How You Can Let Go of What No Longer Serves You This Spring

Explore the art of meaningful release as spring invites natural clearing. Olivia shares insights on how letting go of physical items, outdated beliefs, and completed relationships creates space for new growth and possibilities.

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Ah Caliugashock Media. Hi everyone, I'm Olivia and welcome to
today's Five Minutes of Gratitude. With spring now fully underway,
I've been thinking about the natural releasing and clearing that

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happens in this season. Just as nature sheds what's no
longer needed to make room for new growth, we too
can practice letting go of what no longer serves us,
whether physical clutter, outdated beliefs, or relationships that have run
their course. Last weekend, I was doing some spring cleaning
when I came across a box of mementos from a

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job I had several years ago. As I sorted through
the items, I realized I was still carrying the weight
of some disappointments from that time. There were projects that
didn't succeed, relationships that ended awkwardly, opportunities I missed. Holding
these old papers and photos, I saw I had a
choice to keep carrying these stories or to thank them

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for their lessons and release them. Letting go is rarely
a one time event. It's more like a practice, something
we return to again and again. The interesting thing I've
found is that we often need to acknowledge and honor
something fully before we can truly release it. Rushing to
just get over it rarely works, as well as taking

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time to recognize the role something played in our lives
before saying goodbye. Physical clearing often creates space for emotional
clearing too. When I started going through my closet last month,
I found myself facing all kinds of feelings attached to
various items. The dress from an event where I felt awkward,
the gifts from a relationship that ended, the professional clothes

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from a career phase I've outgrown. Each item offered an
opportunity to process and release not just the object, but
the emotions and stories connected to it. The world offers
beautiful models for letting go. Trees don't cling to their
old leaves. They release them when the time is right,
creating space for new growth. Watching this cycle year after

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year reminds me that letting go isn't about loss. It's
about making way for what wants to emerge next. There's
wisdom in this natural rhythm that we can apply to
our own lives. I've found that gratitude makes letting go
much easier. When I can genuinely thank a possession, a relationship,

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or even a belief for what it gave me during
the time it was needed. Releasing it becomes an act
of appreciation rather than rejection. This subtle shift completely changes
how letting go feels, from loss to completion, from ending
to graduation. My friend Elena shared something that transformed her
approach to letting go. She asks herself, would I want

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to begin this relationship job commitment today knowing what I
know now? If the answer is no, it helps her
recognize when something has served its purpose. This question cuts
through the inertia that often keeps us holding onto things
long after they've stopped adding value to our lives. We
often think of letting go as a big, dramatic moment,

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but I've found it's usually a series of small releases.
The decision to not check a former colleague social media anymore,
deleting old text threads that bring up difficult memories, declining
invitations to events that no longer align with your values.
These small choices, made day by day gradually create space
for what truly matters now. One of the most powerful

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forms of letting go involves releasing our grip on old
stories about ourselves. Maybe you've always thought of yourself as
not creative or bad with money, or someone who never
finishes things. Spring is a perfect time to ask whether
these old narratives still serve you, or whether there might
be new stories waiting to unfold if you make space

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for them. Something I've noticed is how often we hold
onto things out of fear. Fear that we might need
them someday, fear of who we'd be without them, fear
of regret. When I find myself resistant to letting something go,
I try to gently identify the fear beneath the resistance.
Just naming the fear often loosens its hold. Digital clearing

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can be as refreshing as physical clearing. Last week I
spent an hour unsubscribing from email lists that no longer
interest me, on following accounts that don't inspire me, and
deleting apps I haven't used in months. The sense of
spaciousness that created in my digital life was remarkable, like
clearing a path through overgrown brambles. Sometimes letting go isn't

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about eliminating something entirely, but about transforming our relationship with it.
My neighbor had a difficult relationship with her mother for
many years. She hasn't cut off contact, but she has
released her expectations about how their relationship should be. This
shift has created a new kind of peace and authenticity
between them. There's an art to discerning what to release

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and what to keep. Not everything old needs to go,
just as not everything new deserves to stay. I like
to ask does this still align with who I am becoming?
Does it support the life I want to create? Does
it bring me energy or drain it? These questions help
me make choices that feel clear and aligned, rather than
impulsive or obligatory. I've discovered that letting go often happens

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in layers. You might think you've released something, only to
find another layer of attachment months or years later. This
isn't failure, It's just how the process works. Each layer
brings its own lessons and its own relief when released.
As we move deeper into spring, nature reminds us that
clearing creates conditions for new possibilities. The composted leaves of

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last fall become nourishment for this year's growth. Similarly, what
we release doesn't disappear. It transforms into experience, wisdom, and
space for what's next. There's something beautiful about participating consciously
in this cycle of release and renewal. Today's affirmation is
I release with gratitude and receive with an open heart.

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Take a breath and feel the balance in that statement.
The exhale of letting go the inhale of welcoming what's next.
Both movements are essential parts of the same cycle. Thank
you for exploring these thoughts on letting go with me
today Until next time, May you find freedom in releasing
what's complete and joy in the new space you create.

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