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Speaker 1 (00:04):
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This is Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show, Donkey.
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Show, What Up Kids? What Up?
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What's happening? It's Tanner, Jow and Laura's Donkey Show.
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Podcast Oh heard online at one of five nine in
the brew dot com our. Iheartrady wapp ooever you listen
to podcasts. I'm Tanner, Drew's here, Laura's here, Busterros Marcus
is joining us court maybe joining us here in just
a few minutes. Yeah, I do have a couple of
news clippings that we didn't get a chance to get
to in a live show today. Okay, you know we'll
hear from Marcus. I'm just tired after the show today.
(00:41):
I got a pretty good night's sleep. But the show
is so fun that like when we have really fun shows,
they're just I find myself really energetic, and then like.
Speaker 3 (00:52):
Olock comes and I start to crash yeah, peaks and valleys, yeah.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
And then I have this slump until about four or
five in the afternoon, and then I'm then I'm.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
Back and then at eight pm you cannot close your
eyes go to sleep.
Speaker 4 (01:03):
It's so frustrating is I'm supposed to be in bed,
like by eight. That's when I tell myself I need
to be in bed, but never get there in time
eight yeah, right, yeah, no one gets there by then.
Speaker 3 (01:14):
Never get there in time.
Speaker 4 (01:15):
And uh and and also even if I did, I
couldn't fall asleep. I just I would just lay there
for an hour. I take Melatona sometimes.
Speaker 5 (01:22):
But sometimes Tanner will call me at like four or
five o'clock in the afternoon and you sound so energetic,
and I can tell it's been on one of those
days because I'm like, it's at the end of my day,
which actually ends pretty early because a lot of the
people I work with.
Speaker 6 (01:37):
Are on the East Coast and Midwest.
Speaker 5 (01:39):
Yeah, but you call me with that energy at like
four or five o'clock sometimes, and it's hard for me
to keep up. So it's like you can tell that
that peak and Valley is here.
Speaker 6 (01:46):
Yeah, you know.
Speaker 4 (01:47):
I like in the evening is when I start to
I get really creative, and that's when I like prep
for the next day and think about the show and stuff.
Speaker 3 (01:53):
But in the middle afternoon, I'm dying. M Yeah. I
definitely have a lull where I need some sort of
like either a rework out or I have to do
something or else I'll start to all sort of falter.
Speaker 4 (02:04):
Laura, you were getting in the habit of taking like
a nap after the show for a while.
Speaker 2 (02:07):
Yeah, it's actually has not been great. I've been taking
I have been taking naps, and I've given up on
my twenty six minute nap Arrol.
Speaker 3 (02:16):
Now it's an hour and forty Yeah.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Truly though, Like I will set my alarm for something
like half an hour forty five and then I'll hit snooze.
Speaker 3 (02:24):
But did you feel like you feel nasty when you
wake up from a nap?
Speaker 2 (02:29):
No, because I mean, yeah, I mean it always sucks
to get up, and it's crazy because I'm like I
could sleep for so much longer, and it's like four pm.
I'm like I need to not but I feel like
I need to maybe go to the doctor because then
I go to bed at like nine nine thirty and
I just fall right asleep again. So it's like so job,
but like it's I'm tired all the time.
Speaker 3 (02:51):
Yeah, I would I would rather have my hyper hypo
than deal with that.
Speaker 4 (02:54):
Yeah, just being able to lay down and go to
bed within like twenty minutes thirty minutes.
Speaker 2 (02:59):
But like imagine in getting home every day and just
being like I have to sleep right now?
Speaker 3 (03:04):
Yeah, that would be and it's same. Maybe you do it.
Maybe you're a little narcoleptic.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
I don't think no, because I can control.
Speaker 7 (03:10):
When it goes.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Wouldn't be funny, slot we just looked over and we
just all lure a sleep into a micro Yeah.
Speaker 3 (03:14):
We would have. We would have caught that on here
after all these years of a.
Speaker 2 (03:17):
Little yeah, like you just yeah, well.
Speaker 3 (03:19):
Can you develop it over time? Maybe it's slowly developing. Never,
I don't know. I don't know, go.
Speaker 4 (03:24):
Get checked it because yeah, because you you're you exercise
a lot and everything, so you shouldn't be feeling tired
all day.
Speaker 2 (03:29):
And it's yeah right, so I don't know, whatever, we'll
figure it out.
Speaker 6 (03:33):
You might be a little bit depressed.
Speaker 2 (03:35):
Well yeah, I mean that that comes with the territory
that goes without saying.
Speaker 3 (03:40):
The price is up here it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
Yeah, I mean, maybe I do need to up my
my lexipro. Maybe I need to bump it up a
few min.
Speaker 5 (03:49):
D That's I think that there's a big reason us
in the Pacific Northwest are are a little bit more depressed,
I think, and it's that we get what like three
fall springs before the sun actually decides to come out
and be cool. That's hard to live through when you
just want to go outside and you can't.
Speaker 4 (04:06):
We used to work with a lot of people here
that would use the artificial lights.
Speaker 3 (04:10):
Yeah, we still have.
Speaker 2 (04:11):
The happy lights I have. My mom got me with
the work. They actually I never use, like, I've turned
it on a couple.
Speaker 3 (04:17):
Of It seems like that light would be very annoying
to you. Only swear by.
Speaker 2 (04:20):
You're only supposed to leave it on for like fifteen
minutes or Something's all, but that's all you need sometimes. Yeah,
but I don't know. Maybe I should get it back
out and try it again. But now the sun's coming
back out, so.
