August 15, 2025 • 8 mins
This episode The Doza focuses on "Distance" how its percieved by others and what it possobly means if not communicated properly. Don't always think because you don't talk/see people as much that it's always a rift or beef, life be lifeing.
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Speaker 2 (00:02):
Why.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
According to the Dos, I'm back. Sorry for the distance
and the time and shit. Life been real though, you
know what I'm saying, and that's what I wanted to
touch on on this episode.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Distance.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I hope you don't think that the fact that I
haven't been being here as consistently as I can. I
don't love this shit. I ain't trying my best to
do it. And that's what, you know, keep me going,
keep me driving like I know, I'm good. I just
gotta be consistent. And recently I've been having a lot
of conversations with people in my life and people that's
(00:39):
not so you know, present in my life as prominently
as they once were, and it's it's a crazy conversation
to have to be, like, you know what I'm saying,
to have to express that you still got loved for
motherfucker just because you.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Don't talk to them, just because we got that little
distance life.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Whether you a young nigga, yeah, you know what I'm saying,
old nigga, whatever you call yourself, You're gonna have times
in life where distance will start to show between you
and your friends, women you love, period, you know, your family,
because y'all all on different type of time, and if
I want to be an actor, I want to be
(01:20):
around motherfuckers in the business. You know what I'm saying.
I can't be around my homie that want to say,
oh crack. I can't be around my homie that want
to you know what I'm saying, run the block. I
can't be around niggas that you know, go to work
every day, like I need to be around around with
motherfuckers that can help me advance my career. And that's
just how life is period. And recently, my homie shots
(01:41):
some manic digity. He got married a few weeks ago,
and when he was doing his listens like that, I'm like, Damn,
you ain't gonna write this. You ain't gonna write that.
You ain't gonna write ohoh, And when he was like,
it's not now. I don't see them like that, Like
this shit is pensive. I'm spending this type of bread
you put I guess relationships and perspective because I told him,
(02:05):
I'm like, man, certain certain niggas he ain't you know, invite.
I'm like, damn, you know that's that's the gas. Like
you know what I'm saying. Even the phone fuck with
him you know, you're still in contact with him and
shit like that. He now, but I don't think this is,
you know, an appropriate event. You know, I want my
fuckers there. And my thinking was, like, you know, just
cause you don't talk to him fuck all the time
(02:26):
or y'all ain't necessarily still clicked up doing the same
type of shit y'all once did.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
The distance don't make us not friends no more.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I want everybody out there, Like I got a lot
of people in my life that you know, I might
not I'm just not as close with no more. And
it is not is not a thing to me, Like
I'm not the type of person that pick up the
phone when I think about you. I might text you
some random shit, might sing you a TikTok or Instagram
reel that I you know, I thought I was funny,
let you know, reference I was thinking about you or whatever.
I'm not the type to be like, oh yeah, let
(02:57):
me see how I'm fun And maybe that's wrong. I
try sometimes to be better with it, but I struggle
so much for my own personal shit, keeping myself sane
and trying to balance me and coming better and like
that where I'm dealing with the star player so you
know that kind of be hands on. And I'm also
trying to fan shit that, you know what I'm saying,
(03:17):
fan my way in life and things that interest me
and maturing finding you know, just maturing and finding new
things that I like to do and involved in it.
And you learn in life you can't always involve everybody
and everything. When you tell people about it, then they
be like, man, maybe woo woo. But if I'm interested
in doing it, I'm not waiting on motherfuckers to catch up,
you know what I'm saying. I'm also one of the
(03:37):
type of people where I like, I ain't gon from
my she like I don't like to recreationally smoke, you
know what I'm saying, do some mushrooms and drink a
little drink. But if that's my only reference point in
kicking it, I could do that shit by myself.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
I do do it about myself.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I don't want to kick it, and that's the basis
of our kicking it, just because I don't want to
do that. No more, don't mean we not you know
what I'm saying. Friends, don't mean I don't got love
for you. I used to love the hoop. It's still motherfuckers.
I know that get up. You know, every couple of
weekends or every weekend they do a little random shit.
