't
had a dad since she was nine.

Speaker 4 (01:21:47):
During the promotion where people are supposed to openly brag
about their fathers, like talk about.

Speaker 2 (01:21:53):
How about my absentee dad? How about her dead one's
talk about that for a minute. Yeah, yeah, well let's
talk about dads. Wish I knew what that was. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:22:02):
Yeah, in your dad's defense, he died, he didn't move
to Tennessee.

Speaker 1 (01:22:09):
Yeah, at least your dad loved you out there, like
you just opted out. He's like, you know what, this
ain't for me. Ninety eight twenty says I met my
dad four years ago. I was twenty when my mom
died and I took I took an ancestry test connected
with my dad's side, and eventually my dad welcomed He
welcomed me with wide open arms, and it's been great.

Speaker 2 (01:22:29):
That's pretty cool, you know what.

Speaker 4 (01:22:30):
And I'm not a big fan of the ancestry and
all that stuff, especially when they start going bankrupt and
giving your info out. But what if it wasn't him
that you ended up with having a relationship with. But
a cousin or a sibling or something.

Speaker 2 (01:22:43):
Because at brother or sister a lot.

Speaker 4 (01:22:45):
And that's what I mean by a sibling, because what
if they come over to go to school and stay.
What if they live in New York or they live
in Texas.

Speaker 2 (01:22:53):
Yeah, you might have siblings who live here. Guys, dude,
why are you doing this to me?

Speaker 18 (01:22:58):
I stopped because his life and it's the real your situation.
And we're here to be real with you.

Speaker 7 (01:23:02):
Man.

Speaker 18 (01:23:03):
We're not here to just mickey mouse around and try
and make you feel good.

Speaker 7 (01:23:06):
We're here to.

Speaker 1 (01:23:06):
Deliver hard facts. Ninety six fourteen says Tanner. Whatever happened
to your your dad that won the contest years ago? Well, yeah,
that was just a radio promotion.

Speaker 4 (01:23:14):
And he held up his end of the bargain. He
still calls, does he No, I'm talking about your relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:23:20):
With then wins a dad? Yeah, whoa, you weren't here then?
I thought you were here.

Speaker 4 (01:23:26):
I wasn't here because Laura would have won one too.

Speaker 1 (01:23:29):
Yeah, Tanner, Win's a dad, And yeah it was a
fun bit.

Speaker 2 (01:23:34):
Yeah, we could do it again next And just like
all of.

Speaker 4 (01:23:36):
Tanner's fathers, he faded away and has not called him sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:23:40):
Very sad, says Tanner. You know, I got the same
situation on my side. So I'll say I'll be your dad,
you be you be my dad, and we'll just live
the rest of our lives like that.

Speaker 2 (01:23:50):
I'll be his dad and he'll be my dad.

Speaker 7 (01:23:51):
There you go.

Speaker 1 (01:23:52):
He told his daddy is support group dad. It sounds
a little gay, but that's that's fine.

Speaker 2 (01:23:56):
Bread to that. Soon he'll be in a relationship. Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:23:59):
This ninety four to fourteen says, what if there's a
huge inheritance for you?

Speaker 2 (01:24:03):
That's what I'm saying. You never know got some of
that ever Iranian oil money.

Speaker 18 (01:24:07):
I was just gonna say, you could be an oil
tycoon in six months if he just showed up here.

Speaker 2 (01:24:11):
And now he's got a lambeau, and wow.

Speaker 1 (01:24:14):
I should have called him one time, and I'm like,
I wish I would have never brought this up.

Speaker 2 (01:24:18):
Money. You guys want money? My new daddy about this
for me, my new daddy.

Speaker 4 (01:24:23):
You better start dressing like a Gemstone if you get away.

Speaker 2 (01:24:25):
And I can't stop saying daddy like the righteous Gymstones.
People are like, what is he doing? I'm gonna reach
out to my dad. Have you seen the righteous gymstones
without context.

Speaker 4 (01:24:34):
He's like, I haven't talked to you in forty three
years to call me daddy one more time. I just think,
if wants this, yeah, I do this as bad as
we want your feet.

Speaker 2 (01:24:46):
I just how about this, show me your toes and
I'll write him today. That show me your toes. That
is an excellent and I'll write my father today. I
don't care about your situation that much. Wow, I mean,
good luck to you, enjoy for your dad.

Speaker 1 (01:25:06):
But I will I will do that though, if you
if you will willing.

Speaker 18 (01:25:09):
To share as your friend, I just want you to
be able to shed this weight off of you, you know.

Speaker 2 (01:25:14):
I mean it sucks to have.

Speaker 18 (01:25:16):
To ponder that for the rest of your life.

Speaker 2 (01:25:17):
And as your friend, I'd like to see those fungus
to be cured.

Speaker 18 (01:25:20):
We all want to shed a little weight, that's all fine,
But dude, this stuff weighs on you. Whether you think
it does or not, but it takes a toll on you.
And I just feel like, as we get older, we
got to close the loops on these sorts of things,
especially with the control to do so.

Speaker 1 (01:25:35):
Look at that beef as a real friend seven seven
nine four says a friend of mine also did not
know his dad all of his life.