Speaker 3 (04:32):
Sleep, exercise and food surprise surprise is one way to
help that mental health?
Speaker 2 (04:37):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (04:37):
Yeah, do we do? You want to talk about it?
Speaker 5 (04:39):
Another way is by crying in the shower, just in
case you guys.
Speaker 2 (04:43):
Yeah, you know, I'm not a shower crier. I cry
in the car.
Speaker 3 (04:48):
She likes to wet her own face with tears. Yeah,
I mean I'm already artificial.
Speaker 4 (04:52):
Rain, right, I guess I've cried in the shower, but
I don't make a habit of it. I'm usually like,
you don't make it happen normally dry heaving, because I'm
kind of like I'm gonna mindset in the shower, you know,
for the most part, I'm in a different mindset and
so like I'm just thinking about getting out of there.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
I have anxiety in the shower in morning showers, especially
when he gets hot, but nothing about tears.
Speaker 4 (05:12):
But I have a friend who actually gets super sad
in the morning. He's not a depressed guy, but for
some reason in the morning because he also has to
he doesn't do radio, but he has to wake up
super early to go to his job, and he says
he gets so sad on the drive to work.
Speaker 2 (05:24):
Everything the morning time is the worst. And I think
maybe everybody deals with that a little bit, where like
you wake up, especially when you wake up as early
as we do, you wake up and it's like everything
sucks and your life is miserable, and it's four am
and it's stark outside, and you're like what the fuck
is because.
Speaker 3 (05:39):
You have no distraction too, you know, when it's when
it's four in the morning and I'm standing in the dark,
and I'm accidentally comparing myself to my peers, as in, like,
oh my god, I want to I don't have like
a like a big safety cushion with my children. When
if I lost my.
Speaker 2 (05:53):
Job, all right, like it just goes all the way
down a rabbit hole and I just woke up.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
Can tell him in my car are driving here, and
then I'm like, okay, I guess I'll be here.
Speaker 4 (06:02):
That's one of the reasons I can't lay in bed.
We had a boss who he would his alarm would
go off, and then he would lay in bed for
like another half an hour, just a wake scrolling on
his phone. When I can't do that, like, my anxiety
kicks in right away.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
I'll become physical ill If I do that.
Speaker 4 (06:15):
The alarm goes off and my body gets hot because
I start to think about everything that has to go on,
you know, the show and then begin on time and
then all this stuff, Like I immediately start panicking.
Speaker 3 (06:25):
I get up right away. I'm with you. My entire
routine is built around running from my thoughts, you know.
So like that's why as soon, like you said, as
soon as it goes off, I have to start walking
to the bathroom. I have to be doing something, turning
on a shower. It all has to be routine or
I will get lost in my own problems. So I mean,
I'm with you. If I lay there, I'm cooked.
Speaker 4 (06:47):
Yeah, mornings are rough men, and they never get easier, Like, oh,
well you've been doing it for ten years now, dude,
it never gets easier.
Speaker 3 (06:53):
Those first twenty minutes for me are are death. I
said the effort out loud this morning. Yeah, I mean
it was a whisper, but it was. Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:01):
What all the thing that helps me? The only thing
that helps me is I just I turn the hot
water on and I just stare at the shower head.
Speaker 3 (07:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (07:07):
I let it blast me in the face for like
thirty seconds a minute or so and definitely helps.
Speaker 3 (07:11):
And the fact that I end my shower with a
cold shower, actually me fighting for my life, makes me
forget about my problem.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
Yeah, I mean, just like nothing when.
Speaker 3 (07:20):
Your balls start to disappear into your tummy, Yeah, everything
else seems so minuscule.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
Yeah. I do want to come back to something you
said off handedly a minute ago, true to really dry
heave on your toothbrush sometimes because I do like I'm like.
Speaker 3 (07:34):
And it's when I'm anxious more than when I'm not.
It's the weirdest thing. I definitely used to but I
haven't done it here when it gets to the back area.
And it also has to do with the heat and
the shower and all that where it starts to overwhelm me.
Like if I don't see it coming where it's getting
hot and I don't crack that glass door, I can
end up upside down. I gotta be very careful there, huh.
(07:55):
I like it hot. Sometimes I get it. I get
it so hot that I come out a little lethargic.
I'm like, man, well, and that's what I tried. Like
that's why I end with colder. I will always get
out with them.
Speaker 4 (08:04):
Yeah, like I it's only like once in a while,
but like it was probably like a month ago. I
got that shower so hot because I was just kind
of cold, and I got that thing so hot. And
then as you're in there, you can make it a
little hotter, you know. And then at one point I
had it all the way up and I never have
it all the way up, and I got all the
way up, I had it all the way up. Whoa,
and I got out of there, and I was just like,
oh man, I could take a nap right now.
Speaker 3 (08:25):
I just find that there's not enough air in the
room when it gets to it, and I don't have
the My bathroom's not the biggest, you know, so it's
like it's kind of confined. And if I go hot hot,
how might be like doing that thing where you're like
you feel like your head's getting light. Yeah, And I
cracked that door, and as soon as that wind comes in,
it's like, okay, okay, well there he is. Okay, it's
like a smelling salt. I don't remember why we got
(08:48):
on this topic here, but it doesn't really matter. We're in.
We're I felt like we were head of the zone.
Speaker 2 (08:53):
We're talking about being depressed in the morning and how
you fight that. Take a shot.