I'm not that type. I don't fancy still want to
(04:11):
do that shit so much. I got two k I
don't fancy want to get on the vich and play
with my homies.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
No more.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Like it's certain shit you just you know, But the
distance between that don't dictate.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know what I'm saying. I love for you, my
friendship for you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
When when we fellowship again, whether it be six months,
six year, or six decades from now, I hope that
it's still all love. I hope that we can catch
up and talk about the times that you know what
I'm saying, because I don't feel like we not for
We are just not as closed. And it's fucked up
that people walk around believing that it's a y'all got
issues because y'all don't talk. We live in life, like
(04:46):
you know what I'm saying. I don't be mad at nobody,
Like I don't give a fuck if we don't talk,
because I still get that love for you. I hope
you still got that love for me. I don't know
what's going on in your life? You know what I'm saying.
Sometimes I am the bigger person. I'm able to reach
out and be like, damn, you know what I'm saying.
Even if you ain't comfortable enough to feel me and
all the small parties, you know, you my people, I
can feel what you're going through. You know what I'm saying.
You ain't got to be so specific. We ain't that close,
(05:08):
you know what I'm saying. Maybe you don't want your
being in the spread and shit like that. You don't
want to tell them. That's cool too, But just know
it's all love. And I think for everybody out there,
if you ever hit this message, don't always assume people
distancing themselves from you or you distancing yourself from people.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
It needs to be a little riff there. Sometimes it's
just the natural progression of.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Do y'all understand Lake Michigan's comes towards the city, so
they doing everything they can do to stop the erosion.
But it's the natural course of water to take over things.
And that's just how you know. I say that to say,
that's just how relationships work and relatives to certain things.
You know what I'm saying, You grow. You know what
(05:52):
I'm saying, You grow, someone else gotta die for you
to you know what I'm saying, someone else gotta for
you to adapt to a new environment.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You might have went for higher education, got different friends now,
Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
We might only click it on your birthday.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know what I'm saying, It might only be a
little Facebook message back and forth some shit like that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Distance don't change the love.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Just because we don't talk as much as we used to,
Just because we don't touch down and you know what
I'm saying, play the game. Just because we don't link
up and go have a drink, don't mean I don't
got a love. You mean, like we need to find
some time to you know what I'm saying, get it,
get get back up. You know what I'm saying. Even
with women and shit like that, Like sometimes it be
a much it's a traumatic relationship, Like y'all ass trauma
(06:33):
bond or is.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
This is me speaking personally?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Sometimes you know, y'all done went through so much shit together,
but it's just not fun to even remember this, you
know what I'm saying, Like, unless I know you in
a cool space because I you know, if it's gonna
always be Oh man, you fuck me over.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
It's just a fucked up you don't give a fuck
about me. All love you so much like I'm cool
on that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But every now and again, if you feel like a
motherfucking made you feel so special, so good, and you
hit me yup, we had them conversations even if you
don't coming to nothing sexual and don't company even actually
seeing you feel good to you know what I'm saying,
a lot of motherfuckers smell like flowers. Life shortest hell.
And I say all that to say, like, man, it
been a second since I've been here, I've been hospitalized,
(07:15):
I've been motherfucking had to take off work, all type
of shit.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
But in that the one thing that it like.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
That I learned that shine through what all that shit is,
no matter what the medication is, no matter what the
diagnosis is, no matter what it is you're going through
and shit like that like time and life short as fuck,
and you gotta spend that shit showing a lot of motherfuckers.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Who who love you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You want to spend that shit around motherfuckers who enjoy
your company. And you know, gon, you know you're gonna
miss you and you're gonna miss them. You know what
I'm saying, some where to happen just spontaneously, and life
just it worked that way. So just because we don't
always get the chance to, you know what I'm saying,
shut up moments, no more. Just because he ain't heard
my voice, I ain't you know what I'm saying, when
(08:00):
out my way to say happy birthday, or I don't
watch your story and some shit like that, Like it
don't mean we got an issue. It don't mean that
I don't fuck with, which just means doing some other shit.
Do not always take distance.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Just be man. I think I rock that man.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
So if you're enjoying this, man, whether you're watching the
six year, six seconds, six millenniums from the time we've
done this, man, thank you. I appreciate that shit.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
We getting back on track, hopefully, no more health scares,
no more shit that knocks ups out.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Man. We're gonna keep working, keep it. Thank you, That's
all I want to say. Thank you.
Why.
Speaker 1 (00:04):
According to the Dos, I'm back. Sorry for the distance
and the time and shit. Life been real though, you
know what I'm saying, and that's what I wanted to
touch on on this episode.
Speaker 2 (00:14):
Distance.