Speaker 2 (01:25:41):
He was upset with him.

Speaker 1 (01:25:42):
But when he finally did reach out and he this
is I guess during the COVID issue, he admitted regrets
to not being there and and tried to clear the air.

Speaker 2 (01:25:52):
So I guess that worked out.

Speaker 4 (01:25:53):
And like the guy who called earlier, who said that,
and this is in no way pointed at your mom,
but you only have one side of the story, whereas
in that guy who called said that once he got
the side of the story from his dad, it changed
his perspective on the whole thing. And so you have
only ever heard the story that they wanted to tell you.

Speaker 2 (01:26:15):
Well, let me try call my mom real quick.

Speaker 18 (01:26:17):
Well emailed your dad during the break and all I
got back was a response. But it was just the
iron sheet putting somebody in a camel clutch.

Speaker 2 (01:26:25):
Well, at least we tried, you know, going to humble
me after yesterday, I don't blame her. She's like, I don't.
I'm not again, not this mortning.

Speaker 4 (01:26:34):
Oh yeah, I forgot. We hit her with a mom yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:26:37):
Someone from fifty eight to sixty four sent a text
in and said, ah, she's answering the risk for Tanner
getting with his dad is a lot is a lot
better topic than bugging beef about his toes.

Speaker 4 (01:26:48):
I disagree it's at this point because it's a one
for one.

Speaker 18 (01:26:52):
Yeah, I feel like you're going to hear more stories
of it working out than not working out. Yes, there
are situations and where it maybe it doesn't go according
to plan, but I think that's probably more the exception
than the rule.

Speaker 2 (01:27:03):
Yeah, because I mean, you've grown up. He's grown up.

Speaker 4 (01:27:08):
But you think about it, he's basically a child when
he makes the decision in the grand scheme of life
to leave, you know, and you've got the rest of
your life to ponder that.

Speaker 2 (01:27:16):
Well, maybe you guys.

Speaker 18 (01:27:18):
And I think also, you know, if he's had other kids,
obviously that's good. I mean, unless you're just a complete sociopath.
How does that not come back on your birth.

Speaker 1 (01:27:26):
Thought about that, like, how can after forty three years
you're not like send me a birthday card?

Speaker 4 (01:27:31):
Well, I think you get to a point where it's
been too long. It's awkward, do you think so?

Speaker 6 (01:27:36):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:27:36):
And I think the responsibility is on you because at
this point he's like, well, I'm the guy who left,
So maybe he doesn't want to hear from me.

Speaker 1 (01:27:42):
Do you think, though, that he's looked me up on
the internet? Probably, I would think so at a certain point.

Speaker 2 (01:27:48):
Oh, he's going to be very disappointed at what he sees. No,
he's as a radio show we have the same nose
I be, as as a film teacher.

Speaker 4 (01:27:55):
I think he'd be pretty excited to if he has
a heart to know that his son got into entertainment. Yeah,
because that's as clear I mean, and your mom is
an entertaining person too, But it clearly doesn't fall entirely
far from the tree.

Speaker 2 (01:28:08):
Well, we'll see. I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:28:09):
Maybe I've got my email address for my father, whom
I've never spoken to or met, and maybe I'll email him.

Speaker 2 (01:28:15):
Maybe I won't. Well, here's the good news. I got
him waiting in the green room. Wouldn't that be wild?

Speaker 7 (01:28:23):
Oh?

Speaker 19 (01:28:24):
Mom?

Speaker 1 (01:28:24):
This text from nineteen twelve says, my mom lied about
my dad three times, so I can't believe her stories
about him. I had to find out via a cousin
in a twenty three and me search.

Speaker 2 (01:28:37):
I found him at age thirty one.

Speaker 1 (01:28:38):
He's in a nursing home with five strokes, but he's
glad to have met me, So don't give up.

Speaker 4 (01:28:43):
Imagine your mom just keep telling you tales this guy though,
it's this guy, not it's that guy. Geez, oh my man, God,
that's unbelievable.

Speaker 1 (01:28:51):
And someone said, stick to your guns, beef. Why are
people not on our side with seeing the toes?

Speaker 18 (01:28:55):
Yeah, because they they just get it.

Speaker 2 (01:28:58):
They get it. What do they get?

Speaker 1 (01:28:59):
I'm gonna block outye who says that they're annoyed at
this topic. I'm blocking you all, and we're gonna do
it all day tomorrow.

Speaker 2 (01:29:04):
I hear it a lot, So there you are. Well,
we'll show them to Are we calling your dad right now?
I don't have the number?

Speaker 7 (01:29:13):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:29:14):
Thank you guys, appreciate it. More of those.

Speaker 4 (01:29:15):
Uh, I was gonna see one of tho stories, but
just just go to the website. I'll write an essay
about it and put it up there.

Speaker 2 (01:29:20):
We are commercial free on the.

Speaker 1 (01:29:22):
Brewer Orlands Rock station one of five nine the brew
It's Tanner, Drew and more. I get a lot of
crazy talking messages from people talking about their daddies, their daddies.