Speaker 3 (09:00):
It's a long rabbit hole to to where we are.
I'm not depressed in the morning. I just want to
kill things.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
I just have anxiety. It's anxiety and it's different than anxiety.
And just like again, another one of these yeah, that's
what it is now.
Speaker 3 (09:12):
This morning, Like I got up and I used that
cheese at the end of the stick because I know
that it's a memorial day weekend. I know we're going
to get a chance to sleep in, you know, our
own versions of sleep in like that, I chase that
cheese if I'm anxious.
Speaker 5 (09:27):
I was just thinking about your buddy who you brought up,
Tanner that said he gets so sad on his drive
to work. And my experience with that is and I
hate to tell in this because maybe he likes his job,
but you got to get a different job, dude, Like
that's you know, I don't think.
Speaker 4 (09:40):
It's his job. He likes his gig. He's he's a welder,
and he really enjoys that job. But he just he
just says it's something about waking.
Speaker 3 (09:50):
Up early in the morning. But it is a good
point and he's been that way his whole life, says,
And you can never be a welder and not get
up then, so he might like the job but hate
the lights hours. Yeah, like I love my job, I
hate my hours.
Speaker 5 (10:03):
For me, that feeling I had it every single day
when I was driving in when I was selling cars,
and that was kind of the main driving force. Is
like after I don't know, probably two or three months
of that and how it was like compounding.
Speaker 6 (10:16):
On me with all the other stuff that was going
on in life.
Speaker 5 (10:19):
I just knew it was like this is gonna kill me,
Like this is gonna be if I work this job
for twenty years, I'm the car salesman that dies at sixty.
I've got to get out of this. And that was
kind of an existential dread type feeling. Yeah, but I
will say this, once I got that part of my
life changed, I've not had that feeling again since I
(10:39):
took this gig. Even on the bad days, even on
the days where I thought I was gonna lose my
fucking job, I didn't feel like that. And you gotta
take a step back and think about the effect that
that has on your wider life, Like can you even
be the person you want to be to all the
people you love if you spend an hour in your
car feeling like that every day before you go to work.
That's my question that I had to ask, and my
(11:00):
answer was no. And I know welders make really good money,
so that probably factors into it too.
Speaker 3 (11:06):
Right, He's got a couple of kids, and if things
aren't going great in that realm, it trickles down. If
things aren't good at work, I'm not a good dad,
I'm not a great husband. I'm not a funny dude.
I'm not who you want to be around again again,
it's I don't think has anything to do with this
guy's john. You're talking about me personally.
Speaker 4 (11:20):
Yeah, but this guy he just you know, since I
was little, i'd go to you know, I just waking up.
My mom woul drive me to school. I'd be sad
going to you know, taking the bus to school. When
I was in high school, I'd be sad.
Speaker 3 (11:31):
He needs that Lexi pro, he needs that Alexa pro.
Head right down down, mex Well, sorry, Marcus Whites. We
were singing.
Speaker 6 (11:38):
Yeah, be a bouncer, work nights, never wake up early again. Yeah,
go to blet And I.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Think bouncers are pretty depressed in the end too, dude,
I hate it.
Speaker 4 (11:44):
I I worked over nights for a while, and your
fucking life sucks.
Speaker 3 (11:49):
Yeah, you don't get to hang out with anybody else
you since your work's at the end. There's no partying.
Speaker 4 (11:54):
And then when you have to do stuff like there's
days or you just have to wake up early normally
that's the time to sleep.
Speaker 3 (11:58):
You're just dying with DMV morning. And then you're gonna
bounce it. My god, he has a lot of IDs.
All right, there is a yeah argus.
Speaker 2 (12:06):
Real quick before pivos, No nothing, I was me but I.
Speaker 4 (12:11):
Well, Bill Belichick's in the news again. He's been in
the news a lot lately. He's clickable, Big Bill. Of course,
seventy three years old, date a twenty four year old woman,
and the rumors are that they're now engaged.
Speaker 3 (12:23):
Jordan Hudson.
Speaker 2 (12:24):
He's running out of time, dude, she's about to cash.
Speaker 3 (12:27):
He better have a prenup. I would, but she's the
one running businesses.
Speaker 2 (12:32):
Yeah, and even if there was a pre nup, she's
going to wait till he dies. So then what's I mean.
Speaker 3 (12:36):
Well, the prenup can say you're not getting my estate.
It's going to my son.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
No, I bet, I bet the will reports of yeah.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Reports of surface that are alleging that Hudson is trying
to control Belichick's career, both on and off the field. Recently,
Hudson attempted to shut down a question. We heard all
that on CBS. But I don't know what the truth is.
Speaker 2 (12:57):
I gotta be honest with you though, And of course
some take the girl card here, and I'm not saying
I mean, like, the whole situation is weird. But for
them to be like she's trying to control his career,
is that the other thing? Bro is seventy three years old.
He's been doing this for a long time. If he
didn't want her to control his shit, he could just
(13:17):
say so.
Speaker 3 (13:18):
So I'm like, you're a grown ash should be up
to him and not up to us.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
Yeah, take care of your own state, take care of
your own thing. And if you don't, you know, like
her bossing you around, then don't let it happen. But
it sounds like he's letting it happen. And well, we
saw it, were not upset about it.
Speaker 3 (13:32):
We saw it happen in real time. He just let
it happen. But it's the American way. We need to
be in everyone else's business, right, even though it has
nothing to do with us. But he is clickable. He's
his name is like lebron I, so anything that happens
to him is going to be clickable.
