April 20, 2025 • 6 mins
Discover the unexpected joy that comes from intentional simplifying. Olivia shares insights on creating space in your physical environment and how this naturally creates spaciousness in your inner life as well.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ah Caliugashock Media. Hi everyone, I'm Olivia and welcome to
today's five Minutes of Gratitude. I've been thinking a lot
lately about our relationship with stuff, how the things we
own often end up owning us in subtle ways, and
(00:22):
how creating space in our physical environments can create spaciousness
in our inner lives as well. Last month, I had
an experience that really shifted my perspective. My kitchen sink
clogged badly and water backed up into the cabinets underneath.
I had to quickly empty everything out onto my kitchen floor.
As I looked at the pile dozens of rarely used gadgets,
(00:46):
mismatched storage containers, specialty ingredients purchased for recipes I never made,
I felt a strange mix of embarrassment and liberation. How
much of this stuff was actually enhancing my life. That
unexpected kitchen clear out became a catalyst for a gentler,
more intentional approach to my possessions. Not extreme minimalism or
(01:09):
getting rid of everything, but thoughtfully considering what actually adds
value to my daily experience. The process has been surprisingly emotional,
but also deeply freeing. I've noticed that living with less
isn't really about deprivation. It's about making room for what
matters most. Every item we own requires something from us space, maintenance,
(01:33):
mental energy, decisions. When I started viewing my belongings through
this lens, it became easier to distinguish between things that
genuinely serve me and those that create subtle burdens. My
friend Marco shared something that stuck with me. He said,
everything I own falls into one of three categories. Things
(01:53):
that are useful, things that are beautiful, and things that
carry meaningful memories. That's simple framework has helped me evaluate
what deserves space in my home and life. The process
of simplifying has revealed something unexpected. How often I used
shopping as a way to meet non material needs boredom, loneliness, stress,
(02:15):
the desire for novelty or excitement. I'd frequently try to
address these feelings by acquiring something new. Recognizing these patterns
has helped me find more direct ways to meet these
emotional needs. What's been most surprising is how simplifying my
physical space has cleared mental space too. I find I
can think more clearly, focus more easily, and feel more
(02:38):
creative when I'm not surrounded by visual clutter and excess options.
It's like my brain doesn't have to work as hard
to filter out irrelevant information. There's also a special quality
to the things we choose to keep when we're being intentional.
I find I appreciate and enjoy my belongings more when
there are fewer of them. That favorite mug gets used daily,
(03:00):
instead of being lost in a crowded cabinet, the art
I love stands out on walls that aren't overcrowded. These
chosen items bring genuine pleasure rather than just occupying space.
(03:21):
One approach that's been helpful in this journey is what
some people call the enough point, that sweet spot where
you have what you need for comfort and function, but
not so much that your possessions become burdensome. Finding that
balance is deeply personal and different for everyone, but there's
a sense of rightness when you discover it for yourself.
I've learned that simplifying works best as an ongoing practice
(03:44):
rather than a one time event. Our needs and circumstances
change over time. What served me well a few years
ago might not be relevant now. Staying attuned to these
shifts and adjusting accordingly keeps my space aligned with my
current life life, rather than anchored to pass versions of myself.
Something I've found helpful is the practice of conscious acquisition,
(04:08):
becoming more intentional about what I bring into my space.
Before purchasing something new, I try to pause and consider
questions like do I already have something that serves this purpose?
Where exactly will this live in my home? Will this
require maintenance or create new responsibilities? These simple questions have
(04:29):
dramatically reduced what comes through my door. The digital realm
needs this attention too. My virtual spaces had become just
as cluttered as my physical ones, thousands of unorganized photos,
endless bookmarked articles I'd never read, apps I rarely used.
Bringing the same intentionality to my digital life, deleting, unsubscribing,
(04:53):
organizing has created a sense of clarity that extends beyond
my screens. Living more simply has unexpected environmental and social
benefits too. When I buy less, I waste less. When
I value what I already have, I contribute less to
the cycle of production and disposal that strains our planet.
(05:15):
There's a quiet satisfaction in knowing my personal choices align
with my broader values about consumption and sustainability. I've discovered
that many of life's most meaningful experiences require very little
in the way of material goods. Deep conversations, time and nature,
creative expression, rest, movement, learning, connection. These richest aspects of
(05:40):
being human often need minimal equipment or possessions. Simplifying has
helped me prioritize these experiences over accumulating more stuff. The
journey toward enough isn't about achieving some perfect, instagram worthy
minimalist esthetic. It's about creating a lot where your possessions
(06:01):
support your values and priorities, rather than competing with them.
Where your space reflects who you are now and who
you're becoming, not just an accumulation of past choices and identities.
Today's affirmation is I create space for what truly matters.
Take a breath and feel that intention. The process of
(06:24):
simplifying isn't just about getting rid of things. It's about
making conscious choices that align your outer environment with your
inner values. Thank you for exploring these thoughts on living
with less today. Until next time, may you discover the
freedom that comes from enough. This is Olivia signing off
(06:46):
from five Minutes of Gratitude.