Speaker 12 (01:29:35):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:29:36):
We started talking about the fact that I've never met
or even spoken to mine. I don't know anything about
him except for that he you know, he lives in
another country. He's a film professor, or was a film professor,
and now he's retired.

Speaker 4 (01:29:48):
He's about as far away on the globe as he
can be culturally.

Speaker 1 (01:29:51):
But I do have an email address. It's an old
faculty email address. I don't know if professors keep those
over time or if they go away, but that's all.

Speaker 2 (01:29:59):
I have tenured.

Speaker 4 (01:30:00):
I'm not sure he might still maintain it, because a
lot of if you've been there forever, you come back
to guests.

Speaker 1 (01:30:06):
Speak right thirty Sorry forty eight ninety four says this
is wild, Geez Louise. This one says my dad is
the best because he took us in full time when
my mom went to jail for murder.

Speaker 4 (01:30:19):
Oh that's the end of that relationship, my goodness. Yeah,
or at least it's going to be through glass.

Speaker 2 (01:30:24):
This is another crazy one. This one.

Speaker 1 (01:30:26):
This text message says my dad killed my mom when
I was six, and before he died, I went to
him on his deathbed and forgave him for myself.

Speaker 2 (01:30:33):
He then started choking up and then died. And I'm
still fine lol lol.

Speaker 3 (01:30:39):
Because I think I think maybe they're insinuating that, like
it's not going to wreck you if you send an
email and maybe he doesn't respond or you know, like.

Speaker 4 (01:30:51):
And the guy's point about forgiving the murderer though, is
the same. It's not as intense with yours, but it's
the same thing that you with the burden of it,
and so it's it's unfair to get to hold on
to it.

Speaker 3 (01:31:04):
Yeah, And so for you to reach out and say,
even even if you don't say I forgive you, you
reach saying that no, no, no, But even if you just
reaching out kind of says it on its own, right,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:31:17):
I wouldn't even I wouldn't even in my head in
the email, I wouldn't even mention the fact that I
was your I'm your son and your bag business at
first kind of yeah, just like, hey, this is what's
going on. I'm Crystal, you know, her son, da da
da da, and just get it that way. But you know,
I don't know. You guys are getting in my head
as you're freaking me out.

Speaker 4 (01:31:36):
Yeah, but you've been thinking about this forever and you're
you always end with I might, I might not, And then.

Speaker 2 (01:31:42):
It's I don't, and that's usually what happens.

Speaker 4 (01:31:45):
But like I said, if you're not comfortable, I would
never do what beeps doing here and actually put the
screws to you.

Speaker 18 (01:31:50):
Well, I only do that because I just feel like
fifteen years down the road, you're gonna have a different
opinion about.

Speaker 2 (01:31:57):
It, and you know me.

Speaker 4 (01:31:58):
Well, so you guys all, I would love for you
to have the closure just for you if it's gonna
hurt you, though I don't want that either.

Speaker 2 (01:32:05):
I don't mind that. Yeah, ultimately though your choice.

Speaker 1 (01:32:08):
Of course, we have talkback messages coming in through our
iHeart radio app.

Speaker 2 (01:32:13):
Oh man, it's hard.

Speaker 1 (01:32:15):
Yeah, that's I remember the last time I spoke to
my grandmother when she's ninety eight or she was ninety
eight when she passed. I was annoyed because I kept
having to repeat myself because she couldn't hear me. And
that was the last time I had a clear conversation
with her. And I'm like, god, I was annoyed.

Speaker 2 (01:32:28):
I hate that.

Speaker 4 (01:32:28):
Yeah, it's tough. You just hope that they thought they
were talking to a toaster.

Speaker 1 (01:32:34):
This text comes from fifty to eighty eight, says I
worked on an ambulance for about seven years, transported a
lot of hospice patients, and the top five regrets that
I heard was never connecting or reconnecting with family members
or friends. I think that since you never met him
and the emotional aspect isn't a strong through a bond,
there's not much to lose. Won't be as bothersome if

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you reach out and don't get anything back.

Speaker 2 (01:32:56):
That's true, all right, it's a good point.

Speaker 4 (01:32:59):
Any of the painful clock of time does not slow down,
and it seems.

Speaker 2 (01:33:04):
To get faster. So that's a fact.

Speaker 1 (01:33:06):
My mom's convinced that it will never happen, and I
think she wants it to not happen.

Speaker 2 (01:33:10):
I'm trying to call it. That's a fair statement.

Speaker 7 (01:33:14):
You know.

Speaker 18 (01:33:15):
Once you open that box, then she has to answer questions.
Maybe she was happy not addressing for sure.

Speaker 2 (01:33:21):
Oh, I'm going to get the goods. I'm going to
get the juicy info. If I end up talking to
like Dad spilled the tea, I wouldn't I wouldn't mind
having my first conversation with them on the radio. Are
you heroin?

Speaker 8 (01:33:31):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:33:31):
But I'm done serious? Like, I wouldn't mind.

Speaker 4 (01:33:34):
Well, you'd feel more comfortable, Mama.

Speaker 19 (01:33:38):
Hello, Hey, Mama, I'm always scared when you call.

Speaker 2 (01:33:42):
Why, well, your loving son might have a good reason.