Speaker 4 (13:47):
It is a weird story. You know, this guy won
all these super Bowls. Now he's now he's coaching a
college team, you know, and he's dating a twenty four
year old woman.
Speaker 3 (13:54):
It's just a. It's a weird story. It is.
Speaker 2 (13:56):
It's just weird to me that people are villainizing her
when he.
Speaker 3 (14:01):
If she's a victim of something that would not be
her like, maybe should want to talk about it because
maybe there were some grooming you know. Yeah, I think
that's part of it, is that the timeline doesn't sound good.
I think we'll talk about it. Yeah, well it's a
little there's a little gray area, but.
Speaker 4 (14:16):
Man, she had resting bitch face for sure, could be
very I don't know that with the way she looked
at that reporter when he asked that question, was ice cold.
Speaker 3 (14:25):
We're not going to talk about that.
Speaker 5 (14:28):
I think it's kind of funny that people are just
automatically thinking that, oh, she took over his life. She's
she's the one that's in the in the wrong here.
Do we forget that for twenty plus years, this guy
was the master tactician of the NFL. He could get
any team to shit on themselves whenever he wanted to,
just by putting their brain in a blender, by out
(14:48):
thinking them. And all of a sudden, we think that
a nineteen year old that he met on a plane
is going to swoop in and take over his entire estate.
I just don't buy it. I think Bill Belichick wants
somebody to be running the show and have it a
little bit easier. And uh, this is the person he found,
and you can't really blame him. She's not hard to
look at. I will say that.
Speaker 3 (15:08):
She finished third in Miss Pennsylvania?
Speaker 7 (15:11):
Was it Maine?
Speaker 3 (15:11):
A Miss Maine. Yeah, that's pretty I mean that's pretty big.
Speaker 5 (15:15):
And he likes to say that she's brilliant. I don't
know that the rest of us have enough frame of
reference to actually comment on that. But if the guy
that won all the super Bowls and did it better
than anybody else, just a couple of years later is like, No,
she's brilliant, She's doing great. It's kind of hard not
to believe him because he's not having like Biden moments,
Like she's not leading him off the stage the wrong
(15:37):
direction because he tried to walk someplace he's not supposed to.
Speaker 3 (15:40):
Yeah, yeah, yet, give it time, Yeah yeah, give it time.
Speaker 5 (15:44):
Right in ten years, she's gonna be wheeling him all
over the place.
Speaker 6 (15:47):
But I think right now he's still got ahead on
his shoulders. And I don't know, I don't know.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
I think balls.
Speaker 4 (15:54):
I think he's lost his balls and he's just infatuated
as this girl. She's young, she's hot, she's you know,
a little controlling. Maybe he likes that.
Speaker 3 (16:01):
He broke up with his old girlfriend, got a pocket
l of viagra. He's gonna go hard.
Speaker 4 (16:05):
But his friends are reportedly concerned about his behavior with
that with her.
Speaker 3 (16:09):
I just don't think I listen. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (16:11):
I'm just saying that it is a little to me.
If I were his friend, I'd be a little concerned. Like, dude,
you're when you're seventy five. Yeah, yeah, you're given her
a lot of power, are you really? This is a
really you know, if this is what you want to do, fine,
but thinking through is it a smart idea?
Speaker 2 (16:25):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (16:26):
You know, don't just make any think about it. My
next girlfriend would have to be born six years from
now to be the age gap that they are. Bonker,
that is that you think about it like that? It's
pretty gross.
Speaker 5 (16:38):
Yeah, come kind of wild man. I maybe this was
his plan all along. He's always been a private guy.
Like his plan could have been I'm gonna win all
the super Bowls, then I'm gonna get with a stupid
hot model and I'm going to just burn out, Like
you know, a rocks like this could have been in
the cards the whole time.
Speaker 6 (16:55):
So well, we'll keep right on track.
Speaker 4 (16:57):
We'll keep you posted on the Belichick debacle. This is
another thing we did not get to today. A survey
of most American. A survey says most Americans say it's
okay to use a coupon on a first date.
Speaker 3 (17:10):
See I mean in this economy, actually, I mean, I
don't know. I might not do it in front of you,
but if you said it was cool, that would make me.
That'd be kind of a turn on.
Speaker 4 (17:21):
I've only done it one time, and I was like,
I think I was like twenty two years old, twenty
three years old. I took this girl out and I
had a bunch of gift certificates for this Mexican restaurant.
Speaker 3 (17:30):
And I look back at that.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
She didn't say anything, but I look back at it,
and I go, that probably looked really tacky, you know,
like paying for the date with gift certificates.
Speaker 2 (17:37):
It's like, oh, I guess I know why he recommended
this restaurant.
Speaker 4 (17:40):
Yeah, Like, I uh, I look back at it, and
I was young and broke, So I mean I mean,
what was I gonna do? But I feel like it
probably would have looked better to her if I just
paid with the card or money.
Speaker 5 (17:51):
Yeah, and it's a first date. I don't know anything
about you. How about this? If I'm paying, you can
either enjoy it or fuck off? Like, yes, I don't
understand why that this would be such a big deal
in indictment on my character. If I have a chance
to save a couple bucks and work together in twelve
years and I don't do it, are you gonna yell
at me for making irresponsible financial decisions?
Speaker 3 (18:14):
I mean it's a good point in court. What do
you think would you? Most Americans say it is okay
to use a coupon on a first date.