Speaker 1 (00:16):
I hope you don't think that the fact that I
haven't been being here as consistently as I can. I
don't love this shit. I ain't trying my best to
do it. And that's what, you know, keep me going,
keep me driving like I know, I'm good. I just
gotta be consistent. And recently I've been having a lot
of conversations with people in my life and people that's
(00:39):
not so you know, present in my life as prominently
as they once were, and it's it's a crazy conversation
to have to be, like, you know what I'm saying,
to have to express that you still got loved for
motherfucker just because you.
Speaker 2 (00:55):
Don't talk to them, just because we got that little
distance life.
Speaker 1 (01:00):
Whether you a young nigga, yeah, you know what I'm saying,
old nigga, whatever you call yourself, You're gonna have times
in life where distance will start to show between you
and your friends, women you love, period, you know, your family,
because y'all all on different type of time, and if
I want to be an actor, I want to be
(01:20):
around motherfuckers in the business. You know what I'm saying.
I can't be around my homie that want to say,
oh crack. I can't be around my homie that want
to you know what I'm saying, run the block. I
can't be around niggas that you know, go to work
every day, like I need to be around around with
motherfuckers that can help me advance my career. And that's
just how life is period. And recently, my homie shots
(01:41):
some manic digity. He got married a few weeks ago,
and when he was doing his listens like that, I'm like, Damn,
you ain't gonna write this. You ain't gonna write that.
You ain't gonna write ohoh, And when he was like,
it's not now. I don't see them like that, Like
this shit is pensive. I'm spending this type of bread
you put I guess relationships and perspective because I told him,
(02:05):
I'm like, man, certain certain niggas he ain't you know, invite.
I'm like, damn, you know that's that's the gas. Like
you know what I'm saying. Even the phone fuck with
him you know, you're still in contact with him and
shit like that. He now, but I don't think this is,
you know, an appropriate event. You know, I want my
fuckers there. And my thinking was, like, you know, just
cause you don't talk to him fuck all the time
(02:26):
or y'all ain't necessarily still clicked up doing the same
type of shit y'all once did.
Speaker 2 (02:33):
The distance don't make us not friends no more.
Speaker 1 (02:35):
I want everybody out there, Like I got a lot
of people in my life that you know, I might
not I'm just not as close with no more. And
it is not is not a thing to me, Like
I'm not the type of person that pick up the
phone when I think about you. I might text you
some random shit, might sing you a TikTok or Instagram
reel that I you know, I thought I was funny,
let you know, reference I was thinking about you or whatever.
I'm not the type to be like, oh yeah, let
(02:57):
me see how I'm fun And maybe that's wrong. I
try sometimes to be better with it, but I struggle
so much for my own personal shit, keeping myself sane
and trying to balance me and coming better and like
that where I'm dealing with the star player so you
know that kind of be hands on. And I'm also
trying to fan shit that, you know what I'm saying,
(03:17):
fan my way in life and things that interest me
and maturing finding you know, just maturing and finding new
things that I like to do and involved in it.
And you learn in life you can't always involve everybody
and everything. When you tell people about it, then they
be like, man, maybe woo woo. But if I'm interested
in doing it, I'm not waiting on motherfuckers to catch up,
you know what I'm saying. I'm also one of the
(03:37):
type of people where I like, I ain't gon from
my she like I don't like to recreationally smoke, you
know what I'm saying, do some mushrooms and drink a
little drink. But if that's my only reference point in
kicking it, I could do that shit by myself.
Speaker 2 (03:49):
I do do it about myself.
Speaker 1 (03:50):
I don't want to kick it, and that's the basis
of our kicking it, just because I don't want to
do that. No more, don't mean we not you know
what I'm saying. Friends, don't mean I don't got love
for you. I used to love the hoop. It's still motherfuckers.
I know that get up. You know, every couple of
weekends or every weekend they do a little random shit.
I'm not that type. I don't fancy still want to
(04:11):
do that shit so much. I got two k I
don't fancy want to get on the vich and play
with my homies.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
No more.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
Like it's certain shit you just you know, But the
distance between that don't dictate.
Speaker 2 (04:21):
You know what I'm saying. I love for you, my
friendship for you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (04:25):
When when we fellowship again, whether it be six months,
six year, or six decades from now, I hope that
it's still all love. I hope that we can catch
up and talk about the times that you know what
I'm saying, because I don't feel like we not for
We are just not as closed. And it's fucked up
that people walk around believing that it's a y'all got
issues because y'all don't talk. We live in life, like
(04:46):
you know what I'm saying. I don't be mad at nobody,
Like I don't give a fuck if we don't talk,
because I still get that love for you. I hope
you still got that love for me. I don't know
what's going on in your life? You know what I'm saying.