Speaker 4 (01:33:46):
She remembers yesterday.

Speaker 1 (01:33:49):
All right, well, Mama, you know Father's Days, Father's Days
on Sunday, And of course I had to be reminded
of that because I never celebrated it.

Speaker 19 (01:33:58):
Here we go again.

Speaker 1 (01:34:00):
But these guys are all are all really adamant that
I should reach out to him, because you know, we
found that email address, Mama, and and all these guys
are saying, reach out to your daddy, reach out to
your daddy.

Speaker 19 (01:34:12):
Wow, it's up to you.

Speaker 2 (01:34:15):
Do you think it's a good idea.

Speaker 19 (01:34:20):
I don't think it's a bad one.

Speaker 2 (01:34:22):
Okay, that's that's a start. What do you think he's
going to say about you if we do get him
on the phone.

Speaker 19 (01:34:28):
I don't think you're going to say anything.

Speaker 2 (01:34:30):
He's not going to say she was crazy a BBC.

Speaker 19 (01:34:35):
Well, he loved me. He was just you know, cut
off guard.

Speaker 1 (01:34:41):
And so he told you he didn't want a kid.
And did you put a hole in the condom or
just not wear one?

Speaker 8 (01:34:46):
You know?

Speaker 25 (01:34:48):
As soon that you're business, Well I'm here, it is.

Speaker 2 (01:34:50):
Kind of my business. There's only a couple of ways
it can happen. No, he is not the type who
would poke a hole in it. I don't know.

Speaker 18 (01:34:56):
No, you go with the Indian leglock.

Speaker 19 (01:34:58):
Are you sure, Laura?

Speaker 2 (01:35:02):
I thought I was. I couldn't.

Speaker 1 (01:35:04):
I couldn't remember if I made that story up in
my head or if you really did that.

Speaker 2 (01:35:07):
Did you do that?

Speaker 19 (01:35:09):
Oh you made it up in your head like about
a thousand other ones. That's sure.

Speaker 2 (01:35:13):
Oh no, that's not true.

Speaker 4 (01:35:15):
Well, so you're you're saying definitely not the hole.

Speaker 19 (01:35:19):
Then I know you're crazy and you don't talk to
your mother that way.

Speaker 2 (01:35:26):
Yeah, come on, Tanna, what did I say?

Speaker 4 (01:35:29):
You asked him there was a hole in a condom?

Speaker 2 (01:35:31):
My mom would fall over dead. Okay, So so you
implied that she tricked him? So he raw dog? Did
I get it? Is that what happened? Well, that's usually
how it happens. Nothing you'd have to explain that, sir,
raw Dog.

Speaker 1 (01:35:45):
Uh, okay. So do you think he's gonna Okay? So
if I email him, do you think he's going to
write back?

Speaker 19 (01:35:54):
Well, how in the world would I know? But probably not?
But maybe, I mean, you know, you know who knows
where his frame of mind is at right now? And
what he's thinking. I mean, you know, he's getting old
and getting up there.

Speaker 2 (01:36:11):
And when's the last time you talked people?

Speaker 19 (01:36:16):
So that's why I talked to him, Yeah about August two.

Speaker 18 (01:36:26):
Okay, Well have you tried to reach out to him
at any point since then?

Speaker 19 (01:36:31):
Yes?

Speaker 7 (01:36:32):
And no reply.

Speaker 19 (01:36:35):
I don't know if she did or not. I had
a I don't know, I looked, but probably not.

Speaker 4 (01:36:45):
If she hasn't talked to him since you were four
months old? How about how's the McDonald's sing a thing?

Speaker 2 (01:36:50):
She told me that, like he followed. I thought I
was like six or seven.

Speaker 19 (01:36:53):
Oh yeah, I guess I did talk to him after
that A couple of years after that, And.

Speaker 2 (01:37:01):
No, he was no, Well he was watching us while
we were at McDonald's. That's stalking.

Speaker 19 (01:37:07):
He just happened to be, Oh my god, I might
know you know what what and I don't want to
talk about it.

Speaker 2 (01:37:15):
Well, it's it's my daddy, and I want to know.

Speaker 19 (01:37:19):
Well, you know, he just had a hard time, you know,
just breaking it off there for a while. You know,
we both did for a.

Speaker 2 (01:37:30):
While for like ever.

Speaker 4 (01:37:32):
Well, yeah, I think he's saying he was he left,
but then he was like like a little magnet.

Speaker 2 (01:37:36):
Was holding him in.

Speaker 1 (01:37:37):
Yeah, all right, my Mom'm sorry to bring it all up.

Speaker 18 (01:37:39):
And you're that magnet.

Speaker 2 (01:37:40):
Daddy, I'm the magnet, You're the magnet, all right, Mamma.
Well I might email him. I I don't know. I
don't even know if that email works anymore. You know.

Speaker 19 (01:37:49):
Well, you know I'm your daddy, so you know, all right,
I love you very much, Dad.

Speaker 2 (01:37:58):
I am all right happy for there's day because you
pretty much were.

Speaker 19 (01:38:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (01:38:03):
It was just me and you, my whole life. My mom.
A happy Father's Day, every Father's Day.