Speaker 7 (18:21):
Yeah, I mean it's a good way to kind of
do a temperature check on the person that you're with.
Like if they freak out over that, then then you
know that like down the road, it's gonna be a problem,
so they burn money.
Speaker 4 (18:30):
YEA, what if they don't freak out, but they just
note that that it's at a bit of a red
flag to them.
Speaker 3 (18:34):
They don't say anything, They just think that.
Speaker 7 (18:36):
I mean, if it's so long as I don't have
to hear about it. Oh that's fine.
Speaker 4 (18:39):
I mean you red flag on quiet all you want,
because you know that the prices are expensive now everyone's
raising the prices. And if she orders a if she
orders a steak or something like the Rabbi, yeah, you know,
it might be a little or the Tomahawk.
Speaker 3 (18:52):
You know, I was at what is it? Wherever I was,
and the Tomahawk was like one hundred and thirty six bucks.
Speaker 7 (18:58):
Yeah that's deep.
Speaker 2 (18:59):
Yeah, I mean, if you're taking to somebody to a
fancy restaurant that is serving one hundred and sixty dollars
steaks on your first date, like I guess you're just
a high roller.
Speaker 4 (19:09):
Anyway, if she does order the Tomahawk, can marry her,
though I don't know any girls who order at a
Tomahawk steak on a first date. But yeah, you know,
I suppose if it's the bill comes to two hundred
something dollars or whatever, one hundred and fifty something dollars,
why not use a Kooper?
Speaker 2 (19:22):
But I feel like that's even tack here. It's like,
you take someone to something fancy, you can't like, yeah,
here's a gift.
Speaker 7 (19:28):
Smart.
Speaker 3 (19:28):
I'm not disagreeing with you.
Speaker 4 (19:29):
I think it's like I look back at when I
use the gift certificates and I go, I actually did.
Speaker 3 (19:33):
Why Why is it such a big deal, especially in
this economy. I don't think that what you did is
a big deal because of your the age that you were. Yeah,
girls who are a little bit older are a little
bit worried about stability. Why do you have no money
when I was twenty one or twenty two taking a
girl on a date. There's an unwritten understanding that I
(19:54):
don't have a lot of money. I'm trying to become
somebody who you would love to marry late or maybe,
but I have eighty one dollars in my account. I
want to have dinner with you. Yeah, and that sounds great.
Hopefully we can do this in my wheelhouse, but I
do have these gift certificates so we can get a
car to read it. I see younger, younger girl college
totally being down with right, but older I could see
(20:16):
it being like, oh, is he a loser?
Speaker 2 (20:18):
Yeah, And I think that I think that's what it
is is. It's like, Okay, do you not have money?
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Like pay for you?
Speaker 2 (20:25):
If I want on a date with a forty year
old dude, and he pays with a coupon or a
gift card or something like that. Maybe it doesn't say
anything about his finances. But immediately in my head, I'm like,
do you not have the cash to pay for this
or like what? So I probably wouldn't say anything about it.
And it's just a nice date. Yeah, And if it continued,
like if I found out a date or two later
(20:47):
that like, yeah, this guy actually is a broke ass,
then like okay, But I would also give him a
chance to redeem himself and prove otherwise.
Speaker 7 (20:55):
I mean, there's there's also the issue of when you're
paying for the bill, like you don't make a grand
gesture out of.
Speaker 8 (21:01):
The oh, I got my my gift card here, Like
you pull a couple of cards card exactly, You're welcome.
Youll slip it in the little folder thing and hand
it to the waiter and call it good.
Speaker 7 (21:11):
You don't have to make a big deal out of.
Speaker 4 (21:13):
The thing, because if you do really quickly, could just
look like your credit card totally.
Speaker 5 (21:15):
Yeah, and here's here's a point too. Let's not think
about like if you're maybe if you're dating this guy,
a better thing to look at for these types of
flags that you're looking for is how does he tip
the person, how does he treat the person that comes
to the table that's waiting on you? Did he order
water and lemon wedges and sugar packets so he can
make his own lemonade? Those are things that looked like
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maybe somebody's cheap paying with a gift card. Like if
my mom gives me one hundred dollars gift card on
my birthday, am I just supposed to not use it
on the things I want to I like?
Speaker 2 (21:48):
But also, you've you've been married for several years, so
I think it's different.
Speaker 5 (21:53):
I took her out the Olive Garden tomorrow, I'd pay
with a gift card on the.
Speaker 4 (21:56):
Totally this this was first day the survey about first dates.
Speaker 5 (22:02):
Yeah, so I just think wife to Olive Garden on
the first date. And I'm not one hundred percent sure
that I didn't use some trade credit.
Speaker 3 (22:11):
There's a there's a clear there's a clear half.
Speaker 5 (22:13):
Out back all the time on my on my sponsorship
that I had from out back, there's.
Speaker 3 (22:17):
A there's a clear difference between finding a good deal
and being overly thrifty. I don't think any girl and Lord,
tell me if I'm wrong here. Any girl wants to
always talk about how expensive it is and how we
need to get a better deal, and we're not getting
pizza without a coupon. And I can become a victim
of that sometimes where it's like the pizza is thirty
(22:39):
eight bucks, Like I gotta find a coupon. But if
you do that to him every time, I feel like
it deteriorates, kind of like at your character too.
Speaker 2 (22:46):
Right Else it's it's like, am I not worth thirty
eight just not being cheap and just.
