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Welcome today eight of microdoes Your Magic. I just want to remind us all
that things get to be easy.And I don't mean that to say that
things are not going to be hard, because we know that's not true.
But what if the things that you'refeeling and going through and experiencing have a
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sense of difficulty there that's actually notrequired. What if it gets to be
easy. What if it's supposed tobe easier. Maybe we have witnessed other
people suffering, creating difficulty, beingin the challenge of the things that you're
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going through, and so we matchthat. Maybe you're in a mirroring of
someone else's struggle in the things thatyou're doing. But what if it's not
yours. What if it's supposed tobe easier. What if it is easier.
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Maybe it's somewhere in your cells thatsix generations ago there was suffering and
pain and hardship, and so it'sjust there. We're just meeting our daily
tasks, we're just meeting our ourmundane things or the big things, or
relationships or parenthood or work decision making, whatever it is. Maybe there's just
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hardship there because it's in our body, it's in our cells somewhere it expects
it to be hard. What ifit's supposed to be easier, and that's
not to bypass the resistance and workthrough the rock and cut through the glass
and move through things with power andcertainty that you can overcome anything that's placed
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in your path. Because we knowthat there's going to be difficulties. We
know that being a human is hard. We signed up for the most challenging
task a soul can take on.We know that. But what if it
was supposed to be easier. Whatif we create the looping and the uncertainty
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and the lack of trust. Whatif it was supposed to be easier,
and maybe that sentence peels back atiny bit of hardship. What if it,
you know, peels back there's liketiniest bit of opening and surrender and
ease, And maybe that sentence opensup a lot more than that. What
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if it drops this cloak of difficulty, this cloak of hardship, and it
introduces a whole new sense of easeBecause what if it was supposed to be
easier and our body is waiting forthat permission, it's waiting to release,
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it's waiting to take the weight offits shoulders. It's waiting to take the
ever never ending windstorm in the mind. What if the body's waiting for that
permission that it's supposed to be easier. What if it's meant to be easier.
What if it is easier and I'mnot reminding us of this or bringing
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this forward to bypass Because being withdifficult emotions is so important, so important
to feel pain, so important tofeel suffering, so important to feel resistance.
But we're supposed to feel it forreally small amounts of time. We're
supposed to microdose those things. We'resupposed to feel it to heal it,
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to shift it. But the problemis is that most of us stay in
it. We just become the sufferer. We just become the pain. We
just become the weight, the stress, the overwhelm. We lose our sense
of identity in the hardship. Sowhat if it was supposed to be easier.
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What if we were meant to stepinto those emotions, the hard and
then come right back out and findthat sense of ease. So, whatever
you are experiencing right now in yourlife, whether it's something that comes forward
today or something that came forward yesterday, or something that's been forward free with
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you for quite some time. Iwant you to just give yourself permi that
it could be easier? What ifit was supposed to be easier? And
I just want you to plant thisquestion. I don't want you to force
ease. I don't want you tosay to yourself, this is supposed to
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be easier. I want you tosay to yourself, what if this could
be easier? What if this wassupposed to be easier? Question mark leaving
this openness in the body, notcoming down with judgment and shame, resistance
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and frustration, and those feelings mightcome up and they're valid too, But
what would it feel like to justcome back to that permission of ease?
Because I think we don't even realizehow much difficulty we allow ourselves to experience
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out of habit, out of witnessing, out of learning, out of it
just being something that people have experiencethat came before us. The more ease
that we give ourselves permission to feel, the more resilient we will become when
there is hardship, The more we'llbe able to face the things that bring
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us to our knees or the thingsthat need a lot of strength to move
through. We will be more resilientin those times, but we cannot be
resilient all the time. If there'sno ease, we have to experience that.
So in what ways can you giveyourself permission to be there so that
you know that you are fully,in completely preparing yourself for moments that need
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a little bit more of a resilientyou. You're not supposed to be a
warrior. You will be in yourlife and you have been. But when
you're not on the field that requiresyou to be in warrior mode, you
have to enjoy the gardens. Whatif it was supposed to be easier,
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it's allowed to be easier. Itis supposed to be easier. I love
you, see tomorrow.