Speaker 1 (01:38:08):
Yeah, of course, I give my mother usually give my
mama present.

Speaker 19 (01:38:12):
It was fun we had I liked it. We had fun.
We don't trips.

Speaker 2 (01:38:17):
Mm hmm. Wouldn't I have a good son? Tell everybody
how good of a son I was. Yeah, all right,
Well I don't even know what she's saying. All right, Mama,
I love you. I'll talk to you later, okay.

Speaker 19 (01:38:33):
No, seriously, though you were a sweetheart, you never gave
me any trouble. You never threw fits out in public,
except one time I was in the grocery store and
we were in the vegie section, and and all of
a sudden, you looked up at me, and you said,
real loud, mom My, years is getting I'm stiff.

Speaker 2 (01:38:53):
I said that every time I see a Karen Man
and I thought you didn't like Bedgie. That's why every time. Yes,
by the way, that was that was two years ago.
We just get that. You promised, all right, Mama, I

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love you very much. I gotta go. Yeah, okay, all right,
the fear of another one of those stories popping out. Yeah,
I gotta end this now before I've earned everything.

Speaker 4 (01:39:21):
I love the declaration though, mother.

Speaker 2 (01:39:25):
Trave alert. Wow all right, wow, wow, wow. I like it.
I'm still I still have no idea I'm an email
my dad or not. So we got no here.

Speaker 1 (01:39:35):
All right, we are commercial free, Happy Wednesday. It's one
of five nine the Brew Tanner.

Speaker 2 (01:39:39):
Drew and Laura.

Speaker 6 (01:39:41):
You're listening, Drew and Laura.

Speaker 7 (01:39:44):
Drew and Laura.

Speaker 1 (01:39:47):
All right, we want to hook your father up at
the Load for Father's Day, which is coming up on Sunday.
Metallicas nineteen ninety six album Load.

Speaker 2 (01:39:55):
We're gonna hook you, hook you up with it on
digital and then.

Speaker 1 (01:39:58):
You'll be qualified for the grand prize, which is getting
that album on all platforms, CD, vinyl, cassette digitally is
of course. So yeah, why does your dad deserve a load?
Download our iHeartRadio app right now, shoot us a talk
back message and we'll pick a winner here before the
end of the show. Yeah, yeah, we were talking about
We ended up talking about my father this morning because

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I've never met him, I've never spoken to him. He chose,
He told my mom, you know, it's either all the
way in or all the way out, and he chose
all the way out, which I think is good because
the thought of like knowing my dad and then having
him just bailave like that Father of Mind song from
Ever Clear, that is the saddest thing.

Speaker 4 (01:40:37):
Yeah, my wife has a deadbeat dad, and I can
tell you it's not much better, Yeah, to know they're
alive or when they choose, When you know they've chosen
a different path than you, it's not a great feeling.

Speaker 2 (01:40:50):
I hate the man for the very fact.

Speaker 1 (01:40:52):
And there's just a lot of stuff I feel like
I missed out on. You know, Like I was raised
by all Southern women, and that's fine. I'm very happy
with my upbringing. I love my family, but like I
missed like that male influence, you know what I mean. Yeah, yeah,
it's I'm a pussy now.

Speaker 2 (01:41:06):
But it is.

Speaker 4 (01:41:07):
It is important to have that person like my dad
still does that. A kid goes down, he just picks
them up while they're bleeding. You're like, you're fine.

Speaker 2 (01:41:14):
That's that type.

Speaker 1 (01:41:14):
I wish I had that because I got babied. You know,
I got you know, I'm sensitive. I'm a sensitive dude
because of.

Speaker 4 (01:41:19):
It, which there are positive traits that come from that. Totally,
it's nice to play a little catch.

Speaker 2 (01:41:23):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:41:24):
This text comes from ninety one eighty one says it
never seems to leave your mind Tanner, and I would
guess it won't until you have closure.

Speaker 2 (01:41:33):
That's true. I'm more just interested. It's not like any
closure or anything, but I'm just interested.

Speaker 3 (01:41:37):
But I do feel like, again, after the fact, I
think you're gonna wish you would have I wish you
are going to want that.

Speaker 2 (01:41:45):
I think you're going to want that closure in the end.

Speaker 4 (01:41:46):
I just would also like you to know the health stuff.
That's the really I mean, even beyond all the emotional stuff.
I would like to know if I have a if
I have heard issues in my family, do I have
a higher probability of bad blood pressure?

Speaker 2 (01:41:59):
What do I need to do.

Speaker 4 (01:42:00):
Maybe you figured out an allergy that makes your stomach
not hurt or whatever, give me the info.

Speaker 1 (01:42:05):
We got more talkbacks coming into our heart radio app.

Speaker 17 (01:42:08):
Hey Danner, I personally didn't know my dad too much still,
I was thirteen.

Speaker 4 (01:42:14):
Didn't affect me much like you.

Speaker 25 (01:42:15):
It is what it is without him.

Speaker 24 (01:42:17):
You just grow to grow without him.

Speaker 2 (01:42:18):
So what would you? I'd reach out at least satisfy
your curiosity.

Speaker 7 (01:42:24):
And if he's a doucee, she's a dude.