Speaker 3 (22:50):
Don't get the Yeah. But and now on the other
end of it, we always get door dashed because I'm like,
whatever about our finances? Who needs a savings account? That's
also a red flag somewhere in the middle. Yeah, is
where I would think that I try to stay. But yeah, dude,
if you're door dashing every day, dude, I've got neighbors
to do it every day and I know their jobs,
Like I'm like, wow, how yeah, where's your couping?
Speaker 5 (23:13):
Well, it's a once a month thing.
Speaker 7 (23:17):
For me.
Speaker 5 (23:17):
I have to be so incredibly disciplined with door dash
because if I do it more than once a month,
I feel like I'm wasting money else you are.
Speaker 4 (23:25):
Door dash is such a I don't do it very often,
and if I do do it, it's because I'm hammered
and I can't drive anywhere, but I need to eat
or I'm going to regret it in the morning.
Speaker 3 (23:33):
And then after I eat their wet food, I'm so bummed.
Speaker 4 (23:37):
That I paid forty dollars for this Soggi burrito.
Speaker 3 (23:41):
Saggi burrito. I know. It's very frustrating.
Speaker 4 (23:44):
Also, it pisses me off when they make multiple stops
before they get to your house and then when they
show up they have no heat bag.
Speaker 3 (23:51):
There should be a discount for me not being first. Yeah,
like I didn't want to be at the end of
your wagon train.
Speaker 4 (23:58):
Like I get they have to make money and something
make and stuff, but like get a heat bag then, yeah,
don't fucking make nine trips and then I have my ship.
Speaker 7 (24:05):
Cold and don't eat my fries on the way to
my house.
Speaker 3 (24:08):
Just work smarter, that's all.
Speaker 2 (24:09):
Well, I mean, that's the that's I think that's part
of the fee. Remember the feet, the fry feet.
Speaker 4 (24:15):
Last time I order Uber Eats was like like two
weeks ago, and the guy's uh the guy's phone died.
Speaker 3 (24:19):
Remember I told you, Yeah, he had to find him
on the road.
Speaker 4 (24:22):
I had to drive two blocks down the street because
this guy would park there for like fifteen minutes, twenty
minutes or something.
Speaker 3 (24:27):
And I get down there and he was like, oh,
my phone's dead.
Speaker 4 (24:29):
And I'm like, dude, they plug get the You're in
a car, a new job, dude, that's what you need.
Speaker 3 (24:33):
That Yeah, game plan.
Speaker 7 (24:36):
You're not good enough for this one.
Speaker 4 (24:37):
So I took the tip away. But as I was
eating it, I started to feel better. I gave him
the money back because.
Speaker 3 (24:44):
I said, ah, right, drunk, I still got the food.
Slightly buzzed. He didn't drive to get it.
Speaker 7 (24:49):
Now I was.
Speaker 3 (24:49):
I was, Yeah, I think I had a even a
couple That.
Speaker 2 (24:53):
Was an emotional roller coaster for that guy. He's like,
sweet tip, Wait what oh no, now it's back?
Speaker 1 (24:59):
Yeah cool.
Speaker 3 (25:00):
Well I don't know that he knew his like a dropout.
What else are we not talking about today? Oh? I'm
interested in this. I just I didn't watch the trailer,
but maybe you did.
Speaker 7 (25:10):
Court.
Speaker 4 (25:10):
There was a teaser trailer for the It's television show
starring Bill Scarsguard.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
The guy who played it he's going to.
Speaker 4 (25:17):
Be it again on the TV show He's the guy,
which he's so good as it. The second movie was
not great. First the first you know remake was I
loved it. Yeah, so I'll give the show a shot.
Speaker 7 (25:29):
Yeah, No, it looks for it's on HBO Max.
Speaker 3 (25:32):
It's okay.
Speaker 4 (25:32):
So HBO's like they've got some bangers, totally and so
and it's and it's a series.
Speaker 7 (25:37):
Like you said, it's set in the sixties, so it's
kind of a prequel series.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
That's cool is that when the original book came out.
Speaker 7 (25:44):
No, I think the book came out I want to
say in the seventies, but it was maybe it was
set in the sixties.
Speaker 3 (25:49):
I like that the tech is back farther because you know,
in a situation where you're dealing with this a lot
of times in twenty twenty five, ranc ball Well could
have fixed.
Speaker 4 (25:57):
That with a cell phone, right. I find nineteen sixties.
I find that, like the tech is dumbed down in
horror movies. It makes it scarier, like when people have
all this high tech, you know, ghostbuster gadgets and stuff
like that, Like, come on, I think this TV show
might be pretty good. Yeah, because you know, just the
fact that it's like you'll have that scenery from the
sixties and all the clothing and stuff.
Speaker 2 (26:14):
And scars guards awesome.
Speaker 3 (26:15):
Yeah, you got one phone line and it's game time.
Speaker 7 (26:18):
Yeah, Charnce. It didn't really show up on the trailer
a whole lot. He's at the very end of the
trailer and it's tim like it's he's in like the
sewer and it's just him backlit, so he's kind of a.
Speaker 3 (26:27):
Shat So you just see that.
Speaker 7 (26:29):
Yeah, but you can see he's pending.
Speaker 3 (26:30):
That's cool. I'm going to watch that.
Speaker 2 (26:32):
I'm looking forward.
Speaker 4 (26:34):
Even the second movie had its moments, like it was cool.
Casting Bill had long.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
It was long, so long.
Speaker 4 (26:40):
It was long, and like it could have been like
it was like a Quentin Tarantina movie had like three endings.