Ah Caliugashock Media. Hi everyone, I'm Olivia and welcome to
today's five Minutes of Gratitude. I've been thinking a lot
lately about our relationship with stuff, how the things we
own often end up owning us in subtle ways, and
(00:22):
how creating space in our physical environments can create spaciousness
in our inner lives as well. Last month, I had
an experience that really shifted my perspective. My kitchen sink
clogged badly and water backed up into the cabinets underneath.
I had to quickly empty everything out onto my kitchen floor.
As I looked at the pile dozens of rarely used gadgets,
(00:46):
mismatched storage containers, specialty ingredients purchased for recipes I never made,
I felt a strange mix of embarrassment and liberation. How
much of this stuff was actually enhancing my life. That
unexpected kitchen clear out became a catalyst for a gentler,
more intentional approach to my possessions. Not extreme minimalism or
(01:09):
getting rid of everything, but thoughtfully considering what actually adds
value to my daily experience. The process has been surprisingly emotional,
but also deeply freeing. I've noticed that living with less
isn't really about deprivation. It's about making room for what
matters most. Every item we own requires something from us space, maintenance,
(01:33):
mental energy, decisions. When I started viewing my belongings through
this lens, it became easier to distinguish between things that
genuinely serve me and those that create subtle burdens. My
friend Marco shared something that stuck with me. He said,
everything I own falls into one of three categories. Things
(01:53):
that are useful, things that are beautiful, and things that
carry meaningful memories. That's simple framework has helped me evaluate
what deserves space in my home and life. The process
of simplifying has revealed something unexpected. How often I used
shopping as a way to meet non material needs boredom, loneliness, stress,
(02:15):
the desire for novelty or excitement. I'd frequently try to
address these feelings by acquiring something new. Recognizing these patterns
has helped me find more direct ways to meet these
emotional needs. What's been most surprising is how simplifying my
physical space has cleared mental space too. I find I
can think more clearly, focus more easily, and feel more
(02:38):
creative when I'm not surrounded by visual clutter and excess options.
It's like my brain doesn't have to work as hard
to filter out irrelevant information. There's also a special quality
to the things we choose to keep when we're being intentional.
I find I appreciate and enjoy my belongings more when
there are fewer of them. That favorite mug gets used daily,
(03:00):
instead of being lost in a crowded cabinet, the art
I love stands out on walls that aren't overcrowded. These
chosen items bring genuine pleasure rather than just occupying space.
(03:21):
One approach that's been helpful in this journey is what
some people call the enough point, that sweet spot where
you have what you need for comfort and function, but
not so much that your possessions become burdensome. Finding that
balance is deeply personal and different for everyone, but there's
a sense of rightness when you discover it for yourself.
I've learned that simplifying works best as an ongoing practice
(03:44):
rather than a one time event. Our needs and circumstances
change over time. What served me well a few years
ago might not be relevant now. Staying attuned to these
shifts and adjusting accordingly keeps my space aligned with my
current life life, rather than anchored to pass versions of myself.
Something I've found helpful is the practice of conscious acquisition,
(04:08):
becoming more intentional about what I bring into my space.
Before purchasing something new, I try to pause and consider
questions like do I already have something that serves this purpose?
Where exactly will this live in my home? Will this
require maintenance or create new responsibilities? These simple questions have
(04:29):
dramatically reduced what comes through my door. The digital realm
needs this attention too. My virtual spaces had become just
as cluttered as my physical ones, thousands of unorganized photos,
endless bookmarked articles I'd never read, apps I rarely used.
Bringing the same intentionality to my digital life, deleting, unsubscribing,
(04:53):
organizing has created a sense of clarity that extends beyond
my screens. Living more simply has unexpected environmental and social
benefits too. When I buy less, I waste less. When
I value what I already have, I contribute less to
the cycle of production and disposal that strains our planet.
(05:15):
There's a quiet satisfaction in knowing my personal choices align
with my broader values about consumption and sustainability. I've discovered
that many of life's most meaningful experiences require very little
in the way of material goods. Deep conversations, time and nature,
creative expression, rest, movement, learning, connection. These richest aspects of
(05:40):
being human often need minimal equipment or possessions. Simplifying has
helped me prioritize these experiences over accumulating more stuff. The
journey toward enough isn't about achieving some perfect, instagram worthy
minimalist esthetic. It's about creating a lot where your possessions
(06:01):
support your values and priorities, rather than competing with them.
Where your space reflects who you are now and who
you're becoming, not just an accumulation of past choices and identities.
Today's affirmation is I create space for what truly matters.
Take a breath and feel that intention. The process of
(06:24):
simplifying isn't just about getting rid of things. It's about
making conscious choices that align your outer environment with your
inner values. Thank you for exploring these thoughts on living
with less today. Until next time, may you discover the
freedom that comes from enough. This is Olivia signing off
(06:46):
from five Minutes of Gratitude.
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