Speaker 4 (01:42:26):
His loss, have a good one.

Speaker 12 (01:42:27):
All right.

Speaker 1 (01:42:28):
That's a good point, very good point. We got more
talkbacks coming in.

Speaker 24 (01:42:31):
Did you ever think your dad wasn't stocking you guys
back then? Just happened to work at the McDonald's.

Speaker 2 (01:42:36):
Om good day guysice as possible. He was running the
drive through it.

Speaker 4 (01:42:39):
He was a mean fry shuffler, though, I think one
of the best at that location.

Speaker 2 (01:42:44):
And more talkbacks.

Speaker 7 (01:42:46):
So I gotta say, man, my father's been gone.

Speaker 2 (01:42:50):
So oh you heard that one already?

Speaker 4 (01:42:51):
Yeah, very much, which is heartbreaking.

Speaker 2 (01:42:53):
Yeah, let's go to toe the loaf. What up tof
Oh it's the tod five?

Speaker 1 (01:43:02):
Oh sorry Todd father, good morning?

Speaker 25 (01:43:05):
Well me and to the low know each other, but
I mean we're not the same people.

Speaker 2 (01:43:09):
Sorry, fault got hairs crossed.

Speaker 25 (01:43:12):
That's all right. Hey, so I agree with Drew. You're
gonna want to do it. At some point you might
have ripped the band aid off and do it. Okay,
you know it's it's I think it's important that you
bring it up a lot, and for two of your
mom's hilarious lover gonna say so she made that comment.

Speaker 2 (01:43:29):
I was like, man, I love that lady, the grocery chub.

Speaker 25 (01:43:32):
But yeah, yeah, the chubb.

Speaker 1 (01:43:36):
I've never heard that story before either, and it was
nice for her to share it here for that, Like Jesus,
give you no preparations for a drum punch if you.

Speaker 2 (01:43:42):
Can know, this is what we all too call Tanner
now grocery Chubb. She's like, you want to cold call
me grocery chub. Chad would be a grocery chubb Chad
Chad chubbing. I mean, I shouldn't be making up. He
would be helping you, all right, But you're right, You're
not wrong anyway.

Speaker 25 (01:44:02):
Seriously, I think you will credit you don't do it, man,
all right, I didn't have the best childhood. My step suck.
But you know, I've been around kids that don't have
a dad and a bobby figure, and we've kind of
put him under a wing. And I think it's just
important to know and and and the medical stuff too.

Speaker 12 (01:44:21):
For sure.

Speaker 1 (01:44:22):
How about you just take me under your wing and
I just get ball.

Speaker 2 (01:44:24):
He would really prefer to play ball with you. You
know what he's he's full of. He's got he's got enough.
He's already helping. It was an orphanage.

Speaker 1 (01:44:31):
Listeners are really making my anxiety spike this morning, Todd father,
we got to go. Thank you for your call. We
get this text from Zeros eighty two. It says, start
being a man now and face your fears and then
bury your feelings like the rest of us.

Speaker 2 (01:44:44):
I'm sensitive, be a man to call your dad.

Speaker 1 (01:44:46):
This one says, Tanner's dad is like uncle baby Bobby
bitty or what.

Speaker 2 (01:44:52):
Little baby Billy? Yeah, little baby bitter, Ye you're gone
with a pregnant wife. At least though a little baby
Billy left his kid with like a cat at a
pet store.

Speaker 4 (01:45:02):
And he came back, and he.

Speaker 2 (01:45:03):
Did, he did come back. Let's go to Nicholas good morning,
and he got to punch you in the face.

Speaker 12 (01:45:07):
Good marning guys, hey Tanner coming from somebody.

Speaker 26 (01:45:10):
It's going to be forty one this year, and never
actually talked to his firm donor. I was going to say,
you just kind of get used to it. I don't
know if you have. I only thought about reaching out
to mine one time, just because I found out that
I had half siblings. And I don't know if that's
kind of a situation you.

Speaker 6 (01:45:28):
Have with your dad.

Speaker 7 (01:45:28):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (01:45:30):
Yeah, I have no idea, no idea.

Speaker 26 (01:45:33):
As I say, it's it's definitely worth a shot. I
tried the one time, and it's just like, hey man,
I have another family. It's so I knew, but I
had an actual dad that was from the beginning beside him.
So I mean, I know you had an awesome mom
and you had a stepdad. It sounded like he's all
right too, So you really give it a shot. It's

(01:45:54):
not going to hurt so much as something.

Speaker 8 (01:45:56):
You know.

Speaker 26 (01:45:56):
If he doesn't get.

Speaker 1 (01:45:57):
Back to you at all, what do you think about
me just sending him a meme de gauge sense of humor,
So just start off with a meme.

Speaker 2 (01:46:02):
More just like a baby falling out of hands. Yeah,
are just send you like a random TikTok and be
like I thought of you when I saw that humbled relationship.

Speaker 26 (01:46:12):
You never know, he might have a sense of you
like you.

Speaker 4 (01:46:15):
You never know, all right, Thanks d got it from somewhere,
I mean, And that guy got a hard no from
his sperm donor and still thinks he should do it.