Speaker 3 (26:45):
Just wrap it up. He's a little convoluted, But that
is the show I'm going to watch.
Speaker 4 (26:49):
Drew's uh, the trailer just came out, So maybe I
bet you when summers.
Speaker 7 (26:55):
Are Yeah, yep, yeah, I bet you all thing.
Speaker 4 (26:58):
But Drew is balls deep and right, Drew and Lore's
balls deep and right. Just gymstones right now.
Speaker 3 (27:03):
Oh my god. If you haven't seen it, and I
know Tanner's just getting started. I just started, and I
never you know, I never get through a season in
a week or whatever. Yeah, I'm through a whole season.
The half hour episodes are full.
Speaker 2 (27:15):
They're like forty minutes.
Speaker 3 (27:16):
Yeah, I feel like they're a little longer than a
half hour, but they do. It's so funny and so
creative that you're like it's over. Like it, I've seen
so many.
Speaker 4 (27:25):
So the reason I started watching it because I started
watching it before you guys, you just killed it and
got it, got through it quicker than I did. I
started watching it because I just kept seeing clips of
Walter Goggins and Donna McBride.
Speaker 7 (27:34):
Yeah, and really the.
Speaker 4 (27:35):
First clip I saw was man, I don't give a
fuck about these DUTs.
Speaker 3 (27:39):
And I thought that was so funny. And then I go,
well what is this from?
Speaker 4 (27:42):
And I started I just kept watching clips from the
show YEP and everything that guy says, Walter Goggins is perfect.
Speaker 7 (27:49):
Yeah, no, he's hilarious.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
So we baby Billy is up there with who is
the blonde girl from Ozark? I almost called her Rose.
Speaker 2 (27:57):
Her name is Ruth, Ruth, Ruth.
Speaker 3 (28:00):
Type of every word is boom. Yeah, crushes.
Speaker 4 (28:03):
Its just I saw a clip of him, like I
just need two million and a bollack Okaine.
Speaker 3 (28:08):
Yeah, it's like, what is this show? When Danny McBride
comes off as a support character, you know it's good.
When the guy from Workaholics, the one who was in Adam,
he's like a fourth or fifth character and he's good well, and.
Speaker 7 (28:21):
Actually the sister, which I don't think I've ever seen
her in anything, incredible crush, she's another one. Every time
she opens her mouth, you're like Jesus Christ.
Speaker 2 (28:28):
She says like the dirtiest, most ridiculous shit.
Speaker 4 (28:31):
It's very and then I and then I always forget that.
You know, Uh, George what's his name? John Goodman is
there like he's He's one of those guys that I
love every single thing he's in. He doesn't matter, Like
it doesn't matter if the movie is even that Great Monumentsman.
Speaker 3 (28:45):
Is a ship movie. But he's great.
Speaker 7 (28:46):
Yeah, he's great. Never a straight man in this movie
or in the show. He's he's the straight man. He's
the he's the least funny of all man. He's still there,
but he's the least funny of all of them.
Speaker 3 (28:53):
I love John goodman Man.
Speaker 4 (28:54):
I was watching Tim Cloverfield Lane the other day, and
he's so good in that because he's creepy as ship.
Speaker 3 (29:00):
He's rotund in that one right after.
Speaker 4 (29:02):
That movie lost all the way, So now he looks
kind of weird with with all the skin hanging.
Speaker 3 (29:06):
Lot of neck there. Yeah, you're gonna tell me the
Connors would have had one more episode if he quit,
not a chance. Yeah, right, like like he was the
last piece of glue. And it's too bad.
Speaker 4 (29:15):
Roseanne sucks because when she came back, those first few
episodes of the reboot were.
Speaker 3 (29:19):
So good and the Briders were so on it. It
was so like they were topical with what was going on.
Speaker 4 (29:25):
Like, uh, Roseanne was was team Maga and her sister
Wasn't you know I wrote that in I thought that
was great.
Speaker 3 (29:32):
And then she ruined it.
Speaker 4 (29:33):
Yeah, she opened her fucking mouth and said a lot
of crazy stuff. She's still crazy. Every clip I see
of Roseanne she's saying something crazy.
Speaker 3 (29:40):
Well, look at the original reason that she went to TV.
She was abrasive, she was the she was your mom,
but saying things that your mom wouldn't say, Like that's
why Roseanne. And then it was all a thing.
Speaker 7 (29:52):
Well, and that show really connected with like the middle
middle of America that like all other shows are about
like rich couples, family living in this massive house and
silver Spoons. I have so many troubles with all my money,
oh my god, And but this show is actually about
people and it was. It was fantastic.
Speaker 4 (30:08):
I think silver Spoons like they were so rich. The
dude had a little mini train in his house. He
could ride a little mini train was his living room. Yes, yeah,
I wanted that so bad. Webster had a trapped door
behind a clock, for fuck's sake. The realism between a
different Strokes and.
Speaker 3 (30:20):
A Roseanne are two different lands, right, everybody's everyone's in
a mansion in TV up till Rose a few more
things before? Yeah, go ahead?
Speaker 5 (30:29):
Uh sorry, I need to start Righteous Gemstones. It sounds
like my wife was asking me about it the other day, right,
But is anybody else on mob Land?
Speaker 4 (30:38):
I saw the trailers for it. Is that with uh
it's got uh what's his name?
Speaker 6 (30:42):
Tom Hardy and Peters Brosnan.
Speaker 3 (30:44):
Yes, I've seen the trailers where we find that.