Sometimes I am the bigger person. I'm able to reach
out and be like, damn, you know what I'm saying.
Even if you ain't comfortable enough to feel me and
all the small parties, you know, you my people, I
can feel what you're going through. You know what I'm saying.
You ain't got to be so specific. We ain't that close,
(05:08):
you know what I'm saying. Maybe you don't want your
being in the spread and shit like that. You don't
want to tell them. That's cool too, But just know
it's all love. And I think for everybody out there,
if you ever hit this message, don't always assume people
distancing themselves from you or you distancing yourself from people.
Speaker 2 (05:25):
It needs to be a little riff there. Sometimes it's
just the natural progression of.
Speaker 1 (05:30):
Do y'all understand Lake Michigan's comes towards the city, so
they doing everything they can do to stop the erosion.
But it's the natural course of water to take over things.
And that's just how you know. I say that to say,
that's just how relationships work and relatives to certain things.
You know what I'm saying, You grow. You know what
(05:52):
I'm saying, You grow, someone else gotta die for you
to you know what I'm saying, someone else gotta for
you to adapt to a new environment.
Speaker 2 (05:58):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (05:59):
You might have went for higher education, got different friends now,
Like you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (06:03):
We might only click it on your birthday.
Speaker 1 (06:04):
You know what I'm saying, It might only be a
little Facebook message back and forth some shit like that.
Speaker 2 (06:09):
Distance don't change the love.
Speaker 1 (06:11):
Just because we don't talk as much as we used to,
Just because we don't touch down and you know what
I'm saying, play the game. Just because we don't link
up and go have a drink, don't mean I don't
got a love. You mean, like we need to find
some time to you know what I'm saying, get it,
get get back up. You know what I'm saying. Even
with women and shit like that, Like sometimes it be
a much it's a traumatic relationship, Like y'all ass trauma
(06:33):
bond or is.
Speaker 2 (06:36):
This is me speaking personally?
Speaker 1 (06:37):
Sometimes you know, y'all done went through so much shit together,
but it's just not fun to even remember this, you
know what I'm saying, Like, unless I know you in
a cool space because I you know, if it's gonna
always be Oh man, you fuck me over.
Speaker 2 (06:49):
It's just a fucked up you don't give a fuck
about me. All love you so much like I'm cool
on that, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (06:55):
But every now and again, if you feel like a
motherfucking made you feel so special, so good, and you
hit me yup, we had them conversations even if you
don't coming to nothing sexual and don't company even actually
seeing you feel good to you know what I'm saying,
a lot of motherfuckers smell like flowers. Life shortest hell.
And I say all that to say, like, man, it
been a second since I've been here, I've been hospitalized,
(07:15):
I've been motherfucking had to take off work, all type
of shit.
Speaker 2 (07:20):
But in that the one thing that it like.
Speaker 1 (07:23):
That I learned that shine through what all that shit is,
no matter what the medication is, no matter what the
diagnosis is, no matter what it is you're going through
and shit like that like time and life short as fuck,
and you gotta spend that shit showing a lot of motherfuckers.
Speaker 2 (07:38):
Who who love you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1 (07:39):
You want to spend that shit around motherfuckers who enjoy
your company. And you know, gon, you know you're gonna
miss you and you're gonna miss them. You know what
I'm saying, some where to happen just spontaneously, and life
just it worked that way. So just because we don't
always get the chance to, you know what I'm saying,
shut up moments, no more. Just because he ain't heard
my voice, I ain't you know what I'm saying, when
(08:00):
out my way to say happy birthday, or I don't
watch your story and some shit like that, Like it
don't mean we got an issue. It don't mean that
I don't fuck with, which just means doing some other shit.
Do not always take distance.
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Just be man. I think I rock that man.
Speaker 1 (08:22):
So if you're enjoying this, man, whether you're watching the
six year, six seconds, six millenniums from the time we've
done this, man, thank you. I appreciate that shit.
Speaker 2 (08:30):
Man.
Speaker 1 (08:31):
We getting back on track, hopefully, no more health scares,
no more shit that knocks ups out.
Speaker 2 (08:36):
Man. We're gonna keep working, keep it. Thank you, That's
all I want to say. Thank you.
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