Speaker 1 (01:46:22):
Thanks for the call, dude. People are making me lean
towards emailing him. I will admit I'm still uncomfortable with it,
but I might do it.

Speaker 2 (01:46:28):
It's standard. You and Laura, good morning. One more call
before you can move on. Bye bye. Hi.

Speaker 29 (01:46:36):
So, my dad has chosen not to be in my
life his entire life, and I still have him in
my life and he chooses not to talk to me
at all. It's kind of heartbreaking, but he chooses his
step family or my step family over mine. And if
I were you, I would choose to reach out to

(01:46:56):
your dad because if you don't know him, I mean,
he could be this awesome person and you'd just never known.
You could have a total douchebag for a parent like
I have, or you could have an amazing person. It's
better to be have an awesome person that.

Speaker 2 (01:47:10):
Not yeah, I hear you. Oh, I'm glad.

Speaker 1 (01:47:14):
I guess I was gonna say I was glad it
worked out.

Speaker 2 (01:47:16):
Yeah, dear, least he knows, she knows what she's dealing with.

Speaker 4 (01:47:19):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:47:19):
Yeah, and she even though it didn't work out for
her necessarily, she still would suggest that you do it.

Speaker 2 (01:47:25):
So that's saying a lot that is true, very true.
Good point.

Speaker 1 (01:47:27):
All right, well you've you've made some good points, and
I appreciate your call.

Speaker 2 (01:47:30):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 4 (01:47:32):
He'll send me thanks. Get that meme out there.

Speaker 2 (01:47:35):
Dog. No, I think maybe i'll bull blown email. Maybe
I'll do it.

Speaker 1 (01:47:39):
I got to think about it, though, I got to
think about like what I'm gonna say.

Speaker 4 (01:47:42):
Just send a list of missed events, I mean chronologically.

Speaker 2 (01:47:46):
Send him like an RSVP.

Speaker 4 (01:47:48):
Welcome to the Disappointment Highway, Dad, This is where it
started in nineteen eighty two.

Speaker 1 (01:47:52):
All right, well, we're gonna find out what's trending coming
up next.

Speaker 2 (01:47:56):
Thing on like you're.

Speaker 5 (01:47:58):
Listening to or Drew and Lower, Drew and Laura.

Speaker 1 (01:48:02):
Laura Portland's rock Station one O five nine the Brew
It's Tanner, Jo and Laura. All Right, a few more
talkbacks and then we'll move away. From this topic for
the rest of time, and we'll never talk about my
daddy again.

Speaker 2 (01:48:14):
That's not true. We will. I think I'm going to
write him. I think you guys convinced me.

Speaker 4 (01:48:18):
I think it'd be a good idea. And if you
get maybe he'll reach out and be cool.

Speaker 2 (01:48:23):
Guy, I don't know, who knows.

Speaker 1 (01:48:25):
Maybe I should just send him like a link to
one of our bits.

Speaker 4 (01:48:27):
Yeah, that goes there to start.

Speaker 2 (01:48:29):
Here's some talkbacks we got, Tanner.

Speaker 20 (01:48:32):
We know how you like to give listeners, you know,
little pet names as they call in and this and that,
and I think that's cool. So as a returning of favor,
the listeners now refer to you as little Chubb.

Speaker 2 (01:48:45):
You son of a bitch. It was his first one.
They all get better with time. Most memorable of all time.

Speaker 7 (01:48:52):
If you get a chance to do it.

Speaker 21 (01:48:54):
I tried to search for my dad and unfortunately I
found him after he'd already passed.

Speaker 7 (01:48:57):
So if you get a chance to see him, do it.

Speaker 2 (01:49:00):
I'm sorry about that, dude. Well, all right, all right,
all right, I'll do Stop coming at me, dude, I'll
do it. I'll sendhim.

Speaker 1 (01:49:06):
I just got to think about what I'm going to
send him so hight. That might take me a year
or two, but I'll figure it out.

Speaker 2 (01:49:13):
Wait a year or two. If it's in poem for
mid'll win.

Speaker 25 (01:49:15):
All right.

Speaker 1 (01:49:17):
Yeah, it's going to be professional. It's going to be
straight to the point, and it's going to be short.

Speaker 2 (01:49:21):
I know that.

Speaker 1 (01:49:22):
Like, I don't want it to sit there and drag on.

Speaker 2 (01:49:24):
Yeah, it should be concise.

Speaker 4 (01:49:25):
All right, how many times do you think you're gonna
approp read it?

Speaker 1 (01:49:29):
I probably will let people read it first, like, what
do you.

Speaker 2 (01:49:31):
Think of this? I mean you can always leave it
up to chat GPT.

Speaker 4 (01:49:34):
Well, seeing how you're gonna leave it in drafts for
a year, get that first line out there.

Speaker 2 (01:49:38):
Really, I'll do it. I promise you, guys will do Now,
it's a promise. Don't be promising. I'll promise I'll do it.
We have that on tape row. I'm going to make
it in today's episode.

Speaker 4 (01:49:49):
If Water is impersonating you as we speak writing.

Speaker 1 (01:49:52):
No, I promise you I will do it. I just
don't know exactly when, but I promise you I'll do it.
I just got to think I want him to say,
all right, that's it. I don't care about it. Stress
me out.

Speaker 2 (01:50:00):
Sorry, I didn't really want I didn't really mean for
it to turn Oh yeah you did. You had a cheshire.
I just know.

Speaker 4 (01:50:07):
I mean, who cares about my dead dad?

Speaker 2 (01:50:09):
Let's find yours? Well, I don't care. I'm all about
talking about my dead dad. She ron all day long.
I don't care.

Speaker 1 (01:50:14):
Lord does get like the way I get when I
see her squirm. It gives me pleasure. It's the same thing.

Speaker 3 (01:50:20):
Yeah, yeah, but except for in this case, I feel
like it's good for you, you know, as opposed to
just like giving me a hard time.

Speaker 4 (01:50:27):
Yeah, that is true. She's not just like burn your arm.
I want to see it right now?

Speaker 2 (01:50:33):
What's trending?

Speaker 4 (01:50:35):
Although I wouldn't put that so available, I would not
put that Passwade all right online at one of five
nine in the brew dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:50:41):
We got a lot of good stuff.

Speaker 1 (01:50:42):
We're going to record a brand new Donkey Show podcast
here in just a few minutes, and you'll be able
to hear that around eleven o'clock at one five nine
is at brew dot com. Also, that video of them
airlifting the donkey that we talked about yesterday, all right, sorry, Yeah,
the Zebra is online. It's the best video you'll see
all week. I love watching animals get airlifted out of place.
Zebra's so high it thinks it's a donkey. Uh huh,

(01:51:02):
I mean you got to put a little trank on
those bad boys to make them just sit there. Also
online at one of five nine the brew dot com.

Speaker 2 (01:51:11):
Actually, I'm not sure yet. Let me go check.

Speaker 1 (01:51:13):
There's just like I gotta go to the old website myself.

Speaker 2 (01:51:16):
Yeah, you post so many things that I forget. Guys,
big heaping pile uht's see yeah, runaway Zebra. I have
to get more two trailer Donkey Ship podcast.

Speaker 7 (01:51:26):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (01:51:26):
There might be some pictures of Laura's feet somewhere on
the website with all that cat barottom.

Speaker 2 (01:51:31):
And maybe that's true. I can still feel it squishing
between my toes now.

Speaker 1 (01:51:35):
If you missed the show earlier this morning, Laura stepped
in cap bar before she left for work.

Speaker 4 (01:51:38):
I immediately when you stepped in it, Did you step
in it enough to where you had to clean barf
off the top of your foot?

Speaker 2 (01:51:44):
No, thankfully, it was just the bottom and in between
your toes, and in between the toes, it's a little
bit on top.

Speaker 3 (01:51:49):
Yeah, and it was like it was not just like breakfast.
It was breakfast and a hairball. So it was like
all the thing.

Speaker 2 (01:51:54):
Did you wash your tootsies afterwards? Did you just put
your socks on?

Speaker 7 (01:51:57):
Go?

Speaker 2 (01:51:57):
No, I got I got sandals on. So maybe you
can still see the.

Speaker 4 (01:52:01):
How big are hairballs?

Speaker 2 (01:52:03):
Any cat bar? I don't see any Okay? Is it hairball?
Like the size of a bouncy ball? Or how big
is that?

Speaker 30 (01:52:11):
It's like whoa, it's kind of like they're long long. Yeah,
it's like a TUTSI roll. I know it does like
a slimy dreadlock. Yeah, yes, it does look like a
slimy dreadlock. That's a great way of describing it.

Speaker 2 (01:52:22):
At least they got it up way more comfortable. It's true,
ruined my rug. I don't forget. We want to drop
a load on your Oh god, we got to do that.
Hold on a second, sorry, god, we're already late. I
know Court's pissed. Well, he'd be even more pissed if
we didn't announce this winner. Yeah, we do have a winner,
all right? So is this it? I don't know? I

(01:52:44):
think this is it? Okay?

Speaker 7 (01:52:45):
Is this it?

Speaker 2 (01:52:47):
I don't even know anymore.

Speaker 4 (01:52:49):
Here's the hoping.

Speaker 2 (01:52:51):
Okay, let's just try it. It's good to go. I
don't even know your daddy, I said, we weren't talking
about this anymore. Done, No, I have one. Yeah, it's
in there somewhere. Well, that guy's gonna be the word.

Speaker 4 (01:53:09):
Yeah, because we did.

Speaker 2 (01:53:10):
Yeah, it's fine. We did play I think we played
it earlier today. Okay, okay, So and the one we
played earlier, that's who won.

Speaker 4 (01:53:16):
He's the one who convinced his dad that Metallic it
was good. It just took album after album and it
wasn't until Load came out that they were able to
bond on Metallic.

Speaker 2 (01:53:25):
Look at that correct, Yes, there you go, all right,
download right heart radio apps. You're just talk back message
and tell us why your dad deserves the Load album
and we'll pick another winner tomorrow.

Speaker 1 (01:53:34):
Courts in next little Grumpy this morning, you'll be fine.
It's one of five nine The Brew to Ander, Drew
and Law