Speaker 6 (30:47):
Oh good, it's uh.
Speaker 5 (30:48):
That is on Prime, I believe, or maybe Paramount Plus
actually it's a paramount. Plus it's Guy Richie is involved,
so it's got kind of the guy Richie feel of
just like a like a British mob family.
Speaker 6 (31:00):
Guys.
Speaker 5 (31:00):
It's so good, Like I can't, I can't put it down.
We're actually caught up, which is something Ashley and I
never do. We always leave it so that we can
watch the whole series. We can't not have a Sunday
where we're not watching Mobland right now. It's too good.
You gotta check it out.
Speaker 4 (31:15):
All right, Mobland will put I'll put that on the list.
Like there's so many shows, man, I gotta watch right now.
I'm gonna focus on Righteous Gymstones. I'm kind of getting
back into the Game of Throne stuff, So I gotta
watch season two of the House of the Dragon.
Speaker 3 (31:29):
Oh yeah, it was it not good.
Speaker 6 (31:31):
We just we just started Peacemaker last night, Tanner. Oh,
it's pretty good.
Speaker 3 (31:34):
The first season was great.
Speaker 7 (31:36):
Yeah, peace Maker's great.
Speaker 2 (31:37):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (31:37):
Yeah, I wouldn't I wouldn't waste a whole lot of
time on the House of Dragon. Okay, that's so, maybe
peace Makerer and go go for peace Maker first.
Speaker 4 (31:44):
Yeah, because John Cena is so fucking hilarious. Yes, there's
this one movie. I think it's where Tina Fay and
Amy Poller Sisters. The movie might be called Sisters. But
he shows up as a drug dealer and he's got
a tackle box and he and he's he just goes, man,
I got whippets, I got I got weed, I got hills,
I got anything you need. And he's so funny and
like he's also extremely intelligent, like John Cena can speak
(32:06):
like fluid mandarin. Have you ever seen him out? Like
he goes to it when you tell me has to
go to chinaor whatever, he just speaks Mandarin.
Speaker 3 (32:12):
I have heard him do it. Let me pull it
up and his name is John Cena.
Speaker 2 (32:21):
The scene dog speaking Mandarin. Do you think of other shows?
I've been watching.
Speaker 5 (32:30):
That mash up of prank calls where they keep calling
the same woman and it's a John.
Speaker 3 (32:34):
It's one of the best print calls ever. Many here
it is. Here's this clip.
Speaker 6 (32:38):
Yeah, we bore.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
The woman.
Speaker 1 (32:46):
So he WOZI pie jugger your way Tom and ge
woan mating.
Speaker 3 (32:53):
A product that give that?
Speaker 7 (32:58):
I mean he says he's speaking man, but do you
know he is actually speaking.
Speaker 3 (33:01):
I'm going to take his word for it. I've seen
him at press conferences. I mean, of course, I'm sure
he can be pretty backwards mains.
Speaker 4 (33:08):
From what I understand, it's one of the hardest it's
one of the hardest one is to learn. So I
don't know when he when did he pick that up?
Speaker 3 (33:13):
They're all hard. Yeah, it's crazy.
Speaker 2 (33:15):
I don't know. I'm sure he had somebody to help
him out with that.
Speaker 7 (33:19):
I'm sure he just read a book.
Speaker 3 (33:21):
I'm sure was it when he was a little kid.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
Did he grow up learning it? Or did it what
happened in college? He started when he was ten years old?
Speaker 6 (33:30):
Wow?
Speaker 4 (33:30):
Wow, Yeah, that's why he's so fluent, because you ya
get all that time.
Speaker 2 (33:34):
That's when you should be starting to learn. Well, actually
you should be learning in like in the household when
you're very very young.
Speaker 3 (33:40):
But well, there you go. I think that's it for us.
You guys, anything else? Bing bing bong?
Speaker 4 (33:46):
No, No, Tomorrow, we'll have more tickets to alien Is
Barbecue Fest, which is the most delicious event you'll go to.
In June. We'll have beef water in here for another edition.
Speaker 2 (33:57):
Of Not Necessarily the News, right, and.
Speaker 3 (34:01):
Maybe a court will show up in a nice flannel
well have a flannel. Whether he comes in or.
Speaker 7 (34:05):
Not, it won't be a nice flannel.
Speaker 4 (34:07):
You should just get a mannequin in here with a
flannel on it, so it just gives us a presence,
you know, when he's not here exactly.
Speaker 1 (34:13):
All right?
Speaker 3 (34:13):
Is that looks like warm? Like a warm flannel?
Speaker 2 (34:15):
Does this look nice?
Speaker 7 (34:16):
It's it's fine? Is that lban my buys Levice flannel?
Didn't know my my flannel was going to be a
subject today.
Speaker 3 (34:26):
That's a big deal, dude.
Speaker 2 (34:27):
Yeah, yeah, he coordinated his Chuck Taylor's with his flannel.
Speaker 3 (34:32):
Oh he did. I mean not really. It's totally the
wrong color, Like you'res right out of nineteen ninety two.
Speaker 1 (34:38):
Man.
Speaker 7 (34:38):
That's right, that's right. That's that's when my my development stopped.
Speaker 3 (34:44):
All right, we'll see tomorrow.
Speaker 1 (34:45):
By you've been listening to Tanner, Drew and Laura's Donkey Show,
heard daily at one oh five nine that brew dot com.
Speaker 7 (34:55):
May God have mercy on all of